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I was married for 8 years. To a man who treated me ok but didn't love me. I got pregnant before we got married so I felt "trapped" in the marriage. 5 years after the birth of our first, I got pregnant again. Hoping another child would fix what was wrong in our marriage. Surprise..it didn't work. I had my tubes so that we didn't bring another child into a loveless marriage.
Finally one day I couldn't take it anymore. I couldn't live my life knowing how unhappy I was and showing my girls it was ok to settle for that kind of life. So I filed for divorce and moved back home, 2,000 miles away.
Then one day my best friend came back into my life and he and I decided to give love a shot! I have never been more happy. He loves me more than I deserve and loves my children. The only problem is we cannot have a child of our own to tie our family together.
With bills and rent there is no way for us to pay for the reversal of my tube ties. Insurance doesn't cover the costs and with me being 33, time is running short.
Please help us to raise the money so that we can have family we want. We've spent too many years unhappy and now that we have been given a second chance we want nothing more than to make it.
Thank you for reading my story!

My story is different, I make money to pay my bills, and I'm not behind on anything. My problems I make enought to pay my bills but nothing to save. The reason I'm looking for help is because I had to have my tubes tied because I was told I could not have babies do to my sudden heart condition (Cardiomyopathy) They told me I would never be better for the rest of my life and its rare if I even got 45% normal heart. Well its been 9 years later and just taking care of my self and I show no signs of every having a heart condition. Being its makes me upset that I had my tubes tied when I didnt have to...Why were tubes tides they thought pressure having baby make my heart pump faster and kill me and birth control same didnt know how it would effect my heart. Well I have thought love and hard about it and I'm married now for five years and I really want to have a child and its going to cost me $6000,00 to have a child. I'm really looking for help to get to my goal to have this baby..I have have a doctor and my medical records review. If there is anybody that could help me I would be forever thankful.

At 21 I had my tubes tied after my ex pushed me into getting it done while I had postpartum depression. I have regretted it ever since. After the divorce I was left with no career and alot of worry. I am now happily remarried and he accepts my 2 kids as his own but I would love to have another kid with him to make our family complete. I'm currently going to school to try and get lvn, just got cna certified, but it's easier said than done trying to save up the money.

Any help to reach this goal would be exceptional. The surgery is $4,500. Travel expenses would probably be about $500 but anything to help with the costs is great.

well, IF they approve it, have to survive for 2 years of processing to find out if I even get it!


Hi, and thank you for reading my plea :)

Last year I was declared permanently disabled by my doctor. ( I was on short term disability before that at work but they cut me off at 4 months instead of the year my seniority had earned). This sudden cutoff started my financial downfall into a spin. My job didn't "fire" me or "let me go", they just kept me active (out for medical issues), until I was no longer able to qualify for unemployment. If I had quit, then I would not have received any medical benefits any longer! In the mean time, I started the Social Security process, (which also does not allow unemployment claims) well. it takes 2 years to even see a judge, but somehow I am supposed to survive with no income until then! Ahhh but you are not allowed to work because then the judge feels you shouldn't be filing....( I mean, I am willing to lick stamps or something!) but strangely enough - I would be allowed (if doctor permitted something) AFTER I am approved, up to a certain amount of money. Whacked, right? So, here I am. I am supposed to see the doctor at least once a month for court purposes, but they don't really say how you are supposed to be able to afford to see him, if you can't have any income! My family has been so awesome helping me the best they can, but my parents are in a fixed income and elderly...my sisters have full families and their own struggles. I am so frustrated, I am not used to feeling like I can't take care of myself! I am sure you realize what kind of financial things I need help with..basic living. I am allowed to have food stamps - so thank goodness for that. I need assistance please with things like electricity, water, garbage, doctor, medication and gas for my car occasionally to get to the Dr...I do not have TV (about 1 1/2 years now) as it is a luxury, my parents offered to pay for my internet connection, which I am extremely grateful for...this is how I am able to post to all of you. I feel so weird posting this, and yes it is a bit humiliating. But I cannot stand to see my family go down the tubes because of what happened to me! Please consider helping me in anyway that you can. I have always helped others my entire life and I promise i will continue to do so as I can, can't help it - it is in my bones! LOL

