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Aspiring College Student Needs Help and Prayer

Posted by AspiringProducer on 2012-05-24 12:58:35

Hello to all and thanks for taking time to view my donation page. I'm 24 years old and I just saved up my last and moved to Nashville TN. I have a very promising future ahead with my music career in Audio Production. I'm in a very tight situation because I needed to get away from everybody slowing me down back home in Cleveland Ohio that does not want to see me succeed (including family, my 2 kids mothers, and people I thought were friends.) I've had opportunities at one point to make theme music for up and coming Disney, HGTV, ESPN and other shows just to name a few. Nobody really wanted to see me make it and help fund a Engineer so my dreams could become a reality. With the last of the money I was able to raise, I kissed my kids goodbye and moved to Nashville with a close friend from high school.
I figured that everything happens for a reason and prior to me moving, I found out that she has been out here in TN for almost a year with no furniture (bed, couch, dining-kitchen table) Its just her and her cat in a empty Apt. She has a job doing what she went to school for in the animal vet field but she's only recieving small pay. I know anything beats nothing but what is that for someone who graduated from WVU with a bachelors of science? She has Student loans to pay back to a actual bank, a car note, rent and utilities to pay for all on her own and her family is In Cleveland as well. They aren't fortunate to help the situation and anybody from Cleveland could understand why considering how the economy is.
Being a good friend(especially considering that im allergic to cats and there is no vaccume), I saved my last and moved down here because I figured I could help her as well as help myself. If we are going to struggle, we can struggle together. That's what true friends are for right? I have been here since Easter and it's still hard to adjust. She has a leased vehicle so im not really in the predicament to double up her mileage looking for jobs and going to school in it. Everything is so far apart here.I had intentions on going to school in the fall for Audio Production but one day i called a local school from one of the commercials and I ended up taking a tour the same day. I was so Excited to see the Music Studio that I wanted to start immediately!!! I then found out that I started school the very next month (May 7th to be exact.)
Now I have to find a job to go around my school schedule which is only 3 days a week but Im having trouble figuring out how I will even get to school. The bus system is different than back in Cleveland. In Cleveland, schools give students bus passes and they even get discounted prices for being students. Here is definitely not like that. I'm not complaining because I'm blessed to at least be away from all of the distraction and I'm enrolled into school. Now I'm just worried as to what it will take for us to be comfortable for a change.
I eat ramen noodles and Vienna sausages just about everyday to make food here last. I'm not complaining at all but I'm sure that after while i will start to get sick from this. The noodles have high sodium as well. Just barely making it is an experience that isn't fun and I wish this upon nobody. This is why I'm turning to a donation community.

Things all donations will go towards:

Food for home, Bus passes for my schooling, Furniture for our apartment (I'm seeing alot we can get for less locally on Craigslist), Internet so I can stay active with my production, More Music Equipment (the equipment is so expensive but im in the right state to get it used) and eventually a vehicle so I could get us around and not worry about my roommate going over her mileage.

Seems like I'm asking for a lot but I grew up knowing that everything happens for a reason and that prayer goes a long way. Somebody I met in passing recommended this site hearing me talk about my situation to a relative. Thanks in advance and even 1 dollar is appreciated.

Matt

DISABLED WIDOW WITH 4 CHILDREN

Posted by destinysmom on 2012-03-21 17:58:35

IM HAVING MONEY ISSUES FOR FOOD,CLOTHING AND EXTRA EXPENCES I HAVE GUARDIANSHIP OF A 9 YEAR OLD GIRL,A 7 YEAR BOY,AND 6 YEAR OLD TWIN BOYS...I AM THEIR LAST CHANCE AND ONLY CHOICE TO BE WITH A BIOLOGICAL RELATIVE...I CANT LET THEM DOWN...I WORKED VERY HARD FOR OVER 35 YEARS BUT CAN NO LONGER DO THAT DUE TO SEVERAL DISABILITIES...THE CHILDREN NEED ALL MY LOVE AND ATTENTION...PARENTS ARE IN PRISION\DRUGS THEY CANNOT BE TRUSTED EVEN FOR SUPERVISED VISITS AND PROVIDE NO FININACAL ASSISTANCE...DONT WANT TO GET RICH JUST TO BE ABLE TO FEED THEM AND PROVIDE A CLEAN DECENT HOME FOR THEM TO GROW UP IN...BREAKING THIS CYCLE OF DRUG USE AND PRISION SENTANCES....PLEASE HELP ME SAVE THE CHILDREN AND PROVIDE A BETTER WAY OF LIFE...GOD BLESS YOU...

