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College Girl needs to pay for summer classes by May 1st
Posted by brittna2014 on 2012-04-24 21:58:42
Single Mom in Dire Ne ed of Assistance with a Legal Case
Posted by snglemomindires on 2012-03-12 20:58:38
Upon my release, I discover that my daughter's already been handed to a foster home & that a hearing had been set for that morning; no one had even bothered to TRY to contact me about it. In my haste, I rushed to the courthouse next door, oblivious of a marijuana pipe I had in my possession (it may sound cliche, but it wasn't mine; I don't even smoke). I didn't get arrested for having it, but this is where the real problem began.
To make a long story short, I pled guilty ONLY to hurry & get my daughter out of a stranger's house & agreed to have her placed with her VERY part-time father who'd only seen her on average 10 days a year since birth (his choice).
Since then, he's attempted to cut me off from her--denying calls & visits. I obtained an attorney, so thus far I've been allotted ONE day per week for 4 hours to see the child I've raised alone since birth!
Additionally, I've worked for her father for 5 years--he's snatched that from me as well. He went on to choose a facility that costs $180 per visit! So, I have no income now, no employment & I have to drive 7 hours to get there. Friends and family have run out of resources to assist me. I still owe the attorney over $1,000 & until visitation is adjusted I'll have to keep paying this ridiculous amount.
I am not your typical stereotype of this sort of matter. I'm college-educated. So are my parents. I grew up middle-class. This is so unfair to me & my child. I've seen her cry before over an injury or hurt feelings, but never before over a broken heart. I MUST make these visits. If you can and are interested in helping, please click the link below:
https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_donations&business=8CJ2A4CYKYFMS&lc=US&item_name=Single%20Mother%20in%20Need&item_number=89130¤cy_code=USD&bn=PP%2dDonationsBF%3abtn_donateCC_LG%2egif%3aNonHosted
Unemployed Homeless 61 white male
Posted by 1unluckysoul on 2012-02-20 10:58:02
Dire Straits. noun. a bad or difficult situation or state of affairs, (not just the name of a band).
Up front, I take full responsibility for my current condition/situation, no other person place or thing is responsible for bad decisions I have made. And I have made quite a few.
That being stated, here are the facts;
Currently living in a car(read that homeless).
Unemployed, not unemployable but a very poor job history.
Stuck in a place where the weather is nice, but I really do not want to be here.
So if you have guessed that this is a plee for help, you are correct.
How did I get here? Years of practice.
I recently spoke with a professional, not in his professional settings, but of subjet matter that is discussed in his professional settings.
After some communications between us his opinion is that quite probably I am suffering from PTSD (Post Tramatic Stress Disorder). Something I aquired at the age of 17. 45 years ago I was involved in an automobile accident that resulted in both deaths, yes plural, and permanent disability to persons other than myself. Although due to circumstances beyond my control I was never charged with any crime, and there are no wants or warrants now, I believe the accident was my fault. I am willing to discuss the details in private as posting them on the internet could possibly bring painful memories to any living family members involved.
So for 45 years I have practiced the symptoms of PTSD so well that I have slipped through undetected. Probably in part due to the fact that although I am of the typical age of a Vietnam Vet, I never served in that arena, as I ran away from home just after the accident, because I was afraid of going to jail, that any draft papers never caught up with me. I was not afraid of going to jail because of being locked behind bars, I was afraid of suffering more sexual abuse at the hands of older inmates like I had already received from my sick alcoholic father.
So not being a vet and not discussing the accident no one ever considered PTSD, and they now know that severe trama of any sort can cause it, not just the theatre of the battlefield. Couple that to me not staying in one spot long enough for anyone to really know me. I have been successfully hiding in my head. As long as I don't get too close too intimate it won't hurt when I run away and lose you.
Severe trama it is now believed to stunt emotional growth. If the trama is severe enough emotional growth can in fact be locked in to the time of the tramatic event. So imagine being a teenager in a 61 year old body, thats me. Married 4 times afraid to have children. I heard on a radio talk show when I was very young that "The sins of the fathers where passed to their offsprings" and made a decision to never have children because no way was I going to do what was done to me to some helpless trusting child. This is one of the few things that I have been successful at.