Im a 42 yr old single mom pregnant with twins. I had my tubes tied over 13 yrs ago and so this pregnancy is a blessing, but deffinately at the wrong time with the wrong guy. He walked out on me and is no where to be found right now. I am on bedrest because Im high risk. I have been unemployed for awhile and nobody will hire me in my position. I dont have family and I have no idea how I am going to get Cribs, Carseats, Stroller, or anything else that i am in serious need of. I will also have a baby registry at target under Tammy Spencer

Hello, my family and I are in desperate need of financial assistance. We have been going through a storm of rain these past couple of months. I've always heard the saying when it rains it pours, but never ever thought it could get this bad or continue on this long.It started with my husband having a tumor in his throat, the next week I was told I was over paid financial aid and had to pay back a very substantial amount of money. Week after that our daughter shattered her elbow, I stepped on a nail and had to go to the ER, following week on a trip to a Dr.s appointment out of town our vehicle broke down nearly 200 miles away, had to have it towed at 4 dollars per mile. And they charged us an arm and a leg for a simple simple repair. My husband never got to his appointment. Medical expenses are just breaking us this year, we do not have medicaid and everytime we see a dr we have to pay a copayment that is ridiculous. Especially ER and specialist visits. Our bank account was also hacked into by someone who had our checking account number, so our account was locked. During that time several checks that had been sent out to pay bills came back NSF. So things keep adding up and adding up. 2 weeks ago I was diagnosed with an ectopic pregnancy, which was a complete shock because my tubes are tied! The medical care for this treatment is very expensive. It just seems as soon as we catch up or get paid, everything is gone plus we are still in the negative. We just cant catch a break. We are extremely faithful people...but at the moment I just can't seem to understand why this keeps happening? Why can't we catch a break. These are only the major things that have been happening...there are so many in betweens. Now we are about 1500 to 2000 dollars behind. This all started in June and every month we say to ourselves it will be better next month and so on and so on. Well, so far it seems as if we are on a downward spiral. We are always the couple who people can come to for help, the couple who seeks out those in need and offers our help. Whether it be financial or spiritual or just a helping hand. And now, we are going through the roughest times we have ever had to endure, and unfortunately we have no one to help us in this time of hardship. We are grateful for all that we have and know that we are beyond blessed, sadly though you cannot feed and house a family when you have absolutely no money. I know that things could be worse. We just need a little help getting back on our feet. Just to catch up. Once we can catch up we will be back in business and will definitely pay it forward. Sorry for the long vent, and I am so ashamed of having to post this on here. There is just no other options, we have exhausted everything we have. If there is any possible way you may be able to help us, we would appreciate it beyond measure. Thank you for your time.

My husband and I want to have a child but when I was 21yrs old I tied my tubes ( I know it was so stupid but was in a extremely abusive relationship and never wanted although I love them). My Doctor advised me that I'm a suitable candidate for Tubal Reversal surgery to untie my tubes and to have a child but the operation costs $5000.00

I'm much older than my husband and time is running out for me. I applied to my government for assistance with the costs but was denied. I also applied to several religious organizations but never heard anything back.

We both have good jobs now but after I lost my job of 12yrs we feel behind on our bills and trying to catch up and our credit it bruised. My husband doesn't have any children and would be a great father but I'm afraid if I cant give him a child I might lose him.

****Please help in anyway you can as every bit helps and may God Bless You and Keep You.****

I am 65 years old. 20 years ago I fell on a patch of ice I managed to dislocate my right shoulder chronically
and broke a few ribs. a few moths later I herniated 3discs in my lower spine and of course damaged a nerve or two
Leaving me unable to stand or walk. It took me 15 years but i finally managed to walk
very short distances with the aid of a back support and a cane. Along the way I developed type2 diabetes and of course while I was stumbling around I tripped and dislocated the other shoulder.
So back to the Chair for a while. I started coughing and could not find anything that stopped the coughing.
My doctor says I have asthma. So now we add an inhaler to the lengthening list of drugs.

