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I need money for school please :(
Posted by melodyann711 on 2012-04-24 20:58:09
Agoraphobia/Panic Disorder
Posted by BetterTomorrow on 2012-02-26 02:58:51
Please im desperate.
Posted by rgyaayn on 2012-01-19 11:58:30
need help with house hold items
Posted by becca71 on 2012-01-15 13:58:23
im desperate please help.......
Posted by rgyaayn on 2012-01-07 22:58:40
im desperate please help.......
Posted by rgyaayn on 2012-01-05 16:58:51
please help me.....
Posted by rgyaayn on 2012-01-05 16:58:39
I'm 23 and alone...you're nice already
Posted by kaenor on 2011-12-12 22:58:05
I've had a hard life. My mother passed away when I was 12, and my father passed away at 20. He left me a lot of debt and a house to maintain.
The stress of all this has given me problems. I started having panic attacks and was hospitalized for a cardiac arrhythmia. Recently, I developed optic neuritis. I'm working on getting Medicaid to cover some of my costs but right now I'm in debt about #1000.
There is one blessing in my life, a relative who pays my internet and utilities. He also helps me with food. But that's all he can do. He goes without to provide me with that. Otherwise I'd be homeless, hungry, and who knows where.
So I'm blessed to have the basics in life. But there's so many things that I need that I have to beg other people for. My family is...not so supportive. All I have left are aunts and uncles, all except one on my mom's side. My mom's side of the family pretty much abandoned me when she died. They put me though shame and humiliation when I ask for help.
I want a job, but I live in a very rural area. I've applied s o many places up to an hour away but I don't hear anything back. Recently I applied for some state jobs which I'm hoping might come through.
These are the things I need and things I want, so you know what my intentions are.
Need:
Toilet paper.... :( The way I've been getting it now is to go into public restrooms and putting some in my purse. I feel wrong about this. But what can I say, it's a necessity?
Personal items...I won't go into detail but I'm talking about um, feminine ones. I get the Dollar Store brand kind, but even then it's too much. I've had to go without it which is very hard.
Hygiene items...I stopped using soap and shampoo conditioner. I would love to...I feel dirty honestly. But I can't afford anything. I only use deodorant every few days because the bottle is running low and I'm trying to make it last.
House items...I need dish washing soap. I can't afford paper plates and am just washing dishes with hot water now. Sometimes I cant' clean it all the way through that way, but I just have to forget it. I also need laundry detergent. I'm almost out of a huge bottle that I have made last over a year. It was Sun brand from the dollar store, and I loved it. I'm all about generic.
Gas money...My car is an old SUV, and it takes a fair amount of gas. I try to limit when I drive. But it's a necessity since I live alone and in a rural area. I have to drive to run errands, go see the doctor, go to job interviews. I usually beg for this the most cause this is one of the things I can't do without.
Medication...I'm on two heart medications because of my arrhythmia. It's important I take them. I tried taking them twice per day instead of three, and I had horrible palpitations. So this is kind of my priority. As I'm still uninsured, both medications cost about 12 dollars a month.
Okay those are all things that I feel I need. Now, what I "want".
Clothes...I haven't bought new clothes since 2007. That's when my dad got diagnosed with cancer. My shirts have holes in them, so do my jeans. I got them from Goodwill originally most likely, I like to be frugal. The only person I have is made of linen and has a hole so things fall out of it! I've lost weight and I have had my jeans fall down in public. It's bad. I only have one bra and it's way past it's prime. I would love a little money to buy some basic things. Jeans that fit, some cotton T-shirts, a purse. Maybe even something for job interviews? I think part of the reason I get denied is because I show up in jeans and a T and flip flips. But that's all I have.
Beauty stuff...Okay, this stuff is totally not worth your money, I get it. But I just thought I'd list everything. It sucks being a young woman who can't feel pretty. I'm unwashed, my clothes make me feel like a hobo. I see other girls my age in class (I attend college part time thanks to financial aid) looking and smelling beautiful. I mean...
I just want a hair cut. Recently, I hacked about 6 inches off myself with scissors. It's not pretty. I just want a little powder and some lip gloss to not feel so plain. I just want a spritz of perfume so that there's something beautiful in my senses. I daydream about when I used to wear cute clothes, go to a salon. Wear mascara and paint my names. Ahh...But this is just a dream. I don't expect anyone to help me with things like that.
A new laptop/tablet...The one I have now is really old and really slow. Don't expect anyone to get me one. If it happened, I would probably assume I'm dead and in some sort of heavenly afterlife. Then I might pass out from shock.
