Warrant Tags

Back to Tags Page

Post a Beg Now!

I desperately need help

Posted by SDL6783 on 2012-02-20 19:58:15

Hi there...
The whole idea of asking for money makes me sick to my stomach. I have never been a beggar or a person who wanted charity. But I honestly have no other choice anymore.
My story starts in 2009 with my ex girlfriend, whom would turn out to be the worst thing that ever happened to me. I'm not going to play the blame game, because I have forgiven her since. However I am left with the lasting damage of that relationship.
We had dated when we were young, she had cheated with a friend and I had left her, but i always loved her most of all and was eventually able to forgive her later. I was a fool for love. This is where the trouble starts, we had begun to talk again in early 2009, and soon a relationship developed between us once again. By this time she had a daughter who was 7 years old. I moved to another state to be with her and her daughter, after awhile I loved her daughter as my own child. I took her fishing with me every chance I had. I did not realize it before I had went down there, but her family was a real problem. They took to controlling every aspect of her life, even going as far as taking her mail out of her mail box and reading it. From the very start I has hated, I could not be controlled or told what to do, though they tried. Later in the year I was working and I thought things had improved, they grudgingly accepted me.

I am not a cruel or an evil person, I am always firm but loving when it comes to discipline. There had started to be problems at school and home, with tantrums, and destructive behavior. My ex and I talked about it and we tried everything, nothing seemed to work save simple old fashioned spanking. When she threw a tantrum one day and wrote that she hated us and left it on a note where we would surely find it, and broke her own window in her room. I knew something had to be done, this was totally unacceptable. So I spanked her, not hard or vicious like i got when i was a boy. But just my hand. I left a red mark, not welts or bruises a red mark. Of course being a little girl, she tended to talk and tell everyone EVERYTHING. She told her grandmother about it, and that was it for me, suddenly i was this horrible terrible person. My ex and I quarreled about it a great deal and I left for awhile just to get my head around things and see if it was worth saving.

I decided to leave, and I went home back to indiana where i was from, I left with a broken heart, but i knew the situation couldn't be fixed.
There were other things going on at the time I did not become aware of until later, one was that my ex was pregnant. She later admitted to me that she had been smoking while pregnant, drinking, taking more and more prescriptions, and when she finally told me about it she told me she was glad she had miscarried.
I have never forgotten that statment.
Now here is where the real trouble begins and why I am in such desperate need.
The child told her teacher, and child services became involved, as they always do and will for any reason.
Eventually it got turned over to the sheriff's office to see what they wanted to do with it. Now enters the grandparents into the equation.
The pushed it hard even against my ex's wishes, and managed to get them to file charges for child abuse and issue a warrant. A warrant I didnt even know i had until christmas time 2010. I was picked up and detained for extradition over it. The following monday I was released, I was informed that they didnt want to come get me. I called my ex, and she told me that she had told them to drop it, we talked and talked, she begged me to forgive her for all that happened, and eventually i did, for some reason I still felt like i couldnt live without her. So we continued to talk up until july of 2010. When something happened, grandmother got curious wondering what these numbers were on the cell phone bill. She confronted my ex and she told her that she had talked to me. Ever since that point I have this "open case" listed publically on my record. After about 10 interviews I discovered that was the reason I couldn't have a job. Who would want to hire a "child abuser" anyway? Here it is febuary its been about 8 months without work. I lost my place, and nearly everything i own, I even lost the will to live. I live with my parents now, and I know im a burden to them. I'm thinking about it everyday. It is tax refund time now, and I have half of what I need for my lawyer to try and fix this horrible mess. He is of the almost certain opinion this will be completely dropped, and I can have a job again, and recover somewhat of a life. If you can help please help, I am a desperate man, and I want my life back, I need it back, I cant take not being able to work, and being a burden to my parents who are dirt poor!

Young and dumb

Posted by Bucklady on 2011-11-23 02:58:11

So here goes nothing. I'm currently a 22 year old woman who has dug herself a hole. I am a poster child for bad spending habits and self absorbed youth. I currently have racked up 40000$ in debt from student loans credit cards a car loan and one very expensive traffic fine. I used to work in construction and was able to afford all my bills but when I was 20 I decided to go to school so I quit my
Great paying Job and ventured into the academic
World. I did my
First year and HATED it. Afterwards there were no jobs available so I went back to hospitality. I work as a restaurant manager full time but barely make enough to pay my regular bills let alone my debt. I live paycheck to paycheck and constantly worry about money. It depresses me so bad to think at 22 I might have to file for bankruptcy. And on top of all that I got caught driving with no insurance (I lived in a small town and only drove to the store). It was a stupid choice but my insurance was so high that I mostly walked to where I needed to get except when it was too cold or late at night. Either way the judge slapped me with a 5700$ ticket for my
Stupidity. The ticket had a year for repayment. I was given the option to work it off but due to my regular Job I was unable to without losing my income. I scrolled and scraped for the year. Eating basically tuna and pb&j sandwiches and having no social life. I managed to pay only about 1400$. Sad I know but remember I barely make enough to pay my bills. After having the payment date delayed by another 3 months I knew it was hopeless. My
Credit is shot my debt ratio is too high and I have no one
To turn to for a loan. As of November 1st there Is a bench warrant for my arrest. I am quite terrified because this Is a stay or pay warrant so if I'm ever picked up I either need to pay the remaining 4300 or sit in jail for 3 months. I'm a young woman with no criminal record I never even got a suspension in high school. If this were to happen I would also lose my Job and ultimately my home and all my bills would fall 3 months behind. The fear of this keeps me
Awake at night because it's terrifying. This one mistake could cost me so much in the end. I have looked at every option as to getting a loan but to no avail. So now I turn to begging for help. Please help me pay this ticket off so I can try and get on with my life without the fear of going to jail for sometbing so silly. If ever I needed a miracle it is now. If anyone has it in tneir hearts to help me I would appreciate
It so much. I don't want to feel like a criminal any longer
Hello. My name is Caleb. I'm 21 years old, have severe anxiety and depression, and my only income is SSI. On march 1st of this year (2011) I moved into my first apartment ever with 2 room-mates. As strange as it may sound, one of the room-mates was my own mother(Donna), the other was her abusive ex-girlfriend(Shaw). I signed as the head of household and shaw and my mom were put downa "Household members" on the lease.

