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Dumped Dad
Posted by dumpeddad on 2012-05-24 10:58:50
During the first few days I didn't work, too busy trying to piece together what had gone on and why and how it had come to this right under my nose. The rent still needed to be paid, even though the house was unfurnished and too big for me alone. I was (and still am) locked into the lease! Problem number one.
Problem number two is rather more complex. Last Friday I received two letters. The first from a solicitor (our version of what you would call a lawyer) informing me of divorce proceedings and the second was sent a letter from the Child Support Agency informing me my wife is seeking child support payments from me. Now, I'm no deadbeat dad! I think all parents should pay for their children's needs but here I am - rent on a house I don't need, no furniture (some friends have lent me a TV and cooking utensils and a couch), no money to contest the proceedings and on top of that she wants me to pay child support while she's shacked up and living a 'normal' life with my boys, whom I haven't seen since.
I've seen a solicitor who advised me he wouldn't bill me for the first meeting - we talked about the situation, and what he could do from here... It requires more than I have, to achieve what I want and what I think is fair! All I want to do is split our assets 60/40 her favour (she has the kids). Get out of this lease that I'm legally locked into, and get shared custody of my beautiful little boys. Problem is she has the assets and without a court order to either return a portion to me or divest herself of some of the assets so I can be compensated, I can't pay a solicitor and barrister to get the money to do all this. Once it's all settled I'll happily pay my child support requirements, see my boys and leave her out of my life, seeing that's what she wants.
My solicitor has told me I could be up for as much as $10,000, but $6000 should be a good starting point. His firm wont proceed without knowing they'll be paid - fair enough, but what's a man to do in this situation?
I am literally begging for $6000. I haven't wanted for anything in my life - I've always worked and worked hard for what I had, but when it's all taken away from you, you realise how vulnerable we all are. I'm pledging that whatever I receive from this site that's not used in the case, I will pay forward, to another needy soul from this site. Please help... My heart and thanks, and that of my boys will go out to you.
Update: 6th Jan 2012. I've managed to get the proceedings heard at a later date, due to my personal situation. But nothing has changed. I still don't have the funds to fight this and to date not one response to my plea for help. I'm begging - literally for some assistance. I haven't seen my boys since December and I can't fight this without your help.
Update: 25th May 2012
I have nothing to fight her with. No funds, no will and no motivation. The house has been re-leased and the owner has started legal proceedings against me, I have nothing but what she left me. I am trying my hardest to provide some money for my two kids - that I haven't seen since December. I can't go on like this. No-one can!
Donations to help a family in need!!
Posted by Mothermaid1 on 2012-05-23 10:58:20
$250 WILL MAKE MY DAY A LUCKY DAY!!!
Posted by mwq19 on 2012-05-22 15:58:54
Straightforward request, no drama, no B.S. You see exactly for what your money will be used! What I need? Money for my car insurance and to bring my phone bill current (car & phone necessary for WORK).
PLEASE NOTE: I DO NOT qualify for any free cell phone or reduced auto insurance programs @ present.
My mini story? Due to a string of financial reversals, I had to give up my home and most of my possessions. No need to say, "It's been rough." However, I've been lucky to land on someone's sofa temporarily.
I'll pay forward your kind contributions to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital in Memphis, TN. Thank you! I do have much in my life for which I am
thankful.
Do You Like Gorgeous Girls?
Posted by tvj411 on 2012-05-22 01:58:20
This is not a joke or scam! I have taken 5 different photos of myself. For each donation confirmed and received, I will send you a photo for a token of my appreciation. I have a photo for each amount received between 5-25$. The higher the donation, the better the photo. Any donation higher than 25$ will receive a photo of me of whatever you want.
When sending a donation through paypal, I will reply to your email address if you leave it. I will even take a photo holding a piece of paper and a thank you note to confirm it is me. THANK you!
https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&hosted_button_id=GFT8F5D8ET7J4
I know God will get me through this....
Posted by smileybegs on 2012-05-16 21:58:37
*our monthly condo maintanence fee of $258.00 for the past 3 months.
*I have a $160.00 car insurance payment due on 6-10-12, this will keep my paid until 10-10-12.
*The divorce attorney is asking for a $2500.00 retainer.
*June health insurance of $555.00.
*The numerous unpaid medical expenses.
I make it happen with the rest of the things my boys and I need. In July of 2012 I will recieve Medicare, since I will then have been on disability for 2 years. I think that will make things somewhat easier on me. As a note, lymphoma is not being treated right now. Thank goodness the nodules have remained stable, though if there is any change I will probably have to start some sort of treatment.
