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please help!
Posted by floral on 2012-04-25 20:58:17
A family in turmoil.
Posted by elbeecee on 2012-04-06 04:58:09
It wasn't long before she became gravely ill. In the summer of 2010 my mother had succumbed to kidney failure and had to be on kidney dialysis permanently. She had neglected to take care of herself while trying to take care of my father and their financial woes. Along with the financial woes, there were back taxes that were still owed and of course were impossible to pay, their house was falling apart--still is. By the end of Spring 2011, my mother got so ill and was on a ventilator at least 4 times in a 2 week period due to her lungs filling up with fluid. Finally it was discovered that she had endocarditis (infection in heart)that had ravaged one of her heart valves. This required open heart surgery and replacement of the defected valve. The endocarditis stemmed from an infected temporary dialysis catheter. She was in the hospital for over a month and a half or so. Needless to say she was confused, lost tons of weight, and lost the ability to walk or care for herself. She was placed in a nursing home for rehab, but several more stays in the hospital only made her fall several steps back on her rehab and she never has fully recovered. It was discovered that she also had a tumor on one of her kidneys and her kidney was removed in the Fall of 2011 and supposedly it was all contained and it was early stage renal (kidney) carcinoma (cancer). While my mother was in the hospital my father had trouble breathing and I took him to the hospital. It as discovered he was in kidney failure and they both ended up in the hospital at the same time. Now my father is on permanent kidney dialysis.
Now fast forward to present day April 6, 2012. My mother's dialysis shunt would not stop bleeding and she was taken to the emergency room. She also complained of right leg pain and ultimately she ended up with a CT angiogram. This test revealed she not only had some blockage in one of her arteries in her leg, but that she had metastatic cancer to her liver, lungs, and a site near her spleen. Of course we are devastated.
They have no money. The money they do get is always depleted as soon as they get it from Medicare. My mother's social security check went straight to the nursing home and still was not enough to cover her bill. My father would have to pay over $1,000 a month because Medicare would only pay for several weeks. Since she has been in the hospital now for almost 2 weeks, we have pulled her out of the nursing home because the expected us to pay over $180 A DAY to keep her spot at the nursing home.
Now we are faced with a surgery to fix her leg, a plan for cancer treatment, and no suitable place for my mother to live. Their current home is in shambles and I mean SHAMBLES. Roof leaks and is falling apart. I assume there is some black mold lingering. No central air or heat as their units are broke. Plus large amounts of stuff--my mother also was a hoarder. The house is disgusting and it has been hard to clean up with out major assistance and with constant trips to the hospital who has ample time (?). They live in a small town and it is very hard to simply get a dumpster to throw many items away. The house would have to be completely gutted and redone. The floors are sinking in and it is very dangerous. They don't have the funds to fix any of it and nor do I.
I have missed work several times over the last year and more with FMLA, but never have enough PTO to fully cover my own losses.
My siblings have yet to start their lives. They have been with my parents ever since 2007 to help them with everything. Even when my mother was in a nursing home my siblings and my dad would go see my mom every single day--we just didn't trust the care of the nursing home and rightly so because she developed a bed ulcer on her heel after the wound care nurse said it was getting better--not even close! And yes the blocked artery in her leg and her bed ulcer on her heel are related. The wound care nurse and the Dr. for the nursing home should have caught this medical issue.
So life has been tough, but reading about it doesn't even give it justice. We need financial assistance, a new home or help to fix it--we need a lot of help. I want my brother and sister to finally get on their own feet and do what they want to do. I feel bad for them because I was able to finish college and have a career, a husband, and a home. They have yet to accomplish their goals and it makes me sad and sick to see them so depressed. They are in their late 20s and my parents are both 65 y.o.
If anyone has a kind heart, I promise you I'm not lying. I have proof of all I have written about and I swear on everything--my family, my husband, etc. that this is all real. Thank you for your time and interest. If you can't help at least please pray for us.
I'm trying this BegsList as desperation as I don't know what to do. My wish is to get them a nice clean place to live and live their last years worry free.
