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Down on my luck
Posted by MikeDutra88 on 2012-05-04 05:58:37
Thanks for taking your time to read this, if you did, and if you help you will receive a personalized thank you.
Single Grandma and Mother in need of angels
Posted by questboots206 on 2012-04-28 16:58:09
Need help with disabled child
Posted by francis1967 on 2012-02-27 19:58:16
need teeth
Posted by james545 on 2012-02-26 12:58:19
Family of5 in a motel room
Posted by needyfamily609 on 2012-02-05 23:58:37
My name is Jean and I am a mother of three. I am married to William, for 4 years and we are NJ natives. I am a caregiver for my 60 year old mother who was diagnosed with Chronic Kidney Failure in January of 2011.
In June of 2010 my mother came from Michigan to live with me with the intention of helping me and my husband by watching our children during our working hours. My husband and I both work very long hours, and the children would have been required to spend long periods of time alone. So my mother came to help us fill the gap. In October of 2010, my motherâs health took a turn for the worse and it was continually getting worse as the year progressed. By January of 2011 my mother was unable to stand for any length of time and was always short of breath.
On February 10th I admitted my mother to the emergency room @ ACMC/Mainland. She was immediately diagnosed with kidney failure. She was admitted to ICU and on February 12th she had a cardiac arrest, due to toxic levels of magnesium, in her system. My mother suffered a sustained brain injury and to this day has a deficit she will have to live with forever. This deficit has taken away her ability to drive, live on her own, or be without some type of supervision.
My family suffered an extreme financial crisis that is ongoing and increasingly more devastating. I was out of work on FMLA for 8 weeks without pay. I was given $1200 in disability payments. I was allowed back to work, but with a significant decrease in pay and a change of position.
We have fallen behind in our bills in a catastrophic way. It seems the more we pay the more we owe. In fact, for the last week we have been without running water. Our gas has been off for three weeks and we use that for hot water, heat, and cooking. Our bank fees for the month of September have been astronomical (well over $400) for NSF charges and Service fees. This is just spiraling out of control. The children attend a local charter school and Pleasantville High school. Each child only has one pair of shoes and one uniform because I canât get ahead of the curve to get them additional ones. The little ones need their school logo embroidered on the uniforms but that cost more than the shirt did.
We feel helpless and without some type of help we will continue to be a homeless family of six. We are currently living in a motel on the edge of our town. This is a pay by the hour type of place but it is the only place that will charge us by the week and will allow one of use to sleep on the floor. We are soliciting any type of help you can give. Please be mindful that we are hard working members of society. We have been working since we got out of high school. We are not beggars and we are willing to give back in the form of community service.
All I know is that we need help! Immediately or weâll be past saving!
Thank you,
Jean Elam
Atlantic Auto Group, 08234
Devastating Accident almost done us in anything would help
Posted by Livingonfaith on 2012-01-24 04:58:45
Today he suffers unrelenting pain as a result of permanent whiplash, 8 herniated discs, and unacknowledged(despite films clearly showing injuries) unaddressed broken tailbone, ribs and pelvis. Nerve damage from the spinal injury has resulted in numbness in his extremities, frequent weakening of his legs and embarrassing incontinence among numerous other concerns - had these been addressed in a timely manner (much like they would have been if not WC injury) his suffering could have been decreased significantly thereby improving his quality of life. The most serious injury he suffered was the hip break (acetabuler break) the worse break possible - it was broken in four places. As alluded to previously, an injury this severe should have been stabilized by surgery - allowing it to heal properly and not leave him suffering in chronic pain. WC puts such demands on providers to cut corners in order to save money that, in my husbands case, his doctor decided to do absolutely nothing but send him home instructing him to stay in a wheelchair 100 % of the time for several months. This doctor did not follow up with an exam or x-rays to make sure everything had healed properly. When my husband tried to explain to him the degree of pain he was still in the Dr said hmmm that shouldnât be and then said âI canât do anything else for youâ¦â. This Dr. was so engrossed with saving WC some money that he disregarded his patients plea for help- how dispassionate and cold. The way this physician treated my husband goes against almost every part of the hippocratic oath which he swore to uphold upon graduation.
After being in pain for years, with no help from WC when it came to pinpointing its primary source, we paid out of pocket for a film that revealed his pelvis had been broken in the accident. This was never discovered previously by the orthopedist, again, due to cutting corners to save WC money they didn't take the necessary films to do a thorough job. We have a hearing with WC before a judge in March to request approval of a doctor who can address his broken tailbone - regardless of the fact that he can hardly sit without being in excruciating pain WC has denied him access to a doctor to treat it.
Immediately after the accident WC paid for home care for my husband and I was his caretaker when they were not here. Once they stopped providing this in home care I had to take over caring for him in addition to taking care of our then one year old daughter. I soon realized that I could not work and take care of both of them so I had to leave my job to stay home. As a result of my loss of income we have used up every penny of savings and 401 K, that we worked so hard to earn. We had to purchase anything medically necessary for Randall that WC was denying or losing track of. In addition to all this bad news, he has had to go out on disability (10/10) due to the deterioration of his condition and as a result our income has been cut substantially. This leaves us struggling to survive with no savings and significant decrease in income. I am the primary caregiver of both my husband and 5 year old daughter and all I able to contribute financially is what I can find the time to sell on eBay and needless to say we are coming up short.