lost everything

Posted by minidash on 2012-03-09 08:58:44

lord were do i begin, i dont even know anymore. i am just at my wits end with everything going on and i know that there are people out there in worse shape than i am lord knows , ive never done this type of thing before and i really dont know how, to ask for help im usually the one giving but now i need some help i lost my home to a fire two weeks ago all of our clothes memorabla furniture all of it on top of that just yesterday my company laid me off of course i can get unemployment but that takes about a month to start and its only one quarter of what i made anyway , i have no money for food im living with a relative who constantly tells me what a favor he is doing for me and my two children i cant take it i found a place to rent for only 350.oo dollars a month and i managed to get that now i need money for food please if you can help me please do so my e mail is davidgist62@yahoo.com im using my brothers computer to do this if he knew he would kill me i need this today please please help me i cant take it anymore

I need money to pay my debts

Posted by Lily on 2012-02-15 20:58:46

I am a 28 years old married woman having 2 kids.
I’m writing this to you seeking a help from your side. I was desperately cheated by one
of my relative
with a sum of $30,000 without my husband’s knowledge.
Because of this debt I’m not able to lead a happy life with my family. Neither concentrate on my kids.
I tried in several banks, money lenders, etc but could not find a solution for this. Instead my debt is increasing day by day my debt is increasing.

Please help me by lending this amount. Please I beg you. I’m helpless.
By doing this you give life to 3 people.
I’m in such a situation that from past two days I’m feeling like killing myself.
But I’m alive only for my two kids.

This money helps to clear all my debt. And I can lead a happy and successful life in future.

Again I BEG you for the sake of my kids.
Please understand my situation.
Awaiting a positive response soon.

household bills.

Posted by worried on 2012-01-24 15:58:02

hi,i was made redundant in July 2011 and with the paltry amount of redundancy i was given i decided to spend it starting my own sole trader odd job business.well things where moving along just fine at first but in October of 2011 we lost a family member under tragic circumstances which resulted in me being unable to work for ten weeks.i have since moved the surviving relative in with myself and the rest of the family but am unable to meet the cost of bills as work as gone very quiet due to the recession.the relative as no job and she as just lost her husband and her son,she now only has a disabled son who is in care most of the time due to the severity of his disability,he is the only thing that is keeping her going.my wife as a part time job with no chance of taking on more hours due to having to look after the relative.
i have always been a hard working man and have not asked anything for myself.however things are getting bad now and after everything the family have been through the last thing we need is loosing our home so i would be very grateful for any help no matter how small.
i ask nothing for myself only a little help to keep a loving family together under very hard times.

thank you for taking the time to read our letter of help.

Struggling teen who needs happiness

Posted by Pleasehelpme90 on 2011-12-24 20:58:07

Hello thank you for taking time to read my entry. I'm a teen in my last year in high school. My father left when I was born and my mother has abused me growing up. I have no siblings, no friends and in my eyes at least, no family. I currently live with just my mother and we have a horrible relationship. Every day I'm bullied by her either calling me too skinny( i'm 5
3 and 117 pounds) or saying that I'm useless, that I'm stupid or that I was a mistake that ruined her life. My most recent problem is that college applications are rolling in and she refuses to help me with anything financially. I've tried looking for jobs but every time I get an interview she forbids me from going because she doesn't want me to work. I refuse to stay at home all my life and never get an education and I don't want to go out selling drugs or robbing people in order to get money. I have no other relative in America to help me and if my father had a million dollars he wouldn't loan me a penny. This problem amongst others have made me very depressed with life. I know they say money can't buy you happiness but if I had enough money to pay for college so I can better my future I would be a lot happier right now. I don't ask for hundreds of dollars whatever you have even one dollar can get me that much closer to a better future. Thank you again for taking your time out to read this. Have a nice day.

Struggling teen who needs happiness

Posted by Pleasehelpme90 on 2011-12-24 20:58:06

Hello thank you for taking time to read my entry. I'm a teen in my last year in high school. My father left when I was born and my mother has abused me growing up. I have no siblings, no friends and in my eyes at least, no family. I currently live with just my mother and we have a horrible relationship. Every day I'm bullied by her either calling me too skinny( i'm 5
3 and 117 pounds) or saying that I'm useless, that I'm stupid or that I was a mistake that ruined her life. My most recent problem is that college applications are rolling in and she refuses to help me with anything financially. I've tried looking for jobs but every time I get an interview she forbids me from going because she doesn't want me to work. I refuse to stay at home all my life and never get an education and I don't want to go out selling drugs or robbing people in order to get money. I have no other relative in America to help me and if my father had a million dollars he wouldn't loan me a penny. This problem amongst others have made me very depressed with life. I know they say money can't buy you happiness but if I had enough money to pay for college so I can better my future I would be a lot happier right now. I don't ask for hundreds of dollars whatever you have even one dollar can get me that much closer to a better future. Thank you again for taking your time out to read this. Have a nice day.

