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Panic Disorder, Agoraphobia and sick father and friend...HELP!

Posted by SoInNeed on 2012-04-27 15:58:23

I have anxiety disorder, sometimes raging agoraphobia and also fell in 2007, causing two vertebrae to bulge and also did some nerve damage to my left arm. I suffer from severe back pain, hip and leg pain everyday and I drop things with my left had constantly! I tried and tried to push on, through the pain and depression I had but finally cracked and I was laid off in 2010 from my job for not being able to handle the pain or the pressure and stress and shortly thereafter met a guy who I will call Jake. Jake has panic disorder, agoraphobia and dependent personality disorder. His family had abandoned him, his friends had become fatigued with his panic attacks. He was in a bad situation being abused by someone who was taking advantage of his disabilities. My mother had over 20 years of suffering this type of illness and was in an abusive marriage, and I had had my own issues with anxiety and depression so I felt I had to help. I invited him to come live in my home. I told him I would do all I could to help. I arranged some free therapy. Introduced him to my friends and family. Gave him all the kindness and love I had in me.

I had hoped it would help. It has not. He is still depressed, still agoraphobic and the worst part for me, still has dependent personality disorder. Now for those who don’t know what this is, well it means I can’t leave the house without him and naturally he can’t leave the house without me. We have not been more than 50 feet from each other in the year he has been here. He can’t go and do anything like movies, bowling, shopping or anything like that so I can’t either, when I myself feel able to do any of those things that is. Don’t feel sorry for me though. I have fallen in love and this is a small sacrifice to make sure he is okay.

We both applied for disability five months ago but it is still working through the process. My unemployment ran out six weeks ago so we have no more income and to make matters worse my father who has early onset dementia with psychotic features had no where else to go so he is living with us now. This has all put serious strain on me. How to pay bills with no money? How do I help this man I love get better? How do I get my sick dad, who has no one else to help him get to appointments with doctors and therapist when I can’t leave the house myself? How do I get better?

I am in serious need of help. I need to be able to at least keep the house and keep the lights on. I don’ t know what to do. I am lost. There is no help for someone who tries to help others. I called the department of family and children services and asked if there was any government program or even charity they knew of that I could apply for help with and they acted like I was a crazy person. She was like, “I’m sorry, I don’t know what to do for you.”

I am out of savings and my bills are due. I have appealed to family and friends but they are all strapped themselves. I have sold my van, a computer and anything else I had around my house to survive but I am tapped out. Now I am here, depressed and hurting all the time, my friend is here, depressed and we both are having a lot of anxiety. My dad is here and has no where else to go and I am so scared. I have never been in a situation where I had not only my life but the lives of others in my hands and I can’t do anything.

I feel helpless, hopeless and sometimes think it’s not worth going on. I just need some help making my bills for now until disability comes through. Then some of my stress will be reduced. Some that is. But that is most pressing right now. Like I said, keeping the lights on and a phone and car going in case of emergencies.

On top of everything I feel so alone. I have to try and smile because I don’t want my friend or dad to worry. I won’t them to know I am gonna be here for them and not let them down. But I don’t know where to turn to get the help so that does not happen. I am afraid. I am scared. I am depressed and stressed. I need help.

recessive jaw, need chin implant

Posted by fixmydream333 on 2012-04-26 19:58:18

Hello everyone.

I have not ever asked anyone for money before, so please bear with me as I am not sure entirely how to put this in words. I was born with a recessive jaw... when people look at me and my weak chin they judge me and make me feel inferior. All I want is to have the normal chin I should have been born with, that some mutation took away from me. My brother has a normal jaw, and everyone looks up to him even though we are almost twins besides this one flaw.

All I need is a chin implant and my features will fall into place.. I can finally feel normal and live happy and have people stop judging me for my looks. I have already done the research and this procedure costs about $4000-$5000, of which I have about $2000 saved up. I just need some extra help. Every bit helps.

Thank you for taking the time to read my request... I appreciate any help I can get.

Dustin

Please help keep Memories of those Children Alive.

Posted by InMemoryCPS on 2012-03-07 03:58:25

Children Protective Services - the government agency paid to protect children from abusers - failed those children. Children were under the care of a state agency, but that didn't prevent their deaths.
Let's NOT allow these precious children's death to be in vain - in the news one day, forgotten the next .Learn more about them.....Please read their stories. suncanaa.com

I am unable to manage my site anymore [ due to lack of money]. It breaks my heart to do that,7 years of my work to be shut down with one click. But more important the memory about those children to be wipe of. I spend so much of my time and energy on this issue,trying to protect their memories and make awareness. Now I feel like I failed those children too.

I lost my job over a year ago,I am still trying to find a new job. I have not had any luck, now I touched the bottom. Keeping this website alive and update is almost full time job,I spend at least 4-5 hours online every night, researching and collecting information. I want to continue my work but how to continue in this situation?

If you found my site useful please help keep SuncanaA.com up and running by making a donation. Your donation will be used to maintain the site, expand and improve the content, add new features and preserve the site for future generations.Thank you for your generosity, support and encouragement. -- The work of the SuncanaA.com would not be possible without the generous support of people like you.

Camera

Posted by elceekei on 2011-10-23 14:58:21

Hi there,

I am a high school student, graduating next year and a practicing photography. I own an outdated Sanyo digital camera which I sticked with until it broke down a few days ago. Since I come from a not-so-well-off family, I do not have the money to buy a replacement.

I know what I ask for is somewhat really unnecessary for the many of you out there, but those who are willing, I am humbly asking for some bucks to buy a $533 camera, which I hope isn't a lot for you folks out there (it is already an exorbitant amount, where I live). It's a Canon EOS 1100D (Rebel T3 in the US), a pretty basic DSLR with the most basic features.

