Aged Tags

Back to Tags Page

Post a Beg Now!

struggling to live-work with 2 young children

Posted by mumindanger on 2012-05-21 10:58:05

Please, please, please help us! I have e young children aged 1 and 3 and can't afford childcare in order to provide for them to allow me to work. My partner left when I was 7 months pregnant with my youngest child. I have been struggling ever since. I am threatened with eviction- my arrears total more than 2 thousand pounds and I also have debts of 11,560 pounds. (Council tax etc). I need help before I am evicted, I am so worried about my chikdren and am struggling to feed them a proper balanced diet. Please, I beg someone with a kind heart to help. I would appreciate it forever.

Please Read!!!!

Posted by kristynej on 2012-05-21 02:58:30

My name is Kris, and I am a 28 year old mother to 2 boys, aged 9 and 4. I was recently laid off from a decent paying job, and haven't been able to find a new one yet, though I'm trying EVERY day. I have already had my cable/internet shut off. I'm on my phone now. That will be shut off soon, I'm sure. Car insurance has elapsed, rent is passed due. I'm defeated. I would be grateful for help with anything, but mostly, I need household items. Dish soap, laundry soap, toilet paper, toothpaste, etc. This is one of the hardest things I've ever had to do. Thank you for reading.

help with family of special needs kid

Posted by specialneedsmom on 2012-05-16 16:58:00

Hi I am a mom of 3 children, 1 a special needs child. I work as a nurse assistant but it only covers about half of our needs. I work hard and do my best every day and try to keep a smile and a good attitude but sometimes your best just isn't good enough. My special needs baby is 8 years old and is speech impaired, deaf in one ear, severely asthmatic, and has ADHD. Medicaid pays for most of the meds and specialists but not all. I pay for some of his meds and specialists and then there's the gas to go to and from. All in all I'm spending about $800 per month that medicaid is refusing. I haven't been able to get an answer why as of yet. I've applied for social security for him but have been denied twice and now am awaiting a hearing which I am told could be anywhere between 18 and 21 months just to get a hearing date. I only make about $1500 per month so simple things like even a trip to the laundromat is a challenge. Apart from my son's problems I also have 2 baby girls aged 9 and 6 to take care of. Thanks be to God they are healthy. All of my family has passed away due to various forms of cancer so it's just my children and my husband and self. He is out of a job presently and has been seeking work since being laid off from his last job (about 7 months). I have applied for a pell grant and registered for LPN classes at the local community college to try to help myself but it will take about 15 months to finish school let alone get a job. I've managed to pay rent but am 2 months behind on the internet bill (used for school) am 5 months behind in car payments and am at risk of a repo any day. If I lose my car then how am I going to be able to go to work,school, take the kids to school, take the kids to the doctor,grocery shop, do laundry, or anything else? I currently do not have auto insurance because I can't afford it.(was cancelled for nonpayment 2 days ago.) I managed to pay my water and cell(about $100) to keep that going. I am almost a month behind on my electricity but have managed to keep it going by paying about half the bill per month. As of now, I have a balance of $150. I don't know what to do. If anyone would please help us I would be forever grateful and appreciative.

10 Things for My Babies

Posted by birdlegs on 2012-05-12 17:58:10

To my babies,

1) You will always be safe.
2 There is no such thing as a Boogie Man.
3) You can always come home.
4) I will always be here for you.
5) There will always be laughter and singing and dancing.
6) The sun always comes up,even on cloudy days.
7) You will never have to worry, I can fix it.
8) Study hard and you will go somewhere in life.
9) Be good to yourself and others.
10) When you're wrong, say your sorry.

16 years that flew by...

To my teenagers,

1) Danger may find you, be stronger, faster, and smarter.
2) You will sometimes be afraid, but I will comfort you.
3) Home is where your heart is, no matter where, no matter the circumstances that seperate you.
4) I will always be where you are when you need me.
5) There may be days of quiet and the dancing subdued, but sometimes you see a rainbow on the rainiest days.
6) Sometimes the sun stays hidden behind the clouds, but its warmth is still felt down here on the ground.
7) Sometimes you have to fix it yourself, but I will stand beside your while you try.
8) Study hard anyway, even if your dreams are not what you wished for, the journey there is the just a small twist in the road.
9) Love with integrity and honor, even when it's difficult, even when it's not returned. Believe in love.
10) Forgive yourself when you ask others to forgive you. You are worth it.

