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Dayton Smith needs an operation to his shoulder. The hospital refuses to do the work unless he can pay.
Local church raised $4,000 of the $20,000 needed.
He can't get a good job with one arm.
He has 3 kids and a wife at home and on food stamps. The bank wants to take the house. The roof leaks.
The eldest son is in the military training for middle east duty.
His aunt's phone: 1-269-352-6470
63694 Peck Acd. Rd.
Constantine, MI 49042
Thank You and May Jesus Bless

My daughter and i have recently had to move out of our marrital home; leaving our worldly possesions, due to mental and physical abuse. Trying to find work has been a nightmare, due to the fact that for the last 17yrs i have only worked for my husband who refuses to give us any references or financial help unless we return. At the moment we are living in rented accommodation, living from day-to-day on very little savings in a catch 22 situation. If anyone can help with a job or donations it would be very much appreciated. I have had Hodgkins Lymphoma in the past which has left my mobility not at its best, some days are good some not, so part-time work is preferable but i am willing to try anything as beggers can't be choosers. Thanks for taking the time to listen.

I am a single mom trying to take care of a son who has a mental disability, and trying to keep another son in college..thier father refuses to be a part of thier lives..In June of 2010, the man I loved and planned on spending the rest of my life with passed away with bone cancer. I was his primary care giver. We thought we had more time to put things in order, but time ran out quicker than we thought.He was my support, mentally and financially. When he was in the hospital, dying, his family made me leave his house, which he had told me I could stay in,,but since the wedding had not taken place yet(wedding date was in July and he passed in June) I had no say so..ever since I have been struggling to keep afloat, taking care of endless hospital stays with my oldest son,and trying to pay for his medicine and trying to keep my youngest in school so he can have
a future.I've barley made the bills,but am finally to the point of my utilities being cut off, and haven't been to the grocery store in over a month. Please someone find it in thier heart to help me get on level ground..I work for the American Red Cross, 60 hrs a week, but just isn't enough lately.I found an in home business that could bring me more income,doing marketing, but to make it work, I need about 2000 to gain traffic..All I want to do is keep us going, my boys depend on me, I'm all they have..
Could someone please help me? Anything would be so much appreciated..
thank you,
huggie

My dog Monty is a 10 year old Lhasa Apsos. He's a very healthy dog but unfortuantly is suffering from an immense build up of plaque on his teeth, this has caused further ulcers in his mouth which have burst and bled a great amount! Because of the pain that he is in, he has become very grumpy and grouchy not to mention the smell that comes from his rotting gums. The procedure for him to have the plaque removed will cost £250, my mum sadly can't afford to help him since we are struggling already, I have offered to pay with birthday money but she refuses to take it.
I'm not sure how this site works but I came across it and thought it would be worth a try in order to help my little dog!
Every little helps, even a small donation of 20p would count and we would be so grateful! Thank you!

I split from my ex-wife after finding ouot she cheated on me. We have 3 kids. After the split she refused to let me see the kids. I had to fight her at court. It cost me more than $30,000. I found out she racked up debts on the credit card too. Sometimes she still refuses to let me see the kids but I don't have any money to keep going to court. If I could get some money to pay off my debts I might be able to fight to see my kids more. Thanks to anyone who might be able to help.

I was only sixteen when my mother was diagnosed with Alzheimer's. She was 52. As if Alzheimer's was not unfortunate enough, early onset occurs at a much faster rate than Alzheimer's in an elderly patient. My mother's condition has progressed to the point that she requires a full time chaperone. I am currently 21 and a full time college student seeking a degree in biology and while I would love to assist my family more, my studies often take up the majority of my time. My dad, a nurse, recognizes the importance of a college education and refuses to let me drop out and find a job and help out my mom. Due to the cost of my education and my mom's medical bills, we are having a tough time finding enough money to hire someone to assist my mom while my dad is at work. I am an only child and it seems much of my extended family has turned their back on us.
My dad would kill me if he knew I was doing this and I hate to beg, but I am not sure what else to do. We need help. I can't stand to see my dad so stressed out. He is a champ and, outwardly, he shoulders life's burdens with such grace. I don't want monetary stresses to rob me of the only thing I have left of my little family and I want my dad to be able to retire one day.

Thank you so much for taking the time to read this. Truly, anything helps.
Be well.

