Scoliosis Tags

Thank You so very much for your help. Heres my story. I am in my early 30s. I am a mother of two loving kids ages 4 and 9. My husband moved out a year ago after a bout of depression, stating "I love you thats why I cant stand to stay here n watch you die like this!" And it is true anyone who has watched a loved one waste away before thier eyes can tell you it eats your soul. In a way I cant blame him. I have hopes we will someday get our family back together. Untill then I am in this alone, and now find my self here asking you for help.
I have several cronic illnesses. Including scoliosis:Scoliosis is a sideways curvature of the spine that occurs most often during the growth spurt just before puberty. While scoliosis can be caused by conditions such as cerebral palsy and muscular dystrophy, the cause of most scoliosis is unknown. My scoliosis curve got worse, the spine rotated and twisted, in addition to curving side to side. This caused the ribs on one side of the body to stick out farther than on the other side. Severe scoliosis can caused back pain and difficulty breathing. In my case In severe scoliosis, the rib cage may press against the lungs and heart, making it more difficult to breathe and harder for the heart to pump.I also experience harsh neurological affects of Muscle weakness, Numbness and Abnormal reflexes. To save my life I had to have surgery.
Surgery involves correcting the curve (although not all the way) and fusing the bones in the curve together. The surgeon lays bone grafts across the exposed surface of each vertebra. These grafts will regenerate, grow into the bone, and fuse the vertebrae together. The bones are held in place with one or two metal rods held down with hooks and screws, helping to support the fusion of the vertebrae.I went through all this at age 13. But now with the onset of sevral more cronic illness complication from the surgery that once saved my life now slowly kill me.
Years later I began getting sicker and sicker by the time I was 20 my spine was degenerating causing horrible pain, I had to have my appendix removed, then gallblader went bad. We never dreamed these all had a common factor. Doctors just shook their head proclaiming :you are just so young for your body to be failing like this". Eventually it was discovered I have Lupus and severe arthritus. Lupus is an autoimmune disease, meaning that the body' s immune system mistakenly attacks healthy organs and tissue. Lupus can affect any part of the body, causing inflammation and damage in joints, skin, kidneys, heart, lungs, blood vessels, or the brain. More than 90% of people with lupus have skin rashes, often triggered by exposure to the sun, and about half have kidney and lung problems. Because lupus affects the joints, it is considered a rheumatic (arthritis) disease.
Upon this discovery things began to make sense. So doctors now knowing why began a body wide check up to see what all has been affected. One test was A bone mineral density (BMD) test measures how much calcium and other types of minerals are present in a section of your bone. Your health care provider uses this test, along with other risk factors, to predict your risk of bone fractures in the future and detect osteoporosis. Bone fracture risk is highest in people with osteoporosis. They found I indeed had osteoporosis at the age of 22. SO now My bones are weaking causing damage areas all over my body, but the most serious being in my spine. Now comes the arthritis/lupus, they see these damaged areas and my own imune system attacks. Eating at the damaged areas creating even more damage, which increases the area the lupus attacks. It is a vicious circle. I have now been treated with medication over 10 yrs. But they can only slow the illness there is no cure, and dure to my scoliosis and the metal rods in my back surgical treatment options are very limited.
The damage is so severe I was decared legally disabled by the age of 23. My only income is SSI. I have to support my children and I on 658.00 a month. Thank God the court issued my ex to pay my rent in lue of child support. I am asking for help to cover upcoming medical bills. In the last 14 months I have had 5 seperate kidney surgery. My right kidney is damaged and I will soon be having a 6th surgery. This one to remove damaged section of the tube that leads from the kidney to bladder. then they will reattach at a higher section of bladder. I will aslo be having several Jaw surgeries. Due to exposure to radiation, osteoperosis a excessive vomiting of stomache acid my teeth are breaking and falling out. The doctor needs to repair what they can and put in inplants for what they cant. This will slow the degineration of my jaw. Without this treatment my jaw is going to cave in. Currently I am only able to eat mushy foods. I have drastically lost weight and my body is stuggling to heal due to the stress, pain and infection. So I hunbly beg of you to help me 1.00 or 50.00 anything would help. These procedures will not only improve my quality of life but aslo help extend my time here on earth just a little ehile longer. I just want to be with my kids as long as I can.Whith each dollar you donate its like adding an hour to my life.....What would you give for a few more hours with the ones you love?

