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Veteran needs help with a car
Posted by kingneece on 2012-04-01 20:58:23
working 106 hours a week! Help
Posted by overtimemom on 2012-03-15 09:58:32
Veteran needs help with a car
Posted by kingneece on 2012-03-11 10:58:40
SURVIVING SINGLE MOTHER WHO LOST EVERYTHING AND IN NEED
Posted by ANEEDYFAMILY on 2012-03-07 19:58:34
SURVIVING SINGLE MOTHER WHO LOST EVERYTHING AND IN NEED
Posted by SINGLEMOTHEINNEED on 2012-03-07 09:58:45
Single Mom
Posted by laurie1988 on 2012-02-27 08:58:59
Im a single mom of two wonderful children. A six year old son and a three year old daughter. I recently left their father last summer of 2011. I married him out of high school and eventually he became abusive physically and mentally. I left him with my kids and moved out of state.
Which brings me to my current financial crisis. I need money to keep a roof over our heads. I'm trying my hardest to keep us afloat, between the rent, utilities and paying lawyer fees and each payment is important.
If their are any kind hearted individuals that would help a newly single mom keep afloat it would forever be appreciated.
-a survivor-
Laurie
Veteran Husband recently passed away, no where to turn.
Posted by airbrshldy on 2012-02-11 10:58:09
My husband, who is a Vietnam vet, passed away recently (October 8th, 2011) from Bone and Lung Cancer at home. First of all, he wanted to spend the rest of his life home with me and our pets (three Mini Dachshunds and two kitties). Also, the VA wouldn't be able to control his pain enough so that he could enjoy the remainder of his life so he went under Hospice care. They strive for quality of life and they were amazing.
The problem with that was that when you die at home, the VA covers nothing at all. Had he died in the VA they would've covered his funeral expenses. We didn't have life insurance. He had started a policy, but the bill for the first payment came in on Monday, the 10th. He died Saturday the 8th.
He died here at home and then was placed in the funeral home morgue until we could come up with enough of a down payment for his funeral (I believe it was $2000.00) I still owe something around $5,000. He stayed in that morgue for around three weeks before we could gather up that money. Not a good way to treat a vet at all.
I had left my job to take care of and be with him until he died, this is what he wanted. We didn't have insurance or any kind of state medical help. We lived on his disability check that he received monthly. There are no survivor benefits, VA or Social Security I've been told either. We had only been married a year. We have been together since 2002, but got married Sept. 21, 2010. We had our first anniversary a couple weeks before he died. As far as I know, SS people have told me we must have been married for ten years in order to get any kind of survivor benefits.
We had sold our boat, truck, and spent any money that we had toward our living expenses and to help with down-payment on funeral.
Now, I'm back to work but it is part time, I make $7.50 per hour (sometimes as little as 20 hours every two weeks). Telephone survey taker. I don't qualify for state help other than food stamps.
I've been looking for work since he died and not getting any responses at all. I am on the Michworks website numerous times a day, every day besides checking the local papers, and any other things I can think of.
Right now as I write this, I am due to lose our home (we rented this for the last nine years). My rent was due on the first. I have borrowed money, sold household items, and gotten help from the area charity places that I could. Every month has been a struggle and every month I think "okay, I've gotten the rent paid this month and I SHOULD have a new job by the next time the rent is due", but sadly it is not working that way. I don't know what to do anymore. I'm beginning to lose faith. I absolutely cannot get rid of our pets either. I promised I would never let anything happen to them and I wont. Besides, they are our little ones, our family that we had together. They are also what is keeping me going. I cannot imagine life without them and him too.
I am at the end of my rope now. I didn't want to resort to this and it really is a blow but I don't know what else to do anymore.
I hope that there is someone out there that will read this and be able to help me somehow.
Thank you so much.
tornadosurvivorwantingtohelpfamily
Posted by tornadosurvivor on 2012-01-27 10:58:19
Con man took what he could and I'm loosing the rest.
