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We are a family of three strugling to survive we have a year old daughter and we have no jobs at the moment. we cant pay our home or our car
This is geting unbearable soon we will have no place to go and nothing to eat.

Please help us

God bless you

Wow , Where do I start? Okay, first of all I was collecting unemployment after being laid off. Anyway apparently this quarter does not have enough in it because last year I was out of work for eight weeks following a major surgery. That's what lowered my quarter fro unemployment. I live in a rural area in Wisconsin and I have gone everywhere for help. All of the churches(which won't help), Human services which only helped with food stamps after making me wait over a month. I had to feed my kids from the food pantries which I am grateful for but they have limited items. My utilities and rent and car are all at risk right now. If I don't have a car I can't continue my job search as there is no public transportation.
To further make everything unbearable my youngest brother passed away on November 1st and we have no answers to his death. I just need someone willing to help me get back on my feet. I have taken the only job I could find for now. The pay is terrible and it's only part-time but I thought it would be easier to get a job if I were working. The pay won't cover my rent and utilities and car. I just need a break, Please help!! Please

Dear Sir/Madam
Greetings, Me and my family are farmers located in one of the most remote and rugged regions of Himalayas in India where there are no access to roads or transportations. Our home and fields are situated over the mountain approx. 3500 feet above sea level where the weather is unpredictable which makes farming very hard and life unbearable. All the farm work is done manually by hand by the members of my family. We normally grow garlic in small quantities which we sell to sustain the family for a whole year. As there are no access to roads we have to carry the loads on our backs at times 50 to 80 KG to access the nearest road which is couple of hours down the mountain and is a back breaking process. Even to get small food items we have to be going through this exercise everyday for our survival. Our everyday diet consist of five or six rotis (wheat flour and water mixed and roasted like a pancake) with mostly dal (gravy made out of pulse) with occasional rice two times a day. At times we collect wild vegetables from nearby forest to supplement our diet. Because of lack of nutrition our health conditions also suffer many times in a year. Here even today babies are born in the house. Birth is supervised by one of the older village woman as there are no doctors or any qualified medical people. In cases of emergency we have to carry the patient on our back to the road and any medical attention can be gotten 15 kms further down the road. This has resulted in many deaths in past years with young and old.
Since last two years due to changing weather conditions and untimely rainfall our fields could not yield crops properly. We are poor farmers just scrapping through life trying to stay alive. Added to these problems last year three of my family members one of whom is a six month old baby had deteriorating health conditions which needed hospitalisation and medicines which cost us major portion of the money we could earn by selling our crop. Normally we earn about 50,000 INR in a year by selling garlic and we grow small quantities of wheat and corn enough to keep the family through the year. Due to these sufferings and extra expenditure am now in great distress to be even able to buy seeds to grow crop in our field to sustain ourselves. To have one morsel of food has become a nightmare for all of us and we are nine members in the family with two small babies of 8 months and two years. The future of our survival looks very bleak given the conditions and lack of health and finance to tend the field.
I would be highly grateful if your goodselves would consider me and my family a worthy cause to extend your help to us with 5000 USD which I can use to buy necessary seeds for the crops, few essential medications, a mule for transportation, fix the leaking roof of our home, do little maintenance to our field for yielding more crop and get me, my family andour field back on track as our field is the only source of our survival. My family consist of myself, my sick wife, two sons and two daughters, 2 small babies and a daughter in law. I can provide you with my family snap, address and bank account details upon your heart permitting to help me as whatever I have stated above is genuine and true. Me and my family are seeking this help not because we are lazy but because of protracted and extreme conditions beyond our control which we have been facing since two years continuously under the circumstances outlined above. We need a helping hand to get back on our feet again as your generosity would go a long way in alleviating the sufferings of my family and bring life back into our lives.
Awaiting your kindness and response.
Warm Regards

Negi
ps : If this message is not meant for you plse pass it onto the concerned person. Respond to : pally_jones@yahoo.com

