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Hi,

My wife cheated on me while I was in Iraq on my last deployment, took all my money I made over there and left me with nothing. Additionally, I had a pretty bad accident after I got out of the Army and Tricare refused to cover the bill even though it was a Perk for extending my deployment. Im going to college full time right now and can't start at my new side job until June 10th 2012. The disability compensation from the VA for injuries from Iraq will take another 8 months to kick in, and the money of the VA GI Bill which myself and practically all other veterans are supposed to recieve is delayed, again thanks to the VA.

I'm asking for just a few dollars that hopefully accumulate, to pay my Emergency Room bills, my credit card and keep me surviving until I start my new job and the VA finally gets its act together.

Thank you

WHERE DO I START! MY HUSBAND CHEATED ON ME AFTER 17-1/2 YEARS. THE GIRL WAS PREGANT AND HE WASN'T SURE IF THE BABY WAS HIS OR HER HUSBANDS. MY HEART WAS BROKEN AND I ASKED HIM TO LEAVE. WHEN HE LEFT I WAS STUCK WITH ALL THE BILLS. MY SUV'S MOTOR BLEW UP AND I COULDN'T GET THE MONEY TO HAVE IT FIXED SO I HAD TO LET IT BE REPOSSESSED. WE LIVED IN A MOBILE HOME WHICH I DIDN'T MAKE ENOUGH TO PAY THE MONTHLY NOTES AND I HAD TO SELL IT TO PAY IT OFF. I MOVED INTO OUR GARAGE WHICH WE MADE INTO AN APARTMENT. HE HAD BORROWED MONEY AGAINST OUR PROPERTY AND GARAGE AND NOW I'M STUCK PAYING 562.00 A MONTH FOR 15 YEARS. I DON'T HAVE A CAR. I HAVE TO GET RIDES TO WORK WITH FRIENDS OR BORROW MY DAD'S OLD FARM TRUCK, WHICH I AM GRATEFUL TO BORROW. I KNOW HE NEEDS HIS TRUCK BUT I HAVE TO WORK. I AM 2 MONTHS BEHIND ON MY APARTMENT NOTE, I'M 1 YEAR BEHIND ON MY LAND TAXES. I DESPERATELY NEED A CAR. PLEASE ANYONE WHO CAN HELP PLEASE, IT WILL BE SO MUCH APPRECIATED. ANY AMOUNT WILL BE A BLESSING. THANK YOU IN ADVANCE. MARY

Hi there...
The whole idea of asking for money makes me sick to my stomach. I have never been a beggar or a person who wanted charity. But I honestly have no other choice anymore.
My story starts in 2009 with my ex girlfriend, whom would turn out to be the worst thing that ever happened to me. I'm not going to play the blame game, because I have forgiven her since. However I am left with the lasting damage of that relationship.
We had dated when we were young, she had cheated with a friend and I had left her, but i always loved her most of all and was eventually able to forgive her later. I was a fool for love. This is where the trouble starts, we had begun to talk again in early 2009, and soon a relationship developed between us once again. By this time she had a daughter who was 7 years old. I moved to another state to be with her and her daughter, after awhile I loved her daughter as my own child. I took her fishing with me every chance I had. I did not realize it before I had went down there, but her family was a real problem. They took to controlling every aspect of her life, even going as far as taking her mail out of her mail box and reading it. From the very start I has hated, I could not be controlled or told what to do, though they tried. Later in the year I was working and I thought things had improved, they grudgingly accepted me.

I am not a cruel or an evil person, I am always firm but loving when it comes to discipline. There had started to be problems at school and home, with tantrums, and destructive behavior. My ex and I talked about it and we tried everything, nothing seemed to work save simple old fashioned spanking. When she threw a tantrum one day and wrote that she hated us and left it on a note where we would surely find it, and broke her own window in her room. I knew something had to be done, this was totally unacceptable. So I spanked her, not hard or vicious like i got when i was a boy. But just my hand. I left a red mark, not welts or bruises a red mark. Of course being a little girl, she tended to talk and tell everyone EVERYTHING. She told her grandmother about it, and that was it for me, suddenly i was this horrible terrible person. My ex and I quarreled about it a great deal and I left for awhile just to get my head around things and see if it was worth saving.

