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The brakes went and I was able to get my brother to help me pay for parts and he did the labor for me for free. But the brakes didn't get better, they got worse. After some further investigation, it was discovered that someone had actually put transmission fluid in my brake fluid reservoir! The transmission fluid has eaten through my entire brake system completely and everything needs to be replaced right down to each individual valve and everything, including the new parts I had put on last week! The only thing I can save are the actual metal brake lines- but at least it's something. Just the parts alone is going to be over $1000 even with my brother doing the labor where he works. I just can't come up with the money for the parts and now I can't get to either one of my jobs and I'm really stressing out.
Please consider helping me in any way you can. I understand life isn't easy for anyone and maybe someone else needs the help more than I do right now. But I do need help. And having to even ask has been really hard too. Please consider any donation. I promise I will find a way to someday help someone else in need in return.
Thanks for your time.

I'm a single mother aged 35. I've lived in California for almost 14 years ( it will be 15 this year on memorial day weekend.)
I’m going to be a little blunt, because I'm tired and I want to give up so bad, but I can't. I'm better than that and my kids are my motivator. I wake up everyday and remind myself of 2 things :1) Faith is what you have when you all your beliefs are blown to hell. 2) What doesn't kill you makes you stronger -Nietzsche

I am a 35 year old educated, ambitious, head strong woman. I have owned my own business with my soon to be ex. I know what hard work and determination are. I went to private school and I am educated. I value my community and have always given back and will continue to do so. I also know that I have the drive and determination to get myself back on track. I'm not ASKING for a handout, I'm asking for help up! I also know what loss is. I don't have the business, a house or EVEN the car anymore. We lost everything. He bounced back , I didn’t. All I have is HOPE, that someone or some program can help me carve a path back to self sufficiency.
It's gone continually downhill.I am amazed at the allotment of programs for both housing and employment for all different walks of life. However, what about those that are just struggling. No hang ups, no record, just struggling and are LOW INCOME. I'm not writing this to make you feel sorry, I'm writing this because I have exhausted possibilities that I have researched both on my own or been given the information to do the work with.
There are people who struggle everyday through no fault of their own. They don't want a hand out, but help up would be a relief. Society doesn't need band-aids they need solutions.
Not every county, city or state program fits everyone's needs.
First of all Section 8 has been closed since BEFORE I left my marriage so that idea could never work. The list has been closed for years. Because I have limited time with my children, I do not qualify for CALWORKS. I have tried getting assistance in every way possible. I had very little unemployment left since I have been struggling to find work. I was delayed for about 3 months because they needed verification and I had to appeal and request a hearing. I have won my appeal but will only receive $91/week and for a short period of time.
I took a project management class through WIA in 2011, and I was able to get CTB benefits. I NEED HELP. I have hit the absolute worst point in my life and still refuse to give up. I have been looking for work and am now HOMELESS.I am in week 3 of staying in an extended stay hotel (paid for by my mother back east, who makes maybe $26,000/yr in PA) I recently sold my car because I needed to pay bills and rent. I have maybe $75 to my name.
The fact that they say there are services for low income/ homeless is frustrating. I say this because there is no category for me. I'm not a drug addict or in recovery. I don't have a mental illness. I wasn't in prison, I don’t' even have a RECORD. I can proudly say I've never been arrested or even in the back of a cop car. I'm not a victim of domestic violence and I do not beat my kids. Why aren't there programs in place for single parents struggling to make it? Everyday people that are responsible and respectable. I understand the need to assist those that may not have the capacity to take care of themselves. However, I have a huge problem with the fact that Santa Clara County & all programs (private, govt or state funded) will rehabilitate and reintroduced felons into the community, but if you're poor, homeless, no record, are looking for work, have high intelligence; sorry, you can't get help. This sounds extremely cynical and jaded, but I am a little after going through all I have.
I have been told constantly “I wish I could do something but we don't have any programs to help you.” My favorite reply is: "Yeah and you have done everything. I'm surprised you even knew about all the programs you did"
I have talked to employment counselors, program coordinators, program advocates and case managers, volunteers, just about anyone. The bankruptcy is hindering my chances of securing housing, even if I had employment.

The icing on the cake has to be with food stamps and General Assistance. I qualified for Cal-Fresh. However, at the time I had a car worth $2200. So I wasn't able to get General Assistance. Fast Forward a year later, I HAD to sell my car to pay bills. Now this month when I went for General Assistance, I qualify.

