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Posted by nshurt on 2012-05-24 19:58:50

I am a fulltime college student. I am completely on my own. My mom died in 2001 when I was 8 years old. My dad even after her death has never felt like he is responsible for raising me. My maternal grandmother who became my caretaker after my mother's death passed away in 2007. My grandfather who has the capability to help me chooses to invest his money in the local strip club instead of on my brother and I. I do work really hard and things honestly never seem to work out for me. I just secured a job 30 minutes away from my house unfortunately I have no money for gas. I do not even have money to eat tonight. I received a $2000 loan from school this past year and gave every penny to my grandfather so that he could pay our property taxes so that we could have somewhere to live. I later found out he did not invest this money in the property taxes but in fact let our house get sold in a tax sale. Now I am broke and will have no where to live by september. I just need enough money for food and gas for the next two weeks that way I can make it to work and eat until my first paycheck. Any contribution would be appreciated.

Need Money To Prevent Eviction

Posted by HelpACS on 2012-05-20 23:58:53

I really need help, I couldn't sleep tonight. I actually googled , "I am about to get evicted and I need help paying rent" and this website came up so here I am. If this site really works and there is anyone out there willing or able to help I sincerely need you now! My rent including late fee is $725 and as of today I m 21 days late and only have $80. The reason for this is that I work part time and get paid every 2 weeks. While my pay is usually enough to cover this, I did fracture my toe and sprain my ankle 2 weeks ago causing me to miss a week from work. I'm also a freelance designer so I can work from home but I have not received any new projects so no money coming in there.
I am willing to trade services/work for whatever I can get, I design logos, websites and more, you can see my portfolio at raisincanearts.com that way I will be earning instead of begging.... really need help please someone, anyone this is not a scam, I need money any amount helps as long as it brings me closer to that $725 but that is my end goal. I don't have any friends or family that can help me so this is really my last resort. If you need any graphic design in exchange for donation my email is canr.raisincanearts@yahoo.com. Thank you

Lost my kids, mom, and home in just a few months.

Posted by babygirlz4u2 on 2012-05-15 22:58:54

Im 35 have two kids. I, like many other single moms, worked and lived a normal quiet life with my kids. My exhusband threw us out the house almost six years ago with nothing. I worked hard to get an apartment and pay bills and care for my kids including putting them sports to keep them active. Everything worked out ok for all these years until my ex got married. He married into riches and now he wants the kids. Looking at his finances, he took me to court and sued me for full custody, without money for a lawyer I asked for court orderd attorney. That didnt work out for me and now Im having to pay 400.00 mthly for child support and get them every other weekends. I cant even get them to go to church with me cause my ex threw in that he didnt want religion in my kids. How a judge can do this, I dont understand. All this came down in Feb,2012. I cant pay for an apartment so I moved in with my mom in march, 2012. she as of May 2, 2012 had a massive heartattache. now Im out without anything. Because I moved out the way to live with my mom, I lost my job, cause it was too far and my mom was paying car notes on her car and it has to be returned to dealership. and no money for rent on her home and everything has hit me and Its more than I can bear. Please help me so I can get on my feet to atleast so I can get an apartment for me and my kids and and help get my job so I can pay my child support, most important. I pray everyday/nite for God to help me and I was praying tonight 5/15/2012, and I felt he led me here to this site for help. Thank you for help.

Family in need (please read)

Posted by Kihluna on 2012-05-07 00:58:41

I`ve never asked for anything before, I`m usually very good about taking care of my family and keeping things in private no matter how bad they are but I`m hoping my good karma will come back to me now.
I am a stay at home mother who doesn`t just sit around eating bon-bons all day with my kid. My son is 15 months old, with Achondroplasia, which is a type of dwarfism. He got it from his father. I lost my job of 5 years December 26th 2011, because I was sick. Lost the unemployment hearing too. Since then I`ve helped out by doing survey sites and other odd jobs online, as well as housekeeping and babysitting and whatever I could in the real world.
Our son needs alot of one-on-one time. He just had head surgery April 10th and is still recovering, though he has improved drastically from it. The day we came home from the hospital, April 13th, my husband was fired for taking the 3 days off to be in the hospital with us 2 hrs upstate. He lost the unemployment hearing as well. Same boss, we both lost to him. Sucks but we have to move on.
Well then to add to the pile our landlord bailed on us. We`ve been sitting around with the rent wondering why no one has come to get it. Turns out he ran off with some woman somewhere, left half the houses to his wife to rent out, and the other half to his brother...who doesn`t want to rent. He already has a buyer too, who doesn`t want us in here.
We`re sitting on a ticking time bomb, basically hiding because we can`t afford to pay rent here and pay to get out. Our lease has been up for 3 months anyway.
Now as luck would have it we found a place, and we have half the money to get in, but the lady can`t help us out with the deposit. She`s been nice enough to hold it for us for now, but we need the money to get in.

My husband just landed a job, but he doesn`t start for another 2-3 weeks and then its mostly training. Tonight both us and the dogs had ramen noodles for dinner, and we are running out of formula for the baby..Wic isn`t available for another 3 days. We need something, anything. I`m not asking for alot, just a dollar or anything you can find in yourself to help us out. Anything would be appreciated.