I decided to leave, and I went home back to indiana where i was from, I left with a broken heart, but i knew the situation couldn't be fixed.
There were other things going on at the time I did not become aware of until later, one was that my ex was pregnant. She later admitted to me that she had been smoking while pregnant, drinking, taking more and more prescriptions, and when she finally told me about it she told me she was glad she had miscarried.
I have never forgotten that statment.
Now here is where the real trouble begins and why I am in such desperate need.
The child told her teacher, and child services became involved, as they always do and will for any reason.
Eventually it got turned over to the sheriff's office to see what they wanted to do with it. Now enters the grandparents into the equation.
The pushed it hard even against my ex's wishes, and managed to get them to file charges for child abuse and issue a warrant. A warrant I didnt even know i had until christmas time 2010. I was picked up and detained for extradition over it. The following monday I was released, I was informed that they didnt want to come get me. I called my ex, and she told me that she had told them to drop it, we talked and talked, she begged me to forgive her for all that happened, and eventually i did, for some reason I still felt like i couldnt live without her. So we continued to talk up until july of 2010. When something happened, grandmother got curious wondering what these numbers were on the cell phone bill. She confronted my ex and she told her that she had talked to me. Ever since that point I have this "open case" listed publically on my record. After about 10 interviews I discovered that was the reason I couldn't have a job. Who would want to hire a "child abuser" anyway? Here it is febuary its been about 8 months without work. I lost my place, and nearly everything i own, I even lost the will to live. I live with my parents now, and I know im a burden to them. I'm thinking about it everyday. It is tax refund time now, and I have half of what I need for my lawyer to try and fix this horrible mess. He is of the almost certain opinion this will be completely dropped, and I can have a job again, and recover somewhat of a life. If you can help please help, I am a desperate man, and I want my life back, I need it back, I cant take not being able to work, and being a burden to my parents who are dirt poor!

I am a 28 years old married woman having 2 kids.
I’m writing this to you seeking a help from your side. I was desperately cheated by one
of my relative
with a sum of $30,000 without my husband’s knowledge.
Because of this debt I’m not able to lead a happy life with my family. Neither concentrate on my kids.
I tried in several banks, money lenders, etc but could not find a solution for this. Instead my debt is increasing day by day my debt is increasing.

Please help me by lending this amount. Please I beg you. I’m helpless.
By doing this you give life to 3 people.
I’m in such a situation that from past two days I’m feeling like killing myself.
But I’m alive only for my two kids.

This money helps to clear all my debt. And I can lead a happy and successful life in future.

Again I BEG you for the sake of my kids.
Please understand my situation.
Awaiting a positive response soon.

I am alone and don't know where to turn. My husband cheated and devastated my world by getting another woman pregnant. I have no family and found myself alone with no money, no home and no job. I fought my way out of that and found a job and tried to rebuild my life. Two weeks ago, I was laid off and now have no income. I have never collected unemployment in my life but swallowed my pride and applied. I won't be receiving any assistance for another three weeks! I have no money and I am about to be homeless again. I am not the kind of person to ask for help , but I don't know what to do. I feel like everyone in my life that I have ever trusted has betrayed me. Are there any good people left in this world that do not lie and betray others?

I split from my ex-wife after finding ouot she cheated on me. We have 3 kids. After the split she refused to let me see the kids. I had to fight her at court. It cost me more than $30,000. I found out she racked up debts on the credit card too. Sometimes she still refuses to let me see the kids but I don't have any money to keep going to court. If I could get some money to pay off my debts I might be able to fight to see my kids more. Thanks to anyone who might be able to help.

First of all many thanks for all of them who are reading my story. I am a unfortunate woman from India having two little kids. I was cheated by one of my close friend whom I helped when he was in danger without my husband's knowledge. Now I am not able to clear that debt all alone and suffering from too much mental torture. It would be great if I get 10,00,000 INR as a help. So that I can clear everything and lead a peaceful life. People who are ready to help me please mail me to vani82.damodhar@gmail.com and also send in ur contact details because one or the other day i'll try to return back the money.
Looking forward for helping hands.

