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Posted by Bumthat on 2012-05-16 16:58:00

I recently got divorced and my ex-wife took our car that was paid for to leave me with the car that I found out she hadn't made a payment in over a year on it. I thought we were a few months behind and when I ask for the bank payment slips with the bank phone number on it so I could call and arrange a weekly payment schedule to get caught up she didn't know where it was. She had actually thrown it away so I wouldn't find it. Its a small bank the wasn't even in our town so I couldn't drive up there to talk to them. I asked for the bank name so I could google it but she supposedly didn't know. Well about 2 months ago I was at work and the car got towed! I'm stuck without a car and can't work because I have no ride. She had planned to divorce me and then leave me stuck with a car that wasn't being paid for so it would be towed and leave me without means of transportation so I could work. She always paid the car payments and screwed me over so bad. It sucks. I always use to work 2 jobs and made the most money in our household. She had us move back to her home town in a house that her brother and his girlfriend lived with us so that when we got divorced I would be forced to move out. I'm staying with a friend but I pay rent and it's so hard to pay rent and save for a car when I can't make it to work most of the time cause he or his girlfriend are working and their jobs are far away. I would be so happy if someone could help me get back on my feet by getting enough money for a down payment for a car or even enough to buy a really old cheap car that can at least help me to get to and from work ok! Any amount of donations would be so very appreciated. I have linked my PayPal account to this plea for help! I beat cancer 2 years ago so I know if I could beat cancer I can overcome this obstickle with just a little help from some kind hearted generous people! I pray that someone will help me. I'm not looking for $20,000 for a brand new car I just need to raise $500-$1500 so I can use it for a down payment on a decent used car or just buy a running cheap car. I would need a few extra couple hundred dollars for my first insurance payment also. Once I get that I can go back to work full time and pay my payments on my own and also my rent. I my prayers are answer I will be truly blessed and once that happens I will start helping others in need on this site also. If someone helps me it would be only right once I'm back on my feet to help others who could use a helping hand. We all have ups and downs and struggles but sometimes we truly do need just a little help from someone else to get back up!

I truly pray that someone will help me in this rough time. I want to thank you ahead of time in helping me out. You truly are wonderful people all who help me by donating! God bless you. To everyone else that is strugglIng right now there is hope and there is light at the end of the tunnel!

God Bless!

Any donation amount will be truely appreciated!

I feel like I'm drowning!

Posted by scareddad41 on 2012-04-27 12:58:25

We seriously need some help, our electricity will be turned off May 2nd, our rent is due May first and the late fees are $25 per day after the first with no max. Our house is total electric so no heat, air, refrigeration, hot water, or ability to cook once the electric is off. Our credit isn't good enough for anything and the only option is payday loans. We keep having garage sales, however it only provides enough money to get staples (bread, milk, butter, a little gas to get back and forth to work). Like many others I have a job, but it keeps us just over broke. Not enough to deal with a crisis. In one week we learned my mother and father were trying to live off $35 a week. My mother eats a bowl of cereal in the morning and a $1 banquet meal for dinner. She takes care of my ailing father 24/7 who has Alzheimer's. So we decided to make a 10 hour ride one way to go see what we could do to help. We gave them what little extra money we had to fill a deep freezer and pay off a loan with crushing interest! While away we learned that my wife's stepmother is dying from cancer. She has stage 4 lung cancer and isn't expected to make it past the end of the year. We need extra funds for my wife to be able to make the 1800 mile trek to her hometown in NY so she can have the opportunity to say her last goodbyes. To top it all off we purchased a car last year through a company known as JD Byrider, a buy here pay here bad credit dealer with an extra perk, for all the extra money you spend on their vehicles they offer a warranty during the term of the loan. Our JDB car blew a head gasket, this should be covered under terms of the warranty. We had the car towed to the dealer for them to make the necessary repairs. The shop said there was nothing wrong with the car, it just needed an oil change, and it was running fine. I promise you a car that won't do over 60 mph floored on a straight stretch of highway ISN'T fine. So we were forced to trade it in, which cost us an extra $5000, making us negative in our bank. Along with all of this is the need to take care of our three children at home, and constantly having to buy diapers for our grand daughter because her parents can't find work and welfare doesn't give enough cash assistance to keep diapers all month long. We are selling everything we can afford to in order to get out of our current situation, but it won't be enough. Right now we need $725 to make rent and $206 for the electric bill. I can spread other bills out over the course of the month, but these two are critical. We have enough food and just enough money to cover gas for the next two weeks. I am willing to provide services for any donation made. I have very good editing skills, and have helped students go from a D paper to a B+/A- paper without changing the content, merely correcting spelling, punctuation and structure. Any help provided will be greatly appreciated.

Steven: An Aspiring Disabled, Student, Veteran, and Divorcee

Posted by youngidealist on 2012-03-05 01:58:00

Hi.

Thanks for taking the time to read my request. I'm 30 years old, still in college and living with my parents. I've made a lot of great accomplishments in my life with far less support than most people who make it this far. Of course, with that said I've also made plenty of mistakes.

