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Good evening I needing money to pay off my mortage so I can buy a new mobile home or repair this one its 1978 and getting in bad shape i dont own that much so every little bit helps also would love to help my middle boy pay off his student loan hes had a hard time tring to find a job in what he loves he went two years to school and never missed a day plus worked two jobs just to make ends meet Thanks for your help

i need help to get out of an abusive relationship,i've never done this before but i have no where to turn.right now i'm unemployed,cause im not allowed to leave or have my own money,my boyfriend controls all the money in the house,even the spare change.all of our vehicles are in his name so if i try to leave he can say i stole them and have me arrested.i cant turn to friends the only ones he allows me to have are ones he picks that will tell him if i try to leave,and hes isolated me from my family.i dont want to let me sons grow up watching their mother getting beaten anymore,and shelters aren't an option where im at,i cant take much more,any little bit will help,thank you in advance,i have a paypal account you can email me if you need to.

I was already struggling because my daughters father refuses to help, hes $3000 behind in child support but i was working and struggling. I thought I found an answer with a new job. I moved 200 miles from my home and began to work. I got a paycheck and everything HOWEVER, the paycheck wasnt real. It put me into more debt and now i have a new apt with bills to pay and no way to pay them:( they killed my credit and no state assistance will help me until im homeless. i dont want me and my baby to be homeless:( please help.

My husband and i have been married 7 years, both work full time but bought a house (when i say bought, i mean got an interest only mortgage on a rubbish deal tied in for 5 year)that was 3 years ago and we pay our way but thats all we can afford to do, we try to save but what pity little we manage to put back is always needed for something, most recently the dentist, needed antibiotics 3 times, £7.50 each time because we work,£17.50 just for the dentist to see me and thats the NHS dentist. Sorry for going on, our problem is that we desperatly want a baby together, we have been through every test the docs wanted and the end result was unexplained infertility and as weve been trying for 7 years he gave us a 1% chance of conceiving naturally , usually the NHS would offer 3 attempts at IVF but because my husband has a son (hes 16 now) who i love and have been lucky enough to have in my life, we are not eligible and will have to pay approx £5000 for 1 attempt at IVF.Obviously if anyone by some mirracle was able to help i would get and provide with receipts or a statement of how much it costs. i havent got a bit of paper with the price on but ill sharp get one and show you. I hate doing this,begging, it's against everything i stand for bar one thing and i would give my life just for the oppportunity. My husband is 43 which to the docs is no issue but im 28, 29 this year so the clock is ticking. ivf is only offered under 36 years for woman.Any help even just advice, we'd be most grateful,please and thank you. Sarah x

Hello there, my name is Lorraine. I am here as I need help. I am 43 with a child aged 13. New Years Eve 2010 I got married to a gentleman who I adored,hes 55 we didnt tell anyone we was doing this only our 2 witnesses. It was a gorgeous day. Feb 2011 I picked up my Husbands phone to another woman!I cannot tell you how devastated I was, I still am. This had been going on 10 months & whilst we planned our wedding day. He begged me for another chance which I gave him. We moved house for a "new start" which as it needed quite alot of work doing it took my mind off the problems. Well, it hasnt worked out & im devastated. The problem now is that although we are married as its only been a short time i'm not entitled to stay in the property. The mortgage is in my husbands name (long story)& it was his savings paid the deposit. I'm beginning to wonder if this was his plan all along. I have now got to move out before I lose my sanity. I have been sleeping in the spare room & my son is being affected by this atmosphere we live in which in turn is affecting his schoolwork. I dont claim benefits, I'm a hard worker & the only thing I have is my car which I am more than prepared to sell to pay a deposit to rent somewhere. Its not worth much though & I still need to travel to work (15miles) can anyone please consider helping me? If not me then consider my Son? I'm not asking for much, even a couple pence helps towards something. I'm a proud person & this is very difficult for me. Thankyou in advance to everyone that has read my letter.

im a 22 year old mother of two small children. i cant work right now due to transportation issues. my daughters daddy died in 2009 when my daughter was still kicking in my tummy i was devistated. its rough raising two small children alone. but god knows what hes doing. if it werent for god i would be dead. i just realy need help through this rough spot its not like me but this is my last resort. i dont know what im going to do about the late powerbill but im constantly thinking of something. im trying to find a work at home job until i can afford another job and thinking of ways to possibly raise money so me and my kids can move back to my hometown which is monroe nc because my apartment is in a bad neighborhood and my father is an hour away dying with cancer i need to find a house there by him. i need to come up with possibly 500 to 1000 for a deposit on a house there. if u have any ideas please message me or email me at jstattedangel@yahoo.com im no fake i do have pics of me and my kids. im just struggling but god has brought me through alot worse. *nicole* ps i do not have a credit card or paypal if u wish to donate would have to be mailed.

