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help with family of special needs kid
Posted by specialneedsmom on 2012-05-16 16:58:00
OMG
Posted by Bebe8811 on 2012-04-29 09:58:59
single mom 4 kids lost job no income eviction vacate notice
Posted by lylahbear on 2012-04-22 11:58:10
lost my car!!
Posted by dest101526 on 2012-03-29 09:58:52
Ex-wifes repo'ed car
Posted by johntlee1983 on 2012-03-13 11:58:42
Assistance to pay rent, food, medication for ill family, transportation
Posted by Cocogurl on 2012-03-02 19:58:20
Like so many people on this site everyone is in a bad situation, I too have fallen by the waist side in this economic crisis.
I'm a healthy, young woman who has a family to provide for I am the sole supporter/contributor. They depend on me for everything from shelter, food, clothing, transportation to/from, etc. I became unemployed several months ago because of budget cuts. I took heed to my elder's warning me to save, save, save for a rainy day...well, those rainy days have since turned into months and the bills are piling high up to the ceiling. We are on the verge of being evicted, electricity being turned off (very necessary because two of my family members are diabetic, must keep the insulin cold), not to mention being able to provide the medication for my sick loved ones and the car(which our main source of transportation) being REPO'd.
I have been on it seems like 100 interviews, but to no avail. I have been doing odd jobs here and there, but they come once in a blue moon. Nothing stable has surfaced.
It is a struggle out here. I just ask that you kind people be willing to donate whatever you may have to my family and I. It would be greatly, greatly appreciated.
God Blessed!
need help family of 5
Posted by loving on 2012-01-27 11:58:04
Help Save my home while I am in Treatment for Bipolar
Posted by ernewt on 2011-12-24 02:58:04
Moving on, I really struggled in school and got into a lot trouble. I was reckless, promiscuous, used drugs and alcohol and was dangerous. To keep it short, I dropped out in my junior year. When I reflect on those years, I remember some of what I did but mostly I forgot. I guess I felt as though I was being pulled by the strings of a puppet master whose name I now know is Bipolar.
When I turned 18 I shared an apartment with a friend. We both worked for the same nursing home and later for the Bureau of Reclamation. In was at the former job, I received my GED. I was still behaving recklessly resulting in a lot of missed work. But I was having fun being independent, partying all night but slowly losing control of my life.
I became pregnant by my boyfriend and we married several months later. My daughter is a grown woman. I then had another child four years later. Money was also a struggle. My husband wanted me to work but it did not make sense financially. I paid more for daycare then I was paid. When I found a position over the weekends, my husband refused to watch the children. That being said, I was still reckless â the mood would not go away â still a slave of the puppet master. Eventually the relationship became abusive and my husband left leaving $200 on the kitchen table. I did not have a car so I borrowed my fatherâs truck. I drove my fatherâs truck with my two small children in back to a safe house. However, it was not so safe. My husband who insulated homes, worked on the safe house. He found the truck and wrote things, I cannot mention here, on the outside of the truck. He coerced my grandmother to call me; and she did! Having to deal with these distractions kept me from focusing on me.
Good news! I was able to move into low income housing. It was a struggle to get my possessions; I took what I could. My father out of the blue wanted his truck back. My mother headed him off at the pass. I think I remember that my life settled down a bit. I enrolled in college. I loved college. In spite of this, I quit school to work from my mother at her computer store. Did I mention my parents were divorced? I am not sure it matters at this point. About six months later, the puppet master caught me and off I was again.
I had a boyfriend â I was 32 years old â and pregnant againâ¦..This relationship was worse that the first. It included drinking, drugs, sexual and physical abuse â oh my, sigh. In the course of it all, I secured a position for one of the largest companies in Loveland. I was thrilled. I had actually come a long way. I divorced my second husband and found my own apartment.
