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Need help with debt
Posted by Sxykaj on 2012-05-11 14:58:20
Help me protect these children from future abuse!
Posted by justiceforamy on 2012-05-10 18:58:50
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HATE MY LIFE
Posted by lllovelyy8 on 2012-05-09 06:58:28
Single Mom (not in recovery, not a felon, not disabled, just unemployed)
Posted by cdimiceli on 2012-05-01 17:58:09
Iâm going to be a little blunt, because I'm tired and I want to give up so bad, but I can't. I'm better than that and my kids are my motivator. I wake up everyday and remind myself of 2 things :1) Faith is what you have when you all your beliefs are blown to hell. 2) What doesn't kill you makes you stronger -Nietzsche
I am a 35 year old educated, ambitious, head strong woman. I have owned my own business with my soon to be ex. I know what hard work and determination are. I went to private school and I am educated. I value my community and have always given back and will continue to do so. I also know that I have the drive and determination to get myself back on track. I'm not ASKING for a handout, I'm asking for help up! I also know what loss is. I don't have the business, a house or EVEN the car anymore. We lost everything. He bounced back , I didnât. All I have is HOPE, that someone or some program can help me carve a path back to self sufficiency.
It's gone continually downhill.I am amazed at the allotment of programs for both housing and employment for all different walks of life. However, what about those that are just struggling. No hang ups, no record, just struggling and are LOW INCOME. I'm not writing this to make you feel sorry, I'm writing this because I have exhausted possibilities that I have researched both on my own or been given the information to do the work with.
There are people who struggle everyday through no fault of their own. They don't want a hand out, but help up would be a relief. Society doesn't need band-aids they need solutions.
Not every county, city or state program fits everyone's needs.
First of all Section 8 has been closed since BEFORE I left my marriage so that idea could never work. The list has been closed for years. Because I have limited time with my children, I do not qualify for CALWORKS. I have tried getting assistance in every way possible. I had very little unemployment left since I have been struggling to find work. I was delayed for about 3 months because they needed verification and I had to appeal and request a hearing. I have won my appeal but will only receive $91/week and for a short period of time.
I took a project management class through WIA in 2011, and I was able to get CTB benefits. I NEED HELP. I have hit the absolute worst point in my life and still refuse to give up. I have been looking for work and am now HOMELESS.I am in week 3 of staying in an extended stay hotel (paid for by my mother back east, who makes maybe $26,000/yr in PA) I recently sold my car because I needed to pay bills and rent. I have maybe $75 to my name.
The fact that they say there are services for low income/ homeless is frustrating. I say this because there is no category for me. I'm not a drug addict or in recovery. I don't have a mental illness. I wasn't in prison, I donât' even have a RECORD. I can proudly say I've never been arrested or even in the back of a cop car. I'm not a victim of domestic violence and I do not beat my kids. Why aren't there programs in place for single parents struggling to make it? Everyday people that are responsible and respectable. I understand the need to assist those that may not have the capacity to take care of themselves. However, I have a huge problem with the fact that Santa Clara County & all programs (private, govt or state funded) will rehabilitate and reintroduced felons into the community, but if you're poor, homeless, no record, are looking for work, have high intelligence; sorry, you can't get help. This sounds extremely cynical and jaded, but I am a little after going through all I have.
I have been told constantly âI wish I could do something but we don't have any programs to help you.â My favorite reply is: "Yeah and you have done everything. I'm surprised you even knew about all the programs you did"
I have talked to employment counselors, program coordinators, program advocates and case managers, volunteers, just about anyone. The bankruptcy is hindering my chances of securing housing, even if I had employment.
The icing on the cake has to be with food stamps and General Assistance. I qualified for Cal-Fresh. However, at the time I had a car worth $2200. So I wasn't able to get General Assistance. Fast Forward a year later, I HAD to sell my car to pay bills. Now this month when I went for General Assistance, I qualify.
It's a never ending cycle, a constant push down. I can take public transportation to work, but to get around and see my boys and being able to transport them would be extremely difficult, not to mention financially stressing. I have scoured employment books, read articles, searched the library, spent hours online trying to find a job, program, a company, anybody who could be a resource whether for low income assistance or employment.
