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I am a teenager, and my parents passed away due to cance. I'm don't have any relatives to count on..tried to work part time jobs and stuffs, but school fees, bills, medical bills from hospital for parents etc have been too much.. last resort to try begging..am crying as i'm typing..have hands and legs...but yet need to beg..

Please kindly help me out if you can. I'm just looking to get my life back..

I don't have Paypal..If you would like to help, kindly email me direct at yippayip@aol.com. Thank you.

Since today is Mother’s Day, I wanted to share my journey thus far and what it’s meant to be a mother for me. My story is unique in that I’ve overcome various obstacles to gain what some may call normalcy. Now I’m facing a struggle in which I’m hoping to tap into the kindness of the internet in order to help me through this hurdle.

I was raised by a single parent and grew up in a town where most families were on some sort of government assistance and could barely make ends meet. I was always taught to value what I had and that hard work will always bear its fruits. My high school was filled with kids who didn’t care about getting an education. I was a introverted “nerd” who took Honors and AP classes and saw education as a way to get out of a town that didn’t have much opportunity for growth. While I valued my education, I was also bored to death, even in my “accelerated classes,” so I stupidly acted out and started to party as high school kids do. I ditched class to drink and dabbled a bit in drugs because there was nothing else to do. Even as I partied, I still managed to remain on the honor roll for all 4 years. Fast forward to the beginning of my senior year, our class had 250 kids and throughout the year approximately half of the student body dropped out at one point or another, giving up on their 14 year investment in their education. I made it to the end, but while everyone was excitedly responding to college acceptance letters, I had to throw all of mine out. Why? I was pregnant. I fully accept responsibility for my actions, but sex was not talked about in my household. I had no idea I had access to birth control or condoms and foolishly made a mistake that would change my life. I went to my prom and graduation 3 months pregnant without anyone knowing aside from my family.

The summer after graduation was spent brainstorming options and finding a job to help support my unborn child. I decided to keep the baby, thinking I would give it up for adoption. I was too immature to take care of myself, and now a baby? No way. As the months progressed, I fell in love with the baby and decided to keep her and raise her with the help of my family. I was excited but deep inside I was depressed. I really wanted to go off to college and live the life of a student living on campus, making new friends, staying up late to cram for midterms and possibly travel a bit. I couldn’t do that anymore and the thought of experiencing college in any other way didn’t entice me. I also knew if I didn’t get an education, I’d be stuck in a cycle of dead end jobs all my life. I knew I didn’t want to struggle like I’ve seen my family fight just to put a decent meal on the table and keep the lights from getting shut down.

I started college two months after my daughter was born. She was perfection and an incredible motivator. I’ve always thought that she deserves something better, beyond what I can give her but I decided to try my best to give her an amazing life. Since I just had a baby, I wanted to explore the opportunities I had outside of a traditional classroom in college. Luckily, the local community college offered online courses which only required me to be in class on the first day, at midterms and during finals week. I did this for a year and a half until I took every online course possible. Then it was time for full immersion into college. Here came daycare and having to balance college life with working and a small child.

My average day in college looked like this: we’d have to wake up at the crack of dawn so my daughter and I could ride a 45-minute bus to school. Unlike most of my classmates, I had to dash straight from work to class or go to work right after class so that I could pick up my daughter from school at a proper hour. I was very fortunate to land a job in a small office as an office assistant during college that would later prove invaluable. The pay was ok, but I was allowed to tailor my schedule to be compatible with my changing class load every semester. After our day was done came another bus ride. Once we got home, I’d have to make dinner, pack us lunch for the next day, prepare her backpack with extra clothes plus wash and prepare a day’s worth of bottles for my daughter. After I put my daughter to bed was the only time I had for homework. I’d stay up until about 2am every night doing my reading assignments or writing papers only to have to get up 3 ½ hours later to start my day again.

I did this every day for 5 ½ years.

Was it worth it? Heck yeah. I got my bachelor’s degree on my wall as proof. I am the first person in my family to ever get a degree. I have multiple relatives my age who ended up dropping out for various reasons yet I managed to graduate (with honors!) while juggling a small child and a demanding job. Aside from raising my daughter, this is what I’m most proud of thus far. I read online that less than 2% of teen moms attain a college degree before age 30. I’m stoked beyond words to be a part of that 2% (Source) I hope that this struggle and success will set an example to my daughter and show her that hard work does pay off.

After college, I worked a few jobs that I wasn’t too keen on. Too corporate, too stuffy, too bureaucratic to evoke any change and make an impact. I wanted to wake up every morning and feel inspired to go to work. I didn’t just want a paycheck, I wanted to engulf myself within organization so that I could kick ass and take names. I also wanted a 401(k), health benefits and life insurance so that my bases could be covered in old age. But mainly I wanted to wake up invigorated every morning and be able to pay my bills. After college, my daughter and I moved into our first home. I loved waking her up in her room filled with the girliest of things. I was a proud mama–on my own, college educated and living life as an independent woman.

Independent but unfulfilled. That is, until I was introduced to the CEO of my most recent employer. We hit it off immediately and within two week was offered the chance of a lifetime. I was invited to join his multimillion dollar company and close-knit team as his right hand. I’d learn all the in’s and out’s of running a business in a dynamic industry and receive a nice salary. After a bit of contemplation, I decided to resign from my stuffy job to join a company I was proud to be apart of. My job was great. It was flexible, nurturing, educational and insightful. In a few short weeks, I was in the trenches with my boss handling everything from sales to contracts to finance to HR. That is, until the company suddenly went out of business. I won’t get into the details but I was told I’d have a month before we were all let go. This was the job I wanted to settle in and dedicate years to, not just a job really but a mission to which I was dedicated.

I was laid off in March with no severance pay as the company had nothing. I had a small savings which I tapped into as I began searching for a job. I had to file for unemployment for the first time, which was hard as I’ve prided myself on not having to use government resources to pay my bills. I have almost a decade of solid work history and yet I’m struggling to find a job. Places are hiring but they’re scarce and don’t always offer pay that can support a family.