I don't really know how to start this. It's such a different concept. I guess I'll just get to the nitty gritty of our situation...

My soon-to-be ex-husband cheated on me for 3 years at least 9 different times. At first I was in denial about his double life, but eventually I came to terms with it and just decided to try to stick it out a bit longer for the sake of my stepkids. They moved here from England in 2007 and I've been raising them since then. They're 17 and 19, and I was trying to wait till they both graduated high school before filing for divorce. I also have a 2 year old with him. I kept his infidelity a secret and carried the burden on my own, not even telling my family, until...the kids found texts in his phone last June to the woman who is now his fiance. In June I had to call the police because he nearly got into a fistfight with my stepson and physically got into my face as well, plus he told all of us that he was going to kill himself, but this has become a frequent ploy for manipulation by him. I have been primarily a stay-at-home mom the past 2 years bringing in only a few hundred a month. He was the primary breadwinner bringing home $4000-5000 a month. He moved out and moved in with this woman a block away from us, has not spent more than 5 hours with any of the kids since June, and refuses to provide any child support for any of the kids aside from paying the health insurance (which his work pays for), paying his car insurance, and only recently giving his 17 year old a few hundred dollars a month which she has to save for her bills too. I have been forced to figure out how to make ends meet and raise and support the kids on my own. I love my stepkids and happily will continue raising them and figuring it all out, working what I can and taking loans from whoever is willing to help. It's just really stressful and really tough right now.

I knew I was headed to a divorce, but I had no idea he would just abandon all of us completely like he has. And to top it all off, he has become very psychologically and emotionally abusive towards me and even sometimes towards the kids. Oh yeah, he also had no sense of self-control as far as spending goes, and he ballooned our debt up to almost $50,000, though some of that is medical debt as well. I'm facing divorce and bankruptcy on my own with 3 kids. As I type this I don't even know how I hold it together, but I've managed to. I'm healing and getting stronger and more able to put the pieces back together for the kids and I, but this is a BIG hole we're in, trying to escape, and it may be embarrassing to admit as an educated individual who never thought I'd be in these shoes, but I need help. If you are willing to help us, we would really appreciate it and it would truly make a huge difference in our lives. This feels so bizarre asking for help online like this, but I think it's an awesome way to really be able to help those in need. I'm glad I found it so that we too will be able to help others who need it most. In the meantime, thank you again for all your help at this extremely difficult, stressful and emotionally taxing time. You have no idea how much it helps knowing that people you don't even know care about if you and your kids are going to be okay. From the bottom of my heart, thank you.

Put very simply, my girlfriend of 6 months and best friend of nearly a year needs money for school. Due to her and her family's lack of money she can no longer attend the school where we met. The alternative is a community college except that it is 45 minutes away from her house. She will not even be able to generate enough revenue from her two jobs to pay for school and gas to get to school. It is heartbreaking for me to watch the girl that I love go from a top flight university to not even being able to go to school. To further the problems, the community college has a limit on the private loans you can take out. She needs about $15,000 dollars for things to feasibly work out. She can use loans for 7,000 of that. Her mom lives paycheck to paycheck to take care of the three kids and her dad is out of the picture since he cheated on her mom and left. This is my last ditch effort to help her out. I guess I am not expecting this to work but it's work a try, right? I want to extend my deepest gratitude for anyone who gives this the time of day or even sends their sympathies.

I am strongly suffering completely with financial problems. recently i started a business and believed my workers they are all cheated me and i lost everything. Now i am getting big financial crisis. So i am requesting the people those who are going to help please donate $1 dollar to my account and help me to recover from my financial crisis and to save my family

