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Dumped Dad
Posted by dumpeddad on 2012-05-24 10:58:50
During the first few days I didn't work, too busy trying to piece together what had gone on and why and how it had come to this right under my nose. The rent still needed to be paid, even though the house was unfurnished and too big for me alone. I was (and still am) locked into the lease! Problem number one.
Problem number two is rather more complex. Last Friday I received two letters. The first from a solicitor (our version of what you would call a lawyer) informing me of divorce proceedings and the second was sent a letter from the Child Support Agency informing me my wife is seeking child support payments from me. Now, I'm no deadbeat dad! I think all parents should pay for their children's needs but here I am - rent on a house I don't need, no furniture (some friends have lent me a TV and cooking utensils and a couch), no money to contest the proceedings and on top of that she wants me to pay child support while she's shacked up and living a 'normal' life with my boys, whom I haven't seen since.
I've seen a solicitor who advised me he wouldn't bill me for the first meeting - we talked about the situation, and what he could do from here... It requires more than I have, to achieve what I want and what I think is fair! All I want to do is split our assets 60/40 her favour (she has the kids). Get out of this lease that I'm legally locked into, and get shared custody of my beautiful little boys. Problem is she has the assets and without a court order to either return a portion to me or divest herself of some of the assets so I can be compensated, I can't pay a solicitor and barrister to get the money to do all this. Once it's all settled I'll happily pay my child support requirements, see my boys and leave her out of my life, seeing that's what she wants.
My solicitor has told me I could be up for as much as $10,000, but $6000 should be a good starting point. His firm wont proceed without knowing they'll be paid - fair enough, but what's a man to do in this situation?
I am literally begging for $6000. I haven't wanted for anything in my life - I've always worked and worked hard for what I had, but when it's all taken away from you, you realise how vulnerable we all are. I'm pledging that whatever I receive from this site that's not used in the case, I will pay forward, to another needy soul from this site. Please help... My heart and thanks, and that of my boys will go out to you.
Update: 6th Jan 2012. I've managed to get the proceedings heard at a later date, due to my personal situation. But nothing has changed. I still don't have the funds to fight this and to date not one response to my plea for help. I'm begging - literally for some assistance. I haven't seen my boys since December and I can't fight this without your help.
Update: 25th May 2012
I have nothing to fight her with. No funds, no will and no motivation. The house has been re-leased and the owner has started legal proceedings against me, I have nothing but what she left me. I am trying my hardest to provide some money for my two kids - that I haven't seen since December. I can't go on like this. No-one can!
My Mother Is Dying And I Cant Afford Our Bills!
Posted by Danielle1984 on 2012-05-20 10:58:43
my mothers name, then they found out my name was on the lease when we signed a special form cause my mother is on oxygen. At that point they said pay it or we will disconnect. I do not have any savings left or even a credit card to use. Plead help me ... I don't know what else to do but to swallow my pride and beg. If UT wws
Need money to save my home
Posted by Thanksabunch on 2012-05-19 22:58:21
I don't know where to start. I signed for a home that was supposed to be a shared mortgage with my sister. But as soon as I bought it she left me. I have been struggling for 2 years now in and out of work to keep it. I love my home I am in need of $30,000 by the end of the month to keep it and so badly need financial help. I'm still looking for work and the rest of my family is trying to help me as well. Would appreciate any help I can get before it is too late.
Thank You
Autographed "A Game of Thrones" paperback $100.
Posted by aelf1016 on 2012-05-18 02:58:53
need help in paying the rent before i get evicted
Posted by blharding on 2012-05-10 15:58:52
Offer Withdrawn
Posted by Eve2012 on 2012-05-08 10:58:16
Offer Withdrawn
Posted by Eve2012 on 2012-05-08 10:58:16
Earn up to $75 by tomorrow
Posted by Eve2012 on 2012-05-06 18:58:21
Earn up to $75 by tomorrow
Posted by Eve2012 on 2012-05-06 18:58:21
Family in Need of Temporary Help
Posted by waiting4help on 2012-05-01 21:58:42
I have recently been diagnosed with Fibromyalgia, 2 herniated disks, spinal stenosis, and have just found out that I have had a heart attack on top of it. With me constantly going to doctors for myself, and doctors for my oldest child, I am unable to work any more. I have applied for my disability but I am waiting for a decision. Money is very tight. I have paid all but $400.00 of our monthly bills and I am asking for kind hearted people out there to please help us make the rest of our monthly bills this month.
I have sold everything we have that is of any value, so I am at a loss of what to do from here. I don't qualify for any assistance except for $100 in food assistance and medical.
Please help us.
mom of now three after brother took his life
Posted by momfor3kids on 2012-03-14 23:58:43
The two girls and my son left i lost my job last year of 12 years because of my sons special needs his dad is behind 50,000 in child support at 400 a month and my unemployment runs out in 2 months the kids need clothing shoes and school supplies we live on 1,500 each month i dont get welfare or aid for the girls cause i signed it away in court not knowing cause i could not afford a atty so its all up to me my family wont help us and my ex cant know where we are cause last year we had to move cause he put a gun to my head and said i was going to be with my sister in law unless i dropped his child support so i moved a way if you can help with anything for them i would be greatful email @ mspringer78@hotmail.com
Single mom, student, homeless, and unemployed
Posted by decgal on 2012-03-02 11:58:19
Please help me pay bills :(
Posted by adi10000 on 2012-02-15 02:58:14
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Posted by cokoli07 on 2012-02-14 11:58:27
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Posted by cokoli07 on 2012-02-14 11:58:27