Shortly after Christmas 2011 my father was diagnosed with small cell carcinoma (lung cancer) that had spread to his brain. He had two tumors in his brain. Hes been through two brain surgeries, radiation, and now were about to start chemo therapy. We have to travel a little over an hour to where his treatments are. His insurance has a share of cost and they are adding up fast! I have a huge stack of bills I don't know what to do with. Let alone feeding him, prescriptions, and everything else along the way. I really hate being in this position I just don't know what to do. :(

Fundraising is hard but if you could spare some money(literally anything) and donate via paypal to:dbzbrah123@hotmail.co.uk as all of the funds will go to burying my best friend who recently passed(he got run over by a 4x4).His family is pretty poor.

I wouldn't normally do this and this cost alot of my pride but i need to do EVERYTHING to help him- hes my best friend and he needs a good send off.Im only 18(and in school)so this way seems like a good way of raising funds.

Fundraising is hard but if you could spare some money(literally anything) and donate via paypal to:dbzbrah123@hotmail.co.uk as all of the funds will go to burying my best friend who recently passed(he got run over by a 4x4).His family is pretty poor.

I wouldn't normally do this and this cost alot of my pride but i need to do EVERYTHING to help him- hes my best friend and he needs a good send off.Im only 18(and in school)so this way seems like a good way of raising funds.


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hi,im a single mum of 3,one autistic child and times are very hard for us as a family ,my son dances and travels around going to comp which is his life ,i find it hard not only buying his costumes but paying to go to watch him it costs alot to travel for us all can anyone help us ? hes won every comp hes gone to and i want to help him keep his dream come true ,he just wants to dance ....

Hello, Honestly I can not believe that I am writting this so i thank you for reading. I am a mom to a wonderful 15 month old little boy who is my world. I have never been married however I have been with my sons father for 7 years, 5 of which we have lived together. Our relationship was "movie perfect" at first and it just slowly went downhill over the years. I am not going to lie, he has never physically hurt me. However I have been called names and degrated in front of people for the last time. I need to leave but I was laid off when I was 18 weeks pregnate and have been a stay at home mom ever since.......Just to give an example of what I have to put up with, we were at a christmas party with everyone he works with and in front of everyone he says you have something on your but and when I asked what he said Oh nevermind thats just your wide load sign. I know this may seem very small thing to some of you but thats just an example. I go threw these mean and hateful comments daily. I have told him that they hurt me and wish he would stop but he just said that if i dont like it I should leave...he said that hes not going to put up with me talking back to him since I have gained weight and became ugly, he says he didnt mind "putting up" with me when I was skinner and I embarres him. Now, I am not overweight, in truth I used to be underweight when we met. I could tell stories of the like all day long, and I havent even mentioned the emails and facebook messages I have seen of him telling other women how beautiful they are and how he wishes I wasnt a cow. I just cant let my son grow up in this life thinking this is the way he is supposed to treat women. I know this is part my fault for not leaving him sooner, but that is all water under the bridge now. I have a beautiful baby who deserves better than living in this "family". I cant leave without any money as I have no job. I have put in dozens of applications yet I an told they are not hiring but I will be put on the waiting list. Anything you can offer that can get me and my son out of this house would be forever greatful and if you cant donate a prayer for me and my son would be just as apperciated.Thanks again for your time, and for reading my story.....it felt good to get off my chest for a while. God bless

Hi my name is Danielle Gonzalez. Im 22 yrs old and just had my daughter Jaylynn Dejesus on November 22 of 2011(shes my 1st and only child). My boyfriends name is Julian Dejesus ,he's 21 yrs old. Julian is currently incarcertaed at the manhattan detention center in downtown manhattan, New york city. Julian is severally emotionally disturbed and suffers from anxiety as well he also has a diagnosis of minor adhd. .He was originally arrested for possesion with intention to sell. While he was awaiting the judge at the benches in court his ex lawyer(legal aid) had told he and I that he would be facing some serious time and she also stated to him that I was not coming to the courthouse which also would cause him to panic. Julian had paniced and try to flee from court. He is know charged with possession with intention to sell, assault on an officer(allegedly) and escape. His next court date is on jan 4th 2012. If it is possible for him to do an impatient program without any jailtime please help me get that for him.hes been in there sence he was arrested on December 1st. If theres is anything you can assist me with even if you can't personally help I'de really appreciate the guidance im really desprite and would like to do what ever I can to help him. Julian Is not a bad person this is his first offence and there kind of trying to throw away the key. He has so much more to offer and deserves a second chance at life to show everyone how wonderful of a person he can be. He had NO guidance what so ever as a young kid. No mother of father his grandmother is illiterate and the rest of his family are drug addicts. he grew up in a domestic violence home. he raised his self on the streets living from crack house to crack house.Im not asking for any pitty or any money im just asking for help and understanding, i want him to see there are good people out there who do care even without any attachments to a person. Please help me, I beg you!(his bail is 12,000) but i cannot afford that at all!!)please help meeee!!!any donations help pls

