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Posted by marshall921569 on 2012-05-22 10:58:03

need help with wifes hosp bill u see she has congestive heart failure her hosp stay came out to over$6,000 dollars we can not afford to pay that usee im disabled my social security check is not enough all of it goes towards paying utility bills all i have left is $75.00 or $100.00 dollars and thats for gas so u see times are very hard for people who dont have health insurance and who are barely making it so u see we need help we would appreciate it very much one dollar or 2 dollars would help us

medical finiancial assistance 4 wife

Posted by marshall921569 on 2012-05-22 09:58:52

i need assistance with wifes hospital bill u see she has congestive heart failure and diabetes in april she suffered from minor heart failure had to be hospitalize for 4 days the bill came out to over $6,000 dollars and thats not including the drs bill i am disabled but my check is not that much all of it goes towards paying utility bills what i have left is sometimes 75.00 or 100.00 for gas and u know gas is expense to so u see i need assistance at least $1.00 dollar or $2.00 dollars will help plaese thank u

HELP US PLEASE - HOME IN DANGER OF REPOSSESSION

Posted by FallenFromGrace on 2012-05-15 05:58:23

Dear Sir or Madam,

We are an average family who have fallen upon very hard times. My wife was let go from her work about 18 months ago with no severance pay and has been unable to find any payable employment since... she has been volunteering at the local school as a classroom assistant but really could do with finding some new work soon.

As you can imagine with my wifes income lost to us things have been tight for a while now so it was an awful second blow when my employers went into administration and the factory was finally closed with all employees laid off, again with no severance pay just over 6 months ago now by the Administrators... we had been hopeful of a buyout but it didn't happen and the whole lot of us were placed onto the scrapheap. As it was we had no payrise for the previous four years...

Things are now hitting crisis point for me and my family, I have only been able to find 4 weeks of paying work in the last six months... we have sold the family car to try and keep my daughter in college and have the house up for sale in the hope we can pay off the capital and start renting but if we don't make this next mortgage payment the bank are going to start foreclosure on us... as for my slightly younger son and his college future that is currently looking very unlikely...

The family pets (2 Cats and 1 Staffie Dog) are as much a part of this family as any of us yet we are now with great reluctance and heartfelt pain considering having to give them up to a the local rescue centre... I think I will cry a thousand tears if I have to let them go but I need to be pratical and focus on my wife and children and putting them first... For I will cry a million tears if I let them down any further than I already have...

Any HELP you can give us will be most gratefully received and a prayer of thanks will be said for every penny.

God Bless you and God Bless America.

Many thanks for reading this.

Charlie x

help me get my license back & a car

Posted by vern on 2012-05-01 11:58:56

i need help getting a car mine and my wifes car broke down and we had to get rid of it we cant afford to get a new one i also need help getting my license back it will cost about 7,000 to get it back because it has gone to collections its all traffic violations no DWI'S or DUI'S and it will help us get a car from craigslist can anyone help we are on SSI living from check to check
thanks Vern :):):)

My Kids

Posted by newbliss on 2012-04-30 15:58:41

am 38 years old and have been separated from my wife Mary for the past 16 months. I have two children whom I have not been able to see without being supervised for the entire time we have been separated. I was diagnosed with type 1 Diabetes 11 years ago. My wife claims that I am not a fit parent because of my disease and that being with me puts my children in danger. I have been fighting this in court the entire separation, but I have the unfortunate disadvantage of going up against a family that has much more money and much more power than I. My wifes' parents are very influential and wealthy in the Irish Community and in the South Side costruction business.



I came to the United States 16 years ago from Ireland, where my six brothers and sister and my parents still reside so I do not have a lot of support here in the United States. I am going public with my story now because I am losing out on precious time with my children and there does not seem to be an end in sight. If I had the money or legal help to fight this battle, I believe that I would have won back the right to spend time with my children long ago. I am being treated like a criminal because of my disease. I am not attempting to gain sole custody, I am only looking for joint custody with the right to be able to spend time with my children without the direct supervision of my soon to be ex-wife.

