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Help paying for a special needs school for my son
Posted by Formyson on 2012-04-05 13:58:45
My son was recently accepted into a special needs private school. This school will help him where his public school has not been able to. It will give him a chance to learn and to get a better at the frustration he feels when he is unable to understand an assignment. He is also a severe asthmatic, who has been to the emergency room over 20 times in his young life. He is only 9. He is also allergic to dairy, eggs, wheat, beef , seafood,nuts and several other foods.
Due to his asthma and food allergies, I am also a young single mother and money is restricted. He thankfully received a partial scholarship to the school, but I am having trouble coming up with a portion of the remainder. I would appreciate any help from anyone out there. I need to come of with $10,000.
Even if nobody can help, I thank you for considering it.
Donations for Dogs in need
Posted by nontoxic on 2012-02-10 14:58:40
https://www.wepay.com/donations/doggies
Leaving a Domestic Violence Situation with 2 small children
Posted by domesticabusesurvivor on 2012-01-25 22:58:50
First hurdle, I had to overcome is finding a place for myself, 3 year old daughter and 1 year old son to live. There is a very limited amount of shelters for women with children, so we ended up staying with my bff in her 1 bed/ 1 bath 695 sqft apartment. While this is only temporary I am glad we at least have somewhere to lay our heads at night. Not to mention I work, 67 miles from my BFF's residence, and my kids school is another 80 miles away. This commute has almost been impossible to make, but my choices are limited at this point.
The things I so desperately need help with now is ANYTHING in your heart or power to do. Donations thru paypal are great and would help tremendously. I have to find a place closer to work and my children's school, I have my daughters school tuition of $385 due every month.I am lucky that her school is working with me considering the circumstances. I also still have to buy diapers and wipes, and organic food because my son has asthma and allergies. I never wanted to be rich, I just don't want to have to worry every week. I hope to be in a better position one day where my fiances not only allow me to live but also to help out anyone else in need.
Domestic Violence is such a mind game, it took me 12 years to see beyond the tricks and realize the damage it has done to not only myself but my two small children who are like sponges. Their behavior lately has me thinking that they will definitely have to go to family counseling in the near future.
Anything that is in your power to do will be so greatly appreciated. .50, $1, $5....whatever will help me rebuild our family unit. My husband mot helping me or focusing on the kids is his way of getting to me, but I cannot and will not ever go back. If anything please keep my children in your prayers, I hurt for them because I could not provide them with a traditional two -parent home. They are getting the short end of the stick and as a mother who is all about her kids...it hurts! Thank you for taking the time to read my story. If you are in a similar situation my prayers go out to you as well.
Please visit my link on paypal at: https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&hosted_button_id=CEFNFPGL57LDE
Without hope
Posted by mycologyluvr on 2012-01-12 20:58:06
My Parents are both Sick and I have a Son
Posted by msescalicas on 2011-11-25 11:58:07
Asking For $1 or So For My Son
Posted by December2011 on 2011-09-15 12:58:26
I have been doing great financially by doing babysitting to get some income since I have not been able to get a job while pregnant-even with the help of employment agencies. However, I have been put on bedrest-which means NO more income coming in. My mother is helping out the best she can, and while I appreciate it-times are getting rough. I am asking for help please in getting some of the essentials I need for the last trimester of my pregnancy.
(My son has clothes, the furniture, and everything else-I just want to make sure he comes healthy!)
I am in need of prenatals and food supplements soon. These things I normally order online (because I have to specially order my prenatals due to allergies, and food because I am on a special diet and the bars are cheaper to order in bulk online.)My Doctor has had me on food supplements because I continuously have been losing weight from morning sickness, and now my son isn't gaining weight like he should. With only 13 weeks left in the pregnancy, now is where the weight gain matters.
Anyway you would be willing to help would be greatly appreciated. If you are only willing to donate a dollar, or two, or five! Anything helps and is greatly appreciated. I just want to have a healthy son. Thank you and God Bless!