Before all 3 of us had moved into this residence the 3 of us had made an agreement that all the expenses would be split into thirds, there was one exception to this agreement however. My mother was not making enough income at the time to fully cover her third, so her ex girlfriend, shaw agreed to pay my mom's third temporarily until my mom could get a job that would supply her with enough income to do so. There were no misunderstandings, all 3 of us had understood the agreement BEFORE moving in.

That first month that we moved in, I ended up splitting HALF the expenses with shaw. This means I paid for my third PLUS half of my mom's third. Shaw had done so also... This was not what had been agreed to however. In fact, I don't know why I ever even let it slip by me. I must have not been thinking straight just because I was stressed out and desperately just wanted to get into the apartment.

The next month (April) I pointed out the mistake to both shaw and my mother, and told them that while I'm willing to let the first time slip, I wasn't willing to pay more than my share again.

The reaction shaw had wasn't good. She started making threats that if I didn't continue to pay the way I did the first month, that she would just leave, and that she just didn't give a dam. Oddly enough, my mom seemed to agree with her, and said she would leave with shaw also. Because I REALLY REALLY didn't want to get into the struggle at the time.. I just went along with it and paid for half the expenses again.. Shaw had basically said to me "So whats it gonna be, Either pay half, or we leave and you deal with the apartment on your own. We don't need to stay here. We can find somewhere else"...She said it in a very rude, obnoxious, loud tone of voice.

Eventually...May came around, and on the morning of the first day of the month I immediately brought the issue up again to mom and shaw.. and again, the same threats were made...and ALSO again...I paid half the expenses out of pressure.

In the middle of may I had found out some information that I thought would have been beneficial to me. I had found out that shaw had an arrest warrant on her for assault and battery. The reason I found this beneficial, was because of the fact that I wasn't able to take neither shaw or my mom off the lease, so If I wanted to kick shaw out. I could simply make a phone call to the police and they would take her out of there...Just as a note that I should have mentioned earlier... Shaw has a huge history of drug abuse, and violence.. and she had abused my mother a lot during there time together. That was probably how the warrant resulted.

Anyways, back on topic... In the middle of the night on may 18th, I told my mother that I wanted to speak to her in private. We went out to her car, and I told my mother that I'm completely fine with her(my mom) staying, but if shaw did not do her part, and pay the extra third like she agreed to when she moved in, I was gonna have her(shaw) removed from the residence.

My mom immediately went into a panic... She rushed back into the house to tell shaw everything that I had just told her... I went back into the house also... Later that night, they packed up most of there things (They didn't have much there) and bolted off...never returning...leaving me with ALL the expenses.

Remember, I only get SSI for income. To be more specific, $704.00 per month. The rent was 730.00, let alone other bills such as electricity, gas, and my own personal bills such as my cellphone, etc. There was no way I could pay the rent.

So as time went on... all the eviction stuff happened. I got the 14 day notice to pay rent or quit, then the letter with their intention to take me to court, then the actual offical court letter with the court date on it. On the court document..only my name was listed as a tenant..as if my mother and shaw were not on the lease, even though they were. All the blame was put onto me by these selfish real estate property owners.

ONLY I was taken to court. And from there I was told that they would give me 14 days to find another place and then after that if I was not gone a sheriff would come to the residence to physically remove me and all my belongings...

I rushed to find a place to stay...it was very difficult and distressing, but fortunately one of my friends has been willing to let me stay with them...I had to pay somebody $40.00 just to help me move my stuff to a storage facility.....

As the current situation stands... I am homeless. Still trying very hard to get a place, but cannot find a place that I can afford with my income. There have been some studio apartments for around $500.00 per month, but most of them require first, second, and last months rent to move in...

This is not the first time in my life that my mom has betrayed me.. She had left me, my brother, and my dad when I was six years old too.. She was not a part of raising me for most of my life. Then I decided I want to disregard the past,and get to know her for the person she is now, and let her redeem herself. This is what she did with that opportunity.

It was stressful and agonizing to even type all this up...because there are so many details involved... and my mind is tired..I'm very stressed physically and mentally.

I really need help. My money is just being drained and leeched from me. And staying at my friend's house has been very uncomfortable. I cannot do it much longer

ANY AMOUNT that you can donate I will be HIGHLY grateful and appreciative of. Even if everybody would just donate 1 dollar! A dollar bill in huge numbers is a lot of money.

Please.. 50 cents, $1, $5 , $10, or $20....Whatever amount you want.... Just please help. Its all I ask....I'm very stressed...