So this my friends, is my general beg for help. I'm a 23 year old girl without much family. My basics are covered, but that leaves a lot for someone who is broke. I'm actively searching for employment. I've applied from Dr.'s offices to bars. I'm part time in college, and I'm not sure what I want to study yet.
I don't drink, if I had the money for beer I'd buy TP instead. I don't smoke or do any illegal drugs. I'm not a criminal.
I am not someone who wants to just take money. If you are down on your luck too, please don't send me anything. Put it in savings. Give it to some of these people who are about to lose their homes if you must. They're deserving.
If you're apprehensive about giving money but still want to help, you totally can. A package filled with toilet paper, tampons, shampoo...that would be like Christmas morning to me, I swear.
I'm not sure what I'm going to get out of this. Writing this was therapeutic though. If you're on this site, you're already a nice person. I bet 90 percent of the traffic is people who want something, like me. People who go on here to help someone is probably such a rare thing.
Thanks for reading.
A Bailout for Jane Q. Public
Posted by montanahelp on 2011-10-30 18:58:10
I owe close to $1000.00 in property and mobile home taxes. Two are considered deliquent. The other two are due the end of Novermber. The longer I can't pay, the more interest is added. My property taxes keep rising every six months. The value of my property has dropped because of the housing bust. Most non-profit charities will not help with property taxes. I work part-time cleaning private houses. It is the only job I can find in my area.It barely-I mean barely- covers my utilities, car insurance, etc. The state can legally take my home just like a mortgage lender if I cannot pay my taxes. I have an old computer with dialup so I cannot join Facebook or twitter due to outdated technology.
Therefore, I am challenging a rich Wall Street banker or other rich banker or anybody with money to burn to help bail me (Jane Q. Public) out of the tank. I cannot pay you back, but I will thank you personally if given the opportunity. I also have other outstanding bills. A doctor bill for $118.00. And I also need the basic necessities of life. Hygiene products, toilet paper, dog food. $25.00 for a flu shot. You name, I can use it. I am in survival mode and have been for the last couple of years.
So, if anyone would like to tweet, facebook me, or whatever to get the attention of a rich, wealthy person I would be eternally gratefully.
Yes, I am angry like millions of other people in our country. We need help and we need jobs to support ourselves properly. I hate having to beg for help. But what else can I do?
Thank you and God Bless
Exp Pvt CareGiver/Comp/Hskpr In Need OF F/T-P/T AnyThing !!!!
Posted by dawnmariexx on 2011-10-02 10:58:10
im also familiar with Alzhimers, Dementia and Senility and most of the the problems that affect Seniors!!!
i can also change an adult diaper, do bed linens, give meds
bathing, dressing, personal hygiene includs hair/nails/feet
assit walking, grocery shopping, errans answer phone....
also PC Literate well organized/multi tasker!!!
Drs appts, Beauty Salon...
im also an excellent houseKeeper...Lite and deep cleaning...
i also do laundry and clean house as well as general living areas
Im also a lite cook prepare all meals...including hot and cold food...
Im also great with children and very pet friendly!!! cat or dog is fine!!! (will also care for)
I also give (Therapeutic Massage) if needed!!!
Im seeking a F/T OR P/T position, btwn the hrs of 11am-7pm or 12pm-8pm overtime ok, nothing less than 4 hrs..
days would be Mons,Tues,Thurs,Fridays, Sundays
As for rate very affordable, will work with-in yr budget!!!
Not looking to get Rich, just survive in this Economy!!!
iM DESPERATLEY IN NEED OF A JOB!!!
iM FACING EVICTION!!! I cant pay other half of my monthly rent $347, if u know of any resources or agencies that can help me pay other half thank-you in advance!!!
I have Excellent References!!!
Im well read/traveled and can converse on most topics!!!
love to read do crosswords, classic movies, the Arts/History
also into "retro tv" as well as modern contempary, Masterpiece Theatre, BBC
Im also easy going, very caring and compassionate...
Im seeking in the local BayRidge area but will work any where with-in the NYC METRO AREA!!!
Thanks so much Sincerely DawnMarie
Exp Pvt CareGiver/Comp/Hskpr In Need OF F/T-P/T AnyThing !!!!
Posted by dawnmariexx on 2011-10-02 10:58:07
im also familiar with Alzhimers, Dementia and Senility and most of the the problems that affect Seniors!!!
i can also change an adult diaper, do bed linens, give meds
bathing, dressing, personal hygiene includs hair/nails/feet
assit walking, grocery shopping, errans answer phone....
also PC Literate well organized/multi tasker!!!