Hello thank you for taking time to read my entry. I'm a teen in my last year in high school. My father left when I was born and my mother has abused me growing up. I have no siblings, no friends and in my eyes at least, no family. I currently live with just my mother and we have a horrible relationship. Every day I'm bullied by her either calling me too skinny( i'm 5
3 and 117 pounds) or saying that I'm useless, that I'm stupid or that I was a mistake that ruined her life. My most recent problem is that college applications are rolling in and she refuses to help me with anything financially. I've tried looking for jobs but every time I get an interview she forbids me from going because she doesn't want me to work. I refuse to stay at home all my life and never get an education and I don't want to go out selling drugs or robbing people in order to get money. I have no other relative in America to help me and if my father had a million dollars he wouldn't loan me a penny. This problem amongst others have made me very depressed with life. I know they say money can't buy you happiness but if I had enough money to pay for college so I can better my future I would be a lot happier right now. I don't ask for hundreds of dollars whatever you have even one dollar can get me that much closer to a better future. Thank you again for taking your time out to read this. Have a nice day.

Hello thank you for taking time to read my entry. I'm a teen in my last year in high school. My father left when I was born and my mother has abused me growing up. I have no siblings, no friends and in my eyes at least, no family. I currently live with just my mother and we have a horrible relationship. Every day I'm bullied by her either calling me too skinny( i'm 5
3 and 117 pounds) or saying that I'm useless, that I'm stupid or that I was a mistake that ruined her life. My most recent problem is that college applications are rolling in and she refuses to help me with anything financially. I've tried looking for jobs but every time I get an interview she forbids me from going because she doesn't want me to work. I refuse to stay at home all my life and never get an education and I don't want to go out selling drugs or robbing people in order to get money. I have no other relative in America to help me and if my father had a million dollars he wouldn't loan me a penny. This problem amongst others have made me very depressed with life. I know they say money can't buy you happiness but if I had enough money to pay for college so I can better my future I would be a lot happier right now. I don't ask for hundreds of dollars whatever you have even one dollar can get me that much closer to a better future. Thank you again for taking your time out to read this. Have a nice day.

Hello thank you for taking time to read my entry. I'm a teen in my last year in high school. My father left when I was born and my mother has abused me growing up. I have no siblings, no friends and in my eyes at least, no family. I currently live with just my mother and we have a horrible relationship. Every day I'm bullied by her either calling me too skinny( i'm 5
3 and 117 pounds) or saying that I'm useless, that I'm stupid or that I was a mistake that ruined her life. My most recent problem is that college applications are rolling in and she refuses to help me with anything financially. I've tried looking for jobs but every time I get an interview she forbids me from going because she doesn't want me to work. I refuse to stay at home all my life and never get an education and I don't want to go out selling drugs or robbing people in order to get money. I have no other relative in America to help me and if my father had a million dollars he wouldn't loan me a penny. This problem amongst others have made me very depressed with life. I know they say money can't buy you happiness but if I had enough money to pay for college so I can better my future I would be a lot happier right now. I don't ask for hundreds of dollars whatever you have even one dollar can get me that much closer to a better future. Thank you again for taking your time out to read this. Have a nice day.

Hey everyone...My unemployment has run-out and I can not pay my mortgage. I held the same job for over 8 years and was laid-off . I am 46 years old and have had interviews with many companies each week but they haven't hired me. I don't get it except that I am over 40 and gay thus I know that is part of the reason why they would rather go with a 22 year-old they can pay less.I have worked since I was 12 and I have never been in this situation. The mortgage company refuses to help and I am scared for the animals I support .Please help me save Xmas and my house.. donate today..I am so scared...

To anyone who is reading this....THANK YOU for taking the time to read this post. I have been financially independent and on my own since I was 17yrs old. I have never been one to look for a hand-out. Recently I became very ill, it was sudden and at age 33 it has been difficult. I lost my job because I was too ill to work and now I cannot find new employment...I have tried every Govt. resource possible...I do not know what to do. I have one day now to come up with $850 for rent or my landlord will start eviction and will follow through. He told me last month that he does not want anyone living here who cannot pay on time. Although I understand his position, I feel he could give me even just two more days. He refuses. If we are evicted, we will have to be out on the 21st of Dec, based on a court date of one week from tomorrow- Dec. 9, and a five day to pay or quit which the judge will surely grant him, I know he will not except from me after tomorrow. I have a 6yr old daughter and an 11 yr old son who are unaware of this dire situation. I do not have anywhere for us to stay. We will lose everything not to mention...where will Santa come to? Christmas is another issue...but first, we need a secure home. I am willing to work three jobs...I will pay back a loan.... I just need help...PLEASE... I never thought I would have to do something like this...asking strangers for financial help... I pray that some kind human with the means will read this and work with me...You literally could be saving 3 lives...If you cannot help, thank you anyway and god bless xoxo mlt328@yahoo.com

I'm a 29 year old full-time single mother, employee, and student. I have two children and currently take care of my sister and her two kids. Its been a struggle on me and I try to stretch my money as far as I can but it's not enough. I don't get or qualify for any assistance except child support and my children's father refuses to pay. I am at my lowest right now and need help desperately. It's so bad that I've contemplated suicide because I think my children would be better off. I have tested positive for cervical cancer and don't even have the extra to cover medical care. But I know that if something happens my children will be fine with my insurance. I'm stressed with no hope. I go days without eating so that everyone else can. I don't know how much more I can go through.