Dentures Needed
Posted by blewis46580 on 2012-02-25 20:58:30
Dental bill
Posted by sweetshannon10 on 2012-02-18 18:58:32
Need Help Now!
Posted by ihaveadream on 2012-01-27 19:58:25
Let me tell you more about myself. I was two years old when my father was shot and killed in the big city. I grew up on welfare with my mother and grandmother. When I was seven we lost grandmaâs house and began to move around a lot. When I was twelve, my grandmother died from being in a moldy house that we were renting. My mother moved to the country with her boyfriend and I followed shortly after. In school I was smart, but moving around everywhere was costly. I lost credit for a lot of hard work simply because the schools were on two different schedules. After living with my momâs drunken boyfriend and having him beat on her, I dropped out of school to get a job in construction. I was able to make enough for us to rent our own place.
I married my high school sweetheart about a year ago. I had hoped that we would make a wonderful life together, but itâs proven to be very difficult. She did graduate and attend college; however, she did not finish her Bachelors degree. She has a little more than half a semester left, but we ran into some tax problems and she has not been able to go back and finish. Now she owes 6,000 in college dept and I owe thousands in back taxes. She has eyesight problems (coloboma) and canât drive herself. She works with her mom cleaning houses and babysitting. I dream about being rich and successful, and making all our financial problems go away. I donât see how thatâs going to happen with all of our problems. I want to go to college and get a degree, but I need help getting on my feet. Please help me and my family realize our dreams of financial freedom.
America is one of the most charitable nations on earth, with lots of people that have been financially blessed. I read that there are 7.5 million millionaires in America, and I hope someone reading this is one of them. Please change my life forever with a big donation. I dream of being successful and using my money to help others who need it. I want to make a difference for good in this troubled world, but itâs hard to do when you canât even help yourself.
Please help me better my life
Posted by ihaveadream on 2012-01-27 14:58:45
Let me tell you more about myself. I was two years old when my father was shot and killed in the big city. I grew up on welfare with my mother and grandmother. When I was seven we lost grandmaâs house and began to move around all over. When I was twelve, my grandmother died from being in a moldy house that we were renting. My mother moved to the country with her boyfriend and I followed shortly after. In school I was smart, but moving around everywhere was costly. I lost credit for a lot of hard work simply because the schools were on two different schedules. After living with my momâs drunken boyfriend and having her cry to me when he hit her, I dropped out of school to get a job in construction. I was able to make enough for us to scrape by and barely pay bills.
I married my high school sweetheart about a year ago. I had hoped that we would make a wonderful life together, but itâs proven to be very difficult. She did graduate and attend college; however, she did not finish her Bachelors degree. She has a little more than half a semester left, but we ran into some tax problems and she has not been able to go back and finish. Now she owes 6,000 in college dept and I owe thousands in back taxes. She has eyesight problems (coloboma) and canât drive herself. She works with her mom cleaning houses and babysitting. I dream about being rich and successful, and making all our financial problems go away. I donât see how thatâs going to happen with all of our problems. I want to go to college and get a degree, but I need help getting on my feet. Please help me and my family realize our dreams of financial freedom.
America is one of the most charitable nations on earth, with lots of people that have been financially blessed. I read that there are 7.5 million millionaires in America, and I hope someone reading this is one of them. Please change my life forever with a big donation. I dream of being successful and using my money to help others who need it. I want to make a difference for good in this troubled world, but itâs hard to do when you canât even help yourself. I will use any money I get from online to pay taxes and get into college.
Please help me better my life
Posted by ihaveadream on 2012-01-27 14:58:44
Let me tell you more about myself. I was two years old when my father was shot and killed in the big city. I grew up on welfare with my mother and grandmother. When I was seven we lost grandmaâs house and began to move around all over. When I was twelve, my grandmother died from being in a moldy house that we were renting. My mother moved to the country with her boyfriend and I followed shortly after. In school I was smart, but moving around everywhere was costly. I lost credit for a lot of hard work simply because the schools were on two different schedules. After living with my momâs drunken boyfriend and having her cry to me when he hit her, I dropped out of school to get a job in construction. I was able to make enough for us to scrape by and barely pay bills.
