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Posted by Lonesumduv on 2012-05-24 07:58:52

My fee is only $5 dollars!
Pay me through pay pal (with their phone number )and I will call them once the payment is cleared and received.
If you want to hear my voice or ability beforehand then you will need to message me with your number and we can talk.
I can even sing happy birthday the Spanish way.
I really need to make money for rent and would appreciate any work you send my way.
Please remember that respect is a two way street and I will not allow disrespectful people to degrade me just because I need work.

CANNOT COUNT ON FAMILY

Posted by jasond on 2012-05-22 15:58:53

My name is Jason. I am a hardworking 28 year old married man with three wonderful children 7, 4, and 1 month old, and the best wife anyone could ever ask for. When I and my wife married we were “given” my parents’ home in NY along with the mortgage as a wedding present. My wife and I have spent the last three years renovating this home, dumping every single cent we had into its improvement. We both come from broken homes and both wanted something more than what we came from, and have managed to build a loving stress free environment for our family, and in a matter of a month my “family” (brother, mother and father) have managed to crush our dream out of selfishness and this, “the world owes me something” mentality they all seem to have.
I work full time and also do side jobs on weekends to make ends meet, my wife has been out of work on disability (she will return full time in the next 3 weeks) due to the birth of our son, which should be the happiest time of our life, and yet I get to go home and see my children upset wondering why there uncle is acting the way he is, I get to see my wife cry over the fact that we have been basically reminded that even though we pay the bill and we fix this home and have made it what it never was for me growing up an actual home, that it is not ours and we should have no say over what happens.
My brother who at one time made hundreds of thousands of dollars a year an selfish heartless drug addict, who even though has never treated me or my family with any respect I have always dropped what I am doing regardless of time or place to go “save him”, and by save usually picking his drug addict ass up and making sure he gets home, or dropping what I’m doing to take him to the hospital cause he is so sick from whatever he has taken this time. Now that brother has decided to move in with us, not ask, not offer to help, but blatantly tell me and my wife, “it’s not your house , I am not asking permission to stay here”, and my parents who told me this home was a “Wedding gift” seem to agree. They feel it’s okay for a drug addict to be living among children, that it’s okay that slowly one by one pieces of my wife’s jewelry are disappearing, or that since he came has literally taken over my infant sons nursery with his disgusting belongings that I found my wife sitting on the floor of the living room trying to feed the baby because he’s asleep on the sofa passed out cold and his belonging are strewn all over the house.
My only options are to buy this home that I and my wife have built a great life in so I can say who stays and goes, or to uproot my children and move as far from these selfish disgusting people as possible.
In order to purchase this home I would need a deposit upwards of 12000 which due to me draining my accounts my sons accounts and my wife’s to “save” my brother from jail, drug dealers, etc., we have nothing left. Which has led me here, led me to the point where I feel more dependent on asking strangers for help than my own family because they can’t even help themselves? I am the little brother (youngest of four) who has always had to be the big brother, I am the one one whose entire family drops there problems in my lap as if to say deal with it. I have been the pillar supporting every single family member I have for the last 28 years, the pillar has finally cracked and can’t hold up the weight of the world anymore. I am begging on my hands and knees for help from completer strangers so I can continue to give my children the life I never had, and offer them some stability instead of having to tear them from the home they have come to love, that my wife has come to love, that I love. I want to give my children the world but my family continues to assure that won’t happen under there watch. Please I beg of you with everything I am I need help. Please don’t make us just another statistic, I found my calling and made a life for my wife and children, I have put aside pride, because they are all that matters to me. Thank You for taking the time to read this and thank you for any support or help you can provide.