I grew up with a single parent, and another parent who visited annually just to stir up emotions and make my life miserable. When I was 18, I decided to work really hard to lose weight so that I could join the US Air Force. I had a strict plan that I was going to follow to succeed in life.

Unfortunately my superiors in the USAF would not accommodate that plan to independence as they forced me to find my own way from the barracks to work (a 40 mi drive), so I had to immediately struggle to get my drivers licence and I had to buy a car on an Airman's paygrade.

My income wasn't enough to afford the car and gas and other living needs that I was expected to pay, so eventually I had to leave the Air Force before my term was up (under honorable conditions). I tried to work as a civilian. The transfer was tough and I was vastly uninformed about what to do and what my options were. I'm the first first generation college student of my extended family.

After some petty jobs that would each take more than 10 years to be able to earn enough to live independently, I finally found a nice nighttime custodian job that was at least simple enough for that kind of pay. I was the night time custodian, but I was also a guy to have on call at this retirement home where I worked. If people's toilets flooded or a nearly deaf resident left their tv on past quiet hours (once I could hear one through 3 floors!) I was the guy to send up to fix it.

Having my first satisfying job as a civilian, I was able to investigate community college during the day, so eventually I enrolled and tried taking a few classes while working full-time. College was my saving grace. I never felt like I belonged anywhere until I first started to take college courses in math, science, and philosophy. I found the tutoring lounge on campus, made a lot of friends there, and I spent many hours cramming and helping those in need.

This soon led to me finding financial aid, making arrangements with my parents (my mom and my stepfather) to let me go to school full-time while I lived with them, and putting in my 2 weeks notice at work to focus exclusively on school.

My counselors advised that I pick where I want to transfer to and then figure out the details of how to get there after I got accepted. I think this was bad advice. While I ended up choosing to transfer to a university that had my desired major, Biophysics, it was 60 miles away from where my parents lived. My car that I had bought when I was in the Air Force also eventually broke down from not being able to afford maintenance while I worked, and was towed away for being in the public street for too long.

Finally, I got accepted to UC San Diego to work towards a degree in Physics with a specialty in Biophysics. When it came time to transfer, I got as involved as I could on how and when I was supposed to receive the financial aid so that I could go get an apartment and everything, and my school kept telling me, "you should get it tomorrow" until about 2 weeks into my first quarter when I finally got the support.

Despite this rocky start, I managed to get into a good shape for myself, making my way slowly but surely through school. Learning a great deal. Eventually when I felt the struggle was too difficult, I changed my major to Neuroscience before I began my upper division coursework.

So, as I settled into my schooling and struggled with maintaining financial independence on financial aid, I managed to get myself into maintaining a great aquarium hobby, owned two great little kittens from a street cat program, led as president of a student organization for one year, and eventually I got married. I also carefully learned about the stock market and managed to make some great gains with money that I had invested from financial aid savings.

In 2010, my gains were over 100%. That amounted to $2000 doubling itself, but still, that says a lot about me as a trader. However, 6 months into my marriage, she said she wanted out, grabbed the car that we both paid into (most of the money was mine from stocks; $5500 worth), and refused to pay her share of 2 months rent. That happened in December of the year of 2010.

2011 was a difficult year for me. I fought hard to maintain things, especially my head, but it was tough. I lost 45 lbs from exercising regularly, made lots of new friends, and I got some volunteer work experience in a Neuroscience lab. But I just couldn't focus well enough to maintain my finances and my grades, so I had to drop out and live back with my parents.

Despite how tough it's been, not finding work, struggling with the ins and outs of the VA, and just needing a professional therapist to talk to and help me keep my head straight but never being able to get one, I've managed to recuperate well enough and learn a lot more about this bottom floor of society that I've been so desperately trying to escape my whole life.

I've gone looking for opportunity in every direction. I've tried changing my career goals, collecting recyclables, writing online, trying any online scheme that didn't include me forking out money to get it, imagining what I could write as a novel, tried to make money through playing video games, making goal after goal after goal for myself, but still just not being able to get just the right amount of money to put me back on my feet.

I'll be going back to school in April at the risk of having to do it as a homeless person if the VA doesn't pull through for me. They recently approved my 10% service connected disability status and now I need to jump over a few more hurdles to get my more significant service connected disabilities recognized. I'm also seeing what the vocational rehab people can do for me despite the bureaucratic issues that are stopping them from helping me all the way.

BTW, this whole time that I've gone through life with common lower class difficulties, I've been disabled with a number of small conditions that all add up to a hard time. I have lower back issues that the military has yet to own up to. Community college found also that I have a learning disability which makes some intellectual tasks show up as lower than average ability for me while the rest of my intellect is high enough to expect that I could easily get a Masters Degree or a PhD. My biggest difficulty in school is that they don't give me enough time to show them what I know or what I'm capable of.

From working with special needs students as a tutor, I have proven to myself that there is a major problem in the education system. Most teachers never simplify the material into a clear picture of what they want to teach. If you want someone to learn something, the last thing you should be fuzzy on is what it is exactly that you want them to learn. We can't all work like intuitive Jedi or sophisticated parrots.

