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family crisis
Posted by jagger1 on 2012-03-21 19:58:48
i am not used to asking for help however this is one time when i am desperate my family is in a terrible crisis. please do not send me any loan offers or anything like that because i know that these are scams. that said i need help my water was turned off today and it is $75 dollars to get it back on please i also have no food to feed my family i am not lying i just lost my job due to them moving the company to indiana and yes i will be able to draw unemployment but that doesnt start until next week plus it is only half of what i was making as the only provider for my family i just dont know what to do i am behind on every bill that i have in the tune of 9000 dollars if people would just donate something i would be eternally grateful i am just at my wits end and i know that this request is rambling but i really am in need my kids are hungry and i dont even have money to put gas in my car to look for work i walked 12 miles today and i am exhausted trying to find another job please help me and god bless those who do
Legal Notice to Quit on Family of 4
Posted by FrusteratedDaddy on 2012-03-09 10:58:05
Please help! I have been given a Legal Notice to Quit by the State of Indiana. I have less than 10 days to pay my 800.00 worth of rent and back rent before me and my kids are evicted. I have tried selling things on craigslist, and I am still looking and applying to almost every job I find, but It has come down to this.
I AM DREAMING ABOUT GOING TO JORDAN TO SEE PETRA TEMPLE
Posted by martinnawa on 2012-03-05 05:58:01
Hello everyone,
I am kind of new to this website, but I thought I will give it a go as if you don't ask you will not get. Ever since I was a little boy after watching an Indiana Jones movie I wanted to go to Jordan to see the Petra Temple. I was saving up for almost a year just now but with my wages I think it will take a long time so if anyone would like to help me out I will be much much grateful. If I manage to go I will also email pictures to anyone who will help me out.
Thank you for any donation and best regards
I am kind of new to this website, but I thought I will give it a go as if you don't ask you will not get. Ever since I was a little boy after watching an Indiana Jones movie I wanted to go to Jordan to see the Petra Temple. I was saving up for almost a year just now but with my wages I think it will take a long time so if anyone would like to help me out I will be much much grateful. If I manage to go I will also email pictures to anyone who will help me out.
Thank you for any donation and best regards
Please Help Us
Posted by gaakil on 2012-03-03 18:58:22
My girlfriend and I have 4 children between us. We live in Indiana. My girlfriend works but only part time which is commision based. I rehab houses but have been out of work since Nov., before Thanksgiving. Our children have been staying with our parents back and forth, because NIPSCO turned off our lights and gas in Jan. Right now we owe NIPSCO 997$ before we can get our lights and gas turned on. Or rent is 1200$ behind not 2 full months behind.
We really need help...anything please.
I have never done this before but I am desperate. We have nothing of value left to sell. Just looking for work an surviving has taken all we had,and making it day to day is taking evrtything.
We really need help...anything please.
I have never done this before but I am desperate. We have nothing of value left to sell. Just looking for work an surviving has taken all we had,and making it day to day is taking evrtything.
I desperately need help
Posted by SDL6783 on 2012-02-20 19:58:15
Hi there...
The whole idea of asking for money makes me sick to my stomach. I have never been a beggar or a person who wanted charity. But I honestly have no other choice anymore.
My story starts in 2009 with my ex girlfriend, whom would turn out to be the worst thing that ever happened to me. I'm not going to play the blame game, because I have forgiven her since. However I am left with the lasting damage of that relationship.
We had dated when we were young, she had cheated with a friend and I had left her, but i always loved her most of all and was eventually able to forgive her later. I was a fool for love. This is where the trouble starts, we had begun to talk again in early 2009, and soon a relationship developed between us once again. By this time she had a daughter who was 7 years old. I moved to another state to be with her and her daughter, after awhile I loved her daughter as my own child. I took her fishing with me every chance I had. I did not realize it before I had went down there, but her family was a real problem. They took to controlling every aspect of her life, even going as far as taking her mail out of her mail box and reading it. From the very start I has hated, I could not be controlled or told what to do, though they tried. Later in the year I was working and I thought things had improved, they grudgingly accepted me.