I hope you will not see the struggles we face, the house we are in danger of losing, or the tears on my pillow late at night. I hope you never see my quiet desperation and uncertainty. I hope you never know that I’ve lost my job to budget cuts 5 times, just like I have now. I hope you cannot see the moments of hopelessness in my heart and how much I have aged in such a short time. I hope you remember how strong your Mama is and how I would do anything for you both. There is no SuperMom, just an ordinary Mom in extraordinary circumstances. And one last thing…..when you are given to, it is always with a promise that you will in some way give back.

Love, Love, Love,

The Third Musketeer

Please help us. Thank you

10 Things for My Babies

Posted by birdlegs on 2012-05-12 17:58:08

To my babies,

1) You will always be safe.
2 There is no such thing as a Boogie Man.
3) You can always come home.
4) I will always be here for you.
5) There will always be laughter and singing and dancing.
6) The sun always comes up,even on cloudy days.
7) You will never have to worry, I can fix it.
8) Study hard and you will go somewhere in life.
9) Be good to yourself and others.
10) When you're wrong, say your sorry.

16 years that flew by...

To my teenagers,

1) Danger may find you, be stronger, faster, and smarter.
2) You will sometimes be afraid, but I will comfort you.
3) Home is where your heart is, no matter where, no matter the circumstances that seperate you.
4) I will always be where you are when you need me.
5) There may be days of quiet and the dancing subdued, but sometimes you see a rainbow on the rainiest days.
6) Sometimes the sun stays hidden behind the clouds, but its warmth is still felt down here on the ground.
7) Sometimes you have to fix it yourself, but I will stand beside your while you try.
8) Study hard anyway, even if your dreams are not what you wished for, the journey there is the just a small twist in the road.
9) Love with integrity and honor, even when it's difficult, even when it's not returned. Believe in love.
10) Forgive yourself when you ask others to forgive you. You are worth it.

I hope you will not see the struggles we face, the house we are in danger of losing, or the tears on my pillow late at night. I hope you never see my quiet desperation and uncertainty. I hope you never know that I’ve lost my job to budget cuts 5 times, just like I have now. I hope you cannot see the moments of hopelessness in my heart and how much I have aged in such a short time. I hope you remember how strong your Mama is and how I would do anything for you both. There is no SuperMom, just an ordinary Mom in extraordinary circumstances. And one last thing…..when you are given to, it is always with a promise that you will in some way give back.

Love, Love, Love,

The Third Musketeer

Please help us. Thank you

10 Things for My Babies

Posted by birdlegs on 2012-05-12 17:58:06

To my babies,

1) You will always be safe.
2 There is no such thing as a Boogie Man.
3) You can always come home.
4) I will always be here for you.
5) There will always be laughter and singing and dancing.
6) The sun always comes up,even on cloudy days.
7) You will never have to worry, I can fix it.
8) Study hard and you will go somewhere in life.
9) Be good to yourself and others.
10) When you're wrong, say your sorry.

16 years that flew by...

To my teenagers,

1) Danger may find you, be stronger, faster, and smarter.
2) You will sometimes be afraid, but I will comfort you.
3) Home is where your heart is, no matter where, no matter the circumstances that seperate you.
4) I will always be where you are when you need me.
5) There may be days of quiet and the dancing subdued, but sometimes you see a rainbow on the rainiest days.
6) Sometimes the sun stays hidden behind the clouds, but its warmth is still felt down here on the ground.
7) Sometimes you have to fix it yourself, but I will stand beside your while you try.
8) Study hard anyway, even if your dreams are not what you wished for, the journey there is the just a small twist in the road.
9) Love with integrity and honor, even when it's difficult, even when it's not returned. Believe in love.
10) Forgive yourself when you ask others to forgive you. You are worth it.

I hope you will not see the struggles we face, the house we are in danger of losing, or the tears on my pillow late at night. I hope you never see my quiet desperation and uncertainty. I hope you never know that I’ve lost my job to budget cuts 5 times, just like I have now. I hope you cannot see the moments of hopelessness in my heart and how much I have aged in such a short time. I hope you remember how strong your Mama is and how I would do anything for you both. There is no SuperMom, just an ordinary Mom in extraordinary circumstances. And one last thing…..when you are given to, it is always with a promise that you will in some way give back.

