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About to be evicted.. Please help!!

Posted by Jenro211 on 2012-05-16 09:58:56

I was laid off from my job a couple years ago in that time frame I was collecting unemployment and return back to school. In the midst of everything I separated from my live in boyfriend at the time and found myself in a jam. I seek help frm social service for housing and everything was going according to plan, I found a location who agreed to take me in with state assistance rent. I moved in with the landlord permission and assumption that she would be paid accordingly;however, because I was finally blesse with a reliable job the state ended up not persuing what was said and never paid the landlord... When the landlord advise me of this I immediately seeked answers. Social service said basically I have a job. Could pay and so I did, Ive paid my rent every month but now landlord wants to evict me for the amount owed from social service I've done everything possible to work something out with the landlord and nothing. I have no place to go and I am a single mother and can't afford in one sum what the landlord is seeking, Im asking for any financial assistance, donation ANYTHING to come up with the amount of $3,500 ASAP... Before being evicted. Thank you in advance and god bless.

mEDICAL HELP

Posted by mackDES on 2012-05-07 13:58:14

I have a fiend who is going a tough time with peripheral neuropathy, Please open your hearts and wallets to offset THE mounting medical bills he is incurring. All donations will go towards treatment. He is indigent. HE LIVES IN A HOMELESS SHELTER AND DRAWS 600$ + DOLLARS IN SOCIAL SECURITY DISABILITY. UNFORTUNATELY THEY ARE VERY SELECTIVE ABOUT WHICH DRUGS THEY WILL PAY FOR.The prognosis is not good he will likely be paralyzed completly from the neck within two years. All they can do now is try to buy him time. hE HAS ASKED THAT I ASSIST WITH EUTHANASIA AT SUCH A TIME AS IT REACHES HIS UPPER BODY AND i HAVE Agreed. If I can get this to at least several hundred sites, I believe I can assist him financiaLLY. aLL DONATIONS WILL BE SPENT UPON HIS CARE.

Donations can be sent to:
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(DUAL ORDINATION BY THE UNIVERSAL LIFE CHURCH AND CHURCH OF SPIRITUAL HUMANISM 4 DEC 02)
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mEDICAL

Posted by mackDES on 2012-05-07 13:58:12

I have a fiend who is going a tough time with peripheral neuropathy, Please open your hearts and wallets to offset THE mounting medical bills he is incurring. All donations will go towards treatment. He is indigent. HE LIVES IN A HOMELESS SHELTER AND DRAWS 600$ + DOLLARS IN SOCIAL SECURITY DISABILITY. UNFORTUNATELY THEY ARE VERY SELECTIVE ABOUT WHICH DRUGS THEY WILL PAY FOR.The prognosis is not good he will likely be paralyzed completly from the neck within two years. All they can do now is try to buy him time. hE HAS ASKED THAT I ASSIST WITH EUTHANASIA AT SUCH A TIME AS IT REACHES HIS UPPER BODY AND i HAVE Agreed. If I can get this to at least several hundred sites, I believe I can assist him financiaLLY. aLL DONATIONS WILL BE SPENT UPON HIS CARE.

Donations can be sent to:
Reverend CONNIE MACK CRAWLEY
(DUAL ORDINATION BY THE UNIVERSAL LIFE CHURCH AND CHURCH OF SPIRITUAL HUMANISM 4 DEC 02)
3403 E Division Street
Mount Juliet, TN 37122I

Trying to fix the damage my own uncles and aunts forced on my family

Posted by FamilyMan1986 on 2012-05-05 05:58:20

Sometime ago, my grandparents, Anthony and Mercedes passed away within 2 years with my grandpa being first, but before that came about, my grandparents dying wish, was that after they passed, that the money they had saved up would be split between me, my uncles, aunts, father, mother and sister. So my uncles and aunts promised my grandparents they would do that, we all agreed.

Also, my grandma wanted a big funeral with everyone she knew to be there. But after she passed, my uncles just disappeared, and my aunt Gloria robbed my grandma out of her own funeral, she only invited 6 people out of 50, stole all the money that was supposed to be for the funeral and split between us all, which totaled up to a little over $100,000, and she took it all for herself and her husband, moved to Nevada, and pretended like my mom, dad, sister and me didn't even exist, worst then that, is that she never apologized, my uncle Dave did nothing, and either did any of my cousins.

They promised to fulfill my grandparents dying wish, and I believed them, my grandparents believe them, and in the end, they stole from their own parents, my grandparents. I begged my aunt for an answer on why she did what she did, and she never came clean, she never once admitted she was wrong, and worst then that, she ignored me, and my mom, dad and sister. It's just the four of us, and we're financially struggling worst then ever before, because we were betrayed. This has effected my sister the most, because her depression has been getting worst, and because of it, she has tried to kill herself a few times because of how things turned out, but she didn't, although I couldn't stop her from cutting herself.

I am currently the only healthy person in my family right now. My mom is disabled and has cerebral palsy, my father is ex-military who is also disabled, and just recently, he was hit by a car and can no longer work, and my sister has asthma. I'm 25 years old and currently unemployed, despite the fact I went to college, I can't find a job anywhere. My mom too, went to college, earned her degree, and she can't find a job either. I worked for a several years, but was let go because business was slow. Since then, I've been selling my stuff left and right just to get through and to help my family, but it's not enough.

