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I am 28 years old and I have a 21month old. My child's father got into trouble with the law and instead of serving time he fled the country. I cannot file for child support since he doesn't live or work here. He doesnt send me money or anything. I applied fur child care assistance and I make too much money. By the time I pay for rent ($810), diapers, food, gas, utilities, and my car payment I have nothing left for daycare for my child. I had a friend helping me but she was a horrible mother to her kids and I don't want my kid in that environment. I have had to call in to work and I may lose my job if I can't get daycare figured out. I even sold my couch and I'm ready to sell other furniture to get by. Please help!

Hello,

I am not sure where to begin, but first I just want to thank you for viewing my post on behalf of my baby Boy.

I have a darling son who just recently celebrated his first birthday. I always thought that I would be the successful and married mom, but life still has me.on the waiting list. During my pregnancy I was involved
in Two vehicle accidents. Both times i was merely a passenger. Unfortunately the accidents left me disabled. My physical disabilities and pregnancy costed me my job. I became homeless during my pregnancy for several months. My boyfriend/father of my child had been with me for.several years but became Very angry about the pregnancy. After several abusive threats and statements he finally cut off ALL contact with me and our unborn child. I was already disabled at this point. My baby does not receive Any child support. NONE. His father still has refused any and all contact even now...He is paid cash as to avoid helping our son. Eventually, i began hearing alarming threats through third parties on the life of our baby that he does not want. So, I fled the state. :'(
I want the best for my baby. I feel like such a failure. I do as much as physically possible to provide a safe and stable home. Due to my limitations i can only do so much and fall short every month.
I would like to raise money towards buying him a crib, getting at least a one bedroom apartment of our own, preschool, clothes, a college fund, etc.
I need a better beginning for my baby. He deserves a fighting chance and i love him more than anything in the world. It.brings tears to my eyes to have a faithless baby with a disabled mother.
Please i am begging you....help my son to have a bright future. I would be happy to provide updated information as he.grows if possible.
In case you are wondering where is the help from family members: Every once in awhile a family member will buy him a few books or a pair of shoes. Not often. I guess they cannot afford to consistently help raise someone else's child and i fully understand. Everyone has their own battles to fight.
This is just the beginning of my baby boy's journey through life. I pray that you will be a blessing to him and help to make his journey one full of wonderful memories.
Thank you so much.....
Disabled Solo Mom & Bright Eyed Baby Boy

Hey, here is my story in the short form. Was in a lifelong committed relationship that lasted 22 years from the time I was 18, married in 1993 and had to flee in 2007 when my husband became violent towards me again. During a family camping trip he came at me and slammed me up against a motorhome and grabbed me by the back of my neck and squeezed it very very hard. Once he passed out in his truck I grabbed both kids and the family dog put them in the minivan and drove to a friend's house where the children and I would be safe as he did not know where we were.
The physical violence had stopped for many years before the marriage so I felt that my love had "HEALED ALL HIS WOUNDS" I was so wrong and fled with our kids the very first time he became physical against me again. I was a stay at home Mom when I fled from him the first time he became violent again. I had no job and he never again deposited his checks in our joint account to cover "our" current debt.
I always thought (and was told by many others) that he would be held accountable for 50% of all the joint debt that WE had racked up over the last 22 years.
WRONG! He/She who has the highest paid attorney will be able to pull you in to court every 2 weeks until the one with the less money breaks.
I work hard but put my kids first. Their Father leaves the USA on average for 6 months a year and misses any visits with his kids during his absence. He also does not pay his court order payments on time.

I was hit by a drunk driver over a year ago and lost my highest grossing job because I was unable to work for 6 months and a few months ago 2 other jobs I had were forced to let me go as they could no longer afford to keep me on.

Please help me save the only house my kids have known. The market has dropped and I have been upside down for 2 years now.
The house will go into foreclosure in the next 60 days if I can't raise the funds needed.

I hope you can find it in your heart to spare even just $1.00 to help me keep a roof over the kids head also to send out a short prayer for me to find a job would also be much appreciated.
Thank you for whatever you can spare.

