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Struggling with debts

Posted by Esperanza on 2012-05-06 16:58:06

Ladies/Gentlemen
I am desperately trying to raise money for pay-off my debts. My husband left me without money for living and debts I have a job but my salary is not enought to cover all liabilities. Every 1 $ is important for me.
Please help if you can.Thank you.Esperanza

Young couple in love. Out of options. Completely exasperated. Scared.

Posted by Hopingforhelp on 2012-02-29 17:58:06

I moved in with my girlfriend 2 months ago. I left Boston to come be with her in NYC. My work had run dry until April. She had just been evicted from her apartment by a slumlord landlord who stole her belongings. We were living from paycheck to paycheck. Supporting each other as best we could. We didn't have enough money to get an apartment of our own, so we got a one month sublet, which ended up being a nightmare-living in a closet with our 2 cats, and dealing with the scum of the earth roommates who made us feel uncomfortable, unwelcome, and awful. During that first Monty, we spent our savings just living. We both work in the creative fields, myself a musician, an she an actress. Work was spotty at best. We borrowed money from friends and family, feeling terrible about ourselves every time. Mid-month, I decided to file for unemployment. (something i had never thought I'd ever do)
The money we were expecting from that would have paid her union dues, giving her a pay bump by about 400%. This would have enabled us to not only survive, but get on our feet and pay back our friends/family. About a week and a half after filing, my boss calls me and tells me I can't file, or he'll go out of business due to the fact he's never paid insurance on his employees. He convinced me he'd cover my unemployment pay (totaling $4,343) if I agreed to recind my claim, thus saving him tens of thousands of dollars in back-taxes. I agreed. As soon as I'd done that- he tells me his lawyer advised him not to do that, and that he never agreed to that in the first place.
I have now been playing phone tag with my unemployment agent for weeks trying to restart the claim, and have the state go after him for the money he owes them.
Meanwhile, at the end of January, we had to move again. We couldn't find a place in time, and ended up staying in a motel in Stamford for a night while we made appointments to see a few places. We awoke to the front desk and housekeeping ladies banging on our door, telling us we have to leave or they'll call the cops. We are still fighting Hotwire.com for charging us for that.
Luckily, we found a place that night. The expenses of having to move though, totaled over $500. (rental car, motel, storage)
The apartment we are in now is shared with 4 other people. It's a two bedroom. There are 3 people sleeping in the living room. There are cockroaches. We once again have to move out, by March 7th. We have applied for foodstamps. (they have yet to be approved)
This time around, we have no money to move with. Our resources have been tapped. We are out of options. Work is still spotty, and we have borrowed from everyone we know.
We have a week to come up with rent, cell phone bills, and moving expenses. Nevermind money for food to ear everyday. (as I type this, we are preparing to go out and sell some things for food money)
I have never been this scared in my life. I doubt that writing this is going to make a difference, but I have to try everything.

If anyone reading this wants a specific number that would get us out of this- its $5,000. Here's the breakdown:
$1,000 rent. (not counting a deposit)
$1760 my girlfriends union dues (which means she makes enough to get us on our feet)
$175 storage fee
$250 cell phone bills (it's a month late, an we're on the same plan)
$130 car rental to get our stuff out of the apartment
$40 rental car gas (they charge $9 a gallon if you don't fill the tank when you return the vehicle)
$1,000 for food for the two of us and cats' supplies. (food,litter)
And the rest would be to pay back some of the people who've already been there for us helping us along the way.

Please. Please help. We are a young couple in love. Scared. Trapped. Out of options.

Thank you for reading, and I hope you will find it in your heart to consider helping us.