Whatever you can give is appreciated...and helps me greatly...

Thank you all very much... and god bless whoever is reading this.

- Caleb S.

My email for contact and for paypal : theyazuken@gmail.com

Iraq Vet needs help!

Posted by mwilson75 on 2011-08-26 09:58:10

My name is Mike, I am a combat veteran of Operation Iraqi Freedom and after coming home, I was diagnosed with PTSD. As is typical with PTSD, I did not seek immidiate treatment for the condition, I was going through a divorce, losing everything, and I was unemployed. I started using alot of drugs and alcohol in an attempt to self medicate and I ended up homeless, addicted and in alot of legal trouble. I have since, remarried,my wife and I have 3 children (2 years, 1 year, and new born) and our 1 year old was born 3 months pre mature and has cerebral palsey as well as several other serious medical conditions. I have over 2 years clean and sober now, and I have not had any new criminal charges in 3 years, i recently turned myself in on the last warrant i had and served my jail time and I no longer have any pending legal charges. My problem is this, due to the warrants I had, my drivers license was suspended in 2008 and now that all charges are resolved, I can not afford my re-instatement fee. I am current on the pay plan for all fines and court costs, but with our limited income, our sons medical issues, and my fine payments, on top of regular living expenses (rent, utilities, diapers, food, etc) there is no way I can pay my reinstatement fee's or get a drivers license. I will worry about getting a car later, but I had a CDL before it was suspended and if I can get it back, I know I will be able to increase our income and achieve self sufficiency. If you can help, please consider doing so, it will not be unappreciated!

Iraq Veteran NEEDS HELP!!

Posted by mwilson75 on 2011-08-26 09:58:09

My name is Mike, I am a combat veteran of Operation Iraqi Freedom and after coming home, I was diagnosed with PTSD. As is typical with PTSD, I did not seek immidiate treatment for the condition, I was going through a divorce, losing everything, and I was unemployed. I started using alot of drugs and alcohol in an attempt to self medicate and I ended up homeless, addicted and in alot of legal trouble. I have since, remarried,my wife and I have 3 children (2 years, 1 year, and new born) and our 1 year old was born 3 months pre mature and has cerebral palsey as well as several other serious medical conditions. I have over 2 years clean and sober now, and I have not had any new criminal charges in 3 years, i recently turned myself in on the last warrant i had and served my jail time and I no longer have any pending legal charges. My problem is this, due to the warrants I had, my drivers license was suspended in 2008 and now that all charges are resolved, I can not afford my re-instatement fee. I am current on the pay plan for all fines and court costs, but with our limited income, our sons medical issues, and my fine payments, on top of regular living expenses (rent, utilities, diapers, food, etc) there is no way I can pay my reinstatement fee's or get a drivers license. I will worry about getting a car later, but I had a CDL before it was suspended and if I can get it back, I know I will be able to increase our income and achieve self sufficiency. If you can help, please consider doing so, it will not go unappreciated!

Iraq VET needs help!

Posted by mwilson75 on 2011-08-26 08:58:59

My name is Mike, I am a combat veteran of Operation Iraqi Freedom and after coming home, I was diagnosed with PTSD. As is typical with PTSD, I did not seek immidiate treatment for the condition, I was going through a divorce, losing everything, and I was unemployed. I started using alot of drugs and alcohol in an attempt to self medicate and I ended up homeless, addicted and in alot of legal trouble. I have since, remarried,my wife and I have 3 children (2 years, 1 year, and new born) and our 1 year old was born 3 months pre mature and has cerebral palsey as well as several other serious medical conditions. I have over 2 years clean and sober now, and I have not had any new criminal charges in 3 years, i recently turned myself in on the last warrant i had and served my jail time and I no longer have any pending legal charges. My problem is this, due to the warrants I had, my drivers license was suspended in 2008 and now that all charges are resolved, I can not afford my re-instatement fee. I am current on the pay plan for all fines and court costs, but with our limited income, our sons medical issues, and my fine payments, on top of regular living expenses (rent, utilities, diapers, food, etc) there is no way I can pay my reinstatement fee's or get a drivers license. I will worry about getting a car later, but I had a CDL before it was suspended and if I can get it back, I know I will be able to increase our income and achieve self sufficiency. If you can help, please consider doing so, it will not be unappreciated!
IM A 39 YEAR OLD MAN, THE LAST TWO YEARS HAVE BEEN THE WORST. i do not remember ever feeling this low, i am scared, lonely, not secure with my financial situation WHEN I HAVE a job! much less now HAVING BEEN LAID OFF in january of this year-2011-NOW IM REALLY terrified. i havent been able to eat, get rest-proper sleep in a long,long time (over a year),afford food. i have been using the help of the food pantry's in my area, and that is because i havent the time to go to department of social services from 9-5, i MUST SEEK WORK! this is the most insane feeling, i think im about at the end of it-i can no longer say i can "HOLD ON". to WHAT? ive no family-a few "friends"-but not like the ones im used to from waaaay back. and those? families and lives of thier own, no time for me, just a "facebook-fakie" hello or request for this or that from me for game crap on there-get real. also, the small town i come from knows me as a liar (i was one), a theif,(was that as well and an addict.(rehab lst year has left me sober since December of last year-i feel great but am terrified daily of not being able to get enough $ together everyday so i do not hve to make it on the street, the cops here-RUTHLESS for CITY REVENUE. tie your shoes on the wrong day? ticket.when u cant pay it, warrant. cycle repeats.....
ive started seeking counciling and have even joined a support group. i was quiet until last year about what i am about to tell you here-and i am not game playing-saying this for sympathy-any of this...i said this out loud for the first time at 38 last year-my father molested me from the ages of 6 through 14, until i was big enough to fight him off, or threaten to hurt him if he touched me one MORE TIME.
he violently raped me, my face in the pillow, told me " this doent make you gay or anyting". i realize NOW, it was about control, this sick man, i have filed police reports in both the county where i used to have an apartment, and the county in which it occurred. nothing, and i mean nothing, has been done by the police, i keep calling and asking-to no avail-nothing gets to resolve.
as i work on the inner me, my life has slowly financially unraveled. my father has had sleep apnea forever, my mother died in 2007, in october, suddenly, and slept eveynight of my whole life with earplugs. i firmly tell myself she didnt know. i have to. PLEASE, HELP ME TO GET TOGETHER enough for a deposit, moving truck, first months rent. NO MORE THAN 2,500 IS WHAT I NEED. that would turn my living situation aroud, i am seeking to move where jobs are easier to obtain in the field in which i am trained-mechanic. here where i am, i cant get hired for this! why? others are willing to work for LESS than min wage, HOW AM I TO COMPETE WITH THAT?cant. no one can.