It is too much to bear. I sold my home under contract to a black woman who turned out to be lying crack head. She refuses to pay me the 6,700 she owes me. I am so poor I cannot afford to file in court the 147.00 needed to go to small claims. Also the mobile home I purchased has 2 rooms gutted and unfinished. I need the bedrooms to have floors and walls. I have a 21 year old son with autism and get no help at all from county or social work, etc. I'm also trying to make my home suitable and finished so my granddaughter can come live with me. Her parents are neglecting her and I need a suitable room for her to live in. The home I sold was fixed by me and husband. We invested money so we could get a few thousand but we got nothing! We moved into the mobile home we reside in now but since the "buyers" have not paid, we are unable to finance any fixing the house desperately needs. Also, my husbands car dealership mechani's job got axed and he is looking for ful-time work. I was just given a job after neing out of work with uterine/ovarian cancer and heart surgeries for 5 years. We could really use a donated automobile, and the $6,700 that our "buyers" owe us. We can pay back if and when the judge awards it. We have real estate contract proving that they bought and they are clearly in default. We have always been hard-working people. I need a car to get to work now so I can earn custody of my granddaughter from her unfit father.Please call Kim Freeman at 610-703-1452 if you can donate a vehicle that runs well and any money at all.

I don't really know how to start this. It's such a different concept. I guess I'll just get to the nitty gritty of our situation...

My soon-to-be ex-husband cheated on me for 3 years at least 9 different times. At first I was in denial about his double life, but eventually I came to terms with it and just decided to try to stick it out a bit longer for the sake of my stepkids. They moved here from England in 2007 and I've been raising them since then. They're 17 and 19, and I was trying to wait till they both graduated high school before filing for divorce. I also have a 2 year old with him. I kept his infidelity a secret and carried the burden on my own, not even telling my family, until...the kids found texts in his phone last June to the woman who is now his fiance. In June I had to call the police because he nearly got into a fistfight with my stepson and physically got into my face as well, plus he told all of us that he was going to kill himself, but this has become a frequent ploy for manipulation by him. I have been primarily a stay-at-home mom the past 2 years bringing in only a few hundred a month. He was the primary breadwinner bringing home $4000-5000 a month. He moved out and moved in with this woman a block away from us, has not spent more than 5 hours with any of the kids since June, and refuses to provide any child support for any of the kids aside from paying the health insurance (which his work pays for), paying his car insurance, and only recently giving his 17 year old a few hundred dollars a month which she has to save for her bills too. I have been forced to figure out how to make ends meet and raise and support the kids on my own. I love my stepkids and happily will continue raising them and figuring it all out, working what I can and taking loans from whoever is willing to help. It's just really stressful and really tough right now.

I knew I was headed to a divorce, but I had no idea he would just abandon all of us completely like he has. And to top it all off, he has become very psychologically and emotionally abusive towards me and even sometimes towards the kids. Oh yeah, he also had no sense of self-control as far as spending goes, and he ballooned our debt up to almost $50,000, though some of that is medical debt as well. I'm facing divorce and bankruptcy on my own with 3 kids. As I type this I don't even know how I hold it together, but I've managed to. I'm healing and getting stronger and more able to put the pieces back together for the kids and I, but this is a BIG hole we're in, trying to escape, and it may be embarrassing to admit as an educated individual who never thought I'd be in these shoes, but I need help. If you are willing to help us, we would really appreciate it and it would truly make a huge difference in our lives. This feels so bizarre asking for help online like this, but I think it's an awesome way to really be able to help those in need. I'm glad I found it so that we too will be able to help others who need it most. In the meantime, thank you again for all your help at this extremely difficult, stressful and emotionally taxing time. You have no idea how much it helps knowing that people you don't even know care about if you and your kids are going to be okay. From the bottom of my heart, thank you.