Struggling teen who needs happiness

Posted by Pleasehelpme90 on 2011-12-24 20:58:06

Hello thank you for taking time to read my entry. I'm a teen in my last year in high school. My father left when I was born and my mother has abused me growing up. I have no siblings, no friends and in my eyes at least, no family. I currently live with just my mother and we have a horrible relationship. Every day I'm bullied by her either calling me too skinny( i'm 5
3 and 117 pounds) or saying that I'm useless, that I'm stupid or that I was a mistake that ruined her life. My most recent problem is that college applications are rolling in and she refuses to help me with anything financially. I've tried looking for jobs but every time I get an interview she forbids me from going because she doesn't want me to work. I refuse to stay at home all my life and never get an education and I don't want to go out selling drugs or robbing people in order to get money. I have no other relative in America to help me and if my father had a million dollars he wouldn't loan me a penny. This problem amongst others have made me very depressed with life. I know they say money can't buy you happiness but if I had enough money to pay for college so I can better my future I would be a lot happier right now. I don't ask for hundreds of dollars whatever you have even one dollar can get me that much closer to a better future. Thank you again for taking your time out to read this. Have a nice day.

I'm 23 and alone...you're nice already

Posted by kaenor on 2011-12-12 22:58:05

Hi everyone. If you're reading this, thank you. Let me say upfront, I'm not asking specifically for money. I'm just going to spill my guts about this hand I was dealt.

I've had a hard life. My mother passed away when I was 12, and my father passed away at 20. He left me a lot of debt and a house to maintain.

The stress of all this has given me problems. I started having panic attacks and was hospitalized for a cardiac arrhythmia. Recently, I developed optic neuritis. I'm working on getting Medicaid to cover some of my costs but right now I'm in debt about #1000.

There is one blessing in my life, a relative who pays my internet and utilities. He also helps me with food. But that's all he can do. He goes without to provide me with that. Otherwise I'd be homeless, hungry, and who knows where.

So I'm blessed to have the basics in life. But there's so many things that I need that I have to beg other people for. My family is...not so supportive. All I have left are aunts and uncles, all except one on my mom's side. My mom's side of the family pretty much abandoned me when she died. They put me though shame and humiliation when I ask for help.

I want a job, but I live in a very rural area. I've applied s o many places up to an hour away but I don't hear anything back. Recently I applied for some state jobs which I'm hoping might come through.

These are the things I need and things I want, so you know what my intentions are.

Need:
Toilet paper.... :( The way I've been getting it now is to go into public restrooms and putting some in my purse. I feel wrong about this. But what can I say, it's a necessity?

Personal items...I won't go into detail but I'm talking about um, feminine ones. I get the Dollar Store brand kind, but even then it's too much. I've had to go without it which is very hard.

Hygiene items...I stopped using soap and shampoo conditioner. I would love to...I feel dirty honestly. But I can't afford anything. I only use deodorant every few days because the bottle is running low and I'm trying to make it last.

House items...I need dish washing soap. I can't afford paper plates and am just washing dishes with hot water now. Sometimes I cant' clean it all the way through that way, but I just have to forget it. I also need laundry detergent. I'm almost out of a huge bottle that I have made last over a year. It was Sun brand from the dollar store, and I loved it. I'm all about generic.

Gas money...My car is an old SUV, and it takes a fair amount of gas. I try to limit when I drive. But it's a necessity since I live alone and in a rural area. I have to drive to run errands, go see the doctor, go to job interviews. I usually beg for this the most cause this is one of the things I can't do without.

Medication...I'm on two heart medications because of my arrhythmia. It's important I take them. I tried taking them twice per day instead of three, and I had horrible palpitations. So this is kind of my priority. As I'm still uninsured, both medications cost about 12 dollars a month.

Okay those are all things that I feel I need. Now, what I "want".

Clothes...I haven't bought new clothes since 2007. That's when my dad got diagnosed with cancer. My shirts have holes in them, so do my jeans. I got them from Goodwill originally most likely, I like to be frugal. The only person I have is made of linen and has a hole so things fall out of it! I've lost weight and I have had my jeans fall down in public. It's bad. I only have one bra and it's way past it's prime. I would love a little money to buy some basic things. Jeans that fit, some cotton T-shirts, a purse. Maybe even something for job interviews? I think part of the reason I get denied is because I show up in jeans and a T and flip flips. But that's all I have.

Beauty stuff...Okay, this stuff is totally not worth your money, I get it. But I just thought I'd list everything. It sucks being a young woman who can't feel pretty. I'm unwashed, my clothes make me feel like a hobo. I see other girls my age in class (I attend college part time thanks to financial aid) looking and smelling beautiful. I mean...