i have set up pay pal for my first time, i hope i did it right. thanks for listening,m just to get it out here, too, was cathartic. appreciate any and all replies or suggestions if you cant donate. ve become a good listener.
sincerly, J.E.B.
i do not know what to do.. i just moved in my new apt. and had a lot of deposit's i had to pay. water, electic, i can not pay june's rent. at 525.oo and i will be served a warrant for my arrest. anything will help.. can not work, and have no ride to get help from local churches.

loosing home for my 4 chilren

Posted by rjkrsk on 2011-05-11 09:58:57

hi my name is ron im a 51 yr old man who is raising 4 children 1 is mine he is the youngest at 8 the other 3 are not mine they are 16 14 and 11 all have different dads and only the 14 yr old gets support of 320 a month the 16 yr olds dad is wanted on a warrant for non payment of 26000 and the eleven yr old who knows where he is i lost my job and lost my home to foreclosure i now rent and am behind and just found work after 10 days of working i got sick and stopped breathing and now am in the hospital with a treac in my throat and no way to work i cant pay my rent and im 5000 behind my landlord wasok because i started working i have state insurance so my medical bills are covered but he cant hold off no more all of my kids are honor students one graduates 8th grade this yr and there is no rental assistance at all to help my alternative is a pads program which is a differant church ever nite i now have to have a machine hooked up and need home heailth care i also need a home for me and my kids their mom is trying hard to find ajob but hard i pray there is someone who could help on atemp basis just to pull me out of this hole so i can get better and go back to work i have my job secured im beggin for some help

I'm a desperate single mother

Posted by sel627 on 2011-04-06 23:58:47

God bless anyone willing to even read this, much less help me out by donating. I'm a desperate single mom who felt I had no other option but to turn to something like this, which I didn't even realize existed on the internet. I'm only praying that there will ba few kind souls out there, willing to help. I can send pictures of my 2 year old son, if you would like, request that to me and I will e-mail them to you, or pictures of us together. His father is not in his life because he is addicted to drugs, and I can't even sue him for child support because he doesn't work, so there's no way they can garnish his wages. Even if I took him to court to see if the judge could rule that he pay some child support, I know he wouldn't show up, not caring about a warrant for his arrest, because that's just the type of person he is. I'm a cashier at Lowe's and can only work part time because I can't afford to put my son in daycare and my parents babysit him when they're off work which is only nights and weekends. Even if I was working full time there, I'm sure I'd be struggling considering what I make per hour, but it's a lot worse only working part time. I'm thankful to have a job at all, but the pay I receive just doesn't cut it for all the bills I have, and the money it takes to raise a chld, with no help from his biological "dad" whatsoever. I'm not looking for sympathy, only help. Sorry to make this so long, I tend to talk too mch in times of emotional distress, but this is all very sincere. I'm even willing to give my cell phone # upon request, Any donations are greatly appreciated. God bless you!

need to work

Posted by eyeseeyou on 2011-03-24 16:58:04

Hi my name is Steve,
I live in fresno ca. I recently missed a court date do to working and got a bench warrant for a failure to appear which led to me getting my licence suspended. I am recently self employed in remodeling and can no longer schedule work. please help or give any suggestions thanks and god bless!!!! my phone number is (559) 251-0226

No where to turn

Posted by Timmykins on 2011-03-18 13:58:18

Through a series of bad decisions and poor judgements i have found myself in the worst situation i could ever imagine. I lost my job 2 years ago as an explosives engineer in Virginia and ever since my life has been a downward spiral through trying to find stable work and maintain my bills. I took a leap of faith in october and decided to quit a decent job to help my sick mother start a small country market. She has Huntingtons disease and suffers from depression. I put what little money i had into the store and gave up my apartment to live above this store along with her so that we were close and available at any time. Long story short she ended up having a mental breakdown, Sucumbing to paranoid dillusions and conspiracy theories, and firing all but herself and a guy she had been dating for only a month prior to opening. When we started the store she agreed to pay my child support, rent and cell phone instead of a paycheck until the business started turning a profit. I wanted to help b/c she is my mother above all else. Now i have a warrant out for my arrest b/c i have been unable to pay DCSE. Because of this warrant i cannot get a job. My Ex-wife tried contacting the judge and DCSE and its done absolutely no good. She has since cancelled the support and we have come up with a private agreement but being as i still owe 3700 i still have a warrant out and as i said, i cannot even get a job. The system makes no sense and i dont wanna lose out on the next 6 months of my girls lives. Granted, i got myself into this situation by putting my faith into someone i shouldve known better than to put my faith in to and i dontt like asking for anything especially when its nobodys responsibility but my own, but i am left with little option. I am asking for any kind of help anyone might offer. I have an extensive background in construction managment and general construction from a field of grass all the way up to the shingles on the roof. If you live in virginia and need some help im more than happy to work in exchange for your donation. Thank you for taking the time to read my plea for help and god bless.