Then when I finally start to get out of the chair I developed chest pains and shortness of breath.
I went into a heart hospital for the scope threw my inner thigh so they could see how bad my arteries were. Because I failed the stress test completely. Whatever they saw that morning was pretty bad. They kept me sedated and the next morning I had Quad Bypass surgery - - They could not figure out why I was not dead.
There was very little blood getting threw my heart.

I woke up 3 days later with tubes every where. There was a large incision and they used wires to hold my breastbone together.
The years I spent in a wheelchair took a toll. .....It seems the human body is not designed to remain sitting all the time.
I am 6ft -250 lbs.
So of course Two years later the wires unraveled, tore lose or broke.
They cut me open on the same scar and after a bone graft they put in 3 large titanium plates with 34 screws.

I t now costs $1500 per month for insurance (just for me plus whatever my wife has to pay for herself.)
Between the mortgage and my drugs and the thousands for copays on the two surgeries We have nothing in the bank and my wife still owes over $60,000 in student loans.

But, you know -I just have to hang around to see what the hell happens next.
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The only thing I can do is ask for your help. Even a dollar or two would make a difference.
Thank you

My wife and I got married last November and my wife had her tubes tied after her last child before we met. We have decided that we want another child but the procedure to get the reversal is very expensive. Any help would be greatly appreciated. I have no children of my own but would love to have a child. If it does not happen then it must not be God's will. I have faith, and it is said that faith can move mountains, but sometimes you have to bring a shovel.

My wife and I got married last November and my wife had her tubes tied after her last child before we met. We have decided that we want another child but the procedure to get the reversal is very expensive. Any help would be greatly appreciated. I have no children of my own but would love to have a child. If it does not happen then it must not be God's will. I have faith, and it is said that faith can move mountains, but sometimes you have to bring a shovel.

My wife and I got married last November and my wife had her tubes tied after her last child before we met. We have decided that we want another child but the procedure to get the reversal is very expensive. Any help would be greatly appreciated. I have no children of my own but would love to have a child. If it does not happen then it must not be God's will. I have faith, and it is said that faith can move mountains, but sometimes you have to bring a shovel.

My wife and I got married last November and my wife had her tubes tied after her last child before we met. We have decided that we want another child but the procedure to get the reversal is very expensive. Any help would be greatly appreciated. I have no children of my own but would love to have a child. If it does not happen then it must not be God's will. I have faith, and it is said that faith can move mountains, but sometimes you have to bring a shovel.

My wife and I got married last November and my wife had her tubes tied after her last child before we met. We have decided that we want another child but the procedure to get the reversal is very expensive. Any help would be greatly appreciated. I have no children of my own but would love to have a child. If it does not happen then it must not be God's will. I have faith, and it is said that faith can move mountains, but sometimes you have to bring a shovel.

My wife and I got married last November and my wife had her tubes tied after her last child before we met. We have decided that we want another child but the procedure to get the reversal is very expensive. Any help would be greatly appreciated. I have no children of my own but would love to have a child. If it does not happen then it must not be God's will. I have faith, and it is said that faith can move mountains, but sometimes you have to bring a shovel.

My wife and I got married last November and my wife had her tubes tied after her last child before we met. We have decided that we want another child but the procedure to get the reversal is very expensive. Any help would be greatly appreciated. I have no children of my own but would love to have a child. If it does not happen then it must not be God's will. I have faith, and it is said that faith can move mountains, but sometimes you have to bring a shovel.

i have medical bills reaching into the thousands because i lost medical insurance at the age of 18 due to not being able to afford college, ever sense i was a child i have ear problems ranging from over 4 sets of tubes, chronic ear and infections that lead to pollups, an ear sergury that made me go def in my left ear, the infections get so bad that they cannot heal themselves and must be treated, the economy is terrible where i am at and i now am recieving courtdates to attend, i recieved my first supena a few days ago. i dont want to ruin my future over something i cant help

i got remarried after an abusive 9 yr marriage. in that 9 yrs i had my tubes tied. i now have a great husband & we want a child. the surgery is costly & insurance won't pay for it. please help me see my dream come true