I just want a hair cut. Recently, I hacked about 6 inches off myself with scissors. It's not pretty. I just want a little powder and some lip gloss to not feel so plain. I just want a spritz of perfume so that there's something beautiful in my senses. I daydream about when I used to wear cute clothes, go to a salon. Wear mascara and paint my names. Ahh...But this is just a dream. I don't expect anyone to help me with things like that.

A new laptop/tablet...The one I have now is really old and really slow. Don't expect anyone to get me one. If it happened, I would probably assume I'm dead and in some sort of heavenly afterlife. Then I might pass out from shock.

So this my friends, is my general beg for help. I'm a 23 year old girl without much family. My basics are covered, but that leaves a lot for someone who is broke. I'm actively searching for employment. I've applied from Dr.'s offices to bars. I'm part time in college, and I'm not sure what I want to study yet.

I don't drink, if I had the money for beer I'd buy TP instead. I don't smoke or do any illegal drugs. I'm not a criminal.

I am not someone who wants to just take money. If you are down on your luck too, please don't send me anything. Put it in savings. Give it to some of these people who are about to lose their homes if you must. They're deserving.

If you're apprehensive about giving money but still want to help, you totally can. A package filled with toilet paper, tampons, shampoo...that would be like Christmas morning to me, I swear.

I'm not sure what I'm going to get out of this. Writing this was therapeutic though. If you're on this site, you're already a nice person. I bet 90 percent of the traffic is people who want something, like me. People who go on here to help someone is probably such a rare thing.

Thanks for reading.

Truck Fire Surviver

Posted by truckfiresurviver on 2011-11-16 09:58:55

Hello. I am a commercial driver in need of financial help. My situation is 100% verifiable. On 9/20/11 I was driving a tractor trailer in Lamar, Pa, delivering a load to New Jersey when my truck caught on fire. To escape certain death I had to jump out of the burning truck, sustaining injuries in the process. A few minutes later the truck exploded and was incinerated. There was no driver error. Everybody who hears my story tells me that I'm lucky to be alive. However, Ive been out of work ever since. I do have legal representation in a workers comp case pending in Pa. My lawyer informed me that it may take up to a year before I start receiving workers comp benefits because my employer failed to have workers comp coverage while operating his business in Pa. I have absolutely no income. I lost my home and is now staying with a relative, sleeping on his couch. My car was towed due to expired tags. My bill to get my car out of the tow yard is now $2500 and rising daily. If I dont get my car out I will lose it in less than two weeks. I'm in serious pain daily from my injuries but cant get medical treatment because I dont have medical insurance and is forced to wait until I begin receiving workers comp benefits before I can get medical treatment. I applied for and was denied public assistance because I have only joint, and not full, custody of my 6 year old daughter. Even though NC Dept Of Social Services sympathized with what happened to me they told me that nc dss policy dont allow a parent with only joint custody of his child to get public assistance despite the fact that the nature of my occupation (over the road commercial transportation)prohibits me from having full custody of my child. I cant work until I receive treatment for my injuries. I dont know what else to do for money while waiting for my workers comp case to go through.I currently cant even provide food for myself and my daughter. Everyday I'm sinking deeper and deeper into destitution, anxiety and depression.I am sincerely hoping that somebody will read my story on Begslist and decide to help me. I am a hard working American citizen that, through no fault of my own, was involved in an on the job incident that left me injured, homeless, carless and destitute. I need help.Again, my situation is 100% verifiable. If you have any questions please call 980-345-7601 and ask for Wayne. Any and all help you can provide me will be truly appreciated.

Truck Fire Surviver

Posted by truckfiresurviver on 2011-11-16 08:58:44

Hello. I am a commercial big rig driver by occupation. My story is 100% verifiable. I'm in dire straits as a result of an on the job injury that occurred on 9/20/11. On that day I was operating a tractor trailer in Lamar, Pa delivering a load from Ohio to New Jersey when the truck I was driving caught fire and exploded. I had to jump out of the truck while it was burning, minutes before it exploded, injuring me in the process. The truck was incinerated. There was no driver error. Everybody tells me that I'm lucky to be alive. I've been out of work ever since. I have legal representation in a workers comp case pending in Pa. My lawyer informed me that it may take up to a year before I start receiving workers comp benefits, because my employer failed to have workers comp insurance while operating in Pa. In the meantime I have absolutely no income. I already lost my home since the incident and is now staying with a relative in his living room. My car was towed for expired registration.My bill to get my car out of the tow yard is now $2500 and rising daily. If I dont have the money to pay the bill I will lose my car in less than two weeks. I'm in daily pain from and in serious need of post er medical treatment for my injuries but, without medical insurance, I'm forced to wait for medical treatment until I begin receiving workers comp benefits.Each and every day that passes I'm sinking deeper and deeper into destitution,anxiety and depression.I have a 6 year old daughter and cant provide even food for her, much less clothes and school supplies. I applied for welfare but the nc dept of social services told me that I dont qualify for public assistance because I have only joint custody of my daughter. Despite my explanation to DSS, that due to the nature of my occupation(over the road commercial transportation)I cant have full custody of my child, I was still denied public assistance. I cant return to work until my injuries are treated. I dont know what else to do but reach out to people for financial help via Beglist.com. My situation is 100% verifiable. If you have any questions please call 980-345-7601 and ask for Wayne. Any and all help that you can provide me will be truly appreciated

