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Christian Wife and Mother of 4
Posted by pleaseblessme on 2012-05-24 21:58:11
Speaking of a job, we live out in the country 30miles from the nearest town, either way we go; therefore, the importance of the Internet ranks very high. Infact, it is how I do my job hunting (3-4hrs per day/4days per week). Should our phone get cut-off, the Internet is gone. Also, the possible gig I've got going for next week will only respond via email. Also, not too long after I lost my job, we took out some payday loans (2 infact) and were paying on them until we had some repairs and insurance hit us all at once. Either I have to pay the settlement for the loans or go to court by June 11, 2012. We have about $16.00 cash at this moment and the checking account is in the negative. I donot want them to close our account. If so, we cannot get his social security. At this point, I will note:
phone bill=$220.00 due via tomorrow by 5PM. 4pm so I can get it their in time.
loan settlement=$300.00
cash needed until the 3rd of June: $80.00
I would like to add that this is just a hard time. I am college educated, but got laid off from my job. I never thought we would hit hard times this bad and this fast.
I claim the benevolence of and from some one willing to help us.
God Bless Please respond. I can take messages on my cell phone anytime day or night.
Iris
252-406-1775EST
Need An 80 By 60 foot Peice of Land
Posted by jimmer on 2012-05-24 13:58:50
Dumped Dad
Posted by dumpeddad on 2012-05-24 10:58:50
During the first few days I didn't work, too busy trying to piece together what had gone on and why and how it had come to this right under my nose. The rent still needed to be paid, even though the house was unfurnished and too big for me alone. I was (and still am) locked into the lease! Problem number one.
Problem number two is rather more complex. Last Friday I received two letters. The first from a solicitor (our version of what you would call a lawyer) informing me of divorce proceedings and the second was sent a letter from the Child Support Agency informing me my wife is seeking child support payments from me. Now, I'm no deadbeat dad! I think all parents should pay for their children's needs but here I am - rent on a house I don't need, no furniture (some friends have lent me a TV and cooking utensils and a couch), no money to contest the proceedings and on top of that she wants me to pay child support while she's shacked up and living a 'normal' life with my boys, whom I haven't seen since.
I've seen a solicitor who advised me he wouldn't bill me for the first meeting - we talked about the situation, and what he could do from here... It requires more than I have, to achieve what I want and what I think is fair! All I want to do is split our assets 60/40 her favour (she has the kids). Get out of this lease that I'm legally locked into, and get shared custody of my beautiful little boys. Problem is she has the assets and without a court order to either return a portion to me or divest herself of some of the assets so I can be compensated, I can't pay a solicitor and barrister to get the money to do all this. Once it's all settled I'll happily pay my child support requirements, see my boys and leave her out of my life, seeing that's what she wants.
My solicitor has told me I could be up for as much as $10,000, but $6000 should be a good starting point. His firm wont proceed without knowing they'll be paid - fair enough, but what's a man to do in this situation?
I am literally begging for $6000. I haven't wanted for anything in my life - I've always worked and worked hard for what I had, but when it's all taken away from you, you realise how vulnerable we all are. I'm pledging that whatever I receive from this site that's not used in the case, I will pay forward, to another needy soul from this site. Please help... My heart and thanks, and that of my boys will go out to you.
Update: 6th Jan 2012. I've managed to get the proceedings heard at a later date, due to my personal situation. But nothing has changed. I still don't have the funds to fight this and to date not one response to my plea for help. I'm begging - literally for some assistance. I haven't seen my boys since December and I can't fight this without your help.
Update: 25th May 2012
I have nothing to fight her with. No funds, no will and no motivation. The house has been re-leased and the owner has started legal proceedings against me, I have nothing but what she left me. I am trying my hardest to provide some money for my two kids - that I haven't seen since December. I can't go on like this. No-one can!
What if ?
Posted by Impossibledreamer on 2012-05-24 06:58:50
What if Stephenie Meyer came to you and asked for a helping hand.
2 Female icons of the book reading world.
Now what if.
You had the chance to help an Australian writer.Who has developed and written something that has never been seen before has the potential to change the world longterm to make it a better place.And has the possibilty to unite the world in a common goal.
And what if .
All that is stopping her is $10000 australian dollars to put the last pieces in place for launch August 1st.
What if what was stopping her is that she is living on the breadline and has funded it all with the help of a couple of just as poor friends.
And what if.
With your donation you help fund this amazing enterprise and helped take the financial restraints off a world first
To be able to fly and become not just a hardworked for dream,
by a mum and wife.But also to know you actually helped this happen.What if you gave a little and it meant alot.What if she has a consuming passion that whether or not she recieves a cent.