I am not a cruel or an evil person, I am always firm but loving when it comes to discipline. There had started to be problems at school and home, with tantrums, and destructive behavior. My ex and I talked about it and we tried everything, nothing seemed to work save simple old fashioned spanking. When she threw a tantrum one day and wrote that she hated us and left it on a note where we would surely find it, and broke her own window in her room. I knew something had to be done, this was totally unacceptable. So I spanked her, not hard or vicious like i got when i was a boy. But just my hand. I left a red mark, not welts or bruises a red mark. Of course being a little girl, she tended to talk and tell everyone EVERYTHING. She told her grandmother about it, and that was it for me, suddenly i was this horrible terrible person. My ex and I quarreled about it a great deal and I left for awhile just to get my head around things and see if it was worth saving.
I decided to leave, and I went home back to indiana where i was from, I left with a broken heart, but i knew the situation couldn't be fixed.
There were other things going on at the time I did not become aware of until later, one was that my ex was pregnant. She later admitted to me that she had been smoking while pregnant, drinking, taking more and more prescriptions, and when she finally told me about it she told me she was glad she had miscarried.
I have never forgotten that statment.
Now here is where the real trouble begins and why I am in such desperate need.
The child told her teacher, and child services became involved, as they always do and will for any reason.
Eventually it got turned over to the sheriff's office to see what they wanted to do with it. Now enters the grandparents into the equation.
The pushed it hard even against my ex's wishes, and managed to get them to file charges for child abuse and issue a warrant. A warrant I didnt even know i had until christmas time 2010. I was picked up and detained for extradition over it. The following monday I was released, I was informed that they didnt want to come get me. I called my ex, and she told me that she had told them to drop it, we talked and talked, she begged me to forgive her for all that happened, and eventually i did, for some reason I still felt like i couldnt live without her. So we continued to talk up until july of 2010. When something happened, grandmother got curious wondering what these numbers were on the cell phone bill. She confronted my ex and she told her that she had talked to me. Ever since that point I have this "open case" listed publically on my record. After about 10 interviews I discovered that was the reason I couldn't have a job. Who would want to hire a "child abuser" anyway? Here it is febuary its been about 8 months without work. I lost my place, and nearly everything i own, I even lost the will to live. I live with my parents now, and I know im a burden to them. I'm thinking about it everyday. It is tax refund time now, and I have half of what I need for my lawyer to try and fix this horrible mess. He is of the almost certain opinion this will be completely dropped, and I can have a job again, and recover somewhat of a life. If you can help please help, I am a desperate man, and I want my life back, I need it back, I cant take not being able to work, and being a burden to my parents who are dirt poor!
The whole idea of asking for money makes me sick to my stomach. I have never been a beggar or a person who wanted charity. But I honestly have no other choice anymore.
My story starts in 2009 with my ex girlfriend, whom would turn out to be the worst thing that ever happened to me. I'm not going to play the blame game, because I have forgiven her since. However I am left with the lasting damage of that relationship.
We had dated when we were young, she had cheated with a friend and I had left her, but i always loved her most of all and was eventually able to forgive her later. I was a fool for love. This is where the trouble starts, we had begun to talk again in early 2009, and soon a relationship developed between us once again. By this time she had a daughter who was 7 years old. I moved to another state to be with her and her daughter, after awhile I loved her daughter as my own child. I took her fishing with me every chance I had. I did not realize it before I had went down there, but her family was a real problem. They took to controlling every aspect of her life, even going as far as taking her mail out of her mail box and reading it. From the very start I has hated, I could not be controlled or told what to do, though they tried. Later in the year I was working and I thought things had improved, they grudgingly accepted me.