My bills are piling up and I have family and friends that are in no position to help me out. Unemployment can only pay so much and it isn’t enough to put a home-cooked meal on the table or keep everything paid. I’m in the process of starting up two businesses–one that peddles vintage finds and another that provides folks with stellar resumes to land their dream job so that I can increase my cash flow, but in the meantime, I’m asking for any donations to my cause. I’m willing to offer any services in return for a donation over $30 via paypal. There’s a button below where your transaction will be processed safely and gratefully!

Please pass this on and +1 it, favorite it, retweet it and share in any way possible! No action is too small or unappreciated.

Thank you so much for letting me share my story with you.

Since today is Mother’s Day, I wanted to share my journey thus far and what it’s meant to be a mother for me. My story is unique in that I’ve overcome various obstacles to gain what some may call normalcy. Now I’m facing a struggle in which I’m hoping to tap into the kindness of the internet in order to help me through this hurdle.

I was raised by a single parent and grew up in a town where most families were on some sort of government assistance and could barely make ends meet. I was always taught to value what I had and that hard work will always bear its fruits. My high school was filled with kids who didn’t care about getting an education. I was a introverted “nerd” who took Honors and AP classes and saw education as a way to get out of a town that didn’t have much opportunity for growth. While I valued my education, I was also bored to death, even in my “accelerated classes,” so I stupidly acted out and started to party as high school kids do. I ditched class to drink and dabbled a bit in drugs because there was nothing else to do. Even as I partied, I still managed to remain on the honor roll for all 4 years. Fast forward to the beginning of my senior year, our class had 250 kids and throughout the year approximately half of the student body dropped out at one point or another, giving up on their 14 year investment in their education. I made it to the end, but while everyone was excitedly responding to college acceptance letters, I had to throw all of mine out. Why? I was pregnant. I fully accept responsibility for my actions, but sex was not talked about in my household. I had no idea I had access to birth control or condoms and foolishly made a mistake that would change my life. I went to my prom and graduation 3 months pregnant without anyone knowing aside from my family.

The summer after graduation was spent brainstorming options and finding a job to help support my unborn child. I decided to keep the baby, thinking I would give it up for adoption. I was too immature to take care of myself, and now a baby? No way. As the months progressed, I fell in love with the baby and decided to keep her and raise her with the help of my family. I was excited but deep inside I was depressed. I really wanted to go off to college and live the life of a student living on campus, making new friends, staying up late to cram for midterms and possibly travel a bit. I couldn’t do that anymore and the thought of experiencing college in any other way didn’t entice me. I also knew if I didn’t get an education, I’d be stuck in a cycle of dead end jobs all my life. I knew I didn’t want to struggle like I’ve seen my family fight just to put a decent meal on the table and keep the lights from getting shut down.

I started college two months after my daughter was born. She was perfection and an incredible motivator. I’ve always thought that she deserves something better, beyond what I can give her but I decided to try my best to give her an amazing life. Since I just had a baby, I wanted to explore the opportunities I had outside of a traditional classroom in college. Luckily, the local community college offered online courses which only required me to be in class on the first day, at midterms and during finals week. I did this for a year and a half until I took every online course possible. Then it was time for full immersion into college. Here came daycare and having to balance college life with working and a small child.

My average day in college looked like this: we’d have to wake up at the crack of dawn so my daughter and I could ride a 45-minute bus to school. Unlike most of my classmates, I had to dash straight from work to class or go to work right after class so that I could pick up my daughter from school at a proper hour. I was very fortunate to land a job in a small office as an office assistant during college that would later prove invaluable. The pay was ok, but I was allowed to tailor my schedule to be compatible with my changing class load every semester. After our day was done came another bus ride. Once we got home, I’d have to make dinner, pack us lunch for the next day, prepare her backpack with extra clothes plus wash and prepare a day’s worth of bottles for my daughter. After I put my daughter to bed was the only time I had for homework. I’d stay up until about 2am every night doing my reading assignments or writing papers only to have to get up 3 ½ hours later to start my day again.

I did this every day for 5 ½ years.

Was it worth it? Heck yeah. I got my bachelor’s degree on my wall as proof. I am the first person in my family to ever get a degree. I have multiple relatives my age who ended up dropping out for various reasons yet I managed to graduate (with honors!) while juggling a small child and a demanding job. Aside from raising my daughter, this is what I’m most proud of thus far. I read online that less than 2% of teen moms attain a college degree before age 30. I’m stoked beyond words to be a part of that 2% (Source) I hope that this struggle and success will set an example to my daughter and show her that hard work does pay off.

After college, I worked a few jobs that I wasn’t too keen on. Too corporate, too stuffy, too bureaucratic to evoke any change and make an impact. I wanted to wake up every morning and feel inspired to go to work. I didn’t just want a paycheck, I wanted to engulf myself within organization so that I could kick ass and take names. I also wanted a 401(k), health benefits and life insurance so that my bases could be covered in old age. But mainly I wanted to wake up invigorated every morning and be able to pay my bills. After college, my daughter and I moved into our first home. I loved waking her up in her room filled with the girliest of things. I was a proud mama–on my own, college educated and living life as an independent woman.

Independent but unfulfilled. That is, until I was introduced to the CEO of my most recent employer. We hit it off immediately and within two week was offered the chance of a lifetime. I was invited to join his multimillion dollar company and close-knit team as his right hand. I’d learn all the in’s and out’s of running a business in a dynamic industry and receive a nice salary. After a bit of contemplation, I decided to resign from my stuffy job to join a company I was proud to be apart of. My job was great. It was flexible, nurturing, educational and insightful. In a few short weeks, I was in the trenches with my boss handling everything from sales to contracts to finance to HR. That is, until the company suddenly went out of business. I won’t get into the details but I was told I’d have a month before we were all let go. This was the job I wanted to settle in and dedicate years to, not just a job really but a mission to which I was dedicated.