It will be launched.
Which it will.
And what if. It was so lucarative that she could give back 10% on every item sold to charities that make a difference.
And she will.It's part of the infrastructure of the creation.
What if .You get very few details on this business as it is a world 1st and 1 word describing it will have copycats before you can say Bank loan.
All I can say is.I believe in this product and is able long term to make not just a financial difference to the world but a cultural difference.It causes no harm and can only bring joy.And any age will be able to get involved.
Thank you for taking the time to read my post.
Need Mortgage money two months behind
Posted by sexyjayleen on 2012-05-23 17:58:06
School Loans
Posted by baumanrdmbc on 2012-05-23 15:58:46
--Blessed...
Has your life ever seemed like a country and western song.
Posted by Downbutcomingback on 2012-05-23 13:58:40
Risk of Losing Childs Private School Education
Posted by jaylah182 on 2012-05-23 10:58:15
I will pay it back to you or forward to someone esle.
Posted by Downbutcomingback on 2012-05-23 08:58:23
A little cash can help in a big way.
Posted by Adrian4712 on 2012-05-22 19:58:53
CANNOT COUNT ON FAMILY
Posted by jasond on 2012-05-22 15:58:53
I work full time and also do side jobs on weekends to make ends meet, my wife has been out of work on disability (she will return full time in the next 3 weeks) due to the birth of our son, which should be the happiest time of our life, and yet I get to go home and see my children upset wondering why there uncle is acting the way he is, I get to see my wife cry over the fact that we have been basically reminded that even though we pay the bill and we fix this home and have made it what it never was for me growing up an actual home, that it is not ours and we should have no say over what happens.
My brother who at one time made hundreds of thousands of dollars a year an selfish heartless drug addict, who even though has never treated me or my family with any respect I have always dropped what I am doing regardless of time or place to go âÂÂsave himâÂÂ, and by save usually picking his drug addict ass up and making sure he gets home, or dropping what IâÂÂm doing to take him to the hospital cause he is so sick from whatever he has taken this time. Now that brother has decided to move in with us, not ask, not offer to help, but blatantly tell me and my wife, âÂÂitâÂÂs not your house , I am not asking permission to stay hereâÂÂ, and my parents who told me this home was a âÂÂWedding giftâ seem to agree. They feel itâÂÂs okay for a drug addict to be living among children, that itâÂÂs okay that slowly one by one pieces of my wifeâÂÂs jewelry are disappearing, or that since he came has literally taken over my infant sons nursery with his disgusting belongings that I found my wife sitting on the floor of the living room trying to feed the baby because heâÂÂs asleep on the sofa passed out cold and his belonging are strewn all over the house.
My only options are to buy this home that I and my wife have built a great life in so I can say who stays and goes, or to uproot my children and move as far from these selfish disgusting people as possible.
In order to purchase this home I would need a deposit upwards of 12000 which due to me draining my accounts my sons accounts and my wifeâÂÂs to âÂÂsaveâ my brother from jail, drug dealers, etc., we have nothing left. Which has led me here, led me to the point where I feel more dependent on asking strangers for help than my own family because they canâÂÂt even help themselves? I am the little brother (youngest of four) who has always had to be the big brother, I am the one one whose entire family drops there problems in my lap as if to say deal with it. I have been the pillar supporting every single family member I have for the last 28 years, the pillar has finally cracked and canâÂÂt hold up the weight of the world anymore. I am begging on my hands and knees for help from completer strangers so I can continue to give my children the life I never had, and offer them some stability instead of having to tear them from the home they have come to love, that my wife has come to love, that I love. I want to give my children the world but my family continues to assure that wonâÂÂt happen under there watch. Please I beg of you with everything I am I need help. Please donâÂÂt make us just another statistic, I found my calling and made a life for my wife and children, I have put aside pride, because they are all that matters to me. Thank You for taking the time to read this and thank you for any support or help you can provide.
TRYING TO MEET AND GREET MY FAMILY OUT IN FL.
Posted by RustySt on 2012-05-22 15:58:37
ANYWAY ABOUT 4MO.'S AGO I HAD THE CHANCE TO MEET FAMILY ON MY FATHER'S SIDE THAT LIVE IN FT. PIRCE FL. THAT I NEVER KNEW THAT I HAD, AND MY 2 GIRLS THAT HAVEN'T TALKED TO ME FOR ABOUT 15YR.'S .