I can probably tell you about a plethora of services this county (Santa Clara) offers for both income assistance and job services.I am registered with CALJOBS; I know all the career sites and have my resume there. I get interviews, however I am starting to think the bankruptcy from loss of business is holding me back when employers do background check.
I also could teach the business writing class or the resume writing classes they offer at Work2Future, I practically did when I took them. I could do the same at Sacred Heart. I've been to InnVision and EHC. Iâve talked to Sunnyvale Community Services. Boy he was a treat he sounded older then my 80 yr old grandma. When I said I need housing and employment help, he gruffly told me to check the newspaper and hung up. I've called St Josephs in Gilroy. I've talked to a program coordinator at West Valley Community Services. I called the Sobrato Organization hoping they had ties to something and one the employees just by grace of god happened to pick up and take my call. I was able to talk to someone at HIF (they couldn't help)
.
I am responsible, respectable and just want to work, have a place to live, and be able to have my children 50/50. I have no police record. I am not in recovery, nor have I ever had to be in a program
I want to work and am attaching a compilation of ALL my work skills. I would not send this out otherwise, I would tailor it specifically to the job I am applying for.
I used to volunteer as much as I could I like being active in my community and helping others. I'm still about that I believe in PAY IT FORWARD. I believe the good you do comes back to you tenfold and that no matter what is going wrong in your life, someone else is struggling just as much if not more; so be thankful for what you have.
I attend church and was a hospitality volunteer for that as well.
I just need help getting on my feet. I have no family, other than my children here in CA.
I do not want to move back east and be far away from them. I want to work, I want to live again. I want to smile and mean it.
I hate what my life has become and know that I am SO MUCH BETTER THEN THIS.
Please help me : money is fine, but it's only a temporary fix, please help me find a program that can assist me in getting on my feet, direct me to employment, and most of all afford me the opportunity to have my children much more consistently so I can be a mom again.
Thank you
Courtney DiMiceli
Family of 5 needs help..
Posted by breal2012 on 2012-05-01 10:58:32
Family of 5 needs help..
Posted by breal2012 on 2012-05-01 10:58:32
Family of 5 needs help..
Posted by breal2012 on 2012-05-01 10:58:31
Family of 5 needs help..
Posted by breal2012 on 2012-05-01 10:58:31
Temporary help needed
Posted by dessirae on 2012-04-27 16:58:27
im a single mom to 2 daughters
i am in the midst of a disability claim as my dr has not released me to work in over a year, i have M.S.
i do not qualify for state assistance on medical and 200.00 in "cal fresh" benefits.
at this moment i still have 150.00 left owing on my renatal deposit that i have been making payments on.
Rent is dues but that is only 226.00 ( i have section8 which assists in my rent payments)
Edison is 153.33 past due
we would appriciate any help some one is willing to extend. Food would also be a blessing.
i was going to school at university of phoenix i have 37 credits but due to financial aid issues and my being sick often i had to with draw.
please ask any questions that u feel relevant.
thank you ahead of time for your consideration in giving what u can.
A Fresh Start
Posted by Iwanttobefree on 2012-04-23 08:58:54
I am a 25 year old woman. My husband and I have recently separated after 8 years together (2 years married). I have nothing anymore, all my money went into our house which my husband is going to stay in, I am currently living at a friends until I get on my feet. I have been left to pay a debt to my father of ã9,600 which was a loan towards buying our marital home, my husband will not repay this as it was my desicion to leave him - I wasn't happy and I had to make the hardest decision to leave everything I'd worked so hard for, including friendships, in the hope that I can be my own person and live the life I only ever dreamed was possible. I always hoped that reincarnation was possible so that I'd get to do things my way the second time around, but now I am actually doing it - I just have nothing to start with! I hope to travel, but without clearing my debt I can't even start to save. In a perfect world I would go to Edinburgh, Scotland and live in a hostel, work a bar job and save for travelling as I have never done anything just for me in the last 8 years, I need to experience life, basically I want to be a free spirit I just can't do anything with my debt hanging over me. I am so grateful you are even reading this please consider donating to me so I can make a fresh start and live the life I should have followed 8 years ago. Thank you for your time.