It's a never ending cycle, a constant push down. I can take public transportation to work, but to get around and see my boys and being able to transport them would be extremely difficult, not to mention financially stressing. I have scoured employment books, read articles, searched the library, spent hours online trying to find a job, program, a company, anybody who could be a resource whether for low income assistance or employment.
I can probably tell you about a plethora of services this county (Santa Clara) offers for both income assistance and job services.I am registered with CALJOBS; I know all the career sites and have my resume there. I get interviews, however I am starting to think the bankruptcy from loss of business is holding me back when employers do background check.
I also could teach the business writing class or the resume writing classes they offer at Work2Future, I practically did when I took them. I could do the same at Sacred Heart. I've been to InnVision and EHC. I’ve talked to Sunnyvale Community Services. Boy he was a treat he sounded older then my 80 yr old grandma. When I said I need housing and employment help, he gruffly told me to check the newspaper and hung up. I've called St Josephs in Gilroy. I've talked to a program coordinator at West Valley Community Services. I called the Sobrato Organization hoping they had ties to something and one the employees just by grace of god happened to pick up and take my call. I was able to talk to someone at HIF (they couldn't help)
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I am responsible, respectable and just want to work, have a place to live, and be able to have my children 50/50. I have no police record. I am not in recovery, nor have I ever had to be in a program
I want to work and am attaching a compilation of ALL my work skills. I would not send this out otherwise, I would tailor it specifically to the job I am applying for.

I used to volunteer as much as I could I like being active in my community and helping others. I'm still about that I believe in PAY IT FORWARD. I believe the good you do comes back to you tenfold and that no matter what is going wrong in your life, someone else is struggling just as much if not more; so be thankful for what you have.
I attend church and was a hospitality volunteer for that as well.
I just need help getting on my feet. I have no family, other than my children here in CA.
I do not want to move back east and be far away from them. I want to work, I want to live again. I want to smile and mean it.

I hate what my life has become and know that I am SO MUCH BETTER THEN THIS.
Please help me : money is fine, but it's only a temporary fix, please help me find a program that can assist me in getting on my feet, direct me to employment, and most of all afford me the opportunity to have my children much more consistently so I can be a mom again.
Thank you
Courtney DiMiceli

I need money for immediate food, i just relocated to chattanooga, tn and i just started my job which i dont get paid til next week, please help i have 2 kids and a wife, i want my wife to stressing so i am asking for you guys help.

$$ 2000 -I am starting nursing school THIS may. I have credit cards charged because I needed to buy books, supplies, a laptop, and other items for school! It is STRESSING me out because I want to focus on school and not worry about paying bills!!! I've been crying about it like everyday. I just wanna be BROKE. ALL I NEED IS $$$$ 2000. THATS IT. please help. being stressful is painful and hurts! Im sick of crying and I don't think 2000 is too much to ask for!!! MUCH LOVE <3333 THANKSSSS!

hello,

i am a veteran and its hard for me to get a job right now.I'm having trouble paying my vehicle off because I don't make enough for unemployment.i just need a jump start before i start back working.It would be a blessing to have this vehicle paid off in full. I owe $19,000 on it. yes thats right it was suppose to be finance for 5 years but i got chaptered out the u.s. army.Guys I'm just asking for 20,000 to pay off this vehicle and to get clothes and things i need. I know thats a lot but I really been stressing on my end without any help. God Bless Those people that will help me out. I believe Godly people will help me because I would do the same if I had it. THank YOu!

my name is steward i resently became disabled i lost my job because of my disability my lights are going to be turned off this friday because i cannot pay the bill my rent is due now i dont know how long i can be at my home before my landlord comes for the rent i have tried for disability and was denied because they didnt use all my dr records now im appealing the decision. this is really stressing me out i dont have any family to help me so i am begging for the love of god please please help me

I've never done anything like this so I'm not sure what to expect, but am hopeful that somebody out there can help. I'm attending a prestigious four year college in the fall, and am extremely proud of the effort I've put in to get this far. I graduated high school one year early (despite some major roadblocks in my home life) and spent the next six months working 40-45 hours per week.

I am eager to leave home once and for all, and put all my energy into my future. I've saved what I could, paid what I can and will continue to work diligently towards establishing myself as a productive adult.

However, despite my best efforts, I am still a couple thousand dollars short of my expenses for school. I've asked family members and friends, sold everything I can on Craigslist, and have spent many nights stressing about whether or not I'll be able to actually attend the school I've worked so hard to get into.