Im a 23 year old father to my baby son and husband to my beautiful wife. We have been together for four years and recently had a baby boy come into our lives. Ive been on my own since 13 ive never met my father as he cheated on my mom when i was a baby and they went through a divorce. It always stuck with my mom and she lost interest in a lot of things and was depressed She abandoned me when i was about 13 and started dating a drug dealer in modesto i moved in with some of my friends and did the best to raise myself i did a lot of bad things when i was younger i had no role models and did whatever i could to survive and i never got to experience a lot of things like sports baseball football i didnt have money for equipment and stuff and no time i was always busy trying to get money for clothes i used to eat our schools one dollar lunch everyday. By the time i was 18 i met the girl of my dreams at a local movie theater she was from the philipines and was petitioned by her family and was staying with a local governement housing at the time. I started turning my life around for the positive and learned a few trades and took a few classes and workshops for building. at 19 i was working as an assistant to a private contractor i learned everything i needed to know and by the time of 20 i was doing private work myself and at 21 i got my first house with the luck of a friend who worked as a realator. We used to live in the central valley Fresno Ca to be exact and we owned a two bedroom one bath house. We had one truck was a Chevy pickup 1500 i used for work and our family car it was paid off. The economy hit hard in the central valley and many contractors went out of work and the prices of homes dropped and our home was foreclosed as we couldnt make the payment and we lost everything. We remained positive with all the negative that happened and we were homeless for a while we sleeped at a church while selling what little furniture we had from our house and save. At the time my wife was pregnant and we were ready to start our family and everything went wrong. We did what was right kept our baby and after talking we moved to the central coast there was no opportunity in the central valley as a lot of businesses went down and everything was going bad. We moved to another one of the churches branches so that i could get on my feet over in Monterey. I quickly got a job as a Server at a private restaurant after applying for many jobs i dont make much and after a few months our baby was born at this time we were able to get a one room studio its very small but rent is so expensive $750 my number one priority is my son and providing i work three days at the restaurant and on my days off i offer services on craigslist to help fix computers car detailing and early mornings i get up at 6am and go to the local home depot and look for work lots of builders go there and sometimes they need extra help. Unfortunately im younger and rarely get picked compared to older because they dont think im experienced i was lucky to get a few jobs though as side work past few months. My wife stays home and cares for the baby since we have no family to help out she cant work at this time. Im doing my best to provide we have no tv no internet no computer nothing except a bed crib a few cooking supplies and a fridge ironing board and iron but were content. But sometimes work is slow and we had no money for food and we have gone to local shelters for food. We mostely eat rice and pastas since its cheap. We only buy expensive foods for the baby and only have cell phones. I had to sell my truck a while back and have recently got an old small honda i cant even afford to put tires on at this time. Im doing my best and taking day to day with the hope something good will happenen. Work is slow and i have no family at all and my wifes family is very poor in the philipines. I did my best to sumarize my life and try to prove i am a real person in a real situation and im in need at this time. Any and everything helps. My family thanks you.

Sir/Madam,
I have been fully in trouble of loans, some body also cheated me and I am become helpless from my relatives.
I request the kind people help me their mite.
A small amount will help me a lot.
Thank you very much.
Yours truly,
P.SivaKumar.

I AM IN NEED OF MONEY VERY BADLY MY BROTHER HAS CHEATED ME WHEN I WAS ADMITTED IN THE HOSPITAL FOR THE TREATMENT OF MY FATHER WHO WAS SUFFERING KIDNEY PROBLEM IT TOOK ABOUT 2.5 MONTHS BUT DID NOT SURVIVED DURING THAT PERIOD HE REGISTERED HIS NAME IN ALL PROPERTIES IT CAME IN LIGHT WHEN I RECEIVED A LETTER FROM BANK TO PAY RS. 5500000 OF LOAN TAKEN THIS LOAN WAS TAKEN BY MY BROTHER ON MY SHOP AT LAST I SOLD MY SHOP AND MY HOUSE TO PAY THE DEBT I PAID 2200000 I STILL HAVE TO PAY 3300000+INTREST TO THE BANK I AM ALL THE ALONE TO FIGHT THIS CHEATING NO ONE COMES TO MY SIDE FOR HELP SO PLEASE HELP ME I NEED URGENT HELP CONTACT ME AT MY E-MAIL ID ULLAH.SIBGHAT@YMAIL.COM THIS IS A STARVING TIME FOR ME AND MY FAMILY PLEASE PLEASE HELP me and my family in this bad days we all will be thankfull to you for your support.

I had it all, but now it is gone.
My ex-husband took everything and left me with bills.

I was a trophy-wife, I guess, and I gave him everything, but he cheated on me.

I work 36 hours a week but I don't get benefits and I never completed my degree. I am now 42 and I have 3 dogs to support and a roof to keep over my head.