Thanks.
The paypal listed is our roommates. He is currently paying all the bills himself except the rent so he can`t help put anything aside for the move.

thrown out of family home because of my sexuality

Posted by nicolaclaire on 2012-03-30 20:58:00

I'm a 19 year old girl who has been kicked out of the family home for coming out about my sexuality. I've slept rough twice and have been given a sofa for tonight only, I can't see beyond this point. I have no money, food or shelter. I need £129 to secure myself a bedsit for a month, which then gives me time to look for work to support myself. I've never lived alone or had to support myself and I was never prepared for this. Can anybody spare me the cash?? Email me at Sassygiirl91@live.co.uk for my details if you are able to help. It would be very much appreciated xxx

Please have mercy upon me I need help

Posted by barbie49701 on 2012-03-28 23:58:19

Please if you read this have mercy upon me, my husband left, I broke my foot, I need help, I've been praying for god to intervene on my behalf and help me, I found this site, I don't know it's god will for you show me kindness, however, i do know somewhere in this world there has to be someone who's a christian, following Gods example and will help me to pay my rent and buy food, please, help me, I don't know where to turn anymore, i feel so helpless,GOD IF YOU LISTENING HAVE MERCY UPON ME TONIGHT, I NEED YOUR HELP THROUGH THIS SITE IN JESUS NAME I PRAY AMEN.

In Dire Need of Your Help

Posted by GratefulMe on 2012-02-24 23:58:51

Hi:
I'm in dire need of your help and I don't know where else to turn to save my husband's restaurant business of 20 years. He started from scratch, and we've been putting in the long endless hours. The economic recession hit us badly; we have used all our savings to keep afloat and keep our loyal staff employed as long as we could. The banks will not lend, so we've borrowed from family, sold property, downsized in every way we can, heartbreakingly cut staff to the bare minimum. We are indebted to the hilt. Bill collectors are calling, our home is going in foreclosure. We're afraid to think of what the reality really is, or we might go bonkers. We live by faith and hope, believing that each day we rise will be a better day than the day before. We have never begged nor have we ever expected handouts; we have instead been working hard trying to achieve the American dream and have given freely and joyfully to our community and others in need. But tonight as I sit here, I don't know where to turn; I have reached out to beg and it's breaking my heart, but I don't know where else to do. I am thinking a divine entity led me to this site, so here I am, begging for your help. Please help us, because it is bad. We are located in New York and will be willing to meet with and talk to anyone willing to help. We will be grateful for any amount you can give. ANY AMOUNT. Please donate to us through paypal. May your blessings be mulitiplied ten fold. From the bottom of my heart, I thank you.

Desperate

Posted by richmood on 2012-02-21 11:58:34

Hi there
i am hoping some generous people out there can see it in there hearts to help an unemployed desperate man for paying his debt of rent in arrears as due to the fact of taking ill last year it has forced me to leave my job and things are just piling up and up and up. i am seriously desperate to raise £70 by the end of tonight to pay my rent otherwise i end up out on the street as this is my last chance to pay. Please be kind and help

Homeless

Posted by thaspence on 2012-01-21 15:58:05

Hi, I'm Andrew. I live in Athens, GA and I'm homeless. I live in a dirt ditch under the classic center. I would like to live in a hotel at least once because its so rainy and I'm cold. All the shelters are full and I can't seem to find anywhere to stay. Could someone help me sleep in a bed tonight?

Motorcycle accident..please help

Posted by tadwisn on 2012-01-21 14:58:09

September 2011: Had a nearly fatal motorcycle accident on Lucent Blvd. in Denver. The events leading up to the accident I am unclear of, all I remember is waking up underneith a car and couldnt move. I remember the ambulance showing up to extricate me. Apparently I had a shattered pelvis and a broken humorus. I also sustained another concussion. I never was a big fan of the helmet, in fact very rarely did I wear one. I just happened by chance to decide to wear one that day, if I hadnt I'd be dead. It used to be that I struggled to survive, now I struggle to exist. This account is by my wife:

On September 28th, 2011
My husband Trevan had an accident on is his way to an Interview and he was going on Lucent to get on to the highway on C470 and was not able to see with the dew on the street and sun glare. He didn’t see the car at the stoplights, going on to C470. Didn’t know or see that it was stopped at the light. The sun was so bad that he slammed right into the person in front of him and went over the handlebars of the motorcycle and over the person’s car and was found underneath the car. The Paramedics found him under the person’s car and had to pull him out from under it.