NOW SOME WHERE AROUND 30YR.'S AGO MY FIRST WIFE AND I SPLIT UP, AND I DIDN'T GET TO SEE THEM FOR THE LONGEST.
SO WHILE THAT WAS GOING ON I DIDN'T THINK I WOULD EVER SEE THEM AGAIN , AND I MADE A REALLY BAD CHOSE, AND THAT WAS DOING DRUGS , THEFT SCAMS ,AND ROBING PEOPLE.
WELL I WAS VERY FORTUNATE ENOUGH TO GET OUT OF THAT LIFE BEFOR I GOT COUGHT BY THE LAW(keywords by the law)NOW THAT YOU KNOW THIS YOU MIGHT WANT TO HELP , AND THAT IS OK TO BUT I DO WANT TO HELP ANY AND ALL BY TELLING YOU THAT ANY TIME SOMEONE ASK YOU TO OPEN A BANK ACCOUNT SOTHEY CAN HELP YOU DERICT , " DO NOT DO IT" BECAUSE THEY ARE JUST TRYING TO SET UP SOME KIND OF SCAM .
AS YOU SEE THERE IS A PAYPAL BUTTON RIGHT AT THE BOTTOM , SO DON'T GET COUGHT UP IN A RUSH AND GET COUGHT IN THE SCAM.
NOW THAT YOU KNOW, DON'T GET COUGHT UP IN IT.
WHEN I CHANGED MY LIFE I WENT WHERE I KNEW I COULD FIND THE RIGHT KIND OF HELP, AND THAT WAS CALVERY CHAPEL COASTA MASE CALF. WHERE PASTOR CHUCK SMITH SHOWED ME HOW. 1ST. I QUITE THE DRUGS AND STEALING FROM PEOPLE, THEN I LEARNED HOW TO SERVIE OTHERS WITH WHAT I CAN DO EVEN THOUGH I DON'T HAVE MONEY.
SO NOW THAT YOU KNOW THIS MAYBE YOU CAN UNDERSTAND. I CAN NOT BE SCAMED IN TO OPENING BANK ACCOUNTS SO SOMEONE CAN TRY AND RIP ME OFF.
NOW IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO HELP ME PLEASE TRY AND UNDERSTAND I REALLY DO WANT AND NEED THE HELP, AND I AM WILLING TO GIVE TO YOU PROOF ON WHAT THE MONEY IS SPENT ON ,HOW MEANY ARE WILLING TO DO THAT.
WHAT I NEED IS A BETTER CAR AND THE GAS TOGO OUT TO FL. THE COST OF THE CAR IS ABOUT $10,000.oo, THEN I WOULD NEED GAS CARD FOR GAS OUT TO FL. AND BACK HOME.
NOW I DON'T EXPECT JUST ONE PERSON TO GIVE ME THAT MUCH , BUT AS YOU KNOW WHAT THEY SAY PENNY'S MAKE DOLLARS, AND IF YOU STILL WOULD LIKE HELP SOMEONE THAT IS WILLING TO GIVE PROOF!!!! THEN PLEASE FILL FREE TO TRY ME, AND I AM WILLING TO SHOW YOU THE PERSON THAT I SAY I AM.
Need money to pay for school
Posted by dbpbabu on 2012-05-22 12:58:43
I want to tell you my feelings by the way of this mail.
I am struggling hard to save my family and to educate my children.
I lost my job due to health problems and my properties lost towards my loans.
Till the debts remains that cripples me and prevents me from having a normal
life. I need help to further and keep survival with my wife and three children but I canât help them to further education and unable to pay their school bills of $3000,help me by your possible contribution.
Please help me and trust me.
Please help me to end family crisis!!!!!
Posted by helpwithvivek on 2012-05-22 11:58:50
4 years ago I lost my job because of recession and I'm jobless till date :-(
I'm married and have 2 children. After losing my job I spent 2 years with the help of my savings and after that I borrowed loan from bank. But for last 15 months I'm facing very very critical situation. Now its very hard to survive. I have to pay school fees for my children, wife's medical expenditure, pay back bank's loan and start a small business to earn. For all these I need $16000.
So its my humble request to all kind hearted human to help me to end my problems.
GOD BLESS YOU ALL.
Thanks.
I'm going to be a dad
Posted by Daemonarch on 2012-05-21 21:58:09
I need help to start buying some basic things for the child, and I've absolutely no chance of credit (I've already made one) with the portuguese banks. Any help will be extremely valuable... I want to keep this baby and if I can't provide a good environment the government will take the baby from us... Please help.
