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CANNOT COUNT ON FAMILY
Posted by jasond on 2012-05-22 15:58:53
I work full time and also do side jobs on weekends to make ends meet, my wife has been out of work on disability (she will return full time in the next 3 weeks) due to the birth of our son, which should be the happiest time of our life, and yet I get to go home and see my children upset wondering why there uncle is acting the way he is, I get to see my wife cry over the fact that we have been basically reminded that even though we pay the bill and we fix this home and have made it what it never was for me growing up an actual home, that it is not ours and we should have no say over what happens.
My brother who at one time made hundreds of thousands of dollars a year an selfish heartless drug addict, who even though has never treated me or my family with any respect I have always dropped what I am doing regardless of time or place to go âÂÂsave himâÂÂ, and by save usually picking his drug addict ass up and making sure he gets home, or dropping what IâÂÂm doing to take him to the hospital cause he is so sick from whatever he has taken this time. Now that brother has decided to move in with us, not ask, not offer to help, but blatantly tell me and my wife, âÂÂitâÂÂs not your house , I am not asking permission to stay hereâÂÂ, and my parents who told me this home was a âÂÂWedding giftâ seem to agree. They feel itâÂÂs okay for a drug addict to be living among children, that itâÂÂs okay that slowly one by one pieces of my wifeâÂÂs jewelry are disappearing, or that since he came has literally taken over my infant sons nursery with his disgusting belongings that I found my wife sitting on the floor of the living room trying to feed the baby because heâÂÂs asleep on the sofa passed out cold and his belonging are strewn all over the house.
My only options are to buy this home that I and my wife have built a great life in so I can say who stays and goes, or to uproot my children and move as far from these selfish disgusting people as possible.
In order to purchase this home I would need a deposit upwards of 12000 which due to me draining my accounts my sons accounts and my wifeâÂÂs to âÂÂsaveâ my brother from jail, drug dealers, etc., we have nothing left. Which has led me here, led me to the point where I feel more dependent on asking strangers for help than my own family because they canâÂÂt even help themselves? I am the little brother (youngest of four) who has always had to be the big brother, I am the one one whose entire family drops there problems in my lap as if to say deal with it. I have been the pillar supporting every single family member I have for the last 28 years, the pillar has finally cracked and canâÂÂt hold up the weight of the world anymore. I am begging on my hands and knees for help from completer strangers so I can continue to give my children the life I never had, and offer them some stability instead of having to tear them from the home they have come to love, that my wife has come to love, that I love. I want to give my children the world but my family continues to assure that wonâÂÂt happen under there watch. Please I beg of you with everything I am I need help. Please donâÂÂt make us just another statistic, I found my calling and made a life for my wife and children, I have put aside pride, because they are all that matters to me. Thank You for taking the time to read this and thank you for any support or help you can provide.
Cant count on family
Posted by jasond on 2012-05-21 11:58:13
I work full time and also do side jobs on weekends to make ends meet, my wife has been out of work on disability (she will return full time in the next 3 weeks) due to the birth of our son, which should be the happiest time of our life, and yet I get to go home and see my children upset wondering why there uncle is acting the way he is, I get to see my wife cry over the fact that we have been basically reminded that even though we pay the bill and we fix this home and have made it what it never was for me growing up an actual home, that it is not ours and we should have no say over what happens.
My brother who at one time made hundreds of thousands of dollars a year an selfish heartless drug addict, who even though has never treated me or my family with any respect I have always dropped what I am doing regardless of time or place to go âsave himâ, and by save usually picking his drug addict ass up and making sure he gets home, or dropping what Iâm doing to take him to the hospital cause he is so sick from whatever he has taken this time. Now that brother has decided to move in with us, not ask, not offer to help, but blatantly tell me and my wife, âitâs not your house , I am not asking permission to stay hereâ, and my parents who told me this home was a âWedding giftâ seem to agree. They feel itâs okay for a drug addict to be living among children, that itâs okay that slowly one by one pieces of my wifeâs jewelry are disappearing, or that since he came has literally taken over my infant sons nursery with his disgusting belongings that I found my wife sitting on the floor of the living room trying to feed the baby because heâs asleep on the sofa passed out cold and his belonging are strewn all over the house.
My only options are to buy this home that I and my wife have built a great life in so I can say who stays and goes, or to uproot my children and move as far from these selfish disgusting people as possible.