I got a call about 8:15 am from the fire department letting me know that my husband was in an accident. I was so scared I was trying to get my son ready for school and get my daughter ready to so I could take him. I was told that he was taken to Littleton Hospital and that I can call over there and get info on how he is doing. Instead of me calling the ER the ER nurse called me and gave me some info about what they are doing and what ER room they are taking him to. They took some x-rays and he couldn’t be moved because they were not sure about his back. So they did the x-rays in the ER. That is what the nurse told me that they were doing and that he was stable. The nurse also said if I could get to the hospital as soon as I could, it would be a good idea to come since the police and fire department was still there. I told her I would try. I called my mother in law to let her that her son was in an accident and I called my mom. There were other people that I called too. When I got there and I had to park so far in the back of the hospital that I had to ask for directions to get to the ER from the outpatient so I could be there with my husband. When I got there it was very hard to see what he looked like. He had a neck brace on and his left arm was all wrapped up like a present. He had a big gash on the inside of his right leg that was pretty wide and you could see the fat and it kept on bleeding. They would not take off the brace from his neck because they didn’t know what else was going on with him. I met the ER doctors and they told me that he is in quite bit of pain, and that he was starting to not know what happened off and on. I tried to see if he could tell me himself but could not remember. One of the ER doctors was very concerned about the blood in his urine so they took him to another place in the hospital to do some more tests on him. My mom in the mean time called me and told me that she was on her way to be at the hospital with me for support, I told her that I really need some comfort and to keep it together. When she got here Trevan was not yet taken to get tested yet so my mom said hi to him and ask him questions. Then with the ER nurses came in to take him for the tests my mom ask the nurse what kind of test that they were going to do on him and they said it is to check for internal bleeding. When Trevan was taken back we went to sit in the waiting room in the ER. My mom kept asking me questions but I could not answer any of them, because I have not been told about any thing besides what the nurse told me on the phone before I got there. I ask the nurses that were still around they’re about where his belonging were because I needed to know if his wallet and other things like ring and glasses was there. They handed me the beg that had his wallet and other things that they took off of him. I took the beg with me so I could go through it and see if every thing was still with him. His wedding band was in there his wallet was in there and socks and helmet was there too so I took it with me out to the waiting room. There was also a ticket that the police left in it too. My mom took a look at it to find out what all happened. It just said it was his fault but we didn’t think it was his fault, but later on we did fine out it was his fault but we took care of it for him while he was in the hospital. While we were waiting Trevan’s mom came with my daughter to see him but he was still not back in the Trauma room. After a while they finally moved him to a room so we all went there. They took him to the ICU and we had to keep our hands clean at all times coming and going. Trevan was put on many powerful pain medicines for the pain. He was put on dilaudid and he was on that for a while but then he was inching so bad that they took him off of that and put him on morphine he was a little better but still was itching like crazy.

Doug and Jan drove out here on Wednesday night they didn’t stop except for brakes and gas but they drove all the way through so could see Trevan. They arrived at the hospital at 3:30 am. Trevan didn’t remember that his dad and step mom came to see him the first night. I told him twice that they were here and he just didn’t remember it. Every one came to see Trevan everyday Doug and J, Karen and John Hager, Kehli, his mom Beverly. Doug and Jan were here for four days and they were here also for the surgery. We had a lot of people in the waiting room Beverly and our kids, me, and Doug and Jan. I was happy that I had that many people there with me because I was very upset.

October 1st 2011
Trevan had his surgery on both the pelvis and the humerus bone. The doctor started with his pelvis first he said it was the quick one and that Trevan didn’t loose much blood with that one. Then the doctor moved Trevan to another table to do the other part of the surgery. He lost a little bit of blood when they did his surgery on the arm they had to give him two pints of blood. The doctor did come out to tell us the update as he did them and how everything was going. He showed us before and after x-rays. The doctor did a great job of fixing Trevan up. Then after the surgery was done he was in recovery room for about an hour and a half. They moved Trevan to his room afterwards and he still was not doing hot. He kept saying that the room was moving and it made him sick. He tried to keep his eyes closed but it made him even feel worse. He also kept asking for ice chips which I feed to him as much as I could. He was better by the evening, he didn’t feel dizzy any more. Family kept coming to see him and tell him that they love him and pray that he will heal quickly. I stayed with him every night after the surgery to keep an eye on how he was doing. He didn’t remember a lot of things, which in some ways it is good but in some ways it is bad. I think a lot of it had to do with the pain medicine that the doctors was giving him. A nurse told me that it could happen with the medicine could make you forgetful depending on what kind of pain medicine.

October 4th 2011
While Trevan was at the hospital he did fall. He hit his head agents the closet that was in his room. The nurses found him on the floor. They did say that when he fell he landed on his right side and that they don’t think he hurt him self, but he did hit his head when he went down. I asked them if they were going to see if he did any damage, and they said that he didn’t and couldn’t do that much damage because the way he fell. I asked them if he hurt any thing else and the nurse they checked him over and asked him questions and didn’t see any evidence that he had any more damage to what he already had. I asked to if they did any test to see. They said they didn’t do any other tests on him because they didn’t want him to be exposed to any more radiation from the x-ray machine. He was getting out of bed by his self with out any help, which he was not supposed to do that. That is why when he fell they put a bed alarm on his bed so they would know at all times that he gets up, for his safety.