All of our credit cards have been turned over to collections and our house note is in default and I am terrified. My heart breaks for my only child my daughter who is just 5 years old - I want her to remember more than this devastating situation about her dad and what undeserved hard times we are facing. You can ask anyone who knows my husband and they will all say the same that he is one of the kindest, caring, and conscientious people they know. I know that he doesnât deserve the heartache he is having to endure. He has worked hard his entire life, since the age of 15, up until he could no longer because of his injuries; and I know that prior to this accident he had saved and saved and was looking so forward to retiring and having fun times as a family. He hasnât lost sight of those dreams but the money he had saved to fund them is all gone. Despite everything somehow he still maintains a positive outlook on life which makes him a much stronger person than I.
We all have faith that God will see us through this one way or the other but some days it is just so hard to maintain a positive outlook. We would be truly grateful for any help - do only as your heart leads you to do!
God Bless
Roommate needs Gallbladder Surgery
Posted by rwwonwheels on 2011-12-14 18:58:55
Sick Mom with mentally ill daughter may lose home and grandson.
Posted by gigifredy on 2011-10-27 14:58:05
I am Kit Kaplan's sister. My name is Gigi Fredy and I first became ill over a year ago when I was diagnosed with emphysema. I was hospitalized frequently and lost my sales job because I could not produce. While in the hospital they found I had non-drinkers cirrhosis of the liver (a family illness which killed my cousin recently).
I also have painful cirrhotic arthritis, diabetes, and now a serious heart condition from stress. My ribs are fracturing and I may have bone cancer. It seems like every week I have another diagnosis, most of which can kill me.
I am Raising a Disabled Child
My daughter Ashley is 19 and and has a 16 month old son Kingston. She became extremely unstable after his birth. Ashley has struggled with physical and mental illness on and off since her childhood and has been in 10 institutions since the baby was born. She gets overwhelmed easy and is afraid of losing me so she has begun to have small mental breakdowns that land her in the psychiatric ward.
The stress of raising Ashley alone has taken a toll on me over the years and now I am primary caregiver for the baby who exhausts me and I fear we will have to give him up.
We live week to week on gifts from friends and family, always fearing eviction. Our family has said they have no more to give. We have no car and my daughter cannot get to her treatment program so we are stuck inside most of the time as it is very hot here.
I applied for disability and Ashley also has a strong disability case. Will be able to support ourselves then but we don't know when it will happen.
In the meantime, we are living hand to mouth running out of diapers and food and almost got evicted last month. I am exhausted and terrified. We are afraid we will have to give up the baby and move to a shelter. I don't know how my life got this bad but it did.
You can help!
It is hard for me having supported myself since I was 15 to now have to live on the goodness of others. I need your help. Please donate what you can. Even $25 will pay for diapers for the month. $100 pays a utility bill. Our monthly expenses are $1800, give what you can.
God bless you.
Gigi Fredy, Ashley and Kingston
Sick mom with mentally ill daughter caring for grandson needs help
Posted by gigifredy on 2011-10-18 17:58:28
My daughter Ashley is 19 and and has a 16 month old son named Kingston. She became extremely unstable after his birth. Ashley has struggled with physical and mental illness on and off since her childhood and has been in 9 institutions since the baby was born.
The stress of raising Ashley alone has taken a toll on me over the years and now I am primary caregiver for the baby who exhausts me and I fear we will have to give him up.
We live week to week on gifts from family, always fearing eviction. Our family has said they have no more to give. We have no car and my daughter cannot get to her treatment program so we are stuck inside most of the time as it is very hot here.
I applied for disability and Ashley also has a strong disability case.
Will be able to support ourselves but we don't know when.
In the meantime, we are living hand to mouth running out of diapers and food and almost got evicted last month. I am exhausted and terrified. We have no more friends or family to go to. We are afraid we will have to give up the baby and move to a shelter. I don't know how my life got this bad but it did.
Please help us with rent. We need $900
This is not a scam I am happy to talk to you. fredy5810@gmail.com
Sick mom with mentally ill daughter caring for grandson needs help
Posted by gigifredy on 2011-10-18 17:58:28
My daughter Ashley is 19 and and has a 16 month old son named Kingston. She became extremely unstable after his birth. Ashley has struggled with physical and mental illness on and off since her childhood and has been in 9 institutions since the baby was born.
The stress of raising Ashley alone has taken a toll on me over the years and now I am primary caregiver for the baby who exhausts me and I fear we will have to give him up.
We live week to week on gifts from family, always fearing eviction. Our family has said they have no more to give. We have no car and my daughter cannot get to her treatment program so we are stuck inside most of the time as it is very hot here.
I applied for disability and Ashley also has a strong disability case.