I have worked all my life and never asked for any help. I raised three children and never got food stamps, medicaid, etc. I am now physically unable to continue to work due to health issues. I know I am near the point of being terminated as I have to take medications that cause me to "nod" off or keep me in a fog. If I don't take the meds then the pain is unbearable. I owe $38,000 on a little house I bought. I was homeless for 2 1/2 years due to a layoff and I lost everything including my home. I don't have family or friends to help me. I am 60 years old and started working when I was 10. Lazy is not a part of my makeup. I don't know how long it will take to get SSD approval and I am scared to be homeless again. I don't have any savings or other resources to fall back on. I live on only the necessary requirements (no phone, no cable, no expensive foods, etc). I am missing too much work but the lawyer says I have to be totally off work before applying for SSD. I don't know how I can pay bills, not lose the home, etc if I am not working at all. I just need some help not to lose the house (it is not much but it is a home). The house will get me through as long as I will need it. I am just terrified of being homeless again. I have COPD, excessive narrowing of the spine, degenerative disk that are rapidly becoming worse (more than normal for my age), lose my balance, can't stand up straight, can't sit for long period of time, can't stand more than three minutes, neurological disorder that is causing me to "lose time" (can't find the answer to that one), need to stop driving as I don't know what happens during the losing time periods, episodes of slurred speach, numbness in my arms, hands, legs and feet. This is humiliating as I have always paid my own way and now I am facing this at my age. I need help and have nobody to turn to. I don't know if I wrote this correctly, begging is not an easy task. If there are people out there that really do help others in need then please read this with the understanding of what it is like to be alone in the world, facing being homeless again at my age. I need help with the house, utilities and just survival needs until I can get the SSD going. Thank you for your time.

Filed and completed a Chapter 7 bankruptcy in Jan 2005. Thought that would get me back on my feet. Was affected by Katrina in Aug 2005. Bills and recovery from the hurricane started snowballing and adding up. Lost majority of the house items due to a fallen tree through the roof. Just couldnt catch a break. Managed to get another house even with the bankruptcy, which eventually was foreclosed on. Struggled thru years of money issues and still managed to give 100% to the military. Retired in 2007. Retired pay, nearly half, new it was coming but didnt sink in til it was done. Rated 60% disabled thru the VA. Currently helping 21 year old daughter with cell, auto, and insur, as she attends college. Sadly we are unable to help our 23 year old in college with anything. Luckily, she is very independant and understanding, but the guilt is unbearable. Currently attempting to support our family now including my 18 year old step son with a truck, insur, gas. Wife is out of work. Not enough cs money for food which is supposed to help son from his deadbeat father. Need help to get caught up/ahead, pay off medical bills, and common utilities. Been a very long while since we've had a time to sigh and not have a heavy load on our shoulders. My 21 year old has blessed us with our grand daughter but we can only do so much to help them, nothing extra. We manage to appear happy and the things we do have is it. Have rearranged bills in every way possible and yet again, money spent before the deposit. Any amount would be appreciated. We just need a breather. Please.

I was seriously hurt in a car accident about 9 months ago (another driver came into my lane and hit me) which resulted in a herniated disk in my back that is causing unbearable pain. My husband was laid off from work approximately six weeks prior to the accident and we couldn't afford the COBRA premiums so we are without medical insurance as his new job doesn't have benefit (my employer does not offer health insurance either). The other driver was uninsured so I can't find an attorney to take the case on contingent fee since they don't want to waste their time when there isn't an insurance company to go after. I am in excruciating pain and surgery is the only option to stop the pain, but without insurance, there is no way that I can afford it. It's getting so bad that it's affecting my ability to work. I don't have any family members who are in a position to help either and can't believe that I've turned to this site, but have no other choice. Please help in any way that you can and I promise to donate to others on here once I am able to!

On January 5, 2011, My mom was admitted through emergency for bleeding out of her rectum. At first they thought it was hemorrhoids, and further testing detailed that it was colon cancer. On 1/6/11, without much consultation or time to process my mom was in surgery to remove part of her colon. They removed about a foot of her colon, then did more testing to see where the cancer was. My mom was diagnosed with stage IV cancer, after it had metastasized to her liver. This was an unfathomable diagnosis, as no-one in my family had ever been diagnosed with cancer. They gave my mom six months to live. I could not accept that, and went on a search to help cure my mom. First we went to Mayo Clinic, where they thought they could help. My mom and I traveled there solo, much like we’ve done everything else in our life. She had a liver resection, to remove part of the liver that had majority of the tumors in it.

There I was sitting there in the waiting room, feeling very alone, while the two expert surgeons told me what they had done, and knowing it was a band-aid, hoping to have extended her life. I rejected that then, and I reject it now. I believe God for a cure, and for them to find no traces of cancer in her body, and I receive that which I’ve asked for. She is scheduled to have another round of chemo to hopefully kill what is left. The medical expenses have become unbearable.