Love, Love, Love,

The Third Musketeer

Please help us. Thank you

Social Work Student needing help!

Posted by zoe292001 on 2012-05-09 07:58:43

I am currently struggling financially with completing my Social Work Masters at university, due to a lack of funding due to government cuts.

I am unable to continue to work part time on evenings as I am now on my own with my 2 children aged 4 and 2 and I have no family local.

I would appreciate some help more than anything. I believe I would make a fantastic Social Worker and a good career would provide my children with a much better life.

Save my home

Posted by vijay on 2012-05-08 05:58:22

Dear all who is reading my mail.
Please save my one and only house from closure.I have been jobless for at least 6 months and because of this i am stuck with the payment . Please for once help me . I have an old aged father 84 yrs old and my 2 sond aged 16 and 12 yrs old who are still schooling. My husband is not that stable to work. Please kindly help me this one time. Help me to save this house as i have no one else to help me. Your generosity will be kindly appreciated and GOD WILL BLESS YOU WITH MORE. Please pity my 2 sons .
Thank you very much in advance

Help make their bedrooms special.

Posted by Petrus on 2012-05-02 11:58:39

I have 2 boys aged 2 and 5. We realy want to furnish and decorate their rooms but dont have the money to do so. We don't want money. Just some toys and they dont have to be new. They love playing with building blocks at playschool and toys like tractors and trains. Any one who wants to help can email me at petrus083@ovi.com

Help me make my 2boys bedrooms special.

Posted by Petrus on 2012-05-02 11:58:27

I'm a hard working father of 2 boys. I don't want money all me and my wive realy want is furniture and bedding for our boys bedrooms. They are aged 2 and 5 years old.I have a good job but after we've payed the rent and bills and bought food ect. We have no money left to buy the things for the boys rooms. We don't want to get into dept either. So if there is any one living in SA that have an unwanted chest of drawers, toyboxes, curtains, wall decorations and duvet sets to give away it would realy help alot please?It does'nt have to be new and if it needs some work its also fine. Any one that can help please email me at petrus083@ovi.com
I'm a single mother aged 35. I've lived in California for almost 14 years ( it will be 15 this year on memorial day weekend.)
I’m going to be a little blunt, because I'm tired and I want to give up so bad, but I can't. I'm better than that and my kids are my motivator. I wake up everyday and remind myself of 2 things :1) Faith is what you have when you all your beliefs are blown to hell. 2) What doesn't kill you makes you stronger -Nietzsche

I am a 35 year old educated, ambitious, head strong woman. I have owned my own business with my soon to be ex. I know what hard work and determination are. I went to private school and I am educated. I value my community and have always given back and will continue to do so. I also know that I have the drive and determination to get myself back on track. I'm not ASKING for a handout, I'm asking for help up! I also know what loss is. I don't have the business, a house or EVEN the car anymore. We lost everything. He bounced back , I didn’t. All I have is HOPE, that someone or some program can help me carve a path back to self sufficiency.
It's gone continually downhill.I am amazed at the allotment of programs for both housing and employment for all different walks of life. However, what about those that are just struggling. No hang ups, no record, just struggling and are LOW INCOME. I'm not writing this to make you feel sorry, I'm writing this because I have exhausted possibilities that I have researched both on my own or been given the information to do the work with.
There are people who struggle everyday through no fault of their own. They don't want a hand out, but help up would be a relief. Society doesn't need band-aids they need solutions.
Not every county, city or state program fits everyone's needs.
First of all Section 8 has been closed since BEFORE I left my marriage so that idea could never work. The list has been closed for years. Because I have limited time with my children, I do not qualify for CALWORKS. I have tried getting assistance in every way possible. I had very little unemployment left since I have been struggling to find work. I was delayed for about 3 months because they needed verification and I had to appeal and request a hearing. I have won my appeal but will only receive $91/week and for a short period of time.
I took a project management class through WIA in 2011, and I was able to get CTB benefits. I NEED HELP. I have hit the absolute worst point in my life and still refuse to give up. I have been looking for work and am now HOMELESS.I am in week 3 of staying in an extended stay hotel (paid for by my mother back east, who makes maybe $26,000/yr in PA) I recently sold my car because I needed to pay bills and rent. I have maybe $75 to my name.
The fact that they say there are services for low income/ homeless is frustrating. I say this because there is no category for me. I'm not a drug addict or in recovery. I don't have a mental illness. I wasn't in prison, I don’t' even have a RECORD. I can proudly say I've never been arrested or even in the back of a cop car. I'm not a victim of domestic violence and I do not beat my kids. Why aren't there programs in place for single parents struggling to make it? Everyday people that are responsible and respectable. I understand the need to assist those that may not have the capacity to take care of themselves. However, I have a huge problem with the fact that Santa Clara County & all programs (private, govt or state funded) will rehabilitate and reintroduced felons into the community, but if you're poor, homeless, no record, are looking for work, have high intelligence; sorry, you can't get help. This sounds extremely cynical and jaded, but I am a little after going through all I have.
I have been told constantly “I wish I could do something but we don't have any programs to help you.” My favorite reply is: "Yeah and you have done everything. I'm surprised you even knew about all the programs you did"
I have talked to employment counselors, program coordinators, program advocates and case managers, volunteers, just about anyone. The bankruptcy is hindering my chances of securing housing, even if I had employment.