October 5th 2011
During that time while he was a Littleton hospital they were trying to find a rehab place for him so he can start getting back on his feet. They did find one and they had him transferred from Littleton to Porter hospital. Before he left I told him that I would see him later that evening and so will his mom and kids. He said ok and they he was gone. That evening Beverly and the rest of us call daddy from his mom’s phone to let him know that we are coming to see him but we were going to stop and get something to eat on the way up to the hospital. Then while we were eating at Wendy’s he calls me on my cell phone and asks if we were still coming I told him yes. I asked him did you even remember that we called you before and told you that we were coming he said no he didn’t remember. While he was on the phone with me still we asked him if he wanted us to bring something for him. He said yes. We brought him a hamburger and a frosty. When we got to the Porter hospital and got to his room we noticed it was very small and odd shaped. He had a window but in the wrong place or the room was just in the worst place. It looked like a bad shaped L and had no flow to it. I asked Trevan on how he was doing and he said tired and in pain. I said you just been through a lot and it will take a while to heal. Then we gave him is food and let him eat while we also talked to the nurses that were taking care of him there. We also ask that if there was a way for a cot to be put in there so I could stay with him some of the times. They said yes that they will get one in the room the next time I come up to see him. I said thanks. They also had a bed alarm on his bed and his wheel chair that he was using. I am happy that they had that on there but the moment that he got up to use the urinal that the alarm went off. And he didn’t feel comfortable with them always coming in and him not able to potty when he wanted too. When he is in the bed but keep it on when he is in the wheel chair because he could not remember to lock his brakes before he transferred form the wheel >chair to bed or just getting up to stand.

October 6th 2011
Trevan calls him mom to get my number to be able to call me. He talked to her for a while and he also asked if we were coming to see him, and also asked if we knew where he was. His mom said yes she knew and asked him if he remembered that we were the other night. He said no and also said that we weren’t there to see him. Which we were there but he just didn’t remember that we were all there his son and daughter me and his mom. He forgot the entire evening and event that we even were there to see him the night before. His mom said to him that we were all coming to see you again tonight so we will see you later. The same day I went to take our van to get the oil changed in it and found out that there was a clucking sound and they told me that it was not safe for me to keep driving it. They said about a week or two would be all I should drive it. I called my dad and asked if he knew any one that I could take my van to get an idea on how much it would cast to get it fixed. This was all the same day that I was going to see Trevan at the hospital. They didn’t want me to drive it anymore until it was fixed. So Beverly had to take me back and forth to and from the hospital for a while. After Beverly got off work we all got in to the car and drove up to the hospital. We asked the nurses if there was any way for Trevan to watch movies other than watching TV all the time. They said yes and told us there is a TV, VCR that is on a cart that can go into their room to watch movies and only VHS tapes only no DVD’S. So mom went into the lunchroom and looked at all the movies and wrote down all the ones that Trevan would be interested in watching. After she was done she brought the list to Trevan to see and to know that he had choices. Then we went home and told Trevan that we will see him later the next day. Then said our good-byes.

October 7th 2011
There was a lot of thing going on this day that I don’t want to go through again. I had to take my van to a place that my sister in law told me about. I made my appointment with them the day before and they wanted me to bring it back today and get it fixed. They even said that it was not safe at all. I left it with them to fix it in the morning. Then I came back home and had more things to do. I had to run around back and forth using my mother in laws car which was ok she was taking care of my daughter and my niece so I got thing done and I was able to relax a little bit. We all went to see Trevan that evening. We had to go and pick up my van after we picked up dinner. Then we left to see Trevan. When we got there into Trevan’s room he looked really tired and in a bit of pain. We got an extra hamburger so we gave it to him so he could eat it. Of course he at it all up. I changed the channel and found shreck the movie and we all watched that with Trevan. The nurse cam in to see how he was doing. He said that he needed more pain medicine, also needed to have his depends changed. The kids and grandma left outside the room while he was getting changed. After he got settled again the kids came back in and they were getting rowdy so I ask Beverly to take the kids home. They gave their daddy a kiss and left. That night I stayed with him and he kept on asking if the nurse had given him his pain medicine. I told him yes that they did give you your medicine. I asked him if even remembered it and he said no. He asked me 4 other times to while I was there. When it was time for him to have another dose of medicine I said to use the call button that is what it is there for instead of me always running in and out of his room to let the nurses know that he needed more medicine. I stayed with him all night it was very hard for me to hear. When Trevan would fall to sleep he would start dreaming and breathing heavy then wake up crying and then fell back to sleep. It would go on about 5 times at night. I think it was nightmares and when he wakes up he would not remember any of it.

October 8th 2011
The nurses were coming into see how Trevan was doing. He had his breakfast and pain medicine. After breakfast the therapist came in to take him to do some therapy stuff. He worked on the ramp with wheel chair going up and down with keeping control with his feet. The first round was 35 minutes. Then comes back and rests for a half-hour and goes again for 30 minutes. Then he came back and rested and had lunch. Then he went with another therapist and goes and has a shower, but after a while he came back. The nurses told me when they came back with Trevan that the cut on the inside of the right leg came open while they were helping him with his shower. He lost a little bit of blood but it hurt him quite a bit. So two nurses came back. One was pushing him and the other on putting pressure on the wound. When he was back in the room he looked like a ghost, and looked very tired. Then his nurse came in to put a different kind of bandage on his leg. By the end of the day he had color back in his face and was doing better. That day and evening he didn’t know that I was staying with him. I was with him at the hospital since Friday night, to Sunday evening. I will be going home on Sunday night.

October 9th 2011
The nurses and doctors decided not to have therapy because Trevan gave them a scare. So they just let him rest and let the wound heal some more before he did any more. I watched him sleep and he has the bad dreams again all day, and all night. I woke up every time he had the dreams. I counted how many times he would wake up and go to sleep again. It was hard to hear too. When he did wake up I would ask if he remembered any of it. He would say No. I did let the nurses know what was going on with Trevan and also asked him to keep an eye out and check on him. I also asked them to keep a record of it too. I left the evening so I could take care of my kids the next day. My mother in law had to work and had to keep Sarah with me. I said my good-byes. I asked the nurses to keep me in formed on how he did through the night.