The professional says I must discuss these matters, that is part of the healing process. So I am jumping in off the deep end, going online with my story in hopes that it will benefit myself and any other poor sod that happens to be in a similar situation.
Yes I am asking for help, financial help. Here with the help of the professional is what I am thinking, If I can find a few thousand lucky individuals that are housed and employed to give one dollar then I can purchase a used motorhome, put it in an inexpensive rv park so that I can have a base of operations from which to take showers on a daily basis, eat hot food and have an address to put on job applications. I could find some form of professional assistance either city/state/federal to deal with the PTSD for the long term.
There is help available.
And just to ease the voices in your head, I have not had a drink of alcohol or any hard drugs since 1982. I have used marijuana on a irregular basis off and on my whole life, I'll see what the PTSD treatment brings regarding that issue.
Honesty, what a concept.
Well if you have read this far, please, if you can afford it, click the paypal button and just one dollar is all I ask.
Thank You,
Joe
Please Help Me Help My Grandpa
Posted by jgmurrayaf on 2012-01-18 10:58:27
Ginni
Need Help Getting A Fresh Start
Posted by kithara29 on 2011-12-27 22:58:56
Iraq Vet needs help!
Posted by mwilson75 on 2011-08-26 09:58:10
Iraq Veteran NEEDS HELP!!
Posted by mwilson75 on 2011-08-26 09:58:09
Iraq VET needs help!
Posted by mwilson75 on 2011-08-26 08:58:59
my daughter
Posted by malone320 on 2011-07-30 22:58:08
Hospital Treatments
Posted by michaelt0123 on 2011-05-21 11:58:57
I am writing because I am currently finding it difficult to pay my bills. It's not the normal everyday bills that I'm asking for help with, rather, my wife has a history of medical problems and due to the surgeries and procedures which have been performed at clinics and hospitals, we have managed to rack up a substantial amount of medical bills. In fact, my wife was recently in the hospital from March 30th to April 5th of this year, and even though we have medical insurance, our bill is more than a typical family can afford. As of this moment, the total amount that we owe in medical expenses is: $27,598. I don't expect this to get paid off over night, however, any assistance with this would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you.
Need financial assistance for my family and myself
Posted by shadow on 2011-04-12 07:58:50
I am looking to start a little business that could fix my situation in the long run but right now i am lost.
Please Don't Lick the Art
Posted by belita on 2011-04-06 20:58:43
Now- what I need is 2,000 for closing costs on my dream home/studio space to give these kids (and my own) what they could really use- a space to create and grow!
Any help would be appreciated no matter how small!
But remember- please don't lick the art!
Out of options
Posted by shazy24 on 2011-01-11 04:58:58
The only good news is that I realize where I stand today and I'm doing all I can (finishing school..finally) to give myself a chance at a decent income. I'm the typical guy who everyone picked to be the most successful, but I failed, essentially, I've become a failure to launch at 34!!
Here's my situation:
Credit card debt: $27000
Student Loans: $30000
Current income: $1400 monthly
Current rent: $750 + bills
Current eating patterns: tuna cans, bean cans, rice..you get the picture.
Now, I'm not asking for you to solve my life. I've been toughing it out paying my bills. I have bankruptcy options, but I have too much of a guilty conscience to shove my finger up society's ass.
This is what I'm hoping for: You are a rich person that needs to hide money from the tax man. You pay off all or part of my credit card (which is in good standing since I'm paying the F**** monthly payments)The money that I save not paying the interest rate will go a long way in solving my issues. Alternatively, you can come up with another plan/advice/suggestion/etc. to somehow shave off $600 off my monthly expenses. Obviously, if you do pay my credit card, I will get you a card under your name (secondary card holder) so that you have access to your money. I can't believe I'm actually doing this online.
Want to compete in Playboy Bunny's 2011 model search
Posted by AlimaJaali on 2010-12-06 13:58:58
Want to compete in Playboy Bunny's 2011 model search
Posted by AlimaJaali on 2010-12-06 12:58:58
A Father's Plea
Posted by w106glm on 2010-09-03 16:58:58
My wife and I are both college educated and employed, but find ourselves still living paycheck to paycheck. We are not poor and are not in desperate need, there are many hundreds of thousands of others that need more than us, but I can feel the weight of financial burden crushing down upon my shoulders. I do not wish to be rich, famous, or otherwise well off. But I do want to provide for my family, and to have the luxury of enjoying the day to day moments without the fear of financial uncertainty always looming overhead.