I have done tons of research, so much so that I had to start taking sleeping pills to sleep at night. I know that there are ways to help my mom beat this disease, and I think I have found someone who can help. Unfortunately, her treatment protocol is $5900/week, for a minimum of four weeks. My mom is on disability, and I am currently collecting unemployment, as it was too difficult to travel with mom, and hold down a regular job. I have written letters to churches, charities, etc. I have to do whatever I can for my mom, she is my best friend, my brother, my sister, and the only father I’ve ever known.

Absolutely anything would help. Thank you so much, I appreciate your time.

Well where do I start. I just found this website earlier today. I am about to graduate in the spring of 2013 with a bachelors in Computer Science. I work a 9.00 an hour job through college and still currently hold this job, helps me pay for tutition/books etc. The problem I have that causes me severe self esteem problems that get worse and worse are my teeth. They are horrible and gross and are only getting worse. This causes me to be extremely anti social, when presentations are to be done in class I have to explain my situation to my professor and they typically allow me to do my presentation just to them. I have a huge problem going on interviews. As soon as I am done with school I am sure I will be going on a lot of interviews and want to be able to do this with confidence. I can't talk to a girls at all that is out of the question. I just want to have fresh teeth. It is not as bad as a lot of the stories on here but it really does seriously affect me. I have no dental coverage, I had to have emergency procedure done to have my wisdoms removed. They were so infected, I had let them go for so long and finally the pain began to be to unbearable. I went to the ER and now have about 1,000 in medical bills. I hope to pay this off in the future. I would really just like help having the work done on my mouth so I can feel confident again. The only thing that has gotten better is as I have gotten older is my fellow classmates do not abuse me for my teeth (as much) But my confidence is so in the gutter I can't even truly explain. So I am just looking for some assistance. I have a few places I can go to that do special procedures that cause me little pain and can give me a brand new mouth. I also do not qualify for any of the credit companies that would be able to help me. I know there are millions of people on here, if I could get 3,000 people to donate a dollar each I could probably cover the costs. I really appreciate it. Thanks.

Hello and thank you for taking the time to read my post. I am a female living alone with multiple sclerosis 17 years diagnosed...it's been a constant struggle...but I have managed. I have a dog and cat both 13 years old and by the grace of god are ok health wise. They have become my courage. I am in desperate need to make rent...I spent 400 to turn gas n water back on...my other utilities barely made those...I have car insurance due by the 1st as well...nothing left for anything else...my meds are at pharmacy waiting...can't pickup due to not having $125.00 copay..I've been crying and feeling lost...normally I can get it together...this time is unbearable! My b-12 is low causing pain in legs and arms. My husband (ex) left 3 months after I was diagnosed in 94 that day I knew I could not depend on anybody but myself...today not so much..after years of struggling to stay afloat I think my limitations are truly being challenged. Please whatever you can afford would be greatly appreciated! Thank you for your time.

Teach me to catch fish that is exactly what I am asking someone to help me do, so that I will stop always looking for hand outs. A humble, kind and caring person I am but for over six years now I am struggling like hell.Just over four years in marriage with two small kids under four and I feel like I am been washed away in murky waters with only my head above, trying to survive the economic crisis. My husband earns less than $400US each month and it is not even enough for the bills,baby food and other expenses. Relatives has to be giving us a little food sometimes mainly for the kids coupled with the two rooms we now occupy that serves as a kitchen just with a stove and temporary structured bathroom all this makes me feel stifled. I want to help so much it is unbearable. My husband mom has a little shop she is willing to allow us to operate a little business. It is long closed up now and needs to be refurbished. An internet cafe/service center will do well at that location and the estimated cost to start is $3000US, which I am begging you all, all that can afford to donate. Whatever you can help me with. We are not able to save as our bills and expenses are way over our earnings.I am worried about my kids, they are not yet attending school.I am a mature person and I believe it is better to start a business now which will help to employ others in the future. Please Help Me. Thank You All.

Also Beglist is doing a great job and when I became financially stable I will make that onetime donation. Keep up the good work Beglist.

i never thought i would come to this as this is the last resort. I have been having financial issues for 11 years now and tried so hard to get it sorted. My family had so much financial issues and i had to work and educate myself at a young age. I had to take multiple loans and roll from there. I have tried to get a debt consolidation loan but efforts were futile as i am overcommitted. I have a stable job and a 7 month old kid. Things have gotten worse and i am being chased by debt collectors.

i just need to settle my debts and get a fresh start for my family. It is taking a toll and the stress is unbearable.