If you help me out, here is a list of the priorities of what your money will go towards, in order of their priority If you would like to request that I spend your donation on a specific cause, please let me know:

1. A working cheap economic vehicle.
I need something that I can sleep in and that will take me wherever I need to go. Preferably something that can stow quite a few recyclables as well to pay for gas, but not an SUV or truck or van (Unless that's all that is cheap of course. Not likely but you never know.).
I'll aim for great gas mileage, but I'm thinking that I should attend some police car auctions to see what the cheapest deal I can find is. This car would make a great shelter for me while I return to my far away school.

2. Investing on the stock market.
Trust me, I know how to fish. If you want to send me a request for proof I'd be glad to compose some evidence of my finest moments as well as my worst to show you that I can do well for myself on the stock market, even during the recession. What I could really use right now, is a little bait. Trading is good money for me, but to make enough to make gains worth more than the commission cost (about $10), you need about $300-1000 per investment. $300 is more for the high risk lottery plays on the market. I even made a blog about it if you would like to see:
http://www.squidoo.com/TheYoungidealistEconomyBlog
If you are willing, we can arrange something personal so that you wont need to worry about me putting the money you offer at high risk and blow it all. Might even be able to arrange something where I could make money for you to prove myself before accepting your donation. Whatever the case, I know we'd have to make it a personal arrangement to satisfy the current laws.

3. Working towards paying my debts to my friends.
My friends have been really supportive through these hard times, though they are starving students themselves. To keep up my morale they've bought me food, given me a place to crash when they could, and even paid to have me join them at fun local events. I have some money that I've promised them back, and I plan on making due on those promises as soon as possible.

4. Paying off my debts with companies.
I've had times where I couldn't afford to pay for rent and had to leave, like when my wife left me to live with her parents. These issues follow me on my credit score and I would like to work towards removing them so that I can turn my life around.

5. Getting a good start towards paying off my student loans.
I know I won't be able to pay them off before I find a good career with my degree. I would just like to have something to start making some automatic payments with and put that part of my bad credit score behind me as well.

6. Buying a home.
My mom never owned a home. No offense meant to land lords out there, but I really think the rental system is way out of line. My mom was always a hard worker. Way better than me, yet she could never own a home because she didn't have the money. Meanwhile, people with money could live in great big houses for less than she even had to pay.
I want a house to own. Probably start with a condo and seek ways to improve it and flip a profit out of it. Then I want to keep building up money from housing until I can manage to build an apartment building.
If I could, I'd like to make an apartment building near a university that offers cheap housing using the Japanese capsule model or something even more economic and more comfortable.

7. Making an online tutoring site meant to offer free tutoring and tutoring for tips. Imagine a site (I have yet to know of one) where people can collect their resources on a class, much like they collect info on ratemyprofessor.com, but also seek help from others who are taking the class or who have taken the class. Donors like you can offer money to tutors who post their notes and stories on the site, alongside ratings from other students that they helped.
Some tutors can offer their rates for help, sell their notes online for cheap, or just offer their help whenever they can and ask to be tipped through paypal if someone likes their work. My hope is that such a site could help to put an end to sophistry in the college system once and for all, making education easy and affordable for everyone.

8. After I have everything I'm hoping for above, the sky is the limit. But I would prefer to put the extra money that I don't need to good uses. I would spread a little philanthropy around, give to others in need on this site and through other resources.
I'd also look to teach others how to fish. I think a great way for the economy to be fixed would be if philanthropists made some really good employee owned companies. Make the place pay for itself, skim a little off the top, and walk away knowing that you really were a job creator.
I think that everyone who is capable of work and who chooses to work deserves to have their own independent living situation. I know that we are a long way from that, but I tend to be an optimist. I would like to try and make the world a better place, if nothing else.

Aside form financial help, I'm interested in anything else that I could get that's useful. Advice, Neuroscience Career connections, work, hobby or volunteer work that can easily become lucrative, I'm really all ears. Thanks again for taking the time to read my request. I hope you find it in you to help me out, even get to know me if you'd like. Bet you $5000 I can make you laugh. Did I win? >;) it was worth a try anyway.

Need help 22yr old female very desperate!!

Posted by HelpPlease256 on 2012-03-02 11:58:52

I'm 22 and live on my own. I have no family to turn to and have already tried friends bosses and getting a loan. And no dice they can't do anything or won't as for the loans I don't have the credit. Anything will help but here is my situation. After being in the hospital a few weeks the bills got pretty stacked. Here are the immediate issues. My rent was due today, I missed work due to being in the hospital, so no paycheck no way to pay rent. And I'm already half a month behind so I need 1300 to pay my rent and back rent ASAP.
My car got towed yesterday, and I need at least 1800 to get it back. Why did it get towed you may ask? I took out a loan against it to stop from being evicted 3mo ago. Which was goin fine I had made all my payments on time untill I was in the hospital, I missed a payment they took the car. So now I have no way to get to work either and if I lose my apt I won't even have a car to live in. Pleas help me out I am hard working just having a really bad month! In total I need 3200 asap. Every little bit will help. I just need this to get me by. I will even take a loan if someone is willing to give it.

Desperate! Looking for a loan, not a hand out.

