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Hospital Bill

Posted by TiGeR_04 on 2012-05-22 20:58:23

Hi,
I recently filed for bankruptcy and got my discharge like 2 months ago. Since my discharge I had a sezuire at work and had to be rushed to the hospital (Mayo Clinic in Jacksonville, FL. I had no health insurance at the time and recieved a $7,209 hospital bill stay from them. I'm really sad that this happened to me due to the fact I had finally got out of debt and now after spending like $1,500 on filing for BK, now I'm back in the whole...I wanted to try to buy a home in 2 years after my BK and now unless I pay this off, that will probably not happen for my daughter and I. Also, its not the only debt that I have after BK, I couldn't include my student loans in my BK, so I have like $11,000 in sallie mae loans for school. I am asking for help with my hospital bill, so it would truly be a blessing if anyone out there had extra money and could help me pay this bill, I would greatly appriciate it! I am going to start paying little monthly payments on my student loans to try to get that down little by little. If someone is seriuosly wanting to help me, we can communicate through email and I would gladly give you my medical bill info and their number, so you wouldnt feel like you were being lied to or anything, I already feel akward asking for help over the internet, but what can I do? Also I will be getting health insurance starting in June through my job, so I should never run into this issue ever again! Thanks in advance to anyone that can help!

Mid life let down

Posted by maksmojo1979 on 2012-02-23 13:58:10

Never thought it would come to this.
My life was grooving along till about 2 years ago. I was in the military married with 1 child. I was drinking to much so I told the military with out getting into trouble. There are horror stories about doing this and didn't believe it would happen to me. IT DID! I was given a general discharge after over 12 years of service (about 7 years from retirement) a little over a year ago. My wife and I are divorcing. I now have 2 kids (1,4). She has custody. I have not been able to get a job since. There is much more to the story than just this but that's all I'll put for now but if you'd like to hear more email me at maksmojo@hotmail.com or you can just donate. Thanks in advance for anything that is donated.

Please Help Me

Posted by lilulu85 on 2012-02-21 21:58:28

I've always been too proud and independent to ask for help... now I feel like im drowning. This is my last resort, I can't face the world with my poor excuse of a life!
The love of my life left me, left me with a note that said 'stay cool'. He had surrounded me with fake love and security. Convincing me that my best choice in life was to discharge from the military (after eight years of service) and be a stay at home mum to our children. I obliged. I loved him and I believed he loved me. I ask you, what would you have done??
So it turns out he never loved our children or myself. He left, never to be heard from since (eight months ago). I was left with combined debts totalling $180k. His not an Australian citizen meaning I am responsible for this debt. I have no income and two children. Is bankruptcy my only option?
Please help me, I have tried to stay composed and in control, I have tried to reinlist (not targets for fy 12/13), i have tried to find employment. I have a casual job, however I am not covering the loan repayments! I am begging for your help, please help me. I constantly ask myself 'how could i not have seen this coming??' but i loved him, i loved him so much. He was a professional on a good income and we had a family together. Was it wrong of me to feel secure. Was my choices considered normal, would you have done things differently?

Ex armed forces serviceman needs help

Posted by pwharmby on 2012-01-25 15:58:49

Hello, after battling with my medical discharge on the 9th June 2011, I found myself unemployed and struggling to adjust in 'Civvie' street, although I found it hard I just couldn't cope with the bills and ended up putting my wife and 4 young children in jepody, I am a proud man and have since found a job, but the debts continued to mount up and we found out a little while ago that the landlord wants to take the house back to do it up and sell. on top of this my georgeous and loving wife has had a major operation on her bladder and a hysterectomy, and as a result I have to take a cut in hours worked, We have a good church community that have provided us with 'meals on wheels' please help us by donating a little just so I can help us get out of this rut, I am working and am trying to get out of this, but please feel free to donate.

Starving Writer

Posted by ausohj on 2011-11-17 06:58:48

Cliche but true, I'm trying to finish my first novel but half-finished books don't bring much money. I left the military (honorable discharge) after my four years because the life just wasn't for me. I thought I would find a job easily but it's been over a year now that I remain unemployed. The 'break' has enabled me to get started on my dream of making a living writing but after 25 chapters (out of a planned 40) my funds are dry. I have one meal a day and I've gotten deathly sick of noodles and cheap pizza but it's all I can afford. Help!