I am not a cruel or an evil person, I am always firm but loving when it comes to discipline. There had started to be problems at school and home, with tantrums, and destructive behavior. My ex and I talked about it and we tried everything, nothing seemed to work save simple old fashioned spanking. When she threw a tantrum one day and wrote that she hated us and left it on a note where we would surely find it, and broke her own window in her room. I knew something had to be done, this was totally unacceptable. So I spanked her, not hard or vicious like i got when i was a boy. But just my hand. I left a red mark, not welts or bruises a red mark. Of course being a little girl, she tended to talk and tell everyone EVERYTHING. She told her grandmother about it, and that was it for me, suddenly i was this horrible terrible person. My ex and I quarreled about it a great deal and I left for awhile just to get my head around things and see if it was worth saving.
I decided to leave, and I went home back to indiana where i was from, I left with a broken heart, but i knew the situation couldn't be fixed.
There were other things going on at the time I did not become aware of until later, one was that my ex was pregnant. She later admitted to me that she had been smoking while pregnant, drinking, taking more and more prescriptions, and when she finally told me about it she told me she was glad she had miscarried.
I have never forgotten that statment.
Now here is where the real trouble begins and why I am in such desperate need.
The child told her teacher, and child services became involved, as they always do and will for any reason.
Eventually it got turned over to the sheriff's office to see what they wanted to do with it. Now enters the grandparents into the equation.
The pushed it hard even against my ex's wishes, and managed to get them to file charges for child abuse and issue a warrant. A warrant I didnt even know i had until christmas time 2010. I was picked up and detained for extradition over it. The following monday I was released, I was informed that they didnt want to come get me. I called my ex, and she told me that she had told them to drop it, we talked and talked, she begged me to forgive her for all that happened, and eventually i did, for some reason I still felt like i couldnt live without her. So we continued to talk up until july of 2010. When something happened, grandmother got curious wondering what these numbers were on the cell phone bill. She confronted my ex and she told her that she had talked to me. Ever since that point I have this "open case" listed publically on my record. After about 10 interviews I discovered that was the reason I couldn't have a job. Who would want to hire a "child abuser" anyway? Here it is febuary its been about 8 months without work. I lost my place, and nearly everything i own, I even lost the will to live. I live with my parents now, and I know im a burden to them. I'm thinking about it everyday. It is tax refund time now, and I have half of what I need for my lawyer to try and fix this horrible mess. He is of the almost certain opinion this will be completely dropped, and I can have a job again, and recover somewhat of a life. If you can help please help, I am a desperate man, and I want my life back, I need it back, I cant take not being able to work, and being a burden to my parents who are dirt poor!
Mother of 3 with a chronic kidney illness needs help
Posted by cantbelieveimdoingthis1121 on 2011-12-29 07:58:06
Thank you for taking the time to read my post. I am ashamed to be on here asking for help, but I don't know what else to do. I am in the position of having my gas and electric disconnected due to being in the hospital inpatient 2 times in the last 2 months for a massive kidney infection. I spent Christmas in the hospital, and almost spent Thanksgiving as well. I tried to set up payment arrangements with my utility companies, but they're not very lenient, or caring for that matter. I have tried to get help from any community action agencies or the Red cross, but they are out of funds due to the amount of unemployed in Indiana. I just don't want to loose my gas and electric in the winter with 3 boys. I don't know how to explain to them that we wouldn't have any gas to keep warm, and electric for the lights and to cook. I would not ask that the money come to me. I would provide the companies that I have my utilities thru, and any information that would be needed to help. Any help would be appreciated more than you know. And, if the person who helps happens to live in Indiana, I would be more than willing to do whatever work my body would allow, like cleaning house, helping with church events, anything. I am just unable to work right now due to the chronic issues with my kidney. But, the bills don't stop, and the companies want and deserve the money for the electric/gas that I have used. I normally am able to keep up with my bills, I just didn't expect to get sick, and for so long. November I was inpatient for 4 days, and never fully recovered. So, on the 22nd, I was put inpatient and didn't get released until the 26th, so my kids opened their gifts in my hospital room. It was still an amazing Christmas, family is what makes a holiday, it doesn't matter where you are as long as you're together. I will provide my email address so anyone who would like to help can contact me to get the Utility company information. Again, I don't want the money to come to me, I want it to go directly to the compay, so the person who is helping knows that their money went to what it was asked for. Thank you for reading my post, and thank you more than I can ever express in advance to anyone who is willing to help me. Your help is appreciated more than you'll ever know. email: brandee.hagood@gmail.com