Im not the one to ask for handouts, but im so desperate that im at my ends wit. I had been in a relationship for 3 yrs with my ex. This was the first man i had ever lived with. I cooked, cleaned, gave plenty of love, completed all that was asked of me, yet was never good enough for him. He threw me out and threatened to call the cops at 9pm. I suspected he had sumone on the side. All i had known in my town was his fam, no friends he was real jealous. I didnt beg or want to fight and packed my stuff. There was no one or no where to go so i stayed in a motel that night. With the money i saved during the relationship, i bought a 78 travel trailer and made it my home. Im now trying to make life for me and be successful. I work, go to school fulltime and after paying mthly bills, im lucky to have a few dollars to buy groceries or gas. I dnt party, drink or do drugs. I dnt date either, my heart is still dealing with me being thrown out for no reason. I save every penny, and am very frugal. Every so many weeks i have enough change saved and buy gas to see my fam who lives two hrs away. I never question God, hes made me stronger. Just wish i could buy a candy or icecream now and then. And not worry and stress so much over lack of money. Any donation would help me, prayers too would be appreciated too.

Ok here are the basics of my story. I am a hard working mom of 3. Been with the same selfish man for 13 yrs. Hes been unemployed for over a year couldnt even keep up with housework while I work overnights for a greedy corprate owned pharmacy. One day dcf shows up because the kids clothes were dirty. After seeing a messy house ( thanks to guess who ) an investigation is started . I do all that is asked all is well. Same investigator comes back a year later. Police escort sees no reason for kids to be taken but that doesnt matter to dcf. Children get taken anyway. Begged him to take them to my sister (the one person in this world I thought I could trust) Now because her same sex partner has fallen in love with my children and is heart broken over having to give them back my sister has done everything from false anonomys allegations to telling counslers that they are so traumatized by me that even the sound of my voice over the phone makes them wet their beds at night. Lies to me and says she never said anything like that meanwhile I have all copies of every document stating the exact opposite. Her only response is how can you believe them over me Im family
Nobody cares that im border line of having a nervous breakdown over not being with my kids. The only part of the caseplan i havent completed yet is mr. wonderfui finding a job and moving to a place that doest have stinky well water. What i want to do is get a place on my own without mr
wrong but how do you come up with first and last months rent when by the end of the week your counting change for gas money?

hi, we are both disable and just got into our 50's.and our health is pretty bad.my live in boyfriend of 25 yrs.is a dieabetic,and has to take 4 shots a day of insalin.he has had to 2 heart surgeries,his golbladder out, he has a bad lung,and a kidney problem ,aone with a whole bad arm, as in not to lift any thing,he has been like this for 4 yrs.and my problems i have had for 8 yrs.but mine is not like my boyfriends , life threatenig,he does get a hole 62.00 a month from food stamps. and he does now get ssi.but as we all know that it is hard for older people to servie on the amount the gov. gives.when 1 bag of potatoes, and gresse is 7.00.and that it get hard to work if you ars older, and in bad health.we have never even had a credit card of any kind our hole lives.we rent a hous for 600.00 plus bills and cant even take a shower because,it smells like rotten eggs, and the landlrd dont care, we dont have any money to try to fix it,even when we first moved in the wood stove chimmy cought on fire.so when my boyfriend got a ssi check, we brought new piping for 80.00 and the landlord said, well that will save on your light bill,hes not giving us any money back on that.and this is not the first fire we have been in and the landlords have paid us any thing. any ways i know so many people are so much worst off than me. i kno howit is when you cant buy your family member a gift or something.so,any amount from .25cent and up will help, because it will all add up,and GOD BLESS YOU AND BE WITH YOU ALWAYS.

need to pay rent and bills totalling $1200 by the end of this month and xmas is coming....i cant get ahead and i have an 8yo son who deserves a good xmas...hes been very good this year

Im a low income patient and cant afford treatment for a chiropractor. I've had chronic back pain for 4 years and theres not 1 doctor ive ran into who no's whats wrong. My next option is a chiropractor, and hes willing to HELP me:)! I have 30 dollars but need 20 more. Please it will be a big help.

iam in need of help lost my job in 2007 can't find work,my husband is the only one that has a job , hes trying to pay bills , im a diabeteic cant afford to buy meds every month, i have to kids my daughter needs glasses but dont have the extra money they need cloths dental work , we are around $7000.oo in debt,we need money for food we buy food every 2 weeks but its not a lot, i have never ask for help, i ask god to show me a way and this is what poped in my head , so anything will be grate full thanks and god bless