Unemployed Army Veteran Needs Money Angel Immediately!

Posted by ArmyGirl on 2011-10-17 15:58:55

Oh wow, where do I start; it's so painful. I need financial help like yesterday. I'm an Army veteran with 11 years active duty, 17 yrs total active service. I trained National Guard soldiers for Iraq, Bosnia, Kosovo and Afghanistan from 2004-2011 during Operation Enduring Freedom/Iraqi Freedom. I've recently fallen on hard times and I'm about to lose my home. Was in the Reserves and haven't found permanent work yet since honorable discharge from active duty back into Reserves. I have filed for bankruptcy but it hasn't been discharged yet. I'm 20% disabled from injuries while serving on active duty and I'm diabetic. My disability check isn't a lot but the Veteran's Administration is taking money out of my disability pay for medication and copay visits.

I'm still hopeful though that someone can help me save my home, I need about $13,000.00 and it is nearing foreclosure. I don't wanna lose my home just because jobs are low paying in this area. I'm unemployed and don't have permanent full time employment. This situation hurts my heart. It's hard to ask for help when I'm so used to being the strong and independent one. Please help me if you can. Even a $1.00, $5.00 will help. My car was repossessed a year ago but I got it back due to filing bankruptcy. As of 15 Oct, I have -$38.47 in my bank. When my debt is paid down, I will pay it forward and help someone in need! Thank you for your caring hearts! I'm believing in a miracle!!

P.S. I'm not somebody fake from somewhere overseas like India or Africa hustling or scamming Americans for money.

2nd Chance A Charm

Posted by Aelek on 2011-05-04 14:58:34

Hello, I have just recently medically retired from the Marine Corps after 13 years of faithful service. I am a mother, a wife, a daughter, a sister and a friend. However lately, with all the changes I have had to endure, I have felt invisible. I injured my back during martial arts training and didnt seek the medical attention I needed until it was too late. I had even gotten to half way of my Marine Corps Marathon training but had to stop due to numbness and tingling in the feet. Once I finally did try to get the medical attention I needed, I was told I had a somatoform disorder, which means the pain is all in my head and not in my body at all. After seeing a Navy shrink I was told I had a personality disorder and he submitted a Administrative discharge request to my Commanding Officer, I was devastated. I loved the Marine Corps and everything that came with it. I had no intentions of leaving it and only wanted to get better and seek proper care. Instead of getting the help I needed medically, I had to fight to keep my career and lively hood. After further tests, I was diagnosed with Fibromyalgia, a pinched nerve, carpal tunnel in both wrists and buldging discs. I had to be seperated medically. Depression is not even close to the word to describe what I fell into. My goal-dream was to be a Drill Instuctor, fight a good fight over seas and put in 20 years. In the blink of an eye it was all gone. Now I had to let go of my aspirations of what could have been and now try to figure out what I was good for now. A little bit about my self:I was raised in Austin, Texas by my maternal grandparents, left by my biological mother at 15 days old on Christmas Day 1975. I endured a strict upbringing and borderline abuse, much due to my grandmother’s fear of becoming my "mothers, daughter". I have never known who my father is and doubt he knows I even exist. I had been the witness and the victim of neglect and child abuse by my mother who was and is still heavily into alcohol and drugs. She had two more daughters in which I helped raise up until they were left in another state with relatives. It was then that I left to the Marine Corps at the age of 19, mostly to find myself and forget myself. During one tour in California, I was made aware that one of my sisters, 7 years my junior, was in need of my help due to abuse from the relative she was left with. An uncle who had abused her from the age of 6 until she was 12. I took emergency leave and went to get her, I already married with a newborn, and I knew I had to lend a hand and help. The abuse and trauma was too severe and the state of California took custody of her after a failed suicide attempt in her high school. I continued my military service until I received yet another call, this time for my youngest sister, 12 years my junior, was in states custody and if I could provide a stable home for her. I was now a single mother of a 4 year old and still an active duty Marine, but again, could not turn my back on the need she had. I put in the time and the effort, attending family counseling 5hours away and meeting with doctors and lawyers to get the process started to get her into a stable situation. Finally at the age of 14 she was placed with me and I was granted custody. I enrolled her in to high school and away we went onward and upward in our life. It was not close to "traditional" but we had each other and that was more than what most have. I received orders to Japan for 3 years accompanied and although I had reservations about the huge change I took it in stride. I had pleaded my case to the Marines about staying until my sister graduated in 2years but at the need of the Corps I was sent anyway. In Japan, after only being there for about 6months, my sister started to self mutilate again. With that the military sent me back to my previous base and committed her to a hospital immediately. After a 30 day stay and with support and guidance she eventually got to a place where she could receive the help she needed to heal. She graduated from high school and is now in the medical field working full time and engaged. After that chapter closed the new one with my medical mishaps in the Corps started full force. I am not one to really get or ask for help, and have been in the business of giving but I am hoping now in the oddest of places, maybe I can, with my story inspire someone to pay it forward and lend a hand. I thank any donation and appreciate any amounts. I am trying to start my own resale shop online and hope with some assistance I can get to a better place in my life as sometimes the future seems real dim. Thank you in advance and God bless.