Please Help

We are in desperate need of some money

Posted by uniden on 2012-04-27 12:58:42

Hi, we are a working couple who are living from paycheck to paycheck trying to keep up to our bills. We are also trying to build a house for the wifes parents who live in a third world country. They live in a old house that has a leaky roof, is infested with termites, and has rats and mice. The wifes two sisters and grandmother also live in this house, and we desperatley need about $25000.00 to build a half decent house for them to live in. Any donations would greatly be appreciated, Thanks

Need Help with Rent or Rent Deposit

Posted by FlickFam on 2012-03-22 13:58:54

Hi. My family really needs help. We are a family of 5 living in San Ramon, CA.

In January of 2011 both my wife and I lost our jobs. We have been working to make ends meet ever since. Last year was the beginning of our misfortune. After losing our jobs we spend months looking. Then in June we were evicted from the home we lived in for 3 years -- financial problems. We moved into a hotel where we lived for a month looking a new place to live. Living in a small room with a 17, 13, and 2 year old was tough.

In additon to living in the hotel my wife and I found out we were pregnant. However, the pregnancy turned out to be ectopic. No insurance and an ectopic pregnancy to get through. It wiped out our savings.

We finally found a place at the end of July. We used the last of our money to get rent the place. My wife started working towards the end of August. She didn't make enough to support us, but she was working. Now, I just needed to find a job.

After a few months of looking I decided to start my own business. It is tough, but it also has potential. I have a limited marketing budget so growth is small.

Next up, my wife got pneumonia and was out of work for nearly a month. This killed us. we fell behind on rent and cannot catch up. We havent paid rent since January. We owe rent for February and March. Total -- $6100. And we have April coming up. We would love to stay in our home but it looks impossible. I understand the owners dilemma and am happy we got to stay this long.

We are looking for some catch up. Anything would help, anything at all.

We have tried various community agencies, but my wife makes a too much (the standards are set very low) or since we live in San Ramon agencies do not serve that area.

We thought about moving, but with 2 out of 3 kids in school it would be extremely difficult to uproot them.

We got our 3 day eviction notice today. We need to be out of our home by Monday at noon unless we can pay rent. If we cant we need to find a new place to live.

My family is falling apart. My friends dont have the resources to help (well I did have one friend pay Decembers rent for us but he cannot help anymore until he builds back some savings). My parents and my wifes parents are not able to help (fixed incomes and no savings).

Hopefully this can help.

Thank you. And if you need help too, good luck -- tomorrow will be better.

will some one please help me

Posted by jono on 2012-03-05 02:58:34

hi,
this is the hardest thing i have had to do ever.and i dont exactly now how to tell you.
i am a 56 year old ex military police man,i am disabled with a spine contition.
i dont have any money after my ex wife 5 years ago made me bankrupt,
now i have a beautiful thai wife and we have been married for 4 years, we are very much in love and she live in thailand.
last year we found out that she has a very bad contition that could kill her, and she is only 32 i dont want to say what it is on here, but i will tell any one about it that can help me,
in thailand there is no state funding, so if you get ill and you are poor, you die, and thats a fact.
she needs regular treatment and medication to keep her alive, both me and my wifes family are poor and money is somthing we dont have a lot of.
i can only go out and see her twice a year i dont have the money to pay for the ticket i have to send every spare penny i get to her, i live alone and only allow my self £15 per week to live on. please please. is there any kind hearted sole out there that can donate some money to help us, im not going to ask for an amount, thats not nice, any amount will help no matter how much. i am prepeard to come and work for it,
i hope that god will be kind to me and find some one to help before its to late.
i thank you in advance.
god be with you all
kind regards

