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i need help with my electric bill getting shut off soon owe around to the tune of $3500. My partner was laid off in november which has left me to fend all our debts off but this is the icing on the cake, they would not approve us for energy assistance claiming i made 50 dollars over the limit for this program. its gotten to the point where ive had to choose mortgage over electric..we cant be homeless and this is really my last hope for a break in our lives at this point..Thank you all!

Please help agent orange disabled vet needs money to save home from foreclosure. Behind in payments after being in hospital. Anything you can give would be appreciated. Wife cant work because of disability also.
Trying to fend of the vultures right now.
Bless you

I am a 43 year old female. I have no children and I am not married. My story is not that of someone that most people would be sympathetic to, but I would like to be as honest as possible.

When I was 23, I graduated from medicine school, got involved with someone for 5 years then he left leaving me with nothing. I got my first loan and credit card which was my first mistake. I borrowed to pay for my mortgage and ended up having difficulty paying all my bills.

Over the years, I proceeded to act like an idiot – taking out new accounts and racking up the bills. I moved to Italy thinking a new start would be good, lived there for ten years but still could not earn enough to pay off my debts let alone live comfortably. Again, this is my fault, getting mixed up with people who took advantage of my generosity, I was left yet again with no money to support myself. My father passed away when I was 23 and my mother 10 years later, I am an only child. I have no idea what happened to all their property or money, so I’ve had to be independent and fend for myself.

I decided to return to England, but getting a job here was even more difficult than in Italy. No one wants to employ you if you are over 35yrs, I’ve been struggling for the last two years, sometimes going without eating for 5 days living on tea. I have sold just about everything I own. I was hoping to make a dent in the bills I had mounting, which had gotten out of hand. I was falling behind and couldn’t make all the payments. Selling off all the stuff I bought seemed like a good start, but the bills keep coming.

I am asking for some help with these bills and rent so I can get my head above water. I have not taken out any loans and cancelled all my cards, I’m in so much debt that I will be evicted from my flat if I don’t come up with the rent by Monday.

I would humbly accept any help that someone is willing to offer me. I really want to live debt free for the first time since I left my parents home. I made a promise to myself that enough was enough, no more borrowing and if I got enough money to get me out of my black hole, I would help someone else who needs help just like me.

I am a 43 year old female. I have no children and I am not married. My story is not that of someone that most people would be sympathetic to, but I would like to be as honest as possible.
When I was 23, I graduated from university, I studied medicine, got involved with someone for 5 years then he left leaving me with nothing. I got my first loan and credit card which was my first mistake. I borrowed to pay for my mortgage and ended up having difficulty paying all my bills.
Over the years, I proceeded to act like an idiot – taking out new accounts and racking up the bills. I moved to Italy thinking a new start would be good, lived there for ten years but still could not earn enough to pay off my debts let alone live comfortably. Again, this is my fault, getting mixed up with people who took advantage of my generosity, I was left yet again with no money to support myself. My father passed away when I was 23 and my mother 10 years later, I am an only child. I have no idea what happened to all their property or money, so I’ve had to be independent and fend for myself.
I decided to return to England, but getting a job here was even more difficult than in Italy. No one wants to employ you if you are over 35yrs, I’ve been struggling for the last two years, sometimes going without eating for 5 days living on tea. I have sold just about everything I own. I was hoping to make a dent in the bills I had mounting, which had gotten out of hand. I was falling behind and couldn’t make all the payments. Selling off all the stuff I bought seemed like a good start, but the bills keep coming.
I am asking for some help with these bills and rent so I can get my head above water. I have not taken out any loans and cancelled all my cards, I’m in so much debt that I will be evicted from my flat if I don’t come up with the rent by Monday.
I would humbly accept any help that someone is willing to offer me. I really want to live debt free for the first time since I left my parents home. I made a promise to myself that enough was enough, no more borrowing and if I got enough money to get me out of my black hole, I would help someone else who needs help just like me.

Hello my name is chris peters and I am from nigeria. Yes I know my country is synonymous with scams and all that but I am a real person and in need of financial help.if your interested in helping and knowing what I look like,you can check me up on facebook : chriss beatz. I and my twin brother are really finding it difficult since my father left us and my mom is unemployed. We are in the university and don't have money to fend for our selves.apart from being a student I'm a singer along with my bro. Please i/we just need help and I know there are a lot of people out there who are willing to help. Thank u so much for taking time to read this.