If there is anyone out there that can help me and my family, I would be eternally grateful and thankful to you, and to the good Lord for this blessing. Thank you so much for taking the time to read this, and God bless you.

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Help me get married!

Posted by kendrashue on 2012-03-29 09:58:40

Hi, my name is Kendra Lynn S. I'm 22 and living in Kansas City, MO. I'm originally from Ashland, KY but I moved to Missouri in August of 2011 to live with my aunt and work for her husband. I needed a change and needed to get away from a life that was killing me in Kentucky. I miss it sometimes and I miss my friends, but I met an amazing man here who loves me with all his heart and I plan to marry him and spend forever with him. We don't have a lot of money but we are getting by, we're just happy to be together. I work 2 jobs and he works full time at a bank, but we're having trouble raising money for a huge step in our wedding planning: I have to declare chapter 7 bankruptcy.
I have $10,043 in medical bill debt from an accident in January 2010 where someone hit me with a 4-wheeler, putting me in a coma for 2 months and then physical therapy and rehab after that. The original bill was $200,000 for the medical costs, but I received a scholarship to cover 95% of the cost because I didn't have health insurance at the time. While I was in a coma, I lost my apartment, fell behind on payments on my school loans, and my bills were sent to collections. Ashland Kentucky is a small town, and we're kind of a small family so I didn't want to press charges on the person who hit me. But when I met my fiancé and we started talking about marriage, I discussed my situation with a lawyer to determine what I should do.
We want to be able to buy a house in the future, but with this debt the lawyer was afraid that my credit will hinder that. The lawyer was also afraid that since my bills are in collections that if I get married that the creditors would seize my fiancé’s assets. My fiancé doesn't have much, but we are sharing his truck since I lost my car and if the creditors took his truck we'd be out the $10,000 remaining on the truck loan and without a vehicle. I decided I would try to press charges just for the cost of filing bankruptcy, but the person who hit me was the sheriff’s son. No police report was ever filed. Small town politics are good in most situations. This is not one of them.
The lawyer tried to do what he could, but Kentucky’s statute of limitations for filing suit against someone is 1 year. By the time I decided I needed to sue, it was too late. So I’m stuck with a bill I can’t pay and it’s the only thing keeping me from marrying the man I love. My mother is a medical transcriptionist in West Virginia, and she’s barely making enough to support herself and her boyfriend so I can’t ask her for help. My father has been in prison my entire life so I don’t really have anyone to turn to for assistance with this. My fiancé’s parents have been very helpful, but they only have so much to help with and they can’t assist us with the bankruptcy.
Me and Trey (my fiancé) are paying for the wedding and the honeymoon entirely by ourselves, on top of keeping up with rent and truck payments and regular bills. Like I said, we’re happy and we’re doing okay living a humble lifestyle. Other people have it worse, I get that and I’m grateful for the love I’ve found and the life I get to spend with him. We wanted to get married in June, but at the rate we’re able to save towards the cost of filing bankruptcy, it could be next year before we could get married, and neither of us want to wait that long.
I already spoke to 1 lawyer and was quoted $1500, two payments of $750. Our finances are so carefully budgeted that and stretched so thin that we just can't do that. My fiancé has stopped eating breakfast and lunch to save money, started riding his bike to work and is doing everything he can to save money. We’ve set aside $300 towards the filing cost. It’s taken us 4 months to do that. We intended on using our tax returns to file, but mine was taken by the creditors and we used his to try to get ahead on our bills. So here’s what I’m asking: any donation towards the cost of filing my bankruptcy would be a huge blessing right now. Some members of our church have offered to assist us, and someone referred us to this site. I
think it’s a great thing that people are willing to help complete strangers out and I wish that I had the resources to help others at this time. We’ve already agreed that we will do whatever we can to help others in need on this site once we can start setting more money aside once we’re married. But right now, I need $1200 total to cover the cost of my bankruptcy, so any donation towards that would be a blessing. Thank you for taking the time to read my story, God Bless!

Please Help Keep The American Dream

Posted by TexasPike on 2012-03-25 16:58:43

Hello,

Recently, I quit my job and started up my own eBay business. It had been a dream all my life, to own my own business. I started just a few months ago, and everything was going flawless. I have a great supplier, great products, and great customer service, etc. While we were new on eBay, they had set limits on how much we could sell and Paypal put 21-day holds on all our funds, till the customers received their items. It was just recently, that we turned into eBay Powersellers and received the status of "Top Rated Sellers".

Everything was going just perfect, up until recently. My mother-in-law needs a LOT of teeth work done. So, I decided I would list my cherished Jimi Hendrix poster online, to raise funds for her teeth work, because my business was new and not to the point of affording $5000 teeth work. I put it up for a 10-day auction and everything was going just fine. About halfway thru my auction, it was generating bids and lots of interest!