A Fresh Start
Posted by Iwanttobefree on 2012-04-23 08:58:54
I am a 25 year old woman. My husband and I have recently separated after 8 years together (2 years married). I have nothing anymore, all my money went into our house which my husband is going to stay in, I am currently living at a friends until I get on my feet. I have been left to pay a debt to my father of ã9,600 which was a loan towards buying our marital home, my husband will not repay this as it was my desicion to leave him - I wasn't happy and I had to make the hardest decision to leave everything I'd worked so hard for, including friendships, in the hope that I can be my own person and live the life I only ever dreamed was possible. I always hoped that reincarnation was possible so that I'd get to do things my way the second time around, but now I am actually doing it - I just have nothing to start with! I hope to travel, but without clearing my debt I can't even start to save. In a perfect world I would go to Edinburgh, Scotland and live in a hostel, work a bar job and save for travelling as I have never done anything just for me in the last 8 years, I need to experience life, basically I want to be a free spirit I just can't do anything with my debt hanging over me. I am so grateful you are even reading this please consider donating to me so I can make a fresh start and live the life I should have followed 8 years ago. Thank you for your time.
A Fresh Start
Posted by Iwanttobefree on 2012-04-23 08:58:54
I am a 25 year old woman. My husband and I have recently separated after 8 years together (2 years married). I have nothing anymore, all my money went into our house which my husband is going to stay in, I am currently living at a friends until I get on my feet. I have been left to pay a debt to my father of ã9,600 which was a loan towards buying our marital home, my husband will not repay this as it was my desicion to leave him - I wasn't happy and I had to make the hardest decision to leave everything I'd worked so hard for, including friendships, in the hope that I can be my own person and live the life I only ever dreamed was possible. I always hoped that reincarnation was possible so that I'd get to do things my way the second time around, but now I am actually doing it - I just have nothing to start with! I hope to travel, but without clearing my debt I can't even start to save. In a perfect world I would go to Edinburgh, Scotland and live in a hostel, work a bar job and save for travelling as I have never done anything just for me in the last 8 years, I need to experience life, basically I want to be a free spirit I just can't do anything with my debt hanging over me. I am so grateful you are even reading this please consider donating to me so I can make a fresh start and live the life I should have followed 8 years ago. Thank you for your time.
A Fresh Start
Posted by Iwanttobefree on 2012-04-23 08:58:54
I am a 25 year old woman. My husband and I have recently separated after 8 years together (2 years married). I have nothing anymore, all my money went into our house which my husband is going to stay in, I am currently living at a friends until I get on my feet. I have been left to pay a debt to my father of ã9,600 which was a loan towards buying our marital home, my husband will not repay this as it was my desicion to leave him - I wasn't happy and I had to make the hardest decision to leave everything I'd worked so hard for, including friendships, in the hope that I can be my own person and live the life I only ever dreamed was possible. I always hoped that reincarnation was possible so that I'd get to do things my way the second time around, but now I am actually doing it - I just have nothing to start with! I hope to travel, but without clearing my debt I can't even start to save. In a perfect world I would go to Edinburgh, Scotland and live in a hostel, work a bar job and save for travelling as I have never done anything just for me in the last 8 years, I need to experience life, basically I want to be a free spirit I just can't do anything with my debt hanging over me. I am so grateful you are even reading this please consider donating to me so I can make a fresh start and live the life I should have followed 8 years ago. Thank you for your time.
A Fresh Start
Posted by Iwanttobefree on 2012-04-23 08:58:49
I am a 25 year old woman. My husband and I have recently separated after 8 years together (2 years married). I have nothing anymore, all my money went into our house which my husband is going to stay in, I am currently living at a friends until I get on my feet. I have been left to pay a debt to my father of £9,600 which was a loan towards buying our marital home, my husband will not repay this as it was my desicion to leave him - I wasn't happy and I had to make the hardest decision to leave everything I'd worked so hard for, including friendships, in the hope that I can be my own person and live the life I only ever dreamed was possible. I always hoped that reincarnation was possible so that I'd get to do things my way the second time around, but now I am actually doing it - I just have nothing to start with! I hope to travel, but without clearing my debt I can't even start to save. In a perfect world I would go to Edinburgh, Scotland and live in a hostel, work a bar job and save for travelling as I have never done anything just for me in the last 8 years, I need to experience life, basically I want to be a free spirit I just can't do anything with my debt hanging over me. I am so grateful you are even reading this please consider donating to me so I can make a fresh start and live the life I should have followed 8 years ago. Thank you for your time.