The icing on the cake has to be with food stamps and General Assistance. I qualified for Cal-Fresh. However, at the time I had a car worth $2200. So I wasn't able to get General Assistance. Fast Forward a year later, I HAD to sell my car to pay bills. Now this month when I went for General Assistance, I qualify.

It's a never ending cycle, a constant push down. I can take public transportation to work, but to get around and see my boys and being able to transport them would be extremely difficult, not to mention financially stressing. I have scoured employment books, read articles, searched the library, spent hours online trying to find a job, program, a company, anybody who could be a resource whether for low income assistance or employment.
I can probably tell you about a plethora of services this county (Santa Clara) offers for both income assistance and job services.I am registered with CALJOBS; I know all the career sites and have my resume there. I get interviews, however I am starting to think the bankruptcy from loss of business is holding me back when employers do background check.
I also could teach the business writing class or the resume writing classes they offer at Work2Future, I practically did when I took them. I could do the same at Sacred Heart. I've been to InnVision and EHC. I’ve talked to Sunnyvale Community Services. Boy he was a treat he sounded older then my 80 yr old grandma. When I said I need housing and employment help, he gruffly told me to check the newspaper and hung up. I've called St Josephs in Gilroy. I've talked to a program coordinator at West Valley Community Services. I called the Sobrato Organization hoping they had ties to something and one the employees just by grace of god happened to pick up and take my call. I was able to talk to someone at HIF (they couldn't help)
.
I am responsible, respectable and just want to work, have a place to live, and be able to have my children 50/50. I have no police record. I am not in recovery, nor have I ever had to be in a program
I want to work and am attaching a compilation of ALL my work skills. I would not send this out otherwise, I would tailor it specifically to the job I am applying for.

I used to volunteer as much as I could I like being active in my community and helping others. I'm still about that I believe in PAY IT FORWARD. I believe the good you do comes back to you tenfold and that no matter what is going wrong in your life, someone else is struggling just as much if not more; so be thankful for what you have.
I attend church and was a hospitality volunteer for that as well.
I just need help getting on my feet. I have no family, other than my children here in CA.
I do not want to move back east and be far away from them. I want to work, I want to live again. I want to smile and mean it.

I hate what my life has become and know that I am SO MUCH BETTER THEN THIS.
Please help me : money is fine, but it's only a temporary fix, please help me find a program that can assist me in getting on my feet, direct me to employment, and most of all afford me the opportunity to have my children much more consistently so I can be a mom again.
Thank you
Courtney DiMiceli

Gerbil on a Wheel

Posted by Suzyraz on 2012-04-28 13:58:58

Tears streaming down my cheeks, no food in the house, constant calls from creditors, fear of bleak or no future. Scared, alone, I was once a happy, yet bullied girl, a hopeful, kind young woman, now a quivering, frightened, middle aged ball of confusion, that can't even offer an explanation how life became so Un-Livable. Thank You for listening to me. Blessings to You. I am ashamed.

