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I live on the streets of Palmdale california, Im 42, male and never had a date or a girlfriend because I am too unattractive. I have no friends and sit alone every birthday and every Christmas. I have no family and nobody to help me. My life sucks horribly because of the unfair hand I was dealt. plz help if u can.

Recently, I was arrested on hearsay for a DV charge. The charge was dropped because it was untrue & unjust. I was the one assaulted; the judge concurred. Unfortunately, the altercation occurred at 3am on a Friday morning, on MLK weekend, and so what should've been a 12-hour stay, turned into 5 days. In the interim, my 4-year old daughter was kidnapped by CPS, simply because we have no family there--not for any other reason.
Upon my release, I discover that my daughter's already been handed to a foster home & that a hearing had been set for that morning; no one had even bothered to TRY to contact me about it. In my haste, I rushed to the courthouse next door, oblivious of a marijuana pipe I had in my possession (it may sound cliche, but it wasn't mine; I don't even smoke). I didn't get arrested for having it, but this is where the real problem began.
To make a long story short, I pled guilty ONLY to hurry & get my daughter out of a stranger's house & agreed to have her placed with her VERY part-time father who'd only seen her on average 10 days a year since birth (his choice).
Since then, he's attempted to cut me off from her--denying calls & visits. I obtained an attorney, so thus far I've been allotted ONE day per week for 4 hours to see the child I've raised alone since birth!
Additionally, I've worked for her father for 5 years--he's snatched that from me as well. He went on to choose a facility that costs $180 per visit! So, I have no income now, no employment & I have to drive 7 hours to get there. Friends and family have run out of resources to assist me. I still owe the attorney over $1,000 & until visitation is adjusted I'll have to keep paying this ridiculous amount.
I am not your typical stereotype of this sort of matter. I'm college-educated. So are my parents. I grew up middle-class. This is so unfair to me & my child. I've seen her cry before over an injury or hurt feelings, but never before over a broken heart. I MUST make these visits. If you can and are interested in helping, please click the link below:

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Hi, I'm not going to give you some (fake)sob story to try and get you to feel sorry for me and I am quite embarresed to have to be doing this, Im a 21 yr old girl and Ive been looking for a job for ages and havnt managed to get one yet and I have 2 debts from catalogues( was unable to pay them as lost my job) they are now takin legal action and will come round to my mums property where I am currently living and take her belongings which I think is unfair. she cant afford to help me and has my little brother to look after also this is causing her a lot of worry. so I am asking you PLEASE to help me pay them off, I owe 873 all together and if you can even make a small donation Id be so gratefull..Also I promise when I finally manage to get a job I will refund the money back to the paypal adress you donated with. THANK YOU SOOO MUCH, it means alot :D Take care

Hello,

I need to raise $1700 to bail my boyfriend. I'm the only person he's got and he can't even get a good lawyer because he's stuck in jail with no money. He needs to be out so that he can take the proper measures to ensure that he gets a fair trial!!! PLEASE someone anyone help this is so unfair.

An American reject
Dear Sir or Madam,

I am writing because I have found an injustice that it seems no one else has noticed. I know that I am only one person, but they say one voice CAN make a difference.

I know many people who have made their share of mistakes  we all have sinned no one is perfect. Some just get caught up, can't afford a lawyer and   And want to confess, hoping there would be some type of leniency.  Considering they were young and didn't realize this would affect them the rest of their life. and i have tried to correct each mistake i  have made. The question I pose is how long is a person supposed to pay for those mistakes? Everyday I see people who are doing there best to clean up there life and get a job; but because they are felons/ or have a heinous misdemeanor as society feels that is a liability.  they are turned away from having a better life. That not only affects them and their families but it also affects society. If a man or woman is trying to lead an honest life and jobs are turning those individuals away what’s left? Go back to “the block”? If they get back in the streets they take the risk of losing there *freedom* but if they keep being turned away from jobs because of their past they risk losing there homes and families too. So what is a person to do after all we make mistakes.  Some are just smarter, or maybe they just know how to hold a lie like Casey anthony. But how is it fair for an employer to turn me away for being honest about my past. After all it was 13 years ago and did I ever really know how hard of a punishment and debt that I would half to pay to society as well to my unthought of family at the time.  My decision as a child is affecting my now 10 year old.  I made a mistake i feel like I would of been better off stoned to death I'n the center of the city.  Than to go on continue getting turned down left and right I don't know how long I can go on like this.  Where is the justice for me? Do I no longer have rights.  Am I considered a worthless piece of trash now that I have a conviction a black cloud holding over my head? From 13 years ago I was 18!!  How fair is that for my family NOW! Something needs to be done.  Justice for all!!! These employers shouldn't have the right to go as far back and discriminate. There should be a 7 year law.  After all there is a clean sleight after bankruptcy.  There able to wipe their debt clean as if they owed nothing.  Why can't we. Why is there some type of stigma.  For people that have been convicted and have never gotten convicted again.  That's showing you were trying to live as productive as we can I'n society.  But trying is the key word here because I feel I can't even get a chance!  