Graves Disease and Thyroid Cancer

Posted by kayhere on 2012-02-23 09:58:01

I need to rasie some money for my medical bills. I am 40 years old and a single mother of 3 children. I have had my share of medical problems from Stroke to depression but last year was the icing on the cake. I had went to my cousins' house and was helping him with arrangements for his wifes funeral (breast cancer) when I couldn't sleep. And when I say I couldn't sleep it was 4 days before I could fall asleep. I thought that it was just stress and noticed my shorts falling off. So I weighted myself and was in shock. Before the trip I weighted 248lbs but the scale said 219lbs. I couldn't figure what was going on because I had been eating more than ever. So I left my cousin and came home and went to my doctor. He wanted to run some test, he felt a lump in my throat. The Ultrasound showed some nodules and needed to have a biopsy. During the biopsy the doctor mentioned the spots to be calcified which meant noting to worry about. I was so happy. Then the next day my doctor called me at home and said we need to talk. I told him I know it's nothing since it was calcified and he said no that it is cancer. That a rare number of people will have this type of cancer. So I am unlucky. How can I be that 1 person in a million. Why couldn't I have hit the lottery. I am unable to work due to the dizzyspells and the fainting I have from this. I also have the shakes so bad that I look as if I will spill everything I touch. I had welfare insurance which covers the treatments but I am required to work for the system to keep the insurance and my doctor and my body will not allow this. I have worked all my life in the medical field until I became ill. I have applied for SSD and had to appeal the out come because this type of cancer is not covered by there means. So I am now stuck. I need surgury but have no means to pay. My doctor is willing to allow me to make payments while I get treatment but still need to upfront a part of the cost before they can do anything. So please help me.

wifes medical bills

Posted by rbrad on 2012-02-16 09:58:48

i am looking for anyone to help me with my wifes medical bills i have no living family to help me and i have exhausted every option and can find no help my wife has alot of medical issues and just really had a bad yr last year and ran up a lg hospital and dr bills and we are both disabled and only have medicare ins i just dont know what else to do if anyone can help then god bless you for your kindness

please help

Posted by kenny33 on 2012-02-02 12:58:00

i am a hard working husband and a dad i have worked all my life i have been marred for 7 years my wife cant work because of her health we have never been on a honeymoon because i could never make a nuff money to save and now i am out of work i had to go out of town to try and make money i have been gone for 4 mounts i just got back because my wifes mom past away and i lost my mom a year ago i am having to go back out of town in 2 weeks and our rent is do i o the banks money it is killing me in Sid i am all was depressed because of it so if there is any one that can help me pless pless if i have to i will pay it back it might take a wail thanks to any one that can help me

Good man with family, down and out.....

Posted by oldkodger on 2012-01-26 13:58:36

Hello,

I have a real good family in real need.Still staying positive but have hit rock bottom. I dont drink or do drugs.

I have lost alot in the past few years. Laid off from my sales job, I then lost my truck then my home. We found other houses and barely paid rent for a few years. I worked with my dad remodeling houses. Then we lost my brother in 2009.
Motorcycle accident, he was 24.

In August of 2010 I witnessed my father have a fatal heart attack. This hit me hard and caused complications with everyday simple tasks. I continued doing our remodeling jobs for a while. My mom had nervous break down and got deeper into drugs.

I have my wife and kids that I am very thankful for.
Recently we could not pay rent and have moved in with my wifes parents and it is awful.
I know I can and will rise out of this.
Just not sure when. Any hell will be greatly appreciated.

Thanks for reading.

Help with rent

Posted by brel_12 on 2012-01-24 13:58:38

Mine is a long story, so I am going to try to keep it on the short side.

When my wife and I got married she had twin daughters, both with severe handicaps. After we were married for about 5 years Ashley passed away. We were living about 7 hours from where my wife was from and she wanted her final resting place to be near her "home". We moved here to be closer to my wifes family and nearer to Ashley. Shortly after we moved here, I was taken out of work for health reasons. Then Courtney passed away. After paying for 2 funerals in a short time and not working, hard times hit us hard. I got a job against my doctors wishes. My wife got a job for a short time until she was diagnosed with degenerative disc disease, now she can't work. So for the past year we have some how been getting by with my income (barely over minimum wage).

So now with some unexpected bills for car trouble and medical bills, we are in need of help for our rent.

There is more to our story and if you want to know more, feel free to ask. But that is the basic part of it.