Will be able to support ourselves but we don't know when.
In the meantime, we are living hand to mouth running out of diapers and food and almost got evicted last month. I am exhausted and terrified. We have no more friends or family to go to. We are afraid we will have to give up the baby and move to a shelter. I don't know how my life got this bad but it did.
Please help us with rent. We need $900
This is not a scam I am happy to talk to you. fredy5810@gmail.com
Sick mom with mentally ill daughter caring for grandson needs help
Posted by gigifredy on 2011-10-18 17:58:28
My daughter Ashley is 19 and and has a 16 month old son named Kingston. She became extremely unstable after his birth. Ashley has struggled with physical and mental illness on and off since her childhood and has been in 9 institutions since the baby was born.
The stress of raising Ashley alone has taken a toll on me over the years and now I am primary caregiver for the baby who exhausts me and I fear we will have to give him up.
We live week to week on gifts from family, always fearing eviction. Our family has said they have no more to give. We have no car and my daughter cannot get to her treatment program so we are stuck inside most of the time as it is very hot here.
I applied for disability and Ashley also has a strong disability case.
Will be able to support ourselves but we don't know when.
In the meantime, we are living hand to mouth running out of diapers and food and almost got evicted last month. I am exhausted and terrified. We have no more friends or family to go to. We are afraid we will have to give up the baby and move to a shelter. I don't know how my life got this bad but it did.
Please help us with rent. We need $900
This is not a scam I am happy to talk to you. fredy5810@gmail.com
Sick mom with mentally ill daughter may lose home and grandson.
Posted by gigifredy on 2011-10-11 15:58:33
My name is Gigi and I became ill over a year ago when I was diagnosed with emphysema. I was hospitalized frequently for lung related issues before they found it and lost my sales job because I could not produce . While in the hospital they found I had non-drinkers cirrhosis of the liver (which killed my cousin recently). I also have painful cirrhotic arthritis, diabetes, IBS and now a serious heart condition from stress. My ribs are fracturing and I may have bone cancer. It seems like every week I have another diagnosis, many that can kill me.
My daughter Ashley is 19 and and has a 16 month old son named Kingston. She became extremely unstable after his birth. Ashley has struggled with physical and mental illness on and off since her childhood and has been in 9 institutions since the baby was born.
The stress of raising Ashley alone has taken a toll on me over the years and now I am primary caregiver for the baby who exhausts me and I fear we will have to give him up.
We live week to week on gifts from family, always fearing eviction. Our family has said they have no more to give. We have no car and my daughter cannot get to her treatment program so we are stuck inside most of the time as it is very hot here.
I applied for disability and Ashley also has a strong disability case.
Will be able to support ourselves but we don't know when.
In the meantime, we are living hand to mouth running out of diapers and food and almost got evicted this month. I am exhausted and terrified. We have no more friends or family to go to. We are afraid we will have to give up the baby and move to a shelter. I don't know how my life got this bad but it did.
Please help us.
I will be happy to talk to you about out situation. fredy5810@gmail.com
Please Help Me! I am beyond desperate!
Posted by please_help_me on 2011-08-26 20:58:09
Jesus said that whatsoever you ask if you believe you will receive! He is my Savior and I believe what He said so I am asking and believing that I will receive & God will use you to help provide for me!
Thank you! May God greatly bless any who help!
Hope you can help
Posted by help4me on 2011-06-27 22:58:24
Please help...looking for Angels from God
Posted by annah on 2011-06-06 05:58:47
Please, if there are any generous angel hearts out there that could possibly be a helping hand by God, please help us.
Thank you for your time
HELP TO PAY MY CAREGIVER
Posted by moochismom on 2011-04-28 21:58:07
Any help and every dollar will go to pay her the $1500.00 that I owe her.
Thank you and god bless.
Beverlylagrange@msn.com
HELP TO PAY MY CAREGIVER
Posted by Mammamochi on 2011-04-11 09:58:35
Please Help
Posted by lindabaker on 2011-04-04 18:58:37
Please Help Me
Posted by nmp3 on 2011-03-27 16:58:49
My mom had no life insurance policy. Until I can find a job I have no money to pay her funeral and other bills. Ten days after my mom died I was sued by a collection agency. I am so depressed that I've been thinking of ending it all to be with my parents.
I would greatly appreciate any help in paying all these bills while I try to get on my feet.
Thank you.
Rent Money, Utilities
Posted by iamisaidiam on 2011-02-24 17:58:47
Sincerely,
Granny B
About to Lose My Home
Posted by gabew75 on 2010-12-07 14:58:58
About to Lose my Home
Posted by gabew75 on 2010-12-07 13:58:58
Need Help
Posted by MOMof_4 on 2010-10-24 02:58:58
Mother passed away and we got evicted.
Posted by eyeheartjade on 2010-08-25 14:58:58
Ashley, William and Baby Jade
Mother passed away and we got evicted.
Posted by eyeheartjade on 2010-08-25 14:58:58
Ashley, William and Baby Jade