Storm Clouds

Posted by jtlesch on 2011-03-13 20:58:54

Nine years ago I was discharged from the military and rated disabled. Mental health issues contributed to bizarre behavior that earned "MISCONDUCT" declinations. Few employers will hire when that designation is made on a soldiers discharge papers.

My then wife announced an affair at roughly the same time. She intercepted and withdrew every cent of my final pay and caused the repossession of a brand new Kia Optima... with interest... Over ten thousand dollars and erasing any progress toward paying off the vehicle. Periodically the debt is sold from company to company. Harassment and threats and legal notices continue to this day. Interest accrues without limit.

As 30% disabled I receive roughly one-third of my bass pay every month for the rest of my days... Sounds good right? What if I told you that came to 421 dollars a month. Social Security will not recognize the disability even with sensitive, very private documents from health professionals. That's fine. I don't want a free ride, but I can't support myself right now. Although I have remarried our joint income can't touch my past mistakes and transgressions.

I'm physically capable of working. I'm looking hard for work and the VA is helping with some schooling as well as job-fairs, interviews and introductions. But I've been hardly able to make a dent in the amount without steady employment.

If you would like to check out the original debt-holder, use any search engine to find SNCAA. Any help at all will ease the anxiety my heart's been packed in for the last several years. I'm serious: If you would like to donate even just a penny, at least to say you've had it hard too or that "you would if you could". In the end I think just knowing someone cared enough to gesture may be just as bolstering.

Army vet, husband, and toddler need help.

Posted by alirick on 2010-11-05 18:58:58

Iv recently got out of the army, medical discharge, not long after i enlisted.
my husband works as a manager and could be a an assistant manager but thanks to
crippling debt from his ex's drug habits, and my troubles finding work we cant
afford for him to finish his degree. were behind on everybill we have and anything helps.

we trick or treat for unicef and save the yogurt lids for cancer, times have just gotten
hard. the bills are piling up and it would be good to get my husband back in school,
and our personal and non personal debts knocked down. were facing eviction if not
cuaght up by the first of the year and were worried about christmas as well.
we have a little one and the electricity disconnection notices are filling our mailbox.
anything really would help.

Army vet, husband, and toddler need help.

Posted by alirick on 2010-11-05 18:58:58

Iv recently got out of the army, medical discharge, not long after i enlisted.
my husband works as a manager and could be a an assistant manager but thanks to
crippling debt from his ex's drug habits, and my troubles finding work we cant
afford for him to finish his degree. were behind on everybill we have and anything helps.

we trick or treat for unicef and save the yogurt lids for cancer, times have just gotten
hard. the bills are piling up and it would be good to get my husband back in school,
and our personal and non personal debts knocked down. were facing eviction if not
cuaght up by the first of the year and were worried about christmas as well.
we have a little one and the electricity disconnection notices are filling our mailbox.
anything really would help.

Army vet, husband, and toddler need help.