Any kind of help would be greatly appreciated. Since almost dying in 2010, I have a renewed faith in God (though I have always been a believer). I know that God walks beside me and my children and the He watches over us. Prayers to all that are on this site, whether asking for help or giving it.
College student about to be evicted with nowhere to go
Posted by jlm814 on 2012-05-15 21:58:11
I have been living on my own for two years and working very hard (and struggling) to make it. I pay my own car note, insurance, tuition, and every other bill associated with my living expenses. This month, my rent is late and my apartment manager has already filed a notice for eviction. However, she said if I can have it paid before Iâm served the papers, I wonât be evicted.
I have nowhere to go if evicted (besides my car). My friends and family are unable to help because they do not have the financial means to do so. I have pawned everything that the pawn shops will accept and sold everything that I can.
I still need a little over $700 to pay my rent and the late fee.
Even the smallest bit helps.
Thank you so much for your time, consideration, and help.
please help this single mom and pray to be stronger
Posted by twinightraerae on 2012-05-07 23:58:39
difficult. I had a great factory job but was injured on the factory line and fired for it. It has been difficult to find a job that after childcare, I can't earn enough money to pay the bills. Two of my children have special needs, my oldest with her difficulties will be repeating two grades in elementry, !st grade and failing this year, 3rd grade. My second child is mild autistic, and will have to repeat 1st grade. Both children are taken out of the classrooms for resource classes. It has been a while and all of my savings have been used to suport us all.
My x left us in Nov 2006, and we have not seen him since. Years of refusing to pay childsupport and he is 24,000 in arrears, managed to get SSI just for himself, so child support is only $50 a mo and $10 mo to pay back for arrears. I am asking for help so that I can help pay off the growing bills I can't afford anymore. I don't own anything I could sell. I feel as if I am drowning, falling unable to pay surounded with past due notices and collections calls and feel like the end of my rope. Please help, even small amounts in collection are blessings. Thank you for your kindness and generosity!! I am greatful for even someone taking the time to read my note, please if nothing eles take a moment and pray for me to be stronger, I feel so weak and worn out from the long battle to stay afloat. Thank you and god Bless.
Need Help Today w/ Car Note
Posted by uwnix87 on 2012-05-07 07:58:10
My car repoed, wifes car needs motor, refrigerator going out and can soon lose home
Posted by inGodshands on 2012-05-04 15:58:43
I lost my job and finding one is difficult. We could not afford my car payment and my car was repoed. The motor in wife's car burned up and needs replacing, but we don't have the money to replace it. She is the only one with a job right now and it is difficult to get her back and forth to work. So each day is a struggle to get her to work between trying to borrow cars or get rides just to keep her job.
We choose which bill not to pay that month, just to have food in the house to feed our young son and buy him clothes because he is having his growth spurts.
The phone will soon be cut off due to non-payment and then how will an potential employer contact me for work.
We are behind on the house note again. Thank God for income tax returns because that caught up the past due house note and stopped foreclosure from the end of last year. But we are behind again and another foreclosure will soon be issued, just so we can feed our family, have utilities and a phone.
Any donations from Angel's would be greatly appreciated. Even $5.00 from 1 Angel would let us buy some hamburger meat and bread for a meal.
God bless and multiply everyone that just reads this 'beg'.
My car repoed, wifes car needs motor, refrigerator going bad and can soon lose home
Posted by inGodshands on 2012-05-04 14:58:56
I lost my job and finding one is difficult. We could not afford my car payment and my car was repoed. The motor in wife's car burned up and needs replacing, but we don't have the money to replace it. She is the only one with a job right now and it is difficult to get her back and forth to work. So each day is a struggle to get her to work between trying to borrow cars or get rides just to keep her job.
We choose which bill not to pay that month, just to have food in the house to feed our young son and buy him clothes because he is having his growth spurts.
The phone will soon be cut off due to non-payment and then how will an potential employer contact me for work.
We are behind on the house note again. Thank God for income tax returns because that caught up the past due house note and stopped foreclosure from the end of last year. But we are behind again and another foreclosure will soon be issued, just so we can feed our family, have utilities and a phone.
Any donations from Angel's would be greatly appreciated. Even $5.00 from 1 Angel would let us buy some hamburger meat and bread for a meal.
God bless and multiply everyone that just reads this 'beg'.
I need an angel
Posted by Robyn0113 on 2012-05-03 15:58:49
single mom with two kids
Posted by ccbeach34 on 2012-05-03 08:58:52
IN NEED OF HELP BY MONDAY 4/30. CAN.PAY YOU BACK IN 30 days. HELP PLEASE.