The amount that I need is $560, but anything would help right now


Thanks for reading this

Bryan







****HIT BY A DRUNK DRIVER Want to replace wifes ring"

Posted by 2ThatROne on 2012-01-17 05:58:29

HI, Last Aug my wife and son were coming home from local county fair and laughing and talking about the things that happened when i was hit by a drunk driver. Had serious injury to my left arm and was just back to work after being unemployed for year and half because my company closed its doors. i was 9 days shy of my 90 days and my work let me go because of missed days of work due to this accident. I cant tell you how hard this has been for my self and family. while on serious pain meds my wife was left to make desions for us and ended up pawning our wedding rings to get money.We have had a black cloud over us since last june since our home was broke in then my son broke his ankle,i was hit by drunk driver, wife fell down stairs in september surgry in november my truck took transimision leak, then recently took another leak in another location then trying to make 75.00 to help pay for the leak i was helping a friend get their snow blower when my truck slide on their ice in their driveway and i was thrown into a tree. I am reaching out to anyone who willing to help.. I would really like to replace my wifes wedding ring, shes been threw alot. please help

plz help

Posted by rickey on 2012-01-13 15:58:40

I am 24 years old married and 3 kids. My oldest is from a previous relationship. I was paying my child support untill i lost my job. then my licence were suspended do to not paying. and then my power was cut off and we had to move in with my wifes dad and i would not beg if not for my children but i must so please help anything would help

In need of work!

Posted by louboo52 on 2011-12-28 10:58:47

6 months ago we responded to an ad on Craigslist. It was for property managers in Fl. We accepted the position sight unseen and in good faith. With my wifes health getting worse and having a hard time working. This seemed like a good thing. We took our savings and left for Florida. Well when we got there it turned out to be a scam. Lesson very well learned! We ended up in south Ga with her sister. I recently started a job that requires travel. our car is up for repossession due to our payments falling behind. I have tried to make payments when I started working and they said it was to late so I am using the car till they come and take it. We have financed 2 other cars with them and always on time. I wonder if the people that work in those places ever fell on hard times. I am not sure if that is the right thing but I honestly did try to catch up. When they take my car I will not be able to travel. This job is not very steady but it is work till I find another. I am looking for work in the Albany Ga area. If anyone from this area reads please consider me. I have a good work history and can provide a resume. I have posted many resumes and have responses from many scammers. I have learned there are very few ads on craigslist that are not scams. Also if anyone knows of a cheap car around this area please let me know You can contact me at ludavis1956@gmail.com. Thanks for taking the time to read this.

Relocation

Posted by workinman61 on 2011-11-27 19:58:54

I have been unemployed for three years. A little over a year ago my unemployment was cut and since then we have been barely "existing" my wifes income. I just got word from my brother that he can get me on where he works if I can get there. The thing is I need help with relocation. My brother would help but he is in a financial fix of his own. If anyone can help I would be forever grateful. Even if you could donate $10.00 Or even $5.00 what ever you can spare would be most grately appreciated. Please, please don't think the next guy will help 'cause the next guy hardly ever helps. In my experience it has always been me or you and not the next guy that helps others. But you know what? It is always you or me that feels the reward that comes from helping others. Thank You so very extremely much for your help.