Cant count on family

Posted by jasond on 2012-05-21 11:58:13

My name is Jason. I am a hardworking 28 year old married man with three wonderful children 7, 4, and 1 month old, and the best wife anyone could ever ask for. When I and my wife married we were “given” my parents’ home in NY along with the mortgage as a wedding present. My wife and I have spent the last three years renovating this home, dumping every single cent we had into its improvement. We both come from broken homes and both wanted something more than what we came from, and have managed to build a loving stress free environment for our family, and in a matter of a month my “family” (brother, mother and father) have managed to crush our dream out of selfishness and this, “the world owes me something” mentality they all seem to have.
I work full time and also do side jobs on weekends to make ends meet, my wife has been out of work on disability (she will return full time in the next 3 weeks) due to the birth of our son, which should be the happiest time of our life, and yet I get to go home and see my children upset wondering why there uncle is acting the way he is, I get to see my wife cry over the fact that we have been basically reminded that even though we pay the bill and we fix this home and have made it what it never was for me growing up an actual home, that it is not ours and we should have no say over what happens.
My brother who at one time made hundreds of thousands of dollars a year an selfish heartless drug addict, who even though has never treated me or my family with any respect I have always dropped what I am doing regardless of time or place to go “save him”, and by save usually picking his drug addict ass up and making sure he gets home, or dropping what I’m doing to take him to the hospital cause he is so sick from whatever he has taken this time. Now that brother has decided to move in with us, not ask, not offer to help, but blatantly tell me and my wife, “it’s not your house , I am not asking permission to stay here”, and my parents who told me this home was a “Wedding gift” seem to agree. They feel it’s okay for a drug addict to be living among children, that it’s okay that slowly one by one pieces of my wife’s jewelry are disappearing, or that since he came has literally taken over my infant sons nursery with his disgusting belongings that I found my wife sitting on the floor of the living room trying to feed the baby because he’s asleep on the sofa passed out cold and his belonging are strewn all over the house.
My only options are to buy this home that I and my wife have built a great life in so I can say who stays and goes, or to uproot my children and move as far from these selfish disgusting people as possible.
In order to purchase this home I would need a deposit upwards of 12000 which due to me draining my accounts my sons accounts and my wife’s to “save” my brother from jail, drug dealers, etc., we have nothing left. Which has led me here, led me to the point where I feel more dependent on asking strangers for help than my own family because they can’t even help themselves? I am the little brother (youngest of four) who has always had to be the big brother, I am the one one whose entire family drops there problems in my lap as if to say deal with it. I have been the pillar supporting every single family member I have for the last 28 years, the pillar has finally cracked and can’t hold up the weight of the world anymore. I am begging on my hands and knees for help from completer strangers so I can continue to give my children the life I never had, and offer them some stability instead of having to tear them from the home they have come to love, that my wife has come to love, that I love. I want to give my children the world but my family continues to assure that won’t happen under there watch. Please I beg of you with everything I am I need help. Please don’t make us just another statistic, I found my calling and made a life for my wife and children, I have put aside pride, because they are all that matters to me. Thank You for taking the time to read this and thank you for any support or help you can provide.

Extended Family In Need

Posted by Gladys on 2012-05-02 02:58:37

What do you say when you are entreating an entire world of strangers to come to your aid? How do you sound deserving of their help? How do you express, without writing a novel, why you are in need, how you came to be there, how you came to choose this way of seeking help, and how very afraid you feel.
First, the reason I chose this method. I was feeling frustrated one night after being asked to work another fund raiser. While there is no doubt that the family is very much in need their financial security was markedly better than my own. I was wondering why it seemed that it was always people who already had some means at their disposal who got that kind of sympathy and help. Obviously I was feeling self centered but still the thought remained, what kind of resources were there out there for people like me, people barely above poverty level and struggling to keep from going under. So...I started searching the internet and came across references to "begging" online. I was shocked, I was appalled...I was hopeful. The anonymity of it was a big plus.
Feeling so hopeless, and out of control is very frightening for me. I work with the public. The street people call me Smiley because I try to always stay upbeat while at work and they know that if I can I will always help them with a dollar or two when they need it. There are many people ( even those who are only a few years younger than my 55) who call me Mom and have come to me for assistance both emotionally and financially. I have two adult children of my own and many more that have come through my household and are a part of my family even though they are not related biologically. I send my own Mother money a couple times a month. She lives on a fixed income that doesn't even cover here cost of living. I can no longer afford these things but I don't know how to cut off the aid to others even though I, myself, am in need of aid.
My husband and I come from poor families and were determined to make a better life for our own children. Since we both only had high school educations neither one of us are in well paying jobs but we have always managed to survive and our children never had to worry about whether Mom and Dad were going to be able to feed and clothe them. But things have gotten progressively worse this year.
I tried to start a small business in order to provide my oldest grandchildren and one of my children with a secure job and something meaningful to do. Trying to keep them out of the "system" and teach them to have self respect, and trying to provide a means for them to have financial security. But the business never picked up and we were funneling money into it...my daughter lost her husband and we were also supporting her household. The financial strain has put us in debt that we cannot pay. Our cars have broken down, there are three running vehicles for six drivers to use getting to work and looking for work but no money to repair or replace them. My daughter and her children are living in my home, having lost theirs, and my husband and I are staying with my youngest and her family. Her husband was recently laid off and she is expecting her second child. My husband had to have surgery and that put him off work for six weeks, and now in order to keep his job we have to somehow pay for hearing aids ($3000 for the least expensive ones). Although it is hard we have stuck together and are helping each other as best we can.
The problem is that I see no end in sight. Just the electric bill is $6oo a month thru the winter months. Fuel is outrageous. Food for this many people (5 adults, 3 late teens, and 3 small children) is very expensive in this state. Mortgage payments, gas for cars, and phones...these are things everyone has to pay. I know there are many who are far worse off than I, at least we still have roofs over our heads. But the output is so much higher than the income and each month, each WEEK, sees me feeling a little more desperate. How will I, will we, end up? Will we all be living on the street next year? The interior of Alaska is no climate for the homeless. I don't know what it will take to make this better, to make my family secure but I hope there is help out there for us.