Thank You so very much for your help. Heres my story. I am in my early 30s. I am a mother of two loving kids ages 4 and 9. My husband moved out a year ago after a bout of depression, stating "I love you thats why I cant stand to stay here n watch you die like this!" And it is true anyone who has watched a loved one waste away before thier eyes can tell you it eats your soul. In a way I cant blame him. I have hopes we will someday get our family back together. Untill then I am in this alone, and now find my self here asking you for help.
I have several cronic illnesses. Including scoliosis:Scoliosis is a sideways curvature of the spine that occurs most often during the growth spurt just before puberty. While scoliosis can be caused by conditions such as cerebral palsy and muscular dystrophy, the cause of most scoliosis is unknown. My scoliosis curve got worse, the spine rotated and twisted, in addition to curving side to side. This caused the ribs on one side of the body to stick out farther than on the other side. Severe scoliosis can caused back pain and difficulty breathing. In my case In severe scoliosis, the rib cage may press against the lungs and heart, making it more difficult to breathe and harder for the heart to pump.I also experience harsh neurological affects of Muscle weakness, Numbness and Abnormal reflexes. To save my life I had to have surgery.
Surgery involves correcting the curve (although not all the way) and fusing the bones in the curve together. The surgeon lays bone grafts across the exposed surface of each vertebra. These grafts will regenerate, grow into the bone, and fuse the vertebrae together. The bones are held in place with one or two metal rods held down with hooks and screws, helping to support the fusion of the vertebrae.I went through all this at age 13. But now with the onset of sevral more cronic illness complication from the surgery that once saved my life now slowly kill me.
Years later I began getting sicker and sicker by the time I was 20 my spine was degenerating causing horrible pain, I had to have my appendix removed, then gallblader went bad. We never dreamed these all had a common factor. Doctors just shook their head proclaiming :you are just so young for your body to be failing like this". Eventually it was discovered I have Lupus and severe arthritus. Lupus is an autoimmune disease, meaning that the body' s immune system mistakenly attacks healthy organs and tissue. Lupus can affect any part of the body, causing inflammation and damage in joints, skin, kidneys, heart, lungs, blood vessels, or the brain. More than 90% of people with lupus have skin rashes, often triggered by exposure to the sun, and about half have kidney and lung problems. Because lupus affects the joints, it is considered a rheumatic (arthritis) disease.
Upon this discovery things began to make sense. So doctors now knowing why began a body wide check up to see what all has been affected. One test was A bone mineral density (BMD) test measures how much calcium and other types of minerals are present in a section of your bone. Your health care provider uses this test, along with other risk factors, to predict your risk of bone fractures in the future and detect osteoporosis. Bone fracture risk is highest in people with osteoporosis. They found I indeed had osteoporosis at the age of 22. SO now My bones are weaking causing damage areas all over my body, but the most serious being in my spine. Now comes the arthritis/lupus, they see these damaged areas and my own imune system attacks. Eating at the damaged areas creating even more damage, which increases the area the lupus attacks. It is a vicious circle. I have now been treated with medication over 10 yrs. But they can only slow the illness there is no cure, and dure to my scoliosis and the metal rods in my back surgical treatment options are very limited.
The damage is so severe I was decared legally disabled by the age of 23. My only income is SSI. I have to support my children and I on 658.00 a month. Thank God the court issued my ex to pay my rent in lue of child support. I am asking for help to cover upcoming medical bills. In the last 14 months I have had 5 seperate kidney surgery. My right kidney is damaged and I will soon be having a 6th surgery. This one to remove damaged section of the tube that leads from the kidney to bladder. then they will reattach at a higher section of bladder. I will aslo be having several Jaw surgeries. Due to exposure to radiation, osteoperosis a excessive vomiting of stomache acid my teeth are breaking and falling out. The doctor needs to repair what they can and put in inplants for what they cant. This will slow the degineration of my jaw. Without this treatment my jaw is going to cave in. Currently I am only able to eat mushy foods. I have drastically lost weight and my body is stuggling to heal due to the stress, pain and infection. So I hunbly beg of you to help me 1.00 or 50.00 anything would help. These procedures will not only improve my quality of life but aslo help extend my time here on earth just a little ehile longer. I just want to be with my kids as long as I can.Whith each dollar you donate its like adding an hour to my life.....What would you give for a few more hours with the ones you love?

Hi,
I'm in my 30s and in a desperate situation. Although I'm a very proud person, my situation has pushed me to act differently because of my responsibility towards my kids. I'm physically and psychologically unable to work due to my illness, although I'm a smart person. In past 18 years, I have had many surgeries; 12 of them on my spine because of severe scoliosis and 4 on my right hand. I have two lovely daughters, one is 16 who attends secondary school and the other is just a 7 months old baby.
About 4 months ago I found out that my husband suffers from bipolar disorder, after years of putting us through hell. He was hospitalized a few months ago and after he was discharged, in early January he left us with no support and went to another country. I have been struggling with tons of bills for months and now I'm left with everything to deal with as he ran up large amount of debts.
Despite everything that I have to deal with, every single day I'm in constant pain. All the time I feel exhausted from looking after a baby single handed during the day and night. My eldest has fallen behind at school work due to helping me and now her dreams for her future has shattered (she has A-level exams, was hoping to study Psychology at university). In order to function on a daily basis I struggle and need to take heavy painkillers such as morphine which makes me even more tired.I have no family and friends to help me. My mother is in her late 70's and lives in another country with her sister and my father died years ago.
Please help me financially by making any donation to help me clear at least some of my debts. I have no money to eat proper meals and I'm breastfeeding. I'm on a verge of nervous breakdown. In the past if I ever could help anyone I have done. So I'm waiting for karma to work, please help me if you can. I feel under extreme amount of pressure as if I'm taking my last breath.
Thanks for your time and hope for your sincere help.

Hi,
I’m in my 30’s and in a desperate situation. Although I’m a very proud person, my situation has pushed me to act differently because of my responsibility towards my kids. I’m physically and psychologically unable to work due to my illness, although I’m a smart person. In past 18 years, I have had many surgeries; 12 of them on my spine because of severe scoliosis and 4 on my right hand. I have two lovely daughters, one is 16 who attends secondary school and the other is just a 7 months old baby.
About 4 months ago I found out that my husband suffers from bipolar disorder, after years of putting us through hell. He was hospitalized a few months ago and after he was discharged, in early January he left us with no support and went to another country. I have been struggling with tons of bills for months and now I’m left with everything to deal with as he ran up large amount of debts.
Despite everything that I have to deal with, every single day I’m in constant pain. All the time I feel exhausted from looking after a baby single handed during the day and night. My eldest has fallen behind at school work due to helping me and now her dreams for her future has shattered (she has A-level exams, was hoping to study Psychology at university). In order to function on a daily basis I struggle and need to take heavy painkillers such as morphine which makes me even more tired.I have no family and friends to help me. My mother is in her late 70's and lives in another country with her sister and my father died years ago.
Please help me financially by making any donation to help me clear at least some of my debts. I have no money to eat proper meals and I’m breastfeeding. I’m on a verge of nervous breakdown. In the past if I ever could help anyone I have done. So I’m waiting for karma to work, please help me if you can. I feel under extreme amount of pressure as if I’m taking my last breath.
Thanks for your time and hope for your sincere help.