I was laid off in March with no severance pay as the company had nothing. I had a small savings which I tapped into as I began searching for a job. I had to file for unemployment for the first time, which was hard as I’ve prided myself on not having to use government resources to pay my bills. I have almost a decade of solid work history and yet I’m struggling to find a job. Places are hiring but they’re scarce and don’t always offer pay that can support a family.

My bills are piling up and I have family and friends that are in no position to help me out. Unemployment can only pay so much and it isn’t enough to put a home-cooked meal on the table or keep everything paid. I’m in the process of starting up two businesses–one that peddles vintage finds and another that provides folks with stellar resumes to land their dream job so that I can increase my cash flow, but in the meantime, I’m asking for any donations to my cause. I’m willing to offer any services in return for a donation over $30 via paypal. There’s a button below where your transaction will be processed safely and gratefully!

Please pass this on and +1 it, favorite it, retweet it and share in any way possible! No action is too small or unappreciated.

Thank you so much for letting me share my story with you.

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Since today is Mother’s Day, I wanted to share my journey thus far and what it’s meant to be a mother for me. My story is unique in that I’ve overcome various obstacles to gain what some may call normalcy. Now I’m facing a struggle in which I’m hoping to tap into the kindness of the internet in order to help me through this hurdle.

I was raised by a single parent and grew up in a town where most families were on some sort of government assistance and could barely make ends meet. I was always taught to value what I had and that hard work will always bear its fruits. My high school was filled with kids who didn’t care about getting an education. I was a introverted “nerd” who took Honors and AP classes and saw education as a way to get out of a town that didn’t have much opportunity for growth. While I valued my education, I was also bored to death, even in my “accelerated classes,” so I stupidly acted out and started to party as high school kids do. I ditched class to drink and dabbled a bit in drugs because there was nothing else to do. Even as I partied, I still managed to remain on the honor roll for all 4 years. Fast forward to the beginning of my senior year, our class had 250 kids and throughout the year approximately half of the student body dropped out at one point or another, giving up on their 14 year investment in their education. I made it to the end, but while everyone was excitedly responding to college acceptance letters, I had to throw all of mine out. Why? I was pregnant. I fully accept responsibility for my actions, but sex was not talked about in my household. I had no idea I had access to birth control or condoms and foolishly made a mistake that would change my life. I went to my prom and graduation 3 months pregnant without anyone knowing aside from my family.

The summer after graduation was spent brainstorming options and finding a job to help support my unborn child. I decided to keep the baby, thinking I would give it up for adoption. I was too immature to take care of myself, and now a baby? No way. As the months progressed, I fell in love with the baby and decided to keep her and raise her with the help of my family. I was excited but deep inside I was depressed. I really wanted to go off to college and live the life of a student living on campus, making new friends, staying up late to cram for midterms and possibly travel a bit. I couldn’t do that anymore and the thought of experiencing college in any other way didn’t entice me. I also knew if I didn’t get an education, I’d be stuck in a cycle of dead end jobs all my life. I knew I didn’t want to struggle like I’ve seen my family fight just to put a decent meal on the table and keep the lights from getting shut down.

I started college two months after my daughter was born. She was perfection and an incredible motivator. I’ve always thought that she deserves something better, beyond what I can give her but I decided to try my best to give her an amazing life. Since I just had a baby, I wanted to explore the opportunities I had outside of a traditional classroom in college. Luckily, the local community college offered online courses which only required me to be in class on the first day, at midterms and during finals week. I did this for a year and a half until I took every online course possible. Then it was time for full immersion into college. Here came daycare and having to balance college life with working and a small child.

My average day in college looked like this: we’d have to wake up at the crack of dawn so my daughter and I could ride a 45-minute bus to school. Unlike most of my classmates, I had to dash straight from work to class or go to work right after class so that I could pick up my daughter from school at a proper hour. I was very fortunate to land a job in a small office as an office assistant during college that would later prove invaluable. The pay was ok, but I was allowed to tailor my schedule to be compatible with my changing class load every semester. After our day was done came another bus ride. Once we got home, I’d have to make dinner, pack us lunch for the next day, prepare her backpack with extra clothes plus wash and prepare a day’s worth of bottles for my daughter. After I put my daughter to bed was the only time I had for homework. I’d stay up until about 2am every night doing my reading assignments or writing papers only to have to get up 3 ½ hours later to start my day again.

I did this every day for 5 ½ years.

Was it worth it? Heck yeah. I got my bachelor’s degree on my wall as proof. I am the first person in my family to ever get a degree. I have multiple relatives my age who ended up dropping out for various reasons yet I managed to graduate (with honors!) while juggling a small child and a demanding job. Aside from raising my daughter, this is what I’m most proud of thus far. I read online that less than 2% of teen moms attain a college degree before age 30. I’m stoked beyond words to be a part of that 2% (Source) I hope that this struggle and success will set an example to my daughter and show her that hard work does pay off.

After college, I worked a few jobs that I wasn’t too keen on. Too corporate, too stuffy, too bureaucratic to evoke any change and make an impact. I wanted to wake up every morning and feel inspired to go to work. I didn’t just want a paycheck, I wanted to engulf myself within organization so that I could kick ass and take names. I also wanted a 401(k), health benefits and life insurance so that my bases could be covered in old age. But mainly I wanted to wake up invigorated every morning and be able to pay my bills. After college, my daughter and I moved into our first home. I loved waking her up in her room filled with the girliest of things. I was a proud mama–on my own, college educated and living life as an independent woman.