Posted by alirick on 2010-11-05 18:58:58

Iv recently got out of the army, medical discharge, not long after i enlisted.
my husband works as a manager and could be a an assistant manager but thanks to
crippling debt from his ex's drug habits, and my troubles finding work we cant
afford for him to finish his degree. were behind on everybill we have and anything helps.

we trick or treat for unicef and save the yogurt lids for cancer, times have just gotten
hard. the bills are piling up and it would be good to get my husband back in school,
and our personal and non personal debts knocked down. were facing eviction if not
cuaght up by the first of the year and were worried about christmas as well.
we have a little one and the electricity disconnection notices are filling our mailbox.
anything really would help.

Army vet, husband, and toddler need help.

Posted by alirick on 2010-11-05 18:58:58

Iv recently got out of the army, medical discharge, not long after i enlisted.
my husband works as a manager and could be a an assistant manager but thanks to
crippling debt from his ex's drug habits, and my troubles finding work we cant
afford for him to finish his degree. were behind on everybill we have and anything helps.

we trick or treat for unicef and save the yogurt lids for cancer, times have just gotten
hard. the bills are piling up and it would be good to get my husband back in school,
and our personal and non personal debts knocked down. were facing eviction if not
cuaght up by the first of the year and were worried about christmas as well.
we have a little one and the electricity disconnection notices are filling our mailbox.
anything really would help.

Army vet, husband, and toddler need help.

Posted by alirick on 2010-11-05 18:58:58

Iv recently got out of the army, medical discharge, not long after i enlisted.
my husband works as a manager and could be a an assistant manager but thanks to
crippling debt from his ex's drug habits, and my troubles finding work we cant
afford for him to finish his degree. were behind on everybill we have and anything helps.

we trick or treat for unicef and save the yogurt lids for cancer, times have just gotten
hard. the bills are piling up and it would be good to get my husband back in school,
and our personal and non personal debts knocked down. were facing eviction if not
cuaght up by the first of the year and were worried about christmas as well.
we have a little one and the electricity disconnection notices are filling our mailbox.
anything really would help.

Army vet, husband, and toddler need help.

Posted by alirick on 2010-11-05 18:58:58

Iv recently got out of the army, medical discharge, not long after i enlisted.
my husband works as a manager and could be a an assistant manager but thanks to
crippling debt from his ex's drug habits, and my troubles finding work we cant
afford for him to finish his degree. were behind on everybill we have and anything helps.

we trick or treat for unicef and save the yogurt lids for cancer, times have just gotten
hard. the bills are piling up and it would be good to get my husband back in school,
and our personal and non personal debts knocked down. were facing eviction if not
cuaght up by the first of the year and were worried about christmas as well.
we have a little one and the electricity disconnection notices are filling our mailbox.
anything really would help.

Army vet, husband, and toddler need help.

Posted by alirick on 2010-11-05 18:58:58

Iv recently got out of the army, medical discharge, not long after i enlisted.
my husband works as a manager and could be a an assistant manager but thanks to
crippling debt from his ex's drug habits, and my troubles finding work we cant
afford for him to finish his degree. were behind on everybill we have and anything helps.

we trick or treat for unicef and save the yogurt lids for cancer, times have just gotten
hard. the bills are piling up and it would be good to get my husband back in school,
and our personal and non personal debts knocked down. were facing eviction if not
cuaght up by the first of the year and were worried about christmas as well.
we have a little one and the electricity disconnection notices are filling our mailbox.
anything really would help.

Army vet, husband, and toddler need help.

Posted by alirick on 2010-11-05 18:58:58

Iv recently got out of the army, medical discharge, not long after i enlisted.
my husband works as a manager and could be a an assistant manager but thanks to
crippling debt from his ex's drug habits, and my troubles finding work we cant
afford for him to finish his degree. were behind on everybill we have and anything helps.

we trick or treat for unicef and save the yogurt lids for cancer, times have just gotten
hard. the bills are piling up and it would be good to get my husband back in school,
and our personal and non personal debts knocked down. were facing eviction if not
cuaght up by the first of the year and were worried about christmas as well.
we have a little one and the electricity disconnection notices are filling our mailbox.
anything really would help.