Please Help Our Family

Posted by DebandLeo on 2011-10-29 18:58:08

My Wife and I are both disabled Americans. She has had a major back fusion and two knee replacements as well as some heart woes. I myself have just had my second major back surgery, I have an implantable Cardiac Defibrilator and one total knee replacement.
We are both on a very low income, myself on Social Security Disabilaty, she on School Employees Retirement Disabilaty benefits. We have a vehicle that is almost twenty years old and on its last legs.. I am certain you get many letters like this everyday but we really would like some kind of assistance. We would love to be able to move to Vermont where we can be near our children and Grandchildren as they grow and flourish into strong Americans ans be near our Parents as they live out thier golden years. I know we are asking a lot but if there is anything you can do to truly show your compassion , we will speak on every t.v. station, every radio station, make posters, whatever it takes. To show our thanks and support. We're begging you.
The state of Ohio in its infinite wisdom is considering stopping paying my Medicare part b and take away my medicaid because we, "make too much gross income" by the time we pay all our bills we have maybe 50.00 left to last an entire month.
My Wifes Information::::
I was Married to a very wonderful man for 31 years. He developed heart disease and diabetes. He fought valiently but finaly succomed to the medical problems. I became very sad and was almost at the brink of a mental breakdown. I did become involved with the local Greif Counseling service as this helped me to ease my burden a small amount. I began talking to this nice fellow on Pogo.com which is an online gaming site where one may play all sorts of games such as Solitare etc. We hit it off and began internet dating in August of 2008. We arranged to meet in November and upon viewing each other we knew the bond we had felt over the air was a real bond and Leo dropped to his knees and askeed me to Marry him. We married a week later in November of 2008 and have been together ever since. Since than we have both become quite medically burdened ourselves, Leo has a thing called Sudden Cardiac death Syndrome and has had to have had an Automatic Implantable Cardiac Defibrilator instaled recently. We both suffer from back woes and must seek care frequently. Now we do have a 1996 Chevy Blazer that runs when it feels like it, the airconditioner is broken and what with being in the Midwest is very hot to have to drive around with the windows down. A computer part that costs 1500.00 for the A.B.S. system is out and we just can not afford to fix it. We love the vehicle as it was my first ever fully owned vehicle from a bank loan in my life. If We appreciate everything we have and are greatful for both this site and for all the kindness of others. Please vote for us and we shall make certain to pay it forward with our own kindness and see to it that others are blessed as we are. Thank you for reading and for helping out anyway you can.
My Information::::
My Wife and I will be Married for three years on November 28th.We met in late July or early August of 2008. She had just lost her husband of 31 years. I was myself looking for a somewhat different lifestyle than I was in currently. I was living at home at over 40, disabled with a moderate spinal disease and more or less going nowhere. Debbie and I hit it off right away and we were engaged in October and Married in November. We each have been each others rock and best friend and companion. I have since went into the Ministry and have undertaken many courses towards helping others to live as good a life as possible. Debbie is a great personal loss counselor in her own right. I recently became a heart patient and have had to have an Automatic Implantable cardiac defibrilator installed in my upper chest which has a built in pace maker. All this at only the age of 49.Debbie has had to have undergone major back surgery herself and have screws and cages ut into her lower back. This makes us totaly disabled yet we both have a teriffic outlook on life and are always willing to help others. Life is what you make it, not a series of bad events that bring you down. We both appreciate each day given unto us and are so greatful for all our friends, family, and fellow searchers of lifes Grace. If we were chosen to receive a New SUV as we live in snowy Ohio and may move to new England to be closer to some family we would make certain that it was put to good use and everyone would know the generosity of others. I can only hope as this as well as the other stories here on this site may touch you a small amount and you shall favor us with kindness. God Bless Everyone. Thank You All. We are truly blessed to have such wonderful friends and supporters here. We appreciate everything people are doing and sending all the wonderful messages. God Bless You all.





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Need Help

Posted by chramber on 2011-10-08 16:58:20

I am 27 years old, married and have 6 month old twins. I ust recently sold one of my cars to help finicially. My wife quit her job when we had the twins. I am finding myself barely able to pay the bills. after bills are paid I have about $50 dollars in my bank, which usually goes for diapers, and that's stretchin it. which leaves no money for groceries. I just maxed out my 6 credit card and got declined for another one. I just need some help to get through the next couple of months. I am moving out of my apartment and my wife and kids are moving in with my wifes mom. I will be going on deployment for 7 months. I would greatly appreciate any help I can get thanks.

Help pay for car repair bills so I can move to Tennessee for a job!

