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sms......save my soul
Posted by bdiva on 2012-03-16 22:58:05
Regards
Beauty Diva
bdiva55@yahoo.com
My Story
Posted by Eliabe on 2012-03-11 23:58:20
(Note: You may see this same post on beggingmoney.com)
My name is Eliabe. I am an 18-year-old guy from Brazil and I need your donation because I need to move away but I can't afford it.
Let me tell you why.
I grew up being abused by my dad -- emotionally and sexually. I did not realize what was happening until recently. I still have to deal with the consequences. I became social phobic, anxious and depressed. I am still afraid, disgusted of and uncomfortable with touch and closeness, yet I am dying for it. An African therapist agreed to help me for free, so I am getting better but only very recently am I making progress.
Three, almost four, years ago (2008), my family rejected me over religious issues. I wanted to join this Sabbatarian Christian religious association (this particular sect is a minority in Brazil and honestly everywhere else but they're more present in the US and England) and my family rejected me and reproached me so severely that it radically changed my personality. They wanted to throw me away. I was only 15. I had nowhere to go. I was deeply shocked and shaken on the inside. I never knew I could feel so hurt! I had never expected such sudden rejection from them. My mom said I was a disappointment to her and that I would not stay under the same ceiling as hers if I wanted to keep my faith. My siblings made fun of me and my new beliefs. My father demonized me and said he'd take me to their religious authorities to âstraighten me out.â They accused me of bringing a curse into our lives and treated me as a shame to the family ("What will others think?" they wondered). My relatives (uncles, aunts, cousins -- I have a big family) were all against me too. I did not tell my friends because they belonged to the same religion as my parents. I started isolating from everybody. I became very deeply depressed. I would sleep just not to have to be awake and suffering.
It was really overwhelming to me. I had nowhere to go, no one to turn to. The congregation was out of town. So I decided to give up on joining that group. However, I did not stop believing in them but I had to pretend to be in my parents' religion on the outside.
But then my life became a nightmare. I had bad dreams at night. I became paranoid. Every time I was outside, I would walk around the house many times before taking the courage to go in. My heart would pound every time the phone or doorbell rang or someone called my name or asked about my religion. I would feel sick and go pale every time someone initiated a conversation about religion with me. I was traumatized. I am only getting better now. I fainted many times as I got weak because my mom refused to cook clean kosher dishes for me. I canât even begin to describe all the sacrifices and pains I had to go through not to lose my identity. I canât, for example, go out on a date or have a serious friendship because I am hiding the most important part of myself. Try to have a relationship where you do things you canât explain the other party. Do you think it can ever work? My friendships are all shallow because of that.
I am a recent high school graduate. I took a basic course on administrative services and telemarketing last year, paid by the government as part of a program in Brazil called âJovem Aprendizâ (âYoung Apprenticeâ in English). As part of that course, I am working part-time, supposedly to acquire experience in the field, though I actually work as a warehousing assistant in the company (completely unrelated to administrative services). As I only work part-time (4 hours a day), I only receive HALF the minimum wage, which means I earn about $2 per hour. Yes, I could save that money to achieve my goals. It would take over two years but it would be possible. But I can't at the moment because I have to support my parents and siblings. My brother also works and my dad has recently found a job after three years of unemployment but I still have to give them a significant part of my salary or else we will starve. Also, even if I could, Iâd still be desperate because I have been suffering for almost FOUR YEARS!
So I want to move away because I want to be free to convert and live my life, have friends, a girlfriend and a normal life. I got a passport and contacts in the United States. They can help me once I am there but they canât buy my plane tickets as they cost over $800! There are also additional costs as I need a visa. I am currently looking for a job there. There have been people who want to hire me but they stopped contacting me after learning of the costs they would have to pay.
So please help me. It is the ONLY way for me to be happy again! It doesnât matter how much you donate. It will make a HUGE difference.
Thank you very much. God bless you!
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Need money by April 15th so my son can Graduate from College
Posted by MominNeed7 on 2012-03-08 22:58:17
I need to pay tuition
Posted by olalomo on 2012-02-02 14:58:50
For help, you can email me at rasheedafolabi@live.co.uk
Help me visit my parents who live 6,000 miles away
Posted by Annie2012 on 2012-01-24 14:58:07
I am South African but live in the United Kingdom. I would love to go and visit my parents who are still in South Africa but I am finding it hard to save the money in these economic times. My parents are in their early 70's and I feel that I should see them sooner rather than later. I would like to mention that my parents are not ill and neither am I.