Help me please..

Posted by rinu2012 on 2012-02-15 22:58:06

Hi every one. Because of shame i have even changed my name, but i need to do this . I am from India. I never thought i will also do the same one day. well i dont have any option so here i am in front of you begging for just 10000 USD (Approx 519000 in INR).You might be thinking why i am here begging for just 10000 USD.

Let me introduce myself again.. i started my journey of life in 1985. Born in india in small lovely family of 3 members. My father and mother did there role in raising me and my sister and i love and respect them for that. Each penny they saved was spend on my sisters and my education. They took good care of us. With their money,i completed graduation in B.com and Masters in MBA. Now its my turn to look after them as they are entering there old-age.

I am qualified enough to get a job to take care of there dreams and there happiness. You might be thinking why I am begging. My quest to get a job in India ended with so many difficulties. I am planning to get a job in UAE. To get a job in UAE i will have to get a visiting visa and search for a job and then tranfer that visiting visa to a residence Visa by either re-entering the country or directly transferring it. The cost of travel and visiting UAE is too high. If 10000 people around the world lends me 1 USD I can get 10000 USD for my visit.

Please help me ...if it is needed i will return each penny of 10000USD once i get the job. Wishing happiness to every one in this world .. please help

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Posted by vision101 on 2012-01-26 17:58:21

hello
i am safe and sound too and hope that you are sailing in the same boat.
well i am not a begger life is going fine i dont need money for my bread and butter i dont need any sympathy from any one also but yes i want to start a business with self respect honour and pride but guess what i dont have any money))i earn but rent bills food medical and finish it is a story of every white coller guy right so here is a deal:
i need alot of money to start my business (so send me as much as you guys can)))but i will give it back in 5 years time frame with same respect so if any one can trust me even i know no one will))but still good things are used to happen in this bad world so i am hopeful if any one can trust me and help me it will help to improve my family life so is there any one who can help?????
regards
bye byz

this could be you one day !

Posted by TEDDYEDWARD on 2012-01-26 13:58:32

how low is this begging and if you had ever said i would do it i would have laughed and said i have to much respect for myself but i have found myself after a few months and a twists in fate no fault of my own a one parent family me and my daughter my family gone job gone and no money with bills bills bills to pay any money weather £1 or more im more than greatfull as my hole is getting biger each day but i owe it for my daughter how ever low this is to get bills paid and food on table but ill be straight i dont beleave in farther christmas and surpose if honest dont beleave thise site will help part from i can say ive stuped lower anyway just in case there is a fairy godmother or farther come to that thank you doesnt matter how clever you are or think it couldnt happen to you take my advice it can and every day a nightmare