Drs appts, Beauty Salon...
im also an excellent houseKeeper...Lite and deep cleaning...
i also do laundry and clean house as well as general living areas
Im also a lite cook prepare all meals...including hot and cold food...
Im also great with children and very pet friendly!!! cat or dog is fine!!! (will also care for)
I also give (Therapeutic Massage) if needed!!!
Im seeking a F/T OR P/T position, btwn the hrs of 11am-7pm or 12pm-8pm overtime ok, nothing less than 4 hrs..
days would be Mons,Tues,Thurs,Fridays, Sundays
As for rate very affordable, will work with-in yr budget!!!
Not looking to get Rich, just survive in this Economy!!!
Im desperatley in Need of a job!!!
Im facing eviction, please if some one can help me, or know of any resources that can help me pay "half of my rent" $347 monthly
Thank-you in advance!!!
I have Excellent References!!!
Im well read/traveled and can converse on most topics!!!
love to read do crosswords, classic movies, the Arts/History
also into "retro tv" as well as modern contempary, Masterpiece Theatre, BBC
Im also easy going, very caring and compassionate...
Im seeking in the local BayRidge area but will work any where with-in the NYC METRO AREA!!!
Thanks so much Sincerely DawnMarie
PLEASE NO AGENCIES!!! THIS IS PRIVATE CAREGIVING!!!
Exp Pvt CareGiver/Comp/Hskpr In Need OF F/T-P/T AnyThing !!!!
Posted by dawnmariexx on 2011-10-02 10:58:03
im also familiar with Alzhimers, Dementia and Senility and most of the the problems that affect Seniors!!!
i can also change an adult diaper, do bed linens, give meds
bathing, dressing, personal hygiene includs hair/nails/feet
assit walking, grocery shopping, errans answer phone....
also PC Literate well organized/multi tasker!!!
Drs appts, Beauty Salon...
im also an excellent houseKeeper...Lite and deep cleaning...
i also do laundry and clean house as well as general living areas
Im also a lite cook prepare all meals...including hot and cold food...
Im also great with children and very pet friendly!!! cat or dog is fine!!! (will also care for)
I also give (Therapeutic Massage) if needed!!!
Im seeking a F/T OR P/T position, btwn the hrs of 11am-7pm or 12pm-8pm overtime ok, nothing less than 4 hrs..
days would be Mons,Tues,Thurs,Fridays, Sundays
As for rate very affordable, will work with-in yr budget!!!
Not looking to get Rich, just survive in This Econmy!!!
I really need a job!!! im facing eviction can some please help me!!!
this is for private caregiving
I have Excellent References!!!
Im well read/traveled and can converse on most topics!!!
love to read do crosswords, classic movies, the Arts/History
also into "retro tv" as well as modern contempary, Masterpiece Theatre, BBC
Im also easy going, very caring and compassionate...
Im seeking in the local BayRidge area but will work any where with-in the NYC METRO AREA!!!
If interested send me an e-mail with details about type care age of senior/person hrs looking and location?!!!
Thanks so much Sincerely DawnMarie
PLEASE NO AGENCIES!!! THIS IS PRIVATE CAREGIVING!!!
Recent grad, need help with bills
Posted by brokendesperate on 2011-07-14 10:58:36
They don't really tell you how expensive dental hygiene school is before you start. It is very difficult to get in, and even though I wasn't financially ready to go back to school, I had to jump on the chance when I got accepted. I received financial aid and student loans, which covered my tuition and other expenses while in school. There are many other expenses that aren't part of the actual "education" such as taking board exams to get your state license which cost me over $3000 in the last 6 months. Since my loans did not cover this, I had to rely on credit cards and a supplemental loan to pay for these exams. Luckily for me, I passed the exams because if you fail one you have to pay again to take them!
Since I've been out of school for a month, obviously the student loan checks have stopped coming to me and I'm pretty much out of options. My family has done what they can to help, but they all have bills of their own too. I'm now 3 months behind on my electric, 2 months behind on water, and have just fallen behind on my credit card bills, and this morning I found out that my bank account has overdrafted. I just barely made rent this month and haven't a clue how I'm going to come up with it again at the beginning of August. I am hoping that I'll be able to find some work if my license is issued in the next week but even then I won't receive a paycheck for a couple of weeks.