I married my high school sweetheart about a year ago. I had hoped that we would make a wonderful life together, but itâs proven to be very difficult. She did graduate and attend college; however, she did not finish her Bachelors degree. She has a little more than half a semester left, but we ran into some tax problems and she has not been able to go back and finish. Now she owes 6,000 in college dept and I owe thousands in back taxes. She has eyesight problems (coloboma) and canât drive herself. She works with her mom cleaning houses and babysitting. I dream about being rich and successful, and making all our financial problems go away. I donât see how thatâs going to happen with all of our problems. I want to go to college and get a degree, but I need help getting on my feet. Please help me and my family realize our dreams of financial freedom.
America is one of the most charitable nations on earth, with lots of people that have been financially blessed. I read that there are 7.5 million millionaires in America, and I hope someone reading this is one of them. Please change my life forever with a big donation. I dream of being successful and using my money to help others who need it. I want to make a difference for good in this troubled world, but itâs hard to do when you canât even help yourself. I will use any money I get from online to pay taxes and get into college.
Please help me better my life
Posted by ihaveadream on 2012-01-27 14:58:30
Let me tell you more about myself. I was two years old when my father was shot and killed in the big city. I grew up on welfare with my mother and grandmother. When I was seven we lost grandmaâs house and began to move around all over. When I was twelve, my grandmother died from being in a moldy house that we were renting. My mother moved to the country with her boyfriend and I followed shortly after. In school I was smart, but moving around everywhere was costly. I lost credit for a lot of hard work simply because the schools were on two different schedules. After living with my momâs drunken boyfriend and having her cry to me when he hit her, I dropped out of school to get a job in construction. I was able to make enough for us to scrape by and barely pay bills.
I married my high school sweetheart about a year ago. I had hoped that we would make a wonderful life together, but itâs proven to be very difficult. She did graduate and attend college; however, she did not finish her Bachelors degree. She has a little more than half a semester left, but we ran into some tax problems and she has not been able to go back and finish. Now she owes 6,000 in college dept and I owe thousands in back taxes. She has eyesight problems (coloboma) and canât drive herself. She works with her mom cleaning houses and babysitting. I dream about being rich and successful, and making all our financial problems go away. I donât see how thatâs going to happen with all of our problems. I want to go to college and get a degree, but I need help getting on my feet. Please help me and my family realize our dreams of financial freedom.
America is one of the most charitable nations on earth, with lots of people that have been financially blessed. I read that there are 7.5 million millionaires in America, and I hope someone reading this is one of them. Please change my life forever with a big donation. I dream of being successful and using my money to help others who need it. I want to make a difference for good in this troubled world, but itâs hard to do when you canât even help yourself. I will use any money I get from online to pay taxes and get into college.
Finally $5
Posted by AJ07 on 2011-12-30 07:58:39
Finally $5
Posted by AJ07 on 2011-12-30 07:58:39
Finally $5
Posted by AJ07 on 2011-12-30 07:58:38
Pregnant, Sick, and Desperate! Please Help!
Posted by stressedtothemax on 2011-12-24 23:58:59
A little hope is hard to come by, perhaps a bit of help?
Posted by Spyke on 2011-12-15 19:58:41
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Need help with 2 months rent
Posted by JUSTNEEDSTART on 2011-08-22 14:58:24
Artist needs help to form Art & Animation Studio
Posted by Scottycomic26 on 2011-08-08 02:58:47
The only way I have been able to contact people is by relying on my girlfriend's Internet, electricity, helping her cook and clean while "guest staying" at her apartment but know this won't last. I ask too much of her help to watch my cat while I continue to look online.
All I ask is for someone, anyone who can help. My goal is simple: I need to raise enough money to start a art design, publishing studio which would bring in clients who need visionaries to help make their designs, commercials, products, books, ebooks, animation using the next wave of 3D technology, FX special effects for student filmmakers in Chicago colleges, to help bring in interns and show them the pros and cons to hone their skills, and finally bring together Chicago artists who wish to have their talents and skills to create extraordinary work for any and all who wish to see it.