Why i should like to be a medical doctor

Posted by Usman01 on 2012-01-25 01:58:36

I just finish my secondary education and i should like to study medicine in the university. I have nursed this ambition right from childhood. I can remember when i was ill and i was taken to a hospital when i was seven years old. I was fascinated by the activities and hospitality of the doctor who took care of me on my sick bed. He so much endeared himself to me that, there and then, i decided to study medicine when i grow up.
Medicine, as a profession, commands great respect anywhere in the world. Medical doctors are respected for being hospitable and kind. They are kind to their patients whom they tend like seedlings which must not be allowed to die. A medical doctor cannot afford to be unkind or cruel to his patients as to allow his patients to suffer. He must be genial, good-natured, hospitable and must have a good disposition towards his patients.
Furthermore, medicine is a business of saving lives. This make the profession to be regarded as the most noble profession in the whole world. If there were no doctors, many lives would be lost on daily basis. Doctors are professionals with adequate knowledge of all parts of human body and one cannot but be proud of belonging to such a profession. Doctors serve and contribute to humanity more than any other professional in the whole world.
In addition to this, the medical profession is one of the most lucrative professions in the world. It gives practitioners the opportunity to work for the government in the government hospital and at the same time engage in private practice. Therefore it gives the practitioners the privilege to establish their own private hospital and clinics thereby making it possible for them to make a lot of money.
Moreover, the medical profession gives one the opportunity to meet a lot of people. It makes one to be influential and popular because as a medical doctor, many people would want to be associated with you. A patient whom you have treated in the hospital would always remember how you help him and his family would forever be grateful to you. All these make a medical doctor or practitioner popular and influential in the society. Many people would want to respect him and his opinion on any matter in the society.
Lastly, a medical practitioner with a stethoscope hanging on his neck is always a good sight to behold. This has also endeared me greatly to the profession and i have a dream of hanging the identifying instrument of the profession on my neck in the nearest future. Medical doctors are always neat and they look resplendent in their white overall coat. This makes them respectable and the profession dignified.
Of course, i know what it takes to become a medical doctor and i am ready to do all it takes to belong to the medical profession. That is why i write to seek for your financial assistance to enable me actualize my childhood dream, a dream of becoming a medical doctor.
You're the last i can depend on because my parents are no more alive since when i was six years old. Your help will do a lot of good to my entire life.
This is my bank account details: Account Name: Usman Mohammed
Account No: 3048857924
Bank: FirstBank Nigeria Plc.
I am Usman Mohammed. You can reach me on +2347060815443 or u2m2020@yahoo.com. Thank you for reading my request
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Help me .. I wil return you when i earn ..So help plzzzz

Posted by rinufromindia on 2011-12-17 07:58:47

Hi every one. Because of shame i have even changed my name, but i need to do this . I am from India. I never thought i will also do the same one day. well i dont have any option so here i am in front of you begging for just 10000 USD (Approx 519000 in INR).You might be thinking why i am here begging for just 10000 USD.

Let me introduce myself again.. i started my journey of life in 1985. Born in india in small lovely family of 3 members. My father and mother did there role in raising me and my sister and i love and respect them for that. Each penny they saved was spend on my sisters and my education. They took good care of us. With their money,i completed graduation in B.com and Masters in MBA. Now its my turn to look after them as they are entering there old-age.

I am qualified enough to get a job to take care of there dreams and there happiness. You might be thinking why I am begging. My quest to get a job in India ended with so many difficulties. I am planning to get a job in UAE. To get a job in UAE i will have to get a visiting visa and search for a job and then tranfer that visiting visa to a residence Visa by either re-entering the country or directly transferring it. The cost of travel and visiting UAE is too high. If 10000 people around the world lends me 1 USD I can get 10000 USD for my visit.

Please help me ...if it is needed i will return each penny of 10000USD once i get the job. Wishing happiness to every one in this world .. please help . My mail id: master_rinu20@rediffmail.com

Help me .. I wil return you when i earn ..So help plzzzz

Posted by rinufromindia on 2011-12-17 07:58:44

Hi every one. Because of shame i have even changed my name, but i need to do this . I am from India. I never thought i will also do the same one day. well i dont have any option so here i am in front of you begging for just 10000 USD (Approx 519000 in INR).You might be thinking why i am here begging for just 10000 USD.

Let me introduce myself again.. i started my journey of life in 1985. Born in india in small lovely family of 3 members. My father and mother did there role in raising me and my sister and i love and respect them for that. Each penny they saved was spend on my sisters and my education. They took good care of us. With their money,i completed graduation in B.com and Masters in MBA. Now its my turn to look after them as they are entering there old-age.

