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My life was wonderful I met the greatest girl in the world 12 years younger than me.We lost a baby during late pregnancy and I asked her to marry me January 5th on the 8th we took a nap and my soon to be wife died on my chest at 28 y/o I wanted to die with her but had to go on for my mom and neices and nephews so I relocated to the top of the us in Northern maine just to get away while on this trip to get my heart back and mind I met my sisters best friend and I was so in need of emotional help we bonded fast she was so much like my late fiancee age personality habits all the same well she has lupus she is in hospital now in bad shape from her system being septic infection in her shoulder bone.We have an autistic son living in a top floor that is very small we really need help I wanna make my family happy I have surgery coming up on my back cut from neck to butt my liver is in bad shape and we r broke please help me one dollar will help anything please!you can even mail a card to say it will get better anything here is my address thank you any words of encouragement will be awesome..Kenny Carmichael 90 dorsey road Fort Fairfield Maine 04742

I am a very industrious person, do not waste money, no bad habits, gives to charities where needed and I want to now get out of debt and own my own business. I want to be debt free, help my child through college and continue to help other people.

I have finally found a business that cam make money if we keep it simple. A restaurant.
I’d like to start as soon as possible it is fully equipped and I have an opportunity to make it work. It is our family dream to own and operate a restaurant that offers good food at reasonable prices that people can afford. We will put our menu in front of hundreds if not thousands of hungry people that will be able to afford the low prices for the food we will serve to the community. This is not a get rich quick scheme to price gauge people but to work with their budget and meet their needs.
Our restaurant will be run by well experienced people in the business and a chef that has cooked catered to celebrities, We will start small and establish a business that will be passed down for generations, possibly a franchise.
We will need a small pick up truck, advertise, and be able to stock the restaurant and begin to pay our staff. This will enable me to take charge of my own life, make money, improve my quality of life for my family and contribute more to the community and pay more taxes to help run the country.
I will update you of any progress made through your efforts to help me get started. This is going to take some substantial amount of money to get started. Please Donate whatever you can to help me get this Up and running.

So here goes nothing. I'm currently a 22 year old woman who has dug herself a hole. I am a poster child for bad spending habits and self absorbed youth. I currently have racked up 40000$ in debt from student loans credit cards a car loan and one very expensive traffic fine. I used to work in construction and was able to afford all my bills but when I was 20 I decided to go to school so I quit my
Great paying Job and ventured into the academic
World. I did my
First year and HATED it. Afterwards there were no jobs available so I went back to hospitality. I work as a restaurant manager full time but barely make enough to pay my regular bills let alone my debt. I live paycheck to paycheck and constantly worry about money. It depresses me so bad to think at 22 I might have to file for bankruptcy. And on top of all that I got caught driving with no insurance (I lived in a small town and only drove to the store). It was a stupid choice but my insurance was so high that I mostly walked to where I needed to get except when it was too cold or late at night. Either way the judge slapped me with a 5700$ ticket for my
Stupidity. The ticket had a year for repayment. I was given the option to work it off but due to my regular Job I was unable to without losing my income. I scrolled and scraped for the year. Eating basically tuna and pb&j sandwiches and having no social life. I managed to pay only about 1400$. Sad I know but remember I barely make enough to pay my bills. After having the payment date delayed by another 3 months I knew it was hopeless. My
Credit is shot my debt ratio is too high and I have no one
To turn to for a loan. As of November 1st there Is a bench warrant for my arrest. I am quite terrified because this Is a stay or pay warrant so if I'm ever picked up I either need to pay the remaining 4300 or sit in jail for 3 months. I'm a young woman with no criminal record I never even got a suspension in high school. If this were to happen I would also lose my Job and ultimately my home and all my bills would fall 3 months behind. The fear of this keeps me
Awake at night because it's terrifying. This one mistake could cost me so much in the end. I have looked at every option as to getting a loan but to no avail. So now I turn to begging for help. Please help me pay this ticket off so I can try and get on with my life without the fear of going to jail for sometbing so silly. If ever I needed a miracle it is now. If anyone has it in tneir hearts to help me I would appreciate
It so much. I don't want to feel like a criminal any longer