Then, the bottom fell out..... A gentleman from California was interested in our poster, and stated that he would like to purchase it. He said if we took the listing down, he would send us $3500. We agreed and took it down. He paid us within 10 minutes! We thought we had hit the jackpot. Not only was my business taking off, now I could afford my mother-in-laws teeth work! The very next day, I put his poster in the mail and we went to pay the down payment at the dentist and a few other bills off. Everything was looking good. Later that night, I received an email from Paypal, that the buyer had put a claim in! He stated that it was not as described, even though he had not even received it yet! It was still in route, thru the postal service. He had buyers remorse and Paypal froze my funds up.

No big deal, I am an eBay Powerseller, I should be able to make the funds really fast, right? No. When a customer buys something from us, we use their money they just paid us, to purchase their part and have it shipped to them. If my Paypal account is frozen and in the red for $3000, I am not able to sell anything or ship anything off!

Now, Paypal has paid the customer back and I am just sitting here trying to figure out what to do next. My dream I had started and finally got off the ground, is now ruined. I worked 20 hour days to get this off the ground, and now feel like a failure. I cannot do anything until the money is paid back. I have no way of doing anything.

I quit my job to do this and we are now struggling. It actually makes me sick, knowing I tried so hard to get to the Powerseller level, to have it all ruined because a customer wanted his money back on an item I had a "No Refund Policy" on. Paypal ruled in his favor without even talking to me.

My Paypal balance is a -$2741.79. I really need help getting it back to ZERO. Please consider a donation for a guy that is really trying to do something with his life. I am a 40 year old male and have been a failure all my life and now I have something that is working, and just when my family started noticing, my hopes were all dashed again. Failure surrounds me.

I could really use any help you can give at this time. I am a "Pay It Forward" type of guy myself. If I am helped out of this mess, I will Pay It Forward in the near future, to a charity in the same amount.

Thanks for your time,
Cody

Single Mom in Dire Ne ed of Assistance with a Legal Case

Posted by snglemomindires on 2012-03-12 20:58:38

Recently, I was arrested on hearsay for a DV charge. The charge was dropped because it was untrue & unjust. I was the one assaulted; the judge concurred. Unfortunately, the altercation occurred at 3am on a Friday morning, on MLK weekend, and so what should've been a 12-hour stay, turned into 5 days. In the interim, my 4-year old daughter was kidnapped by CPS, simply because we have no family there--not for any other reason.
Upon my release, I discover that my daughter's already been handed to a foster home & that a hearing had been set for that morning; no one had even bothered to TRY to contact me about it. In my haste, I rushed to the courthouse next door, oblivious of a marijuana pipe I had in my possession (it may sound cliche, but it wasn't mine; I don't even smoke). I didn't get arrested for having it, but this is where the real problem began.
To make a long story short, I pled guilty ONLY to hurry & get my daughter out of a stranger's house & agreed to have her placed with her VERY part-time father who'd only seen her on average 10 days a year since birth (his choice).
Since then, he's attempted to cut me off from her--denying calls & visits. I obtained an attorney, so thus far I've been allotted ONE day per week for 4 hours to see the child I've raised alone since birth!
Additionally, I've worked for her father for 5 years--he's snatched that from me as well. He went on to choose a facility that costs $180 per visit! So, I have no income now, no employment & I have to drive 7 hours to get there. Friends and family have run out of resources to assist me. I still owe the attorney over $1,000 & until visitation is adjusted I'll have to keep paying this ridiculous amount.
I am not your typical stereotype of this sort of matter. I'm college-educated. So are my parents. I grew up middle-class. This is so unfair to me & my child. I've seen her cry before over an injury or hurt feelings, but never before over a broken heart. I MUST make these visits. If you can and are interested in helping, please click the link below:

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My Story

Posted by Eliabe on 2012-03-11 23:58:20

Hi,

(Note: You may see this same post on beggingmoney.com)

My name is Eliabe. I am an 18-year-old guy from Brazil and I need your donation because I need to move away but I can't afford it.
Let me tell you why.

I grew up being abused by my dad -- emotionally and sexually. I did not realize what was happening until recently. I still have to deal with the consequences. I became social phobic, anxious and depressed. I am still afraid, disgusted of and uncomfortable with touch and closeness, yet I am dying for it. An African therapist agreed to help me for free, so I am getting better but only very recently am I making progress.

Three, almost four, years ago (2008), my family rejected me over religious issues. I wanted to join this Sabbatarian Christian religious association (this particular sect is a minority in Brazil and honestly everywhere else but they're more present in the US and England) and my family rejected me and reproached me so severely that it radically changed my personality. They wanted to throw me away. I was only 15. I had nowhere to go. I was deeply shocked and shaken on the inside. I never knew I could feel so hurt! I had never expected such sudden rejection from them. My mom said I was a disappointment to her and that I would not stay under the same ceiling as hers if I wanted to keep my faith. My siblings made fun of me and my new beliefs. My father demonized me and said he'd take me to their religious authorities to “straighten me out.” They accused me of bringing a curse into our lives and treated me as a shame to the family ("What will others think?" they wondered). My relatives (uncles, aunts, cousins -- I have a big family) were all against me too. I did not tell my friends because they belonged to the same religion as my parents. I started isolating from everybody. I became very deeply depressed. I would sleep just not to have to be awake and suffering.