Underemployed needs a little help
Posted by Samueldc50 on 2012-05-21 16:58:40
Save my life
Posted by bdipghsh on 2012-05-21 13:58:15
Save my life
Posted by bdipghsh on 2012-05-21 12:58:49
Cant count on family
Posted by jasond on 2012-05-21 11:58:13
I work full time and also do side jobs on weekends to make ends meet, my wife has been out of work on disability (she will return full time in the next 3 weeks) due to the birth of our son, which should be the happiest time of our life, and yet I get to go home and see my children upset wondering why there uncle is acting the way he is, I get to see my wife cry over the fact that we have been basically reminded that even though we pay the bill and we fix this home and have made it what it never was for me growing up an actual home, that it is not ours and we should have no say over what happens.
My brother who at one time made hundreds of thousands of dollars a year an selfish heartless drug addict, who even though has never treated me or my family with any respect I have always dropped what I am doing regardless of time or place to go âsave himâ, and by save usually picking his drug addict ass up and making sure he gets home, or dropping what Iâm doing to take him to the hospital cause he is so sick from whatever he has taken this time. Now that brother has decided to move in with us, not ask, not offer to help, but blatantly tell me and my wife, âitâs not your house , I am not asking permission to stay hereâ, and my parents who told me this home was a âWedding giftâ seem to agree. They feel itâs okay for a drug addict to be living among children, that itâs okay that slowly one by one pieces of my wifeâs jewelry are disappearing, or that since he came has literally taken over my infant sons nursery with his disgusting belongings that I found my wife sitting on the floor of the living room trying to feed the baby because heâs asleep on the sofa passed out cold and his belonging are strewn all over the house.
My only options are to buy this home that I and my wife have built a great life in so I can say who stays and goes, or to uproot my children and move as far from these selfish disgusting people as possible.
In order to purchase this home I would need a deposit upwards of 12000 which due to me draining my accounts my sons accounts and my wifeâs to âsaveâ my brother from jail, drug dealers, etc., we have nothing left. Which has led me here, led me to the point where I feel more dependent on asking strangers for help than my own family because they canât even help themselves? I am the little brother (youngest of four) who has always had to be the big brother, I am the one one whose entire family drops there problems in my lap as if to say deal with it. I have been the pillar supporting every single family member I have for the last 28 years, the pillar has finally cracked and canât hold up the weight of the world anymore. I am begging on my hands and knees for help from completer strangers so I can continue to give my children the life I never had, and offer them some stability instead of having to tear them from the home they have come to love, that my wife has come to love, that I love. I want to give my children the world but my family continues to assure that wonât happen under there watch. Please I beg of you with everything I am I need help. Please donât make us just another statistic, I found my calling and made a life for my wife and children, I have put aside pride, because they are all that matters to me. Thank You for taking the time to read this and thank you for any support or help you can provide.
Cant count on family,
Posted by Jdietz80402 on 2012-05-21 08:58:55
I am in desperate need of 12,000 dollars for a down payment to purchase the home, please, i have to turn to strangers for help, that has ecome the qaulity of my so called "family"
thank you all
need money to move
Posted by will2012 on 2012-05-21 00:58:05
Bills
Posted by John1987 on 2012-05-20 23:58:42
Family Crisis
Posted by stuntedpoet on 2012-05-20 17:58:42
I have been trying to find ways over the last year, but with the state of the economy, it has become nearly impossible. Over the course of the last year, , I've had to liquidate many of my assets. I don't mind doing this, so my family can maintain the necessities they need to survive, but I'm running out of items to sell.
I understand that you probably receive many letters asking for assistance, so I truly understand if you decline my request for help.
Can you please just help us out just one time, I know Its Impossible for you to give as mush as I need to become debt free from old bills. We currently have about $14,000.00 dollars In outstanding bills, and or debts. Please please, help us, any amount will be greatly appreciated. Thank you kindly
Thank you for your time and consideration,
Family Crisis
Posted by stuntedpoet on 2012-05-20 17:58:41
I have been trying to find ways over the last year, but with the state of the economy, it has become nearly impossible. Over the course of the last year, , I've had to liquidate many of my assets. I don't mind doing this, so my family can maintain the necessities they need to survive, but I'm running out of items to sell.
I understand that you probably receive many letters asking for assistance, so I truly understand if you decline my request for help.
Can you please just help us out just one time, I know Its Impossible for you to give as mush as I need to become debt free from old bills. We currently have about $14,000.00 dollars In outstanding bills, and or debts. Please please, help us, any amount will be greatly appreciated. Thank you kindly
Thank you for your time and consideration,
Please help
Posted by Soldierinneed on 2012-05-20 13:58:27