I'm not really expecting anything from posting here, but it does make me feel a little better getting that all off my chest. Thank you for reading, and if you can manage to help in any way I would be forever grateful.
Please help. Laid off Single Mom; Unable to find work
Posted by mfinch on 2011-07-08 08:58:59
Now, I am 34 and at the lowest point of my life. As I write, I am at the library, as I have no Internet connection at home - wherever that is most days. Each and every day is a struggle in this economy and have been seeking employment since I was laid off from my job November 2010 and was subsequently denied unemployment (technical glitch, I suppose).
Since then, I have applied for a myriad of jobs from McDonald's to administrative positions. Yes, I have landed a few interviews, but no call backs due to saturation levels of job seekers applying for the very same jobs I could so easily procure in years past. It use to be that I could find a job at the drop of a hat. Now, I am oddly lucky if I land an interview.
So why am I here? Because, to be frank, I am desperate. My home is in foreclosure. My gas has been turned off (I owe them $500). Without gas to cook or heat our water, we have little use for the house. We have sold what we had of any value to bring in a bit of money. The people (friends and family) who were able to help me before either can no longer help or are unwilling to do so. They have given up hope, and I am almost there, myself. This month, I have no idea how I will pay my car payment. I only owe $4,000 on it. I pay $234 a month. I bought it at $22,000. I have no income, and so, no bills get paid unless a friend is able to help me that month. We need transportation.
I have an eleven year old daughter. She has been a real trooper through all of this. I love her dearly and she knows I would do anything for her. I do what I can to take care of her. She always gets what she needs before I get anything. I am trying hard not to lose her. I have already lost one daughter due to this situation.
When I lost my job in November, I was 3 months pregnant. In April, when she was born, I thought I would have a job by then, but was forced to give her up for adoption since I was unable to care for her and no one around me was able to take her. It was the hardest thing I have ever had to do, but I had to make sure she was cared for and given a chance at a happy life rather than one of struggle. I do not want to lose my older daughter, too, but without my home, I certainly will. I simply have no place to go. I would have loved being mommy to two girls. I miss her so much. I will always have an empty space in my heart only she can fill. I only find comfort in the fact that I know she is safe and well cared for, and loved.
What about child support? That is a whole different story, but my daughter's father is attempting to terminate support on the basis that he has bills to pay, "other" children to support and a fiancee. The $50 per week he has been forced to pay is simply gone before it hits the card. Gas is expensive. So are clothes. So are hygiene products. My daughter needs things. I don't mean gadgets. I mean shelter, transportation, clothing.
Do I have a plan? Yes. I am actively seeking employment. I am $9,000 behind on the mortgage. Without my home, we are on the streets. If I cannot pay my car, I cannot sleep in my car. I am attempting to avoid living in either my car or on the street. I cannot get public housing or section 8 as the waiting list is over a year long wait. When I call the homeless shelter, the beds are always full with a waiting list. I cannot go to the YMCA since I am not a druggie or alcoholic and I am not in a domestic violence relationship. So, in the meantime, I have let go of my pride, humbled myself and decided to seek the help of others through donations. School will be starting soon. I need to buy my daughter clothes for school. I need to be able to provide her shelter.
My list of bills is short. The ones that matter, anyway. I have a $234 car payment, $55 for my cell phone (I have to be reached somehow), $75 for car insurance, and spend about $80 a week for fuel. I was notified yesterday that my home is in active foreclosure and am awaiting my court date. I need $100 for a truck to move my belongings and $75 to procure a storage room the first month and $65 a month, thereafter.
Please, if you are able to donate, I am desperate. I will be posting each week the amounts of money that may be donated, even if that number is zero. I will also post what the money has been used for and when I get a job, and no longer need assistance, I will cease to seek them. I will pay it forward when I am able as I know I am not the only one is this situation.
i just dont know what to do
Posted by cheerblonde866 on 2011-07-01 20:58:00
i have about 20,000 in debt from exes and stolen cards.
Also wanting to get married. no money and bad credit.
Help me pay bills, loans, debt , or pay for my wedding and fix my credit.
http://www.edulender.com/community/Chelsea.Brook/ to read more or donate there. thanks!
will i have a honeymoon?
Posted by cheerblonde866 on 2011-07-01 19:58:59
i have about 20,000 in debt from exes and stolen cards.
Also wanting to get married. no money and bad credit.