Wow â raising three children on my own was not easy. We got by â I was able to provide what we needed. I forgot to mention I shared custody of my third child and had to pay child support. I never complained; I met my responsibility. I was performing very well at work and procured a position of a trainer. WeeHee â my new position allowed me to travel the globe. Can you imagine, me, the girl from Loveland, Colorado? During this time, I encountered a lot of problems with my ex-husband. Once, he called me at work and said he had a brain tumor. It was a joke; I did not find it funny.
I was promoted again returned to school and bought a house!!! I cannot think of the words to describe these accomplishments. I transformed from the woman driving my fatherâs truck to a home owner; kind of like the Home Sweet Home book. I was still partying, drinking, but not like before. The puppet master must have been on holiday. I met the man of my dreams and we married in 1998 (I think). We are still together.
The puppet master had those strings a rolling. I could and did accomplish anything. I could see what others could not. I finished school with ease and received my BA in Organization Development in 2005. What year did my story start? We bought a new home in a nice neighborhood. It is a modest home but fits us very well. I was still partying but it was not disrupting my work and home responsibilities.
CRASH! He let go â how could he let go? A woman pulled in front of us and totaled our car. I realize this does not sound traumatic, does it? I really do not know anymore. What I do know is this rocked my world. More than any other event did â and there were many. I could not recover. My performance fell down the well. I could not sleep. I drank a lot. I would even get up at night to drink because I could not sleep. The unthinkable happened. My strings let me down. I swallowed a bottle of pills. I was so afraid. I spent three days in the psychiatric hospital and two months in intensive outpatient therapy. During this time I was on short term disability. I am a fighter; I have never let my circumstances stop me. I returned to work for about two months. Nevertheless, the strings dropped again, were they ever pulled, I am not sure; I spent eight days in hospital. I was out of work again. This time when I returned to work there was no position waiting for me. I was laid off the summer of 2009. I lost it all in one short year.
Remember I am a fighter. I returned to school in July 2009 to obtain a masters degree and I graduated in early 2011. The problem? I obtained a degree and I could not use without further education. I still do not say this out loud. During this time, I landed a part time job as an instructor for students seeking their AAS Human Resources degree. I make a third of the salary I previously did. I have performed this job since April 2010. It is hard. I forget â my memory is not that good. What you have reading are the highlights of my life.
Adult children and BABIES!! Not one baby; two and a one year old. My daughter was in a bad situation in Arizona. She was pregnant with twins, had a one year old daughter, had no car and was being evicted. The dad? Letâs say there is a lot to be desired. She packed as much as she could and moved in with us. Would anyone turn a loved one away in this situation? I could not. I was still drinking. As I write this, I now realize drinking was the one constant in my life. Sad. Her pregnancy had it challenges, but I think this is common. The first snowstorm of the year, December 30th, if you can believe that for Colorado, the babies had enough; my daughter was in labor. We called 911 since the roads were bad. Several hours later we welcomed two healthy baby girls! They will be one year old soon.
New Chapter. How many do we get? My daughter and 18 year old son live with us in our modest home. We clash, how we could not. I have been telling my doctor that I am depressed, damn strings. I canât sleep and my body hurts so badly; especially when I lay down. Oh, I forgot to mention, no drinking! I quit over a year ago. Regrettably the depression and pain are driving my every moment. I think the puppet master is on vacation. There is no hope. I have been out of work too long. We are waiting for the repo man to get our car. We are barely holding on to the house. How can everything crash so fast and so hard? I am a fighter remember. My mind is full of hopelessness. I have a note that says âPlease just let me goâ. I am a fighter remember. I call the crisis line. They tell me to call 911. I donât. I go to bed. Maybe it will be better tomorrow. Not a chance. The same message is repeating over and over in my head; âplease let me goâ. I tell my family I am driving to the hospital. I do not want anyone to come with me. I go alone.
Hospital
Anyone could end up here
Posted by desperateinkc on 2011-12-18 16:58:59
I am in need of a miracle
Posted by Nkkv30 on 2011-12-14 15:58:04
personal debt crisis
Posted by musicman51 on 2011-11-15 11:58:43
Get me out of my parents basement.