Help Us Get a New Start - Save Our Home Please

Posted by ucanchangemylife on 2011-09-24 15:58:52

Dear Angels:

Over the last three years, my wife and I have been working as hard as we can to change our lives for the better. We both have jobs and we are hard working people. Many years ago, we made some bad financial choices and have been paying for it ever since. This year promised to turn things around for us. I began a business on the side of work, putting in many hours outside of my job. Hope was bright. But when I lost my job and was out of work for 2 months, things took a change for the worse. During this time we were also hit with a very large and unexpected "special assement" from our condo board, and my business also failed. The debt piled up quickly and we are now in jeopardy of losing our home.

Our vehicle has already been reposesed and we are struggling to get to our jobs as they are located at a long distance from where we live. Life has gotten very heavy and we could use a glimmer of hope. We have been trying so hard...

When I found this website, I can assure you it was out of desperation. It costs me some pride to be here writing this but the anonymity of it is comforting. Realize something please: I could be a relative of yours, a friend, brother, sister, son or daughter who is too ashamed to ask for your help. And even though we are most likely perfect strangers, we are connected by something higher.

Please, find it in your heart to trust and give us a chance to recover. One dollar from you could mean a lifetime of difference to us. And be assured, what you give will come back to you three fold.

God bless you for your kind heart. And from the bottom of ours, Thank You...

Help Us Get a New Start - Save Our Home Please

Posted by ucanchangemylife on 2011-09-24 15:58:43

Dear Angels:

Over the last three years, my wife and I have been working as hard as we can to change our lives for the better. We both have jobs and we are hard working people. Many years ago, we made some bad financial choices and have been paying for it ever since. This year promised to turn things around for us. I began a business on the side of work, putting in many hours outside of my job. Hope was bright. But when I lost my job and was out of work for 2 months, things took a change for the worse. During this time we were also hit with a very large and unexpected "special assement" from our condo board, and my business also failed. The debt piled up quickly and we are now in jeopardy of losing our home.

Our vehicle has already been reposesed and we are struggling to get to our jobs as they are located at a long distance from where we live. Life has gotten very heavy and we could use a glimmer of hope. We have been trying so hard...

When I found this website, I can assure you it was out of desperation. It costs me some pride to be here writing this but the anonymity of it is comforting. Realize something please: I could be a relative of yours, a friend, brother, sister, son or daughter who is too ashamed to ask for your help. And even though we are most likely perfect strangers, we are connected by something higher.

Please, find it in your heart to trust and give us a chance to recover. One dollar from you could mean a lifetime of difference to us. And be assured, what you give will come back to you three fold.

God bless you for your kind heart. And from the bottom of ours, Thank You...

Needing To Move For Better Opportunities

Posted by DKSchae on 2011-08-31 18:58:28

Hello, my boyfriend and I need to move from Fort Lauderdale to Tennessee by November of 2011. I have been unemployed since January 2009 and have had some temp jobs and interviews, but no permanent hiring. It’s very hard down here and not getting any better in South Florida. I have also been making clay jewelry pieces to sale but it isn’t bringing in enough income to support the cost of living in South Florida.

We have a relative willing to let us move in as long as we pay rent for 1 bedroom and help her with her baby. She even has a job opening for me which I will definitely take. However, given current financial issues we can barely make the move. We need an estimate of $2,000 to pay for preventive car maintenance, gas to travel 880 miles, packing material, and 2 months worth of rent for the bedroom.

I would be more than happy to help you in exchange for helping me. I have experience with general office work including MS Word: documentation, proof reading, editing, research, and data extraction; Excel workbooks: charts, tables, bookkeeping, and data entry.

d.k.schae@myself.com

Needing To Move For Better Opportunities

Posted by DKSchae on 2011-08-31 09:58:37

Hello, my boyfriend and I need to move from Fort Lauderdale to Tennessee by November of 2011. I have been unemployed since January 2009 and have had some temp jobs and interviews, but no permanent hiring. It’s very hard down here and not getting any better in South Florida. I have also been making clay jewelry pieces to sale but it isn’t bringing in enough income to support the cost of living in South Florida.

