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Family in need

Posted by dkane421 on 2012-05-21 21:58:14

I have a family of five in need of financial assistance to make ends meet this month. Our rent is due plus late fees which equals $1500. I recently decided to make a better future for my self and my family and decided to go to nursing school which by the way at the time sounded like a wonderful idea. I now have only 12 months left and we are sinking fast. My husband works his butt off to provide for myself and our three kids but recently work had dropped so we are now about to be evicted. I now have to choose between finishing school or quitting to get a job and help out. I am not a begger by choice and would gladly pay someone back over a monthly payment. PLEASE HELP IF YOU ARE ABLE!!!!!!!!!

My family is about to end on the streets

Posted by pleasehelpme2012 on 2012-05-21 13:58:52

Well we have an eviction notice and we need a thousand dollars or we will be evicted, please help us, i am accepting donations starting at any amount, doesnt matter how small, any little bit helps.

I have 2 kids, and my husband works his butt off but we couldnt make ends meet this month, we had to pay past due electric bills or it was going to be cut off :(
please help us. i am not one to beg but i have called over 20 organizations and all my friends and no one is willing to help us :( please i beg of you dont let my children end up with a roof over their heads.

Family Crisis

Posted by sylvion on 2012-05-20 10:58:30

My name is John, i'am 53 years old, i'm the care taker of my home, i live in Suriname South America ,it's been a year now since i have no income, because of a problem that happen at work,that i had no part in, butt stil bare the consequence. I have a daugther of 6 year, a wife , and mother to take care off. Please mail me ; sirless@yahoo.com I'm desperate, i needs some help. I hoop to get back this year to my job. I have a layer taking care of business, but until then no income.
My mother is 83 years old.
I depend on your kindness and trust.
God bless, greetings from John.

LIFE

Posted by sweetpsalms on 2012-05-19 09:58:33

I don't like the word beg but I guess that is what it is. My pride is high and I hate asking for help but I don't know what else to do. I saw something on TV and decided to try this. Here goes!
I am a 39 year old with 3 children and a disabled husband. I have a lot of issues right now that I am trying to deal with and keep my family off the streets. I don't mind sharing my story if need be because honesty is the best policy. My husbands SSI is very low, as if he has not really worked and he is over 50. I have been trying to keep my head up and keep my bills paid. I work but my job is a PRN position because it was all I could get. I was making a fairly good pay until they decided our department needed cut backs and cut our hourly pay almost three dollars. I am trying so hard to finish school to be a LPN and then a RN. I have been trying to finish school since 1992. I know that if I can get my degree, I can provide for my family. So, I have bills up my butt and school is hard. Now, I am dealing with losing my financial aid because though I have a high enough GPA, my other cumulative average is below standard. I knew nothing about that. I was focusing on making sure my grades were good enough. My 14 year old daughter is pregnant and I can't even afford to begin buying baby things or think of how to save for it. My husband is so content with his little check until nothing else matters. My oldest daughter is in college with me trying to get her LPN but her hearts desire is to be an OB/GYN but they changed the required score level for the SAT and ACT and she registered one quarter to late to get in. Had she registered earlier, she could have gotten in the school she wants to attend but now she has to go to a local college and earn credits and then transfer, IF her grades are good enough. ON top of all that, my husband was just hit in the rear by another driver and our car was totaled and he was hurt. So, my only car, of which I was paying on still, is gone and I owe to much on it for the insurance to pay it off.
I feel overwhelmed, depressed and like I will never make it. I am working, attending school, and trying to write a book and do a gospel CD. Anything to try and bring in money to support my family. I really don't know what else to do.
I don't know if this works or not, but I am willing to try. I have felt so bad until at times I wanted to just end it all but I know that is not the example I want for my children. I want to see my grand daughter born and I want my children to finish school and do better than me, but also see me come out of my struggle. I keep telling them I am going to buy the house we live in, they keep laughing and even with that, the land lord is talking about putting it on the market because I can't come up with what I need to even start buying. I pray that God blesses my household and family. If someone does decide that my issues are worth helping, then I pray God bless you with an overflow for your blessing me. I don't know what else to say but thank you in advance. As embarrassed as I am, I can only pray this is real. If not, at least I got to vent and get it all of my chest. I had no one else to tell anyway.
Thank You!

Fiancee Died in arms Need help for kids!!

Posted by kdoggdatdude on 2012-05-15 02:58:55

My life was wonderful I met the greatest girl in the world 12 years younger than me.We lost a baby during late pregnancy and I asked her to marry me January 5th on the 8th we took a nap and my soon to be wife died on my chest at 28 y/o I wanted to die with her but had to go on for my mom and neices and nephews so I relocated to the top of the us in Northern maine just to get away while on this trip to get my heart back and mind I met my sisters best friend and I was so in need of emotional help we bonded fast she was so much like my late fiancee age personality habits all the same well she has lupus she is in hospital now in bad shape from her system being septic infection in her shoulder bone.We have an autistic son living in a top floor that is very small we really need help I wanna make my family happy I have surgery coming up on my back cut from neck to butt my liver is in bad shape and we r broke please help me one dollar will help anything please!you can even mail a card to say it will get better anything here is my address thank you any words of encouragement will be awesome..Kenny Carmichael 90 dorsey road Fort Fairfield Maine 04742