embarrassed, but need help saving my home
Posted by cantbelieveimdoingthis1121 on 2011-12-29 06:58:51
I know there are so many people on here, so I have no idea if my beg will even be read. But, I have been in the hospital 2 times since November 19th, for 4-5 days each stay for a massive kidney infection and klebsellia pneumonia in the kidney. My last stay was from Dec. 22nd, to the 26th. (yes, i spent Christmas in the hospital, so my kids opened gifts in my hospital room). Due to the chronic infections, I haven't been able to work. I don't qualify for any financial assistance from the state, and I am behind on my rent. I am in jeopardy of losing my home, because it's a month to month lease. I have a mortgage as well, as i own a modular home. My rent is 230.00 a month, and the mortgage is 258.88, which keeps me at 500.00 a month. I have 3 boys, and they don't deserve to have the worry of losing their home. I am scared and don't know what to do. I have contacted all the community action agencies in my county and surrounding areas. They are all out of funds due to the amount of people out of work. All I know is that I can't loose my lot. If I don't pay my rent, I will be kicked out, and have to move my double wide. That will also cost money I don't have. I am more than willing to give whoever would offer to help me the name, address, and contact information for where I pay my rent. That way the money would go directly to the company, not to me. I will give my email address at the end, and if anyone is able to help, it would be greatly appreciated. Anything is better than what I have now, which is nothing. I also would be more than willing to offer any type of voulenteer services, for legit services if the help comes from someone in my state, Indiana. I don't believe in just getting something for free, I just know I am scared, have a chronic kidney issue, and am willing to do whatever my body will allow me to do if someone can help keep me from losing my home.
my email address is: brandee.hagood@gmail.com, and as I stated above, the money donated won't go to me, I will provide the information for the company who I pay lot rent to. If someone is also willing to help towards the mortgage, the same goes for that. The money will not go to me, I will provide the information for the mortgage company, the name of my contact, and he can help you get your payment processed without any of your personal information getting out. I am very ashamed to have to beg, but I cannot let my children have on their shoulders that I lost their home because Im sick. If anyone does help, I thank you more than I could ever verbalize, and appreciate your kindness to the point it would bring me to tears if I actually got a response.
my email address is: brandee.hagood@gmail.com, and as I stated above, the money donated won't go to me, I will provide the information for the company who I pay lot rent to. If someone is also willing to help towards the mortgage, the same goes for that. The money will not go to me, I will provide the information for the mortgage company, the name of my contact, and he can help you get your payment processed without any of your personal information getting out. I am very ashamed to have to beg, but I cannot let my children have on their shoulders that I lost their home because Im sick. If anyone does help, I thank you more than I could ever verbalize, and appreciate your kindness to the point it would bring me to tears if I actually got a response.
**Single Mom: Looking for help to pay bills**
Posted by Mama2J on 2011-12-04 09:58:10
Our story began 2 years ago when my unmarried partner of 13 years has a nervous breakdown forcing my son and I (a stay-at-home mom) to move from Indiana down to Florida to live with my parents. We had little money, no job, no home and a 10 year old car in need of a transmission. It was a truly devastating time in our lives.
Flash forward two years later. I am now gainfully employed and we have a small 2 bedroom apartment. Sadly, however, it took 9 months to find a job. In the meantime, we used my credit cards to pay our bills and living expenses resulting in high debt and not much extra to cover these now.
I am now faced with the fact that I will need to file bankruptcy unless I can pay down these debts. I've always paid my bills. I want to honor my debt and repay it. Please help us to pay down our debt. Any little bit will help... and will be MUCH appreciated.
I wouldn't ask for help if I didn't feel it absolutely necessary, however I feel that I must humble myself in order to do the right thing for my son and I.
I know times are tough for many of us. I feel blessed to have had the help I needed two years ago. It is my wish to get out of debt so that I, too, can turn around and help others in need.