Hey, here is my story in the short form. Was in a lifelong committed relationship that lasted 22 years from the time I was 18, married in 1993 and had to flee in 2007 when my husband became violent towards me again. During a family camping trip he came at me and slammed me up against a motorhome and grabbed me by the back of my neck and squeezed it very very hard. Once he passed out in his truck I grabbed both kids and the family dog put them in the minivan and drove to a friend's house where the children and I would be safe as he did not know where we were.
The physical violence had stopped for many years before the marriage so I felt that my love had "HEALED ALL HIS WOUNDS" I was so wrong and fled with our kids the very first time he became physical against me again. I was a stay at home Mom when I fled from him the first time he became violent again. I had no job and he never again deposited his checks in our joint account to cover "our" current debt.
I always thought (and was told by many others) that he would be held accountable for 50% of all the joint debt that WE had racked up over the last 22 years.
WRONG! He/She who has the highest paid attorney will be able to pull you in to court every 2 weeks until the one with the less money breaks.
I work hard but put my kids first. Their Father leaves the USA on average for 6 months a year and misses any visits with his kids during his absence. He also does not pay his court order payments on time.

I was hit by a drunk driver over a year ago and lost my highest grossing job because I was unable to work for 6 months and a few months ago 2 other jobs I had were forced to let me go as they could no longer afford to keep me on.

Please help me save the only house my kids have known. The market has dropped and I have been upside down for 2 years now.
The house will go into foreclosure in the next 60 days if I can't raise the funds needed.

I hope you can find it in your heart to spare even just $1.00 to help me keep a roof over the kids head also to send out a short prayer for me to find a job would also be much appreciated.
Thank you for whatever you can spare.

Hey, here is my story in the short form. Was in a lifelong committed relationship that lasted 22 years from the time I was 18, married in 1993 and had to flee in 2007 when my husband became violent towards me again. During a family camping trip he came at me and slammed me up against a motorhome and grabbed me by the back of my neck and squeezed it very very hard. Once he passed out in his truck I grabbed both kids and the family dog put them in the minivan and drove to a friend's house where the children and I would be safe as he did not know where we were.
The physical violence had stopped for many years before the marriage so I felt that my love had "HEALED ALL HIS WOUNDS" I was so wrong and fled with our kids the very first time he became physical against me again. I was a stay at home Mom when I fled from him the first time he became violent again. I had no job and he never again deposited his checks in our joint account to cover "our" current debt.
I always thought (and was told by many others) that he would be held accountable for 50% of all the joint debt that WE had racked up over the last 22 years.
WRONG! He/She who has the highest paid attorney will be able to pull you in to court every 2 weeks until the one with the less money breaks.
I work hard but put my kids first. Their Father leaves the USA on average for 6 months a year and misses any visits with his kids during his absence. He also does not pay his court order payments on time.

I was hit by a drunk driver over a year ago and lost my highest grossing job because I was unable to work for 6 months and a few months ago 2 other jobs I had were forced to let me go as they could no longer afford to keep me on.

Please help me save the only house my kids have known. The market has dropped and I have been upside down for 2 years now.
The house will go into foreclosure in the next 60 days if I can't raise the funds needed.

I hope you can find it in your heart to spare even just $1.00 to help me keep a roof over the kids head also to send out a short prayer for me to find a job would also be much appreciated.
Thank you for whatever you can spare.

I am suffering from spinal injuries which is a result from a car accident. The driver who hit me fled the scene. Now I suffer everyday of my life in pain and the doctor says I have some degree of paralysis and I am unable to work and cannot afford to pay my medical bills. Without any money I will not be able to get the surgery I need. I do not have any family, just my fiance and he has been by my side through it all. Any help would be greatly appreciated. Please find it in your heart to help me ,God Bless you and your love ones always. Thanks for reading.