Help paying gas and rent

Posted by Cowpooh on 2012-05-14 18:58:45

Well r gas is turn off and we r about 1000 dollars behind on rent we work r butt off and we r still behind in our bills we get help food stamps and health insurance but we make to much to get help with cash plus I to take care of the twin girls if anybody known how to get help please let me known

life

Posted by wannachange on 2012-03-16 11:58:21

I need to pay for layer.... Cuz got a twin who used my car an got caught... An it all coming down on me... We r 98% identical.. With me being bipolar 1 rapid recycling manic depressant.. Tuff to find work... Got no funds... An tryin to raise my daughter,, hiding from the law.. Got warrants out cuz, missed the court date... Cuz my mom tossed the letters away.. Cuz she dont want me to tell on my bro.. For his own crimes,, he got lot of felony points. Im in distress no.. Selling everything I own tryin to pay for layer.. An it aint enough,, love my baby girl more then anything, I do anything to be there for her,,but with no layer,,an no money to get layer,, everything gonna crumble... I beg for help.. I dont want my kid to have her daddy go to prison for something his twin did, an my moms covers his,, butt by tossing the court date away so they issued warrants,, why dont no.. She hates me after all this cuz I dont want to be charged with this stuff.. When it was him,, she believes that I should only because I never had any drugs charges.. an he's got lot of charges...pretty sad that his free

Donations for Dogs in need

Posted by nontoxic on 2012-02-10 14:58:40

Dogs in need of help. Some need medicines and shots. Need dog houses and pins. Lady, Spot, Rover, Minor, Skippy, Mama Dog (needs spayed), Dufas, Pain in the Butt, Longlegged Black, Slim Jim (allergies), Doi\lly Madison, Loud Mouth, Trouble, Pathetic (needs neutered), Duke (needs neutered), Daisy Mae (older), Major (old), Sam, Little Girl, Waggles (hereditary mites and needs spayed), Sadie (seizures), Rose Marie (seizures), Sally, Pumpkin (allergies), Muffin (blind), Black Tail, Onery, Suzy, Millie Marie (seizures and does not like men), Angel (old), WoodStock, Snoopy, Cupcake, Younglady, Buddy, Blue, Aussie (does not like men), Chocolate and Little Ezzie (has a tumor). Website with pictures and their story coming soon.

https://www.wepay.com/donations/doggies

Motorcycle accident..please help

Posted by tadwisn on 2012-01-21 14:58:09

September 2011: Had a nearly fatal motorcycle accident on Lucent Blvd. in Denver. The events leading up to the accident I am unclear of, all I remember is waking up underneith a car and couldnt move. I remember the ambulance showing up to extricate me. Apparently I had a shattered pelvis and a broken humorus. I also sustained another concussion. I never was a big fan of the helmet, in fact very rarely did I wear one. I just happened by chance to decide to wear one that day, if I hadnt I'd be dead. It used to be that I struggled to survive, now I struggle to exist. This account is by my wife:

On September 28th, 2011
My husband Trevan had an accident on is his way to an Interview and he was going on Lucent to get on to the highway on C470 and was not able to see with the dew on the street and sun glare. He didn’t see the car at the stoplights, going on to C470. Didn’t know or see that it was stopped at the light. The sun was so bad that he slammed right into the person in front of him and went over the handlebars of the motorcycle and over the person’s car and was found underneath the car. The Paramedics found him under the person’s car and had to pull him out from under it.

I got a call about 8:15 am from the fire department letting me know that my husband was in an accident. I was so scared I was trying to get my son ready for school and get my daughter ready to so I could take him. I was told that he was taken to Littleton Hospital and that I can call over there and get info on how he is doing. Instead of me calling the ER the ER nurse called me and gave me some info about what they are doing and what ER room they are taking him to. They took some x-rays and he couldn’t be moved because they were not sure about his back. So they did the x-rays in the ER. That is what the nurse told me that they were doing and that he was stable. The nurse also said if I could get to the hospital as soon as I could, it would be a good idea to come since the police and fire department was still there. I told her I would try. I called my mother in law to let her that her son was in an accident and I called my mom. There were other people that I called too. When I got there and I had to park so far in the back of the hospital that I had to ask for directions to get to the ER from the outpatient so I could be there with my husband. When I got there it was very hard to see what he looked like. He had a neck brace on and his left arm was all wrapped up like a present. He had a big gash on the inside of his right leg that was pretty wide and you could see the fat and it kept on bleeding. They would not take off the brace from his neck because they didn’t know what else was going on with him. I met the ER doctors and they told me that he is in quite bit of pain, and that he was starting to not know what happened off and on. I tried to see if he could tell me himself but could not remember. One of the ER doctors was very concerned about the blood in his urine so they took him to another place in the hospital to do some more tests on him. My mom in the mean time called me and told me that she was on her way to be at the hospital with me for support, I told her that I really need some comfort and to keep it together. When she got here Trevan was not yet taken to get tested yet so my mom said hi to him and ask him questions. Then with the ER nurses came in to take him for the tests my mom ask the nurse what kind of test that they were going to do on him and they said it is to check for internal bleeding. When Trevan was taken back we went to sit in the waiting room in the ER. My mom kept asking me questions but I could not answer any of them, because I have not been told about any thing besides what the nurse told me on the phone before I got there. I ask the nurses that were still around they’re about where his belonging were because I needed to know if his wallet and other things like ring and glasses was there. They handed me the beg that had his wallet and other things that they took off of him. I took the beg with me so I could go through it and see if every thing was still with him. His wedding band was in there his wallet was in there and socks and helmet was there too so I took it with me out to the waiting room. There was also a ticket that the police left in it too. My mom took a look at it to find out what all happened. It just said it was his fault but we didn’t think it was his fault, but later on we did fine out it was his fault but we took care of it for him while he was in the hospital. While we were waiting Trevan’s mom came with my daughter to see him but he was still not back in the Trauma room. After a while they finally moved him to a room so we all went there. They took him to the ICU and we had to keep our hands clean at all times coming and going. Trevan was put on many powerful pain medicines for the pain. He was put on dilaudid and he was on that for a while but then he was inching so bad that they took him off of that and put him on morphine he was a little better but still was itching like crazy.