Overwhelmed with flood damages and the repair expenses

Posted by ravensrun65 on 2012-01-25 18:58:00

After being away since 1997, I've come back to care for my disabled mother. I myself have degenerative bone and disc disease of the spine. Making it impossible for me to do any of the labor. The building use to be a bar with an apartment upstairs. Due to her disabilities, she lives on the bar level. Years ago they had a porch added, which is partially cantilevered improperly. Someone installed a shower on the bar level, in the process, they cut a main beam rather than get a longer piece of pipe. I'm not able to find out when the unit was installed, but it was long enough ago that now the bar level bathrooms(yes, both mens and ladies rooms are still in there), and the apartment floors are all sloped. If memory serves me, lolly columns should stop/possibly reverse this.
The well is working when it wants to, the water runs, then shuts itself off, anywhere from 5 to 30 minutes later, it comes back on. The furnace had a burned out blower part which I'm paying the bill off, leaving less than $75 cash after covering the expenses of this building each month. And the plumber said it would be close to $200 just to start fixing the well issue. Not even knowing if it is the pump or not.
The weather here is too much for my body without access to hot water therapy. I don't know how long it will be before I can no longer handle the pain in these temps. I am rather desperate for any help at all. I'm 46, single, and have no one to help me without paying hefty fee's. This building is in dire need of repairs. If anyone could please find it in their heart to help two women that have no one to lend a hand...PLEASE HELP?
Thank you for reading and have an outstanding day!

Overwhelmed with flood damages and the repair expenses

Posted by ravensrun65 on 2012-01-25 17:58:59

After being away since 1997, I've come back to care for my disabled mother. I myself have degenerative bone and disc disease of the spine. Making it impossible for me to do any of the labor. The building use to be a bar with an apartment upstairs. Due to her disabilities, she lives on the bar level. Years ago they had a porch added, which is partially cantilevered improperly. Someone installed a shower on the bar level, in the process, they cut a main beam rather than get a longer piece of pipe. I'm not able to find out when the unit was installed, but it was long enough ago that now the bar level bathrooms(yes, both mens and ladies rooms are still in there), and the apartment floors are all sloped. If memory serves me, lolly columns should stop/possibly reverse this.
The well is working when it wants to, the water runs, then shuts itself off, anywhere from 5 to 30 minutes later, it comes back on. The furnace had a burned out blower part which I'm paying the bill off, leaving less than $75 cash after covering the expenses of this building each month. And the plumber said it would be close to $200 just to start fixing the well issue. Not even knowing if it is the pump or not.
The weather here is too much for my body without access to hot water therapy. I don't know how long it will be before I can no longer handle the pain in these temps. I am rather desperate for any help at all. I'm 46, single, and have no one to help me without paying hefty fee's. This building is in dire need of repairs. If anyone could please find it in their heart to help two women that have no one to lend a hand...PLEASE HELP?
Thank you for reading and have an outstanding day!

Overwhelmed with flood damages and the repair expenses

Posted by ravensrun65 on 2012-01-25 17:58:59

After being away since 1997, I've come back to care for my disabled mother. I myself have degenerative bone and disc disease of the spine. Making it impossible for me to do any of the labor. The building use to be a bar with an apartment upstairs. Due to her disabilities, she lives on the bar level. Years ago they had a porch added, which is partially cantilevered improperly. Someone installed a shower on the bar level, in the process, they cut a main beam rather than get a longer piece of pipe. I'm not able to find out when the unit was installed, but it was long enough ago that now the bar level bathrooms(yes, both mens and ladies rooms are still in there), and the apartment floors are all sloped. If memory serves me, lolly columns should stop/possibly reverse this.
The well is working when it wants to, the water runs, then shuts itself off, anywhere from 5 to 30 minutes later, it comes back on. The furnace had a burned out blower part which I'm paying the bill off, leaving less than $75 cash after covering the expenses of this building each month. And the plumber said it would be close to $200 just to start fixing the well issue. Not even knowing if it is the pump or not.
The weather here is too much for my body without access to hot water therapy. I don't know how long it will be before I can no longer handle the pain in these temps. I am rather desperate for any help at all. I'm 46, single, and have no one to help me without paying hefty fee's. This building is in dire need of repairs. If anyone could please find it in their heart to help two women that have no one to lend a hand...PLEASE HELP?
Thank you for reading and have an outstanding day!