Posted by HelpPlease256 on 2012-03-02 11:58:46

I've been sick in the hospital for a few weeks and now I'm flat broke! My rent is due and I'm already half a month behind. If I miss this payment I'll be kicked out for sure. On top of all this my car got towed yesterday and I don't have the money to get it back. With out my car I can't even get to work. I'm not a dead beat or a bum I've tried everything from loans which I don't have the credit for to friends. So now here I am. I need 1200 for my apt and 1800 please help me!I will take a loan I will pay it all back my credit isn't good enough for a loan please I do need help. Phenolredpegasus@gmail.com is my email/paypal help me out send over ur loan terms or donations. Please

With out help I will lose everything.

Posted by HelpPlease256 on 2012-03-02 11:58:42

I am beyond desperate! I've asked everyone I know for help and have tried to get a loan. I dont have good enough credit. So here I am. My car got towed yesterday and I need 1800 to get it back. That's with in the next 15 days. And no car I can't get to my job. I also need 1200 for my rent I'm half a month behind! They say I still owe 435 from last month. And my normal rent is 850. I cant lose my place I have no where else to go! So please help me!! I am begging! I need 3200 and fast

We are about to lose everything

Posted by scaredcrowinsd on 2012-01-23 03:58:10

My fiance and I were both laid off from our jobs in this past year with no luck finding new ones. My mom has been in and out of the hospital all year with seizures and blood clots. In the past two months my car broke down (unrepairable) and my fiancees car was towed. We were unable to come up with enough money to get it out of the tow yard before they auctioned it off (several thousand dollars).
My mom has worked hard her entire life raising three kids on her own. Last year she was diagnosed with epilepsy and can no longer drive. Around this same time she was laid off from her job. Since she was denied state disability her only source of income at the moment is renting out the spare bedrooms in her house. Because of all of this her home is about to be foreclosed on.
On Tuesday this week she went to the hospital for a blood clot in her leg. During a procedure to remove the clot she started bleeding into her stomach. She has been touch and go for days and while the doctors say they are cautiously optomistic she is far from out of the woods yet.
I'm absolutely terrified that even if my mom makes it through all of this she won't have a house to go home to. Let alone be able to buy basic necesseties. I feel helpless and hopeless that I can't do more to help.
She is my everything, and I am begging for you, a kind-hearted stranger, to please do whatever you can to help us. Thank you.

Soldier needs help with repair bill

Posted by Brickcity87 on 2011-12-30 17:58:20

Hie my name is Robert i never did this before so here i go. Im a soldier in the united states military,I served for three years in the army and sence i been in all i delt with was people screwing me over. Im still in the army but after my wife left me my finances had takin a big hit. I need help to get my car back so i can get to work and do what i need to do so i can better serve my country. i bought a car from a dealer were i live. For 60 days it drove fine no problems at all. But out of nowhere i needed a cps change and oil change. After getting the oil change my car wasn't working properly anymore. i had gotten it towed to a certified mechanic and they told me the people i took the car to put the wrong oil in the vehicle destroying everything. Engine, hoses, gaskets, clamps, everything. it needed a whole new rebuild. after wards i was slapped with a 6800 dollar bill. I tried paying it down but something always come up where i couldn't. I need help. I took the shop that put the wrong oil in my car to court even with the evadence, but the judge ruled against me, all because i didnt have anybody come and testify on my behalf. is this really what i get for being a soldier. if there is anybody please help me.I looked for a long time for help but can't seem to find any. And i thank you in advance.

Truck Fire Surviver

Posted by truckfiresurviver on 2011-11-16 09:58:55

Hello. I am a commercial driver in need of financial help. My situation is 100% verifiable. On 9/20/11 I was driving a tractor trailer in Lamar, Pa, delivering a load to New Jersey when my truck caught on fire. To escape certain death I had to jump out of the burning truck, sustaining injuries in the process. A few minutes later the truck exploded and was incinerated. There was no driver error. Everybody who hears my story tells me that I'm lucky to be alive. However, Ive been out of work ever since. I do have legal representation in a workers comp case pending in Pa. My lawyer informed me that it may take up to a year before I start receiving workers comp benefits because my employer failed to have workers comp coverage while operating his business in Pa. I have absolutely no income. I lost my home and is now staying with a relative, sleeping on his couch. My car was towed due to expired tags. My bill to get my car out of the tow yard is now $2500 and rising daily. If I dont get my car out I will lose it in less than two weeks. I'm in serious pain daily from my injuries but cant get medical treatment because I dont have medical insurance and is forced to wait until I begin receiving workers comp benefits before I can get medical treatment. I applied for and was denied public assistance because I have only joint, and not full, custody of my 6 year old daughter. Even though NC Dept Of Social Services sympathized with what happened to me they told me that nc dss policy dont allow a parent with only joint custody of his child to get public assistance despite the fact that the nature of my occupation (over the road commercial transportation)prohibits me from having full custody of my child. I cant work until I receive treatment for my injuries. I dont know what else to do for money while waiting for my workers comp case to go through.I currently cant even provide food for myself and my daughter. Everyday I'm sinking deeper and deeper into destitution, anxiety and depression.I am sincerely hoping that somebody will read my story on Begslist and decide to help me. I am a hard working American citizen that, through no fault of my own, was involved in an on the job incident that left me injured, homeless, carless and destitute. I need help.Again, my situation is 100% verifiable. If you have any questions please call 980-345-7601 and ask for Wayne. Any and all help you can provide me will be truly appreciated.