Despite what people may think, individuals who have records also have families they have to care for. Once a person has paid there debt to society for there crime and is making noticeable effort to clean up and live right they should have the opportunity to do just that, not be sentenced to a life of crime because there is no other way to survive. I’m sorry but McDonalds and Burger King just isn’t going to cut it with a 30 year old man or woman with 3 kids. This is supposed to be America, the land of opportunity and justice for all, but where is the justice for these people?

I feel very strongly about this and I would love to see justice made true. I plan to write every address and person I can find. I plan to be that one voice that is letting as many people know that this is wrong and unfair according to plain ethics and the so called American Dream.

I truly hope this reaches out to you and I hear back from you soon. I don’t know if a 32 year old female who is living a life like the one I explained above is going to make a difference but I can say at least I am trying make a difference.

It's verry hard for me. I can't find work. I have no health insurance. And recently I need work done on my mouth that I can't afford to pay for. I don't know where to turn. I can't afford a Christmas for my daughter. And if unemployment dint get passed for 2012 were screwed. There's been days of me going without to bed hungry so my daugter can eat. Sometimes I think of ending my life cuz I'm some useless pice of crap that can't make it I'n this word. But my daughter gives me strength and with god I know all this are possible. I won't give up, I'll keep fighting. It's just so hard. Abd it doesn't get any Easyer I'n this small town. If you know of anything that can help me and my child please feel free to call. 484-560-0090. Something's gotta give there's gotta be a way out... -Ceecee

Please remember Gods loves everyone and gave his life for EVERYONE to live even convicted misdemeanors.

Yours truly an American reject

Thanks for taking the time!
I am a single parent of two children, ages 16 and 14. I work full-time and attend school full-time as well. It has been very hard for me to keep my freezer and refrigerator full so that my children and I can eat. I have hardly provided for my family since the economy took a turn for the worse. I don't make much money. I tried to apply for assistance to be able to provide food for my household, and was turned away because of my gross monthly income, which I think it's unfair how the system works against people who are trying to make a living for their family versus the ones who don't attempt to try for a part-time job even, nor further their education. It has been very stressful for me, but I know God will see all of us through but to that is not enough! .i am in dyer need of financial assistance...please help i have no emergency funds . Everytime my kids ask me for something i can't give them anything. To note, i have worked 2 job for 2 years (doing the paper delivery everyday, i couldnt physically handle it any more. I am truly broke in every thing. I really need some help before my rent is due cause for the second time im short..please i need your help. thanks for reading ;( i cant even afford my diabetic supplies which i have been for 18 years with this disease....this is the hardest tim i have ever had..now everyone in my family is suffering help me please

Well, first let me thank everybody who donates. Here is my story. I'm a 38 year old man with a 9 year old son. I live in a very small town with no jobs. Seems God has forgotten me, and life is beyond unfair. My turn for the worse came 10 years ago, when I lost my firstborn son in the delivery room. He lived 5 minutes, and was buried the next day. I called into work, for a few days to grieve, and they told me to take as much time as I need. Within 3 days, the boss calls and tells me I'm fired for missing 3 days of work. I thought life couldn't get any worse than that. I was wrong.