Overwhelmed with damges and the repair expenses

Posted by ravensrun65 on 2012-01-25 17:58:49

After being away since 1997, I've come back to care for my disabled mother. I myself have degenerative bone and disc disease of the spine. Making it impossible for me to do any of the labor. The building use to be a bar with an apartment upstairs. Due to her disabilities, she lives on the bar level. Years ago they had a porch added, which is partially cantilevered improperly. Someone installed a shower on the bar level, in the process, they cut a main beam rather than get a longer piece of pipe. I'm not able to find out when the unit was installed, but it was long enough ago that now the bar level bathrooms(yes, both mens and ladies rooms are still in there), and the apartment floors are all sloped. If memory serves me, lolly columns should stop/possibly reverse this.
The well is working when it wants to, the water runs, then shuts itself off, anywhere from 5 to 30 minutes later, it comes back on. The furnace had a burned out blower part which I'm paying the bill off, leaving less than $75 cash after covering the expenses of this building each month. And the plumber said it would be close to $200 just to start fixing the well issue. Not even knowing if it is the pump or not.
The weather here is too much for my body without access to hot water therapy. I don't know how long it will be before I can no longer handle the pain in these temps. I am rather desperate for any help at all. I'm 46, single, and have no one to help me without paying hefty fee's. This building is in dire need of repairs. If anyone could please find it in their heart to help two women that have no one to lend a hand...PLEASE HELP?
Thank you for reading and have an outstanding day!

cancer patients need donations for wigs and headwear

Posted by ptfurball on 2012-01-24 15:58:00

Could use your assistance please:

I have owned a wig salon for over 20 years
my main focus is helping ladies, children, and
men deal with the effects of chemotherapy
that causes their hair to fall out. I see
so many people of all age groups that struggle
with the purchase of a wig and some headwear.
Most insurance companies do not pay for a wig
(cranial prosthesis) in medial terms. Most
women feel that losing their hair is almost
as devastating as being diagnosed with cancer.
Most ladies have famalies and small children
that don't understand the changes taking place
to their mother. That is way it is important
for Mom to look as normal as possible.

I carry name brand wigs that look so real
and natural for work or home. The smiles and thanks I receive are heart warming, it just makes you wonder how they will overcome the
hand they were dealt. I already discount the wigs as low as I can but still the really nice wigs are expensive (lace-front,mono-top).

Please help me help others - I would appreciate donations to purchase more wigs and headwear and give them to families that can not afford this necessity while going
through chemotherapy.

My business is very well know in the community
and I work closely with the American Cancer
Society and local Oncologist. Many people have
been through this process and know that a wig
and headwear are so very important through
the journey of cancer treatment.

Regards

The Wig Lady

Short Term and Long Term Help.