Truck Fire Surviver

Posted by truckfiresurviver on 2011-11-16 08:58:44

Hello. I am a commercial big rig driver by occupation. My story is 100% verifiable. I'm in dire straits as a result of an on the job injury that occurred on 9/20/11. On that day I was operating a tractor trailer in Lamar, Pa delivering a load from Ohio to New Jersey when the truck I was driving caught fire and exploded. I had to jump out of the truck while it was burning, minutes before it exploded, injuring me in the process. The truck was incinerated. There was no driver error. Everybody tells me that I'm lucky to be alive. I've been out of work ever since. I have legal representation in a workers comp case pending in Pa. My lawyer informed me that it may take up to a year before I start receiving workers comp benefits, because my employer failed to have workers comp insurance while operating in Pa. In the meantime I have absolutely no income. I already lost my home since the incident and is now staying with a relative in his living room. My car was towed for expired registration.My bill to get my car out of the tow yard is now $2500 and rising daily. If I dont have the money to pay the bill I will lose my car in less than two weeks. I'm in daily pain from and in serious need of post er medical treatment for my injuries but, without medical insurance, I'm forced to wait for medical treatment until I begin receiving workers comp benefits.Each and every day that passes I'm sinking deeper and deeper into destitution,anxiety and depression.I have a 6 year old daughter and cant provide even food for her, much less clothes and school supplies. I applied for welfare but the nc dept of social services told me that I dont qualify for public assistance because I have only joint custody of my daughter. Despite my explanation to DSS, that due to the nature of my occupation(over the road commercial transportation)I cant have full custody of my child, I was still denied public assistance. I cant return to work until my injuries are treated. I dont know what else to do but reach out to people for financial help via Beglist.com. My situation is 100% verifiable. If you have any questions please call 980-345-7601 and ask for Wayne. Any and all help that you can provide me will be truly appreciated

Shaken Faith

Posted by faithandlove on 2011-09-27 05:58:13

Hello, my family and I are in desperate need of financial assistance. We have been going through a storm of rain these past couple of months. I've always heard the saying when it rains it pours, but never ever thought it could get this bad or continue on this long.It started with my husband having a tumor in his throat, the next week I was told I was over paid financial aid and had to pay back a very substantial amount of money. Week after that our daughter shattered her elbow, I stepped on a nail and had to go to the ER, following week on a trip to a Dr.s appointment out of town our vehicle broke down nearly 200 miles away, had to have it towed at 4 dollars per mile. And they charged us an arm and a leg for a simple simple repair. My husband never got to his appointment. Medical expenses are just breaking us this year, we do not have medicaid and everytime we see a dr we have to pay a copayment that is ridiculous. Especially ER and specialist visits. Our bank account was also hacked into by someone who had our checking account number, so our account was locked. During that time several checks that had been sent out to pay bills came back NSF. So things keep adding up and adding up. 2 weeks ago I was diagnosed with an ectopic pregnancy, which was a complete shock because my tubes are tied! The medical care for this treatment is very expensive. It just seems as soon as we catch up or get paid, everything is gone plus we are still in the negative. We just cant catch a break. We are extremely faithful people...but at the moment I just can't seem to understand why this keeps happening? Why can't we catch a break. These are only the major things that have been happening...there are so many in betweens. Now we are about 1500 to 2000 dollars behind. This all started in June and every month we say to ourselves it will be better next month and so on and so on. Well, so far it seems as if we are on a downward spiral. We are always the couple who people can come to for help, the couple who seeks out those in need and offers our help. Whether it be financial or spiritual or just a helping hand. And now, we are going through the roughest times we have ever had to endure, and unfortunately we have no one to help us in this time of hardship. We are grateful for all that we have and know that we are beyond blessed, sadly though you cannot feed and house a family when you have absolutely no money. I know that things could be worse. We just need a little help getting back on our feet. Just to catch up. Once we can catch up we will be back in business and will definitely pay it forward. Sorry for the long vent, and I am so ashamed of having to post this on here. There is just no other options, we have exhausted everything we have. If there is any possible way you may be able to help us, we would appreciate it beyond measure. Thank you for your time.

Please help me pay for my car repair

Posted by abandonedandscared on 2011-09-26 23:58:12

fleeing my abusive marriage for my mothers house, everything seemed ok, yes, i was behind on a few bills but still it was managable, at least I thought until I went to the laundromat to clean some sheets my son had soiled, and then my car went out on me, it just would not start. I had to have it towed to the repair shop, which cost me over 300 dollars, and I put it on my credit card, now I only have 200 more dollars left before I am over the limit, and my repair bill is over 800 dollars, there is no way that I am going to be able to pay all of it. I need a miracle from you, please find it in your heart to give whatever you can. My son wants to go home to see his daddy, even though my husband only lives 40 miles from my mothers house and NEVER calls or comes to see how we are doing. I always call him at 7pm, to let him speak to his son. Please, I want to get my car repaired so that I can go back to work, I am a substitute teacher and we do not make much money. I asked my husband for help, but he has told me that he is not going to help me with anything unless I come back, I cannot go back, he will just hit me some more in front of my son.