First off let me thank you for visiting this web site. Just getting you here is a big accomplishment to me. Okay now you are here if you would take about 5 minutes to read my story and pass along the word that would be a blessing in itself. My name is Tony and I am a 41 year old man. I have a girlfriend/wife that is about the same age. We have a 16 year old son and a 2 year old grandson that we raise. My wife has had several back surgeries and is in the processes of applying for disability. I am currently unemployed and we are a few months behind on bills. Also our car broke down about 2 months ago. We live in Middletown, Ohio. This is our present day situation. Now let me tell you how we got here. My wife/girlfriend met about 9 years ago. Neither of us led a very virtuous lifestyle actually we were both very much into the drug scene and that is how we met. Neither of us had a job and we supported our lifestyle and drug habits by hustling and shoplifting. I am a convicted felon and no stranger to that side of life.I was actually in alot of trouble growing up, never for anything that involved any violence but wrong is wrong no matter how you look at it. Anyway back to my story. Everything we had and all of our energy went to supporting our lifestyle and our habits. Her son was about 7 or 8 at this time and we were homeless and you can’t sleep in a car and hustle everyday and take care of a kid, so what did we do? What would any drug addict do? Give up the kid. Man that is sick. So we sent him to stay with my sister and further immersed ourselves into that life. We lived like this for a couple of years and then I got popped for shoplifting for the umpteenth time and finally had to do a little time.Now during this time I didn't have a religious experience or any type of awakening I just was tired of living this way and subjecting my friends and family to all my bull. So when I got out we sat down and talked and decided to change. We did not go to rehab or any type of program, we just stopped and started living a real life.It was no easy way to go either. we started small, getting jobs,a hotel room and a junker car.She got what she could with her back and I worked a couple of fast food jobs. we worked our way up to an apartment and then a house and eventually better jobs. We also got our boy back and started being responsible people. Now I consider us a success story. Then a couple of years ago her 24 year old daughter had a baby and got into drugs. Isn't it funny how our past always comes back to haunt us? So we took the baby in and counseled her as much as possible but I honestly think most people have to learn about life for themselves.Now her daughter is in jail and we are raising our grand-baby. Actually things have gone quite well for quite a few years, but as with everything in life we have hit a snag.Her back finally gave out and she cannot work and is applying for disability and the company I was working for sold out and with the economy the way it is there are just not that many jobs around and with no car there is absolutely nothing within walking distance. So now I come to my last part of why I asked you here. We have applied for welfare, food stamps,H.E.A.P.,food pantry, and any program I can find to help us! Something else I failed to mention is my wife is a German immigrant and her green card is expired. That cost 600.00 to renew. I desperately need a car which is about 1000.00. I am a few months behind on bills. I do not want to go back to the way I used to be. Now I am not used to asking for charity, or any type of hand out. In the past when I was in need, or I wanted something, I stole or took whatever it was. My girlfriend and I have come a long way physically,mentally,emotionally, and spiritually. I have grown alot and I do not want to go back down that path that I followed in my younger years. I know now that life is full of choices and it is a choice that each of us must choose to do the right thing or the wrong thing, but I also know that sometimes you have to do whatever it takes to survive. I am writing to you because I do not want to become a statistic. We have learned a lot and we want our family to be a success story.I would appreciate any and all help that you could provide me and my family. We have worked very hard to get were we are today and we are not lazy and we would work for anything that you could do for us, but please keep us in mind, in your hearts and prayers.I have put a button on here to contribute money and I do not expect people to take care of me but if I could get a thousand people to donate a dollar then I could get a car and then a job and hopefully back on my feet.If you can’t donate then maybe you can give me advice or tell me to whom I can turn to. I am starting to get desperate and I just want a break out of life and was hoping that someone out there knew of something I can do. If not then pass along the word maybe eventually someone will come to this website that can point me in the right direction. As I said before I am not lazy. I also am not dumb. I am willing to work for anything I receive. I just need a little help and maybe a few open doors, so like I said do what you can and spread the word and pray because I do believe that prayer helps. If you have any questions or wanna know anything then put it on the blog or e-mail me and I let you know to the best of my ability and again thanks for visiting this site and anything you can do.