I am qualified enough to get a job to take care of there dreams and there happiness. You might be thinking why I am begging. My quest to get a job in India ended with so many difficulties. I am planning to get a job in UAE. To get a job in UAE i will have to get a visiting visa and search for a job and then tranfer that visiting visa to a residence Visa by either re-entering the country or directly transferring it. The cost of travel and visiting UAE is too high. If 10000 people around the world lends me 1 USD I can get 10000 USD for my visit.

Please help me ...if it is needed i will return each penny of 10000USD once i get the job. Wishing happiness to every one in this world .. please help . My mail id: master_rinu20@rediffmail.com

I Am Drowning Please Help

Posted by blondie1rox on 2011-11-11 18:58:21

He took my disability check,my pride,and self respect. I need $600 because the only things he didn't take with him were the bills. I have nowhere to turn except the streets and that terrifies me. Anything a kind stranger can do would be appreciated.

my family need help please

Posted by Imke123 on 2011-10-26 07:58:32

i am married with 3 kids. My husband was not working for 2 years thats why we are in this mess AND because of all the wrong choices made in the past. I cannot even remember when was the last time i bought my kids new clothes or toys or when was the last time i made a pie or something,because there is never money for that. And i am so greatfull to the Lord my kids are doing so great in school no matter the empty stomachs or the hungry cramps they are still God fearing kids who has respect for their parents and everyone else. I just want some help or let me put it like i just need a second chance really just to give my kids what they wanted and perhaps what they wanted. Please i do not want pity because we are trying my hubby is studying his 1st year only 2 to go. And i pray to the Lord that one day i will be able to help others like someone who is going to help me through the grace of GOD. i thank you

homeless

Posted by bertha on 2011-09-16 16:58:50

I meant my husband 10 years ago.in the first 5 years lost any reletives close to us since then we have struggled to keep a roof over our head.We have 2 small children one in school.We rent and were unable to keep up with bills at the timely fashion it was exspected so we have to move. We can not get any help with state and recently regained employmeant at a awsom bussiness.I myself have had many surgrys and currently have scoliosis.As this is very painfull to work with Iv refused pain medications to continue working and to keep the best roof over my childrens head. But now we have to move and in 15 days the sheriff will come and throw out the only items and memorys we have left of any past familey members cause we not money saved to move. We live week to week to provide food dipers and such.My dream allways is to sing and bring my children up with respect and honesty this is not a joke we are scared of looseing our children because in these parts the state will take them if you cannot provide. please will somone help us stay together all we have is eachother in this world and i cant stand the thought of somone takeing them away becouse We could not provide. I do feel so selfish knowing so many others have worse problems but this is a last resort for us.My husband has no ideal and he has tryed so hard to be a provider and can tell he is so depressed dailey. Im so scared of somone just throwing in the streets what we have it isnt much our big goal is to just do for these two wounderfull kids we made together.So this is for them and i pray somone will help us. Thank you

Luxury Commune

Posted by JustJane on 2011-09-14 21:58:56

The idea has been brewing for decades. I am not alone. My generation does not have the retirement expected and enjoyed by our parents, despite having been educated and hardworking since our teens. Tried to save, careful with earnings, and at 50, little to show for it. The rat race has run it's course. The urban mayhem is tiresome, and we deserve to retire, relax, and enjoy life before we are too old to do so.
As it stands, I like many others are looking at working our whole lives, and I mean our WHOLE lives. It is wrong.
At my current age, both my parents took early retirement , and have been enjoying theor lives comfortably already for decades. This dream is completely out of reach for myself, and most amongst my generation.
Working our whole lives, full time is wrong on many levels. One being that we are only making others rich, as we toil, grow ill, and spend our days in traffic and cubicles, struggling, for what? As long as we are chasing the paycheck, there is no freedom, and no hope for living before we croak.
A commune does not have to be dozens of dirty hippies. I see small communities. Even half a dozen people, or couples in one large home. This home can consist of a shared building with kitchen and living space, and other out buildings containing bedrooms,bathrooms private entrances and porch space. So you have a place with community and privacy as you choose.
Once I had a roomate situation that was much like this. A large house, S shaped. bedrooms were at opposite ends, and I went weeks sometimes without even running into roommates. In the center was the main kitchen and a living room space where we occasionally got together in. Roommates each had their own entrance, bedroom, bathroom, and living room space. There was a common courtyard area, as well as a private outdoor area for every bedroom. We comfortably had 8 people,, sharing rent and utilities. This made the cost of living extremely low , and we each survived happily only working part time.
There was a community garden, those who participated in its upkeep could just help themselves to its bounty, but there was plenty to share and even those without the time to work in it would benefit.
Everyone was responsible for their own food needs, transportation, and their portion of rent and utilities. It was no problem, and we lived this way for a full decade, and could have indefinitely if the house was not sold. I did try unsuccessfully to buy it.