October 10th 2011
Trevan told me that he had therapy and that he was in some pain. He was up in the wheel chair and bed. He was learning how to put socks and underwear, shorts and shirt on by him self with out help and doing it all by with one hand. He did OK is what he said. It is hard for him to remember which arm to do in first. The nurses said try to remember left first than over the head than right arm. Then put your glasses on so you can see. He said he would try to remember. Then I went home. He also saw the doctor and asked for Ibuprofen.

October 11th 2011
I got to the hospital to see Trevan about 7ish. He looked tire but also happy to see me. He said to me when I can in “I was wondering when you were going to be here” I said I had to take care of the kids first. In the morning he did therapy then he has lunch and after he had lunch he did some more activities he had u ride outside and played scrabble to get his mind working on thinking. That is what he did during the day when I was not there to see him during the day Trevan had therapy and looked somewhat tired when I got there, he was also in his wheel chair. He ate all the tacos that his mom got for him. After we got done eating he was in a lot of pain. He asked for more pain medicine and he could not get any more ibuprofen. So they gave him percocet for the pain. All we did while I was there with him we talked and watched TV together. Was late when I left to go home and care for my kids.

October 12th 2011
I went to see Trevan about 7ish again. He did a lot of thing in the morning it was all written down so I knew what he did. Which he was to do every day for his memory issues that he has. He had breakfast then he had PT. He did exercises with his legs. ST. tested him it scored 20 out of 25 on the cognitive tests. Then he did some transferring using one leg, 2-½ lbs. on the other leg (right leg all weight and partial weight on the left.) After lunch he did the walker, wheel chair, shower, teeth and hair. All of this info that I keep getting is what he writes down for his memory reminder. I took a look at him and asked him how he is doing, He said he is in a bit of pain. A lot of pain was mainly in the arm. He asked for some pain medicine and he started to fall to sleep. So I told him that I would head home and take care of the kids. He said to tell them that he loves them. I said ok.

October 13th 2011
Just reading his report that he wrote. He did getting in to his wheel chair to go to the toilet, Independence Square and weight. That was his activities during the day and he also had another stitch pop and his leg started bleeding again. That is what he told me. It is covered with gaze. I was happy that they did put that on there to protect it better. He has been sleeping better. They aren’t using the walker with the plate form because of his bad left arm. He is balancing so much better on his right leg which I am very proud of him. I noticed while I was there he didn’t remember that he had his pain medicine which they did give it to him. But they could not give him any more until 9:15 PM. And it was about 8:20 PM when he asked for more pain medicine.

October 14th 2011
Trevan woke up around 5:45 am having pain in his arm and needed to be changed. Found out that Dr. Bess has not released him from putting more weight on his left leg. It will be 30% weight for a while. At a little bit after 9 this morning went for a wheel chair walk. He sat in the wheel chair and used his right foot to move him forward and his right hand also help him to move forward in the direction that he needs to go. He went around the hallway twice. Then after he did that he came back to his room, so after that another person came in and took him down to the shower. Both of us were in the shower room with the nurse getting him ready and helping him stand only on one leg. He could not put much weight on the left leg. After every thing was off the therapist helped him sit on the shower/ tub chair. We both helped him get cleaned up, but we made sure he did most of the cleaning up. He did well at listening to me and stayed seated until we needed him to stand to pull up his pants. He only used his right leg to stand on and his right arm to pull up. I told him if he comes home he is going to have to listen and wait until I can come and help him. I didn’t want him to fall again and end up in the hospital again. After the shower we went back to his room to rest for a few minutes. Then he went to do more moving therapy. He did hopping on the right leg and using the parallel bars with the right arm to and from the wheel chair. Then he did some bumping up and down on the stairs. They would not do any more of them for a while because it tired him out so much. We did not know when he would be able to come home yet. We were going to have someone come by to take a look at the house and see if he can come home. Right now it is set for wed. But it is not set in stone. I am planning to stay the night again and leave about 8:15 am to watch my daughter. Then I will be back to stay with him again that evening.

October 15th 2011
This is what Trevan did for the day, leg/ hip exercises, control wheelchair up and down ramp. ST- did memory strategies, put a picture with info, and writing down notes. OT- watched him do his brushing his teeth, getting dressed, independence square (cashier, shop, and sandwich) memory. That is what he did and also found out he has a urine infection. He slept a little bit, was up having to go to the potty all night, had to remind him mot to put any weight on his left leg. He said that he was not but I doubt it. I was watching him. After he was done he was always putting weight on the left leg every time he pushed his butt back in the bed. I am very worried about that. I did tell the nurses to keep an eye on him that he was having issues with him having to pee all the time. Since he had the infection. They said that they would keep watch and see how he does through the night.

October 16th 2011
Trevan had a bad day at remembering this day. I just don’t remember what he forgot because I was also very tired this day also.