Out of work for over a year and a court date next week!

Posted by cadilee2006 on 2011-02-21 20:58:05

I have been out of work for over a year. I apply for jobs and I just can't get interviews! I got pulled over last month because my registration was expired. I have a court date on Monday. I need $350 to take care of registration and pay my fines. If I don't get it I will not be able to get to my court date, I will have a warrant out for my arrest and if I go to jail I won't get caught back up! Please if anyone can help me! I got fired from my job last December and got denied unemployment! And everyone says "oh, everything will work out". They LIE!

help me within the date of 13th of this month.

Posted by dec1985 on 2011-02-10 07:58:58

good evening sir/madam,
i am sarma,
working as a employee,
but, there is no improve in my past 25 yrs,
i have not earned so lot of money,buildings etc.,
ONLY EARNED age only,
now i am in 43 yrs. old,
the main age of earning has lost in my life,
there is no STRENGTH to earn money,
now,
i am in a MAIN PROBLEMs
like,
1. court case - THE CASE HAS DECESSION ON 15TH OF THIS MONTH, IF THE JUDGEMENT HAS LOST MY SELF, I AM going into the PRISON - with non-bailable warrant,

2. MONEY LENDING - the money lender has issued WARNING, pay before 13th of this month, in case not paid, the money lender has taken action with me, which is his opinion.

i have no sufficient salary also, there is a source to me if i have the total salary, the more of recoveries are there.

if u want show that evidence's i will show my self,
and my position also.

I want a minimum of Rs.5,00,000/- (rupees FIVE LAKS ONLY)THE help i want one side r more from.
i want a financial help only, i will repay the amount within the short period, i cann't paying any interest to that amount.
if any one INTERESTED TO adjust the amount with the date of 13TH OF THIS MONTH (13.02.2011)
PLEASE CONTACT TO MY SELF TO THIS MOB NO.09866621473 or evaturibros@in.com immeidately.
please, please please, please, please, please, please.

23 Year Old College Graduate Swamped in Debt - Can't Find Job

Posted by jeienn on 2011-01-11 18:58:58

I just want to live a comfortable life.

I'm not homeless, I'm not facing foreclosure, and I'm not dying. I just need help getting out of debt after graduating from college. I've tried finding a decent job to no avail, and I need help to get my life started.

I have a B.A. in Psychology and Anthropology. I graduated in May 2010. I have been looking for a job diligently since then. I haven't been able to find anything. Everything that is available would warrant me to continue my education, but I cannot afford that, because education has left me over $30,000 in debt!!

So far, the only job I can hold onto is a retail job that only pays me $7.45 an hour and I only have 5 hours this week! I have no money saved...I can't afford to move, pay my bills, car insurance, or pay any of my loans.

I had to move in with my grandparents as a result. I'm miserable, I have no privacy, and I just want to be an independent adult. I want to get my debt paid so I can start my life! Please help!!

I know this may not be the sappiest story you've ever heard, but my situation is pretty bad, and I put so much effort into avoiding the situation. Unfortunately, the job market isn't looking for anyone with a bachelor's in psychology. I'm just a real, honest, 23 year old woman, trying to make it out in the real world. Please donate.

Single Parent in Need

Posted by bigcat on 2010-11-24 10:58:58

I am reaching out in sheer desperation as I am a single parent of two boys facing eviction. I have been looking for permanent employment for over a year, but only landing a few temporary opportunities and an odd job or two. My last assignment ended in August and I have been searching for employment with no avail to date. Having gaps in income has sent me spiraling in a severe financial deficit.
Imaging being faced with losing it all and struggling to maintain a positive outlook as the head of household; it's been extremely tough. Within the past two months since my last assignment, my vehicle was taken due to repossession, and I have found myself two months behind in rent.
Last Thursday, I received notice for rent court that is a warrant for repossession of the property.
I am frantic, afraid, and worried, because my children have always known their own home. There has been a barrage of questions entering my mind concerning, where we would sleep, if we were ultimately evicted. Would we sleep in a shelter, park bench, or hostile? Would we be safe? Would we be warm?
My two boys are great children, just how would eviction, affect them?
For these reasons, I am pleading for help to save my family. I have never considered doing anything of this sort, but at present, I will do whatever it takes to save our home.
If there is anyone out there that would find it in their heart to help a struggling family, I would be graciously accept donations of any amount. I currently owe my rental company a total of $2,200.55.
Additionally, I am still in desperate need of permanent income. I have over 10 years of administrative office and executive level assistant experience. If anyone has any information regarding permanent employment ,I can provide my resume that lists my work history and skill set. I am seeking employment in the UK. All comments and opportunities can be forwarded via email at edward.gat65@gmail.com.
Thank you in advance for taking time and consideration!
Sincerely,
Single Parent

Single Parent Plea

Posted by SingleParentPlea on 2010-11-14 19:58:58

I am reaching out in sheer desperation as I am a single parent of two boys facing eviction. I have been looking for permanent employment for over a year, but only landing a few temporary opportunities and an odd job or two. My last assignment ended in August and I have been searching for employment with no avail to date. Having gaps in income has sent me spiraling in a severe financial deficit.