So, I am asking for assistance making such a thing possible again, but this time by owning, not renting, so as not to lose it!

The place does not have to be glamourous, just roomy, on the outskirts of town, and hoping this time for a pool. And I wish to share it with others in the same manner so to afford others like myself to retire, or at least semi-retire, comfortably. The beauty in this is also that you are not alone, not isolated, and yet not crammed in where you have no privacy. There is someone there if the car breaks down, or if your heart gives out!

I think this is a great model for my generation who has worked hard and deserves the retirement that has been stolen from them. We do not want to burden our children.

I see this model serving first in this respect for those of us contemplating the impossibility of retirement, but also I believe it can serve as a model for a new way to live for all. Share. Pool resources. Grow food. We can enjoy all the modern conveniences, and get off the grid too, gradually.

When like minded people come together and cooperate with the same goals in mind, it can happen.

Need the home, need the land. The rest is easy.

Please consider the simplicity, and common sense in my plea, and help me make this possible for myself, and others. It will serve as an example to our children and future generations. Please.

And thank you for reading this far, I know this was long!

Every cent I receive from this post and others I will put toward this plan which I hope to get off the ground ASAP.

- Jane

Single Mom needs urgent Financial Help

Posted by Mistyxx on 2011-08-26 02:58:24

Debt Relief - I'm a single mom raising 2 boys alone for the past 14yrs they are 18 and 16 years old. They are well brought up boys who believe in God, I've taught them to treat woman with respect and I've tried to live a moral life to be a good example for them - I always get compliments from the school teachers about there behaviour and manners.I had to move in with my sister in a tiny apartment as I could not afford the rent on my apartment.- in December 2010 I was retrenched getting a job seems to be impossible I've tried everything possible up to work from home a few scams I had to sell my car to cover my debts My elder son applied to a local university to study medicine the younger on wants to study fine art comic illustration. I need a car and my son also needs one soon to commute to university - anything will help anything at all - thanx My sons derserve a break in life at the end of each month I;m a nervous wreck as the debit orders get's deducted from my bank account.My ex husband does pay but it's the same amount for the past 14yrs.This is an honest and sincere plea for help I am desperate I would never ask for money if this request touches your heart please help me I thank you in advance for the donation and may GOD bless you.

Family soon to have no electricity, no home, and no future.

Posted by helpfamily2011 on 2011-07-20 15:58:29

Sunday at church I was overwhelmed with emotions and couldn’t control my tears as I heard the choir and sang along with them. I was hoping God would hear me because my husband, family, and I are in such a hopeless financial situation that there is nowhere to turn and we can’t live normal lives due to our debt.

We struggle to buy grocer everyday and keep our children in school. We don’t even have enough for the fees for them to start on august 1st. All fees must be paid by July 27th or they won’t be able to attend. This is a public school. My husband has always had a full time job and many times he’s had two jobs. I work part time when I can and home school my smaller children.

We only have one old van so I take everyone to school, work, etc. We have nine children. Two are on their own with families. Seven still live at home. Two of them have families. One son was laid off of his job last month and had to move back in with us. He has been desperately trying to find a job but nothing has come in yet. One our sons got into some trouble and we tried to help him but it’s escalated and he’s ended up in trouble with the law. My husband and I tried financially to help keep him afloat, including getting a car for him in our name. Our son lost his job because of all of the trouble and we were left paying his car until it was repossessed. Now we are paying for a car we don’t have. Paying lawyers, court fees, bonds, and so much more has drained us.

We started getting loans on our wedding rings and many items in our home. We couldn’t keep up with the interest due every month and normal bills. We took out payday loans. What a mistake! Our banks became horribly overdrawn. We filed a Chapter 13 in hope of saving ourselves. We had filed before when we were younger and first married. We didn’t know any better and made huge mistakes. Our 13 now has us paying such a huge amount of $1,200 a month that we fell behind immediately because of the other debt.