In order to purchase this home I would need a deposit upwards of 12000 which due to me draining my accounts my sons accounts and my wifeâs to âsaveâ my brother from jail, drug dealers, etc., we have nothing left. Which has led me here, led me to the point where I feel more dependent on asking strangers for help than my own family because they canât even help themselves? I am the little brother (youngest of four) who has always had to be the big brother, I am the one one whose entire family drops there problems in my lap as if to say deal with it. I have been the pillar supporting every single family member I have for the last 28 years, the pillar has finally cracked and canât hold up the weight of the world anymore. I am begging on my hands and knees for help from completer strangers so I can continue to give my children the life I never had, and offer them some stability instead of having to tear them from the home they have come to love, that my wife has come to love, that I love. I want to give my children the world but my family continues to assure that wonât happen under there watch. Please I beg of you with everything I am I need help. Please donât make us just another statistic, I found my calling and made a life for my wife and children, I have put aside pride, because they are all that matters to me. Thank You for taking the time to read this and thank you for any support or help you can provide.
Single mom needs help sending son to college
Posted by Depressedmom on 2012-03-16 19:58:07
Sigh, I can't believe I am doing this
Posted by ashamed on 2011-11-12 02:58:01
Everywhere I turn someone needs help, and this just breaks my heart. We are one of the many who do. I'm not going to lie, or beef up anything as I know come judgement day I will be judged.
I am a married female with 1 child. My husband works like a dog. Work is so sparatic, we just can't keep our heads above water anymore.We are so behind in debt. We had to live off of our cards just to eat and pay bills. Now we have so much debt, we have sunk.
I cannot work and disabilty can't help as we haven't even done our taxes in 2 years as we cannot afford to even do that. We have gone months without income and are at our max. My husband truck was stolen this year as well and we didn't have theft insurance on it. It has been one hit after another this year, the hardest year of our lives. My husband doesn't know I am doing this, and if I told him, that would crush him. We are 25,000 in debt, and trust me when I say NONE of it was wreckless spending, we needed it for rent, bills, food, meds, gas and all the bills every month. I am a diabetic and have 4 different pills a month I need to take. I haven't taken 2 of them in months. My husband is physically sick over the stress. I guess this is my last and only hope.
All our lives we have helped people, either with money, food, hampers etc. We take in stray animals when needed. They say Karma comes around...but sadly I am starting to not believe this. We have no one to help us. People have seemed to forgot about us when we are in need. Breaks my heart. I don't understand, but maybe one day I will. God works in mysterious ways. Anyhoo, I'm babbling now. I am truly hoping someone out there reads this, who may be able to help us. I know chances are very very slim to none, but one never knows. Thank you so much for reading this.
Miracle Needed
Posted by kimbirdy on 2011-07-13 09:58:40
Miracle Needed
Posted by kimbirdy on 2011-07-13 09:58:39
Miracle Needed
Posted by kimbirdy on 2011-07-13 09:58:39
Miracle Needed
Posted by kimbirdy on 2011-07-05 11:58:01
Miracle Needed
Posted by kimbirdy on 2011-07-05 11:58:00
Miracle Needed
Posted by kimbirdy on 2011-07-02 11:58:21
Miracle Needed
Posted by kimbirdy on 2011-07-02 11:58:20
Miracle Needed
Posted by kimbirdy on 2011-07-02 11:58:19
Miracle Needed
Posted by kimbirdy on 2011-06-30 23:58:36
Miracle Needed
Posted by kimbirdy on 2011-06-30 23:58:35
Miracle Needed
Posted by kimbirdy on 2011-06-30 23:58:35
Miracle Needed
Posted by kimbirdy on 2011-06-29 00:58:08
Miracle Needed
Posted by kimbirdy on 2011-06-28 23:58:20
Miracle Needed
Posted by kimbirdy on 2011-06-28 23:58:19
Desperately in need of a financial miracle
Posted by kimbirdy on 2011-06-28 23:58:18
Someone please help!!
Posted by kimbirdy on 2011-06-28 10:58:00
Please....Please....Please....someone help
Posted by kimbirdy on 2011-06-25 21:58:20
Please....Please....Please....someone help
Posted by kimbirdy on 2011-06-25 21:58:19
HELP!!!
Posted by kimbirdy on 2011-06-22 12:58:47
Why can't there be a financial miracle for us??? Why had God forsaken us???
Posted by kimbirdy on 2011-06-20 14:58:30
Why can't there be a financial miracle for us??? Why had God forsaken us???
Posted by kimbirdy on 2011-06-20 14:58:28