Help me pay bills, loans, debt , or pay for my wedding and fix my credit.
http://www.edulender.com/community/Chelsea.Brook/ to read more or donate there. thanks!
trouble with rent
Posted by cheerblonde866 on 2011-07-01 19:58:58
i have about 20,000 in debt from exes and stolen cards.
Also wanting to get married. no money and bad credit.
Help me pay bills, loans, debt , or pay for my wedding and fix my credit.
http://www.edulender.com/community/Chelsea.Brook/ to read more or donate there. thanks!
looking for charity in any amount
Posted by cheerblonde866 on 2011-07-01 19:58:58
i have about 20,000 in debt from exes and stolen cards.
Also wanting to get married. no money and bad credit.
Help me pay bills, loans, debt , or pay for my wedding and fix my credit.
http://www.edulender.com/community/Chelsea.Brook/ to read more or donate there. thanks!
save me and my future family
Posted by cheerblonde866 on 2011-07-01 19:58:57
i have about 20,000 in debt from exes and stolen cards.
Also wanting to get married. no money and bad credit.
Help me pay bills, loans, debt , or pay for my wedding and fix my credit.
http://www.edulender.com/community/Chelsea.Brook/ to read more or donate there. thanks!
drowning in loans
Posted by cheerblonde866 on 2011-07-01 19:58:57
i have about 20,000 in debt from exes and stolen cards.
Also wanting to get married. no money and bad credit.
Help me pay bills, loans, debt , or pay for my wedding and fix my credit.
http://www.edulender.com/community/Chelsea.Brook/ to read more or donate there. thanks!
bills, loans, debt, and a coming wedding...
Posted by cheerblonde866 on 2011-07-01 19:58:56
i have about 20,000 in debt from exes and stolen cards.
Also wanting to get married. no money and bad credit.
Help me pay bills, loans, debt , or pay for my wedding and fix my credit.
http://www.edulender.com/community/Chelsea.Brook/ to read more or donate there. thanks!
Dental Care Cost Far to Much to Bare.
Posted by GoalsSet on 2011-06-27 13:58:43
I have a family history of poor dentition. When I was a child I used to have enamel treatments in which is they would put a layer of clear acrylic over my teeth once a year. It has been many years since those treatments. Another issue that compacts the pre-existing issues is acid reflux I suffer from while I sleep, which the dentist told me furthers the decay, especially in the back. My teeth desperately need care.
Recently one of my teeth began to hurt, I bought a few over the counter remedies and tried to deal with the pain in hopes it was temporary. The pain persisted so I decided visit a dentist. After examining me he told me the immediate problem was two abscessed teeth both needing root canals. Both teeth combined were $6300. I need far more work than that done and some of my teeth may be beyond repair.
They say the smile is the gateway to the soul. I want to feel comfortable smiling and talking. I don't want to wonder if someone see's my teeth. People shouldn't judge but they do. I just wish I could do what is needed to feel comfortable. At this moment, it seems such a difficult goal to reach. Please help me.
Completely desperate
Posted by chibiflamey on 2011-06-21 22:58:13
I'm 25 and I graduated college with a Bachelor's degree in Psychology last year, and like most people, have had trouble finding a good job. Unfortunately, I also graduated with $60,000 in student loans and almost $8,000 in credit card debt.
So I decided to go back to college again for Dental Hygiene. I was rejected from all of the schools I applied to, but then one college called me back last week, saying that there was an opening in their Dental Hygiene program.
Now my parents have been on my case about NOT getting into a Dental Hygiene program for months, because according to them I didn't try hard enough to get in. Granted, I'm not a 4.0 GPA student, but a 3.6 is a great GPA and I am a very good student.
Anyways, now that I've gotten into a program, they don't want me to go because it's too far away (I'd only be moving 2 hours away) and they're refusing to cosign my loans (and since I have a Bachelor's degree already, I can't get any government help at all, so I absolutely need a loan. And my credit isn't good enough to get a loan on my own).
I have been trying to get scholarships, but I know that even if I get lucky and get a scholarship, it won't cover even half of the costs. I don't want my parents to keep me from improving my life and actually getting a good career, but right now, I'm not sure what I can do. I'm quite broke, and I have no way of paying for Dental Hygiene out of pocket.
On top of that, I have my current debt to worry about, and I just feel like I'm drowning in it. I don't know who else to turn to. My family has turned their backs on me, and I am desperately alone and afraid. If anyone could help me out, even a little, that would be amazing.
I hate it here
Posted by mhines3247 on 2011-05-28 14:58:33
I hate it here
Posted by mhines3247 on 2011-05-28 14:58:33