Our son’s troubles have kept us from paying our debt and just being able to live. Our son is innocent. That’s why we continue to stand by him, it breaks our heart to think of him going to jail for something he didn’t do. Our Chapter 13 is going to dismiss us if we can’s pay what we’re behind. It’s almost $5,000. Our Xcel bill is going to be turned off. We owe Xcel $4,000, and our water bill is $400 and ready to be turned off also. We will be behind $1,500 on our rent by this Friday. We’re being sued for almost a thousand dollars for a pizza check that was returned by our bank. We can’t buy groceries and gas for us to get to work. We’ve been getting small loans on our children’s items to help get small amounts of food.

We’re so embarrassed. We don’t have any family who can help and we haven’t kept in touch with friends. We’re always busy with our family so we don’t have time to socialize. We feel so sorry for our children. They had to be embarrasses all of last year at school because we stilled owed fees and they couldn’t participate in school activities. They are trying to work jobs while attending school but we are so far behind that we just can’t catch up.

People who know us think we have no problems, especially financially, but we are so depressed and sad. We can’t sleep or function in our everyday lives. It has affected our whole family and it is tearing us apart. We have lost the respect of our older children because we couldn’t keep our selves together financially. Please, if you’re reading my letter, if you can help in any way, or know someone who can help, please help us. We’re good people who work hard but are guilty of having big hearts. We’ve been married for 32 years. We don’t drink, smoke, do drugs, go out, or party in any way. We believe in God and hope our prayers and faith will get us through this.

My family and I need help. We don’t know where to turn and the depression making us sick. Especially my husband. We’re going through the motions of living but were not. Please help us and our children so we can get our lives on track and start living and enjoying life. We will find a way to repay as much as possible as soon as we can.

Sincerely,
A person who is in need for her family.

BROTHER & SISTER WON'T HELP TOWARDS FUNERAL

Posted by tumblefry11 on 2011-06-28 16:58:23

I have never begged in my life, but this year it's been an impossible one, my mum died on sunday 14th november 2010 and I borrowed money to pay for her to be buried, I gave it no thought about borrowing as I always thought my brother alan and my sister lyne would help. but now that I have done, they say "that's your problem", I know they never had much to do with mum, they did visit a few times, but I never suspected any rift between anyone, what I do know is that mum struggled all her life bringing us up often going without just to feed us.so, what ever their problem is they will not tell me, mum was a loving careing women & had many friends, I don't understand. mum was diebetic type 1,which started about 17yrs before she died at 77. which is the main reason why she passed away, I am diebetic type 2 since 2008, and as anyone knows it was a bad year also for the economy, I lost my two bed house & work suddenly dried up (I worked as a handyman jack of all trades & was allways recommened from customer to customer) like everyone some months/years were good and some were bad I too struggled to put food & a roof over my wife and son heads, but now I can't. I have to rely on disabilty benifit and council handouts to support us, I did'nt want to sign on, but in the end had to as my health became poorer as the weeks/months progressed. I have allways held my head up high & plodded on. but now, I am in dire straights from borrowing to pay for my mums funeral, I know I have given her the respect & dignity she deserves, it's just a shame on my brother & sister don't see it the same way, for it was never a question about money when the time came for mum, not from my point of view. I borrowed £6,500 and I have to pay it back at £130 per month, with interest the loan(s) stand at nearly £10,000+ THIS WILL TAKE TEN YEARS TO PAY,if I fail I will lose what little I have got, including my own dignity, and if I was to die suddenly, what about my wife sarah & my son james? how are they going to cope with a massive bill that's not there's? plus cost of my funeral? it would'nt be fair to pass it on them, it's not there fault. If I had known what was gong to happen, I would of done a lot of things differently,for sure I would of, I for one would definetly not of helped alan & lyne out in there most dire needs like most of the time I did, and I would of saved that money for mum, I know now they were selfish & selfcentered, I am shocked at thier reaction, just give me that option to turn back time!! I WOULD GIVE EVERYTHING FOR MY MUM BACK.

If you think I am wrong please tell me, I don't want people to hide behind a face, just be upfront and tell me. I only wanted to bury her with the dignity & respect she deserve's

now, I don't expect anything at all, it's not just about me it's about a women who struggled, it's about my wife & son smoother for their future now, should I die. if I can shave a few years off this massive bill it will help tremendously, I have tried to do it myself, and would never ever consider asking to beg for help,but, here I am, pouring my heart out for help. I don't know who to turn too, if I go to a dept solution it will only prolong the bill, even then things can go wrong. to me, I hate begging for anything, but I have no other option. please help me if you can.