Posted by justneedtheboots on 2011-12-09 17:58:03

Hello all ladies and gentlemen. I am in need of whatever kind of help I can get. I am a young full-time college student, and I'm trying to pull myself up by my own bootstraps so to speak. I grew up in a crowded house with my mom, grandma, great-grandma, uncle, and little sister. I didn't grow up with much money, but I always had what I needed. As I got older my family's financial worsen as the adults started dying off. All of the adults contributed to this pot, and when we lost an adult we lost contributions that were detrimental to our livelihood. Meanwhile I was a stellar student and had aspirations outside of my living conditions. This sometimes didn't float well with my family, and it showed in their actions often. I realize now, that they probably didn't want me to discover how disappointing it is when you hit and miss. I feel like that happened to them often.
I realize this is a long story, but maybe this background information can help you understand why I am asking for what I am asking. I think I am from the first (or one of the first) generations where college was thrown down everyone's throats. We're the classic Barney, Arthur, and Sesame Street kids. I don't know if the Baby Boomers were as forced as we are. After all, this is suppose to lead to upward mobility. I was fed that if I did not take this route, then I would be destined to poverty and an uncertain future. I realize now this future is even more uncertain than what I was expecting it to be. I've learned that a college degree doesn't guarantee certainty, and that you actually need quite a bit of help just to get through.
I am and have been own my own since I started college 3 years ago. Forget not having the extra money when I need at times. I don't have a strong support system, and my house at home is almost unlivable now. I do not have my license or a car because no one practiced driving with me, and I can't afford to pay for driving school, the car, and the insurance to get me started. I got tired of having to leave campus and figuring out where I was going next and how I was going to get there, so I found a student friendly apartment. It's nice to not have to move because I usually don't have help, but I am struggling to keep it. I am desperately seeking work in whatever kind of way I can have it. I get full financial aid, but it's hard to stretch 2 refund checks over an entire year.
I'm finally getting to the point. I currently live and study in Greensboro, NC. I am a dean's list engineering student. I learn most things quickly, and I am not afraid of real work. I need a full-time job or a part-time one that will give me 20 hours + a week. I would prefer 2nd or 3rd shift, but if I have to take a break from school to get myself together I will. I will take any resources that can give me some good leads on scholarships, internships, fellowships, and co-ops. Lastly I will take any financial help I can get while I'm waiting on the others. I feel like all of these things will help me get to a more manageable point in my life. Any help will be appreciated. Thank you in advance.

Need the rent paid

Posted by singlemotherhelp on 2011-11-01 15:58:43

I will be on the street with my two children if I do not come up with the rent by November 5, 2011 AM. I am unemployed, receiving unemployment benefits; however, this month is will not be enough. I need to come up with $1450.00. If you can, please help three ladies.

Sign of the times !

Posted by loosingitagain123 on 2011-10-28 20:58:02

The true definition of hell is not a lake of fire where you get stuck by devils with pitch forks and get all burned up and such ! Its holding a sign that says {got wife @ 3 kids} in the very very rural N.GA mountains. This is the true original birth place of the word REDNECK. Try to imagine dodging beer bottles, old ladies giving you the finger, people screaming get a job with so much force and volume that you would think they would strangle to death on their own vocal cords. Not to mention the periodic deer rifle or pistol to the face and the death threats that goes along with the [if i ever see you here again] bullshit !!! I have been out of work since the 3rd week of march 2007 with a good wife and 3 really good kids {boy15-girl14-boy13}. I'm not gonna go into a bunch of pages of boring wants and whys, but we do need some financial help please ??? Thank you sincerily...

Looking for work.

Posted by apartments on 2011-05-10 20:58:48

Ladies, I'm looking for work in Chicago, preferably on public transit lines. I can help cleaning out old junk, and with odd jobs, or just be an extra pair of hands. I am a 46 year old female who is looking to earn extra cash. Feel free to email me if you have any questions. Pay is negotiable.

email shellymielke@yahoo.com
phone 773-303-4139 or leave a message at 773-661-3889

Thanks.
Shelly.

Shelters and Water

Posted by Radu on 2011-03-28 15:58:21

Ladies and Gentlemen: I would like to build several alpine shelters for tourists. Also, I would like to set-up small water captions - somewhere in the mountains from my country.

There are many mineral springs in the area where I live. Most of them have proven therapeutic properties. Unfortunately, they have been abandoned by the local authorities.

I cured myself from a stomach disease after I sistematically drunk water from such a spring! I would like to help others to become healthy, too.

The problem is that the springs are located in remote, difficult to reach areas. I need money to clean up the mountain paths, to pay the construction materials, to transport them up on the mountains, to pay my co-workers, to pay the tools, plus the shelters' endowment, and to acquit countless other smaller expenses.

If I want the job to be done properly, I would have to spend tenths of thousands of dollars. Unfortunately, I do not have such an amount. But I have the will to work hard; and the determination to live in harsh conditions, for several months, in order to materialise my dream.