NAVIDAD……..CHRISTMAS
ANO NUEVO…….NEW YEAR!!!!
THROUGH THIS SEASON, MANY PEOPLE WISH FOR PRESENTS,
FOR NEW THINGS, EXCITING TRIPS, PEOPLE’S COMPANY,
AND SO ON AND SO ON,
BUT ME……….I WISH FOR………………….
FOR RELIEF, YES , RELIEF TO MY PAIN, PAIN DAY AND NIGHT. AT NIGHT YOU FALL ASLEEP, ME??? I AM AWAKEN IN PAIN, AMONG MANY OTHER SYMPTOMS MY BACK IS SEVERELY CROOKED THERE IS NO BALANCE IN MY BODY, SO I FIND NO COMFORTABLE POSITION TO FALL ASLEEP. MY NEUROFIBROMAS OR SMALL TUMORS ALL OVER MY BODY, HEAD, FACE, HANDS, FEET, ETC HURT AND DESESPERATEDLY ITCH SPECIALLY AT NIGHT.
I HAVE SCOLIOSIS AND NEUROFIBROMATOSIS FROM BIRTH.
PLEASE SEND ME ANY AMOUNT OF MONEY YOU CAN, I NEED MEDICINES TO CALM MY PAIN, THE ITCHING IN MY BODY, DOCTORS’ CARE AND SO SO MANY OTHER THINGS.
YOU CAN WRITE ME AT MY E-MAIL IF SO YOU WISH. GOD, PLEASE TALK TO THIS PERSON.
My e-mail: morrita123@yahoo.com

NAVIDAD……..CHRISTMAS
ANO NUEVO…….NEW YEAR!!!!
THROUGH THIS SEASON, MANY PEOPLE WISH FOR PRESENTS,
FOR NEW THINGS, EXCITING TRIPS, PEOPLE’S COMPANY,
AND SO ON AND SO ON,
BUT ME……….I WISH FOR………………….
FOR RELIEF, YES , RELIEF TO MY PAIN, PAIN DAY AND NIGHT. AT NIGHT YOU FALL ASLEEP, ME??? I AM AWAKEN IN PAIN, AMONG MANY OTHER SYMPTOMS MY BACK IS SEVERELY CROOKED THERE IS NO BALANCE IN MY BODY, SO I FIND NO COMFORTABLE POSITION TO FALL ASLEEP. MY NEUROFIBROMAS OR SMALL TUMORS ALL OVER MY BODY, HEAD, FACE, HANDS, FEET, ETC HURT AND DESESPERATEDLY ITCH SPECIALLY AT NIGHT.
I HAVE SCOLIOSIS AND NEUROFIBROMATOSIS FROM BIRTH.
PLEASE SEND ME ANY AMOUNT OF MONEY YOU CAN, I NEED MEDICINES TO CALM MY PAIN, THE ITCHING IN MY BODY, DOCTORS’ CARE AND SO SO MANY OTHER THINGS.
YOU CAN WRITE ME AT MY E-MAIL IF SO YOU WISH. GOD, PLEASE TALK TO THIS PERSON.
My e-mail: morrita123@yahoo.com

NAVIDAD……..CHRISTMAS
ANO NUEVO…….NEW YEAR!!!!
THROUGH THIS SEASON, MANY PEOPLE WISH FOR PRESENTS,
FOR NEW THINGS, EXCITING TRIPS, PEOPLE’S COMPANY,
AND SO ON AND SO ON,
BUT ME……….I WISH FOR………………….
FOR RELIEF, YES , RELIEF TO MY PAIN, PAIN DAY AND NIGHT. AT NIGHT YOU FALL ASLEEP, ME??? I AM AWAKEN IN PAIN, AMONG MANY OTHER SYMPTOMS MY BACK IS SEVERELY CROOKED THERE IS NO BALANCE IN MY BODY, SO I FIND NO COMFORTABLE POSITION TO FALL ASLEEP. MY NEUROFIBROMAS OR SMALL TUMORS ALL OVER MY BODY, HEAD, FACE, HANDS, FEET, ETC HURT AND DESESPERATEDLY ITCH SPECIALLY AT NIGHT.
I HAVE SCOLIOSIS AND NEUROFIBROMATOSIS FROM BIRTH.
PLEASE SEND ME ANY AMOUNT OF MONEY YOU CAN, I NEED MEDICINES TO CALM MY PAIN, THE ITCHING IN MY BODY, DOCTORS’ CARE AND SO SO MANY OTHER THINGS.
YOU CAN WRITE ME AT MY E-MAIL IF SO YOU WISH. GOD, PLEASE TALK TO THIS PERSON.
My e-mail: morrita123@yahoo.com