Sincerely,
Tony

My name is Andrew, my son's name is Nikolai, and he is 2 years old. Recently he came down with a fever due to his shots at the hospital. His fever hit 106 degrees. I was scared for my life. Prior to the fever he was speaking basic words, and his eating habits were great. After this fever hit him, it changed him, he stopped talking and pushes away food. I need to get him to a Neurologist, but I have no money, I tried to get on medicaid, but got denied, my parents cant help me because they are in a very bad financial problem of their own. Jobs are very hard to come by here, and if you do find one its no more than 7.50 an hour. I am desperately trying everything to get money for this, he is a beautiful baby boy, and he is very smart, I just wish I had money to see if anything was wrong with him. Please can anyone help? I assure you, that I cannot pay you back, but I could say a prayer and thank you for your help. If there is anyway to contact me after donating, I would love to send you a picture of my son and myself as a Thank You gift. Please help me. -Andrew & Niko

I can not believe I'm going down this route... but at least if this doesn't pan out, I can at least said that I've done EVERYTHING in my power.

First of all, I'm a 30 y/o single mother of 4, I work a full time job as well as a part time job on the weekends to support myself and my kids. My husband of 14 years (high school sweethearts) left 6 months ago when I had a family member of his arrested for cleaning out our bank account and leaving it with a huge negative balance. That caused tension because she was the princess.. she was pregnant and on drugs at the time and CPS took her baby and put her in jail.. The bank never recovered the funds because he GAVE her the card and pin to pay for postage at the post office. Little did we know, she had a field day with the card. So, I'm the bad guy apparently.
Since then I've lost our home, I haven't gotten a penny of support from him and he actually quit his job when I took him to court (mommy takes care of him) he refuses to help us or even speak to us or else his family will cut him off.
This is absolute BS.. The child support laws in PA are ridiculous and need to be changed. They aren't even going after him!

So, after the house was foreclosed on, I got a rental for the kids and myself... the bills that didn't get paid from the old house because the account was drained and the checks bounced caught up with me.. I had to either pay the huge electric bill that never got paid before or get my current electric shut off.. So, that put me behind on rent. The landlord took me to court to have me evicted, the judge gave me 10 days to come up with a payment plan, which we did... I paid off what I owed for Sept, Oct and Nov.. the amount on the court papers and thought I was in the clear. I paid for half of December and agreed to catch up in Jan. and then start paying like normal in Feb and then on. Well, I got an eviction noticed taped to my door and it's signed by the judge.. If I don't pay what I owe for Dec. plus late fees and court costs by dec 31st, I have to be out of here by Jan. 4th. That's 8 days from now and I have NO family and nobody to help me. I get a paycheck again on Friday (the 31st) but it will only cover what I owe... If I don't have Jan's rent paid by Jan 2nd, they will evict me again and shut off my water and sewer.. There's no way I'm going to be able to com up with the $965 for Jan's rent by the 2nd.. and I can't find a new place to move to nor will I have the funds to do so.. My children (14, 12, 4 and 18 months) are going to have to live in my car until I can save up enough money to find a new place to rent.

I am BEGGING someone, anyone to please help us. I can prove proof of everything... the police report from the theft, eviction/court documents, whatever you would like to see. I'm not even asking for cash.. a check to the company I rent (American Residential Communities aka ARC) would be more than suffice. I will also make an agreement to pay it back in full by March 15th (should have income tax return by then) and get that notarized so it's all legal and what not. I'm not asking for a handout.. I'm more asking for a loan.. Whatever you can do for me, please.
I do not have paypal because I no longer have a bank account.. plus I'm not asking for cash.. it can be paid directly to the company.
My email address is bbjayde at yahoo dot com if you have any questions or would like verification. I am a good person, no vices, bad habits (besides biting my nails) or anything like that. I'm being 100% honest and sincerely begging for help.. not just another sob story to get money out of someone.
Thank you!