I came into this world all alone gave up @ birth because i was a boy not a girl, so from a very early age ive had to fend for myself.
I grew up in the system with not the right backing or guidence i could of been something 40 yrs later,always getting passed from pillar to post :( ive worked mnost my life but dead end jobs,im currently out of work at the moment with chronic back pain n constant tinitus not nice.
I have always wanted to broaden my horizons n see other nations n cultures but never got the chance i was always promised we will take you too sucs n such but never happend, i so want to see as much as gods creation before i leave this realm,other christians look thru me not at me y coz i speak of truth with truth & as the saying goes it hurts , well there in the wrong job then god gave us 2 hands one for ourselfs the 2nd for others :)
Thank you and God Bless

I am a 52 year old woman, married to a husband who thinks only of himself. He and my very dominating german mother in law enjoy the fine things in life on her money but I have to fend for myself. The go on vacation in Feb for 2 weeks and I have to stay home and pay the bills. I have type 2 diabetes and have alot of medical expences, I can not pay for. I need help

I need help. :( I've never done anything like this before--and I never thought that I'd have to. But desperate times call for desperate measures I suppose...

First of all, thank you for clicking in; I truly do appreciate it. I'm having some financial difficulty, and it's putting me under a lot of stress. I'm a single 24-year-old female, and I'm a university grad. However, I certainly don't feel like one. I've been unable to find a job since I graduated two years ago. I studied Social Science--I'll never make that same mistake again. Just recently, for the past couple of weeks, I've been working a minimum wage retail job for 10 hours a week. I'm grateful that I, at least, have something for now. I just wish that it was enough to fend off my student loan payments, credit card bills (which have long since been cancelled), bus/transportation fares (I don't have a car), a bank account, which always seems to be in deficit, and whatever else decides to pop up and torment me. I've decided to go back to school again next September and attend college, with hopes that I'll be better able to land a good job. I'll rack up more student debt, but if it means that I'll be able to stand on my own two feet again, then I'll do it. But for now, I need a bit of help to get by.

I understand that beggars can't be choosers, so I'm not going to specify a certain amount that I need. But anything that you are willing to spare will be greatly appreciated; every little bit counts. Once I'm secure in my life and in my finances, I've made a promise to myself to come back to websites, like these, to donate to others who also need a helping hand. I think it's wonderful that such people, who are at the end of their ropes, have a place to turn to. It's encouraging.

Again, I thank you for clicking in and taking the time to read this. Best wishes to you and your loved ones, and do take care.

I am a giving person that care about the needs of others. I let my sister use my name to get her electricity turned and unfortunately she fell on hard times with her bills and didn't have help from her boyfriend who was staying with her at the time and now the BGE bill is 7,000.00. I am so stressed out because she nor I have that type of money to pay it off. I would appreciate any help from anyone out there who reads this message. I usually dont beg anyone for anything because I try to fend for myself. I'm sorry but this time is different because I just dont know where I could possible raise $7000.00 plus dollars. Please help me if you can.
Sincerly and most humble,
Women in need of help

I'm 24 year old woman and I need help. Growing up I was always taught to help those in need and do what's right and honest but somewhere along the way, I hit every bad bump a girl could. I have no family but a mother who's 900 miles away and barely able to fend for herself. Normally I wouldn't dream of asking for help but I find that in 3 days - November 1st, I will not have a dime for rent. It isn't much but a mere $500. I've gone days without eating just to pay some bills or feed my own cats but I am literally down to my last $5 in change and I don't know what to do. I am constantly applying to jobs but with so little of them available to me without a degree, it's hard to obtain one. I've had to drop out of college because I can no longer afford it. So here's my plea...If anyone could help, the smallest of donations would make the hugest of a difference in my life and I would love to help others less fortunate as soon as I'm back on my feet.

After finishing my 4 year obligation to the military I am left to fend for myself. For the 1st 6 months I was able to get by on Unemployment, and 1 year after that doing odd jobs & living off my savings. I just moved into a new place last month to reduce my rent significantly and best of all utilities included. I don't want to be a bad tenant as this will only be my 2nd month staying here. And I got a good deal through a friend and don't want him to look bad for recommending me. I'm trying to sell my Jeep which will easily get me 5 months of rent while I can get more work, but until it sells I have nothing, and no one to turn to. I can and would prefer to pay it back when I get the money as I am responsible for getting myself into this situation and have never had someone pay my way but right now my situation doesn't look so good, and I have to consider all my options. :-/ Any help?

I'm in dire straights now. My husband has written out a lot of bad checks to different establishments. They are not small checks. There is a check for the amount of $2200. Another for $1800. There are more checks that he has written out.He also bought a van and has not paid the rent for the last 4 months. not to mention he has not made a payment on the van. My husband has left to fend on my own. I have no idea as to his whereabouts. All in all he left me holding the bag worth $32,000. Please help me, I do have a job but I only make mim. wage. All donations will be appreciated. My e-mail is katmandu_56@yahoo.com. Please, please help

Hello,
I am desperate for financial assistance and have exhausted every effort to find a solution.
I am 60 years old,unable to be gainfully employed and have no income.The man who was supporting me has left me to fend for myself,knowing I am unable to do so.
I traveled 1500 miles thinking I would be married and have a decent life.When I got here he decided he didn't want to be married and knew I had no other place to go.Today is our 2nd year Anniversary and I was told by his lawyer that he will not help me.I am being evicted from my apartment if I don't have the money by next week.I have no place to go.
I have tried my best to help myself and must now resort to this ,as I have no family or friends who are able to help me.I have prayed so hard for something and today someone told me about this so I am going to try it.
My circumstances can be verified to prove this is not a scam.
God Bless you for any help you can give.
Thank you,
Elizabeth
I need a car to get a job,but I don't even have enough for time on my cell phone.I have a physical impairment that keeps me from working a steady job and have been ill for the past 3 weeks losing me the only job I did have.