My name is edwin im 21 years old. I want to keep it very breif to not take much of your time. I have 2 little boys that i love so much and i hope that their life do not get effected because of my stupid mistakes. About a year ago i lost control of my car and crashed into a fence, the problem is i was uninsured and now i am being taking to court for 10,000 U.S dollars. I worked 1 hour away and since i had no car due to the accident i lost my employment. Its been a year and during that time i have got into some problems because i would make money doing things i wasnt supose to, i had no choice there are no jobs. i havent been able to find a job ever since so about 3 weeks ago i decided to go back to school.I also have credit cards debts and unpayed phone bills that i could not pay do to loss of my job. All together i believe it to be around 4500 U.S dollars. Well my lisence had got suspended but i would drive to school, taking the risk because i was trying to find away to better my life. One morning on my way to school a car hit me and i panic and fled the scene because i have probation and i didnt want to go to jail,driving with suspended lisence is a violation of my probation. I cant afford a lawyer i owe my previous lawyers money and i might be going to jail for a long time. i have had a vEry bad year. i dont want to let my kids down but theres no way out of this problem, i need the money.
PLEASE I ASK ANYBODYS HELP. IM TRYING TO RAISE ABOUT 30,000 TO GET MY LIFE BACK. ALL I WANT IS A SECOND CHANCE TO DO THINGS RIGHT AND BE MORE CAREFULL. MY KIDS NEED THEIR FATHER. WE ALL MAKE MISTAKES BUT ILL BE STUPID TO NOT LEARN FROM THEM. I DONT WANT TO LOSE MY FAMILY I WANT TO STICK BY THEM AND BE THERE FOR THEM.

Hey, Do people really help you here...that would be outstanding....... 2 kid's--5 & 10 and dad need a home, a roof.......badly !!!We are in eugene oregon. From Iowa last year i was in a bad car accident, I got better );), but my wonderful wife found that diet-pills ((prescription speed))would make life better..... Sadly she spent our savings on adult things and whatever and literaly- the day after i found all that out the CAP'T of our little towns police came over to arrest her for****** with her doctor in return for double prescriptions of "adderall" also prescription speed))...............O.M.G. She fled the state that night and stole my two innocent little
children away to oregon.......I found her, went to court and have joint custody of my 5 and 10 yr old....I have fixed their broken little hearts the very best a man ever could and they smile agaqin as children should----I have my van, my tools, blankets and 1/4 tank of gas.......I AM A WELDER/FITTER WHO REALLY NEEDS A HAND UP, but mostly I am a father who let go of himself, to hang on to his children. children....P.S. you wouldnt have read this if you did'nt need to ksm689@gmail.com

Hey, Do people really help you here...that would be outstanding....... 2 kid's--5 & 10 and dad need a job and a home...hopefully with a life to follow, ......badly !!!We are in eugene oregon. From Iowa last year i was in a bad car accident, I got better );), but my wonderful wife found that diet-pills ((prescription speed))would make life better..... Sadly she spent our savings on adult things and whatever and literaly- the day after i found all that out the CAP'T of our little towns police came over to arrest her for****** with her doctor in return for double prescriptions of "adderall" also prescription speed))...............O.M.G. She fled the state that night and stole my two innocent little
children away to oregon.......I found her, went to court and have joint custody of my 5 and 10 yr old....I have fixed their broken little hearts the very best a man ever could and they smile agaqin as children should----I have my van, my tools, blankets and 1/4 tank of gas.......I AM A WELDER/FITTER WHO REALLY NEEDS A HAND UP, but mostly I am a father who let go of himself, to hang on to his children....P.S. you wouldnt have read this if you did'nt need to ksm689@gmail.com

Hey, Do people really help you here...that would be outstanding....... 2 kid's--5 & 10 and dad need a home, a roof.......badly !!!We are in eugene oregon. From Iowa last year i was in a bad car accident, I got better );), but my wonderful wife found that diet-pills ((prescription speed))would make life better..... Sadly she spent our savings on adult things and whatever and literaly- the day after i found all that out the CAP'T of our little towns police came over to arrest her for****** with her doctor in return for double prescriptions of "adderall" also prescription speed))...............O.M.G. She fled the state that night and stole my two innocent little
children away to oregon.......I found her, went to court and have joint custody of my 5 and 10 yr old....I have fixed their broken little hearts the very best a man ever could and they smile agaqin as children should----I have my van, my tools, blankets and 1/4 tank of gas.......I AM A WELDER/FITTER WHO REALLY NEEDS A HAND UP, but mostly I am a father who let go of himself, to hang on to his children....P.S. you wouldnt have read this if you did'nt need to ksm689@gmail.com