my name is alex, im 18 years old and recently made a bad decision and got in trouble with the courts. i have a $325 fine i have to pay. i have saved up 50. my dad was going to help me pay it but he just lost his job. i am leaving for college in a month and half and noone will hire me for a short time. my mom kicked me out of her house 5 years ago and refuses to help me out at all. Im not a scam artist or bullshitting anyone. i am desperate i need help. if there is anyone out there who would be willing to donate any small amount of money to my paypal that would be probally the coolest thing you could ever do please. i know its my responsibility and i have to face consequences but i really need help please help me. my paypal email is ajzfern@aol.com seriously if you help me that would be the coolest thing ever please help me thank you

my name is alex, im 18 years old and recently made a bad decision and got in trouble with the courts. i have a $325 fine i have to pay. i have saved up 50. my dad was going to help me pay it but he just lost his job. i am leaving for college in a month and half and noone will hire me for a short time. my mom kicked me out of her house 5 years ago and refuses to help me out at all. Im not a scam artist or bullshitting anyone. i am desperate i need help. if there is anyone out there who would be willing to donate any small amount of money to my paypal that would be probally the coolest thing you could ever do please. i know its my responsibility and i have to face consequences but i really need help please help me. my paypal email is ajzfern@aol.com seriously if you help me that would be the coolest thing ever please help me thank you

my name is alex, im 18 years old and recently made a bad decision and got in trouble with the courts. i have a $325 fine i have to pay. i have saved up 50. my dad was going to help me pay it but he just lost his job. i am leaving for college in a month and half and noone will hire me for a short time. my mom kicked me out of her house 5 years ago and refuses to help me out at all. Im not a scam artist or bullshitting anyone. i am desperate i need help. if there is anyone out there who would be willing to donate any small amount of money to my paypal that would be probally the coolest thing you could ever do please. i know its my responsibility and i have to face consequences but i really need help please help me. my paypal email is ajzfern@aol.com seriously if you help me that would be the coolest thing ever please help me thank you

my name is alex, im 18 years old and recently made a bad decision and got in trouble with the courts. i have a $325 fine i have to pay. i have saved up 50. my dad was going to help me pay it but he just lost his job. i am leaving for college in a month and half and noone will hire me for a short time. my mom kicked me out of her house 5 years ago and refuses to help me out at all. Im not a scam artist or bullshitting anyone. i am desperate i need help. if there is anyone out there who would be willing to donate any small amount of money to my paypal that would be probally the coolest thing you could ever do please. i know its my responsibility and i have to face consequences but i really need help please help me. my paypal email is ajzfern@aol.com seriously if you help me that would be the coolest thing ever please help me thank you

I need help! I have no other people to turn to. I want to go to college. I want a better life, and a stable career not a day in and day out job. This recession is doing nothing but breaking me down for money I don't have. In so much debt, and my car is broke down and can not afford to take it to the shop right now. My mom refuses to help me because she is just as broke as me. I am 22 and really do not want to wait till I am 24 to pick up going to college for a career in computer science and technology!!!

I have been staring at this blank computer screen for almost 2 hours, Thinking to myself that this is crazy... Seeing how many people, families and friends are having it so hard out here just trying to make ends meet. Sadly this does include myself.. Now please do not get me wrong, I have always been in debt due to medical bills from me not having any insurance, But once I was finally able to get medical insurance during open enrollment through my job I still had to focus on my most importannt bills such as rent and food. However me being unable to pay my medical bills have drastically affected my credit(average of 506) and trust me I am content with that and I will continue to work hard and finish school so that I can work towards paying them back and improving my credit over time. The hardest thing that hit me and the reason for my reaching out to you all is the sudden loss of my grandmother. She was very ill with lung cancer and the insurance companies hardly gave my mother and i enough money on the policy to pay for her funeral cost because of the fact that she got the insurance after she was terminally ill. Me and my mother in fact had to pay almost $2000 in addition to what the insurance company paid just to lay her to rest. This event happening put me behind because I really didnt have the money to spend for the arrangments but I did what I could. Now I'm just trying to catch up. I do currently work part time but I'm barely making over minimum wage and the company I am working for refuses to give the employees any more than 26 hours per week. I have paystubs, credit statements, and bills to prove everything I'm putting out there is the truth. I honestly do not care about any of my other bills at all my main concern is doing everything I can to get my rent current. I have managed to collect a bit over half but I am still short by $500. Any help would be greatly appreciated from the bottom of my heart and may God bless you.

I am not asking for much. I am a teenage girl whose mom is mentallyand physically abusive, she refuses to buy me clothes even if I do everything perfect for her . Right now I have about 3 or 4 outfits . Just need some money or donations of clothing.

Shirt- L or XL
Cotton shorts/Lounge pants - L or XL
Jeans - Juniors 18

Things have gone just horribly for my boyfriend and I this winter. It has been an absolute NIGHTMARE so far.