Bottom line, I need help. Financial help. I don't know what else to do. I can't get a job, for whatever reason, I'm flat broke, exhausted from sleeplessness and stress. All I own is a laptop, some clothes, my wonderful artistic skills, (my undying determination, good sense of right and wrong, knowledge of computer programs, business sense, sharp humor and a kind heart to make my dream a reality. I really don't want to live under a expressway but if things don't change, it looks like my next post just might be my last.
For those of you who have read this and given some thought, please help by donating. Who knows, you might be lending out to the future "Industrial light and Magic" of the 21st century?
This is for more that just myself, this is for a cause that needs help. Help from people like you who know the value of the human heart. This is to help create a studio designed to welcome those who wish to create, strive, teach, animate, and pioneer. Imagination is the last, boundless frontier, let's be a part of that journey by helping one another dream it to fruition.
No dream ever truly dies, we just let them fade away.
Help me change that. Any help will do.
Thank you for reading.
FAMILY OF 6 NEEDS HELP TO PAY BILLS
Posted by cechev on 2011-06-13 14:58:11
Need Money to Pay old college for Transcript
Posted by Digigi on 2011-06-09 10:58:52
I went into the hospital and received a W in the last class at my old university, I owe 359.00, and well I recently was in the hospital again for emergency Gallbladder removal, so I missed 3 weeks of work... I am trying to enroll at a new university and have been accepted, however they need my official transcript for me to register for classes, and well they are filling up fast and I have NO way of making the money I so really need. Any little bit would help...so I can start my future again and begin a better life.
had to sell engagement ring to pay basic utilities..please help
Posted by kp123is on 2011-05-07 23:58:20
My fiance and I lost our jobs, unable to get unemployment, filling out applications at every available place in town with no luck ro get hired. The utility bills and rent come due the first of this month and we have even been selling everything that we own, including my engagement ring, our t.v., some of our clothes, etc. We have even tried working for some family friends for some money but that only covered one of the bills..we are so desperate and are young and do not want to get evicted or get our utilities shut off. We are even enrolled in the discounted shut off protection plan for our utilities and cannot even afford the 55.00 a month for electric. Our rent is 395 and we are just exasperated and overwhelmed at what is going to happen to us if we cannot come up with at least that. Please help us, we would do anything and even re-pay you once we are hired somewhere.
Thank you so much
I would be so grateful for help to feed my children. My husband has been injured for months and we have a new baby and a five year old.
Posted by Maggie on 2011-04-24 01:58:46
Family of 4 looking for a hand up, not a hand out.
Posted by forever8288 on 2011-04-20 04:58:08
Help Me!!!!!
Posted by arvind1980 on 2011-03-15 12:58:17
i am from new delhi/India i need help i am working but i have big loan .i am unable to pay that,Reason to take that loan is this
when i get married first night i get know that my wife is suffering from hole in heart,after few days she get operated in Shimla /India.then life gone smooth after 6 month she came from my home village to town and live with me where i work,she start suffer from fever for 8 months i consult doctors many time but they don't detect illnes .one day she feel pain in stomach next day when doctor done ultra sound he found 2 stones in both kidney 21mm and 7 mm
after this i tried loan and this was starting of loans on my head,when one kidney stone treated doctor said 2nd kidney stone operation will be done after 6 months,after 10 days my small brother get accidented from bike and late night i get phone call that my brother is suffer from head injury,i went to hospital and seen that doctors stiching his head afetr few minutes blood start filling in his stomach he immidiately refer him to trauma centre,that was my 2nd and big loan startup ..after 10 days he expire and i take more loan for his funeral.again after 6 months i take loan for my wife kidney operation.2 year later i take again loan for my sister marrige.now i was totally drown in loan.i got salary and full salary get in loan .i counted that this whole loan will be close in 9-10 years for that time i have not a single penny to run my home food, bill payments and old parents care ,now i donot want to take more loans please help me .i shall be highly thankfull to you
Help Me!!!!!