Hi, my name is cynthia after several bad relationships,I havr been married to the love of my life for two years this September 26. Anthony came into my life when I was at my lowest point. Men had beat me down verbally and physically to the point where i hated them and myself.My husband came into my life showed me what the meaning of true love was. with no biological kids of his own he took on the responsibility of my three children, in the four years we have been together he has been better to them than their own fathers after my last child i had my tubes tied not realizing that I would someday meet someone who would actually love me and actually want a child with me none of my children were wanted by their dads. My heart longs so much to give my husband a biological child but coming up with an extra 7000 dollars to have my surgery reversed is tough. It seems that when the money is there something comes up and the money goes to that problem. This man is so good to me and my children but I know nothing would complete our joy more than having a child made from the love we have for each other. I know how crazy this may sound but I dont know where else to turn other than to the compassionate hearts that may be out their and understand what its like to want a child and not be able to have one. We have looked into adoption, to expensive. Insurance doesn't cover the surgery so i am asking that anyone out there who is willing to help us complete our joy and our family please donate at least one dollar to help us have a baby. Donations may be sent to Baby Walls 110 Tamarack ct Beebe,AR 72012

My wife and I got married last November and my wife had her tubes tied after her last child before we met. We have decided that we want another child but the procedure to get the reversal is very expensive. Any help would be greatly appreciated. I have no children of my own but would love to have a child. If it does not happen then it must not be God's will. I have faith, and it is said that faith can move mountains, but sometimes you have to bring a shovel.

I had my tubes tied about 8 years ago because I was in an abusive relationship and my exmate threatened to really hurt me if I ever had any more children. I have since removed myself from that environment and I have found a wonderful mate who doesn't have any children who would like to have just one. I cannot afford to pay out of pocket for the procedure and I have tried every way humanly possible to have my insurance pay for it however I have been unsuccessful in geting them to pay for it. I desperately want to be able to have a baby. Please help me if you can. I'll work to pay the money back and I'll even sign a contract stating so. I just really need to get this done at this point. I have found the ideal mate and I dont want to lose him because I can't give him a child.

hello,
my name is Crystal, this is crazy lol and this probably never works but I am asking for a loan, job or donation to help pay for a tubal reversal surgery. I have recently started my life over after finally getting out of an abusive relationship. My new husband really wants to have a child and I had my tubes tied yrs ago in this other relationship. He is a marine and about to deploy in June. We would love to be able to get pregnant b4 then, one problem...$6-$8,000 for the surgery and my dance instructor part time job combined with military income is not allowing us the money to set aside to have that amount in the next 6 wks.......is there a miracle out there?

hello,
my name is Crystal, this is crazy lol and this probably never works but I am asking for a loan, job or donation to help pay for a tubal reversal surgery. I have recently started my life over after finally getting out of an abusive relationship. My new husband really wants to have a child and I had my tubes tied yrs ago in this other relationship. He is a marine and about to deploy in June. We would love to be able to get pregnant b4 then, one problem...$6-$8,000 for the surgery and my dance instructor part time job combined with military income is not allowing us the money to set aside to have that amount in the next 6 wks.......is there a miracle out there?

hello,
my name is Crystal, this is crazy lol and this probably never works but I am asking for a loan, job or donation to help pay for a tubal reversal surgery. I have recently started my life over after finally getting out of an abusive relationship. My new husband really wants to have a child and I had my tubes tied yrs ago in this other relationship. He is a marine and about to deploy in June. We would love to be able to get pregnant b4 then, one problem...$6-$8,000 for the surgery and my dance instructor part time job combined with military income is not allowing us the money to set aside to have that amount in the next 6 wks.......is there a miracle out there?

I had my tubes tied over 5 years ago and it was a good choice at the time. Since then I have split up with my kids' father who was very abusive, and now am marreid to a wonderful man. We are wanting to have a baby but in order to do so we will have to go into debt. The procedure is $7500.00, so I am asking for help from anyone that is willing to help. Please.