Doug and Jan drove out here on Wednesday night they didn’t stop except for brakes and gas but they drove all the way through so could see Trevan. They arrived at the hospital at 3:30 am. Trevan didn’t remember that his dad and step mom came to see him the first night. I told him twice that they were here and he just didn’t remember it. Every one came to see Trevan everyday Doug and J, Karen and John Hager, Kehli, his mom Beverly. Doug and Jan were here for four days and they were here also for the surgery. We had a lot of people in the waiting room Beverly and our kids, me, and Doug and Jan. I was happy that I had that many people there with me because I was very upset.

October 1st 2011
Trevan had his surgery on both the pelvis and the humerus bone. The doctor started with his pelvis first he said it was the quick one and that Trevan didn’t loose much blood with that one. Then the doctor moved Trevan to another table to do the other part of the surgery. He lost a little bit of blood when they did his surgery on the arm they had to give him two pints of blood. The doctor did come out to tell us the update as he did them and how everything was going. He showed us before and after x-rays. The doctor did a great job of fixing Trevan up. Then after the surgery was done he was in recovery room for about an hour and a half. They moved Trevan to his room afterwards and he still was not doing hot. He kept saying that the room was moving and it made him sick. He tried to keep his eyes closed but it made him even feel worse. He also kept asking for ice chips which I feed to him as much as I could. He was better by the evening, he didn’t feel dizzy any more. Family kept coming to see him and tell him that they love him and pray that he will heal quickly. I stayed with him every night after the surgery to keep an eye on how he was doing. He didn’t remember a lot of things, which in some ways it is good but in some ways it is bad. I think a lot of it had to do with the pain medicine that the doctors was giving him. A nurse told me that it could happen with the medicine could make you forgetful depending on what kind of pain medicine.

October 4th 2011
While Trevan was at the hospital he did fall. He hit his head agents the closet that was in his room. The nurses found him on the floor. They did say that when he fell he landed on his right side and that they don’t think he hurt him self, but he did hit his head when he went down. I asked them if they were going to see if he did any damage, and they said that he didn’t and couldn’t do that much damage because the way he fell. I asked them if he hurt any thing else and the nurse they checked him over and asked him questions and didn’t see any evidence that he had any more damage to what he already had. I asked to if they did any test to see. They said they didn’t do any other tests on him because they didn’t want him to be exposed to any more radiation from the x-ray machine. He was getting out of bed by his self with out any help, which he was not supposed to do that. That is why when he fell they put a bed alarm on his bed so they would know at all times that he gets up, for his safety.

October 5th 2011
During that time while he was a Littleton hospital they were trying to find a rehab place for him so he can start getting back on his feet. They did find one and they had him transferred from Littleton to Porter hospital. Before he left I told him that I would see him later that evening and so will his mom and kids. He said ok and they he was gone. That evening Beverly and the rest of us call daddy from his mom’s phone to let him know that we are coming to see him but we were going to stop and get something to eat on the way up to the hospital. Then while we were eating at Wendy’s he calls me on my cell phone and asks if we were still coming I told him yes. I asked him did you even remember that we called you before and told you that we were coming he said no he didn’t remember. While he was on the phone with me still we asked him if he wanted us to bring something for him. He said yes. We brought him a hamburger and a frosty. When we got to the Porter hospital and got to his room we noticed it was very small and odd shaped. He had a window but in the wrong place or the room was just in the worst place. It looked like a bad shaped L and had no flow to it. I asked Trevan on how he was doing and he said tired and in pain. I said you just been through a lot and it will take a while to heal. Then we gave him is food and let him eat while we also talked to the nurses that were taking care of him there. We also ask that if there was a way for a cot to be put in there so I could stay with him some of the times. They said yes that they will get one in the room the next time I come up to see him. I said thanks. They also had a bed alarm on his bed and his wheel chair that he was using. I am happy that they had that on there but the moment that he got up to use the urinal that the alarm went off. And he didn’t feel comfortable with them always coming in and him not able to potty when he wanted too. When he is in the bed but keep it on when he is in the wheel chair because he could not remember to lock his brakes before he transferred form the wheel >chair to bed or just getting up to stand.

October 6th 2011
Trevan calls him mom to get my number to be able to call me. He talked to her for a while and he also asked if we were coming to see him, and also asked if we knew where he was. His mom said yes she knew and asked him if he remembered that we were the other night. He said no and also said that we weren’t there to see him. Which we were there but he just didn’t remember that we were all there his son and daughter me and his mom. He forgot the entire evening and event that we even were there to see him the night before. His mom said to him that we were all coming to see you again tonight so we will see you later. The same day I went to take our van to get the oil changed in it and found out that there was a clucking sound and they told me that it was not safe for me to keep driving it. They said about a week or two would be all I should drive it. I called my dad and asked if he knew any one that I could take my van to get an idea on how much it would cast to get it fixed. This was all the same day that I was going to see Trevan at the hospital. They didn’t want me to drive it anymore until it was fixed. So Beverly had to take me back and forth to and from the hospital for a while. After Beverly got off work we all got in to the car and drove up to the hospital. We asked the nurses if there was any way for Trevan to watch movies other than watching TV all the time. They said yes and told us there is a TV, VCR that is on a cart that can go into their room to watch movies and only VHS tapes only no DVD’S. So mom went into the lunchroom and looked at all the movies and wrote down all the ones that Trevan would be interested in watching. After she was done she brought the list to Trevan to see and to know that he had choices. Then we went home and told Trevan that we will see him later the next day. Then said our good-byes.