Posted by arvind1980 on 2011-03-15 12:58:17
i am from new delhi/India i need help i am working but i have big loan .i am unable to pay that,Reason to take that loan is this
when i get married first night i get know that my wife is suffering from hole in heart,after few days she get operated in Shimla /India.then life gone smooth after 6 month she came from my home village to town and live with me where i work,she start suffer from fever for 8 months i consult doctors many time but they don't detect illnes .one day she feel pain in stomach next day when doctor done ultra sound he found 2 stones in both kidney 21mm and 7 mm
after this i tried loan and this was starting of loans on my head,when one kidney stone treated doctor said 2nd kidney stone operation will be done after 6 months,after 10 days my small brother get accidented from bike and late night i get phone call that my brother is suffer from head injury,i went to hospital and seen that doctors stiching his head afetr few minutes blood start filling in his stomach he immidiately refer him to trauma centre,that was my 2nd and big loan startup ..after 10 days he expire and i take more loan for his funeral.again after 6 months i take loan for my wife kidney operation.2 year later i take again loan for my sister marrige.now i was totally drown in loan.i got salary and full salary get in loan .i counted that this whole loan will be close in 9-10 years for that time i have not a single penny to run my home food, bill payments and old parents care ,now i donot want to take more loans please help me .i shall be highly thankfull to you
Help Me!!!!!
Posted by arvind1980 on 2011-03-15 12:58:17
i am from new delhi/India i need help i am working but i have big loan .i am unable to pay that,Reason to take that loan is this
when i get married first night i get know that my wife is suffering from hole in heart,after few days she get operated in Shimla /India.then life gone smooth after 6 month she came from my home village to town and live with me where i work,she start suffer from fever for 8 months i consult doctors many time but they don't detect illnes .one day she feel pain in stomach next day when doctor done ultra sound he found 2 stones in both kidney 21mm and 7 mm
after this i tried loan and this was starting of loans on my head,when one kidney stone treated doctor said 2nd kidney stone operation will be done after 6 months,after 10 days my small brother get accidented from bike and late night i get phone call that my brother is suffer from head injury,i went to hospital and seen that doctors stiching his head afetr few minutes blood start filling in his stomach he immidiately refer him to trauma centre,that was my 2nd and big loan startup ..after 10 days he expire and i take more loan for his funeral.again after 6 months i take loan for my wife kidney operation.2 year later i take again loan for my sister marrige.now i was totally drown in loan.i got salary and full salary get in loan .i counted that this whole loan will be close in 9-10 years for that time i have not a single penny to run my home food, bill payments and old parents care ,now i donot want to take more loans please help me .i shall be highly thankfull to you
Help Me!!!!!
Posted by arvind1980 on 2011-03-15 12:58:16
i am from new delhi/India i need help i am working but i have big loan .i am unable to pay that,Reason to take that loan is this
when i get married first night i get know that my wife is suffering from hole in heart,after few days she get operated in Shimla /India.then life gone smooth after 6 month she came from my home village to town and live with me where i work,she start suffer from fever for 8 months i consult doctors many time but they don't detect illnes .one day she feel pain in stomach next day when doctor done ultra sound he found 2 stones in both kidney 21mm and 7 mm
after this i tried loan and this was starting of loans on my head,when one kidney stone treated doctor said 2nd kidney stone operation will be done after 6 months,after 10 days my small brother get accidented from bike and late night i get phone call that my brother is suffer from head injury,i went to hospital and seen that doctors stiching his head afetr few minutes blood start filling in his stomach he immidiately refer him to trauma centre,that was my 2nd and big loan startup ..after 10 days he expire and i take more loan for his funeral.again after 6 months i take loan for my wife kidney operation.2 year later i take again loan for my sister marrige.now i was totally drown in loan.i got salary and full salary get in loan .i counted that this whole loan will be close in 9-10 years for that time i have not a single penny to run my home food, bill payments and old parents care ,now i donot want to take more loans please help me .i shall be highly thankfull to you