We have a relative willing to let us move in as long as we pay rent for 1 bedroom and help her with her baby. She even has a job opening for me which I will definitely take. However, given current financial issues we can barely make the move. We need an estimate of $2,000 to pay for preventive car maintenance, gas to travel 880 miles, packing material, and 2 months worth of rent for the bedroom.

I would be more than happy to help you in exchange for helping me. I have experience with general office work including MS Word: documentation, proof reading, editing, research, and data extraction; Excel workbooks: charts, tables, bookkeeping, and data entry.

Help!!! Outstanding House Rent!!!

Posted by cheekywon on 2011-06-24 01:58:05

I am not paying my house rent for seven month!!! Please help me settle my debt!!! It cost me USD1750 (USD250 a month). Please...Please...Please....


MY LAST PLEAD

Hello… my husband and I really need money to settle down all our debt. My college loan has reached USD29,000, my personal bank loan has reached USD45,450! For my husband his car loan has reached USD18,200. Our old house is going to collapse because of the termites. We need USD45,450 to build a new one. Not only that actually the land we build the house is not us but we rent the land! If only we could buy the land, it will cost USD100,000! We still have not paid our bills. We have received the warning letter for settling the bills, or they will cut all the services. My husband still has not paid the debt to the landlords that sum to USD2000. I still owe USD3000 from my relative. my husband and I did not pay enough to eat! We only use our salaries for petrol, milk for our baby, and disposable diapers for our children. We owe each month just for a little food. All that total up to USD153,100. If only 153,100 noble persons donate us a dollar all our debt will settle down and our dream will come true! And more other 846,900 kind hearted persons donate us a dollar we will be a millionaire!! WILL MY DREAM COME TRUE???

I'm not asking for much...

Posted by Faerie on 2011-05-27 00:58:20

so, it's rare when i ask for help... but i need help, very real help.

i have to be in salamanca, ny before june 21st...

the reason for my needing to be in salamanca is because i need to check in with my tribe, the seneca iroquois indians...

i've been obtaining annuities for my tribe all of my life, and the check-ins are a more recent requirement that they've asked for,mostly to know that i'm alive and that i am who i say i am and not some relative claiming to be me... and in order to continue receiving, i have to show up... i've tried to explain my situation to my parents and asking them for help, but all i get out of them about it is "well, you need to get out there so you can keep getting them" and "good luck with that"... which really gets me nowhere and put's me in a pickle.

after i do this check in, i shouldn't need to do something like this ever again, so what i'm asking for is money for gas and lodging... and i think $500 should be enough, if not more than enough, to cover the cost of gas, food and lodging, but i'm not asking for all of it at once... i just need to come up with that amount BEFORE the 21st of next month

believe it or not, when i was homeless i hated asking for spare change to feed myself... and i hate having to do this now, i really wish i didn't have to do this, but after this i intend on being more responsible about my money and not spending it on silly and unnecessary items. getting the $500.00 that i need for this very last minuet and unexpected trip would bring me such joy, and it would also allow me to put myself through a crash course of "real world financial responsibility 101", which is a "class that i would love to take at this point.... please help me get to my tribal destination.

:) thank you so much for your help and aid in my time of need.

I'm not asking for much...

Posted by Faerie on 2011-05-22 20:58:43

so, it's rare when i ask for help... but i need help, very real help.

i have to be in salamanca, ny before june 21st...

the reason for my needing to be in salamanca is because i need to check in with my tribe, the seneca iroquois indians...

i've been obtaining annuities for my tribe all of my life, and the check-ins are a more recent requirement that they've asked for,mostly to know that i'm alive and that i am who i say i am and not some relative claiming to be me... and in order to continue receiving, i have to show up... i've tried to explain my situation to my parents and asking them for help, but all i get out of them about it is "well, you need to get out there so you can keep getting them" and "good luck with that"... which really gets me nowhere and put's me in a pickle.

after i do this check in, i shouldn't need to do something like this ever again, so what i'm asking for is money for gas and lodging... and i think $500 should be enough, if not more than enough, to cover the cost of gas, food and lodging, but i'm not asking for all of it at once... i just need to come up with that amount BEFORE the 21st of next month

believe it or not, when i was homeless i hated asking for spare change to feed myself... and i hate having to do this now, i really wish i didn't have to do this, but after this i intend on being more responsible about my money and not spending it on silly and unnecessary items. getting the $500.00 that i need for this very last minuet and unexpected trip would bring me such joy, and it would also allow me to put myself through a crash course of "real world financial responsibility 101", which is a "class that i would love to take at this point.... please help me get to my tribal destination.

:) thank you so much for your help and aid in my time of need.

what's the point???