Shaken Faith

Posted by jgmomlove on 2011-09-05 14:58:10

Sorry for reposting this, but my account details were wrong. Thank you in advance for listening.

Hello, I am a mommy of 2 ages 6 and 13 and a loving wife of 15 years. My husband and I are happily married and proud parents. He is a hard worker and good provider, I am a stay at home mom, our youngest has many health issues that prevent him from going to school, so I home school him. We are truly positive people with an abundance of faith. We seem to be that couple who everyone can turn to whenever they need help, whatever it may be. We always do our best to help others out...no questions asked. Unfortnately now we have fallen to the position of being the ones and need and seem to be all on our own.
This started nearly a year ago, we were living happily in a place we had always wanted to be. My husband worked a graveyard shift, one night while he was workin an intruder came into our home and brutally attacked me physically and more... Thankfully by the grace of God our kids were safe, one asleep and the older one kept her brother safe as she heard everything. Needless to say, we no longer felt safe in our home, and I was barely functioning. My husband did all he could to make us all feel safe. But the only thing I could think of is that we needed to move, and far away. So we did. We moved 3 hours away to our home town, hoping to find comfort in family. This is where our financial struggles began, a big sudden move like that nearly wiped us of our savings and my husband took quite a pay cut. But still the positives out wieghed the negative. Finally months later I began to realize I could turn this into something good, so I went back to school. With making less $ I was approved for financial aid. All was ok, and then this semester I went to register for school and I couldn't because they had overpaid me on financial aid so I now have an $765 balance that I have to pay before I can even get back into school. We had been relying on financial aid and student loans to help keep us afloat through out the year. Not even a week after that we were headed on an end of summer road trip and our truck broke down 175 miles from our home. We had to have it towed at $4 per mile plus an $85 hook up fee, so nearly $800. Now they are charging us another $400 to replace a part that cost only $80. So, the truck is still there. It seems now that every week something else keeps coming up. We just need help to catch up, just get over this slump. Our account is now in the negative because we have to get food and things just to get through the week. We have looked into payday loans, and I'm afraid that would just make matters worse. Especially since they only offer $300 which won't even cover the negative acct we already have. We've sold old clothes and other items we had on craigslist to help with gas and food. We are out of options now. We only need help or a loan to get through to January and by then with any luck I can get my financial aid and student loans. Any help is greatly appreciated. Its a horrible feeling to not know what is coming next or to know if we will continue to get poured on or if finally the sun may start shining again soon. Thank you for listening to my story.

Shaken faith...

Posted by jglove on 2011-09-04 12:58:16

Hello, I am a mommy of 2 ages 6 and 13 and a loving wife of 15 years. My husband and I are happily married and proud parents. He is a hard worker and good provider, I am a stay at home mom, our youngest has many health issues that prevent him from going to school, so I home school him. We are truly positive people with an abundance of faith. We seem to be that couple who everyone can turn to whenever they need help, whatever it may be. We always do our best to help others out...no questions asked. Unfortnately now we have fallen to the position of being the ones and need and seem to be all on our own.
This started nearly a year ago, we were living happily in a place we had always wanted to be. My husband worked a graveyard shift, one night while he was workin an intruder came into our home and brutally attacked me physically and more... Thankfully by the grace of God our kids were safe, one asleep and the older one kept her brother safe as she heard everything. Needless to say, we no longer felt safe in our home, and I was barely functioning. My husband did all he could to make us all feel safe. But the only thing I could think of is that we needed to move, and far away. So we did. We moved 3 hours away to our home town, hoping to find comfort in family. This is where our financial struggles began, a big sudden move like that nearly wiped us of our savings and my husband took quite a pay cut. But still the positives out wieghed the negative. Finally months later I began to realize I could turn this into something good, so I went back to school. With making less $ I was approved for financial aid. All was ok, and then this semester I went to register for school and I couldn't because they had overpaid me on financial aid so I now have an $765 balance that I have to pay before I can even get back into school. We had been relying on financial aid and student loans to help keep us afloat through out the year. Not even a week after that we were headed on an end of summer road trip and our truck broke down 175 miles from our home. We had to have it towed at $4 per mile plus an $85 hook up fee, so nearly $800. Now they are charging us another $400 to replace a part that cost only $80. So, the truck is still there. It seems now that every week something else keeps coming up. We just need help to catch up, just get over this slump. Our account is now in the negative because we have to get food and things just to get through the week. We have looked into payday loans, and I'm afraid that would just make matters worse. Especially since they only offer $300 which won't even cover the negative acct we already have. We've sold old clothes and other items we had on craigslist to help with gas and food. We are out of options now. We only need help or a loan to get through to January and by then with any luck I can get my financial aid and student loans. Any help is greatly appreciated. Its a horrible feeling to not know what is coming next or to know if we will continue to get poured on or if finally the sun may start shining again soon. Thank you for listening to my story.