Please help me. I have always been a good person and I have always helped others. My dogs are my children and I rescued two of them from animal shelters. If I lose them, I will be destroyed inside.

Thank you so much.

I had it all, but now it is gone.
My ex-husband took everything and left me with bills.

I was a trophy-wife, I guess, and I gave him everything, but he cheated on me.

I work 36 hours a week but I don't get benefits and I never completed my degree. I am now 42 and I have 3 dogs to support and a roof to keep over my head.

Please help me. I have always been a good person and I have always helped others. My dogs are my children and I rescued two of them from animal shelters. If I lose them, I will be destroyed inside.

Thank you so much.

I had it all, but now it is gone.
My ex-husband took everything and left me with bills.

I was a trophy-wife, I guess, and I gave him everything, but he cheated on me.

I work 36 hours a week but I don't get benefits and I never completed my degree. I am now 42 and I have 3 dogs to support and a roof to keep over my head.

Please help me. I have always been a good person and I have always helped others. My dogs are my children and I rescued two of them from animal shelters. If I lose them, I will be destroyed inside.

Thank you so much.

I had it all, but now it is gone.
My ex-husband took everything and left me with bills.

I was a trophy-wife, I guess, and I gave him everything, but he cheated on me.

I work 36 hours a week but I don't get benefits and I never completed my degree. I am now 42 and I have 3 dogs to support and a roof to keep over my head.

Please help me. I have always been a good person and I have always helped others. My dogs are my children and I rescued two of them from animal shelters. If I lose them, I will be destroyed inside.

Thank you so much.

My name is Kristi I am the mother of two children a boy 9 girl 10. I am divorced from their father after 10 years of marriage. My x won residential custody of my kids now i get them wed nights and every other weekend. I have exuasted my resorces fighting him in court. And i dont want to stop fighting him in court for my children. I am on ssi and only receive 600.00 a month on ssi. because i have a disibility,aka a mood disorder whith i have had all my life my x got custody by lieing. my x was verbally abusive while i was married to him. stole money from my fathers business and also hit me. my children have suffered from all of this. I was honest in court and lost now forced to pay 300 dollers a month in child support. get this he doesnt even watch his kids he works grave yards. the women one of many he cheated on me for is watching my kids at night. I am asking for any donations to help me fight in court and get my kids home. please i beg as a christian look into your hearts and help. or even if your an attourny and can do probono work i love my kids and they need to be with me thanks for reading my story.

I've had a rough life from the beginning! I was an unwanted child of teen parents, so I got passed around a lot. I had traumatic childhood, being subject and witness to my mother's drunken escapades and those of her boyfriends. I've been on my own since I was 16, with no family help. Determined to graduate High School, I got a job and rented a room, then graduated nine months pregnant. I had my second child at 20, so I married their father. He shortly thereafter started cheating on me and became abusive. After watching my mother being abused as a child, I vowed to myself that I would never tolerate it, so I left him. He then stalked me and broke into my apartment and strangled me. I had a near death experience, but was lucky enough to come back to care for my children. By the time I was 26, I doubled my family, because I had twins. I thought their father was my soul mate, but low and behold, he cheated on me and then became abusive too. Originally, I took all four children with me and stayed in one room, but it was so tough on my twins, as they were only 3 and weren't allowed to play where we lived. Since their father stayed in the house we were buying, he talked me into letting them stay with him, but it was only supposed to be temporary. Truly, he didn't want to pay child support. He said since I had two children with me and he had two with him, nobody would have to worry about child support. What a joke! He ended up collecting welfare, so the DCSE started collecting child support from me, even after he got married. Here I am single mother, struggling to make ends meet, while he's married and getting child support from me. To make matters worse, my daughters' father didn't pay anything. He’s also remarried. I tried to take him to court, but can't do it, because it brings back PTSD from when he stalked strangled me. One year, my income was $300 too much to get the earned income tax credit, so now I owe IRS $2000. To top it off, I had been struggling at work, due to a neurological disorder and got laid off for a while. After several months, I found another job, but then suffered a closed-head injury and got laid off. I've been unemployed for 4 years now. The child support added up, so now I owe A LOT (like $10,000)! I applied for disability, but they denied me, so I've been trying to do work for myself, but just trying to pay bills to live and care for my daughters has taken all my money, so I've not been able to get the other stuff paid off. Due to my neurological disorder, I can't work in an office environment, as it makes me very ill and I can't function. I'm currently trying to build a marketing and design business, as well as a ministry for the homeless and battered women, but I really need help getting these bills paid down. I'm starting from scratch with my design biz, as my hard drive died and I lost all of my work. I am a very creative woman, with writing, painting, graphic design, marketing and more, and know once I get things off the ground I will really do well. I need assistance getting some of these bills paid down, so I can live my aspirations. I really want my daughters to go to college, but can't support them. I wish to get caught up, so I can be more supportive of my daughters than my family was of me (their support to me was nil!).