October 7th 2011
There was a lot of thing going on this day that I don’t want to go through again. I had to take my van to a place that my sister in law told me about. I made my appointment with them the day before and they wanted me to bring it back today and get it fixed. They even said that it was not safe at all. I left it with them to fix it in the morning. Then I came back home and had more things to do. I had to run around back and forth using my mother in laws car which was ok she was taking care of my daughter and my niece so I got thing done and I was able to relax a little bit. We all went to see Trevan that evening. We had to go and pick up my van after we picked up dinner. Then we left to see Trevan. When we got there into Trevan’s room he looked really tired and in a bit of pain. We got an extra hamburger so we gave it to him so he could eat it. Of course he at it all up. I changed the channel and found shreck the movie and we all watched that with Trevan. The nurse cam in to see how he was doing. He said that he needed more pain medicine, also needed to have his depends changed. The kids and grandma left outside the room while he was getting changed. After he got settled again the kids came back in and they were getting rowdy so I ask Beverly to take the kids home. They gave their daddy a kiss and left. That night I stayed with him and he kept on asking if the nurse had given him his pain medicine. I told him yes that they did give you your medicine. I asked him if even remembered it and he said no. He asked me 4 other times to while I was there. When it was time for him to have another dose of medicine I said to use the call button that is what it is there for instead of me always running in and out of his room to let the nurses know that he needed more medicine. I stayed with him all night it was very hard for me to hear. When Trevan would fall to sleep he would start dreaming and breathing heavy then wake up crying and then fell back to sleep. It would go on about 5 times at night. I think it was nightmares and when he wakes up he would not remember any of it.

October 8th 2011
The nurses were coming into see how Trevan was doing. He had his breakfast and pain medicine. After breakfast the therapist came in to take him to do some therapy stuff. He worked on the ramp with wheel chair going up and down with keeping control with his feet. The first round was 35 minutes. Then comes back and rests for a half-hour and goes again for 30 minutes. Then he came back and rested and had lunch. Then he went with another therapist and goes and has a shower, but after a while he came back. The nurses told me when they came back with Trevan that the cut on the inside of the right leg came open while they were helping him with his shower. He lost a little bit of blood but it hurt him quite a bit. So two nurses came back. One was pushing him and the other on putting pressure on the wound. When he was back in the room he looked like a ghost, and looked very tired. Then his nurse came in to put a different kind of bandage on his leg. By the end of the day he had color back in his face and was doing better. That day and evening he didn’t know that I was staying with him. I was with him at the hospital since Friday night, to Sunday evening. I will be going home on Sunday night.

October 9th 2011
The nurses and doctors decided not to have therapy because Trevan gave them a scare. So they just let him rest and let the wound heal some more before he did any more. I watched him sleep and he has the bad dreams again all day, and all night. I woke up every time he had the dreams. I counted how many times he would wake up and go to sleep again. It was hard to hear too. When he did wake up I would ask if he remembered any of it. He would say No. I did let the nurses know what was going on with Trevan and also asked him to keep an eye out and check on him. I also asked them to keep a record of it too. I left the evening so I could take care of my kids the next day. My mother in law had to work and had to keep Sarah with me. I said my good-byes. I asked the nurses to keep me in formed on how he did through the night.

October 10th 2011
Trevan told me that he had therapy and that he was in some pain. He was up in the wheel chair and bed. He was learning how to put socks and underwear, shorts and shirt on by him self with out help and doing it all by with one hand. He did OK is what he said. It is hard for him to remember which arm to do in first. The nurses said try to remember left first than over the head than right arm. Then put your glasses on so you can see. He said he would try to remember. Then I went home. He also saw the doctor and asked for Ibuprofen.

October 11th 2011
I got to the hospital to see Trevan about 7ish. He looked tire but also happy to see me. He said to me when I can in “I was wondering when you were going to be here” I said I had to take care of the kids first. In the morning he did therapy then he has lunch and after he had lunch he did some more activities he had u ride outside and played scrabble to get his mind working on thinking. That is what he did during the day when I was not there to see him during the day Trevan had therapy and looked somewhat tired when I got there, he was also in his wheel chair. He ate all the tacos that his mom got for him. After we got done eating he was in a lot of pain. He asked for more pain medicine and he could not get any more ibuprofen. So they gave him percocet for the pain. All we did while I was there with him we talked and watched TV together. Was late when I left to go home and care for my kids.

October 12th 2011
I went to see Trevan about 7ish again. He did a lot of thing in the morning it was all written down so I knew what he did. Which he was to do every day for his memory issues that he has. He had breakfast then he had PT. He did exercises with his legs. ST. tested him it scored 20 out of 25 on the cognitive tests. Then he did some transferring using one leg, 2-½ lbs. on the other leg (right leg all weight and partial weight on the left.) After lunch he did the walker, wheel chair, shower, teeth and hair. All of this info that I keep getting is what he writes down for his memory reminder. I took a look at him and asked him how he is doing, He said he is in a bit of pain. A lot of pain was mainly in the arm. He asked for some pain medicine and he started to fall to sleep. So I told him that I would head home and take care of the kids. He said to tell them that he loves them. I said ok.

October 13th 2011
Just reading his report that he wrote. He did getting in to his wheel chair to go to the toilet, Independence Square and weight. That was his activities during the day and he also had another stitch pop and his leg started bleeding again. That is what he told me. It is covered with gaze. I was happy that they did put that on there to protect it better. He has been sleeping better. They aren’t using the walker with the plate form because of his bad left arm. He is balancing so much better on his right leg which I am very proud of him. I noticed while I was there he didn’t remember that he had his pain medicine which they did give it to him. But they could not give him any more until 9:15 PM. And it was about 8:20 PM when he asked for more pain medicine.