NAVIDAD……..CHRISTMAS
ANO NUEVO…….NEW YEAR!!!!
THROUGH THIS SEASON, MANY PEOPLE WISH FOR PRESENTS,
FOR NEW THINGS, EXCITING TRIPS, PEOPLE’S COMPANY,
AND SO ON AND SO ON,
BUT ME……….I WISH FOR………………….
FOR RELIEF, YES , RELIEF TO MY PAIN, PAIN DAY AND NIGHT. AT NIGHT YOU FALL ASLEEP, ME??? I AM AWAKEN IN PAIN, AMONG MANY OTHER SYMPTOMS MY BACK IS SEVERELY CROOKED THERE IS NO BALANCE IN MY BODY, SO I FIND NO COMFORTABLE POSITION TO FALL ASLEEP. MY NEUROFIBROMAS OR SMALL TUMORS ALL OVER MY BODY, HEAD, FACE, HANDS, FEET, ETC HURT AND DESESPERATEDLY ITCH SPECIALLY AT NIGHT.
I HAVE SCOLIOSIS AND NEUROFIBROMATOSIS FROM BIRTH.
PLEASE SEND ME ANY AMOUNT OF MONEY YOU CAN, I NEED MEDICINES TO CALM MY PAIN, THE ITCHING IN MY BODY, DOCTORS’ CARE AND SO SO MANY OTHER THINGS.
YOU CAN WRITE ME AT MY E-MAIL IF SO YOU WISH. GOD, PLEASE TALK TO THIS PERSON.
My e-mail: morrita123@yahoo.com

Hi all :)

My names Becky, and for some months I have been raising money for my little sister who has the genetic disease neurofibromatosis. She has suffered with this for a few years, with other problems occurring because of this (scoliosis etc)
She gets bullied at school, because of the large growth on her leg, which she will need to have surgery on in the coming year.
I have raised some funds but this is nowhere near enough. I want to send her tithe USA to Harry potter world, so she can feel like the best person in the whole world. I want her to feel like the most beautiful girl in the world, because to me she is perfect.
I have created this fundraising page: www.gofundme.com/afhb0
I have had one donation which is great but I do need more.

I would be so grateful if you could do so :D
Thank you so so much

Hi,
Im a 47 year old woman who recently graduated with my Masters degree in clinical psychology. After graduation I completed my 3000 hours of internship. Unfortunatley I lost my job, due to mental health cuts in my county. My husband is disabled with scoliosis, but was denied disability, he is appealing. My oldest son his wife and their one year old daughter lost their home and had to move in with us. Then my oldest daughter and her husband and new baby (born 10/03/11)moved in due to lay offs. I also have two dependent sons. I apply to job postings every day, I have been on thirty interviews in the past two years. My oldest son is in college, but none of the other adults in the home have been able to find employment.We live in San Bernardino county with a very high unemployment rate. We hired a lawyer to help us with refinancing, but after paying them (and them discovering the loan was country wide and fraudulant) they only increased our monthly payments. We are doing everything we can to avoid becoming homeless, but we are being told we dont make enough to keep our home. I dont know what our family will do or where we will go. If only I could find someone who could help us until I can find work. We wont have a Thanksgiving or Christmas this year, We can barely keep the babies in diapers, we often go hungry, Our electricity has been disconnected, and we have shut off notices for the remaining utilities. We have one barely running car, no insurance, no cell phone, no anything left!Please help. I cant accept through pay pal because we are overdrawn in the bank.

First of all, thank you for taking the time to read my story.
I was born with congenital scoliosis and only half a rib cage. Because of this, my lungs never fully developed past the age of 5. I never thought of myself as handicapped and always pushed myself to do anything anyone else could do, but of course I was at a disadvantage and never really could be normal. But I was full of energy and I was young so I didn't let it hold me back. I couldn't run very far without having to stop and rest, but I still got around fine. A few years back I came down with pneumonia. Eventually I got better but the damage was done. After a while, I could tell that my breathing was getting worse. Eventually I noticed swelling around my ankles and I would wake up with horrible headaches. When I finally went to the doctor to figure out what was happening, I found out I had pulmonary hypertension and severe sleep apnea. Now I have to be on oxygen 24/7 and on a bi-pap machine while I sleep. I'm 30 years old and living on social security.
I still dream of earning a living for myself, but in order to do so I need some equipment so I can work from home. I also need a car so I can be more independent and stop relying on family members to give me a ride when I need to get groceries or go run errands.
Any help would be greatly appreciated and put to good use. Thank you and God bless.