Hello,

My name is Sandy. I've been in this abusive relationship for almost 3 years now. When I go to my family their response is " he will change. Just give him some time." Called local shelters, no rooms available. You see he was in prison for 25 yrs for a crime he never commited. He has been home for 3 years now. DNA cleared him. The facts remain that he still has the characters and habits of the felonys who do belong their. I've tried counseling. It didn't work. Tried Pastor at church. Didn't work. During this time, I injuried myself at work so I'm very limited with funds now. I want to move into my own place with my 2 girls. I want to be happy and start the recovery process to becoming non fearful. I'm smart, yet nonconfident. I'm educated, yet fearful. Beautiful, yet scared. I know that I can and will do better, I just need your help and support. I've helped many less fortunate people in the pass, now I need the same act of kindness.

With Love,
Sandy

Iv recently got out of the army, medical discharge, not long after i enlisted.
my husband works as a manager and could be a an assistant manager but thanks to
crippling debt from his ex's drug habits, and my troubles finding work we cant
afford for him to finish his degree. were behind on everybill we have and anything helps.

we trick or treat for unicef and save the yogurt lids for cancer, times have just gotten
hard. the bills are piling up and it would be good to get my husband back in school,
and our personal and non personal debts knocked down. were facing eviction if not
cuaght up by the first of the year and were worried about christmas as well.
we have a little one and the electricity disconnection notices are filling our mailbox.
anything really would help.

Iv recently got out of the army, medical discharge, not long after i enlisted.
my husband works as a manager and could be a an assistant manager but thanks to
crippling debt from his ex's drug habits, and my troubles finding work we cant
afford for him to finish his degree. were behind on everybill we have and anything helps.

we trick or treat for unicef and save the yogurt lids for cancer, times have just gotten
hard. the bills are piling up and it would be good to get my husband back in school,
and our personal and non personal debts knocked down. were facing eviction if not
cuaght up by the first of the year and were worried about christmas as well.
we have a little one and the electricity disconnection notices are filling our mailbox.
anything really would help.

Iv recently got out of the army, medical discharge, not long after i enlisted.
my husband works as a manager and could be a an assistant manager but thanks to
crippling debt from his ex's drug habits, and my troubles finding work we cant
afford for him to finish his degree. were behind on everybill we have and anything helps.

we trick or treat for unicef and save the yogurt lids for cancer, times have just gotten
hard. the bills are piling up and it would be good to get my husband back in school,
and our personal and non personal debts knocked down. were facing eviction if not
cuaght up by the first of the year and were worried about christmas as well.
we have a little one and the electricity disconnection notices are filling our mailbox.
anything really would help.

Iv recently got out of the army, medical discharge, not long after i enlisted.
my husband works as a manager and could be a an assistant manager but thanks to
crippling debt from his ex's drug habits, and my troubles finding work we cant
afford for him to finish his degree. were behind on everybill we have and anything helps.

we trick or treat for unicef and save the yogurt lids for cancer, times have just gotten
hard. the bills are piling up and it would be good to get my husband back in school,
and our personal and non personal debts knocked down. were facing eviction if not
cuaght up by the first of the year and were worried about christmas as well.
we have a little one and the electricity disconnection notices are filling our mailbox.
anything really would help.

Iv recently got out of the army, medical discharge, not long after i enlisted.
my husband works as a manager and could be a an assistant manager but thanks to
crippling debt from his ex's drug habits, and my troubles finding work we cant
afford for him to finish his degree. were behind on everybill we have and anything helps.

we trick or treat for unicef and save the yogurt lids for cancer, times have just gotten
hard. the bills are piling up and it would be good to get my husband back in school,
and our personal and non personal debts knocked down. were facing eviction if not
cuaght up by the first of the year and were worried about christmas as well.
we have a little one and the electricity disconnection notices are filling our mailbox.
anything really would help.