Car Trouble

Posted by michaelt0123 on 2011-05-21 12:58:08

Hello,

This is a rather strange incident that happened not too long ago. I had just completed some training and certification for employment, and I took my wife out to celebrate the accomplishment. We decided to go to Panda Express for dinner. After we ate, I opened my fortune cookie, and it simply stated: "Your luck will change.". I thought to myself, what an unusually bold statement for a fortune cookie. Anyhow, I thought nothing of it and went on with my day. The following week, I was on my way to work and my car just stalled. I could not restart the engine even though it had gas and a rather new battery. I had it towed to the dealership where they informed me that one of the rods in the engine was bent. The car is a 1994 Honda Civic EX, and it only has about 112 thousand miles on it. Anyhow, the price for a refurbished engine from the dealership with a 3 year warranty for that model of car is: $3,400. With the economy the way it is, I don't have that type of money saved up, so I am asking for any assistance to be able to get enough money to pay for this engine.

Thank you.

Help me with my car repair bills!

Posted by JimDasch on 2011-05-07 16:58:22

I recently bought a 2008 Pontiac G6, silver beauty.
The dealer showed me a clear CarFax and the car drove fine for 6 months, all of a sudden after recent oil changes by the dealership my car will not start!

I had it towed to the dealer and they said it needs 4,000 USD in parts and labor to be running again!
My hours just got cut from 40 to 20 a week and I can hardly afford to pay the car loans monthly bill. I tried to apply to the dealership for a loan to get the car fixed but my debt to income ratio is too high!

I need 4000 USD to fix my car to keep the job I am already barely holding onto.

Please help me and my family. Karma is amazing, and God Bless.

PLEASE I REALLY NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted by daisygirl615 on 2011-04-03 19:58:07

HI My name is Cassandra,I am a stay at home mum of 2 at the moment we are really in trouble with the bills.
I got a job in December to help us, I was 6 weeks pregnant at the time I thought just until the bills are up to date and then i will enjoy the baby coming because i had a miscarrige the year before and i really wanted this baby due in july 2011,
my first day at my job the car broke down and it cost $140 to fix some cam sensor issue with the motor.
the second day of my job,I got pulled over for speeding I was going up hill and was going a little fast well the policeman gave me a $340 fine when i tried to start the car after receving my fine it wouldnt start I had to get it towed back to my car mechanic and that cost $70.00 and then the cost to fix the car was $400.00.
A week later we were told we would have to move out of our rental home that we had lived in for 5 years I found a house for rent pretty quickly a cheap house in a cheap area, the day after we moved in I lost the baby I was 8 weeks and had a ultrasound the day before and the baby was okay 173 beats a minute
the move to our new rental we had to find $1000 for the bond well we pawned every thing we had of value to make the money we needed and since then I have been only able to pay the interest payments, I just wish we could have in better than this,I am sick of the phone calls telling your electricity will be cut off if you don't pay?
But the worst thing is My mum is not at all helpful she actually laughs at how bad it has been and even says whats going to happen to you this week. She calls me not to see how I am but to see what has happen and then make a point of making me feel like shit...So I am asking maybe begging if there is anyone out here that can help me I would be so grateful we all would be if someone gave us a hand.

thank you for reading this Cassandra

My Car Got Impounded!! :(

Posted by craftwurk on 2011-02-08 18:58:58

Please help; my car got impounded last week, and I don't have the money to get it out. I had just paid my car's registration fee the week before, but was unable to get the sticker because of several unpaid parking tickets I haven't been able to pay off. As a result, the expired tag was spotted and the car was towed. As of today, they need $640 just to get the car out (not including the unpaid parking tickets).

If you have anything you can spare to help me get my car out, I would be so appreciative. I was laid off from my job two weeks ago, and I desperately need my car so that I can go on interviews. I am a hardworking woman who is going through a really rough time; i just need a helping hand, and I have no one to turn to (my parents can't help me). :(((

Thank you......

Please Reunite Me With My Miniature Pinschers

Posted by cvxfire on 2010-11-07 12:58:58

My name is Clinton Vestal, and I am 36 years old.

I was born and raised in California, and lived there until 2005. My mom and I moved to Oklahoma, because it became to expensive to live in California.

In the past 3 months, I have had a run of bad luck, and need some financial help to get back on my feet.

In July, my mom and I decided to move back to California. Unfortunately, on our way there, my mom had a stroke and passed away.

I decided to go back to Oklahoma, but as I was traveling through Arizona, I found out that I had a warrant for a traffic ticket that I didn't appear in court for, and was taken to jail. My dogs were taken to the local humane society, and my vehicles were towed away. After serving 18 days in jail, I went back to claim my dogs, and found out thay they wanted a large sum of money to get the out.

I tried borrowing from friends, but because of the economy, no one was able to help.

My dogs are my # 1 priority, and I love them very much. They are really the only family that I have left.

If you can find it in your heart to help me in this difficult time, it would be greatly appreciated.

If feel time is quickly running out for my dogs. I have many sleepless nights thinking about my mom and dogs.

Please if you can help me, I will definately pay it forward as soon as I get back on my feet. Even if you can afford $1, it gets me 1 step closer to being reunited with my dogs.