I can’t believe my life has come to this. First and foremost, it is important to know that I am a hardworking, responsible individual. I love going to work every day as a child and family therapist knowing that I have the ability to help make positive changes in others’ lives. I also, for whatever reason, feel very uncomfortable asking for help. I don’t think I have ever asked anyone for financial help in my life, let alone a “donation”. I was always taught that if you want something…. YOU WORK FOR IT! I have had a job since I was 13 yrs old and it taught me to appreciate the value of the dollar and hard work. But what happens when you physically can’t? My values speak to who I was, who I am and who I want to be and why I am worthy of your help.
• Be respectful, giving, loving and kind to others.
• Treat others as you would want to be treated.
• First and foremost dedication to my family and friends
• If you want something, you have to work for it because nothing in life is free
• Work hard and you can achieve anything you set your mind to
• If you believe in something, be passionate about it
• Love what you do for work – Life is too short
• Do not be selfish, but selfless – be there or give to others as much as you can
Resilient for many years –struggling through a childhood of undiagnosed ADHD - low self esteem, disruptive and impulsive behaviors, poor attention, disorganization, ambivalence about making life decisions, flunking out of college my freshman yr at 18 yo (which led to me having to pay any subsequent schooling on my own), moving and attending a new school at the beginning of my 8th grade year with a scoliosis brace that had to be worn 23 hours a day, having major surgery at 14 yo and missing 3 months of my freshman yr. As an adult, moving from NJ to Ma away from my family who I was extremely close to due to a marriage that didn’t work, losing my father to cancer and watching him waste away in front of me and feeling helpless. I did return to school as an adult committed to helping others and figuring out my own insecurities. Over 7 yrs (25-32 yrs old) received my bachelors degree from Rutgers University with high honors and my masters in clinical social work from Columbia University also with honors.
I know what I am capable of and I know how much I have to give to others. But at this point in my life, I also need to be honest with myself about my physical limitations.
When I was 12 yo I was diagnosed with a severe case of scoliosis and had to wear a body brace for 1 ½ yrs. Bad timing, I guess… I had just moved and was starting my 8th grade yr in a new school. Two yrs later (1983) I had major reconstructive surgery (14 hours, in a body cast 6 mos, couldn’t ride in a car or sit for more than 15 mins a day for 3 mos) and my spine was fused from T3 to L4 – all at 14 yo! Over the years, my back problems were just “part of my life”. Now at 43 I am disabled and in need of another major surgery due to collapsed discs that are compressing the nerves in my lower back. The pain I endure is affecting my ability to sit, stand or walk to any period of time. I had to leave my last job as an outpatient therapist a couple of years ago due to my inability to commit to a schedule because of my pain. I have been taking pain pills, which I do not want to become addicted to and have worked out an arrangement with a caring chiropractor. Not to mention at work I have kids, teens and their families who depend on me to help them, some of who I don’t charge because they can’t afford it. So, my schedule is minimal, my bills are racking up and I continue to try to help people sometimes at my own expense (physical). I have no health insurance because I can’t afford it, I live in a 800 square foot apartment that I share and I drive a 1998 Nissan Maxima that has over 200,000 miles on it! I don’t have “things” because I don’t NEED material things. It kills me to ask for help, especially monetary. It’s hard for me to accept help but I have no problem giving, lending or helping other people. My friends say that I give “too much”, but I feel that if I have it to give or I can do something to help someone else be happier, less stressed or more comfortable than I will. And I’ve been taken advantage of many times because of this – for example, 3 yrs ago, I lent a co-worker $5000 to assure that as a single mother she would have a dependable car for her and her 3 kids. She has not paid me anything yet. Gave another friend my car for 2 weeks to use because her car was in the shop and she couldn’t afford a rental. It was definitely an inconvenience, having to walk to and from work a mile, having to way to run errands until the weekend, etc. But I did it because I knew how much it meant to her and how much it helped. I then find myself thinking … who will be my angel when I need one?? And I do…. Please, please help!! I don’t have a choice right now. I need surgery, physical therapy/personal training in order to continue working for others. Thank you so much for any contribution you can make! God Bless!
College Loans: $60,000
Surgery: $250,000
Credit card debt $40,000 over last 8 yrs to support me at times when couldn’t work
Physical Therapy $2,000
Bills 3 mos $5,000 during recovery time

Wow… that’s hard to see… : ( Feel like I’m on the verge of a nervous breakdown!! Please be my angel

I can’t believe my life has come to this. First and foremost, it is important to know that I am a hardworking, responsible individual. I love going to work every day as a child and family therapist knowing that I have the ability to help make positive changes in others’ lives. I also, for whatever reason, feel very uncomfortable asking for help. I don’t think I have ever asked anyone for financial help in my life, let alone a “donation”. I was always taught that if you want something…. YOU WORK FOR IT! I have had a job since I was 13 yrs old and it taught me to appreciate the value of the dollar and hard work. But what happens when you physically can’t? My values speak to who I was, who I am and who I want to be and why I am worthy of your help.
Be respectful, giving, loving and kind to others.
Treat others as you would want to be treated.
First and foremost dedication to my family and friends
If you want something, you have to work for it because nothing in life is free
Work hard and you can achieve anything you set your mind to
If you believe in something, be passionate about it
Love what you do for work – Life is too short
Do not be selfish, but selfless – be there or give to others as much as you can
Resilient for many years –struggling through a childhood of undiagnosed ADHD - low self esteem, disruptive and impulsive behaviors, poor attention, disorganization, ambivalence about making life decisions, flunking out of college my freshman yr at 18 yo (which led to me having to pay any subsequent schooling on my own), moving and attending a new school at the beginning of my 8th grade year with a scoliosis brace that had to be worn 23 hours a day, having major surgery at 14 yo and missing 3 months of my freshman yr. As an adult, moving from NJ to Ma away from my family who I was extremely close to due to a marriage that didn’t work, losing my father to cancer and watching him waste away in front of me and feeling helpless. I did return to school as an adult committed to helping others and figuring out my own insecurities. Over 7 yrs (25-32 yrs old) received my bachelors degree from Rutgers University with high honors and my masters in clinical social work from Columbia University also with honors.
I know what I am capable of and I know how much I have to give to others. But at this point in my life, I also need to be honest with myself about my physical limitations.
When I was 12 yo I was diagnosed with a severe case of scoliosis and had to wear a body brace for 1 ½ yrs. Bad timing, I guess… I had just moved and was starting my 8th grade yr in a new school. Two yrs later (1983) I had major reconstructive surgery (14 hours, in a body cast 6 mos, couldn’t ride in a car or sit for more than 15 mins a day for 3 mos) and my spine was fused from T3 to L4 – all at 14 yo! Over the years, my back problems were just “part of my life”. Now at 43 I am disabled and in need of another major surgery due to collapsed discs that are compressing the nerves in my lower back. The pain I endure is affecting my ability to sit, stand or walk to any period of time. I had to leave my last job as an outpatient therapist a couple of years ago due to my inability to commit to a schedule because of my pain. I have been taking pain pills, which I do not want to become addicted to and have worked out an arrangement with a caring chiropractor. Not to mention at work I have kids, teens and their families who depend on me to help them, some of who I don’t charge because they can’t afford it. So, my schedule is minimal, my bills are racking up and I continue to try to help people sometimes at my own expense (physical). I have no health insurance because I can’t afford it, I live in a 800 square foot apartment that I share and I drive a 1998 Nissan Maxima that has over 200,000 miles on it! I don’t have “things” because I don’t NEED material things. It kills me to ask for help, especially monetary. It’s hard for me to accept help but I have no problem giving, lending or helping other people. My friends say that I give “too much”, but I feel that if I have it to give or I can do something to help someone else be happier, less stressed or more comfortable than I will. And I’ve been taken advantage of many times because of this – for example, 3 yrs ago, I lent a co-worker $5000 to assure that as a single mother she would have a dependable car for her and her 3 kids. She has not paid me anything yet. Gave another friend my car for 2 weeks to use because her car was in the shop and she couldn’t afford a rental. It was definitely an inconvenience, having to walk to and from work a mile, having to way to run errands until the weekend, etc. But I did it because I knew how much it meant to her and how much it helped. I then find myself thinking … who will be my angel when I need one?? And I do…. Please, please help!! I don’t have a choice right now. I need surgery, physical therapy/personal training in order to continue working for others. Thank you so much for any contribution you can make! God Bless!
College Loans: $60,000
Surgery: $250,000
Credit card debt $40,000 over last 8 yrs to support me at times when couldn’t work
Physical Therapy $2,000
Bills 3 mos $5,000 during recovery time