Iv recently got out of the army, medical discharge, not long after i enlisted.
my husband works as a manager and could be a an assistant manager but thanks to
crippling debt from his ex's drug habits, and my troubles finding work we cant
afford for him to finish his degree. were behind on everybill we have and anything helps.

we trick or treat for unicef and save the yogurt lids for cancer, times have just gotten
hard. the bills are piling up and it would be good to get my husband back in school,
and our personal and non personal debts knocked down. were facing eviction if not
cuaght up by the first of the year and were worried about christmas as well.
we have a little one and the electricity disconnection notices are filling our mailbox.
anything really would help.

Iv recently got out of the army, medical discharge, not long after i enlisted.
my husband works as a manager and could be a an assistant manager but thanks to
crippling debt from his ex's drug habits, and my troubles finding work we cant
afford for him to finish his degree. were behind on everybill we have and anything helps.

we trick or treat for unicef and save the yogurt lids for cancer, times have just gotten
hard. the bills are piling up and it would be good to get my husband back in school,
and our personal and non personal debts knocked down. were facing eviction if not
cuaght up by the first of the year and were worried about christmas as well.
we have a little one and the electricity disconnection notices are filling our mailbox.
anything really would help.

Iv recently got out of the army, medical discharge, not long after i enlisted.
my husband works as a manager and could be a an assistant manager but thanks to
crippling debt from his ex's drug habits, and my troubles finding work we cant
afford for him to finish his degree. were behind on everybill we have and anything helps.

we trick or treat for unicef and save the yogurt lids for cancer, times have just gotten
hard. the bills are piling up and it would be good to get my husband back in school,
and our personal and non personal debts knocked down. were facing eviction if not
cuaght up by the first of the year and were worried about christmas as well.
we have a little one and the electricity disconnection notices are filling our mailbox.
anything really would help.

Iv recently got out of the army, medical discharge, not long after i enlisted.
my husband works as a manager and could be a an assistant manager but thanks to
crippling debt from his ex's drug habits, and my troubles finding work we cant
afford for him to finish his degree. were behind on everybill we have and anything helps.

we trick or treat for unicef and save the yogurt lids for cancer, times have just gotten
hard. the bills are piling up and it would be good to get my husband back in school,
and our personal and non personal debts knocked down. were facing eviction if not
cuaght up by the first of the year and were worried about christmas as well.
we have a little one and the electricity disconnection notices are filling our mailbox.
anything really would help.

Iv recently got out of the army, medical discharge, not long after i enlisted.
my husband works as a manager and could be a an assistant manager but thanks to
crippling debt from his ex's drug habits, and my troubles finding work we cant
afford for him to finish his degree. were behind on everybill we have and anything helps.

we trick or treat for unicef and save the yogurt lids for cancer, times have just gotten
hard. the bills are piling up and it would be good to get my husband back in school,
and our personal and non personal debts knocked down. were facing eviction if not
cuaght up by the first of the year and were worried about christmas as well.
we have a little one and the electricity disconnection notices are filling our mailbox.
anything really would help.

Iv recently got out of the army, medical discharge, not long after i enlisted.
my husband works as a manager and could be a an assistant manager but thanks to
crippling debt from his ex's drug habits, and my troubles finding work we cant
afford for him to finish his degree. were behind on everybill we have and anything helps.

we trick or treat for unicef and save the yogurt lids for cancer, times have just gotten
hard. the bills are piling up and it would be good to get my husband back in school,
and our personal and non personal debts knocked down. were facing eviction if not
cuaght up by the first of the year and were worried about christmas as well.
we have a little one and the electricity disconnection notices are filling our mailbox.
anything really would help.

Iv recently got out of the army, medical discharge, not long after i enlisted.
my husband works as a manager and could be a an assistant manager but thanks to
crippling debt from his ex's drug habits, and my troubles finding work we cant
afford for him to finish his degree. were behind on everybill we have and anything helps.

we trick or treat for unicef and save the yogurt lids for cancer, times have just gotten
hard. the bills are piling up and it would be good to get my husband back in school,
and our personal and non personal debts knocked down. were facing eviction if not
cuaght up by the first of the year and were worried about christmas as well.
we have a little one and the electricity disconnection notices are filling our mailbox.
anything really would help.