It was really overwhelming to me. I had nowhere to go, no one to turn to. The congregation was out of town. So I decided to give up on joining that group. However, I did not stop believing in them but I had to pretend to be in my parents' religion on the outside.

But then my life became a nightmare. I had bad dreams at night. I became paranoid. Every time I was outside, I would walk around the house many times before taking the courage to go in. My heart would pound every time the phone or doorbell rang or someone called my name or asked about my religion. I would feel sick and go pale every time someone initiated a conversation about religion with me. I was traumatized. I am only getting better now. I fainted many times as I got weak because my mom refused to cook clean kosher dishes for me. I can’t even begin to describe all the sacrifices and pains I had to go through not to lose my identity. I can’t, for example, go out on a date or have a serious friendship because I am hiding the most important part of myself. Try to have a relationship where you do things you can’t explain the other party. Do you think it can ever work? My friendships are all shallow because of that.

I am a recent high school graduate. I took a basic course on administrative services and telemarketing last year, paid by the government as part of a program in Brazil called “Jovem Aprendiz” (“Young Apprentice” in English). As part of that course, I am working part-time, supposedly to acquire experience in the field, though I actually work as a warehousing assistant in the company (completely unrelated to administrative services). As I only work part-time (4 hours a day), I only receive HALF the minimum wage, which means I earn about $2 per hour. Yes, I could save that money to achieve my goals. It would take over two years but it would be possible. But I can't at the moment because I have to support my parents and siblings. My brother also works and my dad has recently found a job after three years of unemployment but I still have to give them a significant part of my salary or else we will starve. Also, even if I could, I’d still be desperate because I have been suffering for almost FOUR YEARS!

So I want to move away because I want to be free to convert and live my life, have friends, a girlfriend and a normal life. I got a passport and contacts in the United States. They can help me once I am there but they can’t buy my plane tickets as they cost over $800! There are also additional costs as I need a visa. I am currently looking for a job there. There have been people who want to hire me but they stopped contacting me after learning of the costs they would have to pay.
So please help me. It is the ONLY way for me to be happy again! It doesn’t matter how much you donate. It will make a HUGE difference.

Thank you very much. God bless you!

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Young couple in love. Out of options. Completely exasperated. Scared.

Posted by Hopingforhelp on 2012-02-29 17:58:06

I moved in with my girlfriend 2 months ago. I left Boston to come be with her in NYC. My work had run dry until April. She had just been evicted from her apartment by a slumlord landlord who stole her belongings. We were living from paycheck to paycheck. Supporting each other as best we could. We didn't have enough money to get an apartment of our own, so we got a one month sublet, which ended up being a nightmare-living in a closet with our 2 cats, and dealing with the scum of the earth roommates who made us feel uncomfortable, unwelcome, and awful. During that first Monty, we spent our savings just living. We both work in the creative fields, myself a musician, an she an actress. Work was spotty at best. We borrowed money from friends and family, feeling terrible about ourselves every time. Mid-month, I decided to file for unemployment. (something i had never thought I'd ever do)
The money we were expecting from that would have paid her union dues, giving her a pay bump by about 400%. This would have enabled us to not only survive, but get on our feet and pay back our friends/family. About a week and a half after filing, my boss calls me and tells me I can't file, or he'll go out of business due to the fact he's never paid insurance on his employees. He convinced me he'd cover my unemployment pay (totaling $4,343) if I agreed to recind my claim, thus saving him tens of thousands of dollars in back-taxes. I agreed. As soon as I'd done that- he tells me his lawyer advised him not to do that, and that he never agreed to that in the first place.
I have now been playing phone tag with my unemployment agent for weeks trying to restart the claim, and have the state go after him for the money he owes them.
Meanwhile, at the end of January, we had to move again. We couldn't find a place in time, and ended up staying in a motel in Stamford for a night while we made appointments to see a few places. We awoke to the front desk and housekeeping ladies banging on our door, telling us we have to leave or they'll call the cops. We are still fighting Hotwire.com for charging us for that.
Luckily, we found a place that night. The expenses of having to move though, totaled over $500. (rental car, motel, storage)
The apartment we are in now is shared with 4 other people. It's a two bedroom. There are 3 people sleeping in the living room. There are cockroaches. We once again have to move out, by March 7th. We have applied for foodstamps. (they have yet to be approved)
This time around, we have no money to move with. Our resources have been tapped. We are out of options. Work is still spotty, and we have borrowed from everyone we know.
We have a week to come up with rent, cell phone bills, and moving expenses. Nevermind money for food to ear everyday. (as I type this, we are preparing to go out and sell some things for food money)
I have never been this scared in my life. I doubt that writing this is going to make a difference, but I have to try everything.

If anyone reading this wants a specific number that would get us out of this- its $5,000. Here's the breakdown:
$1,000 rent. (not counting a deposit)
$1760 my girlfriends union dues (which means she makes enough to get us on our feet)
$175 storage fee
$250 cell phone bills (it's a month late, an we're on the same plan)
$130 car rental to get our stuff out of the apartment
$40 rental car gas (they charge $9 a gallon if you don't fill the tank when you return the vehicle)
$1,000 for food for the two of us and cats' supplies. (food,litter)
And the rest would be to pay back some of the people who've already been there for us helping us along the way.