October 14th 2011
Trevan woke up around 5:45 am having pain in his arm and needed to be changed. Found out that Dr. Bess has not released him from putting more weight on his left leg. It will be 30% weight for a while. At a little bit after 9 this morning went for a wheel chair walk. He sat in the wheel chair and used his right foot to move him forward and his right hand also help him to move forward in the direction that he needs to go. He went around the hallway twice. Then after he did that he came back to his room, so after that another person came in and took him down to the shower. Both of us were in the shower room with the nurse getting him ready and helping him stand only on one leg. He could not put much weight on the left leg. After every thing was off the therapist helped him sit on the shower/ tub chair. We both helped him get cleaned up, but we made sure he did most of the cleaning up. He did well at listening to me and stayed seated until we needed him to stand to pull up his pants. He only used his right leg to stand on and his right arm to pull up. I told him if he comes home he is going to have to listen and wait until I can come and help him. I didn’t want him to fall again and end up in the hospital again. After the shower we went back to his room to rest for a few minutes. Then he went to do more moving therapy. He did hopping on the right leg and using the parallel bars with the right arm to and from the wheel chair. Then he did some bumping up and down on the stairs. They would not do any more of them for a while because it tired him out so much. We did not know when he would be able to come home yet. We were going to have someone come by to take a look at the house and see if he can come home. Right now it is set for wed. But it is not set in stone. I am planning to stay the night again and leave about 8:15 am to watch my daughter. Then I will be back to stay with him again that evening.

October 15th 2011
This is what Trevan did for the day, leg/ hip exercises, control wheelchair up and down ramp. ST- did memory strategies, put a picture with info, and writing down notes. OT- watched him do his brushing his teeth, getting dressed, independence square (cashier, shop, and sandwich) memory. That is what he did and also found out he has a urine infection. He slept a little bit, was up having to go to the potty all night, had to remind him mot to put any weight on his left leg. He said that he was not but I doubt it. I was watching him. After he was done he was always putting weight on the left leg every time he pushed his butt back in the bed. I am very worried about that. I did tell the nurses to keep an eye on him that he was having issues with him having to pee all the time. Since he had the infection. They said that they would keep watch and see how he does through the night.

October 16th 2011
Trevan had a bad day at remembering this day. I just don’t remember what he forgot because I was also very tired this day also.

October 17th 2011
We brought Trevan home to do the home inspection so we could find out what we all needed to do and what to get for the house, so Trevan can come home. We didn’t want him to get injured any more than what he is now. When we got to the house the two nurses had to lift him and the wheel chair up the stairs since we didn’t have the ramp up quite yet. We did tell them it would be up once we know what day we could get help. While Trevan was still sitting in the wheel chair he had to use the restroom. He did try to get in the restroom which he did do just fine, but when he was ready to get back out and into the wheel chair he almost fell in to the wheel. So they deiced not to have him use the small bathroom.

Can't Help Hoping

Posted by SimplyG2X on 2012-01-02 15:58:32

Thank you for taking a moment to read my post. My request is very simple...

I'm a hard working woman who is unable to keep up with my expenses. My employer has had a "raise freeze" going for the past two years, but unfortunately, the expenses are still going up. All of my utilities are past due and I'm currently searching for a cheaper apartment. I've been working my butt off (salary - no overtime) and I still can't make ends meet.

My request is for one frivolous item - a new (used - LG G2X) cellphone. I don't need it, but I would really love to have it. I've been trying to save up for it for over a year, but I end up having to spend the money on legitimate expenses such as food. I feel kind of like that kid in the movie "you'll shoot your eye out, kid!", but I can't help hoping...

Again, thank you for listening.

pics for $$

Posted by LYNDSEYK on 2011-11-29 19:58:43

I am trying to get the 400$ i am short on my rent together for the first. I will send you pictures/videos in exchange for $. $1 for pic, $10 for video.

and no, i am not some fat nasty cow. i am 22, 110 lbs, slim, small boobies and a nice butt. i work as a dancer and if you prefer, will dress in my dance outfits. please help me get the rest of my rent money!!!!!!!

Times are hard:(

Posted by vwcherie11 on 2011-11-27 18:58:13

Hello there I never thought I would be in this mess, nor did I ever think that I would fall into such hard times. Well I'm a 36 year old female and i was born with NF1 i have hospital bills up the butt and i just can't pay them when i make only 10.00 an hour and not even 40 hours a week:( ontop of my car payment ensurance and gas i sometimes dont have the money for food.. Please help anything will help. The stress in my life will only make the tumors grow more it sucks when you have to ask for help but I know there are good hearted people.


God Bless
Thank you for your help.

Just a Shot in the Dark...

Posted by hockeyluvr on 2011-09-07 18:58:07

We are all here for the very same reason, we need assistance & we need help. This is a little different for me as previously I had been the one linking others who were in need of assistance. I guess now it's my turn to walk in my client's shoes.