FIRST, the truck we rely on for transportation to our jobs and school needed it's engine replaced due to a blown head gasket. When we put in the new engine (well..used, from a part's truck), it worked great, for a little while, then the transmission started... and we had to shift back and forth between drive and second gear on the highway....this didn't work out to our advantage for long and it now sits in a driveway of our friends uninsured and unregistered (we lost our jobs because of this!!!!! Paying for school AND the new engine took pretty much all of our money)... We both had to stop going to school... we could no longer pay our rent, so we moved into a tent in our friend's yard and other people who COULD pay moved into our home of 2 years... It's been only 3 months now...and has felt like TEN YEARS. I don't know what to do anymore. My boyfriend REFUSES to go to a shelter and I don't want to leave his side. We have a propane heater that keeps us warm and many layers of clothing. Occaisionally we are able to stay at friend's houses, but I just moved here so I don't really know many people. I feel like I am going to have a nervous breakdown sometimes. Some days I just cry and cry.. All this trouble because of our CAR and not having much money in the bank!!!!! Shows how quickly things can change!

PLEASE HELP! We will be forever appreciative!

Sincerely,
Jennifer

Things have gone just horribly for my boyfriend and I this winter. It has been an absolute NIGHTMARE so far.

FIRST, the truck we rely on for transportation to our jobs and school needed it's engine replaced due to a blown head gasket. When we put in the new engine (well..used, from a part's truck), it worked great, for a little while, then the transmission started... and we had to shift back and forth between drive and second gear on the highway....this didn't work out to our advantage for long and it now sits in a driveway of our friends uninsured and unregistered (we lost our jobs because of this!!!!! Paying for school AND the new engine took pretty much all of our money)... We both had to stop going to school... we could no longer pay our rent, so we moved into a tent in our friend's yard and other people who COULD pay moved into our home of 2 years... It's been only 3 months now...and has felt like TEN YEARS. I don't know what to do anymore. My boyfriend REFUSES to go to a shelter and I don't want to leave his side. We have a propane heater that keeps us warm and many layers of clothing. Occaisionally we are able to stay at friend's houses, but I just moved here so I don't really know many people. I feel like I am going to have a nervous breakdown sometimes. Some days I just cry and cry.. All this trouble because of our CAR and not having much money in the bank!!!!! Shows how quickly things can change!

PLEASE HELP! We will be forever appreciative!

Sincerely,
Jennifer

I just heard about this site through a friend he suggested we try it. It is probably our last result so my sister, and I giving it a honest attempt. My father was raise in the worst streets of New York, he is 58 years old. All my life I was always shocked to see how many people knew him, and loved him, then I realized why. My fathers will give you the shirt off his back. My father has been a volunteer EMT, volunteer hospital worker, volunteer police community board member, and others. All his life he gave and gave. A few years ago we were told that my father had 3 to five years to live. He had just loan money to a family member (who never paid back) and now he needed the money to save his ow life. The family business he has worked so hard to leave to his grandchildren began to fail, so did his health. He refuses to give up, and says he will did for what he believes in and thats leaving the business profitable for his grandchildren. My dad can't even sleep at night worrying, and worrying but refuses to give up, or even cry, but we know that he is carrying a tremendous amount of sorrow, and pain, He feels he has failed us, and although t we try to assure him that he means more to us then a business he still won't change. If we do not get the funds to pay off the hospital bills, the business bills, and get him coverage he would die an unhappy man, and he does not deserve that. He has made so many smile, fix so many lives, and even saved three lives at different times, and now he can't save his own. I never begged anyone before, but I proudly am doing it now. My father wrote a book that is targeted at our young men, and women of today who are on drugs, in gangs and in the streets. The book has helped many, but most of the book he has given away to them. If you met father you would love him. You will see how real, and full of love he is, and I need him around I need to continue to look at him and say I love you pops. Please help this dying family...please

Hi I am a Single Mom of two Wonderful Boys ages 8 and 10.My 8 year old has severe asthma and is on a breathing machine.I just received a disconnect notice on my Electric/Heating bill today.It is due for shut off on Jan.17th.I have no way to come up with the money by then.I receive Social Security myself,and My ex refuses to pay child support and I am really struggling right now.I don't like asking people for help because I have always stood on my own 2 feet.A friend of mine told me about this site and at this point I am really desperate.It's still Cold outside and I heart with electric.And my son HAS to have his breathing machine and again runs on electric.Without my electric so much can go wrong.I have tried my family and was told no.I even tried to work something out with the electric company and that did not work either.Please can some one please help us!!!