Help needed for my univeristy studies

Posted by MedusaUK on 2012-04-22 09:58:05

Hello and thank you for taking the time to read my posting. I am a mature student, aged 46 and the oldest on my course and have managed to support myself and my children through three years of my undergraduate degree course. It hasn't been easy, but I am confident I will be able to gain a good position within a company and ensure financial security for my family. I am looking to complete a distance learning masters course to enhance my qualifications, and to allow me to seek work at the same time, but the cost of postgraduate fees is in the region of £7,500. I have saved a quarter of the money for these fees from my limited income but need help raising the balance. If you would like to donate any amount of money, no matter how small, I would be very grateful. Thank you again for reading my posting and wishing you a pleasant, peaceful day.

Need bitcoins,creating website teaching kids to read music.

Posted by ccoyne420 on 2012-04-18 23:58:14

Any Donation Helps,If you do not know what bitcoins are then thank you for taking the time to read this and god bless.If you have any bitcoins you can spare it would be much appreciated as I need software to record live tutorials and step by step lessons.The site is under construction but once I have enough material to put up I will be sending out the url gladly if you are interested,just include email.My goal is to get kids to find a talent they never knew or just improve skills of all aged musicians.Thank you and god bless. Chris Bitcoins can be sent to this bitcoin adress:1HbpaZbRXJjrTLpxT8YewoqN7Jnn8XKNh4

Help required

Posted by lozlynch on 2012-03-28 06:58:44

Hello there, my name is Lorraine. I am here as I need help. I am 43 with a child aged 13. New Years Eve 2010 I got married to a gentleman who I adored,hes 55 we didnt tell anyone we was doing this only our 2 witnesses. It was a gorgeous day. Feb 2011 I picked up my Husbands phone to another woman!I cannot tell you how devastated I was, I still am. This had been going on 10 months & whilst we planned our wedding day. He begged me for another chance which I gave him. We moved house for a "new start" which as it needed quite alot of work doing it took my mind off the problems. Well, it hasnt worked out & im devastated. The problem now is that although we are married as its only been a short time i'm not entitled to stay in the property. The mortgage is in my husbands name (long story)& it was his savings paid the deposit. I'm beginning to wonder if this was his plan all along. I have now got to move out before I lose my sanity. I have been sleeping in the spare room & my son is being affected by this atmosphere we live in which in turn is affecting his schoolwork. I dont claim benefits, I'm a hard worker & the only thing I have is my car which I am more than prepared to sell to pay a deposit to rent somewhere. Its not worth much though & I still need to travel to work (15miles) can anyone please consider helping me? If not me then consider my Son? I'm not asking for much, even a couple pence helps towards something. I'm a proud person & this is very difficult for me. Thankyou in advance to everyone that has read my letter.

Family crisis

Posted by Mazzaa7 on 2012-03-11 07:58:20

Hello
I would like to ask for help as I'm really struggling I know that many people are as well it's just that I would like to try and raise £250.00 to take my children on a basic trip to the seaside. I do go to work and receive no help for anyone else I went through domestic violence for many years and this has affected my kids I broke free from my abusive partner and feel that if I could give my kids a break it would help them so much. We are putting our lives back together but have nothing. My kid have no confidence and one has anxiety and one has anger issues which I am getting help for I ended up nearly losing our home and in a lot off debt I have nothing left for them when I get paid and even though they don't expect a lot I know that they derserve a break as they have never been away before and they are aged 10 and 12 so thank you if you can help I feel very embarrassed to ask for help but as a mother I feel that I have to do any thing I can for them

business

Posted by dickdock on 2012-03-09 08:58:42

HI. CAN ANY ONE PLEASE HELP ME TO START A SMALL COURIER BUSINESS I NEED £5000.00 FOR SET UP AND A DECENT VAN,I LOST MY JOB ONE YEAR AGO AGED 61 AND CANNOT FIND ANOTHER ONE (AGE),I CANNOT GET ANY TYPE OF FINANCE AFTER STRUGGLING TO PAY DEBTS UPON LOSING MY JOB,I AM A VERY HARD WORKER AND I AM SURE I WILL DO WELL AT LEAST ENOUGH TO MAKE A REASONABLE LIVING.IF ANY ONE CAN DONATE, E-MAIL dickybird@ymail.com with genuine offers.and make an oldish man very happy,thanks and god bless.

please anyone help!!!!