Posted by CONexperience on 2012-01-25 07:58:25
Thank you for showing your interest and reading my story.
The saying about foolish middle age women is not a myth. Iâm one of them. My name is Pat.
To make a long story short; my partner I met when I was 41, succeeded in 2 years to gain total control over me, my life and everything I ever worked for. He did it so cleverly and smoothly that I didnât even noticed when I had simply nothing, no one and nowhere to go.
When he had me in his hand, he turned from a gentle, clever, kind and loving man into a tyrant, abuser, dipsomaniac and sadist. When my paralysis and apathy got to big I obviously was no sport anymore. One day he took whatever suited him (mine, his or gained together) and left me with piles of unpaid bills, debts taken in my name I didnât know of and far too high rent for one person to carry.
But Iâm a fighter! Iâm a survivor. I decided that Iâm blessed to be alive and will honour it with doing my best or even more to straighten up my life.
I have been struggling night and day since he left and I have succeeded to secure my electricity, heating and water supply. At Christmas eve I was thanking in prayers that I could afford a little food. I welcomed New Yearâs toasting with myself with a small soda (pure luxuryâ¦). I started to see the light in the tunnel, gaining back my self-esteem and seeing that everything will be solved.
Until this morning.
My landlord (a big company, impersonal and no one to talk to) have informed me that there is a 3 monthsâ rent debt he was obliged to pay but never did and also he took out a deposition of 3 months that entitles to live in the flat.
If I donât pay it ASAP Iâm out in the streets. And I will be. He has misused my credits so Iâm marked in all the systems; no loans, no flats, no telephone, no credits, not even a Visa, nothing.
Please, help me. I have no one to turn to. No family and what friends would be left after all the dramas, his manipulations and deceits and my absence? I refuse to give up but honestly â I donât know how long I will have the strength.
Anything will be of help. Anything since I have nothing. I beg you. And you know â see it as an investment; Can this be solved I canât see anything that canât, and then It will be my turn to pass the generosity and helpfulness to the next needing person. And I will! To do that though â I have to survive.
Thank you for reading my story. If you canât help â do at least learn something from it. Donât repeat my mistakes.
God bless you all!/Pat
Survivor's Center
Posted by rtksm123 on 2012-01-04 08:58:35
I'm a Struggling Author, my book was released in 2010 with no real hope for getting it to the market, deriving from my real life story of how I had to struggle from the pain and the shame of my father's way of showing me that he loved me, my life went in turmoil, with no purpose in living, I found myself running from place to place, after my husband no longer wanted me when he found out that my twisted mined daddy had taken my Innocent. Domestic violence, Rape and Incest is no joke, At a very young age of 13, I experienced all three crimes in ways no human should have to face. My father carried a 45 automatic hand gun threatening to kill me if I tell, when I beg him not to touch me, he would stand off a few feet from me and hit me in the head with Apples and Oranges. The migraines became so severe until I could not do anything but go to bed and keep my head tied tight with a scarf until the pain would ease. As I grew older, I became more reserved not wanting to be around too many people, I would sing in night clubs at night and play for churches on Sundays just to keep a roof over my head. I did not have any real friends, and some of them told me they would not have chosen me for a friend. When I would get a Job, most of the time I would get fired or quit because I could not stand any kind of authority, my father always interfered in anything that I made an attempt to do, he would come to the school and embarrass me in front of my class mate, telling me to get my ass in the car and let's go. I"m truly a survivor, sharing my story and listening to others sharing their story made me realize that there are many people out their hurting from the same things or maybe a difference kind of hurt. My Center will be a resource center where you can get healing from the inside and peace of mind knowing that you are somebody, we will mentor, counsel, do training with professional, Practitioners, self help tapes,good source of water for detox, we are a nonprofit org. with lots of love to give and a friendly environment. I would like to build my center with 1 1/2 ache of land included for 1/2 Million. Anyone out there that can help me to make this happen will be blessed. Buildings are just to high to rent, and grants along will not cover all of the cost to run this type of business. If I can build this center, I can use grant money, for fundraiser , marketing, Vendors, bake sales, I live now on Social Security Supplement. If you will open up your heart I will be most grateful. You can contact me through Paypal May God Bless!!