I've always found that when the smoke clears the situations we have faced and overcome were "end of the world" situations at the time. When actually, these situations ended up being not as bad as we originally anticipated. I have never asked others for anything no matter how bad things got for me and my family. Somehow things always find a way of working themselves out. I am the type of person that believes most things in this world happen for a reason.
I will not bore you all with my so called "Sob" story as I know there are others out there that are in need of financial assistance far worse then I am. I know this will be a long shot, but at this point I really have nothing else to lose. So here it goes, I am a 32 year old mother of 2 amazing boys, 15 and 8. I recently separated from my husband. We have been together for 7 years and only married for 1. He currently lives in FL & I am residing in MN. The reason for our separation was just recently my father had an anuyerism and was given only a 20% change to live. I drove 26 straight hours from FL to MN as I thought I was going to be saying goodbye to my dad forever. Obviously God was not ready to take a cranky old farmer/police officer as my dad pulled through with flying colors! Seriously, I am thinking God gave a second thought to his plans of taking my dad with him when he realized just how stubburn and what a pain in the butt my dad can be! I love my dad just the same as he is my Hero. Because my family is the most important thing in the world to me, I up and left my full time job in FL knowing the consequences of not having that job when I returned. Even after asking for extended time off my employeer would not grant me the time or approve FMLA so I could be with my dad. A whole different can of worms there! Well, since being in MN I have been assisting my mom in caring not only for my dad, but also taking care of the family farm, the family business of selling farm equipment and caring for their 23 horses.
I have depleated my savings and I have been denied unemployment. I currently live in a town with a population of less than 1,000 people. So needless to say, the job market is not booming. Thus, I have continously run into dead ends as to any type of paying employment. But wait, it gets better. I received a call the other day from my husband informing me that he feels as though he is no longer in love with me and would like a divorce. At some point I would really like a break honestly. So, this is why I am here today asking for a helping hand. I am in need of assistance to help pay for an airline ticket to FL so that I can gather not only my children's belongings, but also mine.
I try my best to find the humor in each situation as you maybe able to tell from reading this, but again I would really like for life to cut me a break. If you are able to help in anyway possible I would be forever greatful.

Thank you for your time.

Parents are in Big Time trouble

Posted by bigtrouble on 2011-08-14 01:58:32

Unfortunatly, I have had to sit back for years and years and watch this situation unfold. My parents are 3 bankruptcys in and now in serious limbo with the all mighty IRS. My dad in mid 60's still working his butt off. He is the hardest working, most delightful man you will ever know. Poor guy is in such distress now and you can see it all over his face. Makes my cry. My mom works along side him at his job helping in any way she can be in assistance.

After handing over their 100K retirement to my brother (starving artist) to get his career up and moving, they took a 30K hit from early withdrawl. The 30K on top of taxes previously owed has now increased to a 80K back tax owed to the IRS.

Well, they levied my dad's paycheck yesterday and took everything except $200!! How does anyone live on that? Their electricity bill is $500!

If i had any money to give them, i most absoultly would. They would do anything for my brothers, grandbabies and I. It stinks that i can;t financially float them til they come up with a agreement with the IRS.

Well, now i am at a point where I dont know what I can do for them. I have offered to help sell of some of their valubles to get them some fast cash but they really dont have much of any value.

So, this is a last ditch effort to see if anyone out their has soft place in their heart for 2 grandparents with big hearts but bigger problems!

I figured it's worth a try, right? Any amount could help them buy groceries or pay a bill. Anything!

Please bless them with your ability to be blessed to do so.

Money issues can happpen to anyone in this economy.

Much appreciation to all who read and those who act! Thanks a bilion!!

need urgent help

Posted by prouddad3 on 2011-07-06 17:58:40

So for the best interest for my family I have recently moved over 900 miles from my family and my wifes family with our two boys and july 1st came our first daughter and last child. Seeing as how I did not want to miss my daughters birth or leave my wife stranded at the house alone with a 7yr old 1 yr old and 5 day old infant I had to take time off work. This time was unpaid and me being the only one working and only making $10.75 an hour it is hard enough to pay my bills when I work my normal shceduled days. I normally find myself working 72 to 84 hours a week to make it by. I rarely swallow my pride and ask for help but this last week off work has put me into a deep hole and fear that a downward trend in money is going to follow. Please help I work my butt off to support my family and can't get help anywhere else. I along with my three kids and wife would be eternally grateful and will not forget the help. What goes around comes around. if you wish to contact me the best way is my work email johnathon.shanks@qg.com
Thank you

Johnathon Shanks

How Generous Can Americans Be?

Posted by snakegod77 on 2011-06-24 20:58:28

Here's the deal. I work my butt off and my wife stays home with the kids. She works part time nights and weekends. We try to keep them involved in activites but its really hard with lack of time and money.

Well i decided to see how generous we Americans really are and just ask for some cash. I kinda figured since i see some people ask for money on street corners i could just give it a shot on the internet. I use Paypal and can accept any donations there. My email is snakemanx7@yahoo.com.

I really want to be straight forward and to the point. So if you have any questions, please ask!

Family of four in need of help!

Posted by mhorton_86 on 2011-04-17 22:58:56

My family (Fiance James, my two daughters Calione 5 and Serenity 10 months) are in serious need of help. My fiance busts his butt for 9 dollars an hour MAYBE three days a week. Most weeks he doesn't get work! He is about to lose his work cause he doesn't have a valid i.d. He has an unpaid ticket that we cant pay and I stay at home cause i have too many unpaid tickets and dont have a valid i.d. The only vehicle we have is borrowed and sucks up gas like crazy. It takes 20 dollars a day for James to go to work and back. We are three months behind on rent and are about to be one the streets. Someone please help us!

Please help a young hardworking girl pay for liposuction

Posted by chichidog on 2011-04-13 21:58:12

I am a 19 year old girl living in New York. I am not overweight but a little chubby. I am extremly self conscious. I could deal with my chubbiness if only it was distributed more evenly throughout my body. Instead my fat seems to be all in my butt and thighs. I have tried everything. I have been dieting and exercising since I was 11 years old.Even when I loose weight through dieting and exercising the weight in my butt and thighs is stubborn and will not go away. When I was 16 I even got so desperate that I starved myself by using a friends amphetamines to curb my appetite. Even then the fat remained. I have not worn a bathing suit since I was 12 because I hate how I look even one pieces. I hide my fat by wearing baggy clothes. Because of my unusually large butt I have trouble finding jeans that fit right. Small sizes won't fit over my butt and zipper closed and larger sizes fit over my butt but are much too large at the waist. My jeans always look stupid on me so I wear large long shirts to cover it up.I currently work two jobs. One as a cashier at a dollar store and the other cleaning at a large shoe store. I am saving all of my current earnings to buy a car. As of now I walk to and from work. So please help me if you can. Every penny helps. I'm not looking to use liposuction and plastic surgery to turn into some "perfect" barbie doll. I would just like to be able to wear normal clothes again.