Imaging being faced with losing it all and struggling to maintain a positive outlook as the head of household; it's been extremely tough. Within the past two months since my last assignment, my vehicle was taken due to repossession, and I have found myself two months behind in rent.

Last Thursday, I received notice for rent court that is a warrant for repossession of the property, my court date is in two weeks.

I am frantic, afraid, and worried, because my children have always known their own home. There has been a barrage of questions entering my mind concerning, where we would sleep, if we were ultimately evicted. Would we sleep in a shelter, park bench, or hostile? Would we be safe? Would we be warm?

My two boys are great children, just how would eviction, affect them?

For these reasons, I am pleading for help to save my family. I have never considered doing anything of this sort, but at present, I will do whatever it takes to save our home.

If there is anyone out there that would find it in their heart to help a struggling family, I would be graciously accept donations of any amount. I currently owe my rental company WP & M Real Estate Group a total of $2,200.55.

If you would like to make a donation directly to the management group, I can provide you with the pertinent information via email.

Additionally, I am still in desperate need of permanent income. I have over 10 years of administrative office and executive level assistant experience. If anyone has any information regarding permanent employment ,I can provide my resume that lists my work history and skill set. I am seeking employment in the Baltimore/DC Metro Region. All comments and opportunities can be forwarded via email at singleparentplea@gmail.com.

Thank you in advance for taking time and consideration!

Sincerely,

Single Parent

Please Reunite Me With My Miniature Pinschers

Posted by cvxfire on 2010-11-07 12:58:58

My name is Clinton Vestal, and I am 36 years old.

I was born and raised in California, and lived there until 2005. My mom and I moved to Oklahoma, because it became to expensive to live in California.

In the past 3 months, I have had a run of bad luck, and need some financial help to get back on my feet.

In July, my mom and I decided to move back to California. Unfortunately, on our way there, my mom had a stroke and passed away.

I decided to go back to Oklahoma, but as I was traveling through Arizona, I found out that I had a warrant for a traffic ticket that I didn't appear in court for, and was taken to jail. My dogs were taken to the local humane society, and my vehicles were towed away. After serving 18 days in jail, I went back to claim my dogs, and found out thay they wanted a large sum of money to get the out.

I tried borrowing from friends, but because of the economy, no one was able to help.

My dogs are my # 1 priority, and I love them very much. They are really the only family that I have left.

If you can find it in your heart to help me in this difficult time, it would be greatly appreciated.

If feel time is quickly running out for my dogs. I have many sleepless nights thinking about my mom and dogs.

Please if you can help me, I will definately pay it forward as soon as I get back on my feet. Even if you can afford $1, it gets me 1 step closer to being reunited with my dogs.

If you would like to contact me in person, below is my e-mail address:

cvxfire@yahoo.com

Thank You
Clinton Vestal

Please Reunite Me With My Miniature Pinschers

Posted by cvxfire on 2010-10-03 23:58:58

My name is Clinton Vestal, and I am 36 years old.

I was born and raised in California, and lived there until 2005. My mom and I moved to Oklahoma, because it became to expensive to live in California.

In the past 3 months, I have had a run of bad luck, and need some financial help to get back on my feet.

In July, my mom and I decided to move back to California. Unfortunately, on our way there, my mom had a stroke and passed away.

I decided to go back to Oklahoma, but as I was traveling through Arizona, I found out that I had a warrant for a traffic ticket that I didn't appear in court for, and was taken to jail. My dogs were taken to the local humane society, and my vehicles were towed away. After serving 18 days in jail, I went back to claim my dogs, and found out thay they wanted a large sum of money to get the out.

I tried borrowing from friends, but because of the economy, no one was able to help.

My dogs are my # 1 priority, and I love them very much. They are really the only family that I have left.

If you can find it in your heart to help me in this difficult time, it would be greatly appreciated.

If feel time is quickly running out for my dogs. I have many sleepless nights thinking about my mom and dogs.

Please if you can help me, I will definately pay it forward as soon as I get back on my feet. Even if you can afford $1, it gets me 1 step closer to being reunited with my dogs.

If you would like to contact me in person, below is my e-mail address:

cvxfire@yahoo.com

Thank You
Clinton Vestal

Please Reunite Me With My Miniature Pinschers

Posted by cvxfire on 2010-09-27 14:58:58

My name is Clinton Vestal, and I am 36 years old.

I was born and raised in California, and lived there until 2005. My mom and I moved to Oklahoma, because it became to expensive to live in California.

In the past 3 months, I have had a run of bad luck, and need some financial help to get back on my feet.

In July, my mom and I decided to move back to California. Unfortunately, on our way there, my mom had a stroke and passed away.

I decided to go back to Oklahoma, but as I was traveling through Arizona, I found out that I had a warrant for a traffic ticket that I didn't appear in court for, and was taken to jail. My dogs were taken to the local humane society, and my vehicles were towed away. After serving 18 days in jail, I went back to claim my dogs, and found out thay they wanted a large sum of money to get the out.