Many thanks, in advance, for your time and consideration.
Flash forward two years later. I am now gainfully employed and we have a small 2 bedroom apartment. Sadly, however, it took 9 months to find a job. In the meantime, we used my credit cards to pay our bills and living expenses resulting in high debt and not much extra to cover these now.
I am now faced with the fact that I will need to file bankruptcy unless I can pay down these debts. I've always paid my bills. I want to honor my debt and repay it. Please help us to pay down our debt. Any little bit will help... and will be MUCH appreciated.
I wouldn't ask for help if I didn't feel it absolutely necessary, however I feel that I must humble myself in order to do the right thing for my son and I.
I know times are tough for many of us. I feel blessed to have had the help I needed two years ago. It is my wish to get out of debt so that I, too, can turn around and help others in need.
Many thanks, in advance, for your time and consideration.
Im scared
Posted by heynipper on 2011-11-25 23:58:13
I am desperately asking for any help I can get, I'm over $1000 behind on my house, my daughter hasn't had any school clothes in 2 yrs, her friends help her out, I have a job but my hours have been cut badly, my family can't help either, we don't talk much because they are twisted became they hate my wife, we have been divorced for 3yrs now and they are still mad because I didn't divorce her sooner, my ex and I are better friends now then when we was married, I cannot seem to get caught up with my bills, and now the state has forced my son on asst. so his half brother and sister can get help, I have him on my insurance from work but the want to add medical help on him which hr don't use and they charge me $50 a week and pretend they are being fair, I cannot afford that much and they know it, the judge says she is doing it to me just because she can, wow. I live in rural Indiana in Buck Creek box 137 , 47924. If anyone can send any help I will be very grateful and will include you in my prayers thank you very much. I cannot get a papal account because I cannot get a checking account, thanks to my mother and ex wives, I use a savings account only. That's only part of my problems, I still smile everyday and hide my pain from others in my area, no need in bringing someone else down. Again thank you.
GF Pregnant and we're about to be homeless..
Posted by tyandshawna on 2011-11-04 02:58:19
I just found out my girlfriend is pregnant and we only have two days left before we get kicked out of our apartment. I'm 24 and a full time student and have been working full time until two weeks ago when I was laid off. I put this in the travel section because my family doesn't have much money right now and I'm trying to make it from Indiana to California to be somewhere we can have help until we get on our feet. My bank account is already $250 dollars overdrawn or I would just use that, we are willing to take greyhound but for the trip need about five to six hundred dollars and have about sixty cents to our names. Any help at all would be an absolute blessing and we could arrange some way for me to pay you back once I get to california and get back on my feet. Thank you all for your time and any help given, God bless you and I hope you all have a wonderful day.
Email me if you can help I have a reload able prepaid card that I plan to use for the trip. Wish us luck in 2 days we head out on foot.
Email me if you can help I have a reload able prepaid card that I plan to use for the trip. Wish us luck in 2 days we head out on foot.