I'm not asking for alot, I know that anything will help. This is me asking for perfect strangers to look into the kindness of their heart and donate what they can, or are comfortable with.
I thank you ALL in advance, for even taking the time to read my post, and assure you I will pay forward all kindness.

Here's Hoping!!!

Hi,
My name is Jamie and I have a daughter named Jo Jo...i am expecting a baby by July 8th and soon we will jave no were to live. We are look for some start up mobey to get an apartment before this baby comes...if not then I have no choice but to give this child up for adoption...I was expecting twins but I have been stressing so much about everything I have lost one. Just waking up in the morning is hard knowing that one day we may be on the street. Im looking for roughly $5000 I will even work for the money if its not to much labor seeing that I am on bed rest...i believe in God and I pray every night so where ever u r my angel...Thank u Thank u and God bless

Hi, I'm new to this and also a tad embarrassed but i really need help towards my wedding on 29th feb 2012. I have recently taken on a 2nd bar job to try and help but I am now exhausted, i hardly see my children and with only less then 5 weeks to go we are still no where near the funds needed and stressing more then you could believe. we aren't having a big over the top wedding, we are being married in church and then a party in a pub hall afterwards but even the smallest of weddings mount up. You may think well you chose to do it, well yes but our main reason for getting married (other then loving each other) is for our children, so that they have a stable and together family life, with the security that marriage offers. Please any small donation would be greatly appreciated and once the wedding is sorted and finances stable I will be donating to others that need the help.

my husband has terminal lung cancer and is dying we now live on meagre benefits i just want to make his life more happier for the short time he has left, a little spare cash to do some of the things we planned to do when he retired and not be stressing about bills need to get some memories of happy times before i lose him
we both worked hard and paid our way but this dreadful illness has robbed us of time money happiness and i just have a lonely future ahead if we could have help to get happy memories not worry about bills we could have quality time together before the cancer takes him thank you

Hello everyone Im a 53 year old single mom in PA with two children, very amazing children. My daughter is 21 and works hard serving coffee and donuts, My son who is 19 years old does the same type of work, and also goes to college. I am disabled and at home, I have diabetes, no cartilage in my right knee, almost lost my life twice with two pulmonary embolisms. I am currently on warffrin for life along with other meds that are keeping me alive. I am stressing out because, being a mother, I am worried about my two kids, they work so hard, I cannot help them now, and I am feeling stressed about it, we all live together in public housing, and we are barely covering our bills. We are just getting by, and my wish is to help my children, I am not asking for a handout, I am just asking for a stay at home job I can do on the computer so they can spend more money on the things they need than having to chip in for the rent. My kids are really good kids doing the right thing, it is unfortunate that they have to live in these circumstances. their father, he lives in another state,and, well he feels his obligation is over, and is not helping them at all anymore. I am basically alone in finishing raising my children. I have typing skills, and good phone skills, I just cannot stand on my legs too long. Unfortunately I can't drive or own a car. My son has a car but it is not in the best of condition,he needs a new car so he can go to work and to school, and my daughter is getting married, she deserves a nice wedding, I want to help them both, and feel really stressed about it. My goal is to find a work at home job, so I can help them with their goals. These kids are my life. I want to see them happy because, that would make me happy. I could use someone's help out there. If you want to help me finish raising my children by donating information for money for the things they need I would appreciate that too. All I ask is that you give what you can, and God Bless you for your help.

sincerely, a Mother in the Poconos.

I am submitting this request because we are in serious need of help. I know my story is long. I pray you will have the patience to read it through & consider my request.

I am a single mom of 2 sons; 1 grown & doing wonderfully in the world & the other just entering his teen years. I've raised both boys on my own, survived despite chronic poverty & worked very hard for the past 25 years to do so. I am an unusually-talented & tenaceous woman, having changed careers several times in order to assure that my boys were always properly taken care of. Since 1995, I've worked in positions where I was unsupervised & done well ethically in that type of independent environment. As a subcontracted cab driver for the past 5 years, I've worked 60+ hours a week consistently, without vacation or any other benefits. I've missed only 8 workdays in all that time: 3 days for illness & 5 days straight this past August to care for my mother while she died. I'll be happy to provide direct contact with the cab company owner, should you wish to verify this information.