Please Help With My Dream, I Promise to Give Back

Posted by lindabaker on 2011-04-04 17:58:31

Ever since I was in middle school, I've wanted to attend NYU Tisch School of the Arts for Music Theater. Now half of my dream has come true! I have been accepted into their program! Unfortunately, I cannot pay for it. After my aid awards, expenses are $40,000 a year, and I can't take out a lot of loans! My dad lives in Peru and never sends me a dime, my grandma is ill and unemployed, and my mom is a teacher who is currently undergoing a salary freeze. As the child of a single parent, I have don't necessarily have the funds to pay for my education! My mom can't take out any loans, so all of the loans would be in my name, and there is no way I can ever pay off all this money! I'm Latin American, fluent in spanish, have a 104% cumulative GPA, am second in my class, have a 2200 cumulative SAT score, almost 300 hours of community service, volunteer for four organizations, have one lots of random awards/honors...do I really need to say more? I've worked my butt off to get this far! And all of this hard work has sadly reaped very little aid. Please, if you have any extra cash, help me go to college!

Please, help me go to college!

Posted by elenamillaa on 2011-04-02 16:58:52

Ever since I was in middle school, I've wanted to attend NYU Tisch School of the Arts for Music Theater. Now half of my dream has come true! I have been accepted into their program! Unfortunately, I cannot pay for it. After my aid awards, expenses are $40,000 a year, and I can't take out a lot of loans! My dad lives in Peru and never sends me a dime, my grandma is ill and unemployed, and my mom is a teacher who is currently undergoing a salary freeze. As the child of a single parent, I have don't necessarily have the funds to pay for my education! My mom can't take out any loans, so all of the loans would be in my name, and there is no way I can ever pay off all this money! I'm Latin American, fluent in spanish, have a 104% cumulative GPA, am second in my class, have a 2200 cumulative SAT score, almost 300 hours of community service, volunteer for four organizations, have one lots of random awards/honors...do I really need to say more? I've worked my butt off to get this far! And all of this hard work has sadly reaped very little aid. Please, if you have any extra cash, help me go to college!

Single mom with disability needs desperate help fast please

Posted by Wonderfly5 on 2011-02-26 07:58:51

Hi. I'm a single mom of two. I've been divorced for almost two yrs. I was recently diagnosed with PTSD. When I was 17 I was gang rapped and brutally abused. It went on for awhile until I finally got away. Long long story short I finished school and worked my butt off and bought a house. I got married and had two kids. The marriage became horrible. Abused mentally and physically , finally I was done after 13 yrs with him. During this time I developed severe panic attacks that left me scared to death to leave the house. I went to counseling day after day. I was given a service dog to help me become social again. The panic is still really bad. I feel so bad for my kids. I want to take them places and have fun but I'm to scared to be in public. Now because of all this it is impossible fore to hold a job. I have tried and tried and no one will have me if I keep calling out or leaving early due to panic. I finally was approved for food stamps. That was a blessing. I haven't paid my mortgage on almost two yr and could be foreclosed on any day. I'm so scared for me and my kids. I don't know why to do. I need to try to keep my house. I need money for utility bills. Can someone please find it somewhere in there heart to help me. I've sold almost everything I own for extra cash and I've tried selling Avon and at home jobs and nothing is working. I am friend begging here for some help. I just want to succeed for my kids. They r so good to me and understanding. They r 7 and 8. Boy and girl. I love them so much. Please please help me. THANX so much for taking the time to reD my story. NB<3

In dire need of monetary help

Posted by downandoutgrandma on 2011-01-29 14:58:58

I am a grandmother of 2 grandsons. They live with me and I recently had a surgery to remove a foo and a half of my colon. One week after I had the surgery, my job called me and fired me over the phone...nice right? I am about to be evicted from my apartment and I am about to lose my car. I also have medical bills that need to be paid, along with all the utility bills. My electriciy was turned off, but I was able to ask a fiend for the money to get it turned back on. I have been a nurse for 12 years, but I can't go back to work right now. I also was recently diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis. It is kicking my butt. Every joint hurts and it's very hard to get out of bed every morning, plus running after my 2yr old and 1yr old grandson just about kills me. I need clothing for them and toys/books for them. I don't want to be put out on the streets with my beautiful grandchildren. It's not their fault that the only person they have to rely on is me. One thing for sure is that they keep me going. If it weren't for them I would just give up completely, but I can't because I have these 2 precious sweeties to take careof. Please help me!!!!!

Government Taking It All From Family of 6

Posted by ashleesanchez on 2010-12-15 16:58:58

The Government is putting a lien on our condo, and freezing both our personal and business account for taxes

Hello,
My name is Ashlee(27), and my husband is Luis(30).
We are highschool sweethearts, and have been together since I was 16.
We have four beautiful children, ranging from 9 years old to one.

Six years ago, my husband and I started a cleaning company with a borrowed vacuum. There were many times when we were both ready to throw in the rag, literally. However, we both knew that if we gave up on our business we would both be stuck working full times jobs, and our children would be raised by daycare workers, that is not what we wanted.
We were able to buy a three bedroom condo.(we had one child at the time)
We worked our butt off, we paid our bills, we took care of our children, and we sponsered children through World Vision, we helped others in need.
After completeing our taxes a few years ago, we noticed that we were in big trouble with the government, just in personal taxes we have to pay $14,000. That was a few years ago.