Posted by replicant76 on 2011-09-13 13:58:17

I have been unemployed in Ohio for a year and a half and cant find employment to support my wife and daughter and my wifes job does not pay enough to cover all the bills. I have secured a job in Chattanooga and had bought a cheap used car to get there. The car had a clear carfax report and 2 days after I got it I started having issues. First off I noticed that the muffler got really loud so I took it to a mechanic, he informed me that the front and back brakes and rotors were rusted and rotten as well as a lot of hardware under the car, the shifter is also about to break due to rust. Apparently this car must have sat out for who knows how long and everything started to rust with the exception of the body. The total not including the muffler is $750.
Please help, the three of us are at the end of the line and cant pay any bills or our mortgage. I need this car to get to TN. where there is a job waiting for me.

Pretty much homeless, need help

Posted by Bigdaddyickes on 2011-07-27 19:58:18

I dont know what to say. Living with my wifes ex husband because we are homeless. I work 50 hours a week and cant pay my bills. My wife has to have her hips replaced so she cant work. My kids have nothin, I am exhausted and I cant do this myself anymore. Just want a house of my own and enough money to b happy. Is there anyone that can help me. If so it would be a blessing.

Family donation

Posted by Dyenasti on 2011-07-15 22:58:39

Im a 23 year old father to my baby son and husband to my beautiful wife. We have been together for four years and recently had a baby boy come into our lives. Ive been on my own since 13 ive never met my father as he cheated on my mom when i was a baby and they went through a divorce. It always stuck with my mom and she lost interest in a lot of things and was depressed She abandoned me when i was about 13 and started dating a drug dealer in modesto i moved in with some of my friends and did the best to raise myself i did a lot of bad things when i was younger i had no role models and did whatever i could to survive and i never got to experience a lot of things like sports baseball football i didnt have money for equipment and stuff and no time i was always busy trying to get money for clothes i used to eat our schools one dollar lunch everyday. By the time i was 18 i met the girl of my dreams at a local movie theater she was from the philipines and was petitioned by her family and was staying with a local governement housing at the time. I started turning my life around for the positive and learned a few trades and took a few classes and workshops for building. at 19 i was working as an assistant to a private contractor i learned everything i needed to know and by the time of 20 i was doing private work myself and at 21 i got my first house with the luck of a friend who worked as a realator. We used to live in the central valley Fresno Ca to be exact and we owned a two bedroom one bath house. We had one truck was a Chevy pickup 1500 i used for work and our family car it was paid off. The economy hit hard in the central valley and many contractors went out of work and the prices of homes dropped and our home was foreclosed as we couldnt make the payment and we lost everything. We remained positive with all the negative that happened and we were homeless for a while we sleeped at a church while selling what little furniture we had from our house and save. At the time my wife was pregnant and we were ready to start our family and everything went wrong. We did what was right kept our baby and after talking we moved to the central coast there was no opportunity in the central valley as a lot of businesses went down and everything was going bad. We moved to another one of the churches branches so that i could get on my feet over in Monterey. I quickly got a job as a Server at a private restaurant after applying for many jobs i dont make much and after a few months our baby was born at this time we were able to get a one room studio its very small but rent is so expensive $750 my number one priority is my son and providing i work three days at the restaurant and on my days off i offer services on craigslist to help fix computers car detailing and early mornings i get up at 6am and go to the local home depot and look for work lots of builders go there and sometimes they need extra help. Unfortunately im younger and rarely get picked compared to older because they dont think im experienced i was lucky to get a few jobs though as side work past few months. My wife stays home and cares for the baby since we have no family to help out she cant work at this time. Im doing my best to provide we have no tv no internet no computer nothing except a bed crib a few cooking supplies and a fridge ironing board and iron but were content. But sometimes work is slow and we had no money for food and we have gone to local shelters for food. We mostely eat rice and pastas since its cheap. We only buy expensive foods for the baby and only have cell phones. I had to sell my truck a while back and have recently got an old small honda i cant even afford to put tires on at this time. Im doing my best and taking day to day with the hope something good will happenen. Work is slow and i have no family at all and my wifes family is very poor in the philipines. I did my best to sumarize my life and try to prove i am a real person in a real situation and im in need at this time. Any and everything helps. My family thanks you.