Right about 3 years ago, I had just got out of college and found a job. My life was good, and I had a nice vehicle. I was driving home about 1 a.m. on a 70 mile per hour interstate. I saw no lights, I saw nothing but open road. Then instantly, I hit something hard and had a airbag in my face. Long story short, a couple was arguing on the side of the road. They had no hazard lights on their car, and the car was dark maroon, very hard to see. The male was holding a gun to the female, and when he saw my vehicle coming, he pushed her into the interstate. I hit her, and she died instantly. He is charged with murder, but he took two lives that night.

My vehicle was totaled, because her body damaged my V6 engine beyond repair, and the value compared to the cost equaled out even with insurance. So I didn't get a new vehicle, the insurance company simply paid off my truck. The police held me while investigating for 2 days. So the local newspaper wrote up the article as if I was a 'killer who runs people over'. The investigation showed I did nothing wrong, and witnesses on the scene with the couple admitted that the girls boyfriend pushed her.

I went into work that Monday morning, and my boss tells me that they have to fire me because my accident gave the company a 'bad name'. It's been 3 years, and the economy and job market is worse than ever. I can't find a job, and don't have a vehicle to drive to look for a job.

I need any help with donations, so I can move to a bigger city, one with a transit/ bus/ train system that I can get my own self around the city and look for work. Needless to say Christmas is coming soon and I have no money to buy my son anything. I have nothing. I hardly have any hope left. It's probably needless to say, that I also have gum disease and need oral surgery. I have nothing, I live with family, and getting more depressed by the day. I hear people complaining about paying bills, well, I wish I had a job and bills to pay. Anyway, that's my story. Thanks in advance to anyone who donates anything. Any amount will help.

I have an 18-year old daughter, busy with her final exams in order to go to university next year. She is very talented and gifted in playing piano and saxophone. She would like to become a professional musician. As I don`t have the money to send her to university, it will be unfair to witheld her the opportunity. If anyone is interested in donating something, it will be appreciated, and upon request, I will let you have her CV. If possible, and you have a list of friends or a list of companies to which you can forward our NEED, we will appreciate it as well - maybe someone will help.

I am at my wit's end. I was laid off two years ago and have not been able to find a job for two years, from which at he same time i also was dealing with ending a failing and physically/mentally abusive marriage needless to say he does not even acknowledge the fact that he has children who are suffering financially, so with no help from my ex husband, i have no friends and family who is willing to financially help or support me in this terrible time in my life and i am a single mother with eight children who range in ages 16yrs- 3yrs I humbly beg whom ever can help me keep my utilites on; which i have recieved notices for interruption and discontinuance as soon as next week; Please help to feed and clothe my family, I have birthday's back to back, the holiday's approaching and i have nothing to give them, I feel alone and like such a failure, i can't seem to stop crying and even considering immoral options in order to make ends meet for my kid's, they didn't ask to be in such an unfair situation. I thank you in advance for opening your hearts to me and reading my story.

I'm a girl, 17, studying in singapore in a polytechnic now in diploma in hospitality & tourism management as a year 1 student.
As you would know, this course requires a lot of travelling to overseas and there's one up this september and another in feb 2012 and more to come up.

I don't have the money to pay for these trips as I had to went to the Ministry Of Youth Development & Sports to complain about my parents that they are not bankrupt or jobless and yet they refuse to allow me to further my studies during the period of administration to polytechnics. They got scared and thus they had no choice but to allow me to study since I was under them till 21 years old.

However, when I approach them with regards to all this overseas trip and asking them to fund it, they say that these trips were irrelevant and don't see the need to go for it. They told me to lie to the organisers that my family is poor and had no money to pay for it and if the organisers insist on going, then ask them to pay for you.

I don't see why I have such stingy parents! Do you know where their money go? They invest it in my younger sister, buying good quality stuffs for her! Bringing her out on weekends to high end restaurants and buying branded stuffs for her while I only much on bread and rice for meals. Even if my bag is torn, I have to starve to save money to buy a new one. Don't you think this is so unfair? I'm their flesh and blood after all!

I really need help from good Samaritans like you guys. Please donate my a dollar or more if you could so I could get money for my school's compulsory overseas trips. I need $1500 for the coming trip in September and $2000 in the next trip.