$3,000 will save me!
Posted by cracklepaddle on 2012-04-22 19:58:51
please help me pay rent & utility bills
Posted by jessyf on 2012-04-20 13:58:28
Anything will help US!
Posted by Desperate4 on 2012-03-25 18:58:21
THANK YOU IN ADVANCE, I hope many blessing come your way.
Deep end of Debt without Permanent Work
Posted by depresslife on 2012-03-24 06:58:47
Culinary Qwest!
Posted by RainaMari on 2012-03-12 14:58:10
Please help fund my dream!
Escape
Posted by mbailey5 on 2012-03-11 17:58:03
For the past two years I have been in love. A whirlwind romance which gave me a release from my miserable abusive upbringing. I moved in with this beautiful, kind, intelligent girl who I had fallen for. My parents did not approve and they saw her loosen their iron grip on me, she gave me the confidence that I never had to stand up to them.
I had to decide between my parents who had habitually beaten me, put me down, turned me into a shell of a person. or the only person that ever has and probably ever will love me. I chose her, and I haven't seen or heard from my parents since, part of my believes it was a perfect excuse for them to rid me of the son who had only ever disappointed them.
I was in dreamland, I was invited into her home and from day one it felt more like home than the cold loveless one I was brought up in. Everything was great for a few months and then she left a highly flirtatious conversation up on facebook with a man in which she was bragging at how many other men she had slept with in the past year. My life turned on its head. I gave her another chance after weeks of pain, tears and excuses. She convinced me everything was going to change. Three months on to that day I hear through a friend that she with another man in a nightclub the other day.
I am lost, I am trapped. I have no money. My parents do not care about me and the one person that I have ever loved has betrayed me multiple times.
I feel humiliated, i feel physically sick, I am mentally and physically exhausted. I have nowhere to go, i need to escape. If I leave her then I am homeless if I stay with her then I am bound to being abused again, this time not physically as with my parents but mentally. My heart cannot take this torment anymore.
My mouse is hovering above booking a flight to Amsterdam tomorrow. I have chosen there because of the large UK community. I want a new environemnt, i need to meet people for the first time in my life. I want to live and work somewhere else but I just do not have the funds to do it. I have been reliant on people all my life and I just need a chance to completely start fresh and I cannot do this round here or in this country. I need to travel, i need to experience things which I have never experienced. I do not deserve any charity but I am desperate, so very desperate. I am literally begging for any help.
Thank you so much for reading
Just looking for a sheckle or two
Posted by thormulligan on 2012-02-27 20:58:14
99%? What about the 49%?
I do not believe I have any dedicated followers to this blog that I started about a week ago. I have added to the end of my blogs a donate button and I feel I need to justify the decision to do so. That is what this blog is about, and it probably should have been my first post.
It seems like there are three groups of people in America.
There is the rich. They get tax breaks simply for being rich. The philosophy is that if they spend less on taxes then they will invest it into production and buying stuff and it will âtrickle down.â I am all for it if it works. But it doesnât. They have had their tax breaks for about ten years and there isnât anything trickling down my way.
Then there is the very poor. They claim to be incapable of working 40 hours a week because of mental or physical issues. They donât get up very early in the morning, they donât worry about the way they look. They collect social security, food stamps, unemployment and whatever else they can get for free. I know there are some people that legitimately can not work but I think there are a great deal of people that can and choose not to.
Instead of the 99% movement lets start a 49% movement.1% is uber-wealthy. About 50% pay no taxes and/or are a drain on our society. So that leaves 49%. I am the 49 percent and that fucking sucks! We canât get ahead and we canât get a hand.