Posted by getmeoutofthebasement on 2011-09-20 18:58:27
Giving up hope
Posted by helpsave20 on 2011-09-04 23:58:46
Need help with truck payment or rent
Posted by Tinkerbell26 on 2011-09-03 21:58:36
Need either car repairs or a better used car
Posted by Lorsch on 2011-07-08 17:58:40
When he stopped paying, I ended up having to move to a small/cheaper home, and had my car repo'd. I turned in my credit cards, and went to a cash only lifestyle.
I got myself a beater car to keep getting to work, and to get my child to school every day. Now, the car is on it's last legs, but I have gone through my savings, and have no more money to repair it, or to get a different car.
I don't need a fancy car, just one that works and won't kill us with fumes.
Again, I do work, I do not have any subsidies or social/government help. I pay my own way.
If there is someone who could donate a lump sum, or several who could donate what you could afford, I will pool it to get a safe vehicle for my daughter and I.
I want to also point out, that I do not drink, use drugs or smoke. I don't date, I don't go to bars. I stay home and raise my girl, and work. I am not frivolous with money and the money I can raise from here is most definitely going to a safe vehicle.
Thank you in advance.
Im Desperate
Posted by Chefmike on 2011-06-18 18:58:08
Im Desperate
Posted by Chefmike on 2011-06-18 18:58:07
financial assistance
Posted by annie on 2011-05-02 13:58:15
Crisis - Please Help ASAP- Will Repay in Feb.
Posted by PsycheGal on 2010-12-17 03:58:58
We are a family of six. I'm a 30 year old mother of two special needs girls. I am a full time student and I work from home. My husband is 33, works and goes to school full time. We also take care of my elderly parents.
My father was diagnosed with small cell cancer two months ago. Both of my parents are on a mediocre social security check which pays for virtually nothing. We usually pay everything that they can't cover.
Because of my fathers recent diagnosis we had to cover all initial tests and specialists, as well as all co-pays. I have just found an organization that is going to help him pay for this co-pays which means our horrible money situation is only temporary.
The problem is that this month we don't have enough to keep our utilities on or pay for our car. If they repo the car we can't get to work, so we are doing everything we can to avoid an all out horrific situation. We are not even thinking about doing Christmas this year. We just need to get through the rest of the month without getting anything shut off -- and of course, we'd like to put some food on the table. Sadly our daughters require a very strict and expensive diet due to their conditions.
Any help you can provide us with would be greatly appreciated. We would also be willing to pay you back once we receive our tax return. We were going to try and get one of those Holiday refund loans (which we've never done before) but we found out that they no longer offer them. We have no where else to turn.
Thank you for reading our story.
Sick woman with no job
Posted by artsychick79 on 2010-11-23 20:58:58
Cheated on, no wheres to go and losing my motorcycle. Even a single dollar helps...
Posted by cheatedondad on 2010-09-09 17:58:58
I need help, jobs are not paying enough money to stay afoat or above my means. I was ok until I found out my wife cheated and now we are both seperated but living together because like many others also, we're stuck with what we have and barely getting by to make it work.
I'm not asking for anything more than help to pay off my bike or to make the payments ahead a few months to hopefully find a way on my own to keep paying this bike off.
I did it myself, but giving it back is a terrible option, everything from garnesishment to liens. If you feel like helping, send a donation to my paypal account. anything helps or could help. I'm in the hole $9.5k or $285 a month.
After everything is said and done, all i got left is my bike and credit now. Be nice to keep them both or at least sell the bike to someone for whats owed on it. of course no one is emailing on it or calling. Its a 2008 suzuki boulevard c90 and i haven't got one call on it.
figures though, when i see harley davidsons advertised too for around $5k right now. the world or at least the usa is hurting and all people want to do is work, but theres no paying jobs out there for grunts.
anyhow, if you want to help... please do.
thank you so much
I lost my job last year. It took 3 months to find ...
Posted by 0 on 2010-01-27 01:58:58