Independent but unfulfilled. That is, until I was introduced to the CEO of my most recent employer. We hit it off immediately and within two week was offered the chance of a lifetime. I was invited to join his multimillion dollar company and close-knit team as his right hand. I’d learn all the in’s and out’s of running a business in a dynamic industry and receive a nice salary. After a bit of contemplation, I decided to resign from my stuffy job to join a company I was proud to be apart of. My job was great. It was flexible, nurturing, educational and insightful. In a few short weeks, I was in the trenches with my boss handling everything from sales to contracts to finance to HR. That is, until the company suddenly went out of business. I won’t get into the details but I was told I’d have a month before we were all let go. This was the job I wanted to settle in and dedicate years to, not just a job really but a mission to which I was dedicated.

I was laid off in March with no severance pay as the company had nothing. I had a small savings which I tapped into as I began searching for a job. I had to file for unemployment for the first time, which was hard as I’ve prided myself on not having to use government resources to pay my bills. I have almost a decade of solid work history and yet I’m struggling to find a job. Places are hiring but they’re scarce and don’t always offer pay that can support a family.

My bills are piling up and I have family and friends that are in no position to help me out. Unemployment can only pay so much and it isn’t enough to put a home-cooked meal on the table or keep everything paid. I’m in the process of starting up two businesses–one that peddles vintage finds and another that provides folks with stellar resumes to land their dream job so that I can increase my cash flow, but in the meantime, I’m asking for any donations to my cause. I’m willing to offer any services in return for a donation over $30 via paypal. There’s a button below where your transaction will be processed safely and gratefully!

Please pass this on and +1 it, favorite it, retweet it and share in any way possible! No action is too small or unappreciated.

Thank you so much for letting me share my story with you.

I saved up enough money for school but now it turns out I don't have money for living expenses. I get a work permit in November 2012, but by then I won't have any money for next year. The expenses for each of the two years is $17,000, and I saved up just for one year. I need help in making ends meet. I have been looking for work on campus and it's not working out since I was told to wait until August and September for cleaning jobs and restaurant jobs at the school. All the tutoring jobs I have applied for on campus have not materialized so far.

If I do not finish this school, it is over for me. I spent many years in the US in school since 2001, and it resulted in nothing because they didn't give me a work permit, and they did not allow me to stay.I got two bachelors degrees from there but since I did not have citizenship or a green card, I had to leave.

If I finish school here in Canada, I will get a three year work permit, and I can finally be useful to myself and my family. I need to pay back money that I owe my uncle for paying for my primary and secondary education back home in the third world. I need to educate, or at least pay for my niece and nephew who are orphaned to go to college. I need to take care of my sick mother, I have been unable to do that so far because I had to pay for my education in the US out of pocket.

I have other on going problems such as loss of sight in one eye but then that is something to be dealt with when I finally finish school, it is not as urgent as getting the money to pay for school. No matter how badly everything else is going, even with my mom being sick and my being unable to send her money for treatment, school comes first even though ideally it should not be that way.

I have been involved in community service for many years. I worked with DC Habitat for Humanity on a house construction project. I also worked with refugees from 2010 to 2011 before I had to leave the US, I was tutoring English through International Rescue Committee. I am currently working with the Food Bank where I am, and over summer since I will have no on campus jobs, I plan on getting more volunteer jobs so I can give back to the community. Canada has given me so much, a chance at self improvement, so it's only natural that I want to say thank you to this great country.

I am not scared of working, infact when I was in the US I worked full time while going to school full time. I do not want to violate the student visa here in Canada because Canada is a kind country for immigrants and they will definitely give me the work permit come November 2012, as long as I do not work illegally before then.

I am planning to move out of my homestay right now and rent with schoolmates in order to minimize my expenses. I do not usually even eat things like meat, milk, eggs, all of which I do not like or I am allergic to. So I do know how to save money. I learned to live on very little while in the US so I need money to pay for my education so that I can maintain my student visa.

Please help, my family cannot afford to pay for my education, I do not have citizenship from a developed country to qualify for financial aid or scholarships, the scholarships from back home are mostly for those doing masters degrees and PhDs, I'm doing an associates degree right now. They also insist that you must not have already left the country before they give you the scholarship. I will be applying for scholarships in the schoool, and also some bursary from my government which might be only $500, and that is only if I can get someone back home to bribe someone in the Ministry of Education to get that bursary.

I have tried all ways to improve my life for many years, and this time education truly will be a key to improving my life. I am not a stranger to subjecting myself to medical experiments in order to earn more money to pay for school. I need help this time around, this is my last try at improving my future. Going back home will be a disaster since I do not have tall relatives (people with influence) to get me jobs. What's the point of my adding myself to the millions who are dependent on others for help?

Any amount which can be sent to my Paypal account will be highly appreciated. Thanks.

Im a single mum from Kenya, i lost my job and in need to support my kid. I have certs in management and i want to get a higher dipoloma. I have applied for jobs but many employers need more qualified persons. I have tried getting money from friends and relatives with no luck. For me to complete the course im kindly requsting a donation of £2500 which include plus learning materials. Thank you for reading my request. Can be reached at caroti2007@yahoo.com

Dear All Human Beings, I am SANDEEP from Bangalore, India. I was a business man and i had a huge dreams of improving my business and becoming a successful & wealthy entrepreneur, But my fate took me into deep debt by failing all my ideas. Now my parents, my wife and my friends and relatives all are scolding me and no one is ready to help me. At times i had helped every one even if i dont have money. I used to help them by pledging my gold.One of my cousin took an amount of 5000$ from me and he is now unable to return back. I have used my credit cards to meet my monthly commitments and now unable to pay the dues. I have to pay a total of 1200$ to clear the dues. So i wish you people to help me out by donating me as much as possible starting from 1$ to as much as u can afford to my account. Kindly reply back what ever is your opinion to my email id. I you like to help me out i will send you my paypal account details as i have not yet created PAYPAL account. Hope you people will help me in this regards

Thanks
Sandeep

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My name is Eliabe. I am an 18-year-old guy from Brazil and I need your donation because I need to move away but I can't afford it.
Let me tell you why.