Rtksm123
Husband of a Cervical cancer survivor out of options
Posted by nickd2821 on 2011-12-08 16:58:27
I am the husband of a cervical cancer survivor, I've lost my job and all our savings have been spent keeping my wife alive. Sadly I'm also an immigrant and US Immigration service has refused to renew my work papers, I cannot work, I cannot even claim unemployment because my work papers are not current.
My wife is dying and I cannot even afford the medications she needs to ease her pain, everything is a mess. I do not care about myself, I never had but to see her in such pain and being so helpless is killing me.
We have a ray of hope, end of January I go before an Immigration Judicial review board and from there I might have a road back. Getting there is going to be the problem without us losing everything we have and becoming homeless.
Please help, every little bit even the smallest donation will goes towards my wife needs and not mine. Easing her burden, by having food in the house, to having a roof over her head is the most important thing in the world.
Domestic violence survivor
Posted by Kmh32280 on 2011-12-02 03:58:22
Domestic violence survivor
Posted by Kmh32280 on 2011-12-02 02:58:35
Help
Posted by Kmh32280 on 2011-12-02 02:58:22
Please help, for my Girls
Posted by FormyGirls on 2011-11-06 19:58:54
Female Stroke Survivor Needs Help !!
Posted by stroke2005 on 2011-10-05 21:58:06
Need&Will To Survive
Posted by vampiress on 2011-09-24 15:58:37
Need&Will To Survive
Posted by vampiress on 2011-09-24 15:58:30
Logan's Heros
Posted by cori00125 on 2011-09-17 17:58:47
On February 18th, 2011 our son Logan (age 10) was diagnosed with a large brain tumor. He was not having many symptoms only occasional headaches. I was concerned that he may have been developing migraines and so I took him to see our family physician. His physical exam was normal including a rather thorough neurological exam. Dr. Arntz agreed with my initial thought and prescribed him some migraine medication. What a relief! He asked us to get a CT scan of Logan's head only as a precaution and he even stated that he didn't think there was any real concern, just a precaution. 5 days later, we were heading to the University of Michigan; Mott's childrens hospital because his precautionary CT scan had confirmed the worst for us. A 6 cm brain tumor in the posterior fossa of Logan's brain. Causing the cerebral spinal fluid to back up and create pressure in his head (hence the headaches).
Before leaving the house for the hospital we gave Logan a brief description of the problem, and explained to him that we didn't know what was going to happen next but we were going to the hospital to find out. You could see the worry on him but he was tough, shrugged his shoulders and said, "Well, I guess I better call it something, I think I'll name it Steve." So off we went, notifying family on the way to the hospital, and completely sick to my stomach.
Three days later we would embark on the scariest days of my life. Logan was promptly scheduled for surgery the following Monday and we were told there was a high probability that the tumor was cancerous. Dr. Cormac Maher performed 14 hours of brain surgery on Logan on Monday February 21st, and confirmed our fears that Logan indeed had a cancerous brain tumor called medulloblastoma. Then more bad news the post operative MRI showed that they had been able to remove all of the tumor and Logan would need more surgery. The next day he underwent another 6 hours of brain surgery. We caught it early but based on where the tumor sat he may not be able to talk or walk normally for 3-6 months. Lucky for us he talks and walks very well all things considered. But there has been radiation therapy and chemo therapy will continue until February or March of next year. There is a 75-80% chance of survivability, I feel blessed with those odds.