Hello, my names david and im a student in college, my mother and father have fallen on conciderbly hard times and are about a week from losing their home. My grandfather passed away last year leaving my grandma to fend for herself. Shes a strong woman but shes also a breast cancer survivor, she suffers from lymphonia and has difficulty working as her arm swells up. Please if anyones out there im praying, 10,000 should get us through the year ok. please.
815 388 6749 im constantly hounded by solicitors so if you call please leave a messege or text me at 815 388 6749

Hello, my names david and im a student in college, my mother and father have fallen on conciderbly hard times and are about a week from losing their home. My grandfather passed away last year leaving my grandma to fend for herself. Shes a strong woman but shes also a breast cancer survivor, she suffers from lymphonia and has difficulty working as her arm swells up. Please if anyones out there im praying, 10,000 should get us through the year ok. please.
815 388 6749 im constantly hounded by solicitors so if you call please leave a messege or text me at 815 388 6749

Hello, my names david and im a student in college, my mother and father have fallen on conciderbly hard times and are about a week from losing their home. My grandfather passed away last year leaving my grandma to fend for herself. Shes a strong woman but shes also a breast cancer survivor, she suffers from lymphonia and has difficulty working as her arm swells up. Please if anyones out there im praying, 10,000 should get us through the year ok. please.

815 388 6749 im constantly hounded by solicitors so if you call please leave a messege or text me at 815 388 6749

Hello, my names david and im a student in college, my mother and father have fallen on conciderbly hard times and are about a week from losing their home. My grandfather passed away last year leaving my grandma to fend for herself. Shes a strong woman but shes also a breast cancer survivor, she suffers from lymphonia and has difficulty working as her arm swells up. Please if anyones out there im praying, 10,000 should get us through the year ok. please.
815 388 6749 im constantly hounded by solicitors so if you call please leave a messege or text me at 815 388 6749

I'm a tired,sick,old man who barely has enough to eat at any given time. I'm wheel-chair bound and live alone. I don't have anybody helping me out so I basically have to fend for myself. Times are hard. I'm reminded of this every day. If any one could send whatever thet could spare, I would be mighty grateful. It's tough being old when you don't have anybody and you feel forgotten and discarded like so much garbage. I pray to the Good Lord for strength and guidance. Thank you for letting an old man express himself the best way he knows how. May Jesus Bless You with His Love. Once again, thanks for listening.

I'm a sick,tired,old man who barely has enough to eat at any given time. I'm wheel-chair bound and live alone.I don't have anybody helping out so I basically have to fend for myself. Times are hard.I'm reminded of this every day.If any one could send whatever thet could spare, I would mighty grateful.It's tough being old when you don't have anybody and you feel forgotten and discarded like so much garbage.I pray to thd Good Lord for strength and guidance.Thank you for letting an old man express himself the best way he knows how.May Jesus Bless you with His Love.Once again thanks for listening.

ok so the honest try - I'm in debt, which is why I have decided to try this. I basically found myself homeless at 19 and needed to fend for myself after my mum meet a new man and started a new family with him and made it clear I wasn't a part of it, I have no other family and am all by myself.

I also got bullied at school which means I have next to no friends to help out or stay with.

I've worked in office jobs working as hard as I could but being paid very little and never progressing.

I moved into a houseshare as its all I can afford.

Over time I have got into a fair amount of debt, mainly because I am unable to hold down a job as I have a medical condition which at times makes me bed bound-I have been to hospital for this condition but unfortunately it is uncurable.

My debts piled up and feeling I had no choice I resorted to escorting - its one of the hardest things I've ever done and has emotionally scarred me for life, during escorting I meet somebody who lent me money to try and help me out and along the way that debt has got bigger and bigger as escorting has not worked out for me at all-I was literally seeing people for next to nothing just to be able to feed myself-as its not worked out and made things worse I have stopped now and the person I meet through it is still lending me money but he is making things awkwad for me and asking things of me that I no longer want to do, I just want to pay this person off and leave this all behind me.

I feel sick as I have done all that and come out with a bigger debt. All I want to do live a normal happy life but unfortunately that's easier said than done and no matter what I do or how hard I try nothing goes well for me.

So please if you could donate some money anything I would be so appreciative.