Wow… that’s hard to see… : ( Feel like I’m on the verge of a nervous breakdown!! Please be my angel

I can’t believe my life has come to this. First and foremost, it is important to know that I am a hardworking, responsible individual. I love going to work every day as a child and family therapist knowing that I have the ability to help make positive changes in others’ lives. I also, for whatever reason, feel very uncomfortable asking for help. I don’t think I have ever asked anyone for financial help in my life, let alone a “donation”. I was always taught that if you want something…. YOU WORK FOR IT! I have had a job since I was 13 yrs old and it taught me to appreciate the value of the dollar and hard work. But what happens when you physically can’t? My values speak to who I was, who I am and who I want to be and why I am worthy of your help.
• Be respectful, giving, loving and kind to others.
• Treat others as you would want to be treated.
• First and foremost dedication to my family and friends
• If you want something, you have to work for it because nothing in life is free
• Work hard and you can achieve anything you set your mind to
• If you believe in something, be passionate about it
• Love what you do for work – Life is too short
• Do not be selfish, but selfless – be there or give to others as much as you can
Resilient for many years –struggling through a childhood of undiagnosed ADHD - low self esteem, disruptive and impulsive behaviors, poor attention, disorganization, ambivalence about making life decisions, flunking out of college my freshman yr at 18 yo (which led to me having to pay any subsequent schooling on my own), moving and attending a new school at the beginning of my 8th grade year with a scoliosis brace that had to be worn 23 hours a day, having major surgery at 14 yo and missing 3 months of my freshman yr. As an adult, moving from NJ to Ma away from my family who I was extremely close to due to a marriage that didn’t work, losing my father to cancer and watching him waste away in front of me and feeling helpless. I did return to school as an adult committed to helping others and figuring out my own insecurities. Over 7 yrs (25-32 yrs old) received my bachelors degree from Rutgers University with high honors and my masters in clinical social work from Columbia University also with honors.
I know what I am capable of and I know how much I have to give to others. But at this point in my life, I also need to be honest with myself about my physical limitations.
When I was 12 yo I was diagnosed with a severe case of scoliosis and had to wear a body brace for 1 ½ yrs. Bad timing, I guess… I had just moved and was starting my 8th grade yr in a new school. Two yrs later (1983) I had major reconstructive surgery (14 hours, in a body cast 6 mos, couldn’t ride in a car or sit for more than 15 mins a day for 3 mos) and my spine was fused from T3 to L4 – all at 14 yo! Over the years, my back problems were just “part of my life”. Now at 43 I am disabled and in need of another major surgery due to collapsed discs that are compressing the nerves in my lower back. The pain I endure is affecting my ability to sit, stand or walk to any period of time. I had to leave my last job as an outpatient therapist a couple of years ago due to my inability to commit to a schedule because of my pain. I have been taking pain pills, which I do not want to become addicted to and have worked out an arrangement with a caring chiropractor. Not to mention at work I have kids, teens and their families who depend on me to help them, some of who I don’t charge because they can’t afford it. So, my schedule is minimal, my bills are racking up and I continue to try to help people sometimes at my own expense (physical). I have no health insurance because I can’t afford it, I live in a 800 square foot apartment that I share and I drive a 1998 Nissan Maxima that has over 200,000 miles on it! I don’t have “things” because I don’t NEED material things. It kills me to ask for help, especially monetary. It’s hard for me to accept help but I have no problem giving, lending or helping other people. My friends say that I give “too much”, but I feel that if I have it to give or I can do something to help someone else be happier, less stressed or more comfortable than I will. And I’ve been taken advantage of many times because of this – for example, 3 yrs ago, I lent a co-worker $5000 to assure that as a single mother she would have a dependable car for her and her 3 kids. She has not paid me anything yet. Gave another friend my car for 2 weeks to use because her car was in the shop and she couldn’t afford a rental. It was definitely an inconvenience, having to walk to and from work a mile, having to way to run errands until the weekend, etc. But I did it because I knew how much it meant to her and how much it helped. I then find myself thinking … who will be my angel when I need one?? And I do…. Please, please help!! I don’t have a choice right now. I need surgery, physical therapy/personal training in order to continue working for others. Thank you so much for any contribution you can make! God Bless!
College Loans: $60,000
Surgery: $250,000
Credit card debt $40,000 over last 8 yrs to support me at times when couldn’t work
Physical Therapy $2,000
Bills 3 mos $5,000 during recovery time