Logan is doing very well but this situation has put an incredible financial burden on us. I am falling behind on bills and need help. Andy is working constantly and I even started a second job on the weekends to try to help supplement the lost income from prescriptions, gas to and from the hospital, and just having to take time off work for appointments and Logan's sick days... I don't know what else to do. The banks have tried thankfully to work with us but our circumstance is not going to change for quite awhile longer. Our family's do not have a lot of money, and have already tried to help so much that I think it may be putting a strain on them as well. The church sends gas cards occasionally but there is just not enough to keep us going for the next year.
Here' s the kicker, Logan started his own Relay for Life team. I had taken him to a local expo about 3 weeks after he had been discharged from the hospital because I thought it would be good exercise for him to walk around and there would be lot's to look at, and there was a booth for the American Cancer Society. He walked up to the lady at the booth and he said " How old do you have to be to have a team?" She signed him up on the spot. Logan Bailey's Super Survivors have raised $8300.00 for the American Cancer Society! He's only a little more than $1600.00 away from his goal of raising $10000.00 for the Relay for Life. We've held auctions, bake sales, and concerts. It's been a wonderful distraction for him and he is super excited about reaching that fund-raising goal. We have asked our friends to contribute to his goals in lieu of giving us personal financial assistance. It's more important to me that his endeavors to do more for others, are successful.
We cannot change Logan's circumstance. He will always be a brain cancer survivor, and I will forever be a medullo-mom. But, if we can make this even minutely easier for others having to face it after us then we will do it. Logan donated "Steve the brain tumor" to medical research and he volunteered to participate in a medical research trial for his treatments. We hope that the money raised for the American Cancer Society will make a difference in research and support for anyone suffering with a cancer diagnosis. We hope that the research will make the work of wonderful, selfless, people like Dr. Maher and his team easier and more successful. If I had been diagnosed with this same type of cancer at the age of ten it would have been a terminal diagnosis... the research is working!!
I need help, I need financial help for my family so that we can stop the worrying over finances and concentrate on bringing our entire family through this successfully looking at it in a positive light and remembering that we did it with hearts full of love and with others in mind. Logan is a truly remarkable child and I am so proud of him. I anxiously await your response Thank you for your consideration.
Logan Bailey's Biggest Fan!!
Help my kids need clothes
Posted by myriam on 2011-09-12 15:58:53
HELP! Life in General....Rape Survivor
Posted by Saphire0303 on 2011-09-10 18:58:30
saving my home
Posted by leeskid on 2011-07-22 11:58:06
DESPERATELY NEED HELP BY JUNE 24
Posted by DENAND on 2011-06-11 06:58:50
WE ARE BOTH VERY DEPRESSED. WE TRY TO TAKE CARE OF OUR BILLS, BUT IT IS SO DIFFICULT.
PLEASE HELP US.
THANK YOU.
handicapped vehicle
Posted by scotty1961us on 2011-04-24 22:58:35
my wife is an alcholic and the reason she wants a divorce is because im disabled. she says she dont want the kids to see a loser daddy in a wheelchair. real men work and provide for their families. with the seperation i no longer can afford the payments on my pickup which had a wheelchair lift installed in the back. if my pickup was paid off i could live ok on my disability. would be tight but i could manage. i go to the mayo clinic in rochester mn about 100 miles away for doctoring, therfore the transportation is greatly needed. i owe about 15,000 on the pickup. the lift was installed by human services. can someone please help?
handicapped vehicle
Posted by scotty1961us on 2011-04-24 22:58:34
my wife is an alcholic and the reason she wants a divorce is because im disabled. she says she dont want the kids to see a loser daddy in a wheelchair. real men work and provide for their families. with the seperation i no longer can afford the payments on my pickup which had a wheelchair lift installed in the back. if my pickup was paid off i could live ok on my disability. would be tight but i could manage. i go to the mayo clinic in rochester mn about 100 miles away for doctoring, therfore the transportation is greatly needed. i owe about 15,000 on the pickup. the lift was installed by human services. can someone please help?