Please Help Desperate Mom
Posted by kcaron on 2011-04-24 22:58:26
If someone is reading this, please find it in your heart to help/donate to a wonderful little boy who is a gift to the world! I would be forever grateful!
Please Help Desperate Mom
Posted by kcaron on 2011-04-24 22:58:24
Desperate Times Call For Desperate Measures
Posted by kcaron on 2011-04-24 22:58:23
Please Help Desperate Mom
Posted by kcaron on 2011-04-24 22:58:22
If someone is reading this, please find it in your heart to help/donate to a wonderful little boy who is a gift to the world! I would be forever grateful!
Please Help Desperate Mom
Posted by kcaron on 2011-04-23 20:58:28
If someone is reading this, please find it in your heart to help/donate to a wonderful little boy who is a gift to the world! I would be forever grateful!
Coming Together For Cody
Posted by codysmama on 2011-02-12 21:58:58
Please visit our page listed above to help Cody!
Our little Cody has not been well. Since he was just a month or so old he has had a problem choking when he eats. Around the time that he was eight months old we noticed he was having these choking episodes with much more frequency and they were becoming more severe. It got to the point where we were afraid to even give him a bottle without having the phone ready to call 911!
We took him to his doctor, who suggested we see a feeding specialist. And so began our journey.....
Right away Rosie (the specialist) noticed that Cody had trouble moving his tongue and chewing food. He tended to rush when he ate and that caused even more choking, but he was choking on everything- even just water. After a horrifying episode during one of his sessions, in which Cody choked on a piece of bread and turned blue, Rosie and Dr. Pepper (Cody's doctor) decided it was time for a Swallow Study.
During the study our little Cody enjoyed every last bit of barium as we watched him mash up food and try to swallow it. The speech therapist who was monitoring the test noticed that Cody's esophagus didn't seem to be moving quite right, he rarely chewed and had a lot of acid reflux going on. Aside from those observations, Cody had Oral Dysphagia as well. Those findings led us to an Upper GI Study that ruled out some really bad stuff, but Cody started having new symptoms. He was having difficulty breathing and had to be on nebulizer treatments, was increasingly grumpy, was gassy and had a very full looking belly that hurt so badly sometimes that he couldn't give us hugs. It wasn't long until he slowed down on his eating and Dr. Pepper decided it was time for a trip to Denver Children's Hospital.
In Denver Cody met a Pediatric Gastroenterologist and Pulmonary doctor who read his records and checked him in for several more tests. An Endoscopy and a Broncoscopy turned up a very nice looking esophagus (even the biopsies looked good!) but some pretty bad asthma. They placed a tube in his nose for another test called a PH Impedence Study to measure what was coming back up form the stomach and during which times it was happening. This was all very hard on our tiny little man. He had a horrible reaction to the anethesia which forced him to have to be hooked up to monitors. Anyone who knows our Cody knows what a busy little guy he is!
The results were confusing, though, because Cody had been on a medication that was supposed to help with motility and we knew it did SOMETHING for him- but with his great looking esophagus we weren't sure what it was helping with. If his esophagus was moving fine, why did a drug that was supposed to help it move make him feel a little better? The doctors decided to do a Gastric Emptying Study as well. Cody was NOT happy because he couldn't eat for yet another day. If you know our Cody- you know he loves to eat!
The next day we did the study and it didn't take long to get the results. In the time it takes the average stomach to empty, Cody's stomach had only emptied 7% of it's contents. The medication had been helping his little belly move. Unfortunately, it has some nasty side effects and he can't go back on it. They are currently trying him on a low dose of Erythromycin, which is the last medication available to treat Gastroparesis (Delayed Gastric Emptying), according to our medical team.
We soon got the results of the tube they placed in his nose, as well. Cody has a pretty big reflux problem, too. Since his belly is so slow to empty, his acid has no place to go but up. No wonder he is so grumpy. The constant flow of acid is also a huge trigger for the breathing problems he is having. They are now trying him on both Zantac and Prevacid- both drugs that have not worked well alone, but we are praying they will work better together.