Wow… that’s hard to see… : ( Feel like I’m on the verge of a nervous breakdown!! Please be my angel

I meant my husband 10 years ago.in the first 5 years lost any reletives close to us since then we have struggled to keep a roof over our head.We have 2 small children one in school.We rent and were unable to keep up with bills at the timely fashion it was exspected so we have to move. We can not get any help with state and recently regained employmeant at a awsom bussiness.I myself have had many surgrys and currently have scoliosis.As this is very painfull to work with Iv refused pain medications to continue working and to keep the best roof over my childrens head. But now we have to move and in 15 days the sheriff will come and throw out the only items and memorys we have left of any past familey members cause we not money saved to move. We live week to week to provide food dipers and such.My dream allways is to sing and bring my children up with respect and honesty this is not a joke we are scared of looseing our children because in these parts the state will take them if you cannot provide. please will somone help us stay together all we have is eachother in this world and i cant stand the thought of somone takeing them away becouse We could not provide. I do feel so selfish knowing so many others have worse problems but this is a last resort for us.My husband has no ideal and he has tryed so hard to be a provider and can tell he is so depressed dailey. Im so scared of somone just throwing in the streets what we have it isnt much our big goal is to just do for these two wounderfull kids we made together.So this is for them and i pray somone will help us. Thank you

HI my name is Amber, Im 28 years old, but look like im like 16. Why you ask, because I'm short, like 4'6, but my personality is big. Im just down on my luck right now, hoping for a miracle.

I was born with neuroblastoma, which is a cancer that affected my spine. Doctors told my parents I wouldn't survive, but here I am. Gave me severe scoliosis though, hence why im so short. I like to say, who wants to be straight, thats soo unoriginal. I have 2 kids, which packed on 10 pounds, im now 90lbs, I know not a lot but I'm 4'6 remember ;o)

But anywho, because Im a bit crooked, the weights kinda given me a love handle on one side, and one hangy boob, picture a picaso painting, lol. So I'd like to get money to enhance my appearance... I know I can't change my back, but the love handle I sure would love to target ;o) So I've never asked for money like this before but I figure it can't hurt. Any little help makes my life a little bit easier. Thank you, and have a blessed day.

Hello,
My name is Richard. Recently my step-father passed away, leaving my mother alone. My step-father was disabled with scoliosis, so he received a disability check once a month which came to around $700. My mother is also disabled with some sort of bad arthritis disease. I'm sorry I cannot remember the exact name, but years ago they had to place metal plates in her knees and was wheelchair bound for a few years, but can now get around with only a cane. So she also recieved a disability check, but hers was only around $400 a month.

Well, after my step-father passed away back on July 2nd, 2011. She no longer received his disability checks, and where as her own disability check can cover almost 90% of the house payment, that leaves her with no spending money at all. No money for all of her medications and food.

Since she is disabled, she receives very few food stamps. Since she can never work, the government feels it appropriate that she only receives $45 a month in food stamps. That's not enough for an entire month, and also considering the only stores around here are the big name ones, like wal-mart and kroger.

After my step-father passed away, I was laid off from work, again, from a company called Unifacs. Now the first time I was laid off, I received unemployment. This year, they came back and hired me back in, but this time it only lasted for 2 month before they laid everyone off again, so because of the short period, I do not quality for unemployment this time. I have searched for over a month for work, anywhere. I have over 45 applications floating around my area, and about that amount in online applications as well.

I never really had a problem finding work before, until now. Times have for sure changed. They hire these 16 year olds before hiring me for some reason. Only thing I can guess is they know a 16 year old could turn that job into his career, whereas someone like me who is qualified in many fields, will only work there until better work comes along.

So basically, this is what I am needing help with. This month, August, my mother had to dig into her house payment for cat/dog food, her own food, cigarettes (i know, I've tried to get her to stop), fuel, and many other things. It's only halfway through the month and both of us are completely broke and both fear losing the house.

So any help, whether it be $1 or more, will be much, much appreciated. Even if the donator has some sort of volunteer work that they need some sort of help with, I'd be very glad to help.

I have no shame in begging as I am desperate to get my family safe. We just moved cross-country before Christmas. Our family of 5 changed to a family of 4, as our oldest (my stepson) decided to stay w/ his mother. Our other teen son has made the move ok, as well as our 5 year old daughter. My husband has not worked in 4+ years...he is not able to sit or stand for any length of time as he has Scoliosis. I just got a job but have not gotten full time yet. We are broke. We have $42.00 to our names as I write this. I have never been so depressed in my life!!! We had to move because we lost our house. We moved in w/ my parents and while we are very grateful we even have a place to go, they are in severe financial straits too! The tension is horrible....they are very abusive and unhealthy, but we had no where else to go. We HAVE to get the kids away from this stress. please understand....we are good people who have gotten rotten luck every single time for the last few years. Anything would be appreciated. Would love an angel to help us! Would even sign a promissory note + pay interest for a large donation/loan. They have threatened to throw us out and I am terrified! I feel so ridiculous being almost 40 years old and in this situation. I am a fighter and will pray for generous, kind, pay-it-forward people to help me get my family safe. THANK YOU in advance...!!!