Several things have changed for me in the past few weeks. I came across an opportunity to start my own business. I crave the day when my earnings are no longer confined to poverty levels & the majority of my waking hours dictated by the terms of a subcontracted position. At 49, I'm still young enough to start fresh again, during these last few years before my youngest son flies the coup. I'm already well-practiced at working on my own. It's finally time for me to do that & reap the rewards as well.

In the meantime, my demanding schedule caused me to be lax in filing tax papers for 2008 & 2009. So, the last week of October, I filed the 2008 returns through a local tax preparer. I've just completed the 2009 books & submitted those to the tax preparer 2 days ago. The importance of the tax filings is that I have a refund of $2000 coming to me from 2008. The tax preparer told me it would take 2 to 4 weeks to receive those funds. So I began preparations to become this region's very first fully-trained SmartPhone & Tablet Repair Tech. Being a frugal woman, I formulated a plan to use the tax refund to pay $395 for the 10 days training & startup business tools. My son & I can easily live off of the remaining money while I launch my business. And with the additional refund from 2009 pending in another 6 to 8 weeks, I will be well-set to get my business rolling.

With the business plan & pending refund in mind; & following a serious disagreement on matters of proper customer service; I gave the cab company 30 days written notice & finished my last day on November 6th. I left on good terms with an option to return. But the owner has since filled my position, so even if I returned immediately, the hours would be sparse. Plus, I could no longer be happy there, having to repeatedly apologize to my customers because the company owner habitually re-contracts drivers of poor character. Swearing at, name-calling & being generally rude to customers & co-workers is unacceptable behavior, in my code of ethics.

However, my tax refund has yet to materialize. I called the IRS just today & finally got some information on my refund status. I already phoned them just 2 weeks ago to correct a major error by the tax preparer. The kind young woman I spoke with today informed me of yet another major error by the tax preparer; & because of that error, it will now be another month before they send a refund to me!

So here I am, trying to keep the faith & maintain my patience, but stressing over unpaid bills. The first of the month has passed. I live in HUD subsidized housing, & my rent is only $110, but it was due by the 5th. I have never been late with my rent, but this month I had to practically beg for the apartment managers to be patient in getting the rent paid. There are also utility bills of nearly $200 due, & my prepaid phone was shut off for several days last week until a good friend paid that bill for me. I had faith in my tax preparer & was counting on having my refund by now to pay those bills. Needless to say, I am very unhappy with his service at this point.

I spent 2 weeks trying to get a 'payday' or personal loan. But because I was a subcontractor & now I'm unemployed, no one is willing to make such a loan. I even dedicated a full day last week to 14 fruitless hours straight online, just trying to click enough surveys to pay the $50 phone bill. I receive no child support or welfare benefits. Sadly for my son, Santa will not be arriving until well after Christmas. At this point, my income is 0.

So what I am asking for is just enough money to get us by until the tax refund arrives. I can reasonably make $750 stretch through to mid-January.

I am proud. It is hard for me to ask for this. But it is even harder to grovel to my landlords & the utility companies. And it was never my intent to risk us losing our home. I am deeply concerned that this may happen. The timing is simply bad for us not to have our refund yet. I wish my tax preparer had done a better job for me.

I have been blessed with great health & an optimistic outlook, despite all my life's trials. Others are not nearly so lucky & I am truly grateful for my blessings. I am also grateful to you for your consideration in this matter. Giving to others to help them improve their lives is indeed a noble endeavor. Bless you

I really need help to catch up on my bills. I have fallen behind and am barely getting by trying to pay the past due. I have 4 kids ages 11-3. one is my stepson that we have custody of. his birth mother does not help us with anything, no medical, dental or no child support. he has ADHD. i his step mother deal with the teachers and doctors with no help from his birth mother. We just expierenced a death in the famil my children's great grandfather that was basically their grandfather since they have none. he passed away and was buried the day before thanksgiving. that made it even harder for us. we used to see him and visit all the time. i just really need help to catch up on our bills, electricity, house, utilities desperately. thank you. I am sooo down right now i feel like i am going to have a break down. we been starting to go to church to turn to the Lord. the way i figure it i would need between 1,000-1,500 to catch up.i am litterly sick to my stomach right now stressing... thank you in advance if you can help us.