I tried borrowing from friends, but because of the economy, no one was able to help.

My dogs are my # 1 priority, and I love them very much. They are really the only family that I have left.

If you can find it in your heart to help me in this difficult time, it would be greatly appreciated.

If feel time is quickly running out for my dogs. I have many sleepless nights thinking about my mom and dogs.

Please if you can help me, I will definately pay it forward as soon as I get back on my feet. Even if you can afford $1, it gets me 1 step closer to being reunited with my dogs.

If you would like to contact me in person, below is my e-mail address:

cvxfire@yahoo.com

Thank You
Clinton Vestal

Please Reunite Me With My Miniature Pinschers

Posted by cvxfire on 2010-09-27 13:58:58

My name is Clinton Vestal, and I am 36 years old.

I was born and raised in California, and lived there until 2005, because it became to expensive to live in california.

In the past 3 months, I have had a run of bad luck, and need some financial help to get back on my feet.

In July, my mom and I decided to move back to California. Unfortunately, on our way there, my mom had a stroke and passed away.

I decided to go back to Oklahoma, but as I was traveling through Arizona, I found out that I had a warrant for a traffic ticket that I didn't appear in court for, and was taken to jail. My dogs were taken to the local humane society, and my vehicles were towed away. After serving 18 days in jail, I went back to claim my dogs, and found out thay they wanted a large sum of money to get the out.

I tried borrowing from friends, but because of the economy, no one was able to help.

My dogs are my # 1 priority, and I love them very much. They are really the only family that I have left.

If you can find it in your heart to help me in this difficult time, it would be greatly appreciated.

If feel time is quickly running out for my dogs. I have many sleepless nights thinking about my mom and dogs.

Please if you can help me, I will definately pay it forward as soon as I get back on my feet. Even if you can afford $1, it gets me 1 step closer to being reunited with my dogs.

Thank You
Clinton Vestal

Please Reunite Me With My Miniature Pinschers

Posted by cvxfire on 2010-09-23 15:58:58

My name is Clinton Vestal, and I am 36 years old.

I was born and raised in California, and lived there until 2005. My mom and I moved to Oklahoma in late 2005 because it became to expensive to live in California.

In the past 3 months, I have had a run of bad luck, and need some financial help to get back on my feet.

In July, my mom and I decided to move back to California. Unfortunately, on our way there, my mom had a stroke and passed away.

I decided to go back to Oklahoma, but as I was traveling through Arizona, I found out that I had a warrant for a traffic ticket that I didn't appear in court for, and was taken to jail. My dogs were taken to the local humane society, and my vehicles were towed away. After serving 18 days in jail, I went back to claim my dogs, and found out that they wanted a large sum of money to get them out.

I tried borrowing money from friends, but because of the economy, no one was able to help.

My dogs are my #1 priority, and I love them very much. They are really the only family I have left.

If you can find it in your heart to help me in this difficult time, it would be greatly appreciated.

Thank You
Clinton Vestal

My Daughter Needs Me! I Need A Lawyer, ASSAP! A Job!

Posted by lsivad71 on 2010-09-19 10:58:58

I have a 6 year old daughter who needs me, but my ex-wife is trying to keep me out of her life. Right now the court order states; that we share parenting. However, I feel that the other things in the order makes it easy for me to fail. I have a child support order and the bulk of the financial responsibility in on me; she makes more money than me also.

You see, I could not afford an Attorney when we went through the divorce and still can't. I felt that as long as I was in my daughters life at least half the time that she would turn out fine...but now the courts and my ex-wife is at it again. I fail behind in the child support order and I have a $1400 bench warrant on me and my parenting time is being threaten.

My daughter; she is a sweet high spirited little girl by nature (like so many other kids), but it is up to the parents if they stay that way. That's where I come in (without getting in any details). My daughter and I have a really tight bond. It will tear her apart if the my ex-wife and the court have their way! Nobody have the best interest of my daughter in hand!

There is so much more to be said, and I have no problem in sharing our story. I need help with retaining an attorney, ASSAP! I just founded out that we have a court date sometime this week; I never received anything, that's I am not sure of the date. When the sheriff contacted me about the warrant, he then told me.

Nowhere else to turn..

Posted by Shay on 2010-07-08 08:58:58

Well, I know that times are hard for everyone. I know that I am especially no exception to that. Everyone needs help, the economy isn't the same. People need work, and people need a helping hand. Well, I have nowhere else to turn. I have no one else to depend on. The world can feel like a pretty scary place; when you look around and realize your all alone. In this moment one of my darkest hours, I am thankful to at least have one friend.

Though they cant help me financially, I now have a roof over my head. For that I am truly thank full. But, it has been a hard and rocky road. It all started over a year ago. I was living in New Jersey I thought I had my life planned out. I thought I would marry, finish school, and have children.

Then one day I came home and found my reality turn upside down. The man I thought I knew so well, wasn't who I thought he was. He stole everything. I had nothing. My family is small and they don't have financial backing to help me. Which is like a lot of American people now. But, my mother did have a place. It needed a lot of work, but it gave me a place to go.

I moved out of state and moved into her vacation home. Which now is on the verge of her losing due to her increasing financial situation. But, I went down to try and fix the place up and get back on my feet. Within a couple months of being there, I thought I meet a very caring person. No they didn't offer me money, but they offered me work.