I would like to offer a glimpse into our family lives and finally get to the heart of this email....the begging. My wife holds a Master's degree and is employed as a Teacher in the Miamisburg City School district. She teaches a class of moderately to severe multiple-handicapped children. I honestly do not have a clue how she manages to do what she does. She is consistently given the most severely mentally and physically handicapped children because she has a way of reaching these children and getting more out of them than anyone thought possible. I can't count the number of times I've seen her crying as she reads an email from a parent of one of her students as the parent thanks her because they have been able to witness their child smiling and playing in the same manner as his or her typical peers would do. She truly is my hero for the gracious way that she treats these children with kindness and respect even as she comes home every day after being thrown up on, bitten, spit at, urinated on, or any other number of things that happen on a daily basis because of the severe nature of these kids' disabilities.
As for myself, my profession is not nearly as noble as my wife's, I do hold a Bachelor's degree in Material Science and Engineering. I work for a company that does research into air breathing supersonic combustion.
We have four young children, an 8 year old daughter, 5 year old son, 2 year old daughter, and a new baby boy who is only a week old.
This is the part of the message that pains me to write, and I'm not even sure how to go about it. I'm far from an eloquent wordsmith as it is, so to figure out an articulate way to beg for help, is a tough task. So, I'll just be direct and to the point. Any and all help would be greatly appreciated, but the magic number that I am asking for is $60,000. That is approximately the amount that my wife and I owe in student loans for the educations that we have received. This would relieve a large amount of debt that we have accrued while trying to better ourselves and provide for our families. We don't have any other credit card debt due to extravagant overspending, as we have always tried to live within our means.
We are middle America, and we ask for your help!
Thank you for your time, and I hope that this message finds you and your family well
Want my sons safe while I have leg amputation
Posted by xtragr8ful on 2010-08-22 12:58:58
I am a homebound, disabled, 53 year old grandma/mom to two beautiful boys. They are my grandson's, however, I have adopted them to try to make a "better life," for them. I took them under wing at ages of 1 year and 1 week old, relatively. I feel I have been put on this earth to care for these two boys, when nobody else had the capabilities to care for them. I intend for them to know the feeling of a loving mother who truly wants them, as I do.
My oldest grandson is autistic, and he is not the typical child. Although, he is hard to care for, I will never let him know it. Many nights I sit and watch him rock, wondering if he will ever be able to live a full life as an adult. I pray I will be around many more years for him.
I moved to Georgia from Michigan because I require leg amputation surgery and will need to be close to someone who can help care for my children following surgery, recovery, and rehabilitation. Although, my physician wants me to have my surgery ASAP, I refuse to go into the hospital until I am certain my children are safe.
I know that the good Samaritans are here, I truly believe we can do this together! Small donations really add up! If anyone wants to pay something directly to landlord, that can be arranged also. For reading my needs, thank you, I appreciate it beyond words!
Blessings~
Want my son's safe while I have leg amputation
Posted by xtragr8ful on 2010-08-22 11:58:58
I am a homebound, disabled, 53 year old grandma/mom to two beautiful boys. They are my grandson's, however, I have adopted them to try to make a "better life," for them. I took them under wing at ages of 1 year and 1 week old, relatively. I feel I have been put on this earth to care for these two boys, when nobody else had the capabilities to care for them. I intend for them to know the feeling of a loving mother who truly wants them, as I do.
My oldest grandson is autistic, and he is not the typical child. Although, he is hard to care for, I will never let him know it. Many nights I sit and watch him rock, wondering if he will ever be able to live a full life as an adult. I pray I will be around many more years for him.
I moved to Georgia from Michigan because I require leg amputation surgery and will need to be close to someone who can help care for my children following surgery, recovery, and rehabilitation. Although, my physician wants me to have my surgery ASAP, I refuse to go into the hospital until I am certain my children are safe.
I know that the good Samaritans are here, I truly believe we can do this together! Small donations really add up! If anyone wants to pay something directly to landlord, that can be arranged also. Just write to my emaFor reading my needs, thank you, I appreciate it beyond words!
Blessings~