It's my dream camera.

If you have a used camera though, you can also give it to me if you like.

Since I don't have a PayPal account (I don't want to get involved in online banking) please do contact me here or at my e-mail.

Your donation can mean a lot for me. You can help a starving guy find a job in the future. ;)

Any amount you can donate can be a big help. :)

Thank you very much.

XLed

http://blessingscomewithpatience.webs.com/

Posted by needshelp88 on 2011-09-15 10:58:44

My Story

Please help us. I have been unemployed for a while, diagnosis with bipolar I with psychotic features and missing money for house rent.
We hope someone might be nice to help a small family. We are 2 adults and a daughter.
We rent an apartment and have almost no money for food anymore.
We need approximately $8000.
I hope someone will help with parts or the whole amount. We thank you so much for all the gifts that are given.

Greetings from a small family.

http://blessingscomewithpatience.webs.com/

Posted by needshelp88 on 2011-09-15 10:58:42

e with patience!
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Please help us. I have been unemployed for a while, diagnosis with bipolar I with psychotic features and missing money for house rent.
We hope someone might be nice to help a small family. We are 2 adults and a daughter.
We rent an apartment and have almost no money for food anymore.
We need approximately $8000.
I hope someone will help with parts or the whole amount. We thank you so much for all the gifts that are given.

Greetings from a small family.

FORECLOSURE IMMINENT Can You Please Buy 2 SRV Oil Paintings?

Posted by SRVpaintings4SALE on 2010-11-22 04:58:58

I have been self-employed as a Lawn Sprinkler Repairman for twenty years. The winters have always been hard, but the last two years have been devastating. I have a wife and a thirteen year old daughter.
I am doing everything I can, but it just isn't enough. I own a nice house on 4 acres in the country. I owe back mortgage for October and November ($3400) and my wife's Risk Pool Insurance Policy is going to expire at the end of November ($1700). Electricity and water are in danger of being shut off in the next week. It's really looking pretty dire!

In my spare time I like to paint in oils and in 2003, I painted two huge paintings of Stevie Ray Vaughn. I put in over 100 hours into each. They are both 5' x 4'. One features SRV Charley guitar front and the other features the SRV Charley guitar back. They really are awesome paintings. If you want to buy them I'd be happy to sell them to you. Or if you can just help me at all I'd appreciate it so much.

At present I need $6000 to avoid foreclosure and keep my wife's health insurance from being canceled. And it's three months before my business season picks up again.
If you would like to see the paintings, please email me at danfisher4484@yahoo.com.

If You Could Just Buy Two Paintings PLEASE FORECLOSURE IMMINENT

Posted by SRVpaintings4SALE on 2010-11-22 04:58:58

I have been self-employed as a Lawn Sprinkler Repairman for twenty years. The winters have always been hard, but the last two years have been devastating. I have a wife and a thirteen year old daughter.
I am doing everything I can, but it just isn't enough. I own a nice house on 4 acres in the country. I owe back mortgage for October and November ($3400) and my wife's Risk Pool Insurance Policy is going to expire at the end of November ($1700). Electricity and water are in danger of being shut off in the next week. It's really looking pretty dire!

In my spare time I like to paint in oils and in 2003, I painted two huge paintings of Stevie Ray Vaughn. I put in over 100 hours into each. They are both 5' x 4'. One features SRV Charley guitar front and the other features the SRV Charley guitar back. They really are awesome paintings. If you want to buy them I'd be happy to sell them to you. Or if you can just help me at all I'd appreciate it so much.

At present I need $6000 to avoid foreclosure and keep my wife's health insurance from being canceled. And it's three months before my business season picks up again.
If you would like to see the paintings, please email me at danfisher4484@yahoo.com.

Thank you so much!

Family of 6 in dire need to save their home, they ...

Posted by 0 on 2010-04-14 00:58:58

Family of 6 in dire need to save their home, they have applied for assistance through Modest needs, the link is below.. If you need help, you may also try that site, they require vericfication and sending in documents, but if your request is legit then you have nothing to worry about.. GO to the site if you want to see how they operate, It is a unique and great way to assist people all over that are in need.


Please help this young lady that is in need.. she is a hard worker, and provides well for her children, this roadblock has caused them to hit a severe hardship and they face losing everything, please give what you can toward their request.


http://www.modestneeds.org/features/ledger/viewapp.asp?mode=upd&rp=l&id=145879&pageno=1&monthno=30&yearno=0

I am trying to find help and resources for a mothe...

Posted by 0 on 2010-04-14 00:58:58

I am trying to find help and resources for a mother of 5, who just recently had a baby, this family has been through alot within the last few months, from the job not doing paperwork correctly and the mother not getting paid any money since the last paycheck she had prior to giving birth to the newborn, to her newborn being hurt in a bad accident while in someone else's care , and when her child needs her most her job put her employment on the line making her come back to work without even being cleared from the Dr. so she is in pain, in emotional distress, has a child who is still hurt from suthe accident, and bills that have piled so high due to them not paying her while she was off, AND STILL HAS NOT BEEN PAID FOR THAT TIME PERIOD. She has went back to work this week but she still needs assistance with getting caught up. One of the biggest things is rent. She has applied for help with modest needs , below is the link to her request on modest needs, please donate what you can to help her get the points she needs, keep them in your prayers, and please repost the link so that others can give , every little bit helps.




http://www.modestneeds.org/features/ledger/viewapp.asp?mode=upd&rp=l&id=145879&pageno=1&monthno=30&yearno=0


Modest needs is very thorough , and you can not get to the last step in their procedure without first verifying everything that they need, and trust me they are thorough. So this is a true need by a deserving family.