Please. Please help. We are a young couple in love. Scared. Trapped. Out of options.

Thank you for reading, and I hope you will find it in your heart to consider helping us.

Ex-husband vacations while I prepare to file bankruptcy

Posted by SusieQ1064 on 2012-02-18 15:58:16

After 19+ years of marriage, I divorced just over 1 year ago. My ex-husband & I have 2 children; a high school senior & a college sophomore. During our kids' early years, my ex-husband's salary allowed me to be a stay-at-home mom, which I loved. His employment involved extensive travel & many moves; 8 moves in 19 years. I supported the moves & the job changes, including a failed franchise in which we lost over $150,000. I earn $25,000/year; he earns approximately 6 times more; however, the divorce settlement saddled me with $60,000 of credit card & loan debt. I was emotionally drained, out of money & agreed to the terms. He is 16 years my senior & near retirement. A prenuptial agreement bars me from any of his retirement. He earned the money, and I am not bitter about the retirement aspect. I have stopped paying the credit card & loan payments as rent & car payment are more important. His girlfriend is a wealthy widow with 3 homes & a Lexus. I don't want to file bankruptcy, but I believe that's my only option. I do not have a college degree. I have a good job with good health benefits. I work for the state of WI, have not had a raise in 3+ years and do not see a raise in the near future. I have taken on a 2nd job. I have no need for vacations or material possessions; I do want is to live a life where I am not afraid to answer the phone for fear that caller is a creditor. I would also like to contribute to our children’s college education. I sincerely thank you for your time.

Alienated Father Fighting To Be A Part Of My Daughters Life!!!

Posted by lovingfather on 2012-01-25 19:58:26

The past two years have been hellish for me. I have lost everything but my faith and absolute love for my daughter. My ex-wife and her mother have alienated me from my daughter since her birth two years ago. I left a comfortable job and home in a state on the Gulf Coast to move to the East Coast state my daughter was taken to, so that I could be involved my child's life. Upon arriving, my then wife (an attorney) and her mother (child psychiatrist)began alienating my daughter from me in a variety of ways. I initiated the legal process with a very reputable law firm who has handled the divorce component. We agreed to a temporary visitation schedule, but due to my limited financial means the custody component is still ongoing. I had to file for bankruptcy last month (losing my house and all financial holdings I possessed). I continue to support my daughter via support. I'm currently attempting to save up enough money to pay the $5,000 retainer fee required by my attorney (I've worked 2 jobs since I moved here 2 years ago). Once I pay her, she can begin helping me gain equal custodial rights when considering my daughter. I'll be thankful for ANY amount of monetary support here. Peace and Love

Little Room At The Inn

Posted by difference on 2012-01-25 16:58:28

I am 32 years old, married with two children and like many others I am sure we are struggling in the recession. My husband and I both work full time, we have no holidays, drive old cars and have little luxuries and due to the negative equity we have in our property we are stuck in the small house that we live in. We have been saving hard to start building our own extension as we cannot afford a builder to take the job on, so my husband has agreed to try and do the work himself. We know that it will take so much longer but we do not have any choice. We are already on an interest only mortgage on an extremely high interest rate due to our negative equity so we cannot reduce our biggest outgoing at all. The reason we need to extend our house is that my daughter's room is so small that we cannot even buy a single bed to fit in the room so we need to get her out of her baby bed and into a normal size bed. If we could afford to move we would but we would owe the bank money if we sold up and that is just not an option. We need help to allow us to stay here as we are really running out of ideas. I feel very nervous and a bit weird doing this but we are doing everything we can from buying most of our food in the reduced aisle and I am selling the kids old clothes just to make some money so that we can start building our extension as we will be staying in the house for a lot longer than we planned. I understand that there are many people out there with very worthy causes and that we are a normal family with big money problems and that you may feel that this is way down the list of priorities, so I would like to thank you for taking the time to read this and for any help that you may be able to give.

Military Family needs help

Posted by Militaryfamily on 2012-01-10 22:58:06

Hi everyone, I am asking for you help with donations to help my family. My story is one that involves a split family. It starts in 2006 when my ex-wife took my two children away to another city with out my knowledge. Being in the military I was not able to up and relocate to be close to them. Taking on the debt load from the past relationship and marinating a home for myself and children was the start of my struggle. Thru many lawyers and court appointments I received 8 days a month visitation due to the 3.5 hrs distance between us.
3 years pass and I was remarried. Due to the unfortunate loss of my father we came into an inheritance, we were able to balance out our debt and for once we felt some relief. Still with only 8 days a month we yet again went back to court to try and obtain more access in the summer. As with all messy divorces my ex was unwilling to budge and wanted no more than 2 non-consecutive weeks in the summer for access. Luckily for us we were granted a full month each year.
With that good news came notice to us that we were to be posted to the same city my children lived. Once we were posted to the same city the military deemed that I was to deploy to Afghanistan, with this came a lot of training and travel to complete this all while my wife was pregnant with our son. As I know being in the military not everything will go as planed, I missed the birth of my son. Once my rotation was complete we were able to make new attempts to have more access to my children (in the original agreement between my ex-wife and myself we agreed to a set amount for child support).
Once my ex-wife found out about us wanting to have the children 50/50 she asked for an increase in child support and put my two boys into hockey to try and burden us financially. Needless to say hockey is very expensive and with the increase in child support (equivalent to another mortgage) we started to sink into debt again. My wife was unable to work due to child care costs of over $780/month, legal bills thru the roof and a vindictive ex-wife making all attempts to keep me from my children.
As if that wasn’t enough, my lawyer was suspended from practice, my wife’s and my 19 month old has now been diagnosed as possibly having celiac disease.
To sum it up, we are left with $200 per paycheque to buy groceries, gas for the car and anything else that may come up which in turn we needed to rely on our credit cards. Trying to get my children 50/50 is at a stand still now because no lawyer will take us on unless we have $2000 as a retainer, we don’t qualify for legal aid due to the fact that on paper I make too much.
So this is why I have turned to asking for help, to regain financial stability, gain access to my children and try and provide for my 3 boys and remove the stress from my wife. Any help would be greatly appreciated. We thank you for taking the time to read this.