The cost for flights are just slightly over £1,000 or $1,600. I am almost halfway there - saved £458 so far.
I would appreciate any help that are given to me whether it is just £0.01 or more. I promise to email anybody pictures that would like to see the reunion. I am hoping to have saved enough by November of this year.
Thank you for looking and even if you don't donate thanks for taking the time to read this.
Help Me Stage My One Woman Show
Posted by revdivaesq on 2012-01-04 13:58:55
I believe the time is right for this dialogue and seek donations to mount a production of the work in my city and other cities.
Any donation would be appreciated and would go to an important work.
Thank you in advance.
Re: REQUEST FOR LEGAL FUNDING FEE.
Posted by conrad on 2011-10-15 16:58:25
for that matter we are requesting for financial assistance to help for legal funding as we are taking the matter to court and get legal help because we do not work. for more information please do contact us on the following email address othieno.martin@yahoo.com and for further information please do contact robert on +267-75482198
we look forward to your positive response.
conrad
want to buy my parents house back
Posted by nguy71 on 2011-10-09 16:58:50
I stay in South Africa and I do need money to buy back my parents house after a foreclosure, the house went on auction, but I don't have money to buy it back, it was thanks to my brother that made trouble, my parents are losing their house they stayed in for the last 44 years, I still have a change to put a bid in, I do need the amount of about $35,000-$43,000 that's about R278,600-R342,000 South African Rands...
Thank you for any donations
Regards Dewalt
art
Posted by Shell on 2011-07-28 14:58:57
Thank You and God Bless You!
Recent URM College Grad Seeks Donations for Future Legal Education (Law School Hopeful)
Posted by unmatched_potential on 2011-04-12 13:58:51
So close but yet so far.........
Posted by sholman on 2011-03-31 11:58:21
For as long as I can remember, I have been dedicating myself to giving back to my community. I am writing this letter in hopes that this one time the community will help me. I am a 20 year old African American woman from the inner city of Brooklyn, NY. My mother is a struggling single parent of two, living on Unemployment benefits. With the cost of living and rise in the economy, paying my tuition is impossible for her to manage now. I have tried reaching out to my father; however, instead of committing himself to my life, he preferred the street life.
This financial burden is hampering my abilities to achieve. The thought of having such an outstanding balance in all of my living expenses worries me. With no way of paying these expenses, I think about the possibility that I might have to withdraw from Howard University and go back home. It angers me to know that I am so close to accomplishing my goals and the only thing holding me back is money.
I have been applying for many scholarships, some have been beneficial others not so much. The scholarships that I have received have barely paid for my tuition each semester. Unfortunately I cannot take out a loan because I need a cosigner and my mother is the only one willing to cosign a loan for me. Unfortunately, my mother is not eligible to be a cosigner. I have exhausted all possibilities to help assist with my expenses. I have contacted many different public offices in hopes that they would be able to help with my past due rent and living expenses. However, most of the programs that are offered require the applicants to either have a child or a person over 65 years old. I have tried contacting the provost of my university to see if there is anything that I can do to get extra funding.
With that said, I am seeking sponsorship or any contributions towards my endeavors. If you are unable to contribute, but are aware of other resources that would be of interest, please contact me. I assure you that these contributions are for a good cause. It will allow me to my tenure at Howard University and further my career as a neuropsychologist. Looking forward to hearing from you. Thanking You In Advance
please help
Posted by etimodoh on 2011-02-24 10:58:35
please help
Posted by etimodoh on 2011-02-24 10:58:34
please help
Posted by etimodoh on 2011-02-24 10:58:33
please help
Posted by etimodoh on 2011-02-24 10:58:33
please help
Posted by etimodoh on 2011-02-24 10:58:33
please help
Posted by etimodoh on 2011-02-24 10:58:32
Senior Couple Running out of Funds
Posted by Cynthia on 2010-10-14 09:58:58
deperate mom
Posted by desperatemom on 2010-07-29 05:58:58
Regards
Desperate mom
Help buy food for african kids. every year me and ...
Posted by 0 on 2009-11-23 09:58:58
every year me and my frieds collect anything people give and buy food and school necessities for children in South AFrica.
We buy the food and everything online and it is delivered to them and they get a happy xmas and forget their problem.
We raised $1500 CAD last year and we fed 14 kids daily from 14 dec to 31st. We accept any amount you can afford. Thank you