IN LOVING MEMORY EVELYNE ROSEMARY ODDY 21/05/1933 TO 14/11/2010 YOUR SON PETER TRIM
You have to understand,I am a marines daughter who was brought up to respect my country as I do so very much.This is why I have never been on welfare or food stamps.I've always thought there may have been someone else in more need than I.After losing two businesses since this recession fell upon all of us,it's been impossible to keep up with all of our bills.I don't even have credit card bills,we just pay for rent,utilities,and our car.I am sadly here tonight to ask for help.I am hoping to collect enough money so we can be stable again as I never want to have to ask for any help ever again.I don't even have enough money to take the kids anywhere this summer or put them in a summer class.We just stay home.I am beside myself as to what else I can do.My husbands new job(after looking for so long)isn't enough, and I can't work because I need to watch the kids.Please let me do something in return for you if you can help us,like paint a picture.My husband of 12 years doesn't even know I am doing this.I don't want to make him feel worse than he already does.Please,help us.We have never asked before.THANK YOU SO VERY KINDLY.SEMPER-FI ~Katy
You have to understand,I am a marines daughter who was brought up to respect my country as I do so very much.This is why I have never been on welfare or food stamps.I've always thought there may have been someone else in more need than I.After losing two businesses since this recession fell upon all of us,it's been impossible to keep up with all of our bills.I don't even have credit card bills,we just pay for rent,utilities,and our car.I am sadly here tonight to ask for help.I am hoping to collect enough money so we can be stable again as I never want to have to ask for any help ever again.I don't even have enough money to take the kids anywhere this summer or put them in a summer class.We just stay home.I am beside myself as to what else I can do.My husbands new job(after looking for so long)isn't enough, and I can't work because I need to watch the kids.Please let me do something in return for you if you can help us,like paint a picture.My husband of 12 years doesn't even know I am doing this.I don't want to make him feel worse than he already does.Please,help us.We have never asked before.THANK YOU SO VERY KINDLY.SEMPER-FI ~Katy

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Setting up the website below is likely the most practical avenue that I can take at this point. I am caught in the payday loan trap. My overall credit rating is low. I have somewhere between $20,000 and $30,00 of overall debt. At the same time, I have a stable job in the professional world, while I also do some independent freelance work in my field on the side. Both of my checking accounts are in the negative right now. I have regular bills coming due very soon! So, I am utilizing the Internet to ask folks to donate money to me with respect to my present circumstances.

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I had thought about asking for folks to consider the possibility of providing a direct personal loan for my own emergency needs, debt consolidation, etc., but I am not sure if that is wise. However, this sort of loan could be used for consolidation. In the big picture, it might be best to ask for donations, be thankful for what I receive, and focus on earning money in as many legitimate/legal/ethical ways as possible.

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Psychiatric help for the love of my life...

Posted by Cinemod on 2011-02-09 16:58:58

I met the love of my life about 6 months ago...everything has been great in that respect, already engaged to her. She pulled me back from a severe depression and alcholism, I was suicidal. She came with a bunch of baggage herself, she was molested by her step-dad over a 2 year span(16-18), and went to jail for less than a year and when he got out, her mother stays with him, and lives in her mothers house. This was a month after we started dating. I'm living with my parents while working for peanuts, and I move her in with the consent of my parents.

After 6 months, we love each other very much, and my main purpose is to try and get her psychiatric help, cause granted the molestation made her very unstable, but her mother choosing to stay with the man who molested her has drivin her into deep depression...I'm working a lot just to support us and try and build a life, maybe get a place on our own in the future, but I need to be able to get her at least some sessions with a psychologist or a therapist...something. I cannot solve her issues, I love her, she loves me, I just want to be with her and have her atleast get some kind of help so she can move on and we can live our lives out together in happiness. Anything someone could give would be great, in addition to me saving, I can get 3 sessions with a local specialist at 1,500 dollars. I'm not asking for any specifics, I'm just barely getting anywhere with that goal, so I'm asking for somebody with even a penny to spare, help. I love her, I don't want to see her commit suicide or hurt herself from lack of proper care, but I don't wanna lose her to a mental facility. She is my heart and soul...

Thank you for your time...