I do hope that you can support my cause to be out of debt as i have tried everything to sort things out.

should you wish to donate please remit to my paypal account. Thank you so much

Thank you for taking the time to read my request. I am 60 year old disabled senior citizen; because of my abuse as a child I have been unable to function around people and society. Because of my age and so much abuse I am unable to work in the community. I don't make enough money to have insurance on my car, to pay the rent, utilities or phone. Because of my age no one will hire me. I have post traumatic stress disorder from the abuse as a child. I also am diagnosed bipolar. I have a pituitary brain tumor and have equilibrium problems which make life unbearable at times. I am currently on a 3 medications but my insurance does not cover all of my diagnosis. I would be very grateful to any help that you can give. a dollar or five it doesn't matter to me. I appreciate anything. thank you.

Hello, I am writing this for a very dear and loving friend that is dying of stage 4 cancer. She has bone, liver, breast and lympnoid cancer. Her husband of 12 years just recently passed away with brain cancer. He left behind a lot of bills that now rest on my girlfriend. She is being tormented by bill collectors day and night. She has to take medicine to control the unbearable pain from the bone cancer and she goes every Friday to the hospital for her weekly chemo treatment. We struggle every month to pay the rent, car payment, and the normal necessities of living. Granted my girlfriend may be dying but she is still entitled to some quality of life. Please help with what you can. No donation will be refused. I can be contacted at: katmandew_56@yahoo.com thank you

Hello, I am writing this for a very dear and loving friend that is dying of stage 4 cancer. She has bone, liver, breast and lympnoid cancer. Her husband of 12 years just recently passed away with brain cancer. He left behind a lot of bills that now rest on my girlfriend. She is being tormented by bill collectors day and night. She has to take medicine to control the unbearable pain from the bone cancer and she goes every Friday to the hospital for her weekly chemo treatment. We struggle every month to pay the rent, car payment, and the normal necessities of living. Granted my girlfriend may be dying but she is still entitled to some quality of life. Please help with what you can. No donation will be refused. I can be contacted at: katmandew_56@yahoo.com thank you

Hello, I am writing this for a very dear and loving friend that is dying of stage 4 cancer. She has bone, liver, breast and lympnoid cancer. Her husband of 12 years just recently passed away with brain cancer. He left behind a lot of bills that now rest on my girlfriend. She is being tormented by bill collectors day and night. She has to take medicine to control the unbearable pain from the bone cancer and she goes every Friday to the hospital for her weekly chemo treatment. We struggle every month to pay the rent, car payment, and the normal necessities of living. Granted my girlfriend may be dying but she is still entitled to some quality of life. Please help with what you can. No donation will be refused. I can be contacted at: katmandew_56@yahoo.com thank you

Hello, I am writing this for a very dear and loving friend that is dying of stage 4 cancer. She has bone, liver, breast and lympnoid cancer. Her husband of 12 years just recently passed away with brain cancer. He left behind a lot of bills that now rest on my girlfriend. She is being tormented by bill collectors day and night. She has to take medicine to control the unbearable pain from the bone cancer and she goes every Friday to the hospital for her weekly chemo treatment. We struggle every month to pay the rent, car payment, and the normal necessities of living. Granted my girlfriend may be dying but she is still entitled to some quality of life. Please help with what you can. No donation will be refused. I can be contacted at: katmandew_56@yahoo.com thank you

Hello, I am writing this for a very dear and loving friend that is dying of stage 4 cancer. She has bone, liver, breast and lympnoid cancer. Her husband of 12 years just recently passed away with brain cancer. He left behind a lot of bills that now rest on my girlfriend. She is being tormented by bill collectors day and night. She has to take medicine to control the unbearable pain from the bone cancer and she goes every Friday to the hospital for her weekly chemo treatment. We struggle every month to pay the rent, car payment, and the normal necessities of living. Granted my girlfriend may be dying but she is still entitled to some quality of life. Please help with what you can. No donation will be refused. I can be contacted at: katmandew_56@yahoo.com thank you

Hello, I am writing this for a very dear and loving friend that is dying of stage 4 cancer. She has bone, liver, breast and lympnoid cancer. Her husband of 12 years just recently passed away with brain cancer. He left behind a lot of bills that now rest on my girlfriend. She is being tormented by bill collectors day and night. She has to take medicine to control the unbearable pain from the bone cancer and she goes every Friday to the hospital for her weekly chemo treatment. We struggle every month to pay the rent, car payment, and the normal necessities of living. Granted my girlfriend may be dying but she is still entitled to some quality of life. Please help with what you can. No donation will be refused. I can be contacted at: katmandew_56@yahoo.com thank you