I'm a graduate student, but I don't get nearly enough in financial aid to pay the bills. Unfortunately, this year is the worst yet. As of right now, I am 2 months behind on my rent and dangerously close to becoming evicted. I would like to note that I did not rent a big place to begin with - a small, one-room studio with the lowest-priced rent I could find in my neighborhood. I am also at least two months behind on most of my other bills (credit card bills accrued from supplementing what little I get from financial aid as well as bills for Internet). I have been looking for a job for the past several months to help pay the rent with little luck or success. Though I found a part-time job within the last month, it unfortunately pays minimum wage, and I truly feel like the income from that job is too little, too late. I just cannot catch up with all the debts I have accrued. The financial worries are stressing me out and having a negative effect on my schoolwork. The last thing I need is school troubles on top of my financial worries. Please have a heart and help me out. It would be greatly appreciated.

I am a father of 5 kids I am unemployed I am waiting on ssd and VA benifits I have major back problems due to my work surgery will not fix .I just want enough money to not have to worry about bills any more.I am just a simple man I dont need anything but money to pay off what I have ,all I have is house and one vehicle payment and I bought it used .I am no one special just want a little help ,I am a worry wart and money is stressing me out ,my wife does work and workes lots of hours she is a very special person .thank you for your help .

Please, I am 22 years old and 33 weeks pregnant with my first child. I just lost my job and will not be able to return to work until 6 weeks after the baby is born. I am stressing out so much because I dont know how I am going to pay my bills. If I dont find a way I will lose my home and be homeless. Please Help! Anything helps god bless

My husband left us. He closed the account so now my check will not be direct deposited and my Landlord said they will not wait. My rent is $725.00. I have a car payment that's $200.00 and the electricity $250.00 that was due on the 17th now late due to his insincerity. He took all the money and just left. I tried local places but they already ran out for the month. We just moved in the area so we don't have a local church. We, my 3 kids and I, only have food for 3 more days. My two older kids are looking for work but unfortunately that doesn't help out now only in the future. I even asked my family who live in California and they said they are strapped and can't help. I have been trying to do everything I can but that I am working extra overtime but again that's in the future, my Landlord won't take an IOU. Now I have the worst flu ever, probably due to the stress. I can't pay back now but in the future I will be able to in small increments so it doesn't make me continue in this same crisis. I have tried and tried to contact my husband but to no avail I think he was in missouri and now I think he's in arizona. I just can't believe he put us in the worst of messes. If I can get one months total of $1400 that includes money for food and gas. That would help me out so then I don't have to keep stressing and checking the mail box for a check almost every 5 minutes.

Hello,
I am a single mother struggling with two children. Ages 11 and the baby 11 months old. I am a full-time student in college obtaining my bachelors degree in february of 2012. I've worked all my life; never imagined myself in a position where i couldn't provide for myself or my children. I set goals and high expectations for myself and now that my life is at a standstill, i find myself falling into a depression, granted i am going to school but it's hard to concentrate on my studies with all that's going on in my personal life. I pray to God day and night, but i understand he must have a plan for me, i truly believe that what doesn't break you will only make you stronger. i am a person that was the one to help others if they needed, but now that the shoe is on the other foot i don't see these people anymore, i have no family or friends that can help me in my situation right now.

We live on a fixed income, not enough to make ends meet. i buy what i can but it doesn't last more than two weeks, then baby needs pampers or more milk or we run out of food and i have to humble myself to ask the manager at the supermarket for store credit. Paying him back is still shortening us.

I can't afford to buy my son a crib, since he's grown out of the bassinet, he's been sleeping with me and has fell off the bed at least five times, thank God he wasn't hurt, Thank God for carpet, i have spoken to social services and other charities requesting a crib because i can't afford it and they've told me that i don't fit the criteria, i'd have to be leaving a shelter into an apartment or i'd have to be a victim of a fire where my belongings were all destroyed. It's unreal, but i'm fighting it now.

It hurts when you can't give your children the things they need. My oldest is walking around with the sad face because she see's what i'm going through. She doesn't ask me for anything..., not like she use to. but she tells me that she understands and she's patient because she knows it will get better. She says this because she see's i'm out everyday i'm only home when the kids are home, i'm in school monday thru friday if not in class then in the study hall. MY daugher sleeps alot now and i'm praying she's not seeping into a depression. I talk to her on a daily basis and try to do fun things like go to the park or take a walk around the neighborhood but it doesn't seem like it's working. she's becoming quiet and it's bothering me, i'm considering counseling for her. she's going through alot for an 11 year old and she shouldn't be, but i always tell her she's my trooper and i need for her to be strong right now, she's angry...., i know she is and it probably has to do alot with her father for not helping us and for a few other reasons, but i explain to her that how can he help us when he can't help himself.