Posted by amybabyuk on 2012-03-01 08:58:36

Hi i moved into my house about 7 months ago, its privately rented and i have missed 2 months rent and my lanlord threatens to kick me out and i have nowhere else to go all the family i had are now deceased, my partner has not long ago left me, i have a little girl aged 2, she is all i have left and i am classed as disabled and cannot work no more and the benefits do not pay for the mortgage and im short by £500, all the money that i have has gone food for my little girl, im even going without food just so she can eat, ive sold everything in my house that is possible i only have the bare minimum essentials left. im using my friends mobile to post this as i sold my laptop, my phone will be the next thing to go but that is my lifeline and need it in case of an emergency, £500 is what i need but anything is better than nothing and i would be so grateful if any amount of donations would be made

Transport from home to hospice

Posted by Hospice786 on 2012-03-01 06:58:32

I am a recent Volunteer At saint Joseph Hospice in Rawalpindi,Pakistan and a member of Pakistan Red Crescent Society.I am Regular Blood Donor For The last 1 year.The hospice is located in the heart of Westridge but my home is somewhat around 35 km away ,i admit that i belong to a middle class family but due to some family health problems i am now being told that we cannot afford your travel expenses which is 5000-6000 Pkr plus i have to got PCRS on several times a week.

There are only 3 three volunteers excluding me and we have to attend couple of depressed people (suicidal s) , handicapped and bed sores patients and at the play with some orphans as well ,total beds are about 60.Sisters are highly corporative and there staff as well but still being a 18 years old teenagers the fun is still better then the aged ones.
Please Please Please help (donate) me to be a better person and a great friend. donation of any number will be helpful but still if you have some questions regarding my activities please call me at 923085555940 .Paypal doesn't work in Pakistan but Western union or money gram are available in Pakistan.
You may also email me at Hamzaqaseem92@yahoo.com

For the Transport from Home to Hospice

Posted by Hospice786 on 2012-03-01 05:58:55

I am a recent Volunteer At saint Joseph Hospice in Rawalpindi,Pakistan and a member of Pakistan Red Crescent Society.I am Regular Blood Donor For The last 1 year.The hospice is located in the heart of Westridge but my home is somewhat around 35 km away ,i admit that i belong to a middle class family but due to some family health problems i am now being told that we cannot afford your travel expenses which is 5000-6000 Pkr plus i have to got PCRS on several times a week.

There are only 3 three volunteers excluding me and we have to attend couple of depressed people (suicidal s) , handicapped and bed sores patients and at the play with some orphans as well ,total beds are about 60.Sisters are highly corporative and there staff as well but still being a 18 years old teenagers the fun is still better then the aged ones.
Please Please Please help (donate) me to be a better person and a great friend. donation of any number will be helpful but still if you have some questions regarding my activities please call me at 923085555940 .Paypal doesn't work in Pakistan but Western union or money gram are available in Pakistan.
You may also email me at Hamzaqaseem92@yahoo.com

Please donate me for debt. God bless

Posted by ranroi on 2012-02-15 08:58:18

I am hearing and speech handicapped man aged 46 years living in Kolkata, India. My wife is also same handicapped but not fully educated, and have normal 12 years son. Presently, I am working in odd jobs but earning low income is not quite enough to make both ends. I am facing lots of financial difficult for paying households, my son's school fees, tution fees, groceries credits, electricity bills, Doctor's bills and dues returned to money lenders.
Any amounts will be accepted and with your help perhaps my quality of life may emprove.
I thank you from my heart as Sincerely from the Heart,any small donation will help. You send some money through my email transfer:ranroi400@rediffmail.com
God Bless You
Hi, I hate to beg but am desperate. I live in the U.K am a single parent with disabilities panic attacks, agorophobia, anxiety and a degenerative back condition.
My son aged 14 severely disabled Downs Syndrome, Autisim, Challenging Behaviours, Type 1 Diabetes, Wheelchair user.
Our car was seized by Baliffs for 2 parking tickets worth £25. They now want £1000 to return the car. I am housebound and desperate now. They are selling the car at auction next week.Any help would be gratefully received. Thanks
king2511@live.co.uk

need wardrobes

Posted by kezza12 on 2012-02-09 11:58:36

I have a partner of 9 years and 2 children aged 2 and 8 months. Last May my partner injured his back at work he got SSP for 6 months but now were on benefits. My partner is on pills every day not only for his back but also for his anxiety and depression, we desperately need a double wardobe for us and a single wardrobe for my 2 sons anything will help as my partner finds it hard to keep bending down to pick up clothes from the floor, anything would help towards us getting our clothes put away.