Posted by cheekywon on 2011-05-21 06:58:38

I have post a plea a month ago but I received no donation. But I already realize that no one are going to help. Because they think we just a lazy bump and a loooooser. So I have to borrow some money again... and my debt increased again.... our pay do not left any penny and we live in miserable again. But thank you to BegsList anyway. Who cares to donate us?

My last begslit

Hello… my husband and I really need money to settle down all our debt. My college loan has reached USD29,000, my personal bank loan has reached USD45,450! For my husband his car loan has reached USD18,200. Our old house is going to collapse because of the termites. We need USD45,450 to build a new one. Not only that actually the land we build the house is not us but we rent the land! If only we could buy the land, it will cost USD100,000! We still have not paid our bills. We have received the warning letter for settling the bills, or they will cut all the services. My husband still has not paid the debt to the landlords that sum to USD2000. I still owe USD3000 from my relative. my husband and I did not pay enough to eat! We only use our salaries for petrol, milk for our baby, and disposable diapers for our children. We owe each month just for a little food. All that total up to USD153,100. If only 153,100 noble persons donate us a dollar all our debt will settle down and our dream will come true! And more other 846,900 kind hearted persons donate us a dollar we will be a millionaire!! WILL MY DREAM COME TRUE???

WE WILL DIE IF WE DOESN’T SETTLE DOWN OUR DEBT!!!

Posted by cheekywon on 2011-05-07 10:58:00

Hello… my husband and I really need money to settle down all our debt. My college loan has reached USD29,000, my personal bank loan has reached USD45,450! For my husband his car loan has reached USD18,200. Our old house is going to collapse because of the termites. We need USD45,450 to build a new one. Not only that actually the land we build the house is not us but we rent the land! If only we could buy the land, it will cost USD100,000! We still have not paid our bills. We have received the warning letter for settling the bills, or they will cut all the services. My husband still has not paid the debt to the landlords that sum to USD2000. I still owe USD3000 from my relative. my husband and I did not pay enough to eat! We only use our salaries for petrol, milk for our baby, and disposable diapers for our children. We owe each month just for a little food. All that total up to USD153,100. If only 153,100 noble persons donate us a dollar all our debt will settle down and our dream will come true! And more other 846,900 kind hearted persons donate us a dollar we will be a millionaire!! WILL MY DREAM COME TRUE???

WE WILL DIE IF WE DOESN’T SETTLE DOWN OUR DEBT!!!

Posted by cheekywon on 2011-05-07 09:58:56

Hello… my husband and I really need money to settle down all our debt. My college loan has reached USD29,000, my personal bank loan has reached USD45,450! For my husband his car loan has reached USD18,200. Our old house is going to collapse because of the termites. We need USD45,450 to build a new one. Not only that actually the land we build the house is not us but we rent the land! If only we could buy the land, it will cost USD100,000! We still have not paid our bills. We have received the warning letter for settling the bills, or they will cut all the services. My husband still has not paid the debt to the landlords that sum to USD2000. I still owe USD3000 from my relative. my husband and I did not pay enough to eat! We only use our salaries for petrol, milk for our baby, and disposable diapers for our children. We owe each month just for a little food. All that total up to USD153,100. If only 153,100 noble persons donate us a dollar all our debt will settle down and our dream will come true! And more other 846,900 kind hearted persons donate us a dollar we will be a millionaire!! WILL MY DREAM COME TRUE???

WE WILL DIE IF WE DOESN’T SETTLE DOWN OUR DEBT!!!

Posted by cheekywon on 2011-05-07 08:58:35

Hello… my husband and I really need money to settle down all our debt. My college loan has reached USD29,000, my personal bank loan has reached USD45,450! For my husband his car loan has reached USD18,200. Our old house is going to collapse because of the termites. We need USD45,450 to build a new one. Not only that actually the land we build the house is not us but we rent the land! If only we could buy the land, it will cost USD100,000! We still have not paid our bills. We have received the warning letter for settling the bills, or they will cut all the services. My husband still has not paid the debt to the landlords that sum to USD2000. I still owe USD3000 from my relative. my husband and I did not pay enough to eat! We only use our salaries for petrol, milk for our baby, and disposable diapers for our children. We owe each month just for a little food. All that total up to USD153,100. If only 153,100 noble persons donate us a dollar all our debt will settle down and our dream will come true! And more other 846,900 kind hearted persons donate us a dollar we will be a millionaire!! WILL MY DREAM COME TRUE???

We Are Drowning In A Flood Of Debt!