Army vet, husband, and toddler need help.

Posted by alirick on 2010-11-05 18:58:58

Iv recently got out of the army, medical discharge, not long after i enlisted.
my husband works as a manager and could be a an assistant manager but thanks to
crippling debt from his ex's drug habits, and my troubles finding work we cant
afford for him to finish his degree. were behind on everybill we have and anything helps.

we trick or treat for unicef and save the yogurt lids for cancer, times have just gotten
hard. the bills are piling up and it would be good to get my husband back in school,
and our personal and non personal debts knocked down. were facing eviction if not
cuaght up by the first of the year and were worried about christmas as well.
we have a little one and the electricity disconnection notices are filling our mailbox.
anything really would help.

Army vet, husband, and toddler need help.

Posted by alirick on 2010-11-05 18:58:58

Iv recently got out of the army, medical discharge, not long after i enlisted.
my husband works as a manager and could be a an assistant manager but thanks to
crippling debt from his ex's drug habits, and my troubles finding work we cant
afford for him to finish his degree. were behind on everybill we have and anything helps.

we trick or treat for unicef and save the yogurt lids for cancer, times have just gotten
hard. the bills are piling up and it would be good to get my husband back in school,
and our personal and non personal debts knocked down. were facing eviction if not
cuaght up by the first of the year and were worried about christmas as well.
we have a little one and the electricity disconnection notices are filling our mailbox.
anything really would help.

Army vet, husband, and toddler need help.

Posted by alirick on 2010-11-05 18:58:58

Iv recently got out of the army, medical discharge, not long after i enlisted.
my husband works as a manager and could be a an assistant manager but thanks to
crippling debt from his ex's drug habits, and my troubles finding work we cant
afford for him to finish his degree. were behind on everybill we have and anything helps.

we trick or treat for unicef and save the yogurt lids for cancer, times have just gotten
hard. the bills are piling up and it would be good to get my husband back in school,
and our personal and non personal debts knocked down. were facing eviction if not
cuaght up by the first of the year and were worried about christmas as well.
we have a little one and the electricity disconnection notices are filling our mailbox.
anything really would help.

Army vet, husband, and toddler need help.

Posted by alirick on 2010-11-05 18:58:58

Iv recently got out of the army, medical discharge, not long after i enlisted.
my husband works as a manager and could be a an assistant manager but thanks to
crippling debt from his ex's drug habits, and my troubles finding work we cant
afford for him to finish his degree. were behind on everybill we have and anything helps.

we trick or treat for unicef and save the yogurt lids for cancer, times have just gotten
hard. the bills are piling up and it would be good to get my husband back in school,
and our personal and non personal debts knocked down. were facing eviction if not
cuaght up by the first of the year and were worried about christmas as well.
we have a little one and the electricity disconnection notices are filling our mailbox.
anything really would help.

Army vet, husband, and toddler need help.

Posted by alirick on 2010-11-05 14:58:58

Iv recently got out of the army, medical discharge, not long after i enlisted. my husband works as a manager and could be a an assistant manager but thanks to crippling debt from his ex's drug habits, and my troubles finding work we cant afford for him to finish his degree. were behind on everybill we have and anything helps.

we trick or treat for unicef and save the yogurt lids for cancer, times have just gotten hard. the bills are piling up and it would be good to get my husband back in school, and our personal and non personal debts knocked down. were facing eviction if not cuaght up by the first of the year and were worried about christmas as well. we have a little one and the electricity disconnection notices are filling our mailbox. anything really would help.

Disabled Vet and children

Posted by Forgotten on 2010-07-20 13:58:58

My family, including our children and my husband, who was disabled due to his service, both physically and mentally, is about to become homeless. My job moved overseas and I am trying to find solid employment but am taking any kind of odd job I can get. Our power will be turned off on Friday. I'm not looking for a handout. I will be happy to sign a loan agreement, pending the second paycheck of me returning to work full time, on a pay-out schedule. I can't take out a loan because I have no job. If needed, I can also send you my husband's discharge papers/VA papers, my layoff notice and anything else you need to confirm that I am real. Thank you in advance for your mercy.