It will be a year in April since he ruined my life. I loved him with my whole heart for 10 years. He cheated, got another girl pregnant, and it almost killed me. For ten years I did everything I could possibly do to make and keep him happy. I changed myself and adapted to what he wanted me to be. I did this so much so that a year after him I still don't know who I am. He left me with nothing. I was forced to move back home with my mother. I'm currently a full time college student taking 15 credit hours a week. I have a GPA of 3.6 and up until a week ago I had a full time job too. I was laid off and because of the state of depression that he caused me to go into I was unable to work for several months of this past year. I don't have enough income to file for unemployment. I've worked my entire life and now because of him I've resorted to begging.......

I am 47 year old man ,diabetic, no insurance, i was once a general contractor in iowa
now divorced , living with my 80year old parents, I have spent the last money i had driving for a company doing sales only to be cheated out of my commissions by a crooked sales manager. I had to quit and was left with a Loss of $1500.00 and a income of $0 I am now flat broke,no money
I have submitted over 200 job applications in last 2 weeks
I dont have any gas money left, my car loan is behind , my cell bill is to, my parents can bairly afford to let me live there, and share the food they have. I cant stay living off them, I go to temp job office at 6am to bid on 10 or so jobs against 80+ people.
I have one job offer in south carolina 5hrs away but lack funds to get there or live to my first paycheck
I have 4 kids , 2 in college,2 in high school
I cant cover my child support or help with my youngests health issues (i owe $1700.00 towards her med bills so far this year)
Please help, I will pay forward once i am stable at a new job

i need 80,000 dollars to clear my credit card bills, and as a made a surity signature for my friend he cheated me and i had to pay the huge amount. if everyone donates one dollar i can save my life.my paypal address is thrshna95@gmail.com. my paypal donations button is

I'm stuck, can't afford to make my payments. In debt like everyone else is. I have a $9,500.00 loan on a bike. If I lose this, repo... then I'm sure that is the icing on the cake. My credit is ok right now, haven't been late on a payment yet.

I need help, jobs are not paying enough money to stay afoat or above my means. I was ok until I found out my wife cheated and now we are both seperated but living together because like many others also, we're stuck with what we have and barely getting by to make it work.

I'm not asking for anything more than help to pay off my bike or to make the payments ahead a few months to hopefully find a way on my own to keep paying this bike off.

I did it myself, but giving it back is a terrible option, everything from garnesishment to liens. If you feel like helping, send a donation to my paypal account. anything helps or could help. I'm in the hole $9.5k or $285 a month.

After everything is said and done, all i got left is my bike and credit now. Be nice to keep them both or at least sell the bike to someone for whats owed on it. of course no one is emailing on it or calling. Its a 2008 suzuki boulevard c90 and i haven't got one call on it.

figures though, when i see harley davidsons advertised too for around $5k right now. the world or at least the usa is hurting and all people want to do is work, but theres no paying jobs out there for grunts.

anyhow, if you want to help... please do.

thank you so much

I am newly divorced lost , broke and have alimonyto pay if everyone can send a nickle dime or quater it would help. I am a professional who has to pay 3/4 of his pay to my ex wife. I kept the house , debt , and liability , she took the stuff , dogs and 3000 per month of my pay. Thank you california. I am not a drug addict , alcoholic , or any of that just a guy who adored his wife who got cheated on. If you can help then great and if not I understand thanks.