Any amount you can offer me, it would be welcomed.

At the donor's express wish, I can inlay his/her name on a stainless steel plate, accompanied by the following words: "Spring caption made with the invaluable help of Mr/Mrs [your name]. Please say a small prayer, for your benefactor, before drinking from this water."

I thank you for your generosity.-

Please Help this Mom start her own Bakery

Posted by absolutp98 on 2011-02-24 19:58:58

I am a mom of 2 beautiful young ladies. I often work long hours and late nights. I feel as if I missing out on their whole life. I would like to open a small bakery for income, allowing me more flexible in my hours, to be able to raise my children. I have the business savvy, the talent for baking and the know how. I just lack the funds to open up shop. Please help me out!

Please help me, your contribution is very important to me

Posted by cklow on 2010-08-13 21:58:58

Greetings, ladies and gentleman. I'm Bernard Low here from Malaysia. I'm very happy for being able to find this site with all the good samaritans here. I would like to thank God for the wonders of the internet.

Alright, now I would like to tell all of you about the problems that I'm experiencing now. I'm a ' (MS) Multiple Sclerosis ' patient now. MS is a neurological illness. It has no cure found yet at the moment. MS is a disabling illness. Every patient has a different disabling symptoms such as blindness, disability to walk and a few more. You can google it to find out more about MS.

For me, I'm having an 'intentional tremor' symptom on my hands. My hands will tremor whenever I'm trying to do something using it. For example, if I intend to write something with my hand, it will begin to tremor when I'm writing. Actually I'm a 3rd year engineering student but due to the illness that I've contracted, I could not persue my degee anymore.

I feel very sad for disappointing my dad. He has worked extremely hard to support me for my studies all these years. Right now, I'm worried about how am I going to settle my study loan when my dad don't live anymore and also my living budget when my dad is not with me anymore..... :(

Please help me, your contribution is very important to me

Posted by cklow on 2010-08-13 21:58:58

Greetings, ladies and gentleman. I'm Bernard Low here from Malaysia. I'm very happy for being able to find this site with all the good samaritans here. I would like to thank God for the wonders of the internet.

Alright, now I would like to tell all of you about the problems that I'm experiencing now. I'm a ' (MS) Multiple Sclerosis ' patient now. MS is a neurological illness. It has no cure found yet at the moment. MS is a disabling illness. Every patient has a different disabling symptoms such as blindness, disability to walk and a few more. You can google it to find out more about MS.

For me, I'm having an 'intentional tremor' symptom on my hands. My hands will tremor whenever I'm trying to do something using it. For example, if I intend to write something with my hand, it will begin to tremor when I'm writing. Actually I'm a 3rd year engineering student but due to the illness that I've contracted, I could not persue my degee anymore.

I feel very sad for disappointing my dad. He has worked extremely hard to support me for my studies all these years. Right now, I'm worried about how am I going to settle my study loan when my dad don't live anymore and also my living budget when my dad is not with me anymore..... :(

please help me :(

Posted by cklow on 2010-08-12 01:58:58

Greetings, ladies and gentleman. I'm Bernard Low here from Malaysia.

I'm very happy for being able to find this site with all the good

samaritans here. I would like to thank God for the wonders of the

internet.

Alright, now I would like to tell all of you about the problems that

I'm experiencing now. I'm a ' (MS) Multiple Sclerosis ' patient now. MS

is a neurological illness. It has no cure found yet at the moment. MS

is a disabling illness. Every patient has a different disabling

symptoms such as blindness, disability to walk and a few more. You can

google it to find out more about MS.

For me, I'm having an 'intentional tremor' symptom on my hands. My

hands will tremor whenever I'm trying to do something using it. For

example, if I intend to write something with my hand, it will begin to

tremor when I'm writing. Actually I'm a 3rd year engineering student

but due to the illness that I've contracted, I could not persue my

degee anymore.