Please help me.

I'm studying in singapore in a polytechnic now in diploma in hospitality & tourism management as a year 1 student.
As you would know, this course requires a lot of travelling to overseas and there's one up this september and another in feb 2012 and more to come up.

I don't have the money to pay for these trips as I had to went to the Ministry Of Youth Development & Sports to complain about my parents that they are not bankrupt or jobless and yet they refuse to allow me to further my studies during the period of administration to polytechnics. They got scared and thus they had no choice but to allow me to study since I was under them till 21 years old.

However, when I approach them with regards to all this overseas trip and asking them to fund it, they say that these trips were irrelevant and don't see the need to go for it. They told me to lie to the organisers that my family is poor and had no money to pay for it and if the organisers insist on going, then ask them to pay for you.

I don't see why I have such stingy parents! Do you know where their money go? They invest it in my younger sister, buying good quality stuffs for her! Bringing her out on weekends to high end restaurants and buying branded stuffs for her while I only much on bread and rice for meals. Even if my bag is torn, I have to starve to save money to buy a new one. Don't you think this is so unfair? I'm their flesh and blood after all!

I really need help from good Samaritans like you guys. Please donate my a dollar or more if you could so I could get money for my school's compulsory overseas trips. I need $1500 for the coming trip in September and $2000 in the next trip.

Please help me.

No lies, no misleadings, I am looking for donations to help pay off debt. I am in over my head, due to the current economy. My mortgage is more than my house is now worth, banks ever increasing intrest rates It is unfair to the hard working people who do the right thing, pay their bills, hold down a job and are decent people. I am only looking to break even. Please help with what you can, if you can. Thank you and God Bless.

This is very difficult for me as I hold back tears, and pride, but if you knew my dad you will too. One of the most compassionate man on earth. My dad has a few, or a couple of years left of life due to illness, and due ti illness we are losing the family business which he gave all he had too. All his life he has given, and given and in return he gets this. How unfair the world sometimes. My dad has help so many people friends, and strangers, black, and white. To know that we will so lose him if we do not get help tears me apart. He is so loved by many but won't ask for help from anyone. He has had a very tough life growing up in Harlem, and the South Bronx but was able to beat those demons and them wrote a book to help our youth today, but since he is not a celebrity many won't even know about the book.
I am still praying, but now I have swallow my pride and yes I am begging for your help. Please for Gods sake do not allow this great man to leave us like this. He will not stop working. He says he has to built the business up again so he can leave it to his grandchildren, but this is also killing him. God please help us.

Hi i,m a 48 year old male from nova scotia canada.I live alone with my dog,have no children or partner,on a small disability cheque each month.I only have wood for heat,will be out of wood about the end of december,don,t have the extra money to buy more wood.My fridge is near empty,have no vehicle to get around,except for walking,sometimes life seem unfair.If anyone reading this would have a few dollars to help would be greatly thankful.

I need $700 to settle an unpaid income tax bill.

I have a severe physical disability but am able to do freelance work from home. I make enough money to barely scrape by in a decent year (though this has been a rotten, recession-plagued year), but it both (1) IS enough to disqualify me from public assistance and (2) ISN'T enough to keep me, year after year, from facing an unfair 13% self-employment tax that I can't pay. Disabled people who try to be self-reliant but are working poor are caught in a game that's impossible to win, and I'm sick of it! If you have a few dollars to spare, please either click the PayPal button below or fold some cash inside a piece of paper, put it in an envelope, and mail to Boxholder, POB 195, Arcata, CA 95518.

I need $700 to settle an unpaid income tax bill.

I have a severe physical disability but am able to do freelance work from home. I make enough money to barely scrape by in a decent year (though this has been a rotten, recession-plagued year), but it both (1) IS enough to disqualify me from public assistance and (2) ISN'T enough to keep me, year after year, from facing an unfair 13% self-employment tax that I can't pay. Disabled people who try to be self-reliant but are working poor are caught in a game that's impossible to win, and I'm sick of it! If you have a few dollars to spare, please either click the PayPal button below or fold some cash inside a piece of paper, put it in an envelope, and mail to Boxholder, POB 195, Arcata, CA 95518.