I thought this person was truly amazing. He would buy my gifts and make me feel like I had a chance at a new start. We worked together for several months, before I realized there was something wrong with the facade that they had showed me. The problem was though that person's facade was built up also by their family. This made the story of how great they were more believable. I believed I was over reacting that I was being prejudging because of my past situation.

But, I should have trusted my gut instinct. I should have realized that my instinct should always be listened to. By the time I realized there was something wrong and this person was not who I thought they were, it was already to late. I decided one evening in July of last year to end things with this person.

I never thought for one moment, I would have to worry about anything. I was under a false assumption that we would end things and go our separate ways. But, I was truly wrong. Very wrong. That night I tried my hardest to end things. But, things went very wrong. They became angry, threatening, and even violent. They destroyed the property and also shattered my trust.

Two thousand dollars in damage was done to the property, but the personal damage done to me is beyond financial consideration. When the police showed up at my home, I showed them (what that did not see obviously with the outside damage they saw when I showed them the damage inside the property) the damage and explained what happen.

When this person was arrested, and the state was going to prosecute I truly thought I would be safe. I again was truly wrong. For months after he harassed me, calling, showing up all hours of the night, and showing up where ever I was.

Yes I took action. I filed with a domestic violence order of protection. I assumed that within him being served the papers this would all finally be behind me. But it wasn't. I was granted the order of protection and assumed I could be safe. But when he called and then the next day showed back up on my property I realized I needed to call the police.

I felt he truly believed with time, I would look past what he had done to me. That I would forgive him and take him back, but I don't believe anyone especially a women deserves to be brutalized physically. I knew in my own mind, I would never take him back. It wasn't until I called the police on him did he too realize I wouldn't. When they went to arrest him for breaking the order of protection, he become angry.

I assume he wanted revenge. Because within a week of him suppose to be arrested, the police showed up at my home. They had a warrant to check the property for stolen goods. I explained to them that I have never been in trouble with the law nor would I have a problem with them coming into the home.

Little did I realize, the gifts that I found so flattering just 3-6 months before were stolen. He was obviously a much darker person than I had originally realized. I have to assume it was him, because all they took from the home were the gifts he had given me. I was charged with possession of stolen goods. It wasn't until all this had happen, that I decided to research who he was.

I fond out he had a dark past that I was not aware of. He had been in prison for over ten years. He had abused another women, damaged her property, and also had kidnapping charges, and robbery charges. I decided to write an article about my own experience to help prevent others from going through what I did. But for the next month or so I felt isolated and alone.

I knew no one in the state, for I was not from there. I went there looking for a chance to rebuild my life and found it more shattered than it had originally been. When my brother decided he needed a change for his son (he is a single parent) and wanted to move to Connecticut he asked if I wanted to leave the state and go with him to try in Connecticut. I felt I had nothing more to lose at this point and since I had nothing there I decided to go with him.

When I moved to Connecticut, I found a job and started to save money for what I knew there would be many trips down to the state I had left to fight for my innocence. But, unfortunately I lost the job within a month of being here. My brother had by then found work finally. But, when he realized I didn't have work, he decided I had to go. So I was kicked out of my place and left with nothing.

Thankfully for my friend I was fortunate enough to be able to stay there. The problem now lies with my situation I am currently in. I have been given a public defender, who this whole time I have only spoke with maybe three times in the last 8 months. She has done nothing to help me and supposedly is defending me, but the sad part is she doesn't even know my side of the story.

Every time I called she was/ is never available. When I explained to her( or I should say her assistant) I had just been kicked out and had no money or place to go, and that I desperately needed to change the court date she said that wouldn't be a problem and she would take care of it. It wasn't until two days later (now able to stay with a friend), I was able to use a phone and call her.

Come to find out she didn't even try to represent me. I was given a bench warrant untop of my other charge. I feel now I am truly alone, and more so scarred. I don't know what else to do. I don't even know if anyone will even take the time to hear my story. I know that there are so many shady people out there it's hard to know who is being honest and who is just trying to use other people. I can understand.

I feel my trust has been shattered beyond repair. I feel lost and completely alone. The worse part is I have done the research, it will take 8,000 dollars for a lawyer to represent me and remove the bench warrant to give me the opportunity to show that I am innocent. I ask myself how can I possible do that? I have nothing. Now I have no family, no friends, nothing. Well, I can't say no friends, for I do have one who might not have anything to give.. But they did give me a roof over my head.

That is more than anyone has give the past year or so. I just didn't know where else to turn. So, I decided I would share my story. Just maybe some people will read it. If enough people read it and help with just a dollar, ten dollars, 20 dollars, who knows it could add up and help me. I do want to work, but I am scarred. I know if I work they will find me. I will have then no chance to fight for my innocence. They wont even want to hear my side.

I don't think they will believe that I truly just didn't have money to get down and be at my court date. I would have been, but I didn't expect to get kicked out or that everything would end up where it is now. I don't know if anyone will help. Or if they will just say its my own problem and move on. But, if I don't ask.. If I don't say anything.. How would I ever truly know. Yes you have all right say no. That it isn't your problem. Or that I need to grow up and handle my own business.

But, I believe in hope. Who knows maybe some people will say they have a couple dollars to give. Maybe some people will have some advice to share. I believe in hope, I wont allow myself any longer to drown in the sea of nos. Just maybe you will be the one to say yes and help me. I'm just thankful for whoever reads this post, for taking the time to hear my side. I guess that is all I can really ask for. Thank you everyone for your time.



Desperate