School time is coming around again and i have no money to get my daughter what she needs. Baby boy is beginning to grow out of his clothing and i'm worrying and stressing. I am a honest person, a respectful person..., the kind of soul that would do what i can to help sum 1 else and in my current situation, i have. i remember just a few weeks ago it was this woman who looked to be about eight months pregnant sitting in front of mcdonalds holding a sign up that read something like "we're hungry can you please help". i gave five dollars knowing i needed it, but i just couldn't see a pregnant woman not feeding herself and her baby...., as a mother i couldn't see it. And if she was running a scam, then God will deal with her, but at least i know i did what i felt in my heart was the right thing.

I've tried high and low to look for legitimate work at home jobs while i'm in school to help supplement my fixed income but i've run into nothing but scams.

I am asking for a kind hearted individual to please help us. I've never done anything like this before. I had come across this website while searching 4 work at home opportunities, and maybe this is God's way of answering our prayers. This is a temporary situation and once i get myself back on my feet i vow to myself and my kids that we will never be put in this situation again, i'll save..., i'll do what i have to. This hurts so bad.

Thank you for taking the time to read my story, if you've read this far then it means your a caring person. God Bless you.

My guitar was stolen in June and I haven't been able to find a guitar for under $300 and sounds decent, I came across a used guitar today that is $250 and it sounds great. I need $125 to be able to purchase the guitar. The guitar is my one way of relieving stress and since my other guitar was stolen i have been stressing about school. Any help would be great. I would like to be able to purchase the guitar soon before its gone

My guitar was stolen in June and I haven't been able to find a guitar for under $300 and sounds decent, I came across a used guitar today that is $250 and it sounds great. I need $125 to be able to purchase the guitar. The guitar is my one way of relieving stress and since my other guitar was stolen i have been stressing about school. Any help would be great. I would like to be able to purchase the guitar soon before its gone

My name is Megan. I am 29 and married with 4 kids. My husband and I are in desperate need of some financial assistance to pay our bills. My husband lost his job that he'd had for the last 4 years about 3 weeks ago. Since the day he lost his job, he and I have both been putting job applications in everywhere we can think to, whether the places are currently hiring or not. My husband did have 1 job interview last week but has not heard back from that company, and other than that we haven't had any luck finding employment.

We need money for all our bills but at the moment I am stressing about our car payment, car insurance, and rent as they are all due this week and we have zero money to our names. We need about $1600 to pay those three bills.

I am one of those people who pays it forward, so if you were to help me today by making a donation, I will also make a donation to someone as soon as my husband or I find employment.

Please, please help us.

Hello my name is Adrian 22yrs old I am currently $25,000.00 in debt from student loans i am currently living pay check to paycheck barely able to pay some of my bills having to skip my credit card payment this month just to make rent. I haven't had a time in my life where I am not living paycheck to paycheck even when i was a kid i was doing this. I have always been the person to always help a person that needed help any way i could now I am hoping some one or anybody will now help me out now. I will take any donation right now that would help me pay my student loans off I am stressing over these things a lot and am currently struggling to pay one off via a settlement through a collection agency. If you can PLEASE make a donation to my paypal account I would greatly appreciate it. Thanks to everyone that does do a donation I appreciate it big time.

stressing financially, i really need any help i can get, i have a car payment and other bills...i work for a school, however summertime there is no work. i can not recieve unemployment..so im really in a hard struggle for the next few months

Now I have many depts from many lenders. It's about 17000 US Dollars. I must pay the interests for them about 500 US Dollars per month but my salary is just 450 US Dollars. It's not enough. I want a loan to close all old depts and I can pay back 150-200 US Dollars per month. I'm very stressing now. Please if you can help me. I try to ask for the help from many websites. but no answer. please give me a chance.

My daughter was employed with a company. Her manager received a letter stating that she needed to choose another insurance plan, but didn't give her the letter. My daughter after not knowing her insurance was none was admitted into the hospital due to a tumor 20 cm on her right ovary. She is 23 not able to have children now. They did an emergency surgery removed her ovary, and was in the hospital for 1 week. I called her Hr dept. to see about what her insurance covered and short term disability and they said she had none of either. She was out of work for 3 weeks, almost got evicted and now has approx $90,000 in medical bills. I feel helpless not able to help her due to my financial status. It's painful to me to see her in this position stressing over something that never should have come to this. She should have been given that document. The manager said she did give it to her, but didn't. Is there anyone out there that can help PLEASE