October 17th 2011
We brought Trevan home to do the home inspection so we could find out what we all needed to do and what to get for the house, so Trevan can come home. We didn’t want him to get injured any more than what he is now. When we got to the house the two nurses had to lift him and the wheel chair up the stairs since we didn’t have the ramp up quite yet. We did tell them it would be up once we know what day we could get help. While Trevan was still sitting in the wheel chair he had to use the restroom. He did try to get in the restroom which he did do just fine, but when he was ready to get back out and into the wheel chair he almost fell in to the wheel. So they deiced not to have him use the small bathroom.

I must pay county taxes or I lose my driver's license!

Posted by nott2late4me on 2011-12-31 14:58:05

I owe delinquent county auto taxes in the amount of $184.00.
I moved last month and paid new rent, security deposit, electric company deposit, natural gas deposit, etc.
I have no extras-no cable, no internet, no house phone, and that I can deal with.
I DO have a good job and need to drive to work each day.
DMV will suspend my driver's license TONIGHT if I do not pay the past due county taxes for last 2010. HELP!!
I get paid in 2 weeks but must register my vehicle for 2012. The State of Virginia(and most states) will suspend my driving privileges if my past due personal property taxes are not paid.
I just spent my last $68.00 dollars replacing a front tire today on my 1994 Dodge Caravan.
Will you please help me?
My mailing address is P. O. Box 811, Mechanicsville, Va, 23111.
Happy New Year!!

I just came out to my family

Posted by tns14 on 2011-11-12 16:58:50

I am 15 years old, female and just came out to my family tonight and they kicked me out. I don't have any friends who can let me stay over so I came to starbucks to post this on my laptop, it's all I have. I don't have a job and don't know what to do for food. I'm super upset and alone, I can't believe this is happening to me, I should have known they wouldn't accept me, they are very religious. Please if u could donate whatever you can so that I may have food tonight I would appreciate it. Thank u

Homeless in 18 Hours

Posted by homelessnow on 2011-11-09 19:58:28

We lost our home in September and had to go stay with the only family we had out of state. After 2 weeks we realized my son in law has a serious drinking problem, explaining his violent and irrational behavior. At the end of Oct we'd saved enough money to fly back to our hometown where we'd feel a bit safer and could get into a not so bad weekly hotel long enough to regroup

Well, the snowstorm in NYC cancelled our flight, and at the same time my wife developed severe problems with her blood glucose levels. She has child onset diabetes. After various tests at ER they discovered a serious abcess in her jaw and admitted her for antibiotic therapy. (Yale Hosp). This caused us to miss our flight again and had to buy tickets once more.

After returning to Atlanta she wasn't doing better and was readmitted because the infection was resistant to antibiotics. Meanwhile I am having to go from one hotel to the other getting dirt cheap rates on Priceline.com but no longer having money for food or the weekly hotel.

She was discharged from hospital last night.

Tonight is our last night and tomorrow we are out on the street with no food, nowhere to go and no money forger medication.

We are both professional 40 yr olds, lost our jobs and now our home, had to give up our animals and had car repossessed. Please, somebody, somewhere have some kindness and a generous heart.

$300 and a Laptop

Posted by uhelped on 2011-10-26 15:58:44

resortformymobilehomies.blogspot.com (click tabs for The Goal, Funding the Project and How Can I Help for more info.).

After years of study and hands-on experience I truly have The Goose That Lays the Golden Eggs.

However, in order to fund the Goose, I need to start by trading the Forex. Because of the leverage involved and my system that will limit my risk, I can start this venture with only $300 and a laptop.

I am currently homeless and tonight we are expecting a low of 17 degrees in Colorado Springs. Since I don't drink or do drugs I can take advantage of the emergency shelter locally.

However, many others are not so fortunate. They need help in ways that they are not currently receiving. Many of the homeless have animals, and for that reason alone, they are unable to use the shelter.

Others are like I used to be when I first started going through this ordeal. They are still in their cars and purposely avoid association with the homeless who are not mobile. They may still be working, receiving a government check or nothing at all.

Help Me Help Them by funding my forex trading venture.

What can you expect in return? Your help will not be in vain. If you read the blog you will be able to see the type of person I am (warts and all). I have tried everything from looking for full-time employment, working day labor which is no longer an option because of physical reasons and flying a sign on the side of the interstate.

In addition to the immediate help you provide me, you can also know that you have helped thousands of others in Colorado alone.
last night while he was in town, he was told his house was on fire, he rushed home hurried to grab the
garden hose to save what he could, only he fell and had to go to the hospital where he fractured
several ribs and tore something in his for arm,which is wrapped and in a sling.
today he can hardly move for the pain.
he lost 4 kittens and the mama cat, every photo he had of his kids and so much more.
unfortunatley he didnt have insurance on the house.

he has a 19 yr old son living with him.

the fire dept probably did as much damage as the fire. they didnt try to seal the section off and work
on it, they soaked everything , every room.. so much that the ceiling fell in.
no one has contacted him most of the day, no one offered to really help these people..