I grew up being abused by my dad -- emotionally and sexually. I did not realize what was happening until recently. I still have to deal with the consequences. I became social phobic, anxious and depressed. I am still afraid, disgusted of and uncomfortable with touch and closeness, yet I am dying for it. An African therapist agreed to help me for free, so I am getting better but only very recently am I making progress.

Three, almost four, years ago (2008), my family rejected me over religious issues. I wanted to join this Sabbatarian Christian religious association (this particular sect is a minority in Brazil and honestly everywhere else but they're more present in the US and England) and my family rejected me and reproached me so severely that it radically changed my personality. They wanted to throw me away. I was only 15. I had nowhere to go. I was deeply shocked and shaken on the inside. I never knew I could feel so hurt! I had never expected such sudden rejection from them. My mom said I was a disappointment to her and that I would not stay under the same ceiling as hers if I wanted to keep my faith. My siblings made fun of me and my new beliefs. My father demonized me and said he'd take me to their religious authorities to “straighten me out.” They accused me of bringing a curse into our lives and treated me as a shame to the family ("What will others think?" they wondered). My relatives (uncles, aunts, cousins -- I have a big family) were all against me too. I did not tell my friends because they belonged to the same religion as my parents. I started isolating from everybody. I became very deeply depressed. I would sleep just not to have to be awake and suffering.

It was really overwhelming to me. I had nowhere to go, no one to turn to. The congregation was out of town. So I decided to give up on joining that group. However, I did not stop believing in them but I had to pretend to be in my parents' religion on the outside.

But then my life became a nightmare. I had bad dreams at night. I became paranoid. Every time I was outside, I would walk around the house many times before taking the courage to go in. My heart would pound every time the phone or doorbell rang or someone called my name or asked about my religion. I would feel sick and go pale every time someone initiated a conversation about religion with me. I was traumatized. I am only getting better now. I fainted many times as I got weak because my mom refused to cook clean kosher dishes for me. I can’t even begin to describe all the sacrifices and pains I had to go through not to lose my identity. I can’t, for example, go out on a date or have a serious friendship because I am hiding the most important part of myself. Try to have a relationship where you do things you can’t explain the other party. Do you think it can ever work? My friendships are all shallow because of that.

I am a recent high school graduate. I took a basic course on administrative services and telemarketing last year, paid by the government as part of a program in Brazil called “Jovem Aprendiz” (“Young Apprentice” in English). As part of that course, I am working part-time, supposedly to acquire experience in the field, though I actually work as a warehousing assistant in the company (completely unrelated to administrative services). As I only work part-time (4 hours a day), I only receive HALF the minimum wage, which means I earn about $2 per hour. Yes, I could save that money to achieve my goals. It would take over two years but it would be possible. But I can't at the moment because I have to support my parents and siblings. My brother also works and my dad has recently found a job after three years of unemployment but I still have to give them a significant part of my salary or else we will starve. Also, even if I could, I’d still be desperate because I have been suffering for almost FOUR YEARS!

So I want to move away because I want to be free to convert and live my life, have friends, a girlfriend and a normal life. I got a passport and contacts in the United States. They can help me once I am there but they can’t buy my plane tickets as they cost over $800! There are also additional costs as I need a visa. I am currently looking for a job there. There have been people who want to hire me but they stopped contacting me after learning of the costs they would have to pay.
So please help me. It is the ONLY way for me to be happy again! It doesn’t matter how much you donate. It will make a HUGE difference.

Thank you very much. God bless you!

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Bless your soul for even reading this. I am a 24 year old man who lives in the USA in New England. When I was 21 my mother died, my father is a 100% disabled Vietnam veteran combat wounded. I have had a job sense I was 9 years old, I would pick peas before elementary school. I am a good man, I do all I can for everyone I know. I recently had a daughter, Camille Ana. I am attending a college in hopes of a better future for before school I was working 16 hour shifts lifting kegs in a large cooler for $7.50 a hour. PLEASE help me as I am in debt and need to provide a healthy home for my daughter, as my wife and I are homeless living in relatives room. I never did anything to deserve this, please someone send me a future. E mail me. please. neilbskelton@cmconnect.cmcc.edu

So I had my own place relatives having hard time so to help them n help me pay off bills I moved in. Only problem money I gave them for rent went to drugs they get evicted so I'm living out of car to get o ut of the hole.make my car paymnt cell ph .I'm employed so not lazy just need little help any appriciated. My e mail.hostetler584@gmail.com tryin to set up pay pal but still work in progress so not set up yet.I will get out of this mess and pay it forward to next person .karma great.thanks for reading.

I AM A SURVIVOR OF DV.I HAVE 6 .CHILDREN.AGES 8,5,TWO 3 YEAR OLDS,1,AND A 4 MONTH OLD.I RECENTLY JUST LOST MY MOTHER IN OCTOBER 2011.SHE WAS THE ONLY SUPPORT SYSTEM I HAD.I HAVE NO OTHER CLOSE RELATIVES THAT LIVE NEAR ME.I WAS FORCED TO LEAVE EVERYTHING THAT I OWNED BEHIND.EVEN MY JOB.I RELOCATED TO ANOTHER CITY.MY NEW LANDLORD LET ME MOVE IN WITH WHAT I HAD AND IS LETTING ME GET THE REST OF THE MONEY ASAP.I HAVE NOTHING IN MY HOUSE.I KEEP MY FOOD OUTSIDE TO STAY COLD.MY CHILDREN AND I ARE SLEEPING ON THE FLOOR.MY 4 MONTH OLD GET RASHES FROM THE CARPET.I AM CURRENTLY SEEKING EMPLOYMENT.BUT NOTHING HAS CAME ALONG YET.I GET WELFARE BUT IT IS NOT ENOUGH FOR MY,BILLS,AND KIDS.WE DONT EVEN HAVE TRANPORTATION TO GET AROUND.SO PLEASE FIND IT IN YOUR HEART TO HELP ME AND MY FAMILY ASAP PLEASE AND THANK YOU