Iv recently got out of the army, medical discharge, not long after i enlisted. my husband works as a manager and could be a an assistant manager but thanks to crippling debt from his ex's drug habits, and my troubles finding work we cant afford for him to finish his degree. were behind on everybill we have and anything helps.

we trick or treat for unicef and save the yogurt lids for cancer, times have just gotten hard. the bills are piling up and it would be good to get my husband back in school, and our personal and non personal debts knocked down. were facing eviction if not cuaght up by the first of the year and were worried about christmas as well. we have a little one and the electricity disconnection notices are filling our mailbox. anything really would help.

I am a working mother of 3 kids. My eldest left school to help make ends meet. My 2nd is in University and his school fees has not been paid which means he could be suspended from attending classes. My 3rd is in high school which I may have to stop soon. I have been working for the past 20 years and saving every penny in every way until lately when my husband met an accident and every penny I had saved was used to pay for the medical bills as well as the claims needed to pay the 3rd party involved. It was a hefty sum which my savings wasnt enough so I had to borrow and being desperate I used the service of a loan shark which is now terrorising my family. Please help me pay up
the debts that I have accumulated. We were once a very happy family enjoying every fruits of my labour which I worked for 20 years but now my family is becoming disfunctional with my youngest now having school problems and always mixing with bad company constantly arguing with
me and my husband. Nothing will stop him and he has taken up the bad habits of smoking and drinking being only 15 years old. I feel it is all due to the recent debts and accumulating payments which is simply not enough now for our daily needs. I had to cut his pocket money and allowances no more movies for us and eating out. I had lost focus and made a huge mistake at work making a loss of $8000 which I now have to pay back the company I work for 20 years. Nobody would lent me a helping hand not even my family. Please help in any amount even if it is only a dollar of your money please ... From the bottom of my heart I thank you for every single help you can give. I have no choice now but to beg. It is not for me but for the sake of my children.

Hi. My name is Lisa and I am 32 years old. I am desperate. I'll explain why.

I have not had much luck with men. I have been out with a lunatic, a drunk, a manic depressive, an idiot and several cheats. All that changed when I met Max.

Max and I worked in the same company. I worked in Business Debt Collection (Call centre) and he worked in Group or Corporate accounts. Basically, a friend of mine gave me his name to use if I ever came across one of these accounts and I said "That is the name of the man I am going to marry".

We began emailing. 18 months passed, and in that time I went out with some of the no-hopes I described above. Anyway. I moved departments to Domestic accounts and all but forgot about Max...

...until the day I saw the login code M5200. I KNEW it was him, I remembered his login code. I called his extension and we talked for the first time. He was the sweetest guy with the sweetest voice. I knew we had to meet. So eventually, after 18 months of emailing, we decided to meet for a break. We had been working in the same building for almost 6 months without knowing it!

We met for a break and really got on well. After that I wanted to go out with him properly. So I mailed him (old habits die hard) and asked him what I should do as I wanted to see soccer (I'm English lol) but none of my friends could make it...he offered to keep me company. We did and had a great time. Even when he kissed me when England scored the only goal of the game!!!!!

The rest is history. We moved in together a year later, much to everyone's astonishment!

Then, 2 weeks ago, on our 4th anniversary, he asked me a very important question. He asked me to marry him and gave me a ring. I said yes. Of course!!!!!!!!!!

Now this is where my luck goes bad...we were out last night and my ring came off my finger. It was a £400 ring!!!! I felt ill when I realised what had happened and still do. Even worse, I now have raging toothache and need dental treatment but cannot afford it. :(

Please, please, please someone help me!!! I'm in despair at the moment and in pain, both in my heart and my tooth. Max said it doesn't matter but it does, it really does. :( I need the money in order to get a replacement but cannot get a loan out. :(

If someone could help me it would restore my faith in humanity.

Thank you so much for reading.

God bless you always. xxx


Lisa (aka Hollanda)