Posted by ajjkrenn on 2012-04-28 14:58:56
HELP SAVE a CHILDS LIFE in CRISIS!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted by helplease on 2012-04-26 15:58:55
ISHMAEL,MY NEPHEW WOULD NEVER HARM ANYONE TO THAT DEGREE! HE'S FACING ASSAULT 1 CLASS C FELONY CHARGES DO TO THE OTHER CHILDS MISTAKE!!!!!!PLEASE HELP WE NEED MONEY/LOAN FOR A LAWYER!PRO BONO HRS WILL HELP ALOT,TOO!!!
oregon state law are too extreme for are youth.... they face sever consequences for any viloent crimes even sending them to state penitentiary @ age 15!
Please help my best friend be matron at my already-saddened wedding
Posted by PurpleGirl8 on 2012-04-22 19:58:35
please read, i beg you, i need your help!!
Posted by lgarcia109 on 2012-03-28 15:58:21
Interviewing for new job right now.
Posted by PetLover on 2012-03-25 12:58:51
I had little savings, but honestly just spent over $1000 on vet bills. My cat was just diagnosed with hypertrophic obstructive cardiomyopathy. I used the money to save her.
I can get back on my feet in about another month, so this wouldn't be a pointless handout. I will repay you will interest, if you request so.
I have a PayPal account. If you donate, please leave a note of what your terms are. I appreciate anything that you can give. As you can see, I've become desperate and am working as hard as I can.
Thank you so much.
Interviewing for new job right now.
Posted by PetLover on 2012-03-25 12:58:50
I had little savings, but honestly just spent over $1000 on vet bills. My cat was just diagnosed with hypertrophic obstructive cardiomyopathy. I used the money to save her.
I can get back on my feet in about another month, so this wouldn't be a pointless handout. I will repay you will interest, if you request so.
I have a PayPal account. If you donate, please leave a note of what your terms are. I appreciate anything that you can give. As you can see, I've become desperate and am working as hard as I can.
Thank you so much.
Interviewing for new job right now.
Posted by PetLover on 2012-03-25 12:58:11
I had little savings, but honestly just spent over $1000 on vet bills. My cat was just diagnosed with hypertrophic obstructive cardiomyopathy. I used the money to save her.
I can get back on my feet in about another month, so this wouldn't be a pointless handout. I will repay you will interest, if you request so.
I have a PayPal account. If you donate, please leave a note of what your terms are. I appreciate anything that you can give. As you can see, I've become desperate and am working as hard as I can.
Thank you so much.
Interviewing for new job right now.
Posted by PetLover on 2012-03-25 12:58:10
I had little savings, but honestly just spent over $1000 on vet bills. My cat was just diagnosed with hypertrophic obstructive cardiomyopathy. I used the money to save her.
I can get back on my feet in about another month, so this wouldn't be a pointless handout. I will repay you will interest, if you request so.
I have a PayPal account. If you donate, please leave a note of what your terms are. I appreciate anything that you can give. As you can see, I've become desperate and am working as hard as I can.
Thank you so much.
Interviewing for new job right now.
Posted by PetLover on 2012-03-25 12:58:07
I had little savings, but honestly just spent over $1000 on vet bills. My cat was just diagnosed with hypertrophic obstructive cardiomyopathy. I used the money to save her.
I can get back on my feet in about another month, so this wouldn't be a pointless handout. I will repay you will interest, if you request so.
I have a PayPal account. If you donate, please leave a note of what your terms are. I appreciate anything that you can give. As you can see, I've become desperate and am working as hard as I can.
Thank you so much.
Interviewing for new job right now.
Posted by PetLover on 2012-03-25 12:58:05
I had little savings, but honestly just spent over $1000 on vet bills. My cat, who is like my child, was just diagnosed with hypertrophic obstructive cardiomyopathy. I used the money to save her.
I can get back on my feet in about another month, so this wouldn't be a pointless handout. I will repay you will interest, if you request so.
I have a PayPal account. If you donate, please leave a note of what your terms are. I appreciate anything that you can give. As you can see, I've become desperate and am working as hard as I can.
Thank you so much.
I need to raise money for dentures.
Posted by vampyrex on 2012-03-22 22:58:18
PLEASE help!
Posted by patrickphelps88 on 2012-03-21 06:58:09
Concordia University
Student Financial Office
800 N Columbia Ave
Seward, NE 68434
It does not have to be the full $3000, I will take whatever you can give. My email address is patrick.phelps@cune.org if you would like to contact me. Thank you and may God Bless you for your generosity!