Hey, Do people really help you here...that would be outstanding....... 2 kid's--5 & 10 and dad need a home, a roof.......badly !!!We are in eugene oregon. From Iowa last year i was in a bad car accident, I got better );), but my wonderful wife found that diet-pills ((prescription speed))would make life better..... Sadly she spent our savings on adult things and whatever and literaly- the day after i found all that out the CAP'T of our little towns police came over to arrest her for****** with her doctor in return for double prescriptions of "adderall" also prescription speed))...............O.M.G. She fled the state that night and stole my two innocent little
children away to oregon.......I found her, went to court and have joint custody of my 5 and 10 yr old....I have fixed their broken little hearts the very best a man ever could and they smile agaqin as children should----I have my van, my tools, blankets and 1/4 tank of gas.......I AM A WELDER/FITTER WHO REALLY NEEDS A HAND UP, but mostly I am a father who let go of himself, to hang on to his children....P.S. you wouldnt have read this if you did'nt need to ksm689@gmail.com

I need a motel with a kitchen for 2 months in eugene oregon. From Iowa last year i was in a car accident, I got better, but my totally hot wife found prescription speed....and the seven guys that were ##@%##@ her...seriously---i got pics. SO she spent our savings on adult toys and whatever and like the day after i found all that out the CAP'T of our little towns police came over to arrest her for*******sex with her doctor for double prescriptions....................O.M.G. she fled the state that night and stole my two innocent children away to oregon.......I found her, went to court and have joint custody of my 5 and 10 yr old.......I AM A WELDER/FITTER WHO REALLY NEEDS A HAND UP, but mostly I am a father who let go of himself, to hang on to his children....ksm689@gmail.com

Please Can you help, this is my story.
Where to begin, my life since I was born has been hell I was adopted at birth kicked out of home at 13 because I was pregnant and had to fiend for myself my son was taken off me from the government as I was too young but at 18 thought I had met the love of my life and had 3 beautiful daughters. That was the relationship from hell after 14 years of violence and beatings I fled with my 3 daughters back to where I came from and decided to start a new life and give my kids a better life. It was a real struggle on my own with no support the kids would go back to their father every holidays until one time they came back and one of my daughters was suicidal and then came the devastating news they had been abused by an uncle from the age of 4 years old to 13, it felt like my heart was ripped out what do I do now. Well I did what was right called the authorities and he was jailed for life and has since died in prison, but the devastation it had on my kids was horrific. They dropped out of school, got in trouble with the police, did drugs, burglaries etc and I had to deal with it all on my own they just got so angry. Since then they have settled down as they have children my oldest is 26 with a 5 year old son she lost her daughter at birth that was another tragedy she still can’t sleep and has nightmares. My youngest has a 3 year old daughter and she gets scared to be alone and my middle daughter the one who was suicidal is 24 with 5 kids under 5 she suffers with bi polar disorder and depends on me 24 7. She has just moved down the road from me so I can have a bit of time but we rotate the kids and she is on my doorstep most of the time. She still gets weary of people and needs me around and has a mean anger problem so I still have to be there for all of them. Anyway my mum felt sorry for us and about 10 years ago helped us buy a cheap home she is 80 years old but about 2 years ago the kids all moved out and left me with the mortgage and I couldn’t afford it. My mum nearly lost her home so to save it I lost mine and my truck and now I am on a benefit renting a house with 40 dollars left a week for food power and petrol which is not happening, I am struggling so bad. In spite of all that I suffer depression and asthma and I am hugely over weight due to diabetes with low insulin and after so many diets because of this cant lose weight. I am so scared I had a mild heart attack about 3 months ago and I want to be around to see my grandchildren grow up and give them what I couldn’t have. My doctor told me I need that operation where they shrink your stomach but that is 30 000 dollars, I cant even raise 10 dollars if I needed it, I don’t know what to do I have bailiffs and bills coming out of my eyeballs plus my health. Please can someone help me this is just a brief story I could practically write a whole book of my life but every cent would help. I just want to enjoy the next few years I have with my grandkids and be happy. I have a PayPal account and my e mail address is Carolk@slingshot.co.nz. May God Bless whoever may read this Thanks.

Hi I never do this but Im in serious need.... My 5yr old daughter and I need 300 to pay the rent owed so we dont get kicked out of our apt. I am currently working 2 jobs and am in school. We are domestic voilence victims (her dad was a crazy drink and did aweful things to us), that have recently fled from our abuser and now were in desperate need of help. she has been through enough and im scared that we will lose our only safe place....

Thank you for reading and for your time.