Please...Please...HELP ME...I have been out on my own since 16 years old. Never finished high school, have no family...mom died..dad's crippled off with sister in Tennessee...one son w/his dad in California..one son w/his dad..cause I am unable to provide any monetary support. I have $502.00 owed to court system so suspended license...on Oct.5th, 2005 fell 25 feet & broke my right hip in 4 places...haven't been the same since. I'm 33..with srthritis and scoliosis, Hep c, and bad carpal tunnel in both hands. My life long dream is to one day publish my poetry..in which I have written over 200 misc. poems over the last 20 years. I can't sit and write..so I type..problem is..nothng to type on..cause I'm homeless..& just yesterday the police came to where I use the internet..kicked in the door..and I think everyone has to move now. So now I'll be out in in the Oregon cold freezing. So PLESE HELP

I really need help. I have tried all the at home businesses I could find (all charge money or you have to pay to earn money), I have tried getting grants, donating plasma-which I can't do because of my blood pressure. I've tried everything. In september of last year I lost my job and I have barely been scraping by since on food stamps and my husband's social security disability income. I am 24 years old. I have arthritis and scoliosis as well as bad knees and constant migraines. My teeth are constantly hurting and in bad condition since I can't afford to go to the dentist and haven't been able to for years. I need help. Any money you could donate would help at least get me through with paying my rent and bills and for food. I really need to go to the dentist and my husband, who has a rare eye disease needs to go to an eye specialist before he starts going blind. Please find it in your heart to help me. Thank you.

Hello, I really do hate to ask but i feel there are no other options, I have had trouble with cronic pain due to scoliosis so it has been verry hard to get out and find work so i can catch up on my utilities most close to being shut off, it is also hard because i dont work im not covered and pain medication that works is too expensive, if i could get help paying bills and getting the proper medication and food i could be more successfull in my job search thank u for your time and concideration:

I am a single mother of an eight month old boy, having to stay with people so that he has a roof over his head. I lost my job of two years in August 2009 as soon as my Nursing Director found out I was pregnant. I have been trying to get a job since then and have put in applications everywhere. I have tried everywhere from gas stations to hospitals with no luck. They either don't have any positions open or require experience or a degree. I have neither and do not understand how they can expect me to have experience if they won't hire me so that I can get experience. Also some jobs won't hire me because I have Bell's Palsy and Scoliosis; Scoliosis because I am considered an insurance liability if I hurt my back on the job, and Bell's Palsy because they don't want me to work at the front desk to represent their company because the right side of my mouth does not work at all, I cannot smile my right eye does not fully close and waters frequently. I have been told that they need someone with a "sunny appearance" and that I just do not fit that description. Things that I can't help are holding me back from getting a job. I was unable to get my unemployment benefits because my former Nursing Director told them that I quit due to an illness. They then sent me a letter that says pregnant women are not physically fit for suitable work and that in order to get on unemployment I have to work at another job for 30 days. I don't know what to do. I have been looking for a job for over a year. I have been taking care of my eight month old son by picking up change people drop. I really need help and would be so grateful for any kind of assistance I can get. I cannot even get help from the government because I do not have ten people not related to me, that can be reached during the day, that have known me for more than one year, to sign a paper stating that I have no income and that I am actively searching for a job. Everyone that could sign for me is either working during the day, or related to me. I need help to move somewhere that I can get a job. Any job will do, I just need to be able to support my son. I need help getting back on my feet. I would like to thank anyone who might be able to help me in advance.

  Hello, my name is Jay. I'm 29 years of age and I am in a unfortunate situation because of a life-long struggle with physical disabilities. I was born with cerebral palsy, scoliosis, epilepsy, and asthma. However, the combination of these ailments have not caused me to stop achieving my goal of finishing college. The financial strains have been a lot though in recent years because after graduating high school with a normal diploma, my disability benefits were taken away. I had to fight 2 years to restore them, which caused my grades at the college I was attending to drop below financial aid standards, which caused me to leave. This caused me to have debt, which totals $16,000. This is my old tuition bill plus my medical bills from when my disability benefits were cut. By the time I got my benefits restored, the day-to-day expenses became too great, so I couldn't tackle this debt. Even with this accomplished however, unfortunately my dream of receiving my college degree can't be completed because the tuition at the school is $35,000 per year and I simply can't afford it. All I ask is for anything you would be willing to give in order to help my dream come true. Thank You.
 
 

I have never been in a position such as my present situation. I am a 49 year old single Mom. All of my family has passed, and the two family members that are alive, cannot help me. I have worked hard since I was 15. The last two years I worked 2 jobs and had a small business. I was working toward a goal, getting my son into college. All was going well until he was in a car accident. I had to stay home to care for him for two months, until he was well. He could not get out of bed; I worked from home, until my company fired me two days before the New Year.
After the accident and my layoff, I started to become very ill. I have always been sick but could press on. Now I find myself without any money and on the verge of being homeless, I am currently on 27 medications to stop the progression of the rheumatoid and osteoarthritis. I was paralyzed at 24. I have been diagnosed with Lupus, Reynaud’s, IB, Gerd, Migraines, along with the arthritis. I have herniated discs and my spine is not strong. I have scoliosis and my spine has me in pain at all times. I am also a cancer survivor.
I am not used to being the one needing help; I am more comfortable helping others. I have taken in people in the past that needed help, I donate to every animal organization, and I would rather be on the giving end. I recently took in a family of 5 and now I do not know where we will all end up, God help us all
Thank You for listening
Rosanne