We are trying hard to give Cody small meals throughout the day and to incorporate all the nutrients he needs, but its hard. With the delayed emptying we are supposed to avoid high fat and high fiber foods. We already have to avoid eggs, dairy, soy, berries and nuts due to allergies, so you can imagine what a challenge we have on our hands!
Cody's GI doctors have recomended 2-3 surgeries, including a feeding tube. Gastroparesis is a Dysmotility Disorder. There is a small chance he could outgrow this and there is also a small chance it is actually caused by something treatable- although in 60% of the cases there is no known cause.
In order to fully understand Cody's condition, why he has it and what all the options are, as well as how to care for him properly- we need to take him to Columbus, Ohio to see one of the very few Dysmotility Specialists in the country. We have no idea how long we'll have to be there or how much of this trip will come out of our pockets. Cody's insurance does not cover any travel expenses and will likely not cover any repeat testing he may need. He is currently on a modified diet and they don't cover the costs of any of that, either.
We are asking that our friends, family and anyone who is able come together to help us- both financially and spiritually. We need the finances to get us there and keep us going even when we can't work due to surgery or whatever may come; and we need your prayers and support to keep us strong as we try to manage this difficult and unfamiliar situation. We want so badly for our baby to feel better- he has brought us so much joy and is truely our little sunshine!
Thank you all so much for taking the time to read our story and for doing what you can!
Trying desperately to remove myself, two rescue dogs and 5 rescue cats, from a sadistic abuser
Posted by mhrainbowfright on 2011-01-28 14:58:58
Trying desperately to remove myself, two rescue dogs and 5 rescue cats, from a sadistic abuser
Posted by mhrainbowfright on 2011-01-28 13:58:58
Single Dad looking for some help to continue to take care of their little girl
Posted by lilhoneysdad on 2010-10-26 20:58:58
Let me start by saying thank you for even visiting a site like this and taking the time to read my post. I wish things were different in my life and I did not have to resort to asking strangers for help But I dont know what else to do. Im not asking for a total resolution to all my financial problems we all have them Im just asking for what might be a little to someone but would make a HUGE difference in mine and my daughters life. I am a single Father of a beautiful 7 year old little girl who means that absolute world to me. Unfortunately things did not work out between me and her mother. I am a very responsible Father and I have been a VERY big part of her life since day 1. My daughter is with me EVERY SINGLE weekend and I LOVE spending as much time as possible with her. She is my little sidekick, my mini-me, we are 2 peas in a pod, frick & frack. If I knew being Daddy was going to be this much fun, I would have started when I was 18 and had several children. I still one day would like to have more, but it does not look like life is going to allow that to happen. I also have NEVER been called a dead-beat dad, never missed a child-support payment, and I provide my daughters medical insurance. This is where my problem starts. I have been working fulltime since I was 11 years old and now I am 37. I worked at what I thought was going to be the job I retire from. I had medical coverage for myself and my daughter that, although it was still costing me and arm and a leg, it was still affordable. For the first 5 years of my daughters life, I was able to provide decent-to-good medical insurance through the company. My daughters pediatrician was the same pediatrician her mom, aunt and 2 uncles all went to so she has been very familiar with the entire family history. This is something that I find to be very important for my daughters health. My daughter has asthma and several allergies. She takes 2 different inhalers daily (Flovent & Xopenex). Her condition has always been under very good control due to her pediatrician recognizing things early on and issuing the proper treatments. Everything has been fine up until the economy went south about 2 years ago. The company I worked for started doing lay-offs. I took that as a sign that I better do whatever I can to make sure I am not one of the people being laid off because I had my daughter to take care of and provide for. I worked nearly 10-12 hours a day Monday through Friday for a little over a year. With 2 of the bosses that were above me being laid off right away, I went into work every single day doing whatever I could to help the company survive and become stronger all around to help prevent as many