I feel very sad for disappointing my dad. He has worked extremely hard

to support me for my studies all these years. Right now, I'm worried

about how am I going to settle my study loan when my dad don't live

anymore and also my living budget when my dad is not with me

anymore..... :(

please help me :(

Posted by cklow on 2010-08-12 01:58:58

Greetings, ladies and gentleman. I'm Bernard Low here from Malaysia.

I'm very happy for being able to find this site with all the good

samaritans here. I would like to thank God for the wonders of the

internet.

Alright, now I would like to tell all of you about the problems that

I'm experiencing now. I'm a ' (MS) Multiple Sclerosis ' patient now. MS

is a neurological illness. It has no cure found yet at the moment. MS

is a disabling illness. Every patient has a different disabling

symptoms such as blindness, disability to walk and a few more. You can

google it to find out more about MS.

For me, I'm having an 'intentional tremor' symptom on my hands. My

hands will tremor whenever I'm trying to do something using it. For

example, if I intend to write something with my hand, it will begin to

tremor when I'm writing. Actually I'm a 3rd year engineering student

but due to the illness that I've contracted, I could not persue my

degee anymore.

I feel very sad for disappointing my dad. He has worked extremely hard

to support me for my studies all these years. Right now, I'm worried

about how am I going to settle my study loan when my dad don't live

anymore and also my living budget when my dad is not with me

anymore..... :(

Please help me, your contribution is very important to me

Posted by cklow on 2010-08-09 00:58:58

Greetings, ladies and gentleman. I'm Bernard Low here from Malaysia.

I'm very happy for being able to find this site with all the good

samaritans here. I would like to thank God for the wonders of the

internet.

Alright, now I would like to tell all of you about the problems that

I'm experiencing now. I'm a ' (MS) Multiple Sclerosis ' patient now. MS

is a neurological illness. It has no cure found yet at the moment. MS

is a disabling illness. Every patient has a different disabling

symptoms such as blindness, disability to walk and a few more. You can

google it to find out more about MS.

For me, I'm having an 'intentional tremor' symptom on my hands. My

hands will tremor whenever I'm trying to do something using it. For

example, if I intend to write something with my hand, it will begin to

tremor when I'm writing. Actually I'm a 3rd year engineering student

but due to the illness that I've contracted, I could not persue my

degee anymore.

I feel very sad for disappointing my dad. He has worked extremely hard

to support me for my studies all these years. Right now, I'm worried

about how am I going to settle my study loan when my dad don't live

anymore and also my living budget when my dad is not with me

anymore..... :(

Hello I am a 35 year okld mail looking for a lady ...

Posted by 0 on 2010-05-19 12:58:58

Hello I am a 35 year okld mail looking for a lady to date long term leading to marrage I am in college majoring in goverment studies and communications I am going to run for city office here in boston ma in 2011. but due to the fact that I am partly blind and have no job ladyies only want to be friends and then they find someone else. how can I find a wife if they keep doing that? they should change the part of the marrage vow to only for better and only for the rich. for ladies only go for someone with a job and can buy a lot of things well at least I am not a bum I am still going for my dreams and one of the dreams that I have is to marry and to have a family. I am 5/8 208 avrage build right now going to liberity university online but will go to umass boston in the fall online for I will be on intership at disney wrold. I am caring romantic love to have fun go to movies write songs poetry travel. list of dreams getting married and haveing a family graduateing from college being an elected offical have a TV and radio show get back into acting have a inde record lable. please there must be a lady somewhere that can give me the love that I have been missing it is hard to stay up in life without a love one by your side can any lady please be my long term girlfriend? she have to live in boston for I do not drive please understand I need to be able to see youcan you come to my campain events next year as my date? go to the movies dinner travel on trips durinng school breaks? so I am looking for any lady from boston who is single looking to get married for the real vows for richer or poorer ect ect.