Does any body out there read these posts for other than entertainment purposes? If so, please Please read this entire post...it spans 3 months. We truly do need your help. This is one final update to my earlier post from 1/17/2010. My fiance has been unable to collect her needed travel papers from her hotel because she has been unable to pay her total bill. The expense has remained at $1500. She needs the money to pay her hotel bill, so she can retrieve her sale contracts. If anyone out there will help us pay the total bill, they will be reimbursed the total plus 50% more as a means of reimbursing you for your trouble.
Her payout for the property she has a contract on selling has been finalized, but she is unable to collect the needed paperwork her stupid lawyer gave to the hotel as a "payment guarantee". It sounds stupid, because it is stupid. I think this lawyer must have purchased his law degree from a "five and dime" establishment. Any of you out there who've had to deal with lawyers in foreign countries know exactly what I'm talking about here. They are sometimes not the sharpest knives in the drawers!!! And that's being polite!!!! Please help...contact me for more details on how you may do so, or just submit your paypal details here on the website, I guess. Not sure how this site works, unfortunately. Thanks for reading my plea.

My name is Dennis. In early December 2011, my fiance' traveled abroad to settle her late father's estate and to sell a large piece of property. When she went (at the insistence of her uncle), she was assured she would only gone for about 2 weeks because the property was supposedly a hot commodity. According to the family lawyer, who was acting as counsel for my fiance', the land would easily sell in 2 weeks. That was in early December. My fiance was sent overseas with very little clothing, very little money (the minimum to get by on for 2 short weeks) and she had no place to stay. She was not welcome to remain in the lawyer's home past a few days, since he had other relatives coming in for the Christmas holidays. She was basically forced into staying in a hotel which she did not have sufficient funding for. I have since tried to help but have completely hit the bottom of the barrel. I've sold anything and everything of value to try to keep up with the mounting hotel bills and her survival needs. Now the money has run out, I am unable to borrow any more. I have no family or friends I can count on to help and neither does my fiance'. The hotel manager has decidely made things much more difficult by seizing her passport and some important documentation and is holding her papers as hostage until she pays the bill. Until she gets paid for the property she is selling, which will be in the next 10 days, she cannot do anything but cry for help. (She is caught in a "catch-22) situation. She cannot sell the property without having her travel papers and the important documentation for the sale of her property. She can't get her papers back until she provides for payment to the hotel. She desperately needs a minimum of $1500.00 to settle the hotel bill and satisfy mounting living expenses. Please donate what you can. If you need to be repaid, she is willing to repay what she is loaned with some nominal interest applied. We will need to work that detail out later if required. Please, please, help. Thank you for whatever you can do.

I am 20 years old,came to india with my mother.We borrowed from a few relatives to try to survive in india. We realised we cannot survive here and have to go back to Singapore,our own country. Unfortunately,our relatives would not let us go back until we pay back their loans, and they took our passports. WE have nothing much left in Singapore to pay them back as well. As i am a foreigner here,i cannot be employed as well until i go back to my own country. Now i have to settle their loans. Please help me,my mother is crying everyday and it hurts me so much to feel so helpless. She might result to suicide if things gets worst and i really want to help her and myself.Any kind soul out there please help me out. We are in a loan of One Lakh Rupees which is around USD$2300. Please help,thank you.

hello. my name is Darren, recently we lost our trailor, in the country, on the beautiful land we purchased in hopes of building a home on someday. Because our nieghbors changed thier land zoning from agriculture to residential, which because we dont own enough land automatically changed our zoning so we got a 30 day notice to get rid of our home. forcing us to move into seperate homes staying with friends until we can get a double wide home to be legal on our land. my signifigant other, Melinda, has recently lost her job and has no insurance and 9 days ago fell down a flight of stairs breaking her pelvis, L-5 vertabrea, 3 ribs, tail bone, skull and orbital. she had surgery on her pelvis a week agoe, and cannot yet even stand. with no home to rehabilitate in and no insurance, it just seems like everything is crashing in around us. It is slow where i am working which with her not working and medical bills from my recent neck surgery piling up, and having to get another vehicle because ours finally kicked the bucket, its just to much. I have been staying at the hospital with her and going to work from there but wow with gas the way it is i have no clue how we are suposed to get out of this pool of debt we are falling into... our two girls who are both 10(one mine and one hers) Madisen and Bailey, are staying with relatives while we go through this life trial... any help, any at all would be a god send, help rehabilitating her, an old double wide trailor not being used we could move onto the property so we could be a family unit again, any money to help pay bills and buy meds, gas, food, clothes for our growing girls! any help, ANYTHING at ALL would be greatly apriciated... i have a paypal account if this website even works... im shaking while im typing this, i hope to god this isnt a sham. thank you from the bottom of my heart. my email for paypal is doglooplab69@live.com please help us and thank you dearly, Darren... to get ahold of us our email is doglooplab69@live.com

my signifigant other 9 days ago fell down a flight of stairs, she has recently lost her job so has no insurance. we also due to a zoning change lost our home that was paid for. and with it being so slow at work are down to one car no home and her and i living in the hospital. we have two little girls who are staying with relatives so i can stay at the hospital. she broke her skull, orbital, coller bone, 3 ribs, L-5 vertebrea, and pelvis which she had sergery on 7 days ago. she is still unable to even stand. we are staying with friends and relatives since we lost our home and with her not working this just takes the cake!!! we already have enough medical bills with my recent neck surgery... please help us... we dont even know where she will be able to go to rehab with no insurance... money for bills and meds, food, girls clothes, an old double wide trailor no one is using so we can move back to our land and be legal... any help would be a god send!!! i hope this site works and is not a sham... please please help us, i dont know what els to do.... doglooplab69@live.com to get ahold of us... thank you

hello, my name is Darren. 9 days ago the love of my life fell down a flight of stairs. recently loosing her job she has no insurance. recently loosing our home due to a zoning change we are staying with friends, seperatly, with two beautiful girls, Madisen 10 and Bailey 10, and i dont know what to do anymore... our girls are staying with relatives so i can stay at the hospital with my love, melinda... she fell and broke her skull, orbital, coller bone, 3 ribs, L-5 vertabrea, and pelvis. she had surgery 7 days ago on her pelvis and cannot yet stand. i dont know where she will be able to go if anywhere for rehab due to no money and no insurance... any help at all with med bills, money for gas, money for clothes for our kids, food, an old double wide trailor we could put back on our land, ANY HELP AT ALL WOULD BE A GODSEND, please please read and pass this on to your church or friends... to get ahold of us please feel free to start with an email... doglooplab69@live.com please help if you can and thank you... Darren