lay-offs as possible. It got to the point that the company did have to file for bankruptcy protection- chapter 11. Even then, I worked even harder. Eventually things began to turn around and my hard work and dedication I believed was going to pay off. I was happy until the new owner who purchased the company out of bankruptcy came into town. Even with my hard work and dedication and me being a HUGE part of the companys survival, I was told I was going to be laid off. I was being replaced because the new owner already had someone for my position without even meeting me. I was not the only one, there were several of us that were replaced with the owners new staff. The only decent thing the new owner did do was give us all a 3 week notice. Fortunately enough, I went immediately to a competing company and they hired me. It was for roughly $7,000/year less and they offered medical insurance, but a much lower plan with a different insurance company. Again, my only concern was providing for my daughter, not myself. I took the job because it still pays much more than unemployment would have and if I were to collect unemployment, I couldnt take care of my daughter with medical insurance like she needs. During this same time, my daughters mom was able to get employment. Due to the waiting period at my new employer before I could get medical insurance, I agreed to have my daughter put on her mothers insurance plan and I would simply reimburse her. It started out being $350/month to have my daughter added to her plan which would keep her at her pediatrician and there would be no lapse in coverage for her but within 3 months, it went up to $404/month. That is the rate it has been at for the last year. It has gotten to the point where between child support and medical insurance, and not to mention a student loan I think Ill be paying off for the rest of my life, Im left with roughly $300 every 2 weeks. Out of this $300, I need to provide food for myself, gas for the car to get to work every day and to pick up my daughter every weekend, who lives 1 hour away now because I no longer could afford my apartment and moved back home with my 72 year old step-father and my 68 year-old disable mother who has muscular dystrophy. I have attempted to talk with my daughters mother about putting my daughter now on my insurance plan which is $130/month less and MUCH less coverage, but, if we were to do that, my daughter would have to change pediatrician because the doctor does not participate in the insurance my employer offers, plus it is a much lower plan and my daughters 2 inhalers are not covered under my very low prescription plan. Over a course of a year, I would wind up paying even more. This is where your GREATLY APPRECIATED donation would come in and be put to use. Again, Im not looking to be bailed out of all my financial woes, I want to be able to continue to take care of my beautiful daughter the way I have been her whole life and the way she deserves. Every day Im still trying to figure out a way to get through this, in fact, this is how I even found this website. I hope that something will turn out in my favor. This is also not my only attempt to get through this. I try to stay positive and I have been applying to many different jobs in hope that I can find a job that would pay more than my current rate or pay for medical insurance + child that participates with my daughters pediatrician at an affordable cost. If you can find it in your heart to help a good, genuine, honest, very loving Father with a little temporary relief until something works out whether it be a new job, or hopefully a raise in a few month please make a donation. Anything is greatly appreciated and I thank you in advance. Please help.
Special needs son needs therapy equipment
Posted by SingleStrugglingMom on 2010-09-26 10:58:58
*Born with torticollis- had physical therapy twice a week for 15 months
*Diagnosed with severe allergies at 5 months- have to avoid milk, eggs, soy, dogs, cats, dust, pollen, mold and use a breathing machine up to 3 times a day
*Diagnosed with macrocephaly at 6 months- extra fluid on his brain
*Diagnosed with hypotonia at 6 months- low muscle tone- wears leg braces
Just when I thought I had a handle on all these therapies and treatments, his behavior prgressively bacame very strange, he would curl up to sleep in his toy box, he was constantly hitting his head on walls or the floor, jumping or purposely falling off tall objects, stuffing his mouth, wanting food and eating as much as an adult... after months of trying to get a diagnosis we finally got a therapist that understood it all.
*Diagnosed with Sensory Integration Dsfunction at 23 months- hypo and hyper sensitive to all senses- needed extra pressure to feel being touched, and couldnt tell if he is hungry or full...