Hello, My wife and I have a 9 month old baby girl Ava and we live in Alabama. Our home is being forclosed and we need to move up north to be closer to family and hopefully get jobs quickly. we have no money saved as we struggle just to buy diapers and baby food and keep the lights on. When my wife was pregnant I was transferred for work and she could not find a job as no one will hire a pregnant woman. we used all our savings and ran up 20k + in cc debt along with not being able to pay our mortgage. cc debt was just from paying bills. We have to leave our place oct 11th and are wanting to move near ohio to be closer to family and hopefully get a fresh start and jobs making more money. we are scraping to save every penny to afford the move and I fear that the move will end with us not having a dime and waiting to get a job could put us in peril. I feel like a disappointment to my family I work but dont make near enough. my wives credit is ruined and mine is well on the way. I just dont know what else to do. Im not a religious man but im beginning to think that may be a cause in our problems. Ive started praying lately and maybe god lead me here I hope . Its easy to post some words on here one might think but in reality its a last resort other than begging for money on the street. I almost tried to counterfiet money but i need to be here for my family and not behind bars but it was a serious consideration. I just want to provide for my wife and baby and ive failed. I hope someone can help. either way thanks for reading my problems and I hope if there is a god hes listening.

I have a full time job but my fiance has not found a job since he got laid off in February pretty much i work from 9 to 6 and i come home and hes on the couch mainly because he has no fucking car so he cant look for a damn job! ....but this is the reason i'm here i buy food pay for my gas; however i don't make enough to pay for utilities and half of rent i pay his half (cause hes a fuck tard)and my car payment and insurance and other shit so i'm a bit short this month on utilities and by short i mean im 100 dollars off i dont have anything to pawn anymore i need help i need it by this week that would be greatly appreciated....

I have a full time job but my fiance has not found a job since he got laid off in February pretty much i work from 9 to 6 and i come home and hes on the couch mainly because he has no fucking car so he cant look for a damn job! ....but this is the reason i'm here i buy food pay for my gas; however i don't make enough to pay for utilities and half of rent i pay his half (cause hes a fuck tard)and my car payment and insurance and other shit so i'm a bit short this month on utilities and by short i mean im 100 dollars off i dont have anything to pawn anymore i need help i need it by this week that would be greatly appreciated....

Hello, I am a 23 year old mother of a 19 month old son. I am getting married this May, and have acquired some credit card debt. I also can not pay for the essentials for my wedding (tuxes, flowers, photogrpaher etc). I want to be able to pay off my debts (not entirely but pay them down would be nice). My monthly debt payments are greater than my income. I am not going to give you a sob story nor do I expect to recieve a penny. But I am desperate I am about to file for bankruptcy and i figured this couldnt hurt. $1.00 per peson who reads this could change my families life. And I would be so thankful for the help you have given us. So please if not for me and my own stupid debts please do it so I can give my son the life he deserves not one where hes living in the slums because thats all we can afford.

Hello, I am a 23 year old mother of a 19 month old son. I am getting married this May, and have acquired some credit card debt. I also can not pay for the essentials for my wedding (tuxes, flowers, photogrpaher etc). I want to be able to pay off my debts (not entirely but pay them down would be nice). My monthly debt payments are greater than my income. I am not going to give you a sob story nor do I expect to recieve a penny. But I am desperate I am about to file for bankruptcy and i figured this couldnt hurt. $1.00 per peson who reads this could change my families life. And I would be so thankful for the help you have given us. So please if not for me and my own stupid debts please do it so I can give my son the life he deserves not one where hes living in the slums because thats all we can afford.

Hello, I am a 23 year old mother of a 19 month old son. I am getting married this May, and have acquired some credit card debt. I also can not pay for the essentials for my wedding (tuxes, flowers, photogrpaher etc). I want to be able to pay off my debts (not entirely but pay them down would be nice). My monthly debt payments are greater than my income. I am not going to give you a sob story nor do I expect to recieve a penny. But I am desperate I am about to file for bankruptcy and i figured this couldnt hurt. $1.00 per peson who reads this could change my families life. And I would be so thankful for the help you have given us. So please if not for me and my own stupid debts please do it so I can give my son the life he deserves not one where hes living in the slums because thats all we can afford.

Hello, I am a 23 year old mother of a 19 month old son. I am getting married this May, and have acquired some credit card debt. I also can not pay for the essentials for my wedding (tuxes, flowers, photogrpaher etc). I want to be able to pay off my debts (not entirely but pay them down would be nice). My monthly debt payments are greater than my income. I am not going to give you a sob story nor do I expect to recieve a penny. But I am desperate I am about to file for bankruptcy and i figured this couldnt hurt. $1.00 per peson who reads this could change my families life. And I would be so thankful for the help you have given us. So please if not for me and my own stupid debts please do it so I can give my son the life he deserves not one where hes living in the slums because thats all we can afford.