army wife needs funds to return home
Posted by jessicamedley85 on 2011-06-10 20:58:05
hello my name is Jessica my husband is active duty army and is getting ready to deploy to Kuwait for a year and we are trying to get back to our home town so he can visit his father and sister befor he deploys he has not seen them in 3 years and because of alot of finacial problems we are unable to save the money for this trip. we have 3 small children and the military dosent offer any kind of program for this.. we live paycheck to paycheck and getting a loan is out of the question because we have 2 out currently that we are trying to pay back! we need help!! we would only need about 1000 dollars to make it to indiana and back to south texas .. please find it in your hearts to help us.. thank you and god bless
homeless
Posted by ryan on 2011-01-09 22:58:58
hi i really need help i am 23 years old and disabled i used to live in vincennes indiana with my mom but she just moved to monticello indiana and now i am here with no where to go or no family around my moms boy friend kicked me out and i have no where to all i have is a what clothes i have one and thin jacket everything is in his garage i really need some help to get an apartment or something i have no where to go or stay i been staying in a little shack that no ones used for years please help me and thank you
im really doing this
Posted by AnthonyMckee on 2011-01-03 08:58:58
hello. im anthony and am in a rough, bad, scared, lost, just horrible situation. I seem to be the black sheep in my family. I have a wonderful family. I graduated High School in 2002. Moved from indiana to california to go to college at UC riverside. California just wasnt for me. So moved back to indiana and went to Ancilla college. I was going to school on a Golf Scholarship. I worked at the local Country Club for many years. Golf was my life. I spent so much time on the Golf Course it kinda seperated me from my family. Well my parents were earning a very decent annual salary working in the RV motorhome business here in Elkhart Ind. Well when the econonmy took a dive my mother lost her job. So she is now working 3 jobs as a waitress. My dad still is employed but the household relationship has taken a huge hit! About 5 years ago I was giving a chance to "GRIP" on a film set (Set Lighting). I loved it! so I decdied to take a chance in the business. Well its becoming a issue! I love what I do but hate the style of my life! I have traveled over 300,000 miles in 5 years. Living outta dufflebags, vans, hotels, closets, etc! I am now back in Indiana for the recent holidays and have broken down and googled "how to get finacial help" and Im going to fill out a "Beg" on all the websites. I dont expect this to work, but I am also not asking for much! If its only .25 or $25 thank you! If you have a job ill do it! Im so used to catching flights to get to that next movie job, so I will honestly catch a flight if your willing to help me! Thanks for taking your time to read this. And if you are actually looking to help someone out and it isnt me, please help out someone! 27 male good build
anthony
tonyaces@gmail.com
anthony
tonyaces@gmail.com
In dire need of medical care!!!
Posted by smileysgirl on 2010-09-19 09:58:58
I have been trying and trying to get some form of aid for medical care over the past two years. I live in the state of Indiana. I've tried medicaid and HIP. Both programs are closed to adults with no children. I qualify, but because of the fact that I do not have a dependent child I cannot get on either program. (this can be verified that the programs are closed for me)
I've been having problems for almost 2 years now. I saved up $200 and went to a general practitioner and was told I need a gynecologist. I've been bleeding now, almost constantly for the past 2 years (from my uterus). I've been told this can be caused by many things, but early detection is the way to be cured. I've got pain in my ribs and a lot of swelling. I NEED a doctor, but I can't pay. I've exhausted every avenue I can think of. I've been to different agencies, I've begged, but I can't get any help. I don't make much money (less than $5,000) a year and I'm single now (divorced) I've even been the the ER, they only put a bandage on the situation and tell me to see my doctor. IF I HAD a doctor and could afford a doctor I would have been seeing him for this years ago.
Is there ANYONE out there that can and will help me get this taken care of? I'm really scared and I need help. It doesn't HAVE to be money. If you are a gynecologist willing to see me and help me get the tests I need and the treatment I know I need--that is wonderful. Otherwise any and all donations will go toward the cost of my seeking help for this.
I've been having problems for almost 2 years now. I saved up $200 and went to a general practitioner and was told I need a gynecologist. I've been bleeding now, almost constantly for the past 2 years (from my uterus). I've been told this can be caused by many things, but early detection is the way to be cured. I've got pain in my ribs and a lot of swelling. I NEED a doctor, but I can't pay. I've exhausted every avenue I can think of. I've been to different agencies, I've begged, but I can't get any help. I don't make much money (less than $5,000) a year and I'm single now (divorced) I've even been the the ER, they only put a bandage on the situation and tell me to see my doctor. IF I HAD a doctor and could afford a doctor I would have been seeing him for this years ago.
Is there ANYONE out there that can and will help me get this taken care of? I'm really scared and I need help. It doesn't HAVE to be money. If you are a gynecologist willing to see me and help me get the tests I need and the treatment I know I need--that is wonderful. Otherwise any and all donations will go toward the cost of my seeking help for this.
CAN'T PAY MY MORTAGE OF 13yrs
Posted by begboy on 2010-07-19 17:58:58