In order to provide him with sensory outlets to keep him calm and able to function in daily life we need to have some things at home that are safe for him to get that kind of stimulation he needs (rather than falling or banging his head). What has been reccomended to me is a therapy swing ($1500) and a sensory ball pit ($200) those are just two things that could help him among many many other things but this is all I could see as being reasonable to purchase.
I work and go to college full time in hopes that I one day wont be living paycheck to paycheck, however at this time I am in desperate need of some help to get these things for my son to help him function day to day. I save what I can from paychecks but its never much since some months I can barely afford the bills. Anything you can help with would be greatly appreciated. Thank you for reading our story.
Amber and Kaden
Cash As Soon As Possible
Posted by everyonecan on 2010-08-25 09:58:58
Every Boy Should Have a Dog
Posted by ProjectPuppy on 2010-07-05 16:58:58
For a loooooong time, Ive wanted to adopt a puppy. We couldnt have one when I was a kid (allergies, parents, etc.), then for a long time I lived in the city. I know, I know, there are plenty of city dogs and its quite possible to give them wonderful lives, but I just wasnt sure my lifestyle would allow for that. Personally, for my ambition as a dog caretaker, I resolved not to seriously entertain bringing home a canine companion until I had a fenced yard that he could enjoy and relax in without being leashed or strictly supervised. Just under two years ago, I moved into my very first house, with a great big yard and a nice tall fence. Perfect, right?
Seemingly, yes. At first, the house needed a lot of work. The previous occupants had kept dogs, but were not terribly responsible about it. So, there was a lot of rehabbing to be done to floors, walls, woodwork and carpet. I really wanted to bring a puppy home, but I had to do it right. Have the infrastructure and resources all in place, really set us up for success, yknow? The plan was to adopt near the beginning of summer vacation (Im a teacher), so wed have plenty of time to bond, and train, and acclimate and play and socialize and... you get the picture. Things were looking good, and then... I lost my job.
Again, not wanting to leave the door open for failure, Project Puppy had to be postponed. I have a second (and now a third... and half a fourth) job, and some savings and other resources, so its not like Im in real danger of becoming homeless. BUT, taking on additional, non-elective expenses right now wouldnt be fiscally responsible. Unless, of course, I have help; thats where you come in.
It occurs to me, that oftentimes in the community of dog lovers, that when someone has a litter or finds a stray or has to move, and looks to place their pooch in a home rather than abandon them to a shelter, they reach out to their networks of friends and fellow-dog-lovers. So often Ive overheard the phrase, Ohhh, Id love to, but... dont have the space/money/time for another dog, the wife/husband/landlord would kill me, Ill ask around... I know that many donate generously to the ASPCA and various rescue organizations, on top of whatever is spent providing furry friends with toys and treats galore. I thought that perhaps, some of these dog lovers who have already filled their own homes to capacity with paws and leashes, might be willing to contribute to keeping at least one pup out of the system and in a comfortable home; and Project Puppy was born.
If youve got the dime, Ive got the time. The house is in order, the backyard is all set, Ive done a fair amount of research and dogsitting. Ive got a small network of dog-friends to socialize with and a reliable de facto sitter if I should ever need to travel out of town. The last missing piece is the available fundage to provide food, equipment, vet care, etc. I figure if I can scrape together $1000, that should be adequate for a years worth of normal care. Maybe a little more, considering the initial outlay of bowls and a leash and a bed. If you support the cause, and care to throw a dollar or two in the pot, Ill squirrel these funds away specifically for this purpose, and every little bit helps. Like child support, except this child is kinda hairy and has really harsh breath and I will never ask you for a paternity test. If you cant afford to donate, but know someone who would, maybe youll forward them a link so they can come read?
Thats about as far as Ive thought this web plea through. My owner taught me not to beg, but Ive a feeling that if enough people just read this site, I wont need to. Ill keep the site updated with how close we are to the goal, and hopefully once we succeed, pictures/videos/updates on the little guys progress. Thanks for your time, and your generosity!
http://www.project-puppy.com/