Posted by cheekywon on 2011-05-07 08:58:17

Hello… my husband and I really need money to settle down all our debt. My college loan has reached USD29,000, my personal bank loan has reached USD45,450! For my husband his car loan has reached USD18,200. Our old house is going to collapse because of the termites. We need USD45,450 to build a new one. Not only that actually the land we build the house is not us but we rent the land! If only we could buy the land, it will cost USD100,000! We still have not paid our bills. We have received the warning letter for settling the bills, or they will cut all the services. My husband still has not paid the debt to the landlords that sum to USD2000. I still owe USD3000 from my relative. my husband and I did not pay enough to eat! We only use our salaries for petrol, milk for our baby, and disposable diapers for our children. We owe each month just for a little food. All that total up to USD153,100. If only 153,100 noble persons donate us a dollar all our debt will settle down and our dream will come true! And more other 846,900 kind hearted persons donate us a dollar we will be a millionaire!! WILL MY DREAM COME TRUE???

2nd Chance A Charm

Posted by Aelek on 2011-05-04 14:58:34

Hello, I have just recently medically retired from the Marine Corps after 13 years of faithful service. I am a mother, a wife, a daughter, a sister and a friend. However lately, with all the changes I have had to endure, I have felt invisible. I injured my back during martial arts training and didnt seek the medical attention I needed until it was too late. I had even gotten to half way of my Marine Corps Marathon training but had to stop due to numbness and tingling in the feet. Once I finally did try to get the medical attention I needed, I was told I had a somatoform disorder, which means the pain is all in my head and not in my body at all. After seeing a Navy shrink I was told I had a personality disorder and he submitted a Administrative discharge request to my Commanding Officer, I was devastated. I loved the Marine Corps and everything that came with it. I had no intentions of leaving it and only wanted to get better and seek proper care. Instead of getting the help I needed medically, I had to fight to keep my career and lively hood. After further tests, I was diagnosed with Fibromyalgia, a pinched nerve, carpal tunnel in both wrists and buldging discs. I had to be seperated medically. Depression is not even close to the word to describe what I fell into. My goal-dream was to be a Drill Instuctor, fight a good fight over seas and put in 20 years. In the blink of an eye it was all gone. Now I had to let go of my aspirations of what could have been and now try to figure out what I was good for now. A little bit about my self:I was raised in Austin, Texas by my maternal grandparents, left by my biological mother at 15 days old on Christmas Day 1975. I endured a strict upbringing and borderline abuse, much due to my grandmother’s fear of becoming my "mothers, daughter". I have never known who my father is and doubt he knows I even exist. I had been the witness and the victim of neglect and child abuse by my mother who was and is still heavily into alcohol and drugs. She had two more daughters in which I helped raise up until they were left in another state with relatives. It was then that I left to the Marine Corps at the age of 19, mostly to find myself and forget myself. During one tour in California, I was made aware that one of my sisters, 7 years my junior, was in need of my help due to abuse from the relative she was left with. An uncle who had abused her from the age of 6 until she was 12. I took emergency leave and went to get her, I already married with a newborn, and I knew I had to lend a hand and help. The abuse and trauma was too severe and the state of California took custody of her after a failed suicide attempt in her high school. I continued my military service until I received yet another call, this time for my youngest sister, 12 years my junior, was in states custody and if I could provide a stable home for her. I was now a single mother of a 4 year old and still an active duty Marine, but again, could not turn my back on the need she had. I put in the time and the effort, attending family counseling 5hours away and meeting with doctors and lawyers to get the process started to get her into a stable situation. Finally at the age of 14 she was placed with me and I was granted custody. I enrolled her in to high school and away we went onward and upward in our life. It was not close to "traditional" but we had each other and that was more than what most have. I received orders to Japan for 3 years accompanied and although I had reservations about the huge change I took it in stride. I had pleaded my case to the Marines about staying until my sister graduated in 2years but at the need of the Corps I was sent anyway. In Japan, after only being there for about 6months, my sister started to self mutilate again. With that the military sent me back to my previous base and committed her to a hospital immediately. After a 30 day stay and with support and guidance she eventually got to a place where she could receive the help she needed to heal. She graduated from high school and is now in the medical field working full time and engaged. After that chapter closed the new one with my medical mishaps in the Corps started full force. I am not one to really get or ask for help, and have been in the business of giving but I am hoping now in the oddest of places, maybe I can, with my story inspire someone to pay it forward and lend a hand. I thank any donation and appreciate any amounts. I am trying to start my own resale shop online and hope with some assistance I can get to a better place in my life as sometimes the future seems real dim. Thank you in advance and God bless.

In need of money before Eviction-By a family Member

Posted by KrymsonKitty on 2011-04-28 17:58:30

Our family of 5 has just been told that the owner of our house, my uncle, wants to sell it. In other words, he wants to evict us. We now have no where to go and our bills are rising. With 3 children, we are much in need of help. It's now this desperate that we turned to the internet and strangers for help since our own blood relative decides to evict us. Any help you can give is wonderful, be it .01$ or 1.00$