Hello, I am writing this for a very dear and loving friend that is dying of stage 4 cancer. She has bone, liver, breast and lympnoid cancer. Her husband of 12 years just recently passed away with brain cancer. He left behind a lot of bills that now rest on my girlfriend. She is being tormented by bill collectors day and night. She has to take medicine to control the unbearable pain from the bone cancer and she goes every Friday to the hospital for her weekly chemo treatment. We struggle every month to pay the rent, car payment, and the normal necessities of living. Granted my girlfriend may be dying but she is still entitled to some quality of life. Please help with what you can. No donation will be refused. I can be contacted at: katmandew_56@yahoo.com thank you

Hello, I am writing this for a very dear and loving friend that is dying of stage 4 cancer. She has bone, liver, breast and lympnoid cancer. Her husband of 12 years just recently passed away with brain cancer. He left behind a lot of bills that now rest on my girlfriend. She is being tormented by bill collectors day and night. She has to take medicine to control the unbearable pain from the bone cancer and she goes every Friday to the hospital for her weekly chemo treatment. We struggle every month to pay the rent, car payment, and the normal necessities of living. Granted my girlfriend may be dying but she is still entitled to some quality of life. Please help with what you can. No donation will be refused. I can be contacted at: katmandew_56@yahoo.com thank you

Hello, I am writing this for a very dear and loving friend that is dying of stage 4 cancer. She has bone, liver, breast and lympnoid cancer. Her husband of 12 years just recently passed away with brain cancer. He left behind a lot of bills that now rest on my girlfriend. She is being tormented by bill collectors day and night. She has to take medicine to control the unbearable pain from the bone cancer and she goes every Friday to the hospital for her weekly chemo treatment. We struggle every month to pay the rent, car payment, and the normal necessities of living. Granted my girlfriend may be dying but she is still entitled to some quality of life. Please help with what you can. No donation will be refused. I can be contacted at: katmandew_56@yahoo.com thank you

Hello, I am writing this for a very dear and loving friend that is dying of stage 4 cancer. She has bone, liver, breast and lympnoid cancer. Her husband of 12 years just recently passed away with brain cancer. He left behind a lot of bills that now rest on my girlfriend. She is being tormented by bill collectors day and night. She has to take medicine to control the unbearable pain from the bone cancer and she goes every Friday to the hospital for her weekly chemo treatment. We struggle every month to pay the rent, car payment, and the normal necessities of living. Granted my girlfriend may be dying but she is still entitled to some quality of life. Please help with what you can. No donation will be refused. I can be contacted at: katmandew_56@yahoo.com thank you

Hello, I am writing this for a very dear and loving friend that is dying of stage 4 cancer. She has bone, liver, breast and lympnoid cancer. Her husband of 12 years just recently passed away with brain cancer. He left behind a lot of bills that now rest on my girlfriend. She is being tormented by bill collectors day and night. She has to take medicine to control the unbearable pain from the bone cancer and she goes every Friday to the hospital for her weekly chemo treatment. We struggle every month to pay the rent, car payment, and the normal necessities of living. Granted my girlfriend may be dying but she is still entitled to some quality of life. Please help with what you can. No donation will be refused. I can be contacted at: katmandew_56@yahoo.com thank you

Hello, I am writing this for a very dear and loving friend that is dying of stage 4 cancer. She has bone, liver, breast and lympnoid cancer. Her husband of 12 years just recently passed away with brain cancer. He left behind a lot of bills that now rest on my girlfriend. She is being tormented by bill collectors day and night. She has to take medicine to control the unbearable pain from the bone cancer and she goes every Friday to the hospital for her weekly chemo treatment. We struggle every month to pay the rent, car payment, and the normal necessities of living. Granted my girlfriend may be dying but she is still entitled to some quality of life. Please help with what you can. No donation will be refused. I can be contacted at: katmandew_56@yahoo.com thank you

Hello, I am writing this for a very dear and loving friend that is dying of stage 4 cancer. She has bone, liver, breast and lympnoid cancer. Her husband of 12 years just recently passed away with brain cancer. He left behind a lot of bills that now rest on my girlfriend. She is being tormented by bill collectors day and night. She has to take medicine to control the unbearable pain from the bone cancer and she goes every Friday to the hospital for her weekly chemo treatment. We struggle every month to pay the rent, car payment, and the normal necessities of living. Granted my girlfriend may be dying but she is still entitled to some quality of life. Please help with what you can. No donation will be refused. I can be contacted at: katmandew_56@yahoo.com thank you