Let me tell you a little more about myself. I work 60+ hours as a salesperson, which is non-commission based position. There are some things we can sell and if we sell it at a certain margin we can get a âspiff.â Unfortunately I sell building materials and not a lot of people are building right now. Also the the things that you can get a spiff on are high-end items that are difficult to sell in a good economy. I still try like hell though. In the interest of getting as many hours as possible there is no job I will not do or that is too menial. I will sell, I will work out in the yard and drive a forklift, do deliveries, stack lumber, shovel snow, sweep, empty trash, stock shelves, answer the phone,work the register or anything else that will keep me from getting sent home or laid off.
I started this blog about a week ago. I was looking for another way to make money doing something I enjoyed in my âspareâ time. As well as working 60 hours a week I am also a divorced dad that takes his kids every weekend. So there isnât a whole lot of time for a second job. I looked into the Ebay thing and realized I really donât have anything left to sell.
Also looked into doing surveys. On average you can get a dollar for each 45-60 minute survey you take. I still do this occasionally. If I have time and can find a few that I feel are worth my time. Any little amount helps.
I thought I might eventually be able to monetize this blog by putting up enough content to get advertisers interested. It will probably take several months and a lot of writing before this might be possible. Until then I will keep the donate button on here.
My point here is that I started looking for a way to get my head back above water a week ago and things have gotten far worse since then. I went to the grocery store yesterday and in my estimation prices have gone up close to 25% on most of the things I buy. In a week!
And the price of gas....
My job is about a 25 minute commute from where I live. There is no public transportation where I live and I do not think a 25 minute commute is unreasonable. But even with a car that gets 28 miles to the gallon and gas prices being what they are it is a huge strain on the wallet. They are talking about the price of gas going up twenty cents over one weekend! I topped off yesterday in the hopes of saving two bucks.
I donât have the answers but it seems like this system of government and politics doesnât work. We elect a Republican for 4-8 years and when they fail to fix everything we elect a Democrat. They donât make our problems go away either and in another 4-8 years we try another Republican and so on. Its like having two cartons of milk in the refrigerator. You take a sip of one carton and its sour, you take a sip from the other carton and it is sour too. So you try the first carton again. What? Itâs still sour? Weird. Maybe we should try the second carton again....
Come on people! Canât we get together? We need to throw out the rotten fucking milk, get off our dead asses and get down to the store and buy some fresh fucking milk!
I was already falling behind. Then it only took one small medical emergency and one car repair to put me even further in the hole. Between money I had to put up for office visits, medical procedures that had to be done, car repairs, and lost time at work it cost me over a thousand dollars that I did not have to spend. Now I am possibly facing eviction.
And I know there are people out there that need the money far more than I do. I donât have cancer, my kids do not need a life-saving medical procedure and I am not living on the streets yet. All I am asking is that if you understand where I am coming from and you like what I have to say help me out and donate a couple of bucks. I am not asking you to âgive until it hurts,â and if you donât have it to give then I donât want it.
If you canât help me out by donating money, then help me out by sounding off in the comments and telling me how I can make this blog better or what I should do different. I openly welcome harsh criticism and all opposing viewpoints.
I am not looking for millions of dollars, thousands of dollars or even hundreds of dollars. I would be very happy with tens of dollars. Ten bucks accumulated over a week from several people would be a huge shot in the arm right now. If I made an extra ten bucks from donations it would buy me enough gas to get back and forth to work for two days. Or it would cover the rising cost of my grocery bill. Right now that would be huge.
Give what you can. Every penny counts. Or offer your suggestions or both. Donate some obscure amount and put that same amount in the comments or send me an email telling me the obscure amount you donated and I will reply personally to those comments and emails. I will probably respond whether you donate or not.
thor.mulligan@gmail.com
I thank you for any support you can
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Need Immediate Help!
Posted by DKO13 on 2012-02-27 16:58:46
work but have no money for food
Posted by nicolelouise1991 on 2012-02-09 15:58:24
PLEASE PLEASE HELP not asking for big donations just simple small ones will be GREATLY appreciated.
Thankyou and god bless
Need help to turn life around.....
Posted by tonietoon12 on 2012-02-08 13:58:14
Need money to relocate.
Posted by arbors on 2012-02-07 12:58:44