need urgent help

Posted by prouddad3 on 2011-07-06 17:58:40

So for the best interest for my family I have recently moved over 900 miles from my family and my wifes family with our two boys and july 1st came our first daughter and last child. Seeing as how I did not want to miss my daughters birth or leave my wife stranded at the house alone with a 7yr old 1 yr old and 5 day old infant I had to take time off work. This time was unpaid and me being the only one working and only making $10.75 an hour it is hard enough to pay my bills when I work my normal shceduled days. I normally find myself working 72 to 84 hours a week to make it by. I rarely swallow my pride and ask for help but this last week off work has put me into a deep hole and fear that a downward trend in money is going to follow. Please help I work my butt off to support my family and can't get help anywhere else. I along with my three kids and wife would be eternally grateful and will not forget the help. What goes around comes around. if you wish to contact me the best way is my work email johnathon.shanks@qg.com
Thank you

Johnathon Shanks

Quickly losing the battle to keep a roof over my families heads

Posted by Nuitari1974 on 2011-06-01 03:58:15

I was layed off from my job of 6 years in 2005 due to budget cuts. In order to keep up with bills while I looked for a new job I started a computer repair business that managed to keep us afloat for a couple years, along with tapping my 401k. During this time the local economy took and even bigger hit and even with over a decade of experience I was unable to find sufficient work without a degree. As a result I decided to go back to school in 2009 to get my degree. With fiancial aid, the remainder of my 401k, money from the odd jobs I could find, and my wifes wages we managed to stay just ahead of our bills.

However in the last year the economy has gotten so bad that I was actually losing money repairing and building custom PC's, my wifes hours have been cut wo less than 10 hours a week, and any job that I have applied for I am not eligble for either because I am still finishing my degree so am under qualified, or because I am over qualified due to the schooling I have completed so far. (That's right I have been told I am overqualified to flip burgers at Mcdonalds, not sure how that works.)

Because of our reduced income we have been late on a number of bill payments for utilities and the house. I have sold my boat, my guns, and various electronics to get were we are and am to the point I have nothing of value left to sell. Aside from the monthly bills I have repair bills racking up on the house and our remaining vehicle.

The to top it off we got hit with a flood that took out our water heater, washer and dryer, and did significant damage to the rest of the basement.

Current bills include:
Cable $185
Cell $195
Mortgage $850
porperty taxes $200
food $600
gas $250
misc expenses for kids $200+ (8 year old daughter, 17 year old son)

repairs
replace water heater $1200
replace washer and dryer $500
engine and transmission work needed $2400
replace flooring and wall paneling $7500


Current monthly income
Wife: $600
Me: $800

Even with the financial aid and some other assistance we are almost $600 a month short just for the basic bills.

Any help would be greatly appreciated

Nowhere else to turn!

Posted by woolard80 on 2011-05-23 00:58:09

Hello, I just wanted to take a second to share my situation. It seems as though its fairly common today to see a good number of people either at or below the poverty line. That's why its so hard for me to be asking for help when there are so many others who need it just as bad! I guess a brief history would be to say that my wife and I bought a small house in 2007 and have been struggling ever since. In February of 2008 my wifes pay got cut and my hours got cut. Four months later in June we were behind and sinking fast. We tried loan modifications, bank loans, family members and friends. Nothing was working in our favor. We tried part time jobs but they were scarce, also my wife was pregnant with our second daughter at the time so she couldn't and shouldn't have been doing a lot . We are good people who have always helped others no matter what the circumstances. We never spent money frivolously. It just took getting behind one time and it snowballed. We went through a foreclosure last July. We were able to find a very small house to rent. We have about $15,000 in debt that is consuming us now. I know that's not a lot to some people but with normal living expenses and gas, we can't always make the payments. Please help in some kind of way! My wife is on the verge of a nervous breakdown and my heart breaks everyday at the thought of my two girls having to grow up not being able to do things and go places. They don't deserve this, my wife doesn't deserve this! If for no other reason then to show my family that there are still compassionate people in this world. Heck, if you could just pray for us that would be greatly appreciated. Thank-you in advance.