i came home, got on the phone and called the red cross in albemarle nc, the lady said we cant do anything
till we hear from the fire marshall,
so we tried to call the fire marshal.. this was like 2 pm today..(friday) no answer left a message, it is now 11:30 at night.
.still no reply back.
someone did tell us he wouldn't contact them till he finished his investigation, that could be days,
called a church here, they said yes we help but we go through stanly county christian ministries call them.. so i called them
they said well, he needs to bring something showing his house burnt..i said lady its not as if they give to a certificate to hand out
when your house catches on fire.. i can give you the norwood police number, or the fire marshal to verify it..
around 5-6 red cross call's my friend.. tells him they are going to put he and his son up in a hotel in albemarle for the weekend.
. and he never heard back from them.. its now 11: 30 at night. i called the hotel they said red cross did call, but they didn't
send the paper work or call back.
thank god for the one friend he does have who is letting them stay at his house tonight, and giving them a hot shower,
and a place to rest. if left to the red cross i guess they would be sleeping in the yard.

this is crazy.. his house is totaled from one end to the other, nothing is untouched by smut and water,
no power, no clothes..not even a pair of socks.
charities are so eager to take your money, .but it seems to take an act of congress to get help if your the victim,
this is a good guy, he has volunteered his time endless times, days on end at the community table to feed people just
down the road. he'd help anybody he could,and has a wonderful son.

things they could really use,
clothes,
if there is anyone who might work in construction that has left over wood 2x4's, 2x6's
plywood, sheet rock, flooring,
anything it doesn't even matter if its scrap.
if anyone has some gently used furniture, beds, blankets.

thank you for taking the time to read my post, i know there are alot of good people out there who
still believe in helping, you just have to find a way to let them know you need it.
any help you can give would mean so much.

i can provide proof, phone numbers, photos, and address.
all i ask is please be serious in offering to help,
my name is tina..

Someone please help us.

Posted by mominneed on 2011-08-12 13:58:26

I am a single mom of 3 boys. I have payday loans that i used to fix my car so i can get to work and get my boys to school. Now i am unable to pay my bills due to the high payments on the loans.

I feel so ashamed to be doing this, but really have no other choice. I get no support from their father, don't even know where he ran off to. I work so I don't qualify for any government assistance. I don't know how i'm going to feed them tonight and we will have no where to live in a week if I can't come up with my rent.

I pray everyday that God will take this burden from me. Please any amount you can give will make a world of difference. I hope there is someone out there who finds it in their heart to help us.

Please donate any amount possible. Even a penny.

Posted by lorzface on 2011-07-27 16:58:40

My mother was diagnosed with breast cancer about 2 years ago, and with all of the doctor's visits and time missed from work, she was laid off. The company said it wasn't related to the medical situation my mother was going through, but you could tell it was. She worked for a very successful bank and was one of the top workers. Anyway, she's been living off of her unemployment and it's run dry. I did have a job for almost a year, but since we became homeless I lost it due to missing days. We slept a different place every couple of days, and I just couldn't keep the job. I am 20, my mother is 41 and I have two younger siblings. We are on the verge of being evicted and have not even eaten today. Luckily, we are going to a soup kitchen tonight, but I don't know what we will do after that. Any help would be appreciated, even if it's small. Thank you!
You have to understand,I am a marines daughter who was brought up to respect my country as I do so very much.This is why I have never been on welfare or food stamps.I've always thought there may have been someone else in more need than I.After losing two businesses since this recession fell upon all of us,it's been impossible to keep up with all of our bills.I don't even have credit card bills,we just pay for rent,utilities,and our car.I am sadly here tonight to ask for help.I am hoping to collect enough money so we can be stable again as I never want to have to ask for any help ever again.I don't even have enough money to take the kids anywhere this summer or put them in a summer class.We just stay home.I am beside myself as to what else I can do.My husbands new job(after looking for so long)isn't enough, and I can't work because I need to watch the kids.Please let me do something in return for you if you can help us,like paint a picture.My husband of 12 years doesn't even know I am doing this.I don't want to make him feel worse than he already does.Please,help us.We have never asked before.THANK YOU SO VERY KINDLY.SEMPER-FI ~Katy
You have to understand,I am a marines daughter who was brought up to respect my country as I do so very much.This is why I have never been on welfare or food stamps.I've always thought there may have been someone else in more need than I.After losing two businesses since this recession fell upon all of us,it's been impossible to keep up with all of our bills.I don't even have credit card bills,we just pay for rent,utilities,and our car.I am sadly here tonight to ask for help.I am hoping to collect enough money so we can be stable again as I never want to have to ask for any help ever again.I don't even have enough money to take the kids anywhere this summer or put them in a summer class.We just stay home.I am beside myself as to what else I can do.My husbands new job(after looking for so long)isn't enough, and I can't work because I need to watch the kids.Please let me do something in return for you if you can help us,like paint a picture.My husband of 12 years doesn't even know I am doing this.I don't want to make him feel worse than he already does.Please,help us.We have never asked before.THANK YOU SO VERY KINDLY.SEMPER-FI ~Katy

No food and no money with children!

Posted by ashd052406 on 2011-06-09 11:58:28

Hi,

My name is Ashley and I am a mom to 3 young children and also step mom to 4 additional children. His 4 are ages 13, 11, 8 and 7. And then our 3 are ages 5, 3 and 15 months.

My husband has a good job and works very hard but with the cost of living and his child support that he pays we just aren't making it. I myself have just gotten a job, but wont be starting until Monday. I had been a stay at home mom mostly due to the high cost of child care.