If you would like to contact me in person, below is my e-mail address:

cvxfire@yahoo.com

Thank You
Clinton Vestal

Please Reunite Me With My Miniature Pinschers

Posted by cvxfire on 2010-10-03 23:58:58

My name is Clinton Vestal, and I am 36 years old.

I was born and raised in California, and lived there until 2005. My mom and I moved to Oklahoma, because it became to expensive to live in California.

In the past 3 months, I have had a run of bad luck, and need some financial help to get back on my feet.

In July, my mom and I decided to move back to California. Unfortunately, on our way there, my mom had a stroke and passed away.

I decided to go back to Oklahoma, but as I was traveling through Arizona, I found out that I had a warrant for a traffic ticket that I didn't appear in court for, and was taken to jail. My dogs were taken to the local humane society, and my vehicles were towed away. After serving 18 days in jail, I went back to claim my dogs, and found out thay they wanted a large sum of money to get the out.

I tried borrowing from friends, but because of the economy, no one was able to help.

My dogs are my # 1 priority, and I love them very much. They are really the only family that I have left.

If you can find it in your heart to help me in this difficult time, it would be greatly appreciated.

If feel time is quickly running out for my dogs. I have many sleepless nights thinking about my mom and dogs.

Please if you can help me, I will definately pay it forward as soon as I get back on my feet. Even if you can afford $1, it gets me 1 step closer to being reunited with my dogs.

If you would like to contact me in person, below is my e-mail address:

cvxfire@yahoo.com

Thank You
Clinton Vestal

Please Reunite Me With My Miniature Pinschers

Posted by cvxfire on 2010-09-27 14:58:58

My name is Clinton Vestal, and I am 36 years old.

I was born and raised in California, and lived there until 2005. My mom and I moved to Oklahoma, because it became to expensive to live in California.

In the past 3 months, I have had a run of bad luck, and need some financial help to get back on my feet.

In July, my mom and I decided to move back to California. Unfortunately, on our way there, my mom had a stroke and passed away.

I decided to go back to Oklahoma, but as I was traveling through Arizona, I found out that I had a warrant for a traffic ticket that I didn't appear in court for, and was taken to jail. My dogs were taken to the local humane society, and my vehicles were towed away. After serving 18 days in jail, I went back to claim my dogs, and found out thay they wanted a large sum of money to get the out.

I tried borrowing from friends, but because of the economy, no one was able to help.

My dogs are my # 1 priority, and I love them very much. They are really the only family that I have left.

If you can find it in your heart to help me in this difficult time, it would be greatly appreciated.

If feel time is quickly running out for my dogs. I have many sleepless nights thinking about my mom and dogs.

Please if you can help me, I will definately pay it forward as soon as I get back on my feet. Even if you can afford $1, it gets me 1 step closer to being reunited with my dogs.

If you would like to contact me in person, below is my e-mail address:

cvxfire@yahoo.com

Thank You
Clinton Vestal

Please Reunite Me With My Miniature Pinschers

Posted by cvxfire on 2010-09-27 13:58:58

My name is Clinton Vestal, and I am 36 years old.

I was born and raised in California, and lived there until 2005, because it became to expensive to live in california.

In the past 3 months, I have had a run of bad luck, and need some financial help to get back on my feet.

In July, my mom and I decided to move back to California. Unfortunately, on our way there, my mom had a stroke and passed away.

I decided to go back to Oklahoma, but as I was traveling through Arizona, I found out that I had a warrant for a traffic ticket that I didn't appear in court for, and was taken to jail. My dogs were taken to the local humane society, and my vehicles were towed away. After serving 18 days in jail, I went back to claim my dogs, and found out thay they wanted a large sum of money to get the out.

I tried borrowing from friends, but because of the economy, no one was able to help.

My dogs are my # 1 priority, and I love them very much. They are really the only family that I have left.

If you can find it in your heart to help me in this difficult time, it would be greatly appreciated.

If feel time is quickly running out for my dogs. I have many sleepless nights thinking about my mom and dogs.

Please if you can help me, I will definately pay it forward as soon as I get back on my feet. Even if you can afford $1, it gets me 1 step closer to being reunited with my dogs.

Thank You
Clinton Vestal

Please Reunite Me With My Miniature Pinschers

Posted by cvxfire on 2010-09-23 15:58:58

My name is Clinton Vestal, and I am 36 years old.

I was born and raised in California, and lived there until 2005. My mom and I moved to Oklahoma in late 2005 because it became to expensive to live in California.

In the past 3 months, I have had a run of bad luck, and need some financial help to get back on my feet.

In July, my mom and I decided to move back to California. Unfortunately, on our way there, my mom had a stroke and passed away.

I decided to go back to Oklahoma, but as I was traveling through Arizona, I found out that I had a warrant for a traffic ticket that I didn't appear in court for, and was taken to jail. My dogs were taken to the local humane society, and my vehicles were towed away. After serving 18 days in jail, I went back to claim my dogs, and found out that they wanted a large sum of money to get them out.

I tried borrowing money from friends, but because of the economy, no one was able to help.

My dogs are my #1 priority, and I love them very much. They are really the only family I have left.

If you can find it in your heart to help me in this difficult time, it would be greatly appreciated.

Thank You
Clinton Vestal