Our taxes we just completed, and currently we owe $50,000. We cant pay that, we dont have extra money once bills are paid, and food is put on the table. There is no extra. They dont understand that and just look at the end number.
The government is trying to put a lien on our condo, as well as freeze both our personal and business accounts. We dont want to claim personal and business bankrupcy, however thats what it looks like might be happening in the New Year.

I know that we put ourself in this situation, however we have always tried to do the right thing, but now are being pulled down and set back, and pushed into poverty.

Please if you are able to help my family through this situation, we will be forever greatful.
Thank You & God Bless
Love and Peace to All

Government Taking It All From Family of 6

Posted by ashleesanchez on 2010-12-15 16:58:58

The Government is putting a lien on our condo, and freezing both our personal and business account for taxes

Hello,
My name is Ashlee(27), and my husband is Luis(30).
We are highschool sweethearts, and have been together since I was 16.
We have four beautiful children, ranging from 9 years old to one.

Six years ago, my husband and I started a cleaning company with a borrowed vacuum. There were many times when we were both ready to throw in the rag, literally. However, we both knew that if we gave up on our business we would both be stuck working full times jobs, and our children would be raised by daycare workers, that is not what we wanted.
We were able to buy a three bedroom condo.(we had one child at the time)
We worked our butt off, we paid our bills, we took care of our children, and we sponsered children through World Vision, we helped others in need.
After completeing our taxes a few years ago, we noticed that we were in big trouble with the government, just in personal taxes we have to pay $14,000. That was a few years ago.

Our taxes we just completed, and currently we owe $50,000. We cant pay that, we dont have extra money once bills are paid, and food is put on the table. There is no extra. They dont understand that and just look at the end number.
The government is trying to put a lien on our condo, as well as freeze both our personal and business accounts. We dont want to claim personal and business bankrupcy, however thats what it looks like might be happening in the New Year.

I know that we put ourself in this situation, however we have always tried to do the right thing, but now are being pulled down and set back, and pushed into poverty.

Please if you are able to help my family through this situation, we will be forever greatful.
Thank You & God Bless
Love and Peace to All

Beauty

Posted by MorganMorning on 2010-12-12 18:58:58

Help me be the kind of girl you like to pass when walking down the street. I am not an unattractive female, but I am over weight and have a few flaws I would like to...repair.
I am relatively healthy and looks are not the most important thing in the world and you could make a more traditional charitable contribution elsewhere, or you could say this is interesting and get a kick out of helping a young lady look her best.
I have never had plastic surgery before, and I am not interested in changing my overall appearance and creating a completely unnatural look for myself. I just want to improve some things and I cannot afford to do that without your financial contributions.
~I like my breasts, they are set high on my chest, nice and naturally round a very nice solid C cup, cute pert nipples, but I'm not 19 anymore and I would like a little lift nothing drastic no augmentation no reduction, just a lift.
~I like my face, I like my normal sized forehead, my nice not to thin not too thick eyebrows that feature a strong though not severe natural arch. I like my pretty and frequently complemented green eyes and their decent lashes that need only a coat of mascara to stand out, but I hate the furrows in my forehead, the crease in my brow and fear crow’s feet.
~My natural body shape leans toward the "hour glass figure" bigger breasts and butt than waist. However my shape seems to have gotten lost recently and no matter how much I change the foods I eat or the frequency that I eat them, I can never seem to lose more than 60 pounds :( and exercising helps me to feel great, but I really only firm up, I don't shrink. I am not looking to be a stick figure; I just want my nice natural shape back.
~I like my lips; someone once said to me, "you have Clara Bow lips" turns out Clara Bow was a silent film star. So my lips are beautiful and I worry about getting lines around them or losing their fullness, but I do not smoke and do not have any lines there yet. :)
I do not have kids, I am a good deal less than 40 and I enjoy outdoor activities. Help me keep the outdoors beautiful! ;)
F.Y.I.:
*The average cost of a breast lift varies from $3,500 to $6,000. Cost for anesthesia ranges from $1,000 to $1,300. The facility fee (or hospital fee) ranges from $500 to $1,500. The remaining cost is the surgeon's fee.
* The average cost of botox injections is around $450 - $500 per injection. Multiple injections are usually given at one time, so the cost can add up quickly.
*Portrait Plasma Skin regeneration (high energy, PSR3) is an exceptionally safe skin resurfacing modality when used by an experienced practitioner (it is somewhat technique dependent). Charge for a PSR3 can be $3500 and up, depending on the skin type. PSR1 treatments (low energy, multiple treatments) typically run $1500 for full-face treatment.
*Juvederm cost typically ranges between $800 and $1,300 per syringe, depending on the formula used and other factors. In some cases, a second syringe may be needed for a fully satisfactory outcome. Some practices may offer a reduced rate for the second syringe in these cases. ArteFill treatment now costs $1,000 per syringe. You may want to ask your doctor about payment plan options.
*Typically, Liposuction will cost an individual between USD $4,000 for 2 small areas and as much as USD $10,000 for 5 areas, but your Liposuction surgeon will have a more specific idea of the Liposuction cost after a consultation. On average, Liposuction in the U.S. costs $2,000 per body area treated. While the cost of the lower and mid body lift procedure generally ranges from $6,000 to $8,000, a full body lift typically costs $10,000 to $17,000, but can go up to $50,000 depending on the extent of treatment. The only way to determine the exact cost of lower or upper body lift surgery is to contact a plastic surgeon in your area for a full consultation.