2 weeks agoe my significant other fell down a flight of stairs, she has recently lost her job and has NO insurance... she broke her skull, orbital, coller bone, ribs 2,3,&4, L-5 vertibrea, pelvis, and tail bone. We also recently lost our home (trailor) due to a zoning issue. We got a notice and had 30 days to move out and get rid of it. We got a storage shed and went to stay with friends... seperate friends. We have two girls both 10 and things have been really hard on all of us. We already have enough medical bills with my recent neck surgery, and with this... it seems like there is no end to our peril. Ive been staying at the hospital because my love can not yet even stand so ive been by her side. The kids are staying with relatives but I dont know what to do. with no home to rehabilitate in and no insurance no one will take her in when the hospital releases her and she still needs care... PLEASE IF ANYONE CAN HELP OR TAKE THIS STORY TO THIER CHURCH... IM KINDA LOOSING ALL HOPE. We NEED HELP!!!! we could use food, clothes for the girls, money for gas, medical bills, scripts, A DOUBLE WIDE TRAILOR someone is not using or that is vacant in a trailor court... a double wide would be legal on our land, our single wide due to a zoning change was deemed illegal and we had to get rid of it. we went from having a paid for home to not having a place to live at all and now our world seems to be crashing in around us.... PLEASE ANY HELP AT ALL WOULD BE A GOD SEND... especially some help with scritps and med. bills.... IF ANYONE would like to get ahold of us our email is doglooplab69@live.com i can use the computer at the hospital or the friends house ONE of the girls and I are staying at... PLEASE ANY HELP AT ALL WOULD HELP... my brother set up a paypal account though i dont know how it works he does its at the email address above ... we could really use some kindness... please... im so stressed over my futer wife's medical condition and our little girl's wellfair... thank you for listening, i hope someone can help us...

2 weeks agoe my significant other fell down a flight of stairs, she has recently lost her job and has NO insurance... she broke her skull, orbital, coller bone, ribs 2,3,&4, L-5 vertibrea, pelvis, and tail bone. We also recently lost our home (trailor) due to a zoning issue. We got a notice and had 30 days to move out and get rid of it. We got a storage shed and went to stay with friends... seperate friends. We have two girls both 10 and things have been really hard on all of us. We already have enough medical bills with my recent neck surgery, and with this... it seems like there is no end to our peril. Ive been staying at the hospital because my love can NOT YET even STAND so i've been by her side. The kids are staying with relatives but I dont know what to do. with no home to rehabilitate in and no insurance no one will take her in when the hospital releases her and she still needs care... PLEASE IF ANYONE CAN HELP OR TAKE THIS STORY TO THIER CHURCH... IM KINDA LOOSING ALL HOPE. We NEED HELP!!!! we could use food, clothes for the girls, money for gas, medical bills, scripts, A DOUBLE WIDE TRAILOR someone is not using or that is vacant in a trailor court... a double wide would be legal on our land, our single wide due to a zoning change was deemed illegal and we had to get rid of it. we went from having a paid for home to not having a place to live at all and now our world seems to be crashing in around us.... PLEASE ANY HELP AT ALL WOULD BE A GOD SEND... especially some help with GAS, scritps, and med. bills, or an old used double wide (central iowa).... IF ANYONE would like to get ahold of us our email is doglooplab69@live.com i can use the computer at the hospital or the friends house ONE of the girls and I are staying at... PLEASE ANY HELP AT ALL WOULD HELP... my brother set up a paypal account though i dont know how it works he does its at the email address above ... we could really use some kindness... please... im so stressed over my futer wife's medical condition and our little girl's wellfair... thank you for listening, i hope someone can help us...

2 weeks agoe my significant other fell down a flight of stairs, she has recently lost her job and has NO insurance... she broke her skull, orbital, coller bone, ribs 2,3,&4, L-5 vertibrea, pelvis, and tail bone. We also recently lost our home (trailor) due to a zoning issue. We got a notice and had 30 days to move out and get rid of it. We got a storage shed and went to stay with friends... seperate friends. We have two girls both 10 and things have been really hard on all of us. We already have enough medical bills with my recent neck surgery, and with this... it seems like there is no end to our peril. Ive been staying at the hospital because my love can NOT YET even STAND so i've been by her side. The kids are staying with relatives but I dont know what to do. with no home to rehabilitate in and no insurance no one will take her in when the hospital releases her and she still needs care... PLEASE IF ANYONE CAN HELP OR TAKE THIS STORY TO THIER CHURCH... IM KINDA LOOSING ALL HOPE. We NEED HELP!!!! we could use food, clothes for the girls, money for gas, medical bills, scripts, A DOUBLE WIDE TRAILOR someone is not using or that is vacant in a trailor court... a double wide would be legal on our land, our single wide due to a zoning change was deemed illegal and we had to get rid of it. we went from having a paid for home to not having a place to live at all and now our world seems to be crashing in around us.... PLEASE ANY HELP AT ALL WOULD BE A GOD SEND... especially some help with GAS, scritps, and med. bills, or an old used double wide (central iowa).... IF ANYONE would like to get ahold of us our email is doglooplab69@live.com i can use the computer at the hospital or the friends house ONE of the girls and I are staying at... PLEASE ANY HELP AT ALL WOULD HELP... my brother set up a paypal account though i dont know how it works he does its at the email address above ... we could really use some kindness... please... im so stressed over my futer wife's medical condition and our little girl's wellfair... thank you for listening, i hope someone can help us...