Anyway, my husband doesn't get paid until tomorrow. We have shut off notices for everything and I have absolutly no food in the house for dinner tonight. My children are right now eating lunch which thankfully I had just enough bread for PB&J, but after lunch I have nothing more to give them. I don't have eggs, I don't have cereal, I don't have any meat and I don't have any money at all.
And I have my 4 step children coming tonight - so even if I could scrap a little something to eat together it wont be nearlt enough for 7 children.
We do get food stamps but only $100 a month and it wont come until the 16th. I am trying to sell anything and everything on craigslist in hopes to get some cash for food but so far nothing is selling.
My kids had gotten a wii a couple of christmas' ago, I'm trying to sell that, my sewing machine etc. but nothing is selling!
I don't want a hand out, but if you would like to buy something I have to sell then that would be a huge blessing!

I don't mind if I have nothing to eat - but how do I explain to my children? Yesterday was my daughter's 3rd birthday and not only did they not have anything good to eat but not even so much as a card!

Please, I need help...

In desperate need

Posted by heater581 on 2011-03-17 21:58:06

I am in desperate need of $1500. Tonight my car died on me and I need to replace the battery or whatever else might be wrong. I have debt that needs to be taken care of. I have been getting now where and need help. If anyone can help with $1500 or $2000 I would greatly appreciate it from the bottom of my heart. Thank you!!!!!!

Student. Working and just going hungry

Posted by leger4030 on 2011-03-07 02:58:12

I work so hard for school and for my job. That doesnot pay enought to keep food in my fridge and pay my rent, student loans so i may keep going to school so one day I wont be hungry. I can not believe I am having to ask for help from starngers. It been making me cry all day. I have no family here, just a elderly mom in utah. I can not ask her. shell go with out. she's 68.I have no one elts, its just her and I .I want to get my degree and star work with a practice so I may always return the favor in some way.. I am only 29.Putting myself through school. I am a UCD davis student living in woodland,ca. Dental M.D. is my major.I realy do not have any food , or cannot afford food . My friend gave me top-ramen tonight, I ate it so fast ,but for tomarrow I have nothing. To beg aroung my school is far more humiliating. I get made fun of by the more able students.I gt one more year of my 6 yrs of school. I need to make it. I am praying for anything , from anyone who understands my position of giving it all for school.So I will never be hungry or embarressed again...I will take anything, food exspecialy. but I will be blessed by any kindness you offer.. Dawn leger 645 2nd st #32 woodland , ca 95695

PLEASE HELP. NEED $150 TO GET OIL.

Posted by TMC1128 on 2011-01-20 06:58:58

PLEASE, WE DO NOT QUALIFY FOR HELP FROM ANY ORGANIZATION. HELPING OUR SON AND PARENTS, WE HAVE PUT OURSELVES SHORT.
WE NEED $150 TO GET OIL. WE HAVE HALF BUT NOT THE FULL AMOUNT.
PLEASE, WE NEED THIS BADLY, AS IT IS VERY COLD AND WE ONLY HAVE A 1/4 OF A TANK. IT IS SUPPOSED TO GO BELOW 0 THIS WEEKEND WITH A STORM COMING TONIGHT. PLEASE , PLEASE SOMEONE HELP US.
WE DO NOT WANT OUR PIPES TO FREEZE. PLEASE ANY AMOUNT WILL BE GREATLY APPRECIATED.

Never say never!

Posted by neversaynever on 2010-09-13 23:58:58

I had no idea this kind of site even existed until tonight. Two months ago my Dad passed away unexpectedly leaving my Grandma completely lost. My son and I moved to be closer to her but I really should have thought further ahead. I expected to be on my feet in no time. That's not exactly how it turned out. It has been one thing after another. The first curve ball was finding out that my dad had cashed in his life insurance years earlier without telling us. That left my sister and I scrambling for any way possible to have a decent burial. Now it's been two months of little things piling on top of each other. I know that there are a lot of people out there that have it much worse than I do...but at this point I am willing to try about anything. All of my bills are behind and I am a week from eviction. I have a 5 year old son that was diagnosed with A.S.D. He is so mature for his age and is so understanding and compassionate. Sometimes I wish he would get mad like most children. It breaks my heart that my son understands that we have to cut corners and make sacrifices to survive...but so far we have managed to survive. I am more worried at this point in my life than I have ever been. My entire family is drained financially and emotionally. I am a single mother so I don't really have many friends to turn to. I have spent my days searching for work and my nights online looking for a miracle. This may or may not be the help I've been searching for but it doesn't hurt to try. When I was younger I was out with some friends and an older woman that smelled like whiskey walked up to us and said "never say never" and walked away. Back then I didn't really pay much attention to her words but now I understand completely. Growing up I never dreamed that I'd be where I am now and I'm sure the woman I met that night had always dreamed of more. I've heard a million times that life is what you make it but the truth is...everyone's life has a struggle in their eyes. To some it's not having the new Coach the day it comes out and to others it's trying to find a way to survive while keeping your morals in tact. People have a lot to say about sites like this and the people that post on them but the reality is that everyone on this site has a story. They are reaching out for help and many of us made a difficult decision to swallow our pride to provide for our families. So before you judge anyone that's asking for a hand, remember that you are one disaster away from their shoes. "Never say never!" Thank you for taking the time to read this and I am grateful for any help that you can offer.

Help Is On The Way!

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