Boy needs clothing size 24months or larger

Posted by 143wh on 2012-01-08 23:58:38

Hello, I feel strange doing this as I never thouht I would be in this position but I am a newly single mom to a wonderful little boy. I quit my job when I was pregnate to be a stay at home mom as decided by both myslef and my husband. My boy is now 2 years old and my husband has decided that the family life is not what he wants and has asked that me and our son move out. he has only agreed to give me $500 per month, and the least expensive housing that I have found is $532 per month, not including any utilities, food, etc. I have not been able to find a job. If i knew my husband could do something like this to us I would have never left my job......I desperatly need help as my son is fastly growing out of his clothes and I can't even afford a new wardrobe for him from goodwill. I have attempted to make him some clothes from the fabric of some of my clothes but I just cant sew....Please help me, My child doesn't deserve all i am offering him at this moment in life. If you have any hand me downs that you were going to donate anyways i would be forever grateful for sending them my way. Thanks for reading my post and for your help, and even if you cant help with a donation a Prayer for my son and I would be even more appreciated. My son is going into a 24 month size, but any size larger would be appreciated also as i dont know when things may turn around and he will eventually get to the larger sizes and he can always wear the clothing a lil large if needed. His shoe size is a childs 8.They can be sent to 11230 Trace Ln. Wilmer Al 36587 Thanks again and God bless.

Boy needs clothing size 24months or larger

Posted by 143wh on 2012-01-08 23:58:38

Hello, I feel strange doing this as I never thouht I would be in this position but I am a newly single mom to a wonderful little boy. I quit my job when I was pregnate to be a stay at home mom as decided by both myslef and my husband. My boy is now 2 years old and my husband has decided that the family life is not what he wants and has asked that me and our son move out. he has only agreed to give me $500 per month, and the least expensive housing that I have found is $532 per month, not including any utilities, food, etc. I have not been able to find a job. If i knew my husband could do something like this to us I would have never left my job......I desperatly need help as my son is fastly growing out of his clothes and I can't even afford a new wardrobe for him from goodwill. I have attempted to make him some clothes from the fabric of some of my clothes but I just cant sew....Please help me, My child doesn't deserve all i am offering him at this moment in life. If you have any hand me downs that you were going to donate anyways i would be forever grateful for sending them my way. Thanks for reading my post and for your help, and even if you cant help with a donation a Prayer for my son and I would be even more appreciated. My son is going into a 24 month size, but any size larger would be appreciated also as i dont know when things may turn around and he will eventually get to the larger sizes and he can always wear the clothing a lil large if needed. His shoe size is a childs 8.They can be sent to 11230 Trace Ln. Wilmer Al 36587 Thanks again and God bless.

Boy needs clothing size 24months or larger

Posted by 143wh on 2012-01-08 23:58:38

Hello, I feel strange doing this as I never thouht I would be in this position but I am a newly single mom to a wonderful little boy. I quit my job when I was pregnate to be a stay at home mom as decided by both myslef and my husband. My boy is now 2 years old and my husband has decided that the family life is not what he wants and has asked that me and our son move out. he has only agreed to give me $500 per month, and the least expensive housing that I have found is $532 per month, not including any utilities, food, etc. I have not been able to find a job. If i knew my husband could do something like this to us I would have never left my job......I desperatly need help as my son is fastly growing out of his clothes and I can't even afford a new wardrobe for him from goodwill. I have attempted to make him some clothes from the fabric of some of my clothes but I just cant sew....Please help me, My child doesn't deserve all i am offering him at this moment in life. If you have any hand me downs that you were going to donate anyways i would be forever grateful for sending them my way. Thanks for reading my post and for your help, and even if you cant help with a donation a Prayer for my son and I would be even more appreciated. My son is going into a 24 month size, but any size larger would be appreciated also as i dont know when things may turn around and he will eventually get to the larger sizes and he can always wear the clothing a lil large if needed. His shoe size is a childs 8.They can be sent to 11230 Trace Ln. Wilmer Al 36587 Thanks again and God bless.

Boy needs clothing size 24months or larger

Posted by 143wh on 2012-01-08 23:58:37

Hello, I feel strange doing this as I never thouht I would be in this position but I am a newly single mom to a wonderful little boy. I quit my job when I was pregnate to be a stay at home mom as decided by both myslef and my husband. My boy is now 2 years old and my husband has decided that the family life is not what he wants and has asked that me and our son move out. he has only agreed to give me $500 per month, and the least expensive housing that I have found is $532 per month, not including any utilities, food, etc. I have not been able to find a job. If i knew my husband could do something like this to us I would have never left my job......I desperatly need help as my son is fastly growing out of his clothes and I can't even afford a new wardrobe for him from goodwill. I have attempted to make him some clothes from the fabric of some of my clothes but I just cant sew....Please help me, My child doesn't deserve all i am offering him at this moment in life. If you have any hand me downs that you were going to donate anyways i would be forever grateful for sending them my way. Thanks for reading my post and for your help, and even if you cant help with a donation a Prayer for my son and I would be even more appreciated. My son is going into a 24 month size, but any size larger would be appreciated also as i dont know when things may turn around and he will eventually get to the larger sizes and he can always wear the clothing a lil large if needed. His shoe size is a childs 8.They can be sent to 11230 Trace Ln. Wilmer Al 36587 Thanks again and God bless.

Boy needs clothing size 24months or larger

Posted by 143wh on 2012-01-08 23:58:37

Hello, I feel strange doing this as I never thouht I would be in this position but I am a newly single mom to a wonderful little boy. I quit my job when I was pregnate to be a stay at home mom as decided by both myslef and my husband. My boy is now 2 years old and my husband has decided that the family life is not what he wants and has asked that me and our son move out. he has only agreed to give me $500 per month, and the least expensive housing that I have found is $532 per month, not including any utilities, food, etc. I have not been able to find a job. If i knew my husband could do something like this to us I would have never left my job......I desperatly need help as my son is fastly growing out of his clothes and I can't even afford a new wardrobe for him from goodwill. I have attempted to make him some clothes from the fabric of some of my clothes but I just cant sew....Please help me, My child doesn't deserve all i am offering him at this moment in life. If you have any hand me downs that you were going to donate anyways i would be forever grateful for sending them my way. Thanks for reading my post and for your help, and even if you cant help with a donation a Prayer for my son and I would be even more appreciated. My son is going into a 24 month size, but any size larger would be appreciated also as i dont know when things may turn around and he will eventually get to the larger sizes and he can always wear the clothing a lil large if needed. His shoe size is a childs 8.They can be sent to 11230 Trace Ln. Wilmer Al 36587 Thanks again and God bless.

Boy needs clothing size 24months or larger

Posted by 143wh on 2012-01-08 23:58:36

Hello, I feel strange doing this as I never thouht I would be in this position but I am a newly single mom to a wonderful little boy. I quit my job when I was pregnate to be a stay at home mom as decided by both myslef and my husband. My boy is now 2 years old and my husband has decided that the family life is not what he wants and has asked that me and our son move out. he has only agreed to give me $500 per month, and the least expensive housing that I have found is $532 per month, not including any utilities, food, etc. I have not been able to find a job. If i knew my husband could do something like this to us I would have never left my job......I desperatly need help as my son is fastly growing out of his clothes and I can't even afford a new wardrobe for him from goodwill. I have attempted to make him some clothes from the fabric of some of my clothes but I just cant sew....Please help me, My child doesn't deserve all i am offering him at this moment in life. If you have any hand me downs that you were going to donate anyways i would be forever grateful for sending them my way. Thanks for reading my post and for your help, and even if you cant help with a donation a Prayer for my son and I would be even more appreciated. My son is going into a 24 month size, but any size larger would be appreciated also as i dont know when things may turn around and he will eventually get to the larger sizes and he can always wear the clothing a lil large if needed. His shoe size is a childs 8.They can be sent to 11230 Trace Ln. Wilmer Al 36587 Thanks again and God bless.

Boy needs clothing size 24months or larger

Posted by 143wh on 2012-01-08 23:58:36

Hello, I feel strange doing this as I never thouht I would be in this position but I am a newly single mom to a wonderful little boy. I quit my job when I was pregnate to be a stay at home mom as decided by both myslef and my husband. My boy is now 2 years old and my husband has decided that the family life is not what he wants and has asked that me and our son move out. he has only agreed to give me $500 per month, and the least expensive housing that I have found is $532 per month, not including any utilities, food, etc. I have not been able to find a job. If i knew my husband could do something like this to us I would have never left my job......I desperatly need help as my son is fastly growing out of his clothes and I can't even afford a new wardrobe for him from goodwill. I have attempted to make him some clothes from the fabric of some of my clothes but I just cant sew....Please help me, My child doesn't deserve all i am offering him at this moment in life. If you have any hand me downs that you were going to donate anyways i would be forever grateful for sending them my way. Thanks for reading my post and for your help, and even if you cant help with a donation a Prayer for my son and I would be even more appreciated. My son is going into a 24 month size, but any size larger would be appreciated also as i dont know when things may turn around and he will eventually get to the larger sizes and he can always wear the clothing a lil large if needed. His shoe size is a childs 8.They can be sent to 11230 Trace Ln. Wilmer Al 36587 Thanks again and God bless.

Son needs new clothes

Posted by 143wh on 2012-01-03 01:58:06

Hello, I feel strange doing this as I never thouht I would be in this position but I am a newly single mom to a wonderful little boy. I quit my job when I was 18 weeks pregnate to be a stay at home mom as decided by both myslef and my husband. My boy is now 15mths old and my husband has decided that the family life is not what he wants and has asked that me and our son move out. he has only agreed to give me $500 per month, and the least expensive housing that I have found is $532 per month, not including any utilities, food, etc. I have not been able to find a job. If i knew my husband could do something like this to us I would have never left my job......I desperatly need help as my son is fastly growing out of his clothes and I can't even afford a new wardrobe for him from goodwill. I have attempted to make him some clothes from the fabric of some of my clothes but I just cant sew....Please help me, My child doesn't deserve all i am offering him at this moment in life. If you have any hand me downs that you were going to donate anyways i would be forever grateful for sending them my way. Thanks for reading my post and for your help, and even if you cant help with a donation a Prayer for my son and I would be even more appreciated. My son is going into a 24 month size, but any size larger would be appreciated as i dont know when things may turn around and he will eventually get to the larger sizes and he can always wear the clothing a lil large if needed. His shoe size is a childs 7. Every bit helps as I dont mind shopping yardsales and goodwills. Thanks again and God bless.

Son needs new clothes

Posted by 143wh on 2012-01-03 01:58:05

Hello, I feel strange doing this as I never thouht I would be in this position but I am a newly single mom to a wonderful little boy. I quit my job when I was 18 weeks pregnate to be a stay at home mom as decided by both myslef and my husband. My boy is now 15mths old and my husband has decided that the family life is not what he wants and has asked that me and our son move out. he has only agreed to give me $500 per month, and the least expensive housing that I have found is $532 per month, not including any utilities, food, etc. I have not been able to find a job. If i knew my husband could do something like this to us I would have never left my job......I desperatly need help as my son is fastly growing out of his clothes and I can't even afford a new wardrobe for him from goodwill. I have attempted to make him some clothes from the fabric of some of my clothes but I just cant sew....Please help me, My child doesn't deserve all i am offering him at this moment in life. If you have any hand me downs that you were going to donate anyways i would be forever grateful for sending them my way. Thanks for reading my post and for your help, and even if you cant help with a donation a Prayer for my son and I would be even more appreciated. My son is going into a 24 month size, but any size larger would be appreciated as i dont know when things may turn around and he will eventually get to the larger sizes and he can always wear the clothing a lil large if needed. His shoe size is a childs 7. Thanks again and God bless.

Need boy clothes 24mths. Thank you

Posted by 143wh on 2012-01-03 01:58:04

Hello, I feel strange doing this as I never thouht I would be in this position but I am a newly single mom to a wonderful little boy. I quit my job when I was 18 weeks pregnate to be a stay at home mom as decided by both myslef and my husband. My boy is now 15mths old and my husband has decided that the family life is not what he wants and has asked that me and our son move out. he has only agreed to give me $500 per month, and the least expensive housing that I have found is $532 per month, not including any utilities, food, etc. I have not been able to find a job. If i knew my husband could do something like this to us I would have never left my job......I desperatly need help as my son is fastly growing out of his clothes and I can't even afford a new wardrobe for him from goodwill. I have attempted to make him some clothes from the fabric of some of my clothes but I just cant sew....Please help me, My child doesn't deserve all i am offering him at this moment in life. If you have any hand me downs that you were going to donate anyways i would be forever grateful for sending them my way. Thanks for reading my post and for your help, and even if you cant help with a donation a Prayer for my son and I would be even more appreciated. My son is going into a 24 month size, but any size larger would be appreciated as i dont know when things may turn around and he will eventually get to the larger sizes and he can always wear the clothing a lil large if needed. His shoe size is a childs 7. Thanks again and God bless.

Boy Clothes size 24months or larger

Posted by 143wh on 2012-01-03 01:58:02

Hello, I feel strange doing this as I never thouht I would be in this position but I am a newly single mom to a wonderful little boy. I quit my job when I was 18 weeks pregnate to be a stay at home mom as decided by both myslef and my husband. My boy is now 15mths old and my husband has decided that the family life is not what he wants and has asked that me and our son move out. he has only agreed to give me $500 per month, and the least expensive housing that I have found is $532 per month, not including any utilities, food, etc. I have not been able to find a job. If i knew my husband could do something like this to us I would have never left my job......I desperatly need help as my son is fastly growing out of his clothes and I can't even afford a new wardrobe for him from goodwill. I have attempted to make him some clothes from the fabric of some of my clothes but I just cant sew....Please help me, My child doesn't deserve all i am offering him at this moment in life. If you have any hand me downs that you were going to donate anyways i would be forever grateful for sending them my way. Thanks for reading my post and for your help, and even if you cant help with a donation a Prayer for my son and I would be even more appreciated. My son is going into a 24 month size, but any size larger would be appreciated as i dont know when things may turn around and he will eventually get to the larger sizes and he can always wear the clothing a lil large if needed. His shoe size is a childs 7. Thanks again and God bless.