need about £300

MiddleAged Woman NEEDS money for SHELTER/FOOD and to FIX CAR

Posted by tcbconnected on 2012-01-28 17:58:58

PLEASE SOMEONE HEAR ME Hello Everyone
Well here I am and I don't know where to begin.
I am a middle aged intelligent business woman not a dater partier or drinker. However I am in deep trouble and cant get out without help. I am HOMELESS I moved in with a druggie who said he was not doing drugs anymore. Since I was desperate, I believed him. I have cleaned his home for days in was so dirty, do laundry been cleaning on a daily basis. He moves things around makes messes when he is doing drugs. Lighters in the bed, cigarettes burning ashes all over etc. I have been a caretaker of him and his home. His parents are wonderful Christian people he is not like them at all. His mother had said maybe this is God's will for me to move in. It has taken a toll on me. I have been a great influence on him. He had put a drug in my drink twice I could tell. I confronted him. I am a strong person, this has not been easy. I could see I have made a difference in him. At this point my belongings are in his garage the remainder of my belongings are in storage. I have been here 6 weeks 4 out of the six with no car. He would take me to a job I needed to get too 2 weeks ago. I have been in dire straights' in the house everyday. He has a gate out front which I do not have the code for to get out. He locks the door on me and I have to knock for 2 minutes to get in. I sleep in a room with no heat on. My car broke down once I am penniless, my car guy fixed it free. A 10 year old VW. Now the clutch went therefore I have been grounded. No money to fix it. I asked him since he spends money like water on his children and drugs, however, he says he has none he is on unemployment. He has a history of a felony. I need to get out of here, I do not have a place to go to and no car. Tomorrow he says he is going to put my belongings in the garage on his truck and take it out of here and he expects me to leave. I have no where that I can go. I am behind in my storage fees as well.
When I am on the phone he asks me who am Im taking too, on the computer he thinks I am videoing him his home etc. yes he is parinoid. He was at PASSAGES in Malibu for a few months but it's obvious they did not help him nearly enough. You know if this was a paying job I can I believe work wonders for him. There has been a change in him. It is a challenge but I would do it. I see some progress and that makes me happy. He needs to be held on the right track. I know he doesn't like me here because he really cant be himself. He is limited with me here watching him. Also I have two dogs that have worked wonders with him too... they keep my sanity.There is much too much to explain of what I have been through in my heart Gods knows. Once when he was doing drugs he said he would give me the money I need for my behind storages fees if I don't tell his parents he is doing drugs. I said no Im not that type of person. The more and more I think about it I should have said yes. He hates that I am so straight. Help help help that's all I do I am in a hole and need HELP MYSELF.
IF anyone could help PLEASE MAIL ME one dollar to MARIA L. PO Box 2011 Newburgh, NY 12550 IMMEDIATELY!!!!!!
IF MANY HELP I can get out and get on my feet.
I THANK YOU ALL there is all TOO MUCH more to say.
I WISH YOU ALL MANY BLESSINGS and MY HEARTFELT THANKS GOES OUT TO ALL WHO HEAR ME.

PLEEEEEEEEEEEZ HELP ME!!

Broken boiler for over 2 years

Posted by coldandtired on 2012-01-26 12:58:13

Hello, I live in the north of England. Many years ago I got myself in an awful lot of debt(my own fault i know), I am currently paying this off but it will take me about 15 years to pay off, the payments I have to make leave me with absolutely nothing at the end of each month,in October 2009 our boiler broke and we have no chance of affording a new one, therefore we have no heating and to have a bath we have to make endless trips with the kettle, we have 2 children aged 4 and 8 and feel awful that they have to live this way. me and my wife both work with me leaving the house at 3 am and getting home at 5pm 6 days a week. My family and I would be so grateful if anyone could spare even a few pence just so we can start to build a fund to get a new boiler.
Thanks for reading