2 weeks agoe my significant other fell down a flight of stairs, she has recently lost her job and has NO insurance... she broke her skull, orbital, coller bone, ribs 2,3,&4, L-5 vertibrea, pelvis, and tail bone. We also recently lost our home (trailor) due to a zoning issue. We got a notice and had 30 days to move out and get rid of it. We got a storage shed and went to stay with friends... seperate friends. We have two girls both 10 and things have been really hard on all of us. We already have enough medical bills with my recent neck surgery, and with this... it seems like there is no end to our peril. Ive been staying at the hospital because my love can NOT YET even STAND so i've been by her side. The kids are staying with relatives but I dont know what to do. with no home to rehabilitate in and no insurance no one will take her in when the hospital releases her and she still needs care... PLEASE IF ANYONE CAN HELP OR TAKE THIS STORY TO THIER CHURCH... IM KINDA LOOSING ALL HOPE. We NEED HELP!!!! we could use food, clothes for the girls, money for gas, medical bills, scripts, A DOUBLE WIDE TRAILOR someone is not using or that is vacant in a trailor court... a double wide would be legal on our land, our single wide due to a zoning change was deemed illegal and we had to get rid of it. we went from having a paid for home to not having a place to live at all and now our world seems to be crashing in around us.... PLEASE ANY HELP AT ALL WOULD BE A GOD SEND... especially some help with GAS, scritps, and med. bills, or an old used double wide (central iowa).... IF ANYONE would like to get ahold of us our email is doglooplab69@live.com i can use the computer at the hospital or the friends house ONE of the girls and I are staying at... PLEASE ANY HELP AT ALL WOULD HELP... my brother set up a paypal account though i dont know how it works he does its at the email address above ... we could really use some kindness... please... im so stressed over my futer wife's medical condition and our little girl's wellfair... thank you for listening, i hope someone can help us...

I cant believe i am resorting to this,but in the hope their are like minded people who put others first here is my plea for help.
Over the years my work has gradually taken its toll on my body and i am now left with limited capability,however myself and my partner still try to put others first.Our older relatives and friends need our help with running errands,shopping,hospital runs etc,but to do this we need to move back to my partners home county of yorkshire.
Unfortunately the cost of moving and the high deposits required on rented accomadation make it impossible.If you could find it in your hearts to help we would be extremely gratefull.Thankyou.
Whatever is affordable would help,as my gran used to say "every little helps"

I have medical bills from a non work injury that has left me partially parralized on my right side from a nasty fall from a roof. i also suffer from ostioarthritis. I have hurniated discs from c3 to c7 .lost all feeling in right hand, arm and partially in right leg. I have applied for federal assistance and was told it could take up to a year to hear back from them.I have been out of work for nearly a year after my job went out of bussiness. I receintly lost my wife to a car accident in which the the other person had no car insurrance.so now im left with no wife ,2 children and no insurance or income. depleted all resources including using up my credit card limit for rent and utlities .I have no living relatives to help as well.If you can help us any way, until helps help comes through , would be extremely grateful.I have thousands of dollras in medical bills. they just keep coming in. I have no house to but second morgageson. i rent at $1075 per month plus utlities.please help as much as you can. thank you for being kind.

My wife was recienty killed in a car accident by some one with no car insurance.I have 2 children and no mother.I'm disabled as well .neck curvical injury.Leaving me partialy parralized right side.MY wife worked before accident,but wasn't there long enough to get insurance. so we have no insurance for me or kids.My children need dental work. braces for one and check ups.I also have medical Bills from one of them having to go to the hospital for pnemonia and fallow up treatments.One needs glasses as well.I have applied for federal dissability help, but was told it can take a year to hear from them.my children need winter clothing.My rent is behind as i used some of it to pay for food and heating & electric bills, so we won't get shut off.We have no place to go when we get evicted. no relatives to relie on as well.can you please help me any way you can.Im 2 months rent behind at $1075 per month.No savings and my only credit card is maxed out at $2500 because of no more income.Iwas always a hard worker. never thought any thing like this could happen. can you please help us? i love my kids.

I lost my wife when a man fell asleep at the wheel and crossed the center line. He lived my wife did not. She was the only one working as i'm out of work, with curvical nurve damage to my right side .c-3 thru c-7 . i have very limited use of right hand and arm .My Insurence from my last job has long sence expired .She wasn't employed long enough to have health and death insurance. We have 2 children and now because i'm disabled and she passed away, we have no insurance for the kids or funeral expenses, let alone for the kids.Creamation for my wife,no funeral or cemmetary lot, will run about $1900.a casket and lot is about $8000. the guy who killed my wife had no insurance or any thing of value for the courts to attach.no car any more. My rent is$1075 per month and no utlities.I only get $1199 per month from disability from my last job.Witch only lasts 1 more month then bennefits stop. .My heating bill is up to $762 so far and it's only january.Iwas just diagnosed with stage 3 coln cancer 3 1/2 weeks ago.How will i pay for radiation treatments. I have no living relatives to move in with or get help from,they are deceased for years. My children are 8 and 11 yrs old. What do I tell them? Please help me any way you can.I have applied for federal help but can take up to a year to hear from them.we have no food kitchens here as well.This isn't mycomputer as swell. i'm at the library. they are free to use.Please help me and my kids. thank you for your help.

I am 27 years old, and I am in a really bad situation. I am a mother of nine months years old boy. I have not been working since February, 2011. Till now I got some help from my relatives but they can not help